Frugal???? Frugal??? the F_ing wedding was $69000 and he payed half of it. No frugal person does that. The only crazy thing was the episode with the cake. Which I suppose was a stupid thing done for TV....
@@potocatepetl Did not see that 69k so he is a bit of a nutcase and the daughter is still incredibly disrespectful. I am sure that he was not happy to spend that much and was likely hounded by the daughter and wife... The incident with the ring was gold digging behavior and her fiance gave in. I don't give the marriage good odds. I also will guess that she will settle for nothing less than a luxury car when they go shopping.
That’s exactly what happened to my 2 sisters & I!!! Dad offered the budget, what was left was ours. My baby sister & I had tiny weddings & had honeymoon cash left over. My other sister & husband-to-be went to City Hall with their 2 best friends….then bought their first home!! 👍🏼
That's what I wish we would have done. My dad said he had 5k (almost 30yrs ago) to elope or have a wedding. We should have gotten married on the beach and had a fabulous honeymoon.
To be fair, I turned 18 4days before we got married. So I was too young and dumb. I just had to have a wedding. Now when we renew our vows in 2023 for our 30th. It WILL be on the beach
@@trishharris8806 No regrets- you made a very sensible decision for an 18 year-old and you should be proud of yourself. So glad you and your husband are finally having the wedding you deserve for your 30th Anniversary. How exciting! Make sure you have a phenomenal honeymoon to do with it!
That’s what I did. I gave my daughters a budget for their dresses they stayed pretty close to, and a check towards the wedding. Grooms families helped out too. Beyond that? Welcome to the real world.
Karen Wink. Yes good suggestion, bc there were moments that it got ugly & sad. Groom/husband, at the end sorry Larry, to estimate $3800, was ridiculous, classless, including the bride.
Where I’m from you pay with your own money. I’m from Puerto Rico and parents do help maybe the cake or the hall but the wedding itself it’s paid by the bride and the groom.
As parents of a daughter , we saved for a wedding since she was born. If she didn't want a wedding, the money is hers anyway. NOT OURS. It's HER dream, not ours. Anything less from a parent is not nice or responsible or respectful. Period. Even putting away $10 a week over 25 years is a lot of money. Shame on the parents that don't pay for their daughter's wedding. No excuse.
that's what I'm talking about...everybody is on 70 000 and how much it is, and how they spent 1500$ on their wedding, but I never ever saw 350 guests wedding🙈🙈🙈even the sandiches make it expensive. this poor couple couldn't cut back the number of the guests as those weren't their guests after all...all daddys people🤦♀️🤦♀️
those are her dad's guests I'm betting, given how attached he was to the big venue. I'll pay for the wedding but invite all of my employees/colleagues/relatives and hence my daughter has to do everything else on the cheap. She seemed perfectly fine about going to a small venue and cutting the numbers.
I never understand the cake battle. You order an extra sheet cake, frosted but undecorated. I catered for 30 years . No one knows if they are getting the showy cake or the sheet cake. Save a few hundred dollars easily.
The dress was nice, so what if it was borrowed? The cake was outrageous.... but bride was also ridiculous. The way she was arguing for the ring went out the window when *she* was paying. Two peas in a pod. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
@@lolalopez7657 i agree the tone was off, sometimes i put that off to dramatisation for the show. I know i could be wrong. Either way, she looked good in the dress, so at least she was not "forced" into a monstrosity. But overall, groom was obnoxious in so many other ways the dress paled into the background.
I can understand that dad wanted to stick to a budget. I gave ( my husband died of brain cancer when our children were young, our daughter was in the second grade) my daughter $11, 100.00 dollars and told her that was what I could afford , anything above that she would have to pay for it. She was thankful and everything just fell in place she stuck to the budget with one exception……. she paid for her own gown and it was beautiful. This dad probably has given this child any thing she wanted growing up and was creating a monster in the process. I would have given her the budget and told her that anything above the budget would be paid for by her . I would then stand firm.!!
Yes! I agree 100%. The Parents are TOTALLY to Blame for allowing her to be a Whingeing Brat. She Needs to learn Respect and STOP being RUDE to her Parents.
Her dad is a bit of a jerk though. You don't give a gift and then harp on and on about how much it costs and what strings are attached. He needs to listen to her
@@cdr3986 She had this fantasy in her head about her wedding. She's a bit spoilt but nowhere near as bad as her father. If he'd given her some rope then the wedding band issue may not have escalated. When she really wanted something she paid for it herself. All those extra people will be his guests and she has to compromise because of that. If he offered to pay it is not a green light to invite whoever.
I can understand whoever is paying should make sure they stick to the budget, although they don't have to micromanage everything. Larry didn't have to pick out the dress he just needs to say this is all you get, anything you go over is on you to pay
That's when the realities of life slap you up side the head ..... when you want, what you want, when and how you want it ..... and have to pay your own way to get it that way. Suddenly your brain shifts into gear and sends the message to your mouth ..."Oh, no. That's too expensive."
@@ayla9905 But it is his money to withdrawal. There are limits after all. Daddy is not a bottomless ATM. Guess she learned something from this exercise in money management ..... make that "your" money management.
Its important to our economy that people can plan a wedding, customize their theme, and not be overcharged by price gouging. Leviticus 19:35 Creating a variety of honest paying jobs so our children can get out of sin.
One thing that stands out to me is that Larry never cared about what his wife was saying. It's very strange that they are a couple where only he gets to make financial decisions.
The only thing I 110% agree on with this bride is she should of had her OWN wedding dress! That is the MAIN part of a brides wedding and for the dad to force her to BORROW a friends wedding gown was absolutely uncalled for😢
And the reception hall is a package so includes set up, clean up, tables, chairs, a catering kitchen, parking, several important items for your big day. Depending on the reception hall, you have to verify what is included in the package.
I think the dad should’ve given her $25k for the wedding and let her & the groom do what they want with the money then once they spend it, they spent it 🤷🏻♀️
I thought He was splitting that with the grooms parents. In my opinion, they have to big a guest count to try to be cheap. They need to cut the guest count
I reserved a wedding chapel, flowers, cake, invitations and wedding dress all on my own. I believe to this day it was My responsibility to get what I could afford.
I don't know about frugal. But he didn't try and listen to her. Like I thought he should have let her have her dress. I know she wanted all this extra stuff but the way he went about it was ridiculous
65,000 is too much for a wedding. Cut the number of guests. Don’t blame your father young lady or ladies, you are spoiled. You may be the daughter but he has a right to say how much to spend. You work, you pay for the rest. I know people who spent so many thousands for the wedding and then DIVORCED 🤦♀️
I don't think she is entitled I mean come on this is every like girls dream is her wedding and her decorations and flowers and cake. Of course she is gonna want it to look exactly how she has dreamed of it. Her father is just a cheap skate did you hear him say it's their wedding as his and his daughter now man this is your daughter and financee wedding u just write the checks and pay for what she wants. This ain't about her dad. I think your wedding day is the one day as a woman we can feel that wanted feeling having everything perfect and that is the one day everything is about us
@@heatherquinones5482 , bunch of crap. If you want all those nice things because it's your wedding, then you should pay for it yourself. Don't expect other people to pay for it and still have everything your way. How the fuck is $65,000 budget being cheap?
