How to Equip Yourself to Handle Stress and Hard Decisions
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- Опубліковано 13 жов 2024
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Which supplements Dr. John Delony is currently taking and why he’s obsessed with them. A man struggling with the decision to surrender his parental rights to his ex. A mother unsure of how much responsibility she should put on her depressed and suicidal teen
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First caller: I think he can tell that giving up his rights is probably what's best for his daughter seeing as how he's not in her life at all and doesn't seem to want to be...but he knows how bad it sounds and what people will think of him if he does it. I wonder what ultimately happened.
John's frustration with the first caller is super warranted. I had a mother who lost custody when I was an infant and she always tried to butt in. it made things so much harder than they needed to be if she would have just kept her crazy out of my life.
My dad would have walked through fire, volcanoes, hurricanes, the absolute worst, just to come home and get a hug from his daughters. Every single day. Even on days when life was hard and he was struggling. He always put us first always. He certainly didnt forget about us and start a new family in a new state nor would he ever imagine that. And let me tell you not a single day of my dads life was easy.
Show starts at 17:30! I’ve really enjoyed how you get right into the calls lately, the 10 minute intros can be a bit much.
I disagree
This is information that most aren't aware of, I am because I read The Mood Cure which is about amino acids that provide the brain chemicals we need when we teach for toxic love or heroin as an example. A very interesting read.
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Michelle, I completely agree. The excessive ad made me angry.
The best thing to do is sit down and talk with this father. Thank him for being her dad but express that you want to be a part of her life. Work that out between the families. Then step up.
“You were a television show for your daughter with an interactive character.”
OOOUUCH!!!! 😳
If the first caller decides to give his daughter up for his ex-wife’s husband’s adoption, then he should make darn sure he is a good man. Don’t take the the ex’s word for it. Watch him and get to know him over time -it’s your daughter’s life!
Once he signs over rights he has no rights to that child that he obviously didnt care enough about to see in years
He doesn’t realize that the step dad already has more rights than he does.
Knew a man who gave up his rights for stepfather to adopt. Kid came back 18 years later to tell of abuse after mother died. At the time of adoption, the adoptive father was in a better position financially and seemed responsible. Biological father grew up without one of his parents, so he thought giving up rights would ensure growing up with two parents who loved each other would be better than what he grew up with (biological parents in most instances were in conflict). His hoping things would be different for his child's childhood was not what he hoped for her.
He’s the one that they need to be watching? He’s not been around in years
Why is the daughter NOW worth it? As the new wife to him….why didn’t you guide him through this? Therapy, phone calls, trips ect.
As the mother, why didn’t you demand paternity as soon as she was born and track down this guy?
SMH all the way around.
This poor little girl.
Thank you to the man stepping up for this girl.
At the end of the day this girl has a dad, that is a blessing. Even if it's not her biological father, she has someone. Many children don't, I wish my dad would've found harder for me and my sister 😢
My Dad died when I was 5, and I was lucky enough to have a stepdad soon after. My mother and stepdad are no longer married, they divorced when I was 15 (36 now) and my stepdad remained in my life just as much as he was growing up, after they divorced.
He was everything a Dad and father should be, even more. I just saw him today in fact.
But there is not a day that goes by without me thinking of my biological Dad and wondering what he would be like now. All I have are other people’s wonderful stories of him. I will never be a whole person because the one that loved me the most passed on way too young. I miss him every day.
There’s no right answer for the first caller. My heart aches for him. I have no words of wisdom, and I hope everyone in that situation gets out least unscathed.
The first call is hard. I almost cried when dr D said he can't breath without his daughter. Sad
Dr. Delony thank you so much for a great discount! I've been wanting to try a few things. Thank you for your honesty & just wanting to help us. May God continue to bless you in all you do.
Hard call. I’d move to Alabama and pick up aluminum cans if I had to
That little girl will ask her mom why she prevented her dad from making contact and she will ask her dad why he did not try harder.
After 5 yrs, I'd say it's time to sign over the rights.
Not going to lie, it was easy to not want to watch this given a 16 minute promotion. Glad I did, but was frustrating leading up to it.
The first caller needs to grow a spine and be the man his daughter deserves.
17 and a half minutes straight of ads. That's excessive.
I agree!
He did that for people who are interested in becoming healthier. I appreciate him explaining everything.
@@christaparham it was the placement. Would've been better to tease it say the beginning for like 30 seconds and come back to it later. I skipped through bc it was so cringey when he was like "I'm so excited about this..." just like he does with that christian mortgage company they promote lol
I will say this. At least the company he promoted is a good one. One of the supplements I take is from them. Usually buy thru Amazon but hey, if it's cheaper using the discount website, then yeah I'll take advantage of that. But still. Cringe.
