1. Empowering belief about yourself to fallback 2. give up control about things you can't control (don't seek approval) 3. amuse yourself first, make sure you have a good time 4. lower the bar 5. don't be afraid to make a mistake
Lifting weights is the hands down fastest way to build confidence, that can be applied to other areas. Even reading books, in comparison, takes time to notice an improvement. With weight training, improvement happens faster, thus transferable confidence comes quickly.
Weirdly enough, doesn’t work for me that way. I do fitness and gym workouts, but I am only confident in that area. The other areas in life like dating, painting, programming, socializing are isolated from each other and have to work on every one of them for confidence. Don’t know why. Guess my mind just works like that.
Melli, this is exactly why I continue to support you even when I do not directly need your services. The truth is RAW & HARD... I enjoy your rawness, direct & crazy delivery. Some of these things you speak...I learnt from my uncles & personal experience. Thanks for being straightforward & RAW ...say it like it is. This video exposes TRUTH...Keep on taking your shit in a crazy way. We need to scale your products exponentially for some real money...btw who goes on a date to a grit-eating place ..hahaha
I'd like to share my personal experience about going on a date and choosing the restaurant. Long story short I chose the restaurant, she said it wasn't her favourite and suggested an alternative, I said no, she stopped answering my calls and texts so I deleted her number. Women cannot stand being told no but they need to hear it sometimes with no justification.
Did you like the restaurant you chose and did the one she chose bother you? Because there's nothing wrong with being empathetic about a choice. From the little you expressed here, saying no seems more childish than assertive, it's not really a life altering decision and seeing as how women are very vulnerable when it comes to dating choosing something that gives her comfort isn't a bad thing. Again, just based off what you said here.
She sound like an ungrateful person… you going out your way to invite her out, paying for her meal and trying to show her a nice time and she gonna complain about where you paying to take her. Unreal
Working out is the best way for men to gain confidence. A worked body makes you very relaxed and not care about other's opinions. Basis for confidence.
When I was in high school, I had a friend who was like Pig Pen from Charlie Brown. He stunk like a garbage bin. This dude had a different girlfriend every week. He was confident; in fact, I think he was blisfully ignorant. He didn't realize he stunk. But he loved to dance; the women loved that about him.
Hello Melli your looking like a Georgia Peach today and that's a good thing!! Hope your feeling better from last night show that was so funny at times, i almost chocked on my food from laughing so hard at "Snoop Puppy" appearance and you laughing so hard as well. Wow what a show, the guest you had wasn't feeling her to much because she was rude at times and i just couldn't vibe with her. When you start saying you don't like certain race of people that's a turn off for me. She said she don't like Jamaican men at all that was not nice to say when a lot of your viewers are Jamaican men and women, she heart some feelings last night by saying that. Anyway love your show and personally.😘🕊️😘🕊️😃😎
Maaaaaaaaan y’all need to listen to this lady real shit. Listening to her and taking what she says in her videos and applying it got my girl acting right af. She pretty much worships the ground I walk on. When I tell you it didn’t take much for her to get her shit together I meant it. I ignored her ass for damn near a week called my phone in tears and begging for forgiveness and for me not to leave her. TUNE IN AND TAKE NOTES FELLAS!!!
Girl:"Make me laugh." Me: (Reached out, touched and tickled her) Girl: (Giggling)"No, not that type. Tell me a joke or a funny story." Me: "Next time be more specific." 😎
Yep you are definitely right about that beautiful work on having confidence men but some women will try to destroy your confidence if you have too much so you gotta watch that type of shit too ,because she might be to stuck on herself in think she's the shit because of her looks in think you below her because of her occupation . So you got to watch that shit if she's like that tell the broad to kick rocks in move on.
Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe healthy and financially blessed Amen ✌🏾✌🏾... And you will never lose a loved one🖤
I really appreciate you giving game to the men from a woman's perspective... Which seems to come from an authentic, believable place...Big UPS!!!!.....ALSO... Very nice to the eye.... I can get game and still enjoy my eye candy ....2FOR1
I’m 32 and I’ve learned to just stop really giving a fuck. At the end of the day… be reasonable but fuck ppl. It’s your life… you have to live it… so just do what you want or what you feel is right
1. Empowering belief about yourself to fallback
2. give up control about things you can't control (don't seek approval)
3. amuse yourself first, make sure you have a good time
4. lower the bar
5. don't be afraid to make a mistake
Confidence don’t just come out of thin air. If you want true solid confidence Self improve (Self improvement = Confidence)
some ppl just have it like that. and some ppl have to work on it. I don't have to work on it. I came shooting my shot out the womb. jk.
