How To Stop Using Filler Words Like "Um" And "Uh" (Q&A)
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2020
- The Shamans bridged the bone to the moon. They began the revolution of transferring meaning between word and reality through metaphor. An adventure spanning thousands of years. Today I will embark on my own quest, a quest to answer your burning questions...
How do you get rid of filler sounds? How should communication training be integrated in schools? How can you practice speaking with social anxiety? These are some of the questions we will answer.
May the grapefruit make you spokenminded.
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It would be really cool if he made a series where his fans send him some videos of them talking and he reacted and analysed them.
This is a really good idea. David should seriously see this!
Yeees
GREAT idea!
eyy! like minded people. I asked him about this and he said he might do it later after he grows a little bit more and he told his team about the series idea.
@@moogmush4436 Oh yeah, I saw your comment! Well, soon enough he will get 100k subs, and let's hope that it becomes a thing!
This guy is just straight up entertaining. His skills have transferred very well to UA-cam.
public speaking is a different skill from writing and editing a youtube video, but in some ways it makes perfect sense that the skills carry over so well.
Ikr I really enjoy his videos
The 2 dislikes are ceiling gang. Cringe
Ew
David is like that one cool uncle we have who visits 3 times a month and helps you. Thanks Uncle David
My pleasure 😇😎
uncle Dave fam
im socially awkward so i need this
Same
Um, Me too
Same...
uhh, same
Who isn’t?
00:48 serotonin vs oxytocin
1:29 good listener
2:00 serotonin, food, compliments
3:00 public speaking in schools
4:40 hand gestures
7:10 volume increase
8:07 dating and speaking, practicing irl
10:16 SHEEPS
10:46 get rid of filler sounds & how to become a sheep
12:37 COWS
14:21 how to be more sociable (trust me this one is a must)
16:52 Outtake
Thanks
Thank you. Especially for sheeps and cows.
Now he just needs to copy paste this into his description and it will add marks in the video
Ohmygosh you’re a legend
Thanks
Ya boi evolving so fast in terms of humor and editing
There was a very odd "soothing" feeling this video gave. It was very enjoyable
Lovely to hear JettStorm! 🤩
My man's so wholesome he's just handing out Oxytocin left and right.
Being out in nature was very calming
9:52 I think he's right. After all, he did the double-shoulder-shrug.
Noice
*HE DID THE DOUBLE SHOULDER*
You're all picking up the skills! 👊
@@DavidJPPhillips the pewdiepie shrug lol
Hi guys! I’m David Phillips and this is crash course connecting with your species
😂😂😂A winning comment 👊
7:09 Cursed single shoulder shrug
I love the increase of quality and editing in these videos!
You’re amazing David! I’m aware of your content thanks to the Pewdiepie video, and I’m SO glad for that!
Your channel gives positivity and knowledge in a platform that is filled with negativity. Your content just feels so...genuine. I don’t know how else to say it.
Also, that last part made me cry a bit, as I’m someone who’s too shy to express that I have a lot of trouble in social environments.
Since I’m 21 and I’ve been told by family that it’s pathetic to ask for psychological help at this age, this channel has felt like nothing else but a blessing for me.
I hope you’re aware that you are changing lives with this channel. Thank you so much for this amazing content, I mean it from the bottom of my heart 😊❤️
Hey Mary 💜 thanks for sharing 🙏 I personally go to a psychologist, always have more or less because I love it 😀 so no shame in it.
But besides that, I am super happy that you're loving the content. We've just begun! 💜
I like how you use your own speaking skill on your self
15:42 See that breath to remove filler sounds
That's some Sherlock vibes! Well picked up!!
@@DavidJPPhillips and that's how a simple reply can make you smile, thank you ❤️
David: "Remove filler sounds by breathing"
Me, who uses filler sounds constantly: "will I ever speak between my inhales??"
@@EdaxAnimae well you gonna use a lot of oxygen, i think😂
@@hesamnajafi5229 you know what? That's fair enough 😂
7:03 we have a new meme guys, this man teach us public speaking and make memes like a 19year old
Imagine being his partner knowing he's inside your head 90% of the time.
