My Miscarriage Story | Missed Miscarriage 10 Weeks

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • My Miscarriage Story | Missed Miscarriage 10 Weeks Pregnant
    I miscarried my baby the day I should have been 11 weeks pregnant. I started bleeding 10+4 days and realized something was really wrong. I contacted the IR on a Friday, came in for a consultation on Saturday and was referred to an ultrasound at the hospital the very next day. The baby came out on Monday.
    I was told that the pregnancy stopped at 7-8 weeks, so I was walking around for 2-4 weeks believing I was still pregnant. I`m happy I did not know before I started bleeding because I prefer a natural miscarriage. When I started bleeding it took four days before the embryo came out and five days before the placenta. It took only one day from when I knew I was miscarrying to the baby was out. My gynecologist at the maternity ward told me that a miscarriage so early on was because of something wrong with genes and has nothing to do with diet, stress or anything I could have done.
    I`m happy I never went to an early ultrasound because there`s nothing they could have done to save the pregnancy anyway, and I would have had to wait for weeks for the miscarriage process to begin, which would have been a nightmare.

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  • @ginal.fernandes144
    @ginal.fernandes144 7 років тому +3

    I am so sorry for the loss of your precious angel, beautiful! I too had a miscarriage very early in pregnancy years ago, but it was still a painful loss none the less. The spirit of our lost children remain in our hearts always. Please allow yourself to process the grieving process in your own time. There is no time limit. You know you did everything possible to care for your child and believe it was not your fault. Nature just works in mysterious ways sometimes. We all send you our love and support with big hugs. May God bless you and your lovely family. Stay blessed ⛅ Keep the Faith 🙏 and Hope for the best always 🍀.

  • @josefinasmr
    @josefinasmr 7 років тому +25

    again, i'm so sorry for you

  • @mamajacquelinebts9776
    @mamajacquelinebts9776 7 років тому +38

    Lots of love and cuddles sweetie. I am so sorry you went through this pain and sadness. It's such a huge loss. I lost my first and second babies. My heart is with you and your husband. Much love and good luck for the future. 💗❤ I cried for you.

  • @quinngamings
    @quinngamings 7 років тому +14

    I’m sorry 😢I love you so much! You deserve everything in the world! Thank you for sharing all of your stories with everyone you are the best person in the world to be honest. Keep holding on 💕💕💕💕everything gets better my love

  • @mizhersheehsrehzim1009
    @mizhersheehsrehzim1009 7 років тому +75

    'For I know the plans I have for you; declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.' Xoxo to you mumma bear!

  • @elliv.6834
    @elliv.6834 7 років тому +86

    I hope the best for you in the future. You deserve the best

  • @lanam4260
    @lanam4260 7 років тому +37

    I cannot express how sorry i am :( i wish the best for you in the future, you truly deserve the best ♥️

  • @manonmaoui
    @manonmaoui 7 років тому +15

    I think it's beautiful how you buried your little baby. I loved the pictures! It's such a tiny beautiful miracle. Thank you for sharing this with us, even when there are people making unneccessary comments. Best wishes XXX

  • @kusingh5106
    @kusingh5106 7 років тому +26

    Wow you really are an amazing woman .. I am very very sorry for your lost 😭😭😭 god will guard you and protect you and you will get a beautiful healthy baby don't give up honey 😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

  • @scarletting
    @scarletting 7 років тому +32

    Aren't our bodies amazing to create such tiny creatures that become little human beings? It's beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. Our bodies know when something is wrong and can take care of such things for a reason. Next time will be different and I'm certain your angel will come back to you when everything is just right. Love to you and your husband.

  • @dogasmr8795
    @dogasmr8795 7 років тому +20

    So sorry. ❤️

  • @bunnie.004
    @bunnie.004 5 років тому +1

    You're not alone. I've gone through this a few times and eventually had a healthy baby. You will too. Keep strong. Sending lots of hugs.

  • @osegura52
    @osegura52 7 років тому +4

    No way, today I just remember that you was pregnant so I came here to see how was going then I found this, I'm really sorry Solfrid, sometimes bad things happen to the best people, better things come for you, we're with you!
    ❤️

  • @Mb-nt3yx
    @Mb-nt3yx 7 років тому +8

    I'm sooo sorry for you. Lots of love from me to you and your husband I know this has been an horrible last few weeks for you😢and I'm so sorry but you deserve the best future💕you deserve a lot better and if you ever get pregnant again I hope for the best for you I hope everything goes well just remember you have so many people hoping for the best for you and all the love from my family is yours!! Just stay strong😊

  • @kyliediaz5660
    @kyliediaz5660 7 років тому +7

    So sorry about your miscarriage 🙏❤ stay strong my love!

