Framework for the Tarbiyah of Children | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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  • Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
  • What is Tarbiyah? Or more importantly, what is not Tarbiyah? And why is it becoming difficult to carry out Tarbiyah in modern times?
    In this comprehensive, two-hour long talk; Salman Asif Siddiqui lays out the framework for the Tarbiyah of one's children as well as that of one's own self.
    00:00:00 Preview
    00:00:29 Dua and Outline
    00:06:09 Misconceptions about Tarbiyah
    00:11:21 What is Tarbiyah
    00:20:52 Why we are unable to do Tarbiyah
    00:35:12 The Harms of not doing Tarbiyah
    00:43:38 Our Real Problems
    00:46:33 What Protects Children From Evil and Inclines Them Towards Good?
    01:09:28 How is Tarbiyah Possible
    01:09:55 Developing Mentors
    01:19:05 Bonding With Children
    01:24:18 Thought Provoking Conversations
    01:31:18 Concern for Self-Accountability
    01:39:33 Connection with the Source of Beneficial Knowledge
    01:42:30 Q/A - Introspection and Judgmental Behaviour
    01:44:22 Q/A - Effects of Hopelessness on Tarbiyah
    01:47:30 Q/A - Screen Addiction and Eating Habits
    01:52:34 Q/A - How to become your Child’s Favourite
    01:55:41 Q/A - Dealing with Teenagers
    02:01:10 Q/A - How to Rectify our Mistakes
    #TarbiyahMovement #Education #Parenting
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  • @directorerdc
    @directorerdc 4 роки тому +135

    May Allah give us knowledge which is beneficial for our personal tazkiyah and for the tarbiyah of our children. May Allah make all the muslims aware of their tarbiyah role and accept our little efforts for the cause of Tarbiyah Movement.

    • @raheequlmakhtoom1760
      @raheequlmakhtoom1760 4 роки тому +3

      بچوں کو یہ مت کہیں کہ میرے لءے دعا کریں۔ بچوں سے پوچہیں نماشزکو بہتر کیسے کرو؟ انکے پواہنٹس لیں۔ ان شاء اللہ انکے اور آپ کے دونوں کے سوال مل کر اچہا ملے گا اور آپ اور وہ دونوں نماز اچہی پرہیں گے۔ اور اسے بچپن سے نماز کے معاملے میں خود احتسابی کی عادت پرت گی۔ ان شاء اللہ

    • @ammarabatool9910
      @ammarabatool9910 4 роки тому +7

      Sir is there any way to contact you personally? Kindly let me know if there is. I am a stay at home mother and I need alot of guidance. Your UA-cam channel is a huge blessing for me and indirectly for my daughter. May Allah bless you and your team and your family in all the worlds. AMEEN

    • @AyeshaKhan-gn7oe
      @AyeshaKhan-gn7oe 4 роки тому

      Ameeen

    • @arjmandrizvi720
      @arjmandrizvi720 4 роки тому +2

      Asalam o Alikum
      All praises to Allah swt who finally blessed Pakistan with teachers and guides like you who have the deeper understanding of Islam and its system and also have the vision to reform the Pakistani society by teaching pure Islamic values comprehensively along with great examples. Positive change is only possible through first changing the people’s mindset. Your lectures increase our insight and remind us to see the things through the prospective of Islam not with the lenses of western or Hindi culture. Stay Blessed. Respected Sir I have listed you as my third spiritual mentor.
      First mentor is Ustad Muhterram Syed Jawad Naqvi 👇🏻 His work for Wahadat e Ummat is highly appreciable:
      ua-cam.com/video/qZ9HLnzK7kU/v-deo.html
      I’m sure you would certainly like his lectures on ‘ Tafseer Ramoz e Bekhudi’ Kalam e Iqbal: 👇🏻
      ua-cam.com/channels/Nd1jgdIONIhq5CIlNTeADg.html
      My Second mentor is Ustad Alireza Panahian from Iran. 👇🏻
      ua-cam.com/channels/1PszuZUrX_xo_DroXsKsBg.html
      God bless you. Iltemas e Dua.