Spoiled and entitled bride. She is old enough and so is the groom to pay for "what SHE wants". I feel if parents want to help, give the kids the money and say "No more" spend it how you want and if you need more, bride and groom pay for it!.
@@rlast4698 I can't Agree with Your Reply. Because of the Embarassing on TV Situation this Bride was Placed in. Her Father Knows that Every Bride Needs a Wonderful Wedding Dress. Not buying his Daughter a Wedding Dress was more About Control. If I remember correctly the dad spent $65,000. on the Wedding. For what??? To Show Off to the Guests. But too Cheap to Buy a Very Affordable, $1700 Wedding Dress. Go back and See how the dad was Willing to spend $600. Altering the Brides Friends Dress. which Ruined the Custom Made Wedding Dress for the Original Purchaser, now not true to size. Also the Bride had no Wedding Dress of Her Own to Retain the Memory. Or to Show a Future Daughter. The dad is Just Controlling and CHEAP. IT IS WHAT IT IS. THE FACTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES!!! I Definitely would have Eloped.
65,000 for a wedding? Super crazy. Take the money and buy a house. It amazes me how much these weddings costs. On the other hand Jewish weddings traditionally give $$$ for gifts. Say average gift is $300.00 per couple that equals $105,000 in gifts. We paid for our own wedding had 125 guests total cost 8,000. 8 piece live band. I rented my dress for $300.00 it was brand new. I was the temple administrator I pulled alot of favors because I refer brides and grooms to these vendors. Used temple hall at n/c. Rented mini trees with twinkle lights at 25.00 per piece We planned everything together. It wS my 2nd marriage and husband's 1st. My inlaws paid for rehearsal dinner in beautiful restaurant. My feeling is weddings are about enjoying your loved ones good food alit of booze and not spending for stupid things that nobody cares about.
they invited too many people. I only want to invite close friends and family that's all. All those other people are not important to me at all. Why would I want to spend all this money on people I don't care about?
@@tinjmail Surely her original choice of venue would have had to refuse to accept a booking for so many guests. They would have been jeopardising their OWN Health & Safety Regulations - besides the LEGAL requirements. If Dad had agreed to HER CHOICE of venue, his problem of cost would have been solved immediately - BY THE VENUE FORCING THE REDUCTION OF THE NUMBER OF GUESTS ;).
@@tinjmailOur plan too. We wanted the wedding to be fun, not some showpiece. We had a DJ and even he got up and started dancing😁 - and no dollar dances!
Bride is so entitled and ungrateful. I hope they were just playing up the arguments for the camera otherwise I would tell the groom to run away as fast as he could.
It does look like bad acting at times. But they both suck. The father can stick his money where the sun don't shine and the daughter can get a job and pay her own way.
His parents also paid half, so I think Larry just likes to be in control. Borrowed dress, slab cake, and awful centerpieces... what the heck. He never said he couldn't afford the cost, just that he didn't want to pay it. At age 20, I paid for my own and still had minor issues to work out with parents. Good luck you two.
Hilarious Dad..I used to work weddings at a banquet venue that fit up to 2000+ guests. The most expensive weddings were not better than less costly ones ..
I'd tell Larry, "If your money means so much to you, keep your money. All of it. Goodbye." And then pay for the wedding that I could afford with a radically shortened guest list.
Thank you for being one of the few people who understand the parents are filling up the guest list and not the couple. The couple is not the one inviting over 350 guests.
what did the grooms parent's pay for. They're responsible for some of the expenses. The Bride and Groom could chip in to since it's their wedding. The wedding cake looked awful. I think all the tables should have had the low centerpieces and the Bride and Groom could have cut the guest list down. I hate to see what happens when they have kids. It's always good to stay on budget. Maybe the kids could have paid for the overage out of their own pockets.
@@joycepino9749 ad dad didn't complain about the amount of guests, I suspect he wanted that many. My father was Italian and he wanted to invite all the people I didn't even know to my 21st.
I dont understand why these couples are relying so much on their parents for their wedding. When dream weddings are not affordable, it's time to wake up and make do with what can fit the budget.
I got married at 40 and it was at the courthouse. Going on 20 yrs. Love our home. Thank goodness I was raised by sensible parents. On our 20th Anniversary we plan on renting a gown and tux for a wedding picture. Inexpensive and nice💜
I agree that you don't spend a ridiculous amount on 1 day but how do you have a wedding for a 1k? My wedding came out to 13k, my husband and I paid for it ....
How are they shallow and entitled? There where 350 guest! If anything they where frugal calculating everything making sure they didn’t go over budget. Not everyone has to spend 1k to not be shallow.
Kids should pay for their own wedding and then they can make all the decisions. I wonder if Larry is being cheap or maybe he really can’t afford what Princess wants.
Cheap, and Controlling, He wouldn't even buy a Wedding Dress. People will Talk about that for Years. Imagine Spending All that Money 💰 and Not Buying Your Beautiful, Beloved Daughter a $1700 Wedding Dress. Without Consideration for the Woman who Loaned her Dress. Which had to be altered. So His Inconsiderate, Cheap Attitude, Ruined Her Custom Made Wedding Dress.
I don't see why the bride cannot kick in on the budget so her voice can be stronger. I would let the parents spend their part and pay for my own upgrades that way we can all be happy.
I thought she was so demanding, not at all grateful to her father who was spending a great deal of money on her wedding. It was all her hysterically claiming "It's MY wedding" every time there was a query about cost. Yes it was her wedding but she wasn't paying for it, so she should have gone along peacefully with her father and been pleasant instead of being so rude. When you have a budget that's it - where was he supposed to find extra thousands of dollars for all the fancy extras she wanted? She doesn't realise that is money that he could have used in his retirement himself, or for hospital bills or a holiday, no, she was just determined and set on getting all she could and not thinking of her father at all.
My dad played golf in my wedding and showed up on time and never asked any questions about what I wanted or what my mom made by or anything this is crazy
No the dad and husband are ridiculously stingy and a couple of Scrooge's it's the one day she gets for her special day and they won't even let her have that it's HER day not her Dads
Ok she’s definitely over the top on certain things but one thing I’ll give her, I don’t agree with borrowing the wedding dress, every bride should have their own dress.
I had a fairly big cake. Keep in mind, the top tier is frozen for your 1st anniversary celebration. Our guests ate a lot of food. We ran out of hors d'oeuvres, but the main meal was close afterwards. We had ordered a lot of tasty food. In the end we only had the top tier of the wedding cake, & some chicken leftover. I was surprised at how much was actually eaten.
