SHE'S BACK AT THE HOSPITAL... NOT GOOD.
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
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Tori you have earned one thousand stars in my book! You and Travis have allowed us into your lives and THIS, oh my goodness, This is a True representation of what some women experience after the birth of their baby/babies! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you. Please feel better. Please keep expressing your thoughts and feelings and my prayers are with you and your family. 😘
Well said your so kind
I pray the best for you and take a load off and don't do too much
Thank you so much. That means a lot. ❤
That's right it's ok for you to cry. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. It can help someone else down the line. Pray on all of it and the Lord with guide you and be there with you all. Mental health is serious and important. It happens a lot now to both the women and men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🥰.
Tori I am praying that everything is okay and that you are going to be healed. Blessings and love to you and Travis and the babies.
Aww, Torie. Virtual hug and prayers! It's normal and perfectly OK. to cry! There are plenty of us women on this post that have been in your shoes. We are here to support you.❤😊
Thank you so much! ❤
@travisandtorie you're very welcome. Wishing you a wonderful day and many more. 😇❤️🙏🏽
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Lack of sleep will throw everything off. Don't be hard on yourself. Just try to get as much sleep as you can. Eventually, Breeze will sleep alot longer.🙏🏽
Thank you. I will try. ❤
@@travisandtorie 🙏🏽☺️
Praying for total healing!
Thank you! ❤
Hi guys I had two c-sections and because of scar tissue the second one was a little more painful and took longer to heal. When healing the cut tightened and that is why walking is essential and no sudden movements recommended as well. Allow yourself time to heal because it's your second it just may be taking longer, but also only you know your body so it's great to be cautious as well.
Mine is the third one till now Im in so much pain !
Thank you. ❤
@@giadellabaromeo2748 I hope you both feel better very soon.
I had to be cut 2 times for hysterectomy..they left 1 ovary at the 1st one and they had to take the last ovary out 7 yrs later and I also had a grape fruit size tumor out ..I still have pain in my stomach they cut me straight down my stomach on both of them ..I feel for her
Hope you feel better Tori!!!
Thank you! ❤
Torie please be gentle with yourself, & just like you said ride this one out but you may have to take little naps with Breeze during the day to catch up on your sleep, & go to the mall & walk to get your exercise in… just use little adjustments because it’s soo extremely hot outside, Love y’all! ❤❤❤
She can't take a nap unless Winter takes one also.
Well what I mean while her mother is there she can
Thank you for allowing us to be present during your doctor's visit. Talking about your mental health status will help a lot of us. Wien I discussed my mental health with my doctor, I became emotional, but I also felt heard. I now have options in place if I need help. Keep smiling. You got this. Everything takes time for healing and adjustment. Maybe you and Travis can take turns with the kids. You get some sleep while he takes care of the babies, then vice versa. Your babies are beautiful. God Bless
Thank you so much! ❤
It's a part of life. My daughter in law was pregnant with her second when she went for her six weeks check-up.
😢 take care more rest 🙏❤️
Thank you! Will do. ❤
You are so strong Tori and having a husband like Travis for support is great. He is so hands on with the girls. Do get well. Love your family lots.❤❤❤
Torie sit still and recognize what your body just went through. Recognize the SEASON you are in and know this to shall pass!
It's okay Turi
Aww praying for you Torie. From my experience with the lack of sleep, post partum depression and I just couldn't explain or get a handle on my emotions after my 2nd child...it was horrible!!! I went through it for about 4 months and then one day it was just gone!! Please, please, please DO NOT take meds for it. I know it's easier said than done; but how society is today, they want to dope you up for everything!! Please don't do that to your body! Anti-depressant pills heightens suicidal thoughts. DO NOT GET THE MEDS PLEAAASSSSEEEE!!!
Your body is just going through changes getting back to normal. It took 9 months to bake the baby and you're a little older this time. It takes a minute for your hormones to get back together. Trust the process and allow yourself some time. Travis is a great husband and father and he may not get it; but he always empathize with you. God bless you and your family and please just give your body some time to heal and get it's self back together.
