WHAT IF *THIS* IS IT? | The Slumflower Hour podcast

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2025

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  • @alexispeterson4439
    @alexispeterson4439 9 місяців тому +30

    If this is it then f* we ball with our hobbies, peace, and minimal stress! So grateful for your insight and vulnerability in sharing your stories..this episode is an immediate save!

  • @TheTiffanyRoom
    @TheTiffanyRoom 9 місяців тому +18

    This conversation is shedding light on the idea that men get more benefits from sex than women do. FWB is usually mentioned/requested by them because they’re the ones benefitting.

  • @MsTaLaiah
    @MsTaLaiah 8 місяців тому +8

    I had no idea women who don’t want kids would still feel pressured to find a husband, but it makes sense because we it’s more common for us to see that than a single, older woman who is thrilled to be single.
    I do think it sounds AMAZING to view relationships and sex the way men do. I don’t know how they view it and now I want to start asking. I just know that they moreso view it as a way to meet a specific need and not as a long-term situation. And that seems a lot healthier than having marriage and men on a pedestal. I wanna kick my own pedestals down, I’m so pissed that I’ve had everyone on it most of my life. Ugh.
    This is my first time here because Spotify suggested you. It feels so good to hear you describe this tragedy of females being told repeatedly that we need someone outside of us to love and validate us. I for sure believed that for too long.

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica 9 місяців тому +11

    I’m so glad I found this channel ❤

  • @mieskaarendorf8247
    @mieskaarendorf8247 9 місяців тому +4

    I giggled. You’re brilliant. You have a brilliant mind. Bless your soul.

  • @abigaildowney8187
    @abigaildowney8187 9 місяців тому +3

    I am always giggling watching your podcast thank you

  • @lunar3n
    @lunar3n 9 місяців тому +4

    girl i’m autistic and adhd, and you do def give pure adhd vibes. i caught on when you were talking about how you love nothing more than sticking rhinestones on things

  • @kimjules9431
    @kimjules9431 9 місяців тому +12

    🔥 🔥 u hitting the spot with this. I love it here ❤❤❤😊

  • @heymisswest
    @heymisswest 9 місяців тому +12

    I thank GOD for this channel

    • @ball-rf6zf
      @ball-rf6zf 2 місяці тому

      God would strongly disapprove

  • @missdatjha5513
    @missdatjha5513 9 місяців тому +3

    Girl this couldn't have come at a better time please🤣😭 because WHAT IF😭😭😭

  • @xicanayork
    @xicanayork 9 місяців тому +3

    💖💖😃🫶love you Chidera!

  • @Thelatebloomz
    @Thelatebloomz 9 місяців тому +2

    I love you girl! This podcast was 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jahniaj7105
    @jahniaj7105 9 місяців тому +2

    20:37 I would love to start a discussion on what we as women should do when the discussion of “what we are looking for” in a man ans the topic or pet peeves and triggers come up… how do we respond to these question in a way that doesn’t make us vulnerable to manipulation?

    • @queencherie
      @queencherie 9 місяців тому +8

      “I’ll know when I’ve found it”

    • @sam-inte
      @sam-inte 5 місяців тому

      "my pet peeves are stingy men"

  • @Rahela1994
    @Rahela1994 2 місяці тому

    Love this girl.

  • @bigfranco
    @bigfranco 9 місяців тому +1

    Come on message 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Chiron952
    @Chiron952 9 місяців тому

    I'm so excited to find your channel

  • @Notme6783
    @Notme6783 6 місяців тому

    Fav podcast❤❤❤❤

  • @aneeshaatkins9888
    @aneeshaatkins9888 9 місяців тому +1

    You are 🔥🔥🔥🔥.

  • @adairsw16
    @adairsw16 9 місяців тому +6

    🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉❤️

  • @henriquetmudjibumufoncol2279
    @henriquetmudjibumufoncol2279 9 місяців тому +1

    Assassin’s creed!!! 🔥

  • @teethenugget
    @teethenugget 7 місяців тому

    Found myself getting triggered for a second but the tough love is needed

  • @mieskaarendorf8247
    @mieskaarendorf8247 9 місяців тому +3

    Could you make a podcast for women who do feel the biological timeline pressure because they want kids? I do want kids more than marriage or romantic love.

    • @2cut32handle
      @2cut32handle 8 місяців тому

      Same, I prefer children to having a man.

  • @bestwashington
    @bestwashington 9 місяців тому +8

    if this is IT…i didn’t dream big enough

  • @nablona
    @nablona 9 місяців тому

    High potential

  • @LemonSte
    @LemonSte 9 місяців тому +1

    Welcome to the ND club, babes 😂

  • @Tee-Star
    @Tee-Star 7 місяців тому

    #companionship

  • @nablona
    @nablona 9 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂😂dispose straw 😂😂😂😂

  • @aurpera
    @aurpera 8 місяців тому +4

    I'm in a platonic marriage with a man who dotes on me. I have won in life. 🥰

    • @ball-rf6zf
      @ball-rf6zf 2 місяці тому

      He’s getting it somewhere else girl 😂

    • @aurpera
      @aurpera 2 місяці тому

      @ball-rf6zf look up asexuality. Your tiny brain might break.

  • @wytchelm
    @wytchelm 9 місяців тому

    Masegooooo

  • @olikah4667
    @olikah4667 2 місяці тому +1

    🇵🇸🍉❤

  • @jeahluna2385
    @jeahluna2385 4 місяці тому

    im a transwoman i have a bestfriend who i am not intimate w and some friends who you casually meet because of work and location but no intimacy mosty even bussiness with men....your righr with this..

  • @me-fx5yj
    @me-fx5yj 9 місяців тому +1

    U r so cute ❤

  • @kendawg66
    @kendawg66 9 місяців тому +2

    I bet you wish you could marry yourself. 😂

    • @2cut32handle
      @2cut32handle 8 місяців тому

      So what exactly is wrong with that? She's better off marrying herself than to marry a wannabe troll like u

    • @123cillitbang
      @123cillitbang Місяць тому

      What?