I’m wondering if this bride has spent her whole life being told no - never getting what she really wanted. On her big day, she wants everything she ever wanted.
This definitely is staged! There is no way a grown adult woman would wear a friend's wedding dress. Just go get married at the courts. This is ridiculously cheap.
Maybe...or maybe some cultures think that weddings are more social events than personal events. They could have cut the guest list, it would a lot more budget, however, they didn't. I guess they they really value these 350.
if you want all these nice things, then pay for it yourself!!! Stop expecting other people to pay for what you want. $65,000 budget! That is a lot of money for many people.
I’ve watched three episodes of this show and this is the one and only bride that I’m 100% on her side!!!! I feel so bad for her and having to deal with her father taking all wedding decisions on by himself and never anything like what she wants. I mean she’s actually pretty responsible about what she wants, I hope by her wedding day this all comes together!
@@rojamillerover If she wanted something she should have paid for it herself!! The only thing was the cake and when SHE had to pay, the smaller one was good enough. But, she did only had to put a few hundred for the dress. I would have gotten a cheaper dress that was all mine…
I’m glad she had viewers on her side because I definitely felt she was reprehensible. If either of my daughters had acted like this, I would know with certainty I had failed as a mother.
Larry may be a budget tyrant but but he sort of has to with his demanding daughter, he was right on the venue: it was too small for the number of guests. If the parents are paying they are also having a very large voice in the final decisions. If I were in her shoes I would be acquiescent on those things that weren't all that important: especially the venue because this is the high ticket item. I would focus on what is most important: my own wedding dress [not designer] and I would pay for it myself [not dad or SO]. I think if she had been more agreeable dad would have loosened the purse strings but instead she make a battle 'this is the hill I die on' about everything thus dad is constantly on the defense. I think these two bring out the worst in each other especially since her dad is paying for the wedding he feels entitled to have the final say on everything. The bride is being unreasonable about her wedding rings. The diamond band she wants is often gift the husband gives the wife on the birth of their first child. The other option she had was to buy 2 plain bands to encircle her engagement ring which would have given it a unique look.
I wonder whose guest list it was? I feel like if most of the guests are invited by the parents and not the couple, then the parents should help more. (Although Larry did contribute a large amount. Much larger than my wedding!)
The bride gets her unreasonable stubbornness from her father. I understand that she should pay for why ever she wants extra. But the father OFFERED to pay for the wedding and is using that to try to control her. Why does he care? Just give her the the money you are comfortable with and tell her any extras are on her. Everyone is happy that way.
If want something special for your wedding. Get out your piggy bank. Most parents have budgets. It's life. You'll find out more as you grow. Mine was $500 with dress, suit, cake food, flowers and more. It was perfect!
Totally agree....just elope. Plus put a lot of distance between your Dad and yourself. Can you imagine when a child comes along. Larry will be loads of fun.
This is the closest to on budget I've seen. Father is a tough negotiator but kept them pretty close to budget and still spent a lot of money! Can't get over what people spend but it's all relative I guess. Wish this couple joy and a new washing machine!
I think the dad is a pain. I understand there’s a budget but he argues with her the whole way. He’s driving me 😜 crazy. Now on the other side, she needs to compromise on some things to. She didn’t need a $1400.00 ring right now. Mercy! P.S. The 🍎 apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
My fiancé and I are having an extravagant wedding and paying for it 100% for ourselves. I can’t believe people would expect parents to pay for a wedding. A gift is nice but this is ridiculous.
Our daughter and her fiancé were both finishing up their medical residencies a few months before their wedding. We know how hard they had been working on their careers for the last 12 years and we wanted to celebrate that. We gave them a check, it was a substantial amount, and they were grateful for every penny. It was up to them to make it work. We did offer to add to the amount towards the end, but they refused it. They were determined to figure it out. It was an amazing wedding, so magical. We are so proud of them.
So glad we paid $150 and paid an officiant to marry us! Took my kids and they were happy to take pictures, granted it was our 2nd wedding but it was oh so wonderful!!!
I have always heard that when planning a budget wedding you pick three things that you want well done. For this bride, it would be dress, venue, and probably cake.
Okay, my take SO far... I agree 100% on Dad arguing about the venue, for that many guests, I did the math and that's $60,000!! Even with both sets of parent's splitting, that's still $30,000! Does that INCLUDE FOOD & drinks or JUST the venue?? Now with the wedding dress, he really needs to buy her HER WEDDING DRESS, NOT A HAND ME DOWN! The cake, as long as its hgood quality, I don't see an issue with store bought. I had a cake from Walmart for mine & it was beautiful & delicious
This was so so awkward watching this episode. I have a headache and need to de-stress after watching this wedding. The Bride was so so unappreciative. She was so so lucky to receive this wedding. Lucky girl. Her Dad was a bit rude. The Bride should of paid more and she would of got her own dress. That jacket was hideous. How nice was her friend to give it to her and let her do alterations.
There are certain things we do not know. They have 350 people. That seems a lot. Maybe 250 are the parents guests, not the couples. In that case the parents ahould definitely pay for the people they want to be invited.
the bride does not understand that you can not fit 350 people plus is a space for 150 that is suppose to be for a sit down dinner. Just because she likes it.
If she was so concerned about having a Jewish wedding, the traditional requirements are 1. a contract, or ketubah, 2. a ring or something of a certain value, 3. a canopy, and 4. witnesses to sign the document. All the rest is window dressing for a party, and this Bridezilla is an embarrassment. Oh yes: I borrowed my first wedding dress, had it in an elegant venue which had sentimental meaning for both of us, and we had various entertainers perform (I had been a ballet teacher for years, and a ballet pas de deux from Romeo & Juliet was a dream come true.) But the priority for us was to have a celebration, which was paid for by both of us, and the only thing we accepted from my parents was to pay for a photographer. We enjoyed the big party, and I am positive my ring was a plain gold band, which thrilled me. I also bought my groom a plain gold band. We were told the wedding was unique, represented us as well as included the traditional religious elements, and most were surprised by the uniqueness of all our personal elements.
My inlaws gave us a budget of $2500 18 years ago when I got married. (Left him 11 years ago) - when all added up - we got it done with nearly $500 change. So it really only cost us $2k Australian. It was a brilliant day - one thing I will NEVER regret about that relationship. It can be done on a shoestring budget, and you can still have a blast!
This is where the parents if willing to contribute to the wedding hand the bride and groom whatever amount that is and let the bride and groom spend it, if they run out of money, oh well! Force them to work it on a budget, give them X amount and that's it
I am in the process of planning my wedding. Me and my fiance have paid for 100% of the cost of everything. Getting my parents to pay was never a consideration.