    • @ummemuhammad2601
      @ummemuhammad2601 4 роки тому

      Ameen

  • @belovedpakistan7364
    @belovedpakistan7364 4 місяці тому +3

    الحَمْد للهْ‎
    i have sent this video to more than 300 teachers and other friends

  • @ayshaasim1101
    @ayshaasim1101 4 роки тому +25

    I have been here in this world since half century but never heard anyone like you...stay blessed sir...hats off to you

  • @ammarsiddiqui
    @ammarsiddiqui 4 роки тому +18

    Ustadh

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 4 роки тому +19

    Bht dair main aap milay, hm nay apna bht nuqsan krlia.Allah taueeq day hamain k hm taaluqat behtr krsakain Aameen

    • @roomanazeenat8106
      @roomanazeenat8106 3 роки тому +1

      @Umer Sher Chohan اس دنیا کو غلط راستے پر لیجانے والوں سے بڑھ کر اللہ کی (خیر کی ) طاقت ہے ۔باطل کو جلد یا بدیر مٹنا ہی ہوتا ہے ۔

  • @qasimbutt4867
    @qasimbutt4867 3 роки тому +4

    Mashallah Allah ap ko qabool frmayyy
    Ameen

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 4 роки тому +3

    Allah ka ahsaan hay k mujhey aap ko sunnay ki or amal ki taufeeq di.Allah aap ko dono jahan ki kamiyabi ata karey Aameen

  • @NaqashTV
    @NaqashTV 4 роки тому +6

    Masha Allah is video ki editing bohat hi lajwab thi. is se un logun ko be note taking aa jaey gi jin ko eham nuqat lekhny ya note karny nahi aaty. main is video ki presentation se bohat zyada khush hun. is se humary ley bohat zyada aasani peda ho gei hai. Jazak Allah Khear.

  • @dafunguyzaid9070
    @dafunguyzaid9070 2 роки тому +1

    Sir jazakallah, behtareen, bohut bohut shukriya 💐

  • @ammarabatool9910
    @ammarabatool9910 4 роки тому +6

    You have made me more aware of my short- comings. I will always be indebted to you sir. This talk was priceless, really succinct and packed with wisdom. Hats off to you and your teachers.

  • @iffatbatool4498
    @iffatbatool4498 5 місяців тому +1

    Salamat rahain Salman sahab.. Allah ap ko jazaey khair ata karey

  • @seemasayyad3360
    @seemasayyad3360 4 роки тому +2

    JazakAllah khair Sir . You are actually a true mentor for us & for our life. Thanks

  • @mohammedabdulmateen3243
    @mohammedabdulmateen3243 4 роки тому +1

    Ma Sha Allah, with full respect from bottom of the heart.

  • @matiullah2102
    @matiullah2102 4 роки тому +1

    I learned many good things for me and my kids .Allah bless u more

  • @zebahasani9163
    @zebahasani9163 3 роки тому +3

    SubhanAllah!
    Bohot khub lecture hay.
    Allah Swt salamat rakhkhey or Jaza e khair dey ap ko or ap ki team ko.

  • @hibamompk
    @hibamompk 4 роки тому

    Thankyou soo soo much ...for our tarbiyah ...for opening parents mind...for guiding us....may allah bless u...

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 4 роки тому +1

    Wonderful talk.jazakAllah

  • @munibamehmood7869
    @munibamehmood7869 Рік тому

    Alhamdulillah
    Abhe ummat muslemah ma asay log mojod ha.
    Allah ap ka ilm,amal or umer ma bhet bhet barket day .

  • @zubair80ahmad
    @zubair80ahmad 4 роки тому

    MashaAllah bohat zberdust speech hai.

  • @EduTarbiyah
    @EduTarbiyah 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah. very comprehensive talk on the topic

  • @sensitiveemotions8543
    @sensitiveemotions8543 4 роки тому +2

    Assalamu Alaikum...
    Sir Allah ne mere Dil me bacho ki badi Mohabbat Rakhi hai, naturally taur par bacho ko handl karne ki salahiyat di hai.. Phir bhi bahut kamiya hai aur hm seekhne ki koshish me Alhamdulillah lage huwe hai.. As a Trainor & Councillor mera work hai.. par Sir Aapki Guftugu ke ham Diwane hai.. Masha Allah Aapko Allah ne Diamond banaya hai.. Hmne Aapse kafi kuch seekha hai aur seekh rahe hai Alhamdulillah.. bas Aapse Request hai ki Aap mere Rahnumayi farmaaye.. Jazaak-Allahu Khaira.. Allah bless you..

    • @shariqaskari
      @shariqaskari 4 роки тому

      اپ سر کی گفتگومسلسل سنیں۔جزاک للہ

  • @Rafsha1
    @Rafsha1 4 роки тому

    MashaAllah. Great session

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad1127 4 роки тому

    Allah aap ko hamesha khush rakhay aap waqai bht azeem insaan hain.