  • @claireyasminkhokhar
    @claireyasminkhokhar 7 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. You seem very brave to get in front of the camera and share this really personal story, but I hope it reaches women who are going through the same thing so they can find comfort as I hope you have been. Don't lose hope xoxo sending hugs

  • @kylieemariee26
    @kylieemariee26 7 років тому +1

    I love watching all of your videos, no matter what they are about. You have the prettiest accent! You are so beautiful. You didn't deserve for this to happen, no one does. I'm so sorry again for this situation. Thank you so much for sharing everything with us. We love you so much ❤️🐻

  • @muzyka5732
    @muzyka5732 7 років тому +1

    I’m so sorry you for your miss-carriage, I’m sure you would have made a great mother. At times you have sorta been a mother to me, your videos have motivated me and helped me relax. Don’t be upset, things will get better

  • @denniseramirez8002
    @denniseramirez8002 7 років тому +1

    I am in awe of your strength. Thank you for sharing. If I or anyone I know ever go through this, I will look back to your video for help. Your pictures of your baby are something I've never seen before. I'm so sorry, we love you ❤️

  • @imanijaye2747
    @imanijaye2747 7 років тому +12

    Same thing I did with my baby, the images really took me back to that sad sad place. I'm praying for you, it's still a touchy subject for me. I still think that in that stage my baby was beautiful. 💙

  • @natasharedd9782
    @natasharedd9782 7 років тому +6

    I'm so sorry Solfrid. I just went through this a month ago, at 10 weeks. Your in my prayers..

  • @katringlass2140
    @katringlass2140 7 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry and I just wanna say you're so strong and brave for sharing this and thank you for that! you're helping anyone who gets into this situation and we don't have enought people talking about this! thank you so much and i'm sending the most positive vibes i got your way 💖

  • @dawnareno
    @dawnareno 7 років тому +4

    Im so sorry! I have wishes that everything will get better!

  • @poppypoppins5
    @poppypoppins5 7 років тому +1

    Just recently found you through your asmr channel, but I feel for you so much through this. I lost my first pregnancy at 10 weeks as well and it was definitely one of my hardest life experiences. Wishing you health and wellness and a future full of beautiful children. 😚

  • @rileyschaefer5934
    @rileyschaefer5934 7 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for sharing your story and I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you the best of luck next time you and your husband try to become pregnant again!

  • @ashleylopez4853
    @ashleylopez4853 7 років тому +1

    I'm deeply sorry. I really hope you recover physically and mentally. We'll be here for you and support you in anyway. I'm sending love to you and your husband.

  • @anissa212
    @anissa212 7 років тому +1

    You are so brave to go through this with such openness and honesty. I am so sorry for your loss. 💛

  • @lolaheart559
    @lolaheart559 7 років тому +1

    So sorry for your loss hun :( i saw my baby too when I miscarried at 8 weeks....my prayers are with you always 😞🙏🏻 -hugs- xxx

  • @peeppaa1997
    @peeppaa1997 7 років тому +13

    Im so sorry

  • @Graciedeaton
    @Graciedeaton 7 років тому +1

    I was truly touched by your video and so glad you decided to share. You're a beautiful person and I'm sure you will see your baby one day again. Be blessed in all you do love.

  • @golgaltha
    @golgaltha 7 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss Solfrid. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I'm sure it must have been difficult. I wish you and your husband the best in the future.

  • @kimt7452
    @kimt7452 7 років тому +1

    😢😢😢oh my gosh. Bless your heart!!! So sorry for your loss. Many prayers that much happiness is coming your way!!! Hugs babygirl

  • @girlovecupcake
    @girlovecupcake 7 років тому +1

    I hope for all the best for you during this time. You are very open with us and that can be hard to do. Thank you for being open and stay positive and hopeful!

  • @japhysinatra528
    @japhysinatra528 7 років тому +2

    So sorry for you and your husband. I shed a few tears for you guys. Best wishes and lots of luck for your future.

