Ladies, You Can’t Date By Just Waiting - The Benjamin Zulu Show

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @Audreykenya258
    @Audreykenya258 3 роки тому +164

    Good job Zulu,,can we show some love to Bramwel for being a good host all along drop your likes

  • @nombekoseneledube3599
    @nombekoseneledube3599 3 роки тому +23

    Im one person who have been moulded by Benjamin..i cant skip a day wthout listening to him. You are a blessing to my life.

  • @eseojiekhudu6770
    @eseojiekhudu6770 3 роки тому +12

    Im a Nigerian woman always watching you with keen interest,too much wisdom in one person.Amazing job!!

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 роки тому +20

    When Zulu was talking of dressing and hygiene I nearly died of laughter. 😂😂😂

  • @shalommacharia9340
    @shalommacharia9340 3 роки тому +46

    Benjamin is like my second father to me. I listen keenly to what he says.

  • @PZJBimha
    @PZJBimha 3 роки тому +50

    I felt attacked 😂 then realised no, its an eye opener. I'm that lady who is always working, super suspicious of men being scammers and putting zero effort to be noticed now that I am working from home. My desire is passive. I'm putting an end to this. About to channel my charm

    • @tinachristine4573
      @tinachristine4573 3 роки тому +6

      Good luck. And don't take girlfriends with you on your socials. They can undermine your ability to score including even scaring away admirers.

    • @PZJBimha
      @PZJBimha 3 роки тому +1

      @@tinachristine4573 wow. Thanks..

    • @Shanakkk
      @Shanakkk 3 роки тому

      Lol

    • @janemaina8731
      @janemaina8731 3 роки тому +2

      Me toooo parachute clothes

  • @Amlyne-K
    @Amlyne-K 3 роки тому +13

    Wow Benjamin.......... ever since l started listening to your teachings my life has never been the same

  • @anitapeter6339
    @anitapeter6339 3 роки тому +42

    One year later after being a member here I have moved in my life

  • @naomifavor2887
    @naomifavor2887 3 роки тому +37

    Bramwel you look smart in that full neck

    • @brendapeace595
      @brendapeace595 3 роки тому +1

      The way I look for data just to watch Zulu

  • @dorahnyobunga2192
    @dorahnyobunga2192 3 роки тому +26

    Benjamin Zulu you never fail to disappoint always telling it like it is, the best advice always

  • @slp1561
    @slp1561 Рік тому +1

    Love your programs, full of fun, full of joy, full of truth! Bravo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hellengitahi8979
    @hellengitahi8979 3 роки тому +7

    Always brilliant with so much wisdom and so funny 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ChrysDz
    @ChrysDz 3 роки тому +13

    Just shared your video on an international group
    ..this is timely truth

  • @bwalyachiluba9889
    @bwalyachiluba9889 3 роки тому +3

    I am addicted to your show, you speak so much sense

  • @anamirta8035
    @anamirta8035 3 роки тому +15

    Greetings from Croatia 🇭🇷 "don't look Like a small grandmother"😅 today women tend to dress either like girls or grandmothers

  • @kayirangalizzie3058
    @kayirangalizzie3058 2 роки тому +2

    Mr Benjamin am sooooo indebted to u big time coz you are my life coach without pay.
    U have talked to my life from all corners.
    Am super grateful to having landed on your channel.
    I never miss any show.
    When u
    I get a notification I run immediately and watch right way.

  • @irenenzioka4570
    @irenenzioka4570 3 роки тому +9

    "You like trousers coz your legs can move east-west"... Heheeeeee!

  • @lauraken31
    @lauraken31 Рік тому +1

    Oouch Benjamin!!! Madly in love with your wisdom. 😂

  • @susankalock2057
    @susankalock2057 3 роки тому +11

    Great teaching Zulu , and your points are of great sense 👌 ,single people needs this for real so that they can upgrade been following your show all the way from USA

  • @aye2544
    @aye2544 2 роки тому +5

    Can I just say we're sorry Benjamin 😂😂 "flats are comfortable but useless" 😂😂🙌🙌

  • @daphinenamuli7566
    @daphinenamuli7566 3 роки тому +5

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 small grandmother....I appreciate the talks

  • @maryngigi5360
    @maryngigi5360 3 роки тому +6

    Love this guy. You straight 💯. You got me but av learned alot from you since I started listening to you

  • @likanari
    @likanari 3 роки тому +8

    Yaani Zulu you are so hilarious 🤣 😂 but your advice is worth my time.