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Take care. Just take it easy... Little by little, one day after another, soon you will feel like yourself before
Praying 🙏🙏🙏 that she's okay
Rest is a must so get you some ok we love guys🙏💜🙏
Thank you! ❤
Praying for you guys. Torie get better.
Thank you! ❤
Keloid scarring is the worst. After my appendix surgery, I have several of them and they are extremely uncomfortable and the placement of them is so inconvenient. I cannot imagine what you're going through after them cutting through your belly Torie. Hope that you get some relief.
Yeah, it's hard but I know I'll get through it. Thank you. ❤
Rule of thumb Torie, you need to nap or rest when the kids are sleep. Sending TLC your way. You're doing a great job Mom T!
Thank you, I will. ❤
Yes hoping and praying for total healing Torie 💗
Thank you so much! ❤
@@travisandtorie You're welcome! ❤️
Mental health is so important. I applaud you Torie for sharing and expressing your feelings. Love how supportive you are of each other. Praying your body heals properly. God bless you all 🥰🙏
Thank you so much! God bless you! ❤
Hi Tori my dear🌺please take it slow and easy. I pray your healing will continue to heal you daily in Jesus Name. Travis my son let Tori heal it will be plenty time. The body has to heal. This is in much love. My beautiful couple and girls. Much Grace 🌺🦋🌷
Hugs to you Torie... you made me cry!😪 You are going to be just fine, just going through a new stage in life.
Oh no, I'm sorry I made you cry. Yeah, it's hard but I'll get through it. ❤
WHY AM I SUCH A CRYBABY 🤦🏽♀️ I immediately started tearing up as soon as I seen Tori tearing up🥺...🫂❤️
She’s so beautiful and strong. Tor even the most beautiful and strongest people have their moments
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Torie I understand how you feel. I found the transition from one child to two challenging because you have two children with two separate set of needs. Also not getting enough sleep is a factor as well. I can tell you it does get better. I also found that exercising really helps with depression. Because you’ve just had major surgery you might not be able to do intense workouts but moderate activity will do the trick. Also getting your hair done like you mentioned etc will make you feel great!
Torie, get you some Castor Oil Packs, it will reduce the scaring. And pain hopefully.
Yeah, it's hard but I know I'll get through it. Thank you. ❤
Mom, dad, enjoy the ride. Pray and continue to be thankful to God for your beautiful babies. Heal well Torie in Jesus name 🙏 ❤
It's okay sweetheart, everything is in God's hands. I love you guys so much❤❤😊!!!
Hi beautiful family Torie you got this just get some rest if you need extra help just call mom she will be right there. Love you guys. ❤
Tori Travis healing has begun take care get some rest when u can😢ok to cry u human. Much 💙 always.
Hello tand t family and winter and baby breeze. TORIE I hope you feel better soon. You have a strong and supportive husband that loves you and will be there for you. Torie it will get better soon one day at a time also prayer helps a lot . Blessings.❤❤
Thanks for sharing this very emotional time. Torie feel better. You and Travis are great to share with us
Greetings to all. Torie I'm praying for your healing, restoration and breakthrough. Just trust in God for your healing.
Travis is a very caring, understanding/supportive husband.
Oh, Torie. God bless you, Sweetie. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You are so precious. By sharing this doctor visit, you are doing such a service to other moms in this situation. I hope you feel better soon. Never apologize for showing your emotions. That transparency and vulnerability are rare nowadays.
I pray you feel better Torie. 🙌🏾 Breeze has that Supersonic hearing , Oh my gosh your babies are so adorable.🥰
Thank you so much 🤗
@travisandtorie You're absolutely welcome ,I'm a Prayer Warrior. 🥰
Praying for a speedy recovery Torie.❤️
Praying for you Torie.. Torie every mom going through even single mom or no kids we all going through emotional every day that why trust in Lord with everything. Put your trust in God. Let us know if you preg again maybe baby 3 Princess Winter knock out cold. Princess Breeze cute.. try breath in and out and take. Cool shower.Have a blessing week. Love you guys. Namaste 🙏 ❤❤❤❤
Prayers sending,hope you feel better soon Tori ❤
Thank you! ❤
The best way to tell if it's a mental health disruption or being sleep deprived is to try to get more sleep/rest for a week, then see if you feel better. Get better Torie, we're rooting for you!! 🤗💛
🙏🙏🙏🙏 for healing get alot of rest it's probably a surprise for another.