  • @지능-w1b
    @지능-w1b 7 років тому +1

    I always have watched your asmr with so much fun. though i can not understand your talking correctly, but can feel how you are painful for missing bady. i am korean and i want you to read my comment and to know how many people cheering you

  • @brandiheard303
    @brandiheard303 7 років тому +6

    I am so glad that your vibes are not what I expected it to be I know this is really hard for you but please be happy and strong for us because I love seeing the adorable and joyful person I see you as remember your so young and with many opportunities keep doing amazing things I give u my love ❤️🙂

  • @angelataylor-venables4224
    @angelataylor-venables4224 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing your honest and heartbreaking story. I am crying for your pain and loss writing this. I admire your strength so much ❤️😢❤️

  • @ChipmunkonwheelsASMR
    @ChipmunkonwheelsASMR 7 років тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss!! **hugs*** I had a miscarriage back in 2012 at 4 weeks...I lost it exactly a week after finding out I was pregnant

  • @sophies9301
    @sophies9301 6 років тому

    you’re so strong. I admire you so much for opening up and being honest. you’re amazing 💙

  • @EnglishVirgo
    @EnglishVirgo 7 років тому +5

    Aww your baby was the same size as mine, but mine came out without the balloon looking thing, but was the same size and colour and stuff. Heart-breaking isn't it, but so precious that you got that time with the baby. Much love to you.xx

  • @stephaniediane88
    @stephaniediane88 7 років тому

    All the love in the world to you and your husband. It's a long and hard journey of healing but know you're not alone in going through this heartbreak. Thank you for your venerability and strength in sharing your story.

  • @staceyrosa781
    @staceyrosa781 7 років тому +1

    You're an amazing person. Full of strength and positivity and love. You will get a chance to be a mother. You're very deserving of that chapter in your life. Much love and respect. ❤❤❤🤗🐻

  • @567CHRISPY
    @567CHRISPY 7 років тому +1

    my heart is so heavy for you, I'm wishing a happy & hopeful future for you solfrid. Lots of love & strength for a strong woman.♥️♥️

  • @joananunes6044
    @joananunes6044 7 років тому

    I just want to say how brave you are... Many people would not have the courage to tell us what you are going through, but it is very important for others to know what can happen and to be prepared. I think it's beautiful what you did with your baby, and of course you're both going to be great parents in the future. I wish you all the best in the world, and I will be sending good energies and love from Portugal.

  • @ketoauntie7301
    @ketoauntie7301 7 років тому +8

    So sorry, at least you & your husband had closure via seeing the fetus. I wonder how many women miscarry without ever knowing they were pregnant to begin with. Hope the BEST for your future and that you and your husband will be blessed with a child, no matter how that child comes into your life. 🙏😇

  • @LaBee-pu5ju
    @LaBee-pu5ju 7 років тому +15

    Your Baby is beautiful😊 a little wonder. The little sack on your baby was the plazenta. The plazenta grows together with the baby. By the way, your openess to your situation is so amazing. I think it very important to speak about that and it will helps other women who are in this situation too. 🖒

  • @MonicaM444
    @MonicaM444 7 років тому +1

    You are such a beautiful soul. So glad you got to see your baby and say goodbye. I was wishing I could send you an angel for the babies grave, but then I thought your baby will always have two angels around it... you and your husband. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jeannette7088
    @jeannette7088 7 років тому +3

    Your baby is adorable. Wishing you the best in the future ❤️

  • @HelloKittySam
    @HelloKittySam 7 років тому +10

    Stay strong my sweet fluffy teddy bear

  • @Mb-nt3yx
    @Mb-nt3yx 7 років тому +1

    Thank you sooo much for sharing this happy, sad, amazing journey with us I hope for the best and that your okay and just be happy😊❤️

  • @jeannines.8805
    @jeannines.8805 7 років тому

    Thank you so so much for sharing your experience with us! I always loved your channel because you are so human, so authentic and you just talk about the real things happening. And now you shared one of the most intimate stories with us and I think a lot of women who have experienced the same will be thankful for your openness. I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart! One day, when the time is right you will be a great mother - because you are such a good person with a great heart! My thoughts are with you ❤️ Many greetings from Germany to Norway!

  • @selanadjla9674
    @selanadjla9674 7 років тому +1

    I m so sorry my dear, but really happy that you are so strong 😍😍 you will have your second baby soon, stay like this you are amazing 💓💓 send you all my love

  • @parker9567
    @parker9567 7 років тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your husband.

  • @katharina_13
    @katharina_13 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ all the best for your future.