  • @lubnaasad2543
    @lubnaasad2543 Рік тому

    Aameen, bht hi achi batien clear ki hy aapny
    Allah ap ko is ki jaza ata kry Aameen

  • @memoonatariq7432
    @memoonatariq7432 3 роки тому

    wonderful sir! really before listening to your lecture I realize I don't know about parenting I practically try to follow and implement the things and tips and also talk with many others, not 3. Jazakalalh once again

  • @zainabfatimafatima3588
    @zainabfatimafatima3588 4 роки тому +5

    Sir Allah pak app ke zindgi main Asian paida fermay ameen. App dosron k ley Asian paida krty hn

  • @hwmusicfan
    @hwmusicfan 3 роки тому +2

    Well edited video... I love that it has notes ... Great work ERDC...

  • @muhammadjamal5724
    @muhammadjamal5724 4 роки тому +1

    Sir, You are true mentor . Love you..

  • @SMajid--SMajid
    @SMajid--SMajid 10 місяців тому

    This talk is pure gold.
    JazakAllah for making us analyze and reflect on our parenting strategies and beliefs.

  • @waseemjadoonhakeem8495
    @waseemjadoonhakeem8495 7 місяців тому

    ماشاءاللہ جی بہت ھی اعلیٰ اللہ تعالیٰ اپکو اجر عظیم عطا فرمائے۔۔۔

  • @iffatshafi6396
    @iffatshafi6396 2 місяці тому

    Jazakumullah khairan kaseera

  • @belovedpakistan7364
    @belovedpakistan7364 4 місяці тому

    Allah accept your services.

  • @drsamreenqadir2105
    @drsamreenqadir2105 3 роки тому +1

    Mashallah sir very goood effort..it's vry usefull n true words..Allah jaza e kher ata frmaen or ap sy razi hon.ameeen

  • @_ummeyahya_
    @_ummeyahya_ Рік тому

    Jazak Allah Khayr..... This is the best ever lecture on parenting, Covering All the aspects. 👍✨ Alhamdulillah

  • @umar10414
    @umar10414 4 роки тому

    Aur aapne masha allah aapne jo points bataye screen par amazing.. 👌👍👍Jazak allah....

  • @umerimran7120
    @umerimran7120 4 роки тому

    Aslaam o Alikum
    Sir I am thankful to you for giving us a precious guidance!!

  • @zarfras123
    @zarfras123 3 роки тому

    Behtreen guftgoo! Masha' Allah

  • @muhammadanwer1033
    @muhammadanwer1033 3 роки тому +1

    Masha Allah very well structured and full of wisdom presentation. Thank you and Jazak Allah Khair for sharing valuable and much needed topic of tarbiya. May Allah keep you blessed and healthy and make me and all of us understand well, correct ourselves and implement accordingly where we are able to develop and enhance our relationship with our children, parents, relatives, friends and all.

  • @ayeshaiqbal5969
    @ayeshaiqbal5969 2 роки тому

    Sir you r really mentor.Hats off to u.Mashallah.May Allah bless u

  • @naturerelaxation44
    @naturerelaxation44 4 роки тому

    Very thaughtful lecture, JazakAllah sir.

  • @Rao-Shad
    @Rao-Shad 4 роки тому +1

    waoooo what a blessfull start

  • @roomanazeenat8106
    @roomanazeenat8106 3 роки тому

    بہترین ۔ جزاک اللہ ۔اللہ آپکو اپنے حفظ و آمان میں رکھے ۔ اس دنیا کو غلط راستے پر لیجانے والوں سے بڑھ کر اللہ کی (خیر کی) طاقت ہوتی ہے ۔ باطل کوجلد یا بدیر مٹنا ہی ہوتا ہے ۔

  • @robinatasleem8916
    @robinatasleem8916 4 роки тому

    Jazakallah Khair. May Allah guide us toward hassanat ameen

  • @sabirshaikh8671
    @sabirshaikh8671 4 роки тому +3

    Assalamu Alaikum w Rahmatullahe w Barakatahu
    Masha Allah
    Salman Asif Siddiqui Sahab
    Bohat Bohat Shukriya
    Aapke zariye hamlogo ko aur Khuda ki makhlooq ko Bohat hi nayab ilm asani se mil raha hai Shukriya
    Allah Taala Aap sabhi logo ko hamesha Deendar Sehatmand Khushal Maldar aur Kamyab rakhke
    Aameen
    From,Sabir Yaqoob Shaikh and family Mumbai India

  • @aneeshussain7050
    @aneeshussain7050 4 роки тому +1

    🌹 جزاک اللہ خیر

  • @islamitareekhkakhazana5216
    @islamitareekhkakhazana5216 4 роки тому +1

    Sir u r doing best I have listen ever,deep thinking

  • @natashahaleem160
    @natashahaleem160 5 місяців тому

    Mashallah...best lecture indeed...