Well girls love that -- men are supposed to hold the frame and flow, it's sexy for them when the man is always two steps ahead, never lost and always unconflicted
@@voodiethemoody Yes. There's nothing girls love more than feeling like they are being manipulated at every point of the relationship. You must be a genious.
@@voodiethemoody No wonder I have no girlfriend, I just have to be an actual chad
@@DomenBremecXCVI knowing what someone thinks and manipulating someone is two very different things..
@@thatdude034 Being manipulated and feeling like you're being manipulated are two very diffeeent things as well.
It's been a while since I found a channel that is really passionate and engaging in what he/she does. I love the way you set out niche examples. Really going the extra mile.
when he said about functional gestures...i juz randomly flew my hand in the air saying'whaddup boyz@and apparently my sister was beside me and smacked her right in the face oopsXD
You’re insane! Every time I watch you I learn more than I have in 11 years of school
Haha yeah I don't know if that is good or bad. 11 years vs 17 minutes 😂 happy that you're liking the content 😀 get ready for Friday!!
I am so happy you got on Pewdiepie... This topic you talk about is EXTREMELY interesting and I find it super helpful, not only practical, but also to boost my self esteem and become a better speaker and thus: a better person. Thanks so much, you amazing person!
I really enjoyed the format of this video. Its really engaging however I am sure its difficult to record - so perhaps 2-3 locations for a video would be interesting to use. I especially love the natural and unedited elements of the video where you and your crew are being playful. It very enjoyable to watch since its a random conversation among friends it feels like we are there with you. Keep on experimenting, thanks for the video.
Nice and cool feedback 😀. That's a third of my YT team BTW. Missing my editor.
@@DavidJPPhillips yes, 2 to 3 locations would be less jumping.
Why do you tilt your head to the LEFT? I mean does it have to be left or could it also be right? Because I see myself tilting my head more often to the right than to the left since it's more comfortable for my head.
Both sides have the same effect 💜👍
I tried to tilt my head to the right and now i realise i have little to no control of my body
This reminds me of when dogs tilt their heads. People apparently perceive them to be genuinely interested in whatever they're looking at when doing this. However, they only tilt their heads so they can hear better when they hear a sound -- trying to figure out what that sound is.
@@Henoik That's why the general consensus is that they do it because they're intrested... They're trying to listen to you..
This guy and his team deserves more attention. I just hope he knows that any type of educational content doesn't bring as many views as pure entertainment. But he is doing amazing job. Im in love
7:09 THE ONE SHOULDER SHRUG 🤣🤣🤣🤣 HAHA
Skill, not talent
The one person I'd love to see you cover is Michael from Vsauce. In my opinion I think we can learn alot from him especially how to teach or talk about complicated topics without the listeners losing interest or getting confused.
Love your content dood I really admire you for what you are doing!
Another youtuber to react to might be Thoughty2. He actually had some coaching at some point which helped him refine his presentation style.
Such a good video! Thanks for answering my question!
It was quite interesting how the scenery changed with every question, It's definitely something I never saw before.
That was a nice touch to the video definitely, he really thought about exactly how he wanted to answer the questions. I commend him for putting that much effort into it, he certainly didn't have to do that.
Why do I get so overwhelmed with endorphins when I watch David's videos?
Oh, it's cause he makes me smile.
Oh, hey, Notification gang!
I work in medical/dental insurance in the US and was recently promoted from a production level position to a position where I am solely responsible for writing code for automation scripts. As such, I have need to regularly speak with employees at every level of the organization to explain what I've coded and how to use it. Your videos have helped me in communicating in those meetings so much. Can't thank you enough. Towel gang!
Wow thanks for that Joshua! I am really happy to hear that the stuff I put out helps in one way or another 💜
#towelgang
This is absolute gold.