@@NeuroSeasoned if you were him and people were asking specifically about what you consume what would you do? If it was in the order you said someone else would have an issue with it or you would probably still skip and cringe since you are not interested.
Don’t give up on your little girl ! Never to late … 😢
While I do agree with most of what Dr. John says...I feel like I can't agree that video chat can't build a relationship. I have immune issues and can't be around almost anyone at all, for years. I fight hard to make connections and to maintain relationships through technology-it's not the best option, or even a great option-but for some of us, it's all we got. Those relationships do count-at least they do to the people who need them. But 100%, if in person is an option like it is for this caller-it has got to be a priority.
I do not appreciate a sixteen-minute advertisement at the beginning of the podcast. :(
Drives me crazy too! Fast forward, that’s what I do.
Ya it's frustrating.... I just hit fast forward until I get to someone else's voice, or when John starts talking loud and excitable lol
Wow- it's not too late to step up and be a real man/ an adult- stop making excuses.
Remember, Everyone starts off the with the same pitch: (1) Bash the supplement industry, (2) Plug the one that is supporting you, (3) suprise here's my discount code
Well if it works it works lol. Remember everyone should do their own due diligence as he stated so I don't see the problem.
Stop hating
People were curious about what he takes. So he told us. If you don’t like it, just skip it. No need to comment
@@christaparham people can comment whatever the want. Stop being a child.
@@sXePunkV2 I agree. But somethings can be left as thoughts. My statement was not childlike at all. But thanks😊
I am the guy on the other side of the equation. I stepped up adopted the kid and married the mom when a guy gave up his rights and abhor him for doing so.
You can be indigent and pissy but to tell the man his wife will likely leave him is cheap a stupid. She’s been there through the whole thing and they’re raising their own child together.
Nope it isnt the wife will figure out he is a coward soon enough
@@erismana2105 they have an entirely separate life and started over. If there’s a redemption story to be had in any of it, he’s doing it.
He stuffed up day one, and he needs to relinquish for this little girls sake
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John seemed really judgmental of the first caller.
The guy probably isn't the most stand up guy, but women also can be really difficult w/ fathers once they're broken up. The woman thinks they own the child and can make your life a misery. Also, john speaks from a happy married man in a traditional family and it seems like unmarried fathers struggle to feel passionately about their kids when they have a very contentious relationship w/ the mother.
Also, families don't blend easily at all, so if you're a single man and re-marry and want to stay married, they prioritize the new wife and any new kids over the "old kids" and even in this situation there is also still a lot of conflict over the children(and their ex's) that they fathered before. All around bad idea to be having babies out of wedlock, biblical principles are there for a reason.
Very judgmental which was surprising since he usually seems non judgemental. I feel bad for the first caller as his ex obviously slept around hence the paternity being up in the air so that created distance between him and this child then her setting up obstacles from him seeing her...yeah I can see why for sure. Utlimately rhe child suffers.
Found the dead beat dads
No you are wrong. Most women want to protect their children form abusive assholes and most the time the father is abusive of some sort not just physical. Always always always stand up with the woman because I can assure you that 99% it’s the man’s fault. Most of them are abusive or dead beat husbands and fathers. Kids do not need to have shitty fathers in their lives.
He intentionally went FOUR YEARS without seeing his daughter…
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Video start 17:17
This guy who hasn’t seen his child and now wants to know if he should fight for her! He doesn’t give a damn! He needs to grow up and let her go if the other man I’d actually being a father!! Damn right it’s his ego realizing he’s a bumb!
What's up with 1/3 of the show being infomercials?
This is called parent alienation by opposite parent, he needs to be proactive get custody rights first to force the mom to let his daughter see him first off,
Gray does not want to be in his daughters life. I was juat waiting for him to say oy out loud. Of he wanted to be there, he would have found a way. Honestly, it sounds like he feels she is just a hindrance to his actual life.
Regarding Thorne ... I dislike the placement of the long ad HOWEVER I do buy from them ... While I haven't researched quality myself (I have no idea what to look for), I do take their prenatal bc it's one of very few that has the right kind of folate that I can absorb (as explained by my naturopath doctor who ordered some lab work). Not pregnant - had my last kid 4 years ago, but I have the (surprisingly common!!) MTFHR gene mutation so I don't absorb folate correctly and their prenatal has some version that I can actually absorb. A lot of brands say they include folate but it's the wrong type. Most people don't know this, and folate is super important for our mental health.
Wow there’s a huge pump for a company 15 minutes??. As a pharmacist there are significantly cheaper options that are certified by USP
I had to retrieve my daughter from her father's custody, and it was expensive and difficult, but it turned out to be for the best because her father abused the daughter he had with a subsequent wife. I would have asked if this guy has been financially supporting his daughter, which would show some intention to be part of her life. My thought would be not to confuse the child with a new relationship.
