Behind Every 'NO' 🚫 is a Deeper 'YES' ✅: How Elon Musk Prioritized His Vision | Justine's Insights
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- In today's fast-paced world, the power of saying 'NO' 🚫 is often undervalued. Dive into this enlightening discussion where Justine Musk unveils the philosophy behind Elon Musk's strategic prioritization. By understanding the depth of every 'YES' ✅, Elon has mastered the art of filtering out distractions and channeling his energy 🚀 towards groundbreaking innovations.
Justine beautifully encapsulates this mindset 🧠, shedding light on how critical boundaries are in one's journey to achieving grand visions and dreams. This isn't just about Elon; it's a lesson for us all. Embrace the deeper understanding of when to say 'NO' to make way for your profound 'YES.' 🌟
For a more comprehensive understanding, check out: 'The art of the deep yes: Justine Musk at TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen' by TEDx Talks.
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She is 100% right. If you think by saying yes you are being nice, don’t be a fool. People will take advantage of you and treat you like crap really fast.
She didn't do it ...Why the f I listen to her... I want to hear from him, not the person who took his assets in the divorce & saying things about him & still using him to make money .
@@ajthomas770 jaded assumptions.
@@ZoyaSpencerwhen you live in a society the way it is a good percentage of these females do it that way it's a very good assumption especially the way she is talking the long-winded way of saying I got a lot of the stuff from the last guy
Gold digger who watches how much he made so she knew how much she could steal.
KABER ALMIGHTY GOD Creator of all SOULS 🙏😊
The word no saved my health. It’s powerful and keeps leaches out of your life.
Love this... I'm glad you're doing well. :)
Yes..
No to clot shots .. saved many..
There are ways to say no. But some people will always get upset when they don’t get a yes from you. These are the ones to avoid and over time fend off before you need to say no.
@@hemanthk6960😂
Show us the data.
@@hemanthk6960I know one guy who had no shots and ended up with clots on lungs and in hospital on breathing apparatus, had to go on blood thinners for 6 months, crazy eh .. he was so anti vac
The greatest gift as a child that l got from my mother was the ability to say "no". That gift protected me from many dangers.
Exzy
I have been exposed to many dangers because I didn't say no!!!
Mine was the opposite.
Eldest daughter from an Asian family, we were taught that saying no = disrespectful, ungrateful, shameful behavior.
@@emumemu2303Last born of an african family here. I existed to boost the ego of my parents and siblings. Say no and you are beaten back to shape.
So lucky!!!
“Behind every no is a deeper yes to what you do want”
Beautiful ❤
You both need help, hurry up 😱
Ewe huemans are programmed backwards fixed ribosome waiting for mRNA data programming to copy paste and & DNA 🧬 y transmit the data given back like parroting parrots 🦜...ewe cliché clone huemans should be somewhat aware more 👁️
@@tiborzkarate1 it’s a circular argument no- yes- no yes lol
Correct, achieved my goals, gave my wife a duplex to rent out, walked into a jewelry store with her and said pick anything you want, we can afford it.
so? when i tell you, no, i am not able to move my body, to take you,to the nearest train staion? there is a yes somewher, what nobody knows - hears or guesses?!
I'm having inner happiness this evening just by simply saying 'no' to a request to a friend whom i always give a 'yes'
He's not afraid to say no to things that don't align with his goals, and that's something we can all learn from.
But ended up loosing his marriage.
@elizasales8204 Sadly, his marriage wasn't a part of his long-term goals 😢
I became successful because I said NO to many times to my family and also to my parents. My ex-wife was refused to align with me, and I dropped her off and continued with my success.
@elizasales8204
It's just a short so I'm not sure there is a longer video. If yes and she explained why her marriage failed, ok. However, we don't know her ex's version. If there isn't any explanation, how do you know what happened? Maybe she wasn't able to accept the fact that her husband worked so much and was more absent in their private life but she wanted money he provided. Maybe she wasn't able to say "no" to another man, when her husband was away working.
If your S/O can't support you in achieving your dreams then they are selfish. If a S/O needs attention all the time to prevent you from achieving your dreams then they are selfish. AKA this speaker is selfish and giving selfish advice.
Somebody literally asked me what's the most important thing you've learned now that you're in your 40s and I said learning to say no.
Wow
What happened in your 20's and 30's? Sounds like there's a lot of baggage that's been accumulated.