The humor was amazing, the Q and A is original. All I say is you're currently my favorite educational channel. Forget SciShow and Crash Course. Forget TwosetViolin, and forget video game UA-camr devs. You're the golden David this world needs.
Whoa thank you David (epic name BTW). I'll be sure to tell my team and especially the one who was the creative mind! 💜
@@DavidJPPhillips Nice
“They think I’m crazy and I am”
I’m glad I could be apart of the beginning of such a wholesome and amazing community...
You brighten my day with your energy, I guess that's why you're the best public speaker
And you brighten mine 😀 thx for being here!
@@DavidJPPhillips love you dude, keep up the fabulous work
i wish my teachers in high school were as nice and caring as you are, i often to look back and cringe at my younger and dumber self and all the things i said out of lack of understanding and irritating my teachers to the point where i cant sleep. I often found myself talked over the majority of my school years aswell so i just stayed quiet and listened instead this got me farther with friends then talking ever did.
these days the only things that settles my nerves is comedy shows, games, and maybe a beer. the lack of confidence and not enjoying talking to people and having to show a smile really has hindered finding a good job with my little experience, i have definitely isolated myself.
but anyway on a lighter note, your videos are very heart filled and always get me smiling. i love seeing how joyful you have been in this past week since pewds reacted to your video. thank you for the tips has given me some things to think about and keep up the great work :)
I love that after every tip he gives us he discretely uses those tips during the video but also makes it obvious enough for us to notice it so that we can see how it should be used. That was very smart and really interesting to see.
Thabks for noticing Raabiah!! Happy that you're here with us ❤️
The humor in these vids keep evolving and the content is as always, amazing
I decided to take your advice of leaning head to the side and saying haha no way that’s incredible! Was I doing it to much? My ear was on my shoulder and I said “haha no way that’s incredible” every 5 seconds! They ran away crying and I couldn’t comfort them because I had no idea what they were talking about!
Yeah, just tone that down a notch 😂
This channel is already so useful I love it
Edit: just learned that I'm not a sheep :0
Go Caroline!! So the question is, are you a bunny or a peacock?
@@DavidJPPhillips
Hmmm... I'm a bunny because I may seem nice, but I will bite people if necessary
@@carolinephillips9255 haha well that's a good evolutionary trait. The bunny and peacock I meant will be coming up in one of my videos soon 👍😀
@@DavidJPPhillips
Oh cool! I completely missed that lol
You are a great source of inspiration, I work as non verbal communication analyst and I find your public speech analysis so insightful!
You owe me a coffee for making me spill out with your functional gesture demo.
😂😂😂 Sorry mate
His smile is so intoxicating, it always makes me smile right back. This channel is one of my favourites.
15:42 He breathed instead of using a filler sound 😀
Omg well freaking spotted!!! 👊
Did you record this in paradise?
At home ❤️
That's your home!
That's amazing
This is actually my most LOVED video by you. Using video as a tool to implement a lot of what you preach. The regular change of scenery, WHAT IS THE GRAPEFRUIT BOARD ABOUT, WHAT DOES THE SIGN IN THE KITCHEN SAY, small changes or occurrences to regain our interest regularly but not in a way to distract...ahhh. so good.
Could you please make longer reaction videos. Like when you react to UA-camrs, could you do a detailed analysis as I really love your videos but they can be short.
Thx mate, it's all about finding the sweet spot at the moment, some want them shorter, some longer. 13 minutes seems right atm. But as the channel growth I promise some longer special editions!! 👊 Thx for being here! #towelgang United 😀
#towelgang
I have a question how do I prevent Stuttering and being mental block when I'm speaking in front of many people like for examples reporting in a class, appreciate it
I'm not an expert, but I'd say just keep practicing. If you're confident in yourself and what you're saying, there's no need to stutter or freeze. It does take time to be relaxed, speaking in front of other people, just keep at it.