  • @gracejames1434
    @gracejames1434 3 роки тому +13

    Walking very fast😀😁 that's precisely me😁😀😀

  • @harrietbridget6672
    @harrietbridget6672 3 роки тому +5

    Good job 👏 👏👏👏when ever i watch your show i feel your talking to somebody out there. and it’s the bitter truth of your words 👌👌👌thanks

  • @valdiviakibunja4572
    @valdiviakibunja4572 3 роки тому +4

    I love this man! So on point as always.

  • @mabelnansubuga4555
    @mabelnansubuga4555 3 роки тому +4

    Bramwel you look sharp.👌🏿 Benjamin you are the other father I needed

  • @bettyokullo8259
    @bettyokullo8259 3 роки тому +3

    Benjamin speaks the truth always 😂😂if you get angry that's your problem

  • @sarahomoaka9153
    @sarahomoaka9153 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir for this speech .. you saved a soul

  • @RQ_of_Marketing
    @RQ_of_Marketing 3 роки тому +3

    Wah... Benjamin aki😂😂😂😂😂😂😂... am laughing uncontrollably... hapo kwa dressing.. wachatu

  • @puritynjeri2270
    @puritynjeri2270 2 роки тому +9

    This is a topic I can't wait to listen to I just read the title and was like woooah this one is meant for me. I'm the type who works from home I barely meet men and I'm always Hoping that I'll meet one in front of my doorstep 😂😂. Curious to hear what Benjamin has to say about this

    • @bree2695
      @bree2695 2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣the struggle girlllll😆😆😆😆.
      Me too

  • @rotondwasigama8700
    @rotondwasigama8700 3 роки тому +9

    Bramwel have a teachable spirit

  • @marynjeri3374
    @marynjeri3374 3 роки тому +6

    Zulu u have really helped me become open minded

  • @khadijahadam361
    @khadijahadam361 3 роки тому +2

    Damm benja! These is an eye opener

  • @lydianjeri9105
    @lydianjeri9105 2 роки тому +4

    🤣🤣🤣Benjamin eti we wear trousers coz of laziness 🤣🤣

    • @lucywanjiku8525
      @lucywanjiku8525 2 роки тому

      I felt attacked😂😂 I don't even have a dress or a skirt,,,where do I start

  • @preciousmaleka8230
    @preciousmaleka8230 3 роки тому +6

    I really love this. Thank you ❣️

  • @susanbodu5785
    @susanbodu5785 3 роки тому +2

    Mr.zulu ,your on point 👉 nothing but the truth thank you..

  • @annenjoroge9695
    @annenjoroge9695 2 роки тому +3

    Well said Benjamin. I am the kind that doesn't wait when it comes to making progress in life. I don't let singlehood stop me. I am my first cheerleader, the rest can join in along the way.

  • @perismkala4275
    @perismkala4275 Рік тому +1

    Listening to Benjamin zulu I am learning a lot every day

  • @nambalirwagertrude3053
    @nambalirwagertrude3053 3 роки тому +6

    Wauuu nice message to single pipo , let mi transform, thax alot for the advise my mentors

  • @sandramungwari6477
    @sandramungwari6477 3 роки тому +5

    Thank u sir!!!! I needed to hear this

  • @lorraineoneill9297
    @lorraineoneill9297 3 роки тому +3

    I love all of your insights and I learn so much. Thank you

  • @NS-ru1yf
    @NS-ru1yf 3 роки тому +3

    Zulu is 🔥 🔥 blessed for materials

  • @noelmusanga4830
    @noelmusanga4830 3 роки тому +2

    The walking wisdom.Live long Zulu

  • @sarahjeptoo5189
    @sarahjeptoo5189 2 роки тому +1

    Zulu did you just said looking like small grandma....😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @obriancatering4358
    @obriancatering4358 2 роки тому +2

    Your amazing dah
    Please talk about divorcee or widows who wants to get married again

  • @dotunhunpatin4765
    @dotunhunpatin4765 3 роки тому +3

    Benjamin really came prepared for me...lol

  • @ItsChebby
    @ItsChebby 2 роки тому +1

    Great, watching this today 😊

  • @faithmaingi4731
    @faithmaingi4731 3 роки тому +10

    I am so lazy when it comes to making my hair. And I have no reason for it😂😂😂😂

    • @ciciblessed
      @ciciblessed 2 роки тому

      Me toooo 😭😭

    • @Noni_254
      @Noni_254 2 роки тому +1

      I was the same too but right now am really happy of whom am becoming.am single and working alot on myself and trust me i feel special and and different girl from before.