Fire hot
Same here. I’m done now. It’s a firm no to anything that is excellent and part of my own personal journey.
'What is the most important thing..'
Becoming a servant of Christ.
I have found that if I chase after success, as the world defines it, then I am miserable, and no matter how successful I get, my success is a fruitless endeavor.
Lol, I know it sounds ironic, but it was only when I became a servant of Christ, go all in for God, that I found freedom, liberty, joy, peace, and fulfillment.
Going all in for God allowed my success to actually have meaning, have legitimate and eternal purpose.
That's a brilliant explanation about how critical it is to find our own "yes".
LOLOLOLOL stop it.
I appreciate you :)
No
Two girls at work asked me to meet them for a drink after work one time, and I obliged them by saying “Fine, I’ll meet you for 1 drink”. We get to the bar and by the time I’ve finished my beer one of the girls had already brought another round of drinks, including a second beer for me which I didn’t ask for. I said “whoa, I can’t accept this. When you invited me out, I said I’ll stay for 1 drink. That was the deal.” They were understanding and bummed that I was leaving and so I left. The next day or so, I give the girl a ride home who bought me the beer and she praised me for telling her that I was down for 1 drink and now she respects me more for it. Learn how to say “no” gentlemen (and ladies). Stand by your word
So you had a double date?
@@HussainYasser-qc7pk Not exactly
I haven't quite learnt the art of saying no but I have learnt how to ignore disrespectful people.
Love that!
I can relate to this.
I *used* to say *'yes'* to pretty much everything. And I was always mad at myself for it.
This post was definitely meant for everyone who can relate. And based off how many people have seen this; 10M on IG, 2M on youtube, it's safe to say - ALOT of people relate. I would go as far as to say that it's a core message of consciousness.
And how you changed this ?
@@aliatabassum6126
I stopped being such a "people pleaser" and stopped letting people *take advantage of me.*
I just made up my mind and changed.
“You can’t negotiate if you can’t say no” Jordan Peterson.
Nothing that J Peterson has said is of any consequence to me, the guy is terrifyingly narcissist and a good actor, because he hides it very well. Only when you hear him enough you can see the contradictions and the real cruelty of his character
JP is hardly the person to quote on that. As long as there have been car salesmen, there's been the adage: always be ready to walk away (from the deal). But it's probably predates that--8 wouldn't be surprised if Sun Tsu wrote that down.
@@DejaVuSept11not to mention a raging, unhinged genocide supporter. Calling for the death of millions of innocent men women and children living in a concentration camp is wild.
@@DejaVuSept11 Yes you can very vividly see and hear his word salad when he's interviewed by an actual journalist or interviewer and is posed with a simple yes/no question
@@DejaVuSept11must suck being a miserable sack of sh with no capacity for complex thought
As a successful contractor and generally handy person, my family has constantly asked for free help. I used to give in and do everything from framing door installs to making a whole glamping trailer conversion in a couple weekends.
Only in the past year have I turned down each and every one of those requests. Boy does it feel good to do what you want to do.
I'm glad. Always get paid handsomely for what you do. Then, charge double! ;)
It's absolutely key to keep your skills a closely guarded secret! If you let people know, they will see them as free stuff for themselves! Your time will no longer be your own.
This goes whether you are a doctor, lawyer, electrician, plumber or any skill people pay for.
My friend was working with his Dad at the house. They accidentally broke a piece of molding. His Dad whipped out a set of carving tools and expertly carved a new molding and slipped it into place like a puzzle piece!
Paul said "Dad! I had no idea you could do that!
Dad said "Shhhh! Your mother doesn't know!
At least you learned a little bit about a work trade for free.
Do they all hate you now?
@@kriztoppaprobably. But it’s not his problem, it’s theirs
Many girls were raised to be "people pleasers"... we never learned how to say NO - and it cost us everything.
Just start saying no and see what happens, just for experiment. I started it in college, late.. still better than never.
Women are more typically agreeable by nature.
Men on average, at least the true masculine ones, are disagreeable by nature and have unwavering boundaries and beliefs. It is due to the evolutionary biology of fighting and willing to die for to protect and provide for their families. The strongest ones become leaders that are capable of protecting and guiding their tribes to flourish. Back in the days, those are the men who get to reproduce (women can sense the strength in them) and they had their pick of the hottest women because women are evolved to be hypergamous. Their male offsprings are naturally selected to continue such masculinity if raised well and go thru similar rites of passage. Can’t say this same about men today.