So my girlfriend is in grad school to be a speech pathologist! I hear tidbits about stuttering so don’t take this as gospel. BUT the most important takeaway I get from her stuttering talks is to not let it get to you. Many people start stuttering, and then later in life associate their stutters with negative social interactions. This can develop an anxiety response in which when you are about to speak, you are anxious which can actually cause you to lock up and stutter more than you did before. This effect can basically snowball into a result in which some/a good portion of your stutter may be due to the anxiety of stuttering. Like I said though, I’m not a pro but I would recommend practice in the mirror and changing your perception of your stutters from something negative, to things that happen and it’s ok! Hopefully this will reduce some of that anxiety and let you float over sections that may have made you stutter before! Good luck and sorry for the rant
I used to stutter quite a bit growing up and I learned to know when I want to say before I say it, and how I want to say it. Sometimes it feels like my mind is ahead of whatever is coming out of my mouth and I have to tell myself to slow down and relax.
This guy is coming for the throne of Charisma on Command, just you wait! 😉
When he said I love you to the cows it felt so wholesome. Loving your videos. Please do another one of these kind of videos, it really helps us to learn more about public speaking.
i experienced this one thing in my life and i think it is so accurate. it is about complementing, when you complement someone their ego increases and they feel like they are better then everyone.
The same will happen to you one day because you receive complements everyday. the thing i want to say is that complementing others is not a good idea.
I'm very identified with the last one so, thank you
Whilst I know this comment is 2 weeks late from when this video was first available, I wanted to say how much I appreciate and value having been introduced to your channel.
I don’t entirely know why you were recently recommended to me via the homepage, but I’m grateful you were.
Your content has benefited so many people (including myself) and we’re thankful for you and your crew for your willingness to help others through your videos.
Public speaking (which as stated here, affects every aspect of interaction) had never been something I excelled in.
Your content however, is helping me better understand how I can improve in that area.
So, thank you.
I look forward in anticipation for more content to come.
Ps. Congrats on 100k (a little belated i know)
“I would love to teach you more”
*points with middle finger*
Wholesome man! Back at it again!
The cameraman is damn good it’s like he’s actively editing it while filming so he doesn’t have to edit it later
Its always a blast to see a video from you come out!
thank you for your honest work!
LOVE THIS FORMAT
I really enjoy your authenticity, thanks a lot!
This was such a beautiful video, so entertaining, so down to earth and the last section of this video changed so much the pace that became emotional and I almost teared up
David: sharing super useful and smart ideas on comunication.
Me: searching for the towel.
This is crazy. I took a genuine interest in his videos for 2 days now and thought he should have his own subreddit.
He read my mind.
Also, a very pleasant video format
I love these new style of videos
This dude was born for answering questions. I love these
You are almost at 100k Subscribers!!! Congratulations!!
I love watching you learn and trying new video ideas. You already have the skill of public speaking and are wonderful at teaching it. You truly care about helping others and it shows in everything you do. You spend the extra time to make your videos more engaging by showing you are human like the rest of us. In turn, making what you are saying more relatable to everyone.
As a person that grew up without the internet and was taught, in a public school, proper phone etiquette this makes me so happy that you are trying to help so many that never had a chance to learn why public speaking is so important. Thank You for being You!
Video idea:
Analyse the top 10 or 50 or even top 100 UA-camrs to see what they have in common/skills most of them use. If that seems to big you might watch to watch videos who analyse 100’s of things and put it in 15-30 minutes. I think it will be very interesting.
I did comment this last video however I think he didn’t see it.
This is awesome!! I’m so glad I subscribed. The info is helpful, you’re engaging, and the locations/backgrounds are so interesting!! Thanks for the truly quality content.
So much to learn from your Videos! Thanks for everything you do
The editing is so good I love it. Maximum effort.
I love your videos! Who would've thought I would learn so much about public speaking in such an interesting way!
This video was amazing, please do more like this!
Really nice david, you did a wonderful job......
Now I am giving you seretonin.
Yep this was so much fun and informative! Much love!