  • @AzraArzoo-ct5yy
    @AzraArzoo-ct5yy 9 місяців тому

    Best lacture of my life mashallah Alhamdulillah Allah apse raazi ho

  • @zahidnawaz8116
    @zahidnawaz8116 4 роки тому +1

    You r genius and u guided us well

  • @irfanmarwat7798
    @irfanmarwat7798 4 роки тому +1

    ماشاللہ سر آپ بہت اچھا کام کر رہے ہیں،آپ کی ویڈیو سے ہمیں بہت فائدہ ہوتا ہے،اللہ آپ کے علم میں مزید اضافہ عطا فرمائے آمین

  • @ayeshaibraheem937
    @ayeshaibraheem937 4 роки тому +1

    🌴وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
    May *Allah ﷻ* elevate you in this world and Aakhirah
    And
    May *Allah ﷻ* make you stronger in Imaan & health than yesterday.
    آمين.. يا رب العالمين.. ✨
    **Ek zamane se jiski talash thi ALLAH ne waise insaan se mila diya ALHAMDULILLAH,, jazak ALLAH khairan kasirah,

  • @maazizi883
    @maazizi883 3 місяці тому

    ألحمد اللہ سنا.. اور کچھ نکات لکھیں... اللہ تعالیٰ عمل کی توفیق عطا فرمائے.. آمین یار العالمين.. وصلی اللہ علی النبی الامی ❤️

  • @houseofmis
    @houseofmis Рік тому

    Jazak ALLAH kher

  • @sanaalam3574
    @sanaalam3574 4 роки тому

    Jazak Allah

  • @ummeshoaibvlog5536
    @ummeshoaibvlog5536 4 роки тому +1

    Sir aap both kam kr raha hn Allah aap ko sath or kamyabe dy ameen

  • @EduTarbiyah
    @EduTarbiyah 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah. Nice speech...

  • @abobakarkhan6834
    @abobakarkhan6834 5 місяців тому

    جزاك اللهُ‎ خیرا❤❤❤

  • @humairakhalid2148
    @humairakhalid2148 4 роки тому +8

    This video was like treasure chest!

  • @husnamaryam6211
    @husnamaryam6211 3 роки тому

    Jazakallah khair

  • @muhammadamin2733
    @muhammadamin2733 4 роки тому +1

    ماشااللہ۔اللہ آ پ کو جزاءے خیر دے۔زبردست گفتگو۔برائے مہربانی پچھلے دنوں آپ کے جو اور بہت سے لیکچر ہوئے وہ مکمل اپ لوڈ کر دیں

  • @Plumish24
    @Plumish24 3 роки тому

    جزاك الله خيرا
    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّیّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْیُنٍ وَّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِیْنَ اِمَامًا۝
    آمين يا حي يا قيوم

  • @modernquranacademygujranwa8689
    @modernquranacademygujranwa8689 4 роки тому

    May Allah grant you peace in this world and hereafter

  • @sanuberjilani5026
    @sanuberjilani5026 5 місяців тому

    جزاک اللہ خیرا

  • @khankhan-vt8fz
    @khankhan-vt8fz 4 роки тому

    May Allah bless u in both of the worlds. to guide us.⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘

  • @kurbanalivlogs4424
    @kurbanalivlogs4424 4 роки тому

    Shukriya sir

  • @misbahshahid8378
    @misbahshahid8378 4 роки тому

    Wonderful speech

  • @kanwalsfreemathclasseskanw2391
    @kanwalsfreemathclasseskanw2391 2 роки тому

    Jazak Allah Sir

  • @imransami3123
    @imransami3123 4 роки тому

    Jaza ka Allah plzz continues. Wait for husband and wife relation

  • @afshanahmed3933
    @afshanahmed3933 4 роки тому

    Assalamoalaikum sir mA SHA ALLAH BOHT ACCHA LECTURE DIA AAP NY
    BS AGR AASAN ALFAZ ME YE SB BATIEN HN TO SAMJHNY ME ZIADA AASANI HOGE
    OR HAR AIK KO SAMJH AYE GA
    ALLAH SAMJHNY KI AMAL KRNY KI TOFEEQ DAY AAMEEN