Torie, I'm praying for your recovery. With your strong support system, i am sure that you will be fine. ❤ 🙏
Thank you so much!
Torie, I am praying for a speedy recovery, and hope for you all the best. And I sure that all will be OK. ❤❤❤.God loves you and so do I..
You went from one to two. Its real. Your body is still healing. It takes time to heal from surgery inside and out. Hormones are trying to regulate after birth. Don't forget to take care of yourself. Try to get rest when you can...I pray that you feel better...
I hope you start to feel better soon. My prayers to you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you! ❤
It's normal to embrace every feeling because your feelings are valid!❤
Thank you. ❤
Love you guys, and I am praying that everything works out for Torie. Beautiful family. God bless 😊❤❤
You're right in letting the doctor know your mental status. It happens sometimes. I had it and took the meds, which didn't help me.
I got better on my own. I had to get adjusted to the new baby and going back to work. Stay on top of your health. 😇😊
❤take care, praying you feel better soon ❤
Thank you so much! I appreciate it. 🙏
Get whatever help you need and remember that, this too shall pass, soon it will only be a memory. Though it's difficult, cherish this time, before you know it, Winter and Breeze will be graduating from high school. lol You guys are great parents and are doing a much better job than I did when I was a new parent. I hope you feel better soon and I will keep all of you in my prayers. Dad, Hold on, I know it's difficult for you also, watching your wife go through and trying to hold the whole family together. You are doing great. I wish every new mother had a man like you in their corner. Great job guys!!
Yeah, it's hard but I know I'll get through it. Thank you. ❤
Torie I am praying 🙏 that u start feeling better. Just take it easy after having a C- section so ur body can completely heal. You are a wonderful mother. ❤❤❤
Prayers for you Tori. Everything will be aĺright. You are still in the healling process but it will be alright. ❤
Torie, I'm sending you hugs 🤗 , love ❤️ and prayers 🙏🏿. God is Able Always. Just Forus, you got this.
Torie I'm so surprised that you was up and walking around as normal after a C section so not surprised that it's hurting. When people have that they can't move for days. I know there is no limit as such but it's recommended only have 3 kids by C as this can later cause problems. Did you choose to have C section or have you got a medical reason why you cannot deliver especially the fact you ssid you want upto 10, it will become more difficult to heal after just 3, if you cant cope now what you gonna do with 10. Well how can anyone do jiggy jiggy after a short time after C section even 6 weeks its too early.
Torrie don't be so hard on yourself. I been through the same thing. So hard but I needed therapy. Also My Mom was a great help too. My husband was amazing like Travis and was so worried while at work. God bless you and the family.
I hope Torie you feel better. 🙏
Thank you ❤
Sweetie ive had 3 csections & my last csection was 29 years ago. Mine still hurts.
Oh no! So sorry. 😮
Hi Travis and Torie, thank you for the vlog. Torie, it is quite common to feel depressed after giving birth due to hormonal imbalance. You are also trying to balance caring for a newborn and a toddler. You should start feeling better in a couple of weeks when you get more sleep. Make sure to pay attention to your diet. Try to take some time for yourself, and please do not try to be a super mom. Also, when Winter makes a mess playing with her toys, you can start teaching her to put them back in the toy box. You are the parents to two beautiful daughters. God bless and keep you all safe and healthy. All the best!!!!
GOD is going to work it out! I became single when I got pregnant with my second baby! I had to do it ALL for myself. 23 yrs ago, I was a single mom with a two year old son and a new born baby son! GOD seen me though! I will definitely keep you in my prayers!