What anyone does after 18 is there choice....no mata d influence or upbringing.
No excuses after 18 or magnanimously after 20years.
Nobody points gun at anyone at 20 to retain or adopt choices and decisions and indicisions.
@@Learnersense You know nothing.
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
Biggest thing i learned dealing with stress and depression was to say NO to the people not worth my time. Think about yourself before you think of others
Hmmm, I try and take an opposite approach and strive to put others ahead of myself. I’m not always successful but as I’ve put my wife ahead of my own needs and wants our relationship has been much better and she tries to do the same thing, as I’ve put my children’s needs ahead of my own I’ve been able to focus my energy on things that have strengthened our family, as I’ve tried to put the needs of friends over my own I’ve created better, longer lasting friendships with people who I now consider like family, I even try to put my coworkers needs above my own and in many ways I feel like it’s created teams that have been highly effective and we’ve developed stronger personal relationships.
On the flip side, those times in my life where I have focused on myself have been much darker, lonelier and less fulfilling than those times I have tried to focus on others.
That means you used to say yes to toxic people before?!😂
@@iche9373 you dont get it before you have been there. Some people, including myself, give and give and give, we work overtime, help everyone in need, constantly helping out, but some people abuse your goodwill and lack of being able to say "no, i cant today" so you bend urself out of shape and abusers continue to wear you down. Once i learned to say no to these kind of people, it literally saved my life. Thats the point. Some people dont have issues with this, for some its a major struggle
I used to say yes at work a lot, in the belief i would be regarded as willing, eager and helpful.....thereby being an excellent employee.
The result was i got treated as a doormat and my boss had little respect for me. Then , when i said no one time, for legitimate reasons, i got handed a big telling off.
Harsh lesson there. Dont think being the yes man will do you any favours...it absolutely will not. Being non confrontational and obliging you may think will make life easy and it does....for your boss, not for you. I guarantee you will get more respect by standing up for yourself, saying no and not being afraid of confrontation. These people do way better. Choosing the path of least resistance will cost you in the end, mark my words.
By the way, this also applies in a marriage.
Agreed 100%. I spent most of my working life being that easy-going guy who would help out with anything. It got me nowhere!
Although marriage dynamic is a bit different as it requires different emotional and sacrificial fits and sizes. Other than than in any part of our life a proper Yes and No is needed. Saying YES to something which you resent doing is worst thing ever. It builds hatred inside you which bog not just your mental health down but affects your physical health too.
@@letsthinkbriefly3761 you don't know me...stop talking about me, lol.
That's so right. I started to say no in my Marriage but still did not have the courage to say what I wanted. Before I could learn that he found a new Wife.
Stop lying women’s! Only yes dear gets the man laid at night. Those who say no will be sleeping on the couch and having a cold shower!
My wife and I have 6 children, all grown now. My favorite word is NO. It saved me from going insane.
make sense , all I understand in this video is that we all know it all ready ! " women dont know what they want " this idea of no, yes crap is only in their head . We know when to say no and yes when to say yes ! . "Behind every NO is a fucking NO women , wake up ! :)
The quickest way to see who a person really is-is to tell them no. They will either understand your reasoning OR they will turn on you and show you their selfishness.
Find a place 40 years from now!
Well said.
Well the employees have to say yes to everything...the bosses can say no.
@@alenaadamkova7617 What happens then, is the workers, they just do what they are asked. They stop being proactive and working independently.
Or just say no. You don't owe it to everyone to explain your reasoning.
I finally started saying no now in my 40’s. FINALLY I learned my worth ❤
Just wow... Thank you!!!
YES to Free Palestine
NO to Zionist state
"NO!" has brought me MUCH more happiness.
I went past saying no and started offering prices, that quickly sends a message far more powerful than no 🙏
I always used to say yes to almost everything and everyone. The day I learned to say no especially unapologetically and without giving reason is the day I grew up in some aspect.
Yes!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I feel your power, HUMBLENESS and respect in these 2 statements!! 😊😊
Yes, exactly it was a start in the right direction.
These words were actually detailed extremely well in a 2004 book called:
"Boundaries: When To Say Yes, When To Say No, To Take Control Of Your Life".
