Why You NEED To Travel Alone

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  • @themigueltuga
    @themigueltuga 7 років тому +1119

    Monica isn't just a vlogger who just shows how gorgeous her life is. She also shares the ups and downs of her life for being a millennial and that just makes her vlogs more realistic, original and well-made. 🙌💖

    • @LayneFable
      @LayneFable 7 років тому +4

      agreed! it is so refreshing

    • @prestokrs1
      @prestokrs1 7 років тому +1

      what downs? Being tired and having layovers?

    • @themigueltuga
      @themigueltuga 7 років тому

      Preston Chandler watch her Millenial Life Crisis playlist for more info. :~)

    • @globalrookie4079
      @globalrookie4079 7 років тому +1

      I love that she doesn't present everything as 'travel cruise brochure' perfect. The best experiences seem to come right after something else blows up!

  • @DaynasDiaries
    @DaynasDiaries 7 років тому +297

    Love this, I went to Bali by myself a week ago. Best life choice I have ever made, you really feel like you can accomplish any challenges in life (Corny but true). If you wait for other people you will always be waiting to do what you really want!

    • @s3kshun8music
      @s3kshun8music 7 років тому +1

      There's nothing corny about doing whatever you put your mind to. It's only corny to people that are afraid of doing so.

    • @anamarijakasan9952
      @anamarijakasan9952 6 років тому

      Same and I'm 24 :)

    • @dee468
      @dee468 6 років тому +2

      I never considered travelling alone till now. I'm just afraid of getting abducted or murdered...how do you overcome those fears?

    • @Alex-qs9jf
      @Alex-qs9jf 6 років тому +1

      Tori Leira come on, you're not afraid of being murdered when you leave your house alone. Other countries are not full of murderers either. Plus, if someone has a gun he can murder you whether you're alone or not.

    • @dee468
      @dee468 6 років тому

      newport 01 yeah, you're right. Fear is usually never based on sound reasoning...I'm just going to go for it.

  • @RobSmithCOS
    @RobSmithCOS 7 років тому +320

    Such an important message, not just for younger persons, but for people of all ages. Bravo Ms. Church. Your independence and happiness really shine through in this video.

  • @toscae
    @toscae 7 років тому +74

    actually did a solo trip to Seattle and Vancouver a couple weeks ago and i'm from the Netherlands 🙋🏻 honestly everybody should travel by theirselves at least once, being totally alone can actually be really great and empowering 💪🏼

  • @rose.marylo
    @rose.marylo 7 років тому +131

    always admired how you narrarate through out your b footage. I dont see many vloggers going about it in the way you do. You're so underrated Monica, thanks for being a kick ass human

  • @PolishtheLook
    @PolishtheLook 7 років тому +145

    Most inspirational vlogger...hands down.

  • @Jmp599
    @Jmp599 7 років тому +357

    Monica!! I needed this - I'm headed off to college very far from home soon & I'll have to fly by myself when I go home and stuff and I've never done that before so I needed the encouragement :) love you!!

    • @olivianicholson3541
      @olivianicholson3541 7 років тому +2

      Julia Park good luck!

    • @Jmp599
      @Jmp599 7 років тому +1

      olivia horan thanks so much!!

    • @jayinspace6758
      @jayinspace6758 7 років тому +2

      my advice would be to have fun with it. Adventure!

    • @itslenamaria
      @itslenamaria 7 років тому +1

      Julia Park Same! Moving out at age 17 haha. (Don't worry it's legal in Germany) Good luck! I know you can do this!

    • @TheBeautyBarbie98
      @TheBeautyBarbie98 7 років тому +5

      You'll be good! I go to school in New Jersey and live in Virginia and I drive 8-9 hours on my own on holidays! You get used to it! :)

  • @lucjawawrzyniak
    @lucjawawrzyniak 7 років тому +8

    I LOVE travelling alone! It's just perfect, you don't waste time on what someone else wants to do, you only do whatever you want and make the most of the time you have in a place.

  • @justinescalona
    @justinescalona 7 років тому +238

    that room is sick as fuck

    • @othermonica
      @othermonica  7 років тому +88

      when I described it as "sick" I felt like you hahaha

    • @TWINCOAST
      @TWINCOAST 7 років тому +1

      omg i love you both xxx

  • @purplepurls77
    @purplepurls77 7 років тому +332

    my university offers a study abroad program and i'm going to be going to the uk in september and will be travelling europe alone! woooooo

    • @Joceeeboo
      @Joceeeboo 7 років тому +10

      purplepurls77 just got back from doing the exact same thing!! you'll love every minute of it, don't worry

    • @lifeofalunatic1976
      @lifeofalunatic1976 7 років тому +4

      OMG I will interrail Europe the end of this month!

