Interesting companionship skills: all these stages proceed with caution as you take things slowly (A-Accept Friendship, B-Build Constitution, C- cultural processes, D- Do it right as you move in together)
minute14:48 omg! i had to rewind and pause and rewind back in wonder. Coach Zulu will never stop making me drop my jaws in wonder of the hidden truths and knowledge he keeps oozing out🙌 Thank you so much. you are mentor to multitudes of us sir🙏😭
I am on the floor laughing with you.....that child and birth ritual is nuts. Bring to mind 😅😅My aunt had a househelp Ms.A, from western ( cannot recall the tribe) so she came to my aunt when she was a few months pregnant- anyway they really loved her so kept her- helped with her hospital and took care of her and baby - just like their own child. So when baby was 4 months or so- her mother came to the city and told my aunt that the baby had to go to the village to be shaved by some elder and Ms. A -was to be cleansed too. So come six months, Ms. A & her baby 👶 are off to the village for the occasion all decked from the city- the baby was shaved alright but as for Ms.A - her back had to be nyoloshwad (made straight, I guess from child birth) but guess by who??? 🤔🤫. None other but the uninvolved uninterested baby daddy. And boom 💥 .......twins😔🤯thats a story for another day. Ms. A ended up back in the village, single mother with 3 babies under the age 2years, unemployed and with no one to leave the babies so she can work to provide for them. Benjamin- you are restoring a generation, let those with ears hear and save their hearts from a lifetime of pain and regrets
Thanks Benjamin, sure, follow all the steps and if you realize you were tricked, leave without feeling guilty 👌👌👌 Thanks again for clearing my conscious. Oh,foolish virgins 🙆 I know we are many here 😅😅 but,,,, God always gives a second chance. Benjamin, you are sincerely a blessing to many. Also your book "Dating right" is 👌👌👌 Blessings to you and your generation Sir
@Zulu, why do men on dating app keep asking for pics....once you exchange contacts they are like..send me your pics.....i feel something bot right with that ...helps pls
Secure behaviors to help you win in dating: 1. Take things slow. There should be no procrastination neither should you rush to make a decision. 2. Strive for friendship. Talk like friends to test if you have any substance beyond romance. Can you rhyme and reason together? Are you headed in the same direction? Check out their rythmn of their life; friendships, relationships and management of his/her life. 3. Promulgate a constitution. Review what they want from life and see if you are in agreement. 4. At the point of commitment, follow the cultural and legal procedures. Get married in a ceremony. Before that avoid cohabiting. 5. After marriage, merge your lives and live together.
Imagine such knowledge for free!!!!! God just said "LET ME JUST BLESS THESE GUYS WITH THIS MAN.". THANKS MAN. CAN'T THANK U ENOUGH
Slow down... force yourself to slow down. take it slow✍
Today my take home is T.A.K.E I.T S.L.O.W. This episode came Just In Time👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Interesting companionship skills: all these stages proceed with caution as you take things slowly (A-Accept Friendship, B-Build Constitution, C- cultural processes, D- Do it right as you move in together)
I get to learn everyday from this wise man's words of wisdom... and I can't get enough. 🖤💪🏿
minute14:48 omg! i had to rewind and pause and rewind back in wonder. Coach Zulu will never stop making me drop my jaws in wonder of the hidden truths and knowledge he keeps oozing out🙌 Thank you so much. you are mentor to multitudes of us sir🙏😭
I am on the floor laughing with you.....that child and birth ritual is nuts. Bring to mind 😅😅My aunt had a househelp Ms.A, from western ( cannot recall the tribe) so she came to my aunt when she was a few months pregnant- anyway they really loved her so kept her- helped with her hospital and took care of her and baby - just like their own child. So when baby was 4 months or so- her mother came to the city and told my aunt that the baby had to go to the village to be shaved by some elder and Ms. A -was to be cleansed too. So come six months, Ms. A & her baby 👶 are off to the village for the occasion all decked from the city- the baby was shaved alright but as for Ms.A - her back had to be nyoloshwad (made straight, I guess from child birth) but guess by who??? 🤔🤫. None other but the uninvolved uninterested baby daddy. And boom 💥 .......twins😔🤯thats a story for another day.
Ms. A ended up back in the village, single mother with 3 babies under the age 2years, unemployed and with no one to leave the babies so she can work to provide for them.
Benjamin- you are restoring a generation, let those with ears hear and save their hearts from a lifetime of pain and regrets
I will keep on saying this Mr Zulu is our blessing from God to this generation.Thank you and your team
I love the intro
Thanks Benjamin,
sure, follow all the steps and if you realize you were tricked, leave without feeling guilty 👌👌👌 Thanks again for clearing my conscious.
Oh,foolish virgins 🙆 I know we are many here 😅😅 but,,,, God always gives a second chance.
Benjamin, you are sincerely a blessing to many.
Also your book "Dating right" is 👌👌👌
Blessings to you and your generation Sir
Great show 👏 Benjamin
Deep insights here💯
The introduction to this podcast was powerful!!!
I love this show, very educative indeed
This conversation is so on point I'm learning so much
Wow I've really learnt alot,keep up Benjamin
@Zulu, why do men on dating app keep asking for pics....once you exchange contacts they are like..send me your pics.....i feel something bot right with that ...helps pls
Its really annoying
He deserve a thumbs up
Secure behaviors to help you win in dating:
1. Take things slow. There should be no procrastination neither should you rush to make a decision.
2. Strive for friendship. Talk like friends to test if you have any substance beyond romance. Can you rhyme and reason together? Are you headed in the same direction? Check out their rythmn of their life; friendships, relationships and management of his/her life.
3. Promulgate a constitution. Review what they want from life and see if you are in agreement.
4. At the point of commitment, follow the cultural and legal procedures. Get married in a ceremony. Before that avoid cohabiting.
5. After marriage, merge your lives and live together.
Very informative 👏
Watching Benjamin Zulu keeps me on the right spiritual paths. My discernment is real and enjoying it
Aki am in tht frustration
Nice teachings.. thank you Mr.Zulu
I like your teachings Benjamin so educative
Your making me to learn something I never knew thank you sir
Insightful, thanks Benjamin