The book was written by Henry Cloud and John Townsend.
Best book I ever read
I have that book it's really good
NO, I won't read it!
Thanks for your comment. Greetings from Germany now hearing this book @ audible in German ;)
I wish the whole world could read it. I have tead thousands of books on all kinds of subject and this book was the best out of all of them.
Unfortunately, the more people who read it will think will then think that the woman who quotes her words in this
KaikoMedia video was plagiarizing them, since she didn't give credit to the book or its authors.
@@WernerChristianPoly
"Maybe the reason i had trouble saying no to people was because i did not think that I was worth a yes to protect" 🤯
Helping others, sometimes less fortunate, can be very rewarding.
"Bright 'no's + deep 'yeses'." = clarity ✨
Glad you loved it :)
I really needed to hear this at this moment. Thank you!
Thank you. That is a perfect explanation for why I can start saying no.
:)
Don't say yes to everything because corrupt human know you are so humble if they ask you as a victim while seeking sympathy you will fall in trap of trusting them and then get hurt at the end emotionally, financially and conciquence can be so bad that you might fall in trap of revenge and war
@dhimmigetwellsoonyatinarsi1342 Yeah, I get it. It's more to do with work, my family and friends. I can never say no when I really want to!
@@yvonnebarretta stay safe, follow the God, listen to your own soul and don't follow believers blindly, be a seeker and just do your own karma, don't worry about karma of other, they will face result according to their karma
That’s good advice for driven focused people. People who are young and figuring things out, saying yes creates more opportunities and builds connections
Man: No.
Woman: Welcome to my TED talk.
XD
Yup but lots of guys have the same issues I’ve observed so I tell them to practice on me if they need it
This is deep 💀
@@stoicism7988 Appreciate you! 100
Excellent. I thought I was watching a comedian but she is serious and very insightful.
:) thx 4 watching
So true!!! Saying ‘no’ is very very hard for most people, you need strength to say NO!!!!
I had a boss for man years, who couldn't say no. It was nice at first, not getting antagonized. But in the end it broke me. My boss took on any request and all the sh*tloads of work that came with it and dumped it on her team. Interestingly enough she was rather immune to any hints and even to open criticism that we (as a department) are taking on too much and needed to set and enforce some clear boundaries as to where our services and staff capacity end. She never learned to put her foot down and say no. And I quit, eventually, when it was too late. I know how to say no. But I have to work on making it clear that I mean it right at the first time I say no. And, in fact, it's crucial to know what I have a true yes to, what I'm committed to.
Simply say No! Just stop overthinking everything!!
That’s her long, winded way of saying she got the house half the business and all of the kids in the divorce
Which is exactly what she was offered to begin with . By saying no her attorney got half.
Still making money using him ...
@@ajthomas770 do you know this for a fact or are you spewing prejudice?
@@ZoyaSpencer nonsense probably
isn't this musk's first wife?
she got a few million in the divorce, the house, and ~300k/year in child support
Which is obviously a lot of money, but compared to the billions he has, it's pennies
He got half and he’s still the richest person on the planet?
After 50 years of being a no man, I realized deep inside I was really a yes man.
I missed so many opportunities to say yes, I needed word salads to make sense of it.
There is no rhyme,reason,association or connection for the words in a word salad , it is truly amazing to witness for a sane person.
Some people in these comments are too negatively focused. As someone healing from lack of boundaries this has a profound and beautiful message for me. I wish everyone the best and I’m sorry you could not take something positive from her message because of your own limiting beliefs.
Pure BS
I think to many people here, she seems to be talking complete nonsense. Myself included. It's not that people are being negative, they/we are pointing out that her discourse appears to be incoherent at an almost delusional level.
@@chrissmith-lf1hz It's crystal clear to those who are attuned. Perhaps your life is either to perfect, or too far gone. No offense intended but I don't know how else to put it. Because her message is crystal clear.
@@ZoyaSpencer so could you explain it to me?thanks
agreed
Nice. It was the best lesson of 2023. Only... my NO needed the energy and phrasing of F.OFF ! Thats how I needed to stand up for myself. With a bit of rage and clarity.
Explain them that the No to them is the Yes to yourself
🙏🏾
Why is this a ted talk
It's "TEDx!
