Hello Negeen. I’m a retired educator and my wife of over 40 years passed away over 7 years ago. I use youtube as a platform to find inspirational videos and music to combat my stretches of loneliness. I came across your channel over a year ago and subscribed. I find your enthusiasm, honesty and tenacity very commendable as you always press for a positive approach on the challenges of living alone. As a Senior Citizen ,it really makes my day when some of my former students approach me in public and say ,Mr. E., I just wanted you to know that you are my hero for what you taught me and for all of your encouragement. I guess my whole point of this rambling dialog ,Negeen , is that I also consider you to be a hero for your contribution to “sometimes isolated souls” like me and others who follow your channel for inspiration . One of the best interpretations of a hero that I’ve come across on UA-cam is the song by Paul Overstreet- Heroes . Negeen, as my newest and youngest “hero” ,please check this song out and use it as a mantra of inspiration as you progress in your life. As the great Robert H. Schiller once said, “ Tough times never last ,but tough people do ! “ Stay strong .
Hi Doug, thank you so much for your kind words! All of it really means so much and I got teary eyed reading this! I will listen to the song 😇wishing you all the best!!!
I live alone as well and when the feeling of loneliness hits me hard I’ve found that taking a moment and thinking about everything that I’m grateful for really helps. We appreciate everything you do Negeen 😊❤️
Hey Negeen, I’m turning 23 this week and I’ve been living alone now for a month. I don’t ever comment on videos but you’ve been helping me transition into this period of my life a lot. Thanks for what you do :)
I’m sorry you’ve been having a tough couple of weeks! Watching you be real on UA-cam helps me and I SO appreciate your how genuine you are! ❤️ good things are sure to come!
I LOVE how authentic and real your videos are! I've been living alone for a while for the first time in my life and you make me feel that I'm not alone! I much rather see someone talking about their problems and real life than a fake set up just for the video to be pleasing! I've been struggling with loneliness and seeing you talking about it made feel that it is normal and happens to all the people that are living by themselves, Thank you Negeen!
Thank you for making your videos and your channel! It is helping me to be less alone just watching your videos during my masters program without any family around. It feels like you’re an older sister and I appreciate your vulnerability and authenticity. I am on the precipice of finishing up my masters program and then I’ll be moving for my PhD next year, so that will be a huge transition. Wishing you all the best through your life and hope you keep finding small pockets of joy in living alone!
Tips I use: Go walking at a park during a busy time like when everyone is going to work or school. No car payment! Grateful that car is serving its purpose. Maintenance one time versus monthly payments. Take a class.(exercise, learn something new) Involve with different interest groups Volunteer it will give a spirit of gratefulness. You got this!😊
Watching this is like having a video call with a friend ^-^ been lonely these past few months, and I'm not used to it. I used to be ok with me, things changed when I started pursuing my goals. Im sick at the moment coz it's so hot here where I live and I go to ur vids whenever I wanna feel confident or wanna learn something. Sending hugs
Hi Negeen, Thanks for being so honest with us, i feel like this video really shows the reality of living alone and sometimes when you are at a very low point. We are all with you and we all hope you get through this. I love and enjoy watching all of your videos and it is so fun getting to know you through your videos
Just stumbled upon your channel and totally binge watching it now. Thanks for all the content!!! Keep making videos 🎉🎉. Moving to my own apartment soon, so your content is helpful. Thank you!
I am glad to see you keep your apartment nice and tidy. So many people that live alone think its OK to live like a slob, especially us men folk. I make it a point to ensure my house has been cleaned before I go to bed or anytime I go out.
I see so many creator videos not because of my entertainment thing or just to time pass. I literally make a connection with them like a family, that's how is with you. And what you said about the mental state of the creator but still they post video for their subscribers I know lot of people and I am touch with them in person. So I know loneliness and struggling hit you hard but you still doing a great job and that's what I say to my other UA-cam family that I have made. I am grateful to have a small family that I talk to apart from my parents and friends and It feels me that I am not alone.