Hey there, Torie, Travis, Winter and Baby Breeze! I’m so sorry you’re feeling blue and emotional, Torie. I pray that you get to feeling better and more like your regular bubbly self. It’ll take time so don’t beat yourself up. I just looked up the phrase Red Letter Day and it comes from the Medieval Times; holidays were always written out in red on calendars, especially the first letter that was written bigger than the other letters. I didn’t know that either so thanks for inquiring. Yay!! ❤️
Thank so much! I appreciate it. ❤ Oh and thanks for looking that up about the Red Letter Day! I didn't know that.
I love this so much, good medical information. Also, take note passionate young people!😄❤ Amazing job Doctor! Thank you for sharing your beautiful family, may God bless you both!😍🥰🥰😍🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
Praying for you Torie & it’s okay to cry! Things will get better God is so good! 🥰❤️🙏
Amen. Thank you so much! I appreciate it. 🙏
I have 6 kids.please get sleep.I never asked for help with anything.im not ok.Im only 44 and on odsp not good please take fantastic care of yourself too. You are absolutely amazing mom.from leamington ont Canada 🇨🇦. I wish you all the best in life. You have a fantastic husband. My husband did not help me with the kids. He always said that 🐈 and 🐕 have babies all the time. So stop wasting my time 😢
Praying for complete healing trust Most High God!
Thank you so much! I appreciate it. 🙏
@ hope ! You feel better........
Take it easy Travis ! Feeling his cheerios...
❤️ TORI & TRAVIS ❤️
Don't ride it out. I have taken Lexapro before and it worked immediately and just made me feel relax. Remember what you go through affects you and your family. Too this day I take a low dose prescription for anxiety. Fix Breeze a bottle of milk with a little baby cereal in it. It will help her sleep longer. God bless you.
My mom had 5 kids back to back. 1 and 2 10 months apart, 2 and 3 12 months apart 3 and 4 11 months apart 4 and 5 16 months apart.
Praying for you sending nothing but love ❤❤❤
I had postpartum after my 2nd son for 6 to 12 months all I did was cry, but it does get better I promise. God bless you all.
You are a strong cookie....❤ Still putting your family first. Praying 🙏 for you guys.
I’m new to your channel, you have a beautiful family . Just for the record very few couples wait the whole 6-8 weeks, so don’t feel bad. I suffered from depression after giving birth to all my children and I never told anyone because I felt a new baby should be a happy occasion and people would judge me for not being ecstatic and happy.
I understand ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! Yeah, that's how I'm feeling. I know I'll get through it, though. 😊
Torie mental health after childbirth is very real!! I had postpartum after my 2nd baby 26 years ago. Antidepressants were a new thing. It was very difficult. You take care of you mumma!! This is not about “poor me!” Truth matters!! Sending you hugs. ❤
Thanks so much!
Torie is like one of my daughter. God has blessed with her and her blessing hasn't ended, only just began. I say this before I watch the video because I have faith in God and I believe in his healing power. He has all power. GOD PLEASE YOU GIRL. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for being vulnerable & showing what women go through. Take care of yourself. Love ya ❤
You are so welcome! Love you! ❤
We love you Tori❤so hang in there and we’re praying for you and the family ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!
Torie take care of yourself. Thank you so much for being up front and open about your mental health. You are helping so many women by opening up and talking about this. I'm so proud of you.. I'm 65 now we wasn't open back then about our mental health after having babies. We had nothing to go on as far as talking to someone professional. Sure mother nature takes care of itself as far as our hormones leveling off, but it so good to see women getting the right questions asked and follow-ups, making sure you're getting the help you need until you're back to being yourself. God Bless You.
Thank you so much! That means a lot. ❤
Thank you for saying this ❤❤❤
Torie, have your own experience per the meds. We all respond differently to antidepressants, and it may very possibly make YOU feel much better. You can not listen to others' negative experiences. I pray that you feel better, whatever you decide.❤
I’ve had three C-Sections. They don’t tell you about the pain of the incisions and scar tissue. Even years later, my scar will weirdly thump like the nerves jump. It’s just weird.