Actually I’ve been confident since a lil boy when I had nothing but hopes n dreams
Bullsheit
@@charleshunt3735 gaslighter
Confidence is back up belief cocky is make-believe confidence
I'm a CIA man , Confident, Intelligent, and Assertive . You are right Melli
Kevin Samuels is not dead he's in the comments
What a inspiration 😂.
“You are how you are” … that’s balls deep wisdom right there
Lifting weights is the hands down fastest way to build confidence, that can be applied to other areas. Even reading books, in comparison, takes time to notice an improvement. With weight training, improvement happens faster, thus transferable confidence comes quickly.
I agree.
Weirdly enough, doesn’t work for me that way. I do fitness and gym workouts, but I am only confident in that area. The other areas in life like dating, painting, programming, socializing are isolated from each other and have to work on every one of them for confidence. Don’t know why. Guess my mind just works like that.
Melli, this is exactly why I continue to support you even when I do not directly need your services. The truth is RAW & HARD... I enjoy your rawness, direct & crazy delivery. Some of these things you speak...I learnt from my uncles & personal experience. Thanks for being straightforward & RAW ...say it like it is. This video exposes TRUTH...Keep on taking your shit in a crazy way.
We need to scale your products exponentially for some real money...btw who goes on a date to a grit-eating place ..hahaha
She give the best advice salute Melli love your channel
I'd like to share my personal experience about going on a date and choosing the restaurant. Long story short I chose the restaurant, she said it wasn't her favourite and suggested an alternative, I said no, she stopped answering my calls and texts so I deleted her number. Women cannot stand being told no but they need to hear it sometimes with no justification.
Did you like the restaurant you chose and did the one she chose bother you? Because there's nothing wrong with being empathetic about a choice. From the little you expressed here, saying no seems more childish than assertive, it's not really a life altering decision and seeing as how women are very vulnerable when it comes to dating choosing something that gives her comfort isn't a bad thing. Again, just based off what you said here.
Amen
She sound like an ungrateful person… you going out your way to invite her out, paying for her meal and trying to show her a nice time and she gonna complain about where you paying to take her. Unreal
Energy Queen Melli
Working out is the best way for men to gain confidence. A worked body makes you very relaxed and not care about other's opinions. Basis for confidence.
Everything you said was real , I felt it ❤️💯
She said a mouth full.
Melli, so, so true. We get in our own way when we overthink what hasn't even happened yet on a date! Energy & Confidence Vampire.
You rock, sexy lady
Confidence is true power you are right..Mellii I love your eye lips and hands good classes...
Glad to see you are feeling better today!!!! Havagoodne Melli ! Hope to drop by tonight if you have pineapple show and say howdy !🤠 God bless!!!!
“What’s up loverrsss “ 😂🖤
I love your words bought time a whole woman stood and explained to men what Queens want!
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm 🤔 once again the universe Queen 🧡 melli enlighting messages are allways appreciated and Displayed with excessive BEAUTY 😍
I love this woman 😁 She spitting real fax 📠❤️
Melli is Stripping.! Lol 😆🤣 Big Up Melli from jamaica , Always love your insights, taught me A lot Girl 🇯🇲
Yo, I love your energy Melli! 🙌🏾
Thank you Melli ❤
Yea this video is bout to do me RiIIIIIIIIGHT! 🤚🏽 that thangs are big & nice
You're doing some good work. Appreciate you, much success in all that you do.
You are right. I’ve seen some really ugly women that think they are fine. It’s their confidence that is crazy.
I’m always stunned when a fat woman trots out a “sexy” attitude. I’m like, no mirrors in your house???
Shirley Bassye'S song.. you killing me softly
Love you Melli
This was a quality video. I already practice all of these things, it’s great to see someone validate it.
Melli, you are amazing! NOt just how you look, but your message!
OMG thank you for the great advice, much appreciated 👍🏾
You always changing your hairstyle! Lovely! Greetings from Poland!
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable that's Tru confidence also practice make perfect so it will feel normal..
Keep on sharing with us.
Enjoy your show. Finally the first to comment. Keep it up and music is 🔥.
I insist on more tops like this. I mean topics. 😊
When I was in high school, I had a friend who was like Pig Pen from Charlie Brown. He stunk like a garbage bin. This dude had a different girlfriend every week. He was confident; in fact, I think he was blisfully ignorant. He didn't realize he stunk. But he loved to dance; the women loved that about him.