Totally relate to the precipice feeling. Someone actually asked me earlier this year what my personal goal for the year was and I replied that it was just to change things up in my life. I just kept feeling like something has to give.
Man alive!! Same!! I'm so thankful for you, Negeen!! I found your channel when I embarked on my "living alone" journey three months ago. So far, living alone has been exhilarating, and I anticipated having waves of good and bad days, some lulls here and there, but last night I was balling my eyes out!! I've been overwhelmed with so much change that happened all at once and have had to deal with it alone - it has everything to do with all of the people I was closest to: roommate, boyfriend, friends... so I feel like I have no one left to talk to or cook for. 😫 All of them SUCK by the way, and are no longer in my life. It has been wild and painful but also freeing and eye opening. Tomorrow's another day. Anyway, kisses!! Eeeee!!! (You jipped us of that part lol. My favorite part, btw, coz I like joining in while you say it!) 😄
awww what a kind comment! I'm super proud of you and thank you so much for the kind words! I just filmed a cooking video for one and forgot the "eeeee" part so i'll specifically film the outro and add that in there for ya!
Ahhh!! Same im going through this right now... And deciding between moving into a houseshare or staying alone! Im honestly terrified of living alone but amazing to watch these videos they're really giving me confidence
i live alone bc my roommate moved out a month ago and it has been really rough for me so stumbling upon this video made me feel better because a lot of the things you said were very relatable to my current situation. i feel so so stuck and so alone sometimes i almost never leave my apartment especially cuz i hate the area that i live in but your right we just need to choose a direction and just make a change! things will get better :)
I thought you were going to say “Are you subscribed? Because I’m literally about to leave my house to go get coffe, and you’re not subscribed??” 🤣 thank you for being honest with us and sharing your thoughts. Like you said, I rather watch this kind of videos than the ones were we get the perfect life 💛 so thank you!
I think when people live alone its very important to choose the right kinda apartment to stay, like for me , I also work from home as I m an artist , I spend all my day working on my paintings.... But my living area where I send my whole day have a park facing view, from which I can see people running, laughing, playing all day long..🧘🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🏌🏻♀️🤼♀️. So even if I live by myself but I never feel like I am alone.... I dnt talk to them but it gives me a feeling of being surrounded with so many people, and of course when I dnt want them , I can pull the curtains...😉😅 May be it’s crazy but I hope u understand what I mean....🤪🥰
Hey thanks for sharing ! It’s a reminder that others are also experiencing similar situations. I have my days where I’m like ummm what should I do today ?? 🤷🏾♀️ I’ll try to plan out things the night before so I wake up in the morning with a purpose that gets me out of bed .
Keep going baby girl! I appreciate the authenticity so much! We all have low points in life, I can say that I’m at a low point but I do feel like I’m on a precipice of a breakthrough! Definitely take time to analyze, and take action! And the “subscribe” attack at the end always gets me and it’s the funniest thing ever 😂
Im on the other end of life from you since I’m 74. I’m living alone for the first time in my life. My husband died just before the pandemic and we had been together since 1964. I have no family to connect with. I rarely leave my apartment because of the disease, and often weeks go by that I neither see nor talk to a living soul. My hands are arthritic, so I can’t engage in my former hobbies. My eyes are bad, so reading is difficult. People on You Tube are my only connections. Literally, I stay in bed 24/7 and cry.