  • @totallynotm2151
    @totallynotm2151 3 роки тому +2

    Ma sha Allah

  • @anasghensh1982
    @anasghensh1982 Рік тому

    ماشاءاللہ جزاک اللہ خیرا حضرت

  • @raufcontainer3804
    @raufcontainer3804 2 роки тому

    GREAT SPEECH SPECIALY LAST FEW MINUTES

  • @ayeshaqamer5024
    @ayeshaqamer5024 3 роки тому

    Ma sha Allah sir jazak Allah khaier

  • @umrafurquan7082
    @umrafurquan7082 4 роки тому

    Thanks for all your advice

    • @adnannaseer6138
      @adnannaseer6138 4 роки тому

      جزاک اللہ. مجھے بہت دکھ سے یہ کہنا پڑھ رہا ہے کہ آپکی باتوں کی جھلک اپنے اردگرد نظر نہی آتیں.

  • @frogboat
    @frogboat 4 роки тому

    Just want to say.. keep it up!

  • @shaheenakhan9207
    @shaheenakhan9207 3 роки тому

    Jazakulla

  • @humamudassar4708
    @humamudassar4708 2 роки тому

    Subha Allah true what a vision

  • @sadi1753
    @sadi1753 3 роки тому

    JazakAllah ahsanaljaza fiduniya walakhirah

  • @meresheherkamausam7821
    @meresheherkamausam7821 3 роки тому

    Super sir great Framework 😢💖

  • @zainkhalid5384
    @zainkhalid5384 4 роки тому +1

    One can't resist saying subhanAllah after listening your talk

  • @careandcurefoundation7415
    @careandcurefoundation7415 3 роки тому

    Great job Sir siddiqui

  • @naseerzarger5088
    @naseerzarger5088 4 роки тому +1

    اسلام وعلیکم
    بےشک اللہ حم سب کو عمل کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین

  • @ayeshakhalil564
    @ayeshakhalil564 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing

  • @modernquranacademygujranwa8689
    @modernquranacademygujranwa8689 4 роки тому +5

    Sir pplease deliver a lecture on wedding ceremonies

  • @faizaiqbal1895
    @faizaiqbal1895 4 роки тому

    Allah pak hme in bato pe amal ki tofeeq dy ameen

  • @farahali5598
    @farahali5598 3 роки тому

    Masha Allah

  • @neelofar74
    @neelofar74 3 роки тому +1

    Benifical talk

  • @yasir3918
    @yasir3918 4 роки тому

    اللّٰہ آپ کو جنت الفردوس عطاء فرمائے۔۔

  • @erumsaleem759
    @erumsaleem759 3 роки тому

    JAZAKALLAH

  • @ammarabatool9910
    @ammarabatool9910 4 роки тому

    I really want you to talk about wishes and worries, what they are in your opinion and how to rectify them. I need your guidance in this aspect.

  • @beigh_e_tanulhind2315
    @beigh_e_tanulhind2315 3 роки тому +2

    *Subhanalllllllllllllllllllllllllllllah*

  • @quickeasyideacookingfoodti2622
    @quickeasyideacookingfoodti2622 3 роки тому +1

    SubhhanALLAH Alhhamdulillah

  • @muhammadnoman2034
    @muhammadnoman2034 3 роки тому

    ameen

  • @padderzahoor
    @padderzahoor 3 роки тому

    I gained lots of knowledge from this video. Fantastic job.
    My question is. Is it appropriate to show this video to children, so that they can learn tarbiyah by themselves?
    Educated parents can do tarbiyah to their children, but what about unlettered parents or children with no parents?.
    Hope I get answers for the question soon.

  • @AounNaqvi14
    @AounNaqvi14 Рік тому

    mashallah

  • @Huzaifakhan-dr1zb
    @Huzaifakhan-dr1zb 4 роки тому

    Allah aap ko lambi umar dey ameeeeeeeen

  • @hibasiddique8314
    @hibasiddique8314 3 роки тому

    MashaAllah
    MashaAllah Mai kia kahoun apky bary mai mery pas to munasib alfaz hi nahi jo apki tareef ke qabil hon.

  • @mominamishra509
    @mominamishra509 3 роки тому

    الحمدلله

  • @irfan-yz6vl
    @irfan-yz6vl 4 роки тому

    Alhumdulilla

  • @1stpakistanicatjerryjerry429
    @1stpakistanicatjerryjerry429 4 роки тому

    Salaam to all from Karachi n madinah munawera

    • @moonakanwal150
      @moonakanwal150 3 роки тому

      Madina MN jb jaen toa mery or mery baitay k liye dua kren k Allah hm dono ko Naik krey.