We’re getting exactly nothing off other people for our upcoming wedding. Up to us to budget and get the best we can for our budget. Also we don’t know 300 people 😂
When you start talking weddings with your partner, start saving every penny you can. Forget about the tradition of the bride's parents paying for the wedding, talk between yourselves what you both would like on the big day save to that goal. Once you are near target then tell your parents that you are getting married and YOUR plans. If they want to contribute then great but you don't have to be blackmailed into having a wedding that they want.
Yes the Father is frugal to the extreme... but the daughter is lacking in any consideration of other people's money. And she is incredibly rude.
And acts spoilt, maybe she should pay something towards the dress she wants..
Same as the groom
Frugal???? Frugal??? the F_ing wedding was $69000 and he payed half of it. No frugal person does that. The only crazy thing was the episode with the cake. Which I suppose was a stupid thing done for TV....
@@potocatepetl Did not see that 69k so he is a bit of a nutcase and the daughter is still incredibly disrespectful. I am sure that he was not happy to spend that much and was likely hounded by the daughter and wife... The incident with the ring was gold digging behavior and her fiance gave in. I don't give the marriage good odds. I also will guess that she will settle for nothing less than a luxury car when they go shopping.
@@potocatepetl the wedding was 70K???? I’m gobsmacked.
Skip the wedding ! Take all the money and go buy a house !
That’s exactly what happened to my 2 sisters & I!!! Dad offered the budget, what was left was ours. My baby sister & I had tiny weddings & had honeymoon cash left over. My other sister & husband-to-be went to City Hall with their 2 best friends….then bought their first home!! 👍🏼
That's what I wish we would have done. My dad said he had 5k (almost 30yrs ago) to elope or have a wedding. We should have gotten married on the beach and had a fabulous honeymoon.
Buyva house
To be fair, I turned 18 4days before we got married. So I was too young and dumb. I just had to have a wedding. Now when we renew our vows in 2023 for our 30th. It WILL be on the beach
@@trishharris8806 No regrets- you made a very sensible decision for an 18 year-old and you should be proud of yourself. So glad you and your husband are finally having the wedding you deserve for your 30th Anniversary. How exciting! Make sure you have a phenomenal honeymoon to do with it!
Why not just give the bridal couple the budget $ in cash and when it’s gone it’s gone. Reality sets in.
Enuf said
A great excercise
That’s what I did. I gave my daughters a budget for their dresses they stayed pretty close to, and a check towards the wedding. Grooms families helped out too. Beyond that? Welcome to the real world.
He is a control freak and will try to control them always
Karen Wink. Yes good suggestion, bc there were moments that it got ugly & sad. Groom/husband, at the end sorry Larry, to estimate $3800, was ridiculous, classless, including the bride.
My feeling exactly!
As a parent myself, I am set to give my kids a certain amount of money and if they want to go over then they have to pay for it themselves.
I hope mine put it on a mortgage rather than a day.
Me too.
@@Me-pe8tq agreed
That’s what I did. It worked out great.
Where I’m from you pay with your own money. I’m from Puerto Rico and parents do help maybe the cake or the hall but the wedding itself it’s paid by the bride and the groom.
This is why you save up money so you two can pay for your own wedding.
So selfish
Yes ....
yeah and the ring that you like
Agreed. I couldn't handle this level of control over my wedding. I would rather wait or have a smaller one.
As parents of a daughter , we saved for a wedding since she was born. If she didn't want a wedding, the money is hers anyway. NOT OURS. It's HER dream, not ours. Anything less from a parent is not nice or responsible or respectful. Period. Even putting away $10 a week over 25 years is a lot of money. Shame on the parents that don't pay for their daughter's wedding. No excuse.
300-350 guests ?? You could serve sandwiches and it would still be expensive. Cut back the guest list and have the wedding you want
Wow isn’t that the truth!! That’s a lot of guests!
It probably isn't the couple's guests. Most likely this is the parents inviting everyone in the family.
that's what I'm talking about...everybody is on 70 000 and how much it is, and how they spent 1500$ on their wedding, but I never ever saw 350 guests wedding🙈🙈🙈even the sandiches make it expensive.
this poor couple couldn't cut back the number of the guests as those weren't their guests after all...all daddys people🤦♀️🤦♀️
those are her dad's guests I'm betting, given how attached he was to the big venue. I'll pay for the wedding but invite all of my employees/colleagues/relatives and hence my daughter has to do everything else on the cheap. She seemed perfectly fine about going to a small venue and cutting the numbers.
I never understand the cake battle. You order an extra sheet cake, frosted but undecorated. I catered for 30 years . No one knows if they are getting the showy cake or the sheet cake. Save a few hundred dollars easily.
No one will know about the cake agree about that but everyone will know about the hand me down dress
Larry lost me at the hand me down Wedding dress and grocery store cake.
Yeah, that was crazy!
The dress was nice, so what if it was borrowed?
The cake was outrageous.... but bride was also ridiculous. The way she was arguing for the ring went out the window when *she* was paying. Two peas in a pod. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
@@moimeself1088 to force someone to borrow a wedding dress and control every aspect of the wedding and that ridiculous cake? It was just too much.
@@lolalopez7657 i agree the tone was off, sometimes i put that off to dramatisation for the show. I know i could be wrong. Either way, she looked good in the dress, so at least she was not "forced" into a monstrosity.
But overall, groom was obnoxious in so many other ways the dress paled into the background.
@@moimeself1088 , I agree with you. They all seemed obnoxious!
To everyone commenting on how selfish she is: That’s what her parents created!! I feel sorry for the groom🤦🏻♀️
The groom needs to run.
I can understand that dad wanted to stick to a budget. I gave ( my husband died of brain cancer when our children were young, our daughter was in the second grade) my daughter $11, 100.00 dollars and told her that was what I could afford , anything above that she would have to pay for it. She was thankful and everything just fell in place she stuck to the budget with one exception……. she paid for her own gown and it was beautiful. This dad probably has given this child any thing she wanted growing up and was creating a monster in the process. I would have given her the budget and told her that anything above the budget would be paid for by her . I would then stand firm.!!
Yes! I agree 100%. The Parents are TOTALLY to Blame for allowing her to be a Whingeing Brat. She Needs to learn Respect and STOP being RUDE to her Parents.
Her dad is a bit of a jerk though. You don't give a gift and then harp on and on about how much it costs and what strings are attached. He needs to listen to her
@@cdr3986 She had this fantasy in her head about her wedding. She's a bit spoilt but nowhere near as bad as her father. If he'd given her some rope then the wedding band issue may not have escalated. When she really wanted something she paid for it herself. All those extra people will be his guests and she has to compromise because of that. If he offered to pay it is not a green light to invite whoever.
I can understand whoever is paying should make sure they stick to the budget, although they don't have to micromanage everything. Larry didn't have to pick out the dress he just needs to say this is all you get, anything you go over is on you to pay
Absolutely. And be thankful for what you got .