Hey Negeen Don't feel lonely we are all with you since forever ❤keep sharing your feelings so that your heart will feel lighter I am here to listen everything you say☺
Youre so fun! And yes i really feel where you are coming from❤ struggling with money is the toughest, maybe in the future youre youtube channel blows up and you dont have to worry about it anymore, keep going🙋♀️
It feels good to be on ur own u can alp anytime u want and u dnt have to do a lot u can watch what ever you want with out ppl bugging u so be happy with what u have and that’s peace of mind
So feeling you on the question mark/fork road on everything! And figuring out the directions from all the choices. I wonder if it is COVID related. FYI, I live with a partner and pets and I STILL feel super lonely at times. Especially if I don't leave the house much. It's not all down to living alone. :) Hope your upcoming weeks start to feel better for you and you figure out what it is you're wanting to do. ❤️
I just started watching and I find these videos so nice. I am alone now, and I also feel like I'm at 5/10, lmao maybe a 3.6/10. Anyway... Good luck Negeen! Hope things get better and you get more coffee!
I'm going through a very unexpected divorce....at 55 years of age. I'm lonely, sad, depressed, and scared financially for my future...as I am the bigger wage earner. And I'm facing living alone once my kids move out...which is happening at the end of this year. So.....yeah. what I do right now when I'm feeling lonely and sad....I just get up and physically do something. I also am going out on my own, dinner, movies, etc. It just is what it is....but I do give thanks for all the blessings I do have....cause it could be a lot worse. Hang in there girl! Do the best you can...and accept that it's ok to feel lonely....nothing bad about that...just force yourself to get up and do something that takes ur mind off of being lonely.
Hi Neegan missed your videos. I live alone too (well with my dog) she's great company and I don't have to work financially blessed. . Anyways I got on a schedule every week I write on a note pad things I want to go do that week.. like maybe Monday go to Barnes and noble "I love to read", then afternoon park. On Tuesday "the zoo" then go visit my mom. Wednesday do my laundry then go wash my car then buy groceries.. Thursday go have lunch with bff then go watch the sunset by the water... schedule times for all that and make sure you go... it makes life fun and living alone great bc everyday you look forward to your schedule and as new things come up you add to schedule the following week... hope this helps... life is fun enjoy every minute. Peace.
On the why can't you get another car part i relate big time. As someone who's working on living alone again it's so hard with a car payment. As someone who's paying down a car it's basically another rent payment lol. I also feel like I'm on the precipice, I am going to be 30 in like 3 weeks, and I had to restart and am trying to live alone. But also being basically 30 and saying to people you're living at mom's house for a bit isn't exactly appealing and creates a stigma. Keep up the incredible content Negeen. Love what you do! Sending support from the mystical land known as Oklahoma!
Hi Negeen. I think you should have a kazillion followers and big patrons. Sometimes your videos are the only thing I can find some comfort in and literally laugh between crying. I think I’ve been on the precipice for a long time. I live in a cool building with great neighbors but it still gets lonely. No relationship or pet either because I guess I’m just not ready. And I’m 51! Don’t know how I got here. Alas, here I am.🤷♀️ But I do feel like change is around the corner. It always does. Keep being your genuine and charming self and sharing it with the world. I believe you are helping people and that’s what we should all be doing. That’s where true success lies. I believe the money will come when you go about it like this and a little strategy of course. I’m not sure what I’m gonna do. Maybe start a UA-cam channel. Lol Looks like a lot of work but also fun. Much love and success to you.
Not having a job with coworkers, would be such a big challenge for me. Even though your struggling, I have so much respect for how you're dealing with it. Right now I'm still in the process of getting back to my own house in stead of living with my mom. The weekends were particularly difficult for me when I lived there. Also, so I do have coworkers that I speak daily, but most of them have a family at home. So Fridays were so sad, when they were talking about all of their plans with partner, kids, whoever, and I was gonna be alone. It really is a relief to hear that you are struggling with these things too, even though I don't wish them for you of course. Let's struggle together 😆
Used cars are seriously overpriced at the moment. I just discovered your channel today and honestly you have a entertaining personality. Thank you sharing your experiences with us 😆 Subbed ✌
I understand what you mean! I feel like I need a change in my life, but I dont know what to change for sure. I thought of a song that you might like its called I'll Just Dance by Su Lee. Its about being alone and not knowing which way to turn. Its really good. 😀
Thanks for your honesty. Your channel helped me move out and live alone. I wish I had the words for you. Hang in there ❤️ P.s. I live in South Africa, and here the South African Guide Dog Association allows you to care for a puppy for 12 - 16 months and pays for all the costs associated with it. Maybe a way to have a dog and outsource major responsibilities?