    • @hannahnicole2380
      @hannahnicole2380 7 років тому +6

      My university does the same thing! I'm going to the USA (from New Zealand) in August and I'm going to be super alone. Hopefully I'll get to travel around around the states a bit too. Good luck!

    • @heyitsjemma2481
      @heyitsjemma2481 7 років тому

      Hannah Nicole are you from Auckland uni. ... or what university in nz?

    • @hannahnicole2380
      @hannahnicole2380 7 років тому

      heyit's jemma Massey university in Palmerston North

  • @rachelk3259
    @rachelk3259 7 років тому +14

    Traveling alone is one of my favorite things to do. I recently went to Mt. Rushmore and Badlands National Park solo, and it was amazing. I highly recommend doing things by yourself, it truly is a different experience.

  • @alexisempleo3268
    @alexisempleo3268 7 років тому +41

    I love your message in this! I started college 2 years ago and have noticed that I spend less time with friends than I did in high school and more time with myself and I love the feeling of taking on challenges by myself

  • @KiaraMadisen
    @KiaraMadisen 7 років тому +3

    As an only child, your talk really spoke to me. I am used to doing things by myself, but sometimes I do second guess myself and just want to take the easy way out and chill in my room all day and do nothing. Every time I do push myself out of my comfort zone I am proud of myself which is a really awesome feeling :) Loved this video and your message!

  • @Aud_Elisabeth_
    @Aud_Elisabeth_ 7 років тому +50

    This is the exact conversation I've been having with myself! Thank you for talking about subjects that really interact with your viewers and make us feel involved. Whatever you're doing keep doing it, Monica! You're an inspiration

  • @nope968
    @nope968 7 років тому +66

    I needed this! I'm So scared all the time to be alone I always have to have people whit me always! and after that speek u did, I got motivision! thx!

  • @katek1874
    @katek1874 7 років тому +172

    I'm 17 and today is the first time I'm staying completely alone for 2 days(at home). Turns out I'm fine, even cooking dinner using youtube))

    • @alyssadehart1692
      @alyssadehart1692 7 років тому +12

      Kate K and that's the time to party

    • @jpoconnell8
      @jpoconnell8 7 років тому +8

      Kate K yea she should definitely throw a wild ass party

    • @VlogGrrr
      @VlogGrrr 7 років тому +19

      Kate K
      Good for you! 😄 There's something so relaxing and freeing about having the house to yourself! (without having to throw a party and trashing the place)

    • @madifairchild2564
      @madifairchild2564 7 років тому +12

      Throw a rager you'll be a legend

    • @lizzlocke3130
      @lizzlocke3130 7 років тому +12

      Play music, it'll feel less lonely or empty and use this time to try out all the dance moves you wouldnt want to do infront of any one =) ;)

  • @sabrinacarey5728
    @sabrinacarey5728 7 років тому +22

    i love when you ramble on about life

  • @Tash1991
    @Tash1991 5 років тому +2

    I agree. I went to Europe by myself and I loved it ❤️

  • @lfeldman1996
    @lfeldman1996 7 років тому +107

    Your song choices in this vlog are so good!

    • @Wisteria.Interior
      @Wisteria.Interior 7 років тому

      Laura Feldman
      whats the name of this Song?

    • @magdolnahaluska5438
      @magdolnahaluska5438 7 років тому +4

      *in every vlog :D

    • @sylviapollock2198
      @sylviapollock2198 7 років тому +1

      +Magdolna Haluska yes agreed!

    • @kristen9018
      @kristen9018 7 років тому +4

      +entdechse The song throughout most of the vlog is Shakey Graves - Family and Genus!

    • @jordybrouns322
      @jordybrouns322 7 років тому

      Do you know the name of the other song at around 7:00?

  • @itslenamaria
    @itslenamaria 7 років тому +30

    Watching this on the way back home. I just traveled completely alone across the country. Such a coincidence or maybe fate haha.

  • @sidneyquesnelle
    @sidneyquesnelle 7 років тому +20

    The Pan Pacific is the most beautiful hotel in Van honestly! !

