18:43 this is true, a lot of women think their looks with automatically give them better treatment. Which isn’t true, standing by your morals and boundaries is what gets you better treatment.
I’m watching this cause I’m an American girl that dated a Nigerian man but it didn’t end how I would’ve liked it to. I’m going to watch this to see if some of my unanswered questions could be answered or give me an idea or understanding of why things went how they went
Everyone non Nigerian woman listen to this video carefully. If anyone is going to understand Nigerian men it’s a Nigerian woman. These are their dads, uncles, brothers, cousins. Trust me they KNOW.
There's aspect of this learning that are helpful. But ultimately why would I want to be in relationships that are just about power. And based on playing with power.
I think there is nuances to the light skin discussion in Nigeria context. For example, in yoruba land, men are sometimes scared of light skin women b/c of the "mamiwata" attachment to them or that they are "destiny snatchers". The superstition surrounding light women. I honestly think Nigerian men are a bit liberal in what they find attractive especially indegenious yoruba Nigerians. I think igbo men may prefer light women.
18:43 this is true, a lot of women think their looks with automatically give them better treatment. Which isn’t true, standing by your morals and boundaries is what gets you better treatment.
Why was i expecting to see 200k views? OMG. I really enjoyed this video.
Cant wait to see your channel blossom
Sneak dissing?
I’m watching this cause I’m an American girl that dated a Nigerian man but it didn’t end how I would’ve liked it to. I’m going to watch this to see if some of my unanswered questions could be answered or give me an idea or understanding of why things went how they went
Everyone non Nigerian woman listen to this video carefully. If anyone is going to understand Nigerian men it’s a Nigerian woman. These are their dads, uncles, brothers, cousins. Trust me they KNOW.
Your stereotypical girlish giggle is sooo adorable.
This episode sooo nice & chock full of juicy tidbits I’ve got to listen again
Bravo Slumflower! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I bought all 3 of your books, haven’t finished one in yearsss, but something tells me I’ll enjoy yours 💕
This needs to blow up
Absolutely! I definitely fell victim! 😩
Loved this podcast
There's aspect of this learning that are helpful. But ultimately why would I want to be in relationships that are just about power. And based on playing with power.
Honey this was very very helpful!!!❤❤
I love this look!
Your make up looks banging btw 😍
You got a new subbie ❤❤
27:20 Baby girl. Are we sure it’s not the British passport? 😅
I think there is nuances to the light skin discussion in Nigeria context. For example, in yoruba land, men are sometimes scared of light skin women b/c of the "mamiwata" attachment to them or that they are "destiny snatchers". The superstition surrounding light women. I honestly think Nigerian men are a bit liberal in what they find attractive especially indegenious yoruba Nigerians. I think igbo men may prefer light women.
Thank you for this
Interesting episode as always. Thank you🎉
Nigerian woman has the mindset of if you show them love 💕 they will call you mumu or take you for granted 😮😮
Sis, Nigerian boys are my favorite ❤
You're in danger gurl 😅😅😅
@@goodnessb.4808she might not be
As a Nigerian woman in Nigeria I'd say ...be careful. Very very careful .and always be 5 steps ahead.
@@goodnessb.4808 send help! 😂
@@catchabbie Yeah I've had a weird experience with one but have dated several over the years. Luckily for me I never waa intimate with the dog 😏
42:26 Yes, Goddess! I ❤
She's so smart😢😢
45:36 the kind of things they like to hear 😂
Literally failed step one, fell inlove with the man…
19:55 😂😂
38:41The selflessness of misogyny
They will be hard at you for this one, but I love a deviant babe! go on on don't mind them ♥ ♥
Did she lie?!
Also, Nigerian men will snub mixed women to be with a white woman lol
Yes I just experienced this.
Igbo men only thanks ££££££££££££££😂
You are really racist love
How is she racist? Get out of here.
How is she racist? Get out of here Karen!
@@basicwhitegirl1017 I don't think you know the meaning of Racist 😂