First caller: The little girl is young enough to start fresh from here and she may not even remember when her biological dad wasn’t around. She will have more people to love her. If he signs off on parental rights he can’t change his mind. His son will also never know his sister. Idk John said there’s no choice that isn’t going to hurt people but if he goes back to her, the pain will be temororary. At least go back to court and try jeez, show that child you did your best. He’s not unable to be a good dad, he’s doing it will his son. Sad sad sad. If those rights are signed over he needs to eat that for life and that’s a pain I can’t imagine. Plus, he will be missing out on knowing his precious daughter.
If I were the man's daughter, he never ever was in my life, and he never even tried to have a relationship with me, I'd tell him he has no rights.
This guy is not her father at all.
He could have gone to court to make sure he was able to see his daughter. All I hear is excuses.
This is not a debate. You either want to. Or you don't! It's pretty simple.
Let your daughter have a real father, and it's not you.
Be careful with Gabba. You can develop a dependency and it may not be good to take daily. It's better to save for when other things don't work
If you don’t have any right to be in your daughter’s life, then why was there a paternity test done? Are you paying child support? That’s the question here. If you are, go to court and get visitation rights figured out.
what are the best vitamins for someone in renal failure?
Episode actually starts at 17:15
Can you extend this offer in Canada pls?
my father never showed up one day when I was born or after .I have never met him . he tried to reach out to me when he found out he was dying I would not return the call and I was in my late twenties
I don't know if there's other issues in this situation with the possible adoption but for him not to have any contact with his daughter at all no
The first caller is more than likely abusive from my personal experience and he wants control. That’s it. He could care less about that poor kid
This “father” needs to talk to the girl and ask her if she wants the stepdad to be her dad.
Dr John that song was John Waite. Rod Stewart just did a cover of it I believe
I hate that Churchill ad. It really doesn't go with your program
this man's got some other issues I'm not sure exactly what they are he needs to talk to her professional and get it out in the open so this little girl can have her dad
This culture of being “scared” is so screwed up. We need to produce men not mice.
Echo your Thorne comments.
Good morning , anyone use Thorne
Good morning! I do for creatinine. If you workout, it’s worth it for the extra oomph. The digestive enzymes are a life saver for food intolerances. All the naturopaths and health professionals I know use them. It’s great quality.
I’m curious too … any more reviews?
Haven't researched quality, but I take their prenatal bc it's one of very few that has the right kind of folate that I can absorb. Not pregnant, had my last kid 4 years ago, but I have the (surprisingly common!!) MTFHR gene mutation so I don't absorb folate correctly and their prenatal has some version that I can actually absorb. A LOT of brands say they include folate but it's the wrong type. Most people don't know this, and folate is super important for our mental health.
Integrative medicine doctors recommend Thorne, Life Extension, and Integrative Therapeutics.
That first caller is heading for divorce #2
first caller...come clean... tell the complete truth. 😢
this man needs to stop being wishy-washy and make a move , and deal with the outcome
I love how he bashes other supplement company's just because he's getting paid by this one lolz. I can tell you that Walmart ginko is just as effective as uber boogie ones that most people can't afford.
He didn't bash other brands. It's a sponsorship so yes, he's going to use and promote their products. 👍 However I can attest that Thorne is a great brand. There's very few supp brands I use, and Thorne is one of them. Cheaper supp brands source ingredients from cheaper quality sources and places, like China. Cheaper brands also use fillers. They may also use inferior forms of ingredients. (Ie ferrous sulfate versus ferrous gluconate). "You get what you pay for."
Obviously he is going to sell Thorne but I will say there has been many podcasts before their partnership that he recommended this company so I really do believe that he trusts this company.
He tells us that he's choosing to not be paid a commission and as a result we get 25% off. And if you look into the quality of the herbs, there's definitely a grading level. Personally our family has always used either nature's warehouse or Dr Shultz.
@@SDWits Look into how promo's work There's a lady on UA-cam that explains why she doesn't do have promos because of the strings attached
I generally agree with John but I don’t think he was right with the first caller. It doesn’t sound like he and the woman had much of a relationship or connection. So it’d be natural for an accidental baby to not be quite the same as a child he was there during pregnancy and birth for. And if she has a dad and a family, I think signing over rights is correct. But I’d try and negotiate summer visits or something.
I also think John was completely out of line when he said he wife might leave him! WTH. How can he preach that “all relationships can be saved” and then throw something out like that? Like their marriage and his father son relationship with their child is completely overridden by the fact his oops child he’s never been involved with is being given the chance to have a present father… if anything I think that’s a selfless choice in this case!
Idk. John I think you were way too judgmental and way too hard on the poor guy. Maybe you learned things from the edited out portions we didn’t hear… but from what I heard this wasn’t your best call.
The saddest thing is that this guy's genes are being passed down,
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