You are amazinggg Negeen ! Ur content I love it 😘! u r a cute, beautiful, 😍 person .. would love to meet u someday for sure !! Am genuinely praying u get all the Good things u r dreaming about😇! Love you 💕! (From India 🇮🇳 )
When I get lonely I ho to the park and walk around or go to the mall and walk around I carry money for lunch. Got very lonely after my 2 kids moved out. I am retired . I finally adopted a small dog and she keeps me busy
Negeen I've been watching all your vids and every vid you post. I think it's great content. I appreciate your honesty and throughness. Not many people put that out there on UA-cam which I understand. What I wanted yo say was I noticed that you don't have a pet? Maybe get a dog or a cat? I own a Chihuahua and I can tell you it's good for mental health to maintain and develop a relationship with a pet. Then maybe get a bf? Start a fam? Not sure if you're open to it but I think it would really cut the loneliness down. Having someone to confide in and bounce ideas off of. Yeah you can depend on yourself but like you said it gets lonely. I'm ranting. I'm rooting for you girl I like your personality. I'd say get a pet. It gets lonely even if you have friends or w.e you need something in your inner circle you know? Pet is like no risk. Anyway love your content! Edit:spelling
I just noticed you live about 4 hours away from me and I just watched how much you pay for your apartment…. If you ever want to move away Dallas area is cheaper js
I knew it you wake up looking perfect 👌 😘, noooooooooo, that hurt we fell, lol I don't have air conditioner and the windows don't open i live in Texas, if you ever need someone to talk to we are here for you, you need to make a call to God he will help you
Hey Negeen good job making that video! I’m better off working at a new job with a gig economy where I get to be a delivery driver or something! That I can make extra money to save up to buy my own car! So I’ll see how life is going to work out for me! And I would need to create a personal bank account to earn some savings with my direct deposit to buy what I can afford! I hope you had a great day and take care of yourself! P.S. you’re still beautiful and gorgeous as always!❤️🙂😊
What a reaction on you ran out of coffee. You locked the lock car and then you open that's why I said You, you are insane 😂😂. Well how old is that car. You will get a good car, u need a change one day but it's OK. I like your outfit half out half tucked shirt, that is me all the time in home ✌
Hello Negeen. I’m a retired educator and my wife of over 40 years passed away over 7 years ago. I use youtube as a platform to find inspirational videos and music to combat my stretches of loneliness. I came across your channel over a year ago and subscribed. I find your enthusiasm, honesty and tenacity very commendable as you always press for a positive approach on the challenges of living alone.
As a Senior Citizen ,it really makes my day when some of my former students approach me in public and say ,Mr. E., I just wanted you to know that you are my hero for what you taught me and for all of your encouragement. I guess my whole point of this rambling dialog ,Negeen , is that I also consider you to be a hero for your contribution to “sometimes isolated souls” like me and others who follow your channel for inspiration .
One of the best interpretations of a hero that I’ve come across on UA-cam is the song by Paul Overstreet- Heroes . Negeen, as my newest and youngest “hero” ,please check this song out and use it as a mantra of inspiration as you progress in your life. As the great Robert H. Schiller once said, “ Tough times never last ,but tough people do ! “ Stay strong .
Hi Doug, thank you so much for your kind words! All of it really means so much and I got teary eyed reading this! I will listen to the song 😇wishing you all the best!!!
I live alone as well and when the feeling of loneliness hits me hard I’ve found that taking a moment and thinking about everything that I’m grateful for really helps. We appreciate everything you do Negeen 😊❤️
I love that and i'll start doing that :) thank you!!