Spoiled kids.. Make your own centerpieces. You can save enough to get a real wedding cake. Why not print your invitations. I did. They were beautiful
Leave the dad at home . Give her a budget and she should contribute!
@@Princdi67 Remember, most of the guest list is set by the parents, not by the couple. THAT is the biggest expense.
@@Princdi67 that's a great idea 💡💡💡
When it’s dad paying she has no limit. When it’s her paying ( the wedding cake) she became as frugal as her daddy 😂.
LMAO 🤣😂
That's a 200% daddy's girl!
That's when the realities of life slap you up side the head ..... when you want, what you want, when and how you want it ..... and have to pay your own way to get it that way. Suddenly your brain shifts into gear and sends the message to your mouth ..."Oh, no. That's too expensive."
@@tinydancer7426 well just because dad is paying for it doesn't mean he has a say in everything it's her wedding after all
@@ayla9905 But it is his money to withdrawal. There are limits after all. Daddy is not a bottomless ATM. Guess she learned something from this exercise in money management ..... make that "your" money management.
1979, wedding dress $175, wedding reception $2000, 42 years later still in love! It’s not about the wedding it’s everything that comes after.
That's wonderful! ❤
@@amstergal thanks! 😊
my dress was $20 his suit was $15 and got married in Vegas. The whole wedding was $350 and has lasted 30 years and counting!
@@schmachtenmom1852 The best! I think the smaller the wedding, the better and longer the marriage🥰
Its important to our economy that people can plan a wedding, customize their theme, and not be overcharged by price gouging. Leviticus 19:35
Creating a variety of honest paying jobs so our children can get out of sin.
I agree with sticking to the budget, but a borrowed wedding dress is where I draw the line. I would be just as upset.
One thing that stands out to me is that Larry never cared about what his wife was saying. It's very strange that they are a couple where only he gets to make financial decisions.
strange? I guess you're lucky enough not to have met any controlling men
It would have been 2 against 1.
And he’s🌈
I think Larry is just a bad actor. Got paid to act like an idiot!
The only thing I 110% agree on with this bride is she should of had her OWN wedding dress! That is the MAIN part of a brides wedding and for the dad to force her to BORROW a friends wedding gown was absolutely uncalled for😢
And the reception hall is a package so includes set up, clean up, tables, chairs, a catering kitchen, parking, several important items for your big day. Depending on the reception hall, you have to verify what is included in the package.
That dress made her have back fat!
I can’t believe how overbearing and bullying her Dad is. He’s hateful, is money really the be-all and end-all for him?
Not true. Who ever wears the gown again?? Compromise
For me the cake as well!
I think the dad should’ve given her $25k for the wedding and let her & the groom do what they want with the money then once they spend it, they spent it 🤷🏻♀️
So true!
So true I feel like the bride isnt getting what she wants here cause the dad has to interfere with their plans
@@ayla9905 dad is cutting costs so he can invite extra guests of his own. Hence, he wanted the huge venue
I must admit, Nicole's gown is gorgeous!!!!! If SHE wanted to spend $1700 on a gown, she should have paid for it herself!
She looked gorgeous in it.
With a budget of 65,000 I don’t think he was being frugal in the least
I thought He was splitting that with the grooms parents. In my opinion, they have to big a guest count to try to be cheap. They need to cut the guest count
WOW! That is a LOT of money!
I reserved a wedding chapel, flowers, cake, invitations and wedding dress all on my own. I believe to this day it was My responsibility to get what I could afford.
I don't know about frugal. But he didn't try and listen to her. Like I thought he should have let her have her dress. I know she wanted all this extra stuff but the way he went about it was ridiculous
65,000 is too much for a wedding. Cut the number of guests. Don’t blame your father young lady or ladies, you are spoiled. You may be the daughter but he has a right to say how much to spend. You work, you pay for the rest. I know people who spent so many thousands for the wedding and then DIVORCED 🤦♀️
Dad needed to give her the money he was willing to spend then say the rest is up to her.
That is a perfect solution!
Too bad she couldn’t save any money herself so she could buy her own dress. Does she have any money sense? Wow, she’s trouble.
She is paying her mortgage
@@trishradloff8817 , then she should have a small wedding.
I don't think she is entitled I mean come on this is every like girls dream is her wedding and her decorations and flowers and cake. Of course she is gonna want it to look exactly how she has dreamed of it. Her father is just a cheap skate did you hear him say it's their wedding as his and his daughter now man this is your daughter and financee wedding u just write the checks and pay for what she wants. This ain't about her dad. I think your wedding day is the one day as a woman we can feel that wanted feeling having everything perfect and that is the one day everything is about us
@@heatherquinones5482 , bunch of crap. If you want all those nice things because it's your wedding, then you should pay for it yourself. Don't expect other people to pay for it and still have everything your way. How the fuck is $65,000 budget being cheap?
Spoiled and entitled bride. She is old enough and so is the groom to pay for "what SHE wants". I feel if parents want to help, give the kids the money and say "No more" spend it how you want and if you need more, bride and groom pay for it!.
I disagree at spoiled, she didn't even get to purchase a Wedding Dress.
I hope she does a Vow Renewal and Buys the Wedding Dress of Her Dreams.
I agree give the money n be gone.. futher more just save ur own money..
@@madibawayne6314 bohoo buy your own stuff
@@rlast4698
I can't Agree with Your Reply.
Because of the Embarassing on TV Situation
this Bride was Placed in.
Her Father Knows that Every Bride
Needs a Wonderful Wedding Dress.
Not buying his Daughter a Wedding Dress
was more About Control.
If I remember correctly the dad spent $65,000.
on the Wedding.
For what??? To Show Off to the Guests.
But too Cheap to Buy a Very Affordable, $1700
Wedding Dress.
Go back and See how the dad was Willing
to spend $600. Altering the Brides Friends Dress.
which Ruined the Custom Made Wedding Dress for the
Original Purchaser, now not true to size.
Also the Bride had no Wedding Dress of Her Own
to Retain the Memory.
Or to Show a Future Daughter.
The dad is Just Controlling and CHEAP.
IT IS WHAT IT IS.
THE FACTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES!!!
I Definitely would have Eloped.
@@madibawayne6314 Well as long as she pays for it.
65,000 for a wedding? Super crazy. Take the money and buy a house. It amazes me how much these weddings costs. On the other hand Jewish weddings traditionally give $$$ for gifts. Say average gift is $300.00 per couple that equals $105,000 in gifts. We paid for our own wedding had 125 guests total cost 8,000. 8 piece live band. I rented my dress for $300.00 it was brand new. I was the temple administrator I pulled alot of favors because I refer brides and grooms to these vendors. Used temple hall at n/c. Rented mini trees with twinkle lights at 25.00 per piece
We planned everything together. It wS my 2nd marriage and husband's 1st. My inlaws paid for rehearsal dinner in beautiful restaurant. My feeling is weddings are about enjoying your loved ones good food alit of booze and not spending for stupid things that nobody cares about.