I hope that Winter & Breeze’s very cute Mom knows it’s ok to cry & vent. You have a toddler and a newborn and that’s a lot. Add sleep deprivation on top of that and there is no wonder you’re a little blue. You’re mental health is so major. Never be ashamed to talk about it with professionals who can help you work through your blues. I hope the abdominal pain eases. See you all next time. God Bless.
Thank you so much! It means a lot. ❤
Cause men don"t have to go threw pain, take care God Bless! 💙
If you can avoid the drug please do. You are very strong but if there is any way you can get some help for a lil while please do. And it's okay to cry let it out always. Love you
Prayers 🙏
I hope everything is alright 🙏🏿 prayers for you Torie
Thank you! ❤
Hope you feel better Torie.🌺💐❤️
Awe. Torie big hugs and prayers hubby I know you're there for her give her more hugs and body massage and feet rubs
To keep her feeling loved and special
Big blessings to the both of you.
Prayers for you and your family, Torie ❤!! Stay blessed and safe 🙏🏾
Thank you, we will! ❤
All will be well! Keep talking with hubby about your feelings.
Thank you, I will. 😊
Thank you Torie and Travis for letting us in it's not always easy ❤❤❤
You're very welcome. We want to be as open and honest as possible. ❤
Aww Torrie feel better 💕. l understand how u feel. I went through the same thing. It's called baby blues. U just had a little one. I went through post partum depression. Thank God 4 my mom, & family helping me out. My family prayed & encouraged me. Go treat yourself because u deserve it 😊. Hang in there luv ❤️ u guys 👍 ok.
I'm praying for you and you take a moment and talk to the Lord he will help you all threw it all it is gonna be alright keep looking up.
From watching you guys videos, and from what I am seeing you are a great mom . you guys are great parents and partners. I had a hysterectomy 16 years ago and I still feel the scar once in a while because it’s just nerves. And lately when I get depressed I do a lot of meditation try doing a lot of meditation on your downtime when you can and believe me, it works. And try doing some reading books. You will be okay. I love you guys. No medication.
Aw, thanks so much! I know it will get better. I've never tried meditation. Might have to do that. Thanks for the advice. Love you. ❤
Prayers to you everything will work out. I had a C-Section also 39 yrs. The BEST advice my sister gave me was be normal and act normal in your household get the baby use to noise and they will sleep through EVERYTHING!
Prayers for you Torie, you've got this Sweetheart!! Once you develop some type of schedule at the house with taking care of the girls with getting rest it will get better!!❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
IT WILL BE ALL RIGHT! PRAY AND TRUST GOD!! TORIE I 'M PRAYING FOR YOU. HUGS, MILDRED
I wish I could hug you. You will be ok at some point. Childbirth is not easy. Hang in there Torie. ❤
Aw, you're sweet. Thank you! ❤
No medication for the blues. Just give yourself time to heal. You have a loving family. That's a blessing.
Hi torie, it’s normal how you feeling . It’s part of postpartum anxiety. I suffered with depression after my last child who is now 36 years old . Try to ride it out without meds it’s better for your mental long term health. If you get more sleep and try walking it helps . I will be praying for you and the family. I really admire you guys .
Hi Tori? Am Lilliane from Uganda (Africa) I really feel what you're going through about mummy blues but all will be well. My advise is, be patient and take one day at a time, surround your self with positivity even if you get a chance of watching TV, avoid watching bad or very emotional programs as that will prolong your healing & have as much sleep as you can. You're very lucky that you have a good supporting system especially your husband coz he's an immediate person you can easily talk to in case of anything & above all, don't take any medication; just let the body heal it's self. Otherwise my love to those sweet little Angels. Stay blessed.
IT SHALL BE WELL, IT IS WELL BELOVED. DON'T WORRY PLEASE.
Aw Torie! You're beautiful with or without your hair being done!❤
Praying that everything is ok🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you so much! I appreciate it. 🙏
You were so honest and open which helped a lot of people. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💖💖💖
Prayers that she okay hang in there day by day thanks for sharing your vlogs with us all amen love kristal regina Saskatchewan huge fan of yours awesome kids number one vlogs