"TED Conferences are organized and run directly by TED. TEDx events are fully planned and coordinated independently, on a community-by-community basis. The goal of TEDx is to inspire a passion for spreading ideas in local communities from within."
Because they run out of ideas and people, they just went to the grocery store and brought the first person to say yes, and after that she realized she was supposed to say no 😂
Because she had sex with elon musk. So people are supposed to pretend she matters now.
@@aronobbecause she was married to Elon musk
She’s Elon’s ex wife
She’s so right! Its actually easier for ambitious men to say NO to everything and everyone else in order to be lax or focused by their partners are taking on the responsibilities of managing the family and home life. Often times, that partner is the woman!
Ah there is nothing more powerful than saying no to something where a yes was expected
No doubt it's true in the world, but I think that's a different video or podcast.
No
What protected me in this society is my ability to reject someone by saying yes and running as far away as possible before they knew I rejected them.
Some of us said No to a lot of things a few years back. We were mocked, excluded and even lost friends and family. Regrets? NO.
There with you bruh. Remember what happened. Don't forget
@@CrackedCandy 100%! Lost my job. Lost a lot of old friends who turned into monsters simply because I had a different view to them. Found out who my true friends were real quick!
No to his kids who just wanted to play with him. But that's the unfortunate truth for most people who are not willing to sacrifice success for their children. Get healthy, healthy and then become successful with your family. Growing but no one. Their kids under 7 years old. Those are the times you need to be there. I can see what ultra successful people have many families. Because they see it like a business. If one fails, let's try another one and keep going. That's why his first son Xavier won nothing to do with him
There’s so much truth in these powerful words. Her ex-husband chose his job and success over family life. It’s hard sometimes to balance, work/life. Some powerful life lessons here. He should’ve said yes to his kids and wife.
@@Welding_Handyman then the world will stay the same. Jesus made his sacrifices too
@@eddieyutub yes
If you don’t get it listen again, and again, and keep listening. From the bottom of my heart, if you maybe don’t get it, this message is for you most of all. It doesn’t make you less of a person to find your boundaries and to decide where you want to put your focus; rather than let everyone around you choose (directly or otherwise) what your do with your life. Particularly if you are in a coercive or controlling relationship, this may be difficult but it will be the moment that you will look back on and be grateful for. Ask me how I know. And to the speaker, keep saying it, the rest will catch up (eventually).
Hey, I really appreciate this sincere comment. Thank you so much for encouraging others to listen again and again and again, not for the views, but for the message within it. You're awesome!!
NO!!!
Every no is a deeper yes to what you really want
Why not consider buying some hot meals from a local restaurant for homeless people in your city today? It’s a great way to make a positive impact. Also, if you’re interested, take some time to study and understand the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Pastor Joseph Prince is a wonderful teacher who can help you understand it better.
That's why he's where he's at today. He's happy cuz he truly is doing what he wants and succeeding at. So the No. Can be an a very empowering word that can save you in the long run on bulshit
I never saw it this way. Saying no most of the time is saying yes to yourself on something. Trust me I would agree that most of the time we say yes to People and it affects us because we are subconsciously caught up trying to be there for everyone and no one is there for us. Sadly, they can all do without us. I have done this many a time and I can’t stress enough how powerful it is to say “no”. I remember practicing to say a quick “no” to my boss. He called me one time and just completed my shift and wanted me to show up for another shift making it look like he had me already for that. I immediately said I am just off and had not consented for any shift like that and I said I had other plans and no I can’t. I felt good that day that I stood my ground. I was caught up between trying to please my boss and actually looking for myself and I choose myself.
Trust me, saying no is powerful most of the time
Thats all true there.
Lot of successful people have to go off a lot of No's. Some very hard No's
Elon should not have children
He very wealthy, tall and good genetics.
She was actually his best wife
Talulah looked like a very sweet kid too.
@@Boredoutofmywitswell, apparently he did not think so and that's what counts
So does it matter what you die of, You're still freaking dead
Idk about that.
Still left him
Warren Buffet said he said no ten times more than he said yes and that was the key to his success. I have told no to some high end clients (I build big multimillion dollar houses) and have never regretted it. A lot of people are just more hassle than they are worth. Later on I would find out the client turned down would be an absolute nightmare for the builder that took their job.
I really love this! Thanks for sharing. It's much appreciated!
We learned from our mistakes..Thank you! For bringing no to us! God Bless!