$69,000 in the end and apparently she wanted to spend more....
they invited too many people. I only want to invite close friends and family that's all. All those other people are not important to me at all. Why would I want to spend all this money on people I don't care about?
@@tinjmail Surely her original choice of venue would have had to refuse to accept a booking for so many guests. They would have been jeopardising their OWN Health & Safety Regulations - besides the LEGAL requirements. If Dad had agreed to HER CHOICE of venue, his problem of cost would have been solved immediately - BY THE VENUE FORCING THE REDUCTION OF THE NUMBER OF GUESTS ;).
@@lilianthompson5586 p
@@tinjmailOur plan too. We wanted the wedding to be fun, not some showpiece. We had a DJ and even he got up and started dancing😁 - and no dollar dances!
Bride is so entitled and ungrateful. I hope they were just playing up the arguments for the camera otherwise I would tell the groom to run away as fast as he could.
No kidding.
It does look like bad acting at times. But they both suck. The father can stick his money where the sun don't shine and the daughter can get a job and pay her own way.
His parents also paid half, so I think Larry just likes to be in control. Borrowed dress, slab cake, and awful centerpieces... what the heck. He never said he couldn't afford the cost, just that he didn't want to pay it. At age 20, I paid for my own and still had minor issues to work out with parents. Good luck you two.
Lol so larry the problem.not the spoiled children lol
His money
@@rlast4698 Both were, clearly the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
personally I'd go with 50$ centerpieces...that was so sweet..the tall ones are a bit..I don't know...pretentious
The centrepiece thing was fake. You could see he was trying not to laugh.
Hilarious Dad..I used to work weddings at a banquet venue that fit up to 2000+ guests. The most expensive weddings were not better than less costly ones ..
I'd tell Larry, "If your money means so much to you, keep your money. All of it. Goodbye." And then pay for the wedding that I could afford with a radically shortened guest list.
Or hold off until you can afford to pay for all of your guests yourself
Or elope...
Thank you for being one of the few people who understand the parents are filling up the guest list and not the couple. The couple is not the one inviting over 350 guests.
My parents didn't pay anything towards my wedding but if my dad had treated me like that I would elope.
She is 27 years old she needs to pay for this wedding as well. After watching 3 of these I have come to the conclusion these are so stage. Lol
bad actors huh.
in the US they still expect the parents off the bride to pay for te wedding...
what did the grooms parent's pay for. They're responsible for some of the expenses. The Bride and Groom could chip in to since it's their wedding. The wedding cake looked awful. I think all the tables should have had the low centerpieces and the Bride and Groom could have cut the guest list down. I hate to see what happens when they have kids. It's always good to stay on budget. Maybe the kids could have paid for the overage out of their own pockets.
@@joycepino9749 so agree with you.
@@joycepino9749 ad dad didn't complain about the amount of guests, I suspect he wanted that many. My father was Italian and he wanted to invite all the people I didn't even know to my 21st.
I dont understand why these couples are relying so much on their parents for their wedding. When dream weddings are not affordable, it's time to wake up and make do with what can fit the budget.
I got married at 40 and it was at the courthouse. Going on 20 yrs. Love our home. Thank goodness I was raised by sensible parents. On our 20th Anniversary we plan on renting a gown and tux for a wedding picture. Inexpensive and nice💜
I bought my daughter’s wedding dresses. I gave them a check. They could budget as they wanted but it removed me from setting limits. Done and done.
That's their tradition of Jewish people
Tradition is that the bride's father pays- except for the flowers. The groom's mother is meant to pay for those
Pay for what you can afford, then you don't have to depend on your folks or elope !!
Larry is a trip, but he's got a point.
We oopppppppp
He had a point until he refused to buy her a new wedding dress and expected her to serve a sheet cake for her reception.
He should have made that point before filming started. Set a budget and stayed out of the choices. He seems to be doing a standup routine.
He does not have a point. He’s just fucking cheap as fuck
not with that cake or that boring centerpiece. I could do better making a centerpiece at the dollar tree
Shallow, entitled people. We had a lovely wedding and party with our friends for right at $1000.00. Best wedding ever!
I agree. They all focus on the wedding and not the marriage. You know how to have a wedding:)
I agree that you don't spend a ridiculous amount on 1 day but how do you have a wedding for a 1k? My wedding came out to 13k, my husband and I paid for it ....
their parents wanted 350 guests! you can NEVER have a 1000$ wedding for 350 guests! be real! they didn't want those guests.
How are they shallow and entitled? There where 350 guest! If anything they where frugal calculating everything making sure they didn’t go over budget. Not everyone has to spend 1k to not be shallow.
Kids should pay for their own wedding and then they can make all the decisions. I wonder if Larry is being cheap or maybe he really can’t afford what Princess wants.
Cheap, and Controlling, He wouldn't even buy a Wedding Dress.
People will Talk about that for Years.
Imagine Spending All that Money 💰 and
Not Buying Your Beautiful, Beloved Daughter
a $1700 Wedding Dress.
Without Consideration for the Woman who
Loaned her Dress. Which had to be altered.
So His Inconsiderate, Cheap Attitude,
Ruined Her Custom Made Wedding Dress.
I don't see why the bride cannot kick in on the budget so her voice can be stronger. I would let the parents spend their part and pay for my own upgrades that way we can all be happy.
@@shenquejames7598
I Agree
@@shenquejames7598 you are right, the father knows his own pocket
I paid for my own wedding
OMFG !!!! That father was a nightmare !!!!! I’d have done everything in my power to pay for the wedding myself just to get him out of the picture.
Why don't they pay for their own wedding?! I would never ask or allow my parents to pay for mine.
Same here. I paid for everything. Didnt even aja my future husband
I thought she was so demanding, not at all grateful to her father who was spending a great deal of money on her wedding. It was all her hysterically claiming "It's MY wedding" every time there was a query about cost. Yes it was her wedding but she wasn't paying for it, so she should have gone along peacefully with her father and been pleasant instead of being so rude. When you have a budget that's it - where was he supposed to find extra thousands of dollars for all the fancy extras she wanted? She doesn't realise that is money that he could have used in his retirement himself, or for hospital bills or a holiday, no, she was just determined and set on getting all she could and not thinking of her father at all.
Can you imagine this couple after wedding?They can't even plan/budget their own wedding! Oh God blessed them
"Your centerpiece looks like a salad, Daddy!" 😆 Lol!!
I have never seen a Dad get involved in the details like that. Never.
It’s a little creepy to be honest. He’s very controlling.