  • @ednamutua6136
    @ednamutua6136 3 роки тому +7

    Live long Benjamin Zulu😊

  • @lukhez
    @lukhez 3 роки тому +9

    Hope is not a plan💯

  • @eveshish757
    @eveshish757 3 роки тому +5

    i have all those things now what i need is someone who wants to do life with me.i feel like my circle is too small

  • @evanna8936
    @evanna8936 3 роки тому +3

    Benjamin never disappoints 💯💯

  • @itukaroseebob3934
    @itukaroseebob3934 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks ,mentor,you have readjusted my moves with your programs

  • @imanimwakinga4934
    @imanimwakinga4934 2 роки тому +1

    That's true....am changing a few things from these conversations

  • @blandinamyinga9489
    @blandinamyinga9489 3 роки тому

    weyiiiii Benjiiii🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this man won't kill me😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅**anyways let us change our dressing codes haiiiiii.

  • @judithunaegbu3776
    @judithunaegbu3776 2 роки тому

    It’s the college girl piercing for me 😂😂😂

  • @phoebemukhwana3058
    @phoebemukhwana3058 3 роки тому +4

    Watching and learning from Zulu

  • @agnesmukhooli866
    @agnesmukhooli866 3 роки тому +3

    A true masterpiece

  • @ngumbaurose4213
    @ngumbaurose4213 3 роки тому +7

    Benjamin I always listen to you tirelessly n have learned alot

  • @emilysolitei9889
    @emilysolitei9889 3 роки тому +3

    Small grandmother's 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mwendwahadassah7888
    @mwendwahadassah7888 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! I like the information. I need to share this to some of my friends.Thankyou Benjamin

  • @knowledgempofu2358
    @knowledgempofu2358 3 роки тому +8

    Good advice indeed. Thank you for your life changing talks

  • @enochmuli4540
    @enochmuli4540 3 роки тому +4

    Wonderful discussion

  • @ruthimorembo7257
    @ruthimorembo7257 3 роки тому +3

    True progressive ladies are always happy happy happy....Learn to surprise your gent..

  • @maureenmugo7879
    @maureenmugo7879 3 роки тому +4

    😂😂😂😂this made my day

  • @bossielil
    @bossielil 3 роки тому +2

    Wah Benjamin you have attacked us 🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @gracemwangi9417
    @gracemwangi9417 3 роки тому +2

    Benjamin,,we were there and what met our way,it was more than a car accident...What we experienced,,was more than to worship a devil....
    I try to imagine approaching a man again and wish to be in a coffin sooner than later after that...
    Woiyi Benjamin its easy said than done but on the ground things are complicated..
    My young girls coz I know you are the most target be cautious and acquire more wisdom towards that.....its dangerous more than staying with a python in the house..
    Again be careful....
    Am at thirty,single though lonely but not in a pain as I experienced when I tried this....
    My God may you continue healing my heart for the damaged I brought to my heart

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz 7 місяців тому

    Mr Benjamin just speak me entirely...but am going to take up the challenge

  • @extedaaaa2225
    @extedaaaa2225 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for ure good words always

  • @carole9104
    @carole9104 3 роки тому +5

    Talk about long distance relationship

  • @lenamukiri4303
    @lenamukiri4303 3 роки тому +1

    Exactly ,it’s different over seas

  • @fatumaibrahim2105
    @fatumaibrahim2105 3 роки тому +2

    hapo kwa football....on point!A grown up man walking singing Chelsea or Red Devils tunes....Its a turn off i tell you..Am glad uve addressed it!

  • @doreennamara7141
    @doreennamara7141 3 роки тому +1

    Wow.. Benjamin please honor my invitation on my big day...I have enjoyed this journey 💯💯💯

  • @naomimilan6357
    @naomimilan6357 3 роки тому +1

    Some perfume remind people of hospital 😂😂😂😂

  • @phoebendanu4036
    @phoebendanu4036 3 роки тому +6

    Who wants to marry someone who looks half- mad!!