  • @laurenpoirier8235
    @laurenpoirier8235 7 років тому +5

    I completely agree with this, traveling alone is such a different experience. I'm 17 and just recently traveled to Ireland alone and it was such an amazing time!!!

  • @ethanlundy
    @ethanlundy 7 років тому +38

    I am so keen to travel alone

  • @BackpackingBananas
    @BackpackingBananas 7 років тому

    I agree with this so much! It's like my mantra. You will never grow and change and evolve as a person if you do not put yourself outside of your comfort zone and do things you've never done before. And solo travel is awesome! I was terrified at first but my favourite part now is that it's a bit like starting fresh every time you leave. No one you meet knows you, they don't know you're past, what you've done or who you are - so you can just be the person you want to be, I'm always trying to be my best version of myself and it's so great to practice this when you travel alone ☺️ Much love from the UK Monica! ❤️❤️ Keep killing it xxx

  • @MW2xClipxProductions
    @MW2xClipxProductions 7 років тому +4

    I can't even begin to explain how much I relate to this right now. I've always been close to home -- I even commute to college. However this summer I was given the opportunity to go across the country to be an intern. I was terrified of not knowing anyone and traveling across the country for the first time ever, and alone. But I knew it was something I had to do -- and I did it. And now I'm having the absolute time of my life in Seattle this summer and I'm so happy that I went on this journey alone; it has been extremely fulfilling. All of my fears about this experience haven't been a problem. I've been able to meet and make friends with so many new people and learn so much. If anyone reading this is worried about going out and doing something on their own, don't! The feeling of accomplishing something you fear, alone, will give you the most fulfilling feeling and confidence you'll ever experience

    • @isame0085
      @isame0085 7 років тому

      Spin that is amazing! I hope you'll have an amazing summer over there!

  • @chloebillet6086
    @chloebillet6086 7 років тому +2

    i love how she turns totally random things into a lesson. i love monica so much. she's my idol.

  • @seleaphotography
    @seleaphotography 7 років тому

    This is EXACTLY what I needed. I am 3000 miles from home, working in a hotel for two months and I feel lonely from time to time. This is my first trip without any family or friend with me and I feel so helpless. But now I will take the first step and go to the beach by my self. It is a baby step in the right direction!

  • @roxyrulz101
    @roxyrulz101 7 років тому +38

    Ahhh I've been contemplating booking a solo Europe trip from my home in Australia for years and this video has literally pushed me to the edge and I'm officially going to a travel agent tomorrow 😬

    • @VioletPurpleChloe
      @VioletPurpleChloe 7 років тому +1

      roxyrulz101 that's awesome!

    • @ailinos
      @ailinos 7 років тому +1

      roxyrulz101 Yay, that's great

    • @th-xk7bv
      @th-xk7bv 5 років тому +1

      roxyrulz101 did you end up going?!

  • @kierstenschnitker2012
    @kierstenschnitker2012 7 років тому

    I've been a flight attendant for two years, and I can't even tell you how rewarding traveling alone is. 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️

  • @allisonmo2840
    @allisonmo2840 7 років тому

    Studying in US, I've got a lot of chances to do things all by myself. Your words let me realize how bigger and stronger I become rather than just feeling alone and homesick all the time. Thank you, Monica. You're such an inspiration. And fingers crossed for my trip to Canada this month.

  • @ErikaBlabar
    @ErikaBlabar 7 років тому

    I definitely agree about traveling alone, and being comfortable being by yourself. I just moved from Stockholm to Barcelona all by myself one month ago, and it has been the best decision of my life! I have learned so much and just started appreciating everything a lot more.

  • @taylorkapaiwai3072
    @taylorkapaiwai3072 7 років тому +9

    You made my city look absolutely stunning! I love the way you see angles and shots

    • @therebex23
      @therebex23 7 років тому +2

      We are the lucky ones!

  • @AudreyNguyenVlogs
    @AudreyNguyenVlogs 7 років тому

    I completely agree with this!! I went to study in China alone in 2013 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I was able to explore the world and get to know myself in ways I couldn't before. i felt so accomplished after. I was even in a relationship when I went but I still decided to go and grow as a person, and my bf (now husband) supported me. Now I tell everyone if they have a chance to travel or live abroad to DO IT!