My dad played golf in my wedding and showed up on time and never asked any questions about what I wanted or what my mom made by or anything this is crazy
Wow how selfish is this young woman. And she gets a husband
So sick of little girls who think it’s all about the wedding and them. The MARRIAGE is what’s important.
No the dad and husband are ridiculously stingy and a couple of Scrooge's it's the one day she gets for her special day and they won't even let her have that it's HER day not her Dads
If the bride and groom are working. They can pay for their own wedding dress. both wedding dresses she tried on were horrible. Its not a tuxedo.
Ok she’s definitely over the top on certain things but one thing I’ll give her, I don’t agree with borrowing the wedding dress, every bride should have their own dress.
I had a fairly big cake. Keep in mind, the top tier is frozen for your 1st anniversary celebration. Our guests ate a lot of food. We ran out of hors d'oeuvres, but the main meal was close afterwards. We had ordered a lot of tasty food. In the end we only had the top tier of the wedding cake, & some chicken leftover. I was surprised at how much was actually eaten.
I’m wondering if this bride has spent her whole life being told no - never getting what she really wanted. On her big day, she wants everything she ever wanted.
Excellent thought.
I think the opposite. I think she’s always gotten everything she wants!
I think so too
Ik I feel bad for the bride
Love seeing people who have been married for years still laughing and enjoying each other.
The honesty in these shows goes out the window when the "actors" can't stop smiling during the "arguing".
The acting is horrible!
I think the borrowed dress is much more flattering then the one she originally wanted.
I had a beautiful wedding at home. It cost about $1000 (1987) and I wouldn't have done it any other way. We have been married 34 years now!!
She's marrying a guy exactly like her father.
Good, they will have something for a rainy day.?
Don't we all?
So she doesn't have to work and so she can be pampered for try rest of her life
I married into a wonderful Jewish family, and I have to say this situation is not unique.
Feel like I'm watching Woody Allen control the Wedding Budget.
Nailed it.
This definitely is staged!
There is no way a grown adult woman would wear a friend's wedding dress.
Just go get married at the courts.
This is ridiculously cheap.
Maybe...or maybe some cultures think that weddings are more social events than personal events.
They could have cut the guest list, it would a lot more budget, however, they didn't. I guess they they really value these 350.
those guests are their parents guests...all old people
The more I watched this, it looked like this was acted out as staged reality with Dad.
Definitely
Exactly what I thought. The dads little smirk during the centre piece moment showed that.
She was absolutely gorgeous in her dress, and I adore how she was jumping up and down excited as they were pronounced married. 🥰
She selfish if I was her dad I would have told her to pay for her own wedding she talked to him so strong bye girl bye
if you want all these nice things, then pay for it yourself!!! Stop expecting other people to pay for what you want. $65,000 budget! That is a lot of money for many people.
Never fight over the wedding Rings. Those are your symbols of ever last Love.
I agree...my heart broke when my rings were stolen after 7 years....I loved them, and never replaced😢
I especially thought the way he was talking to her about "shelling out money" for her wedding ring was super tacky.
If I was the Mom I myself would have paid for my daughter wedding dress. Dad is going to save that money period!
When you have the money you do it, when not, you don't. Otherwise you risk to get a divorce instead of a dress.
the girl is chem tech..her mum MUST have something..that they couldn't afford 1700 for a dress is unbelievable
I’ve watched three episodes of this show and this is the one and only bride that I’m 100% on her side!!!! I feel so bad for her and having to deal with her father taking all wedding decisions on by himself and never anything like what she wants. I mean she’s actually pretty responsible about what she wants, I hope by her wedding day this all comes together!
Why didn't she pay for her vision
@@rojamillerover If she wanted something she should have paid for it herself!! The only thing was the cake and when SHE had to pay, the smaller one was good enough. But, she did only had to put a few hundred for the dress. I would have gotten a cheaper dress that was all mine…
I’m glad she had viewers on her side because I definitely felt she was reprehensible. If either of my daughters had acted like this, I would know with certainty I had failed as a mother.
My wedding cost only $115 n we only had 4 guests! That was 1978. What cost the most was $50 to the priest! Oh n we paid it ourselves! 🙂🙏💖
Larry may be a budget tyrant but but he sort of has to with his demanding daughter, he was right on the venue: it was too small for the number of guests. If the parents are paying they are also having a very large voice in the final decisions. If I were in her shoes I would be acquiescent on those things that weren't all that important: especially the venue because this is the high ticket item. I would focus on what is most important: my own wedding dress [not designer] and I would pay for it myself [not dad or SO]. I think if she had been more agreeable dad would have loosened the purse strings but instead she make a battle 'this is the hill I die on' about everything thus dad is constantly on the defense. I think these two bring out the worst in each other especially since her dad is paying for the wedding he feels entitled to have the final say on everything.
The bride is being unreasonable about her wedding rings. The diamond band she wants is often gift the husband gives the wife on the birth of their first child. The other option she had was to buy 2 plain bands to encircle her engagement ring which would have given it a unique look.
Excellent comments
She was acting like a spoiled little girl who always had to get her way. I'm glad my kids didn't act like that lol
The number of guests were his idea not hers.
I wonder whose guest list it was? I feel like if most of the guests are invited by the parents and not the couple, then the parents should help more. (Although Larry did contribute a large amount. Much larger than my wedding!)
I agree 💯
I couldn’t watch it all, did my head in. She is so sneaky
The centerpieces would have been great to have the large one on the bride's table, and the smaller ones on the other tables.
The marriage is doomed.
What an adorable couple!! Wish them much love, luck and laughter in the future
The bride gets her unreasonable stubbornness from her father. I understand that she should pay for why ever she wants extra. But the father OFFERED to pay for the wedding and is using that to try to control her. Why does he care? Just give her the the money you are comfortable with and tell her any extras are on her. Everyone is happy that way.
If want something special for your wedding. Get out your piggy bank. Most parents have budgets. It's life. You'll find out more as you grow. Mine was $500 with dress, suit, cake food, flowers and more. It was perfect!
Most of the money is being spent on his guests though. He's cutting costs so he can have all the people he wants
At this point I would have eloped...
I would’ve divorced my father .
Totally agree....just elope. Plus put a lot of distance between your Dad and yourself. Can you imagine when a child comes along. Larry will be loads of fun.
Her bridal gown matched the mother's of the bride dress. Moral of the story: buy your own dress! 👗😉
Moral of the story....elope. Better yet, get a cat until the right man comes along.
@@maryroberts9233 but.. i still have my cats lol 4 of them
Where was their wedding planner during all these meetings
My two daughters paid for their own weddings and we paid for their receptions.
This is the closest to on budget I've seen. Father is a tough negotiator but kept them pretty close to budget and still spent a lot of money! Can't get over what people spend but it's all relative I guess. Wish this couple joy and a new washing machine!
I think the dad is a pain. I understand there’s a budget but he argues with her the whole way.