  • @wangui9908
    @wangui9908 3 роки тому +2

    😂😂😂😂😂 Hapo kwa kuadvertise aki🤭🤭🤭

  • @nomaswazigloriadlamini9064
    @nomaswazigloriadlamini9064 Рік тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 New sub, am binge watching all your videos......All that you are saying is me, I have come to the conclusion I'm lazy, I don't put any effort to be noticed and I think my suitor will fall like manna 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @damarisakoth1034
    @damarisakoth1034 3 роки тому +1

    True, to equip me with wisdom.

  • @lena_sbu938
    @lena_sbu938 2 роки тому

    Tah It's Benjamin's first comment for me that, We do not have eternity......It hit home

  • @georgemwanzia8099
    @georgemwanzia8099 3 роки тому +2

    Sijawai cheka hivi 😂😂 good advice nonetheless

  • @annendungu9473
    @annendungu9473 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for reminding men ,about brushing their teeth.

  • @Martha_Kilonzo
    @Martha_Kilonzo 3 роки тому +3

    Wisdom loaded..

  • @esthernduta2005
    @esthernduta2005 3 роки тому +2

    Nani ngombe shwaaàa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Zulu am done with you

  • @AMUKENYA
    @AMUKENYA 3 роки тому +1

    Hope is not a plan, you can hope until you die, passive desires and wishes equal to isolated lives

  • @mariashally
    @mariashally 3 роки тому +5

    There is a guy i had a crush on, until he bend over and mistakenly, i saw holes on his back of the boxers...and thats how i dissapeared 😀😄😄 ...Its true, presentation is key...

  • @lilliangodwin
    @lilliangodwin 3 роки тому +1

    Best Zulu

  • @kulanibaloyi85
    @kulanibaloyi85 3 роки тому +3

    Tjooooo I've heard enough of changing appearance and now I think is time to work on it .. im always wearing jeans and expensive leather boots because of the work that I'm doing 😅😅😅

  • @preciousallen9189
    @preciousallen9189 3 роки тому +4

    So educative

  • @miriamjoy6591
    @miriamjoy6591 3 роки тому +1

    Haha ati perfume that reminds people of hospital...

  • @irenesoni2178
    @irenesoni2178 3 роки тому

    Hehehehehe........ Zulu u will finish us

  • @juddysusan19
    @juddysusan19 3 роки тому +1

    Benjamin Benjamin.... so much truth

  • @monicamuiruri5719
    @monicamuiruri5719 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Benjamin

  • @Mary.blessed13
    @Mary.blessed13 2 роки тому +1

    Weeh i just listed my life here I need to pull up my self for a change

  • @lena_sbu938
    @lena_sbu938 2 роки тому +1

    As a lady, can you actively reach for someone indirectly (not imposing)who's in a relationship, cause you two connect better, and its like there's a message in your head telling you that he's partner you've been looking for???

  • @Emma-zw6ij
    @Emma-zw6ij 3 роки тому

    Nani ng'ombe shuuw🤣🤣🤣

  • @RuthKisiayo
    @RuthKisiayo 3 роки тому +1

    Nimecheka yangu yote Benjamin ua acomedian too

  • @shirllee9542
    @shirllee9542 3 роки тому +8

    Good advice.
    Except we aren't "3rd world" we are just recently "freed". Self deprecation and framing are important. We are where western countries were decades ago, but we'll get where they are, eventually. Hopefully on our own terms

    • @shizma7917
      @shizma7917 3 роки тому +2

      We might not reach where Western world because we are full of shit!! They worked and obeyed system to be where they are today. But I agree we where they were a century ago

    • @shirllee9542
      @shirllee9542 3 роки тому +1

      @@shizma7917 why do you not think they were not full of shit and much, much, much more evil than we are *decades* ago?

    • @shizma7917
      @shizma7917 3 роки тому

      @@shirllee9542 They might! And made step anyway! But sisi 60 years after we have not done much, it might change i mean i want to be better but hej we have to stop and think. ☀️😊. Sio vita lakini

  • @millyapopo4457
    @millyapopo4457 3 роки тому

    Packaging food 😄😄😄

  • @gracemwangi9417
    @gracemwangi9417 3 роки тому +5

    My young girls this topic is targeting you,only to remind you to acquire wisdom before you get into this game of approaching a man.