  • @LinziDean13
    @LinziDean13 7 років тому +5

    I've lived in Vancouver for 4 years and I always see videos from youtubers who were in the same places I always go and I've never met anyone. Fingers crossed I get to run into you sometime and tell you how motivating you are to me and how much I relate to your day to day thoughts. ❤️

  • @wddlky9827
    @wddlky9827 7 років тому

    Monica, this is so powerful!! I flew to other countries for studying when I was 14. It almost made me tearing up after hearing this. Thanks for sharing and encouraging people to go on this path. It's truly wonderful

  • @NicoleAllwood
    @NicoleAllwood 5 років тому +1

    In solitude, there is growth. Thanks for sharing your experience MC!

  • @JakeRichandAnnaChah
    @JakeRichandAnnaChah 7 років тому

    Love how the light didn't even stop you! You were on a roll. Solo travel is super empowering. Can't wait to see the gymnastics channel :)

  • @katekate8729
    @katekate8729 6 років тому

    I watched this video when your first uploaded it a year ago, I was going through a horribly anxious time in my life and this video has changed so much. I was at the point where I couldn’t even buy groceries because I couldn’t bring myself to go to the store alone. You completely rationalised my fear and I’ve made soo many small steps. The other day I booked a solo trip to Europe from Australia. I don’t know if you’ll ever see this but this video honestly changed my life. Thank you Monica x

  • @ErickJuarezJr
    @ErickJuarezJr 7 років тому

    I needed to watch your video. Tomorrow morning I'm boarding a bust bound for New York city. I'm by myself and I WAS afraid. I was afraid of being alone. Of being lost. Of coming out of my shell. I found your video and it has given me the courage to not be afraid. Tomorrow I'll arrive in New York with a hunger for adventure like no one else. Thank you for helping me see that alone isn't lonely.

  • @akdean131
    @akdean131 7 років тому

    Love travelling by myself! I moved to Vancouver BC in 2015 and knew no one at all. I love just exploring and being able to experience it and process it without having to communicate. In saying that I also love to travel with friends and family - showing them my favourite spots and discovering new places together that will always remind you of them and that time

  • @hananuhbanana
    @hananuhbanana 7 років тому +1

    this is so inspirational. im thinking of going on a trip alone because no one wants to come with me or theyre busy and i got scared because i havent been there before but now im gonna go and im so excited. thank you monica 🖤

  • @NaMeFoQFz
    @NaMeFoQFz 7 років тому

    This winter I went to NYC and spent 3 months there and I was all by myself, doing things alone, working in a law firm and it was the most amazing time of my life

  • @cassiesegrobs
    @cassiesegrobs 7 років тому

    I'm traveling around Australia by myself, i was so scared to fly the 36 hours from Canada but it forced me to get out of my comfort zone and just enjoy my life! So true, you can't be afraid do something alone.

  • @DM2296
    @DM2296 7 років тому +1

    Traveling alone is so satisfying and such a different experience! I love it

  • @Levelheads4421
    @Levelheads4421 6 років тому

    AGREED! I’ve traveled for the first time in my life.. and that was to New Zealand. Approximately 22 hours flying time overall. With 2 four hour layovers. What a stress ball I was leaving, but it was such an incredible experience. I learned so much about traveling that I wouldn’t have learned if I let someone lead the way for me. When traveling alone, you do what you want.. you eat what you want.. you go where you want. It’s fulfilling and really kind of rewarding. I left that one-month trip having learned so much about myself.
    I encourage everyone to do a solo trip!

  • @salenamendoza103
    @salenamendoza103 7 років тому

    I studied abroad in London by myself and it was the best thing I ever did. I became so much more independent and confident in myself and had to go outside my comfort zone to make new friends!

  • @collingrant9091
    @collingrant9091 7 років тому

    first of all i love it when you just sit down and talk to the camera because its always inspirational and i just love it. Secondly I'm so pumped for your new gymnastics channel!!

  • @brogantatexo
    @brogantatexo 7 років тому

    You're a huge inspiration to me Monica! We're the same age but I'm living in the UK, and I'm about to travel alone to Croatia next weekend. I've done a few things alone but have had all those fears recently...not any more!! 🙌🏼 Thank you xx

  • @skatergirl8019
    @skatergirl8019 7 років тому

    It's vlogs like this that make you my favorite vlogger. I'm actually working on starting a channel I've been wanting to start for a long time. You inspire me a lot. Thank you for all you do!