He’s driving me 😜 crazy. Now on the other side, she needs to compromise on some things to. She didn’t need a $1400.00 ring right now. Mercy! P.S. The 🍎 apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
and do they really need a wedding planner?
Bingo
I can feel my blood pressure rising watching these two argue over the gown. That's as far as I could watch.
Girl: "Who's wedding is this?"
Father: "Ours"
Girl: "No, ours - well, mainly mine".
Spoken like a true princess.
My fiancé and I are having an extravagant wedding and paying for it 100% for ourselves. I can’t believe people would expect parents to pay for a wedding. A gift is nice but this is ridiculous.
Our daughter and her fiancé were both finishing up their medical residencies a few months before their wedding. We know how hard they had been working on their careers for the last 12 years and we wanted to celebrate that. We gave them a check, it was a substantial amount, and they were grateful for every penny. It was up to them to make it work. We did offer to add to the amount towards the end, but they refused it. They were determined to figure it out. It was an amazing wedding, so magical. We are so proud of them.
Here is a thought
When you exceed your parents budget you pay the difference
So glad we paid $150 and paid an officiant to marry us! Took my kids and they were happy to take pictures, granted it was our 2nd wedding but it was oh so wonderful!!!
Awe that sounds so sweet.
I have always heard that when planning a budget wedding you pick three things that you want well done. For this bride, it would be dress, venue, and probably cake.
I thought this Larry guy was putting on some kind of prank and then I realized he was “for real” ……so sad…….
Who cares that it was staged they had fun. They are an adorable 💑 couple..and Larry should have his own sitcom! Mozletof!
David’s my fav wedding planner
“Princess is going down the aisle like second hand rose?!” 33:27
But I don't blame her for wanting her ring. I've never seen a woman who got a better set unless it was a BIG make-up gift, if then.
The dad is hideously cheap…. I’d elope at this point 😁
The daughter is very happy spending someone else’s money with nary a thought of the budget.
Except their parents paid for their wedding in full, almost $69,000. That’s not cheap.
Are you dunk or on drugs???Did you see the wedding costs? I assume not, otherwise you wouldn't call hi cheap.
how the hell is $65,000 budget cheap??
Okay, my take SO far... I agree 100% on Dad arguing about the venue, for that many guests, I did the math and that's $60,000!! Even with both sets of parent's splitting, that's still $30,000! Does that INCLUDE FOOD & drinks or JUST the venue?? Now with the wedding dress, he really needs to buy her HER WEDDING DRESS, NOT A HAND ME DOWN! The cake, as long as its hgood quality, I don't see an issue with store bought. I had a cake from Walmart for mine & it was beautiful & delicious
it was with food. she said 150-175 per person
This is the wierdest wedding planning I have ever seen! It can't be real!
I don’t think it is!! It looks like they’re acting!
Yeah - It was straight out of a Woody Allen movie!!
This was so so awkward watching this episode. I have a headache and need to de-stress after watching this wedding. The Bride was so so unappreciative. She was so so lucky to receive this wedding. Lucky girl. Her Dad was a bit rude. The Bride should of paid more and she would of got her own dress. That jacket was hideous. How nice was her friend to give it to her and let her do alterations.
There are certain things we do not know. They have 350 people. That seems a lot. Maybe 250 are the parents guests, not the couples. In that case the parents ahould definitely pay for the people they want to be invited.
*should have
*would have
Who borrows a wedding gown? That's just awful!
@@laurielembitz5406 lol what adult.woman begs their daddy for a wedding dress venue etc
@@laurielembitz5406 , what is wrong with that?
Holy Crap....we came in under 10k at our wedding, it was beautiful
my cousin only spent around $5000
the bride does not understand that you can not fit 350 people plus is a space for 150 that is suppose to be for a sit down dinner. Just because she likes it.
“It’s all about me!” ! She’s a Veruca Salt!
Because the guests are their parents and not theirs. They could have cut the guest list to just the most important people and saved loads
I got married at 25 and never even thought about my parents paying we were both working and took care of it ourselves
Wedding on the water 150 a head×375people =56,250 Girl no👎🏾
If she was so concerned about having a Jewish wedding, the traditional requirements are 1. a contract, or ketubah, 2. a ring or something of a certain value, 3. a canopy, and 4. witnesses to sign the document. All the rest is window dressing for a party, and this Bridezilla is an embarrassment. Oh yes: I borrowed my first wedding dress, had it in an elegant venue which had sentimental meaning for both of us, and we had various entertainers perform (I had been a ballet teacher for years, and a ballet pas de deux from Romeo & Juliet was a dream come true.) But the priority for us was to have a celebration, which was paid for by both of us, and the only thing we accepted from my parents was to pay for a photographer. We enjoyed the big party, and I am positive my ring was a plain gold band, which thrilled me. I also bought my groom a plain gold band. We were told the wedding was unique, represented us as well as included the traditional religious elements, and most were surprised by the uniqueness of all our personal elements.
.
My inlaws gave us a budget of $2500 18 years ago when I got married. (Left him 11 years ago) - when all added up - we got it done with nearly $500 change. So it really only cost us $2k Australian. It was a brilliant day - one thing I will NEVER regret about that relationship.
It can be done on a shoestring budget, and you can still have a blast!
Spending a ridiculous amount of money for a wedding doesn't ensure "til death due us part" 🤦🏾🙄
I WOULD NEVER GET MARRIED UNDER SUCH CONDITIONS. Just live together!!
The money spent on a huge wedding could go to paying off student loans, a new home etc. It is one day. Seriously.
This is where the parents if willing to contribute to the wedding hand the bride and groom whatever amount that is and let the bride and groom spend it, if they run out of money, oh well!
Force them to work it on a budget, give them X amount and that's it
Omg- it’s like a sitcom- 😁
They paint the bride and the dad in such a negative light. I'm sure the dynamic is much different in real life, right?
I am in the process of planning my wedding. Me and my fiance have paid for 100% of the cost of everything. Getting my parents to pay was never a consideration.
I think I will keep that in mind when it comes to my future wedding thank you I will be definitely taking notes
Dad is way beyond cheap! He's controlling, threatening and mean. What a horrible way to have to plan a wedding. 😢
We’re getting exactly nothing off other people for our upcoming wedding. Up to us to budget and get the best we can for our budget.
Also we don’t know 300 people 😂
When you start talking weddings with your partner, start saving every penny you can. Forget about the tradition of the bride's parents paying for the wedding, talk between yourselves what you both would like on the big day save to that goal. Once you are near target then tell your parents that you are getting married and YOUR plans. If they want to contribute then great but you don't have to be blackmailed into having a wedding that they want.
Larry reminds me of Larry David from Curb your enthusiasm
Dad give your daughter a check for what you can afford for the wedding!!!! Then tell her she’s on her own😊