Been hooked since I saw your tedtalk.... Well done David...👍
Hey man thank you very much for the tips and guidance 🙏🙏
I really appreciate that you cared enough for my question... that's true floor gang❤️❤️ stay awesome.
this was so chill and relaxing
Wow loving your video's, always inspired when I see the skills you preach being used so effectively. I can't say I'm any where near the lvl of public speaking and communication such as your exuberant self, but I can attest to the advice you gave to the question in 14:26. Said skills have played a major role in influencing my growth and perspective about the world. I believe I too suffered in a similar way in adolescence, but hope to keep learning and growing from inspiring individuals such as yourself.
This was great! I especially appreciated the tip on how to consciously avoid using filler sounds. Definitely something I'm going to start practicing.
So happy I found this channel. This is really interesting and helpful!
So many people must watch this one!
Your honesty helping me out a lot, thanks for just doing these kinds of vids 👍👍👍
This is the best Q&A.
Hell yeah another vid from the legend
This is amazing
I never knew I need this if I ever succeeded in public speaking at least 70% of it is from you.
And I love this format.
I just discovered your channel and I'm willing to work on myself and my communication more than ever. I love this and I will continue learning from your videos ❤
The scene changes for every question 😍 such good attention to detail!
Love it & can't wait for your next video David!
Hey David. I wanted to start off with saying that I wish you would have done youtube when I was in high school. I was very nervous when it came to public speaking and the people there did not help much. All my life I’ve been using filler sounds and this is the first time I’ve heard to just BREATHE and replace those filler sounds. I even talked to my psychologist about this and the person just told me “you need to calm down” which gave me more stress😂. I just want to thank you cause I want to improve on this starting since the first video I saw from you. I’m just 18 years old and I recently just started college and it has been nerve recking cause things here in Puerto Rico haven’t been good at all and including the pandemic it is even worse. I honestly had been losing hope to even make friends because I could not find the right people but I do have my girlfriend which has helped me in bad situations. I hope you keep making videos and I know that soon you’re going to have so many comments that you wont be able to answer them😂 but it’s okay. I just wish you the best of luck. And again to just thank you for making videos like these in these really bad times. It truly does feel like your channel is a light at the end of a tunnel. Thank you for being YOU. Stay safe David, see you in your next video❤️❤️
Your channel is amazing! Hope you will continue posting these videos !
Watching old videos again to gain some Serotonin. Wish I could double like. Thanks for the smiles. I laughed quite happily at the functional gesture exchange between you and Oliver.
Thank you, David! I needed this channel for a long time.
Awesome, thanks man for the comment! Let's make it big together!
I am subscribed since the analysis of PewDiePie came out. Haven't regretted since and I feel like this channel and you, David, will be a huge help for my experience in talking with people, performing for the audience and for my everyday life in general. Thank you for your content!
I swear I never thought ur videos would give me so much seretonin
Great way to start the morning, watching this video. I bet this info will be super useful for when I have to take a public course for my major
This was so fun and informative!
I love the comedy crossed with social science 🙌🏼 don’t stop posting please!!!!
Extremely useful advice again
As long as you have the energy, passion, and time to realize other videos likes this one, I'm gonna ask: "I want more!".
Because I really loved It.
The arguments, the format, the locations, the jokes, the help.
Hope to see a new video of yours pop up soon on my subscriptions page, because that'll always put a smile on my face.
P.S.
I felt analyzed writing this comment...! 🤔
I absolutely love this video. Thank you!
It brought some laughs, and knowledge and very good balance in general!
Keep at it!
Thanks mate 😀 we're playing around, finding my style 💜
This dude is so fun and entertaining! It makes learning from him that much easier! Keep it up man!
Thaaaanks Sierra!! 💜 Happy that ur here 😀
These tips are better for relieving anxiety in social situations than anything I found on google. Anytime I am talking to someone I am more focused on trying to improve my way of speaking instead of the anxiety of speaking at all. I'm so glad I found this channel through Pewdiepie and i am looking forward to learning a lot more through future videos. Much love from germany
I love this video it's entertaining and educational at the same time you really know what you're doing thanks a lot for the tips as always you're amazing 💓🙏