So true. It's amazing how often people try to get in the way when you can't make time for trivial things, because you're pursuing a larger, long-term goal.
She sooooooo right.
Glad you love it!
NO!!!
“Extremely successful” is an extremely vague concept. This woman defines it clearly as monetary and physical gains by “protecting resources”. Two things that you cannot take with you when you leave this place. There are others that define extremely successful in an entirely different viewpoint.
she never defined it at all. She was talking about saying the word no.
By extremely successful she meant Elon musk
Attorney for the defence : “so you said no but meant a deep yes ?“ What claptrap
that kind of misrepresents her argument xD the "deep yes" is obviously meant for the opposite of what the defendant is saying "no" to.
a "no" to (A) is equal to a "yes" to (not A)
This sounds dangerous like the twisted misogynistic "no means maybe and maybe means yes" argument used to defend rapists back in the day. Weird
When you say no to something, it frees you to say yes to other options. Options that may potentially propel you to a desired goal.
When you can say no ro someone else's BS you can start saying yes to your own needs and wants and dreams.... the deep yes.
Thank You for sharing.
Acting assertively reduces codependency and does refocus one's energy toward personal goals effectively. At risk though is one appearing selfish😮
Wow, just wow on the comments.
I started reading them to see who her husband was, not knowing.
But only because I am the person she is... I am in the role of always having to say yes.
I'm amazed at all the negative comments on here. Look at the person, not what her husband has accomplished. Oh.. and he got that way from pushing and setting boundaries, to me she is saying to do the same.
And for the nasty comments about him leaving her, I'm so happy for you who are in your 1st relationship still and no one has ever left you, that's incredible. Congratulations. Now you know how stupid you sound? Smh! Some of you care way to much about other people but sit here and point fingers.
Hey Racheal, I really appreciate the genuine comment.
Yeah, unfortunately, the comments on UA-cam don't tend to be the greatest. Perhaps it's reflective of a lot of dark that has yet to see light. But I can assure you, your resonance with the message is shared with many. Myself, and up to 166K who shared this same post on IG, and on my IG - the comments, are also filled with a lot of nonsense, but there's so many who resonated with it; and saw behind surface level...
Anyway, I trust you'll find your way...
Unchecked, it is also a good way to become selfish and ignore the needs of others
That depends what your deeper yes is. Maybe you want to help somebody in dire need but get waylaid by requests from others who are not as desperate.
When a woman says no, it does not always mean yes.
Best comment.
NO!!!
Aww cut it out
The same applies to love and hate. “Love wins”, “say no to hate” all that jazz. You must necessarily hate that which would hurt the thing you love.
Wow! This is a Fundamental of "Manifesting!" - beautiful awareness!
Appreciate you! Thanks for watching!!
My husband says no to sex staying inside our marriage. His yes is to prostitutes and all whores.
That's the wrong thing for him to say no to, but why is he still your husband if you're not ok with it? Anyway, there was a book written by a female psychologist who experimented by becoming a high priced prostitute for a while. She said that almost half her customers didn't even want to have sex, they just wanted to talk to someone (pretty) who was non judgemental and emotionally supportive with some physical non sexual contact. Mind you, I'm not defending his actions. There's also the other kind of guy who equates sex with something vile and nasty. That kind of guy is uncomfortable having sex with someone he loves and respects & can't even get turned on by a "good" woman. Is he Catholic? There's a heavy dose of guilt about sex being vile and dirty that's hard to shake off for some Catholic guys. I personally can't think sexually about a woman who's sweet, darling, precious, beautiful, and youthful, especially if I have feelings for her.
I wouldn't cheat in a long term relationship unless my partner refused to give me what I needed, despite every attempt to get her to give it to me.
I've never cheated in my life, but if a partner neglected me deeply in some way, it's possible.
Then try saying yes to him.
if all it took was hard work every woman in Africa would be a billionaire
Hard work at the right things.
Maybe men too?
I walked backwards...then i walked forward. Ummmm.... yeah thats it!!
She pretty much just described my life. I've never been good at saying no and I think it's probably because my Yes was a desire to say Yes to others. I learned that late in life and it's gone now. But, my mind still struggles with it. I still have a hard time saying No. I guess I need to find my Yes.