  • @summerchic1019
    @summerchic1019 7 років тому

    I have been traveling solo for 4 months straight! Road tripped over 10,000 miles across America, Canada, and went to Bermuda! It is crazy traveling alone, but I almost prefer it! I have had the time of my life and am so grateful to have done it! I vlogged the entire trip and my travels come to an end on September 1st!

  • @Bunny.trails
    @Bunny.trails 7 років тому

    Traveling alone soon... exploring new cities and new countries, this video gave me more confidence to do so. Subscribed. Someone needed to say it. Glad it was a self-empowered woman who did. Thank you, Monica!

  • @shinyurishin
    @shinyurishin 7 років тому

    Ahh this was one of my favorite vlogs. I totally agree with you. Traveling alone and experiencing things alone really does give you a new perspective on them. I love traveling alone because it gives me time to think on my own and really take the time to take everything in around me. Thanks Monica! Loved this

  • @jolliv3982
    @jolliv3982 7 років тому

    You also have a clean lucid way of explaining your thoughts. Tbh I think you have many characteristics that are so envied by lots of people. You have a powerful ability to move others to better themselves as well. Love your mindset and character, Monica. Keep bringing the light (:

  • @aishwaryachulaki2038
    @aishwaryachulaki2038 7 років тому

    it's ridiculous how I just travelled alone to a different city all by myself and I found this video. that's amazing!

  • @madaywolf6228
    @madaywolf6228 6 років тому

    I was in a funk where I had a hard time being positive and i watched this video and it made me so happy for you. Which made me happy. Which made me happy for me. Thank you.

  • @EllieKinard
    @EllieKinard 7 років тому

    Very inspirational. We just took a 8 hr trip and I was 34 weeks pregnant. Made me very nervous and I still had family with me. Then I reminded myself of my husband and I driving 20 hours to New Mexico and traveling to Europe and how I was able to do all of that. Reminding yourself of your victories can really get you far!

  • @micmiller1473
    @micmiller1473 7 років тому +1

    Loveee the message of this video. We're in the same stage of life. I just became a nurse and am moving away from home and everything I know. I realized that it's time for me to really be independent and live my life the way I want to! I'm so happy you're realizing that same thing :)

  • @parecek006
    @parecek006 7 років тому

    I am speechless, seriously this vlog was so brilliant, inspiring, encouraging, I love how you are always up to something, not afraid, pursuing your dreams and have a clear vision of what you what to do. And the best things come out of it, always. Just incredible.

  • @alinak8569
    @alinak8569 7 років тому +12

    So motivational! I needed to hear this! Thanks ❤️

  • @natashathorpe2279
    @natashathorpe2279 5 років тому

    I love this! I almost didn’t go see my favourite band play because I had no one to go with. At the last minute I decided to go solo and it literally changed my life. Now I’ve just booked my first solo trip overseas - something I’ve wanted to do for years but was too afraid. Experiencing something alone is better than not having the experience at all. Start small, it’s worth it.

  • @LayneFable
    @LayneFable 7 років тому

    I couldn't agree more -- I traveled to the philippines alone for three weeks and it was the best experience of my life. I also love doing things alone from time to time just so you're on your own schedule!

  • @sunlightdavid
    @sunlightdavid 7 років тому +1

    I have recently traveled alone this year from Singapore to London, Salzburg and Amsterdam (a little Eurotrip if you would lol). I have to say it is a huge growth opportunity. I am pretty old in my twenties to be doing this for the first time but I think those who have experienced it would know the sense of liberation alone in a foreign land. Everyone should experience it at least once in your life. And if you enjoyed it, do more!
    Goodness 8pm in Vancouver is like an afternoon here in Asia lol.

  • @sylviapollock2198
    @sylviapollock2198 7 років тому

    Monica is so motivating and inspirational! I feel like nowadays it's not that easy to find these people on the internet. Glad Monica is doing what she wants to do in life!

  • @cal920c
    @cal920c 7 років тому

    When I was in Montreal by myself, I felt the most freedom I'd ever felt. More freedom than I'd ever felt in Toronto. Just this feeling of being able to walk where I wanted to walk. It was freezing cold, and I don't know if I've felt more alive than those three days.

  • @MsJAESPARROW
    @MsJAESPARROW 7 років тому

    Thank you Monica for making this video! I travel by myself all the time and some people think it's odd! I love travelling by myself because I get to do exactly what I want to do and when I want to do it!!