First comment, love your energy. You’re so attractive that you can teach a lot while I’m distracted lol
this woman is speaking facts
You giving out all this game.. The guy who is getting your attention is lucky 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💯💯💯😘😘😘
Hello Melli your looking like a Georgia Peach today and that's a good thing!! Hope your feeling better from last night show that was so funny at times, i almost chocked on my food from laughing so hard at "Snoop Puppy" appearance and you laughing so hard as well. Wow what a show, the guest you had wasn't feeling her to much because she was rude at times and i just couldn't vibe with her. When you start saying you don't like certain race of people that's a turn off for me. She said she don't like Jamaican men at all that was not nice to say when a lot of your viewers are Jamaican men and women, she heart some feelings last night by saying that. Anyway love your show and personally.😘🕊️😘🕊️😃😎
Mell's Harley Quinn character keeps popping up in all her statements 😂 😂 😂
Melli I'm definitely loving your outfit 🔥🔥🔥
Although out of shape and overweight my exes and dates have all said they loved that I was a complete gentleman, intelligent, and confident.
yeah! You are the best, you are fun and charismatic.
Love you back Melli
Keep it coming baby do what you do
Thank you for all the advice....
On point as always..
Maaaaaaaaan y’all need to listen to this lady real shit. Listening to her and taking what she says in her videos and applying it got my girl acting right af. She pretty much worships the ground I walk on. When I tell you it didn’t take much for her to get her shit together I meant it. I ignored her ass for damn near a week called my phone in tears and begging for forgiveness and for me not to leave her. TUNE IN AND TAKE NOTES FELLAS!!!
Melli u r the best. I love you im the screen, just what i need to see. U r all over in my head witg that dress.😂. Keep it up.
Girl:"Make me laugh." Me: (Reached out, touched and tickled her) Girl: (Giggling)"No, not that type. Tell me a joke or a funny story." Me: "Next time be more specific." 😎
I see your confidence melli....... 👀🤤😍
your energy is captivating, you don't need to show all that off your body😉
Great Video 👍🏾
I played this video twice cuz first time I could not pay attention. Melli looks fine!
Great advice
You say a lot a true shit! Oh my God! I love your page Melli
There is no way I can watch this whole video...damn SAF! Without even trying!
Lookin fly Melli tell em to stop copying you 😎
Women LOVE confidence I've experienced it first hand
Yep you are definitely right about that beautiful work on having confidence men but some women will try to destroy your confidence if you have too much so you gotta watch that type of shit too ,because she might be to stuck on herself in think she's the shit because of her looks in think you below her because of her occupation . So you got to watch that shit if she's like that tell the broad to kick rocks in move on.
Notigang
You are the best ❤
Wow scrumptious
Damn Melli, this top 😄😄😍
Thanks
"Ahnd yhou knowh bhitches whanna have fuhn. 😊" 😂😂😂
Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe healthy and financially blessed Amen ✌🏾✌🏾... And you will never lose a loved one🖤
Them 🫧itties look so healthy and happy hello girls
Looking good Melli I look women dead in the eye they love it
Melli I'm guessing you've read the book and picked up on the philosophy both named "Win Anyway." Because that is some powerful advise. Keep winning!
I really appreciate you giving game to the men from a woman's perspective... Which seems to come from an authentic, believable place...Big UPS!!!!.....ALSO... Very nice to the eye.... I can get game and still enjoy my eye candy ....2FOR1
melli is for the guys 😂😂
Dam Mel
Me watching this and always practicing the 5hacks since birth....Guess I been a beast 🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
How’s everything Going pretty looking lady? 💜❤
Nicely, asked
Looking sweet as usual be true to yourself always
My baby😘
So entertaining to hear your pronunciation of swear words and saying “beeches” with your accent!
Interesting and informative 🇯🇲
You are wearing my reflection...no pull-ups needed...
Omg i can't watch this video no more!!!. Every time i watch it my hand getting sore!!!. I dont know why???
Hey meli what's your hiring sign
Her:The bitch...
Me:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Send my Bitch now she went to the streets. Time to fuck a Bitch on my Birthday!
Solid
NICE DRESS
I can't believe in 2022 adult males need to advice on how to be a regular functioning human being lol smh
I love your advise, to sexy to be true. ❤
You a intelligent woman
I love your Top
I'm here for the twins.
Melli do you even check these comments😂😂😂😂😂
Yo Melli, love this. Well done.... I would bring my A-Game every time around YOU. Just sayin'
Self-confidence is total belief in yourself and your abilities, and the total confidence in God and His Son. This is true confidence.
Somebody feeling better today
I'm confident you don't need be out here in your pajamas😂
I’m 32 and I’ve learned to just stop really giving a fuck. At the end of the day… be reasonable but fuck ppl. It’s your life… you have to live it… so just do what you want or what you feel is right
Are you a therapist cuz if you are I need to 📖 a session asap 🤣😂
Bruh I want this woman!
Learn your local tax codes. This has worked wonders for my confidence.
Thin line between confident and cocky remember that