  • @HelenaAhmed
    @HelenaAhmed 7 років тому +5

    The placenta had already come out with the baby. It's what was attached to the baby's belly button that you cut off. The placenta never grows as big as you showed with your hands this early, it grows with the baby and hugee at the end of the pregnancy. Plus like I previously said, it couldn't have been your fault. Sometimes the baby unfortunately fails, not the moms fault. When I was pregnant but I wasn't aware yet, I was out with my husband celebrating his birthday and had drank a lot of alcohol and even smoked that night but it was reallyyyyy early on in the pregnancy like maybe a couple weeks only. I had no idea I was pregnant and wasn't taking care of myself but luckily my baby was fine and obviously once I took the test and found out I'm pregnant I started taking care of my body the way I should and my baby came out healthy with no complications. Anyways, don't blame yourself, I'm glad you got the closure you wanted. Feel better 💕

    • @jennalou2626
      @jennalou2626 6 років тому +1

      Helena i think she meant the after birth the same thing happened to me An it took few days after the baby An gestational sack is passed till the after birth gets expelled to the whole time you are just traumatised so it probably felt An seemed that big to her even though it wasn’t Yano?

    • @HelenaAhmed
      @HelenaAhmed 6 років тому

      Jenna Lou don't really know what you're talking about.

    • @idilchadu5022
      @idilchadu5022 5 років тому

      You’re a mess

  • @sonasarracino3968
    @sonasarracino3968 7 років тому

    Sending warm hugs and kisses.... Thank you for being open and taking us on this journey with you! ❤️💐👼

  • @alexisa.8316
    @alexisa.8316 7 років тому

    Thank you for sharing. You are such a wonderful person. Thank you for sharing the photos.

  • @christinamatsumura4780
    @christinamatsumura4780 7 років тому +4

    I'm so so sorry sweetie for you and your husband it will be a long road but in the end it will happen aloha 🌺

  • @asyakokturk2254
    @asyakokturk2254 7 років тому +1

    I'm so sorry..Lots of love from me to you and your husband❤️❤️

  • @Midwifemeka
    @Midwifemeka 7 років тому

    I've also miscarried before. I just posted my own Miscarriage story. :(
    I'm so sorry that this has happened to you.

  • @Freeeer
    @Freeeer 7 років тому +1

    So much hugs & healing & love for you👼❤❤❤

  • @darkqueen286
    @darkqueen286 7 років тому

    I'm so sorry solfrid, thank you for sharing with us it could not have been easy to do this. sending prayers and loving thoughts to you and your husband. keep your head up.

  • @TraceeUK
    @TraceeUK 7 років тому

    Thank you for sharing your story with us, Solfrid. I'm sorry for your loss and look forward to the day you tell us, Lord willing, that you are expecting another child. Sending lots of love and prayers to you & your husband.

  • @hartrose33
    @hartrose33 7 років тому +1

    So bittersweet thank you glad your ok now

  • @starlitetelevision8746
    @starlitetelevision8746 7 років тому

    I just discovered you a few days ago. I am so sorry. You seem to have a great spirit and I am sending you good energy and positive vibes. You will be a mother and a great one. I have not eaten red meat since a child, but you have inspired me to become a vegetarian. You are doing good work and your future children will be fortune to have you. :)

  • @kaylavallo491
    @kaylavallo491 7 років тому +1

    You are so strong I'm so sorry for you and your husband.

  • @jazmineloria1759
    @jazmineloria1759 7 років тому +1

    we love you! I pray God gives you another baby soon! I wish you a good night

  • @FayeliureV2
    @FayeliureV2 7 років тому +2

    My deepest sympathies for your loss but thank you for sharing your story. Somehow, you have managed to show the beauty in this painful situation.

  • @jennvelasco5612
    @jennvelasco5612 6 років тому

    Wow thank you for sharing that must of been hard for you to tell the store God bless you and your family..and yes it is your baby

  • @thehomelesscomic3786
    @thehomelesscomic3786 7 років тому +1

    I don't know what to say. Wishing you and the hubby all the best. Stay strong.

  • @fanyukong6188
    @fanyukong6188 7 років тому +1

    Take care, and hope you all the best in the futures😊

  • @susan9808
    @susan9808 7 років тому

    solfrid i'm so sorry :( nothing but love to you ❤️❤️

  • @mosutanmaria8532
    @mosutanmaria8532 5 років тому

    thank you for this amaizing video. God bless you!

  • @Claudia-eo8fw
    @Claudia-eo8fw 7 років тому

    I''m so sad to know this new. I really hope the best for you and your husband. You are a very strong woman, you're beautiful and you deserve a lot of wonderful things. I send a big hug and a big kiss to you and your husband.