I have trouble saying no because i genuinely want to help others, and seeing their desperation and knowing I can help pushes me to say yes. It’s a sense of commitment and solidarity to others but truly, we can’t stop our goals for everyone because there are “vampires” who utilize and abuse you until the last drop of blood then forget about you.
Sorry, this is sincere but nonsense to me.
It’s incredible how many people aren’t intelligent enough to comprehend what she is speaking about. 😂😂😂
That's an arrogant comment if ever there was one. I've asked for another alternative explanation as l don't get it, and l have recieved zero feedback or nonsense. Would you like to climb down from the heights and maybe help us out? Thanks
@@chrissmith-lf1hz So, because you’re not smart enough to understand HER, I must be arrogant?? 🤦🏼♀️
@@theartistjodievans There you go again. Rude and disrespectful. You obviously don't learn much from these talks. Keep going if it makes you feel more entitled.
What she talking about is utilizing someone else name for clout after she left him.
I'm not. Sounded like a word salad to me. You can't tell me she couldn't have articulated the idea with far better clarity
Wow, this woman wanted to be somebody and not be behind Elon's shadow...and now that she had her independence and saw that she had no competence, she goes back to trying to live in his shadow almost 20 years later. So funny.
She wanted more, and now she sees that nobody is interested in her without Elon.
Her greatest accomplishment in life, was being attractive to elon musk , and having sex with him. Congratulations lady you get a free ride for the rest of your life. Poor baby.
Beautiful message. Thank you!❤
Being able to say No for the right reason is a Super Power!
I’m sick of people trying to pretend Elon is something other than a total narcissist.
Good for you. He has incredible talents and as great an innovator as Emerson/ Ford or any of the greatest in history. Of course he has faults but I love his innovations.
Don't diss the greatest African American of all time... the Leonardo d Vinci of our era fighting 4 free speech with a tinge of humor.
Jealousy makes you nasty....
He's brilliant and foolish at once. Blowing billions on arrogance and control. Achieving huge gains , while in denial about real problems. He's smart . Not yet wise.
Nobody said you have to marry him. Mind you own business
@@Muzzy0085 nobody said you have utter stupid statements.
Is this satire? It's very sad if it is not.
NO!!!
He said no to her?
I love the word no and so much how she is speaking. I love her
Brilliantly put. I love it.
Inherit, then deny
You are not interesting
I know the idea of boundaries is a pretty common principle in YT these days, but my inability to say "no," nearly destroyed my marriage. It wasn't until I read the book "Boundaries" by Henry Cloud that I realized that it is, in fact, loving to say "no" because it's honest and truthful.
I taught my children that "NO" is the most important word in the English language. It has served them well.
I was never afraid to say no but i was foolish to always say yes. Today i see my self interests and say no because i dont allow people with greed to come feed on my skills and talent. Its mine for me only.
This reminds me of a ton of those late night conversations when you’re baked.
Ty this what i have been doing! I came to that realization and i had to work on this but over time it is powerful to ones soul
Glad you appreciate it! Thank you!
Most people are too nice to say NO - and that is a downfall
Well said to focus on your gold and go far in life you have to say no
Be a good friend to him! I hope you are! Elon has a good taste for women!
I would never said no to Her!
Unless... He knew something we don't
Behind every no is a deeper yes to whatever it is that you do want❤❤
What a wonderful world we live in!
I’m self employed and I can relate too 100% of what she is saying. Alot of times people will wanna do
Things with me and I usually say no because am too tired of working hard to build my wealth and company. It’s a hard balance
100% correct. I have sat on the sidelines while my husband fulfilled his career (traveling all over the world). I put emotions and problems that needed attention on the back burner so he would be able to do his work abroad with a clear head. All that did was delay the problem solving for 36 years. We are still married but I do feel a twinge of resentment that I supported him but he has not really supported me.
أتبعت نفس الخطوات والمقادير بالضبط وأخذ الريش ٤٥ دق في الفرن علشان يستوي بالنهاية كان طعمه اوكي ومقبول وليس واو
YES! That is very profound!
The next level to this is being able to make people comfortably accept your "No" with no grudges..
Just use Tactfulness
They'll agree to you
I agree.
Thank you for this beautiful message amen.
You are so welcome
Funkin' brilliant❤
Balancing what you give and what you get. Also some people see kindness as weakness.
Also every y or n is a decision.
Also setting priorities.