  • @kellymotika3049
    @kellymotika3049 6 років тому

    All I do is travel by myself. I used to go to conferences so, of course, i'd be later meeting with people I knew but i honestly love it! At first, I was so scared and nervous! Now, i make sure i have everything all ready, go through my travel checklist, and relax and let my mind wander when we're about to take off.

  • @realbeal
    @realbeal 7 років тому

    Thanks Monica, It is always a good reminder to do things on your own. You never know what you will experience.

  • @CallerOfTheWild
    @CallerOfTheWild 7 років тому

    I just finished community college, and I'm taking a year off before I transfer and I plan on traveling for the year. This video is just what I needed. It's nice to know that people have the same fears that I do. Thank you!!

  • @Nomotakitoko
    @Nomotakitoko 7 років тому

    I just found Monica's channel and I've never seen that vlogs can be this realistic and more like TV series or smth because almost every bring some thoughts of her vision of life or moral. And that's sooo cool! Actually with little changes this vlogs can be some real TV series, I bet that's gonna be pretty successful.

  • @majacrawley1891
    @majacrawley1891 7 років тому

    I love your Vancouver vlogs because I recognize most of the places in your shots and it brings back such good memories of my hometown

  • @Sooper35
    @Sooper35 6 років тому

    This video brought tears to my eyes. It has always been my dream to travel with friends but unfortunately, I've come to the realization that they will never share the same drive to travel that I have. And I completely respect that; however, I believe that, age-wise, I'm in the prime of my life and I can no longer let my dreams just become dreams anymore. I can no longer wait for the right time to travel.

  • @aquagamer1212
    @aquagamer1212 7 років тому

    This was exactly what I needed. I hope to travel the world one day, and I've been so afraid of going alone. This has made me feel so much better about doing so, waiting for others will just limit me. 💙 Glad I subscribed 😍

  • @donna7088
    @donna7088 7 років тому

    im freaking in love with your vlogs and the way you capture things with your camera

  • @thedeepdarkwebb
    @thedeepdarkwebb 6 років тому

    Couldn’t agree more. Flew solo halfway across the country to Seattle back in November ‘17. Trip turned out to be my all time favorite

  • @GloomBloomGroove
    @GloomBloomGroove 7 років тому

    I really like the music you incorporate into your videos. Especially this one! So relaxing, and feels like I'm traveling with you!

  • @haven3354
    @haven3354 5 років тому

    This is what I needed to hear. I got the opportunity to go to Bali for an internship for a month but I will be traveling alone. I’m so scared but some of your words really put me at ease. Thank you Monica ☺️

  • @Stormaggedonx
    @Stormaggedonx 7 років тому

    You're so inspiring Monica, you actually inspired me to go for it and finally buy a camera that shot video. Like you, I've had a vision in my head for years for a project I want to do. And this year I finally decided to go for it and get the ball rolling. And I love it. I love filming and editing, I've wanted to do it forever and never worked up the courage to start. Thank you Monica.

  • @ayytommy
    @ayytommy 7 років тому

    So glad you keep it real with us. It's always nice to get that push to do what you want to do! So thank you.

  • @Luzfania
    @Luzfania 7 років тому +1

    I swear I love you. I love your realness. I love how you are you and don't act like something you're. So hard to find now a days especially in this UA-cam world. ❤

  • @lifeofalunatic1976
    @lifeofalunatic1976 7 років тому

    It's ridiculous how much our vibes match, keep on going, you can do more than you think.

  • @CristianSandoval
    @CristianSandoval 7 років тому +8

    Monica you're great! Really liked this vid. More life talk videos please ? I can dig it. Also cool edit with the hotel door and music. Very satisfying haha

  • @karleesmith5182
    @karleesmith5182 6 років тому

    I completely agree! You need to learn how to be alone 🙌🏻🙌🏻 it’s the most empowering thing.

  • @BritasticLove
    @BritasticLove 7 років тому

    I don't think you give yourself enough credit sometimes. You're so inspirational and have grown so much. Ive watched you for about 5-6 years and it's crazy growing up with you (if that makes sense). But ya keep it up dude

  • @babybro999
    @babybro999 7 років тому

    omg Monica thank you for the talk, I'm currently waiting in my car for my job interview schedule, and your words encourage me to not being afraid even tho I'm by my self, thank you thank you thank you

  • @maikavandal3255
    @maikavandal3255 7 років тому

    Wow I needed this so much! I have the opportunity to go in Australia for a year, and I was not sure if I had the guts to do it. It will be my first time traveling alone, and you made me realise that I need to go! If I don't do it now I don't know if I will ever had another chance like that. You have the courage to say what you are thinking and this can makes a huge difference on others people life, you are inspiring. Thank you sooo much Monica!