  • @alynndollhouse1367
    @alynndollhouse1367 5 років тому

    Amazing and Beautiful pictures. Thank You for sharing your story. We just lost our baby girl Julliet Blue👶🏼💙 at 17 weeks. New subscriber💕MamaMiaof5👶🏼👧🏻👦🏼👱🏼‍♀️👩🏻

  • @JoffreyBaratheon
    @JoffreyBaratheon 7 років тому

    I'm so sorry💔 hopefully you are okay

  • @brandiwheeler1234
    @brandiwheeler1234 7 років тому +2

    i wish you the best and i prey that one day you will have a beautiful baby running around your house

  • @mr.crocodile2227
    @mr.crocodile2227 7 років тому

    Amazing video and also you be healthy and happy.

  • @Littlelovaa
    @Littlelovaa 7 років тому

    Sweet beautiful soul, God has plans for you my love. I'm happy you got the chance to say goodbye to your angel baby. He/she will always be with you and your husband.

  • @Zhefion
    @Zhefion 7 років тому

    Im so sorry ;( but as I said in the past, good things happen to good people so just wait and everything will be just fine;) life is hard so we need to make it beautiful ;) we will always try to give you a smile. Take care and be strong solfrid!

  • @livianever
    @livianever 7 років тому +2

    Im so sorry, solfrid

  • @xonicolle3725
    @xonicolle3725 7 років тому

    😭😭😭😭💔💔💔 i wish i could just give you a big hug honestly 💓

  • @aileen130
    @aileen130 7 років тому

    Sending you hugs, Solfrid.

  • @78KattKitt
    @78KattKitt 7 років тому

    I am so sorry for your lost

  • @coronet717
    @coronet717 7 років тому

    Stay strong !

  • @camilah5452
    @camilah5452 7 років тому

    I love how your in a better mood Its ok you did good as you should adopt it would be great for you to rescue a kid and for a kid to have a family that would love them very well and after that you could try again

  • @SparkzMxzXZ
    @SparkzMxzXZ 7 років тому

    :(

  • @chozart88
    @chozart88 7 років тому

    Glad to hear the miscarriage was resolved in a healthy way, and I'm sorry to hear it came to this. Remember, miscarriages are fairly common for the first couple pregnancies, and they do become more common as we age. So just remember to not blame yourself. Many women/sisters share this loss but you also share their strength. Whether or not you have biological children, you and your husband make a great family.

  • @girlovecupcake
    @girlovecupcake 7 років тому +10

    I wasn't expecting you to show images though, so that made me a little uneasy. :( I didn't see a photo warning in the description either. Again, thank you for being open about this, but I was just shaken a little from the images.

    • @cathiep2479
      @cathiep2479 7 років тому +15

      girlovecupcake the thumbnail shows it...why did you watch? I dont understand why people see thumbnails and watch and criticize when they had fair notice what would be discussed and seen

    • @girlovecupcake
      @girlovecupcake 7 років тому +1

      Cathie P I'm on mobile so the thumbnail is quite small and I thought it was something else she was showing us or that it was a stock photo not of her OWN CHILD. It's different when it's a Googled image vs when people are showing their own stages of the baby (I'm not sure what it's called in this video). I also thought that was the ONLY photo she was going to show and just talk about what happened like she normally does her vlogs.

    • @girlovecupcake
      @girlovecupcake 7 років тому

      Cathie P I watched because I wanted to know what happened. Just like everyone else.

    • @Jillian.luella
      @Jillian.luella 6 років тому +4

      Then don’t look 😑

    • @cherryfairy2520
      @cherryfairy2520 6 років тому

      Cashmerecollisions
      Chill

  • @kjokkj4387
    @kjokkj4387 6 років тому

    I hope you have a wonderful future

  • @angelharriman6739
    @angelharriman6739 5 років тому

    Oh hun my heart aches with you

  • @kaylavallo491
    @kaylavallo491 7 років тому

    Nobody should be questioning you.. ugh I hate people sometimes. You don't deserve that

  • @kelseyhurley8600
    @kelseyhurley8600 6 років тому

    I never knew her voice sounded like this I was so used to the whispering

  • @appleskinsasmr7717
    @appleskinsasmr7717 6 років тому

    Sending you my love.

  • @cosmically.chanchal
    @cosmically.chanchal 6 років тому

    I came to know my baby died inside 4 weeks ago already! 😔 words cant really tell.

  • @yarianaescalera4514
    @yarianaescalera4514 6 років тому

    Well now she is pregnant so... YAY for the new mother

  • @michellesouthflorida9682
    @michellesouthflorida9682 5 років тому

    I think what you did is so loving and sweet

  • @kkdobby6471
    @kkdobby6471 7 років тому

    加油!

  • @olivia-leighglazebrook9489
    @olivia-leighglazebrook9489 6 років тому

    So cute like a little bean xxx

  • @shanegboa
    @shanegboa 6 років тому +1

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