  • @AshleyRussellxoxo
    @AshleyRussellxoxo 7 років тому

    also i agree with traveling on your own. i recently did the disney college program and moved to florida by myself for 4 months. (I'm from california) one of the coolest things I've ever done. i ended up doing a lot by myself over there like going to disney parks alone, going grocery shopping, going to the movies. all by myself! which is something that i never thought id be able to do. bc I've always had this fear of being completely alone. but you have to learn how to enjoy your own company bc in the end all you have is yourself!! i would love to travel and go on vacation by myself. i really want to go camping but no one wants to go with me. so maybe ill do that by myself! :) but yeah i totally agree with you monica.

  • @falaDante
    @falaDante 7 років тому +1

    The feeling of needing someone to be with you to share those accomplishments is real, i feel that too. but as you said, it's good to do things alone too. I'm going to a eurotrip this year, from 19th December to 11th Februery across few countries and I wish I had someone to go with me, sad but, hey.. i believe this way will be the better.

  • @JackieeTinaa
    @JackieeTinaa 7 років тому

    I feel ya girl! I hate traveling alone sometimes, and when I do I always think of I wish I had someone to experience this with but at the same time I like being alone.

  • @lisaname7177
    @lisaname7177 7 років тому

    I'm 18 years old and in March I traveled alone for the first time. It was the best choice I've ever made. In september is my second time and I'm so excited!

  • @TWINCOAST
    @TWINCOAST 7 років тому

    DANGGG i loved this. I NEEDED this. thank you monica for inspiring us all xxx

  • @haileyelizabeth9928
    @haileyelizabeth9928 7 років тому

    Thank you for this!! I love how your vlogs aren't only entertaining and well made, but also have a message!! I'm leaving to study abroad for a semester in Montevideo, Uruguay in less than a month, I don't know anybody going, all my classes will be in Spanish, and I had to find my own housing, etc with no help from my university. I've been a bit nervous but this video really encouraged me and I know that I'll learn so much and have so many great experiences!

  • @lizpaiton4113
    @lizpaiton4113 7 років тому

    I really needed this.... I leave for navy boot camp in 6 months and I've been thinking about backing out because I'm scared to be alone and leave my family. This has been a goal of mine for so long and your video reminded me that it's going to be ok

  • @hwatts1997
    @hwatts1997 7 років тому

    I'm taking a two week trip across the country alone in a month, this video has got me excited! Love your vlogs

  • @SunitaSmiley
    @SunitaSmiley 7 років тому

    thank you for that message, I really needed that because I live in Florida but I might be living in San Francisco for almost 4 months for an aammaazziinngg internship opportunity and I'm terrified of living there by myself and almost don't want to do it but you show me that it is possible and not to pass up the great opportunities in life just because it's out of your comfort zone 💟

  • @SamanthaHitch
    @SamanthaHitch 7 років тому

    I really needed this! Im going to college soon & im going to have to take the train by myself when i come home and fly by myself if i really need to! Thank you for this video! It encouraged me to do what you're doing & made me want to travel to a beautiful place alone❤️❤️ love you!

  • @tudorarada46
    @tudorarada46 7 років тому

    I know how you feel. I'm only 14 and I'm flying alone to San Francisco, CA from Montreal, QC in Canada in 2 weeks. This gives me confidence.

  • @supaxkawaii
    @supaxkawaii 7 років тому

    I've traveled every year by myself even when I was really young. Luckily I had to because my parents traveled a lot growing up so it was a must that I learn to travel safely alone. I'm happy cause it has made me not afraid of being alone. Sometimes we all need that being alone experience, just doing things we normally do with others but instead ALONE.

  •  7 років тому +2

    I was on live TV in Germany for 1 hour and it was amazing! When you have an opportunity like this you should totally do that!
    Great that you did it Monica! 😊

  • @123aldoaldo
    @123aldoaldo 6 років тому

    I have traveled alone across the world. The best part was meeting the various other solo travelers. Its complete freedom. Germany, Russia, England, Japan, Hong Kong.
    Looking forward to do it again.

  • @jordanmccombie2473
    @jordanmccombie2473 7 років тому +44

    you should be a motivational speaker