Hey Negeen, I’m turning 23 this week and I’ve been living alone now for a month. I don’t ever comment on videos but you’ve been helping me transition into this period of my life a lot. Thanks for what you do :)
It’s so nice to know I’m not aloneeeee!! 😭 Sunday’s are so frustrating for me. Thanks for sharing, really!
You are so welcome!
I’m sorry you’ve been having a tough couple of weeks! Watching you be real on UA-cam helps me and I SO appreciate your how genuine you are! ❤️ good things are sure to come!
Thank you so much for that ☺
I LOVE how authentic and real your videos are! I've been living alone for a while for the first time in my life and you make me feel that I'm not alone! I much rather see someone talking about their problems and real life than a fake set up just for the video to be pleasing! I've been struggling with loneliness and seeing you talking about it made feel that it is normal and happens to all the people that are living by themselves, Thank you Negeen!
I really appreciate that :)
I agree with you when people are being real it’s so much better to watch. I real enjoy your videos.
Thank you so much 🤗
Thank you for making your videos and your channel! It is helping me to be less alone just watching your videos during my masters program without any family around. It feels like you’re an older sister and I appreciate your vulnerability and authenticity. I am on the precipice of finishing up my masters program and then I’ll be moving for my PhD next year, so that will be a huge transition. Wishing you all the best through your life and hope you keep finding small pockets of joy in living alone!
wishing you luck! thank you so much :)
I m alone 🌷🌷❤👧
Tips I use:
Go walking at a park during a busy time like when everyone is going to work or school.
No car payment! Grateful that car is serving its purpose. Maintenance one time versus monthly payments.
Take a class.(exercise, learn something new)
Involve with different interest groups
Volunteer it will give a spirit of gratefulness.
You got this!😊
YES, not having car payments has been soooo nice haha which is why i'm so conflicted. Seems to even out and great tips :)
I feel this video so much. Lost in life trying to figure it all out. Really appreciate honest vlogs like this.
Thank you Monique!!
I'm starting my journey towards living alone soon and your videos are the best even for a guy living in the UK! Many thanks!
Thank you so much Michael!! :)
@@NaturallyNegeen pleasure just keep telling it like it is!
It’s also 10:13 AM on a Saturday where I am now and your video gives me energy to have a good weekend! I appreciate your videos, Negeen!💕
Yay! Thank you!
Watching this is like having a video call with a friend ^-^ been lonely these past few months, and I'm not used to it. I used to be ok with me, things changed when I started pursuing my goals. Im sick at the moment coz it's so hot here where I live and I go to ur vids whenever I wanna feel confident or wanna learn something. Sending hugs
Hi Negeen, Thanks for being so honest with us, i feel like this video really shows the reality of living alone and sometimes when you are at a very low point. We are all with you and we all hope you get through this. I love and enjoy watching all of your videos and it is so fun getting to know you through your videos
Awe thank you so much for the sweet comment!! Appreciate it so much!
I love living alone vlogs like this! I hope you do more :)
More to come!
Just stumbled upon your channel and totally binge watching it now. Thanks for all the content!!! Keep making videos 🎉🎉. Moving to my own apartment soon, so your content is helpful. Thank you!
I am glad to see you keep your apartment nice and tidy. So many people that live alone think its OK to live like a slob, especially us men folk. I make it a point to ensure my house has been cleaned before I go to bed or anytime I go out.
I see so many creator videos not because of my entertainment thing or just to time pass. I literally make a connection with them like a family, that's how is with you. And what you said about the mental state of the creator but still they post video for their subscribers I know lot of people and I am touch with them in person. So I know loneliness and struggling hit you hard but you still doing a great job and that's what I say to my other UA-cam family that I have made.
I am grateful to have a small family that I talk to apart from my parents and friends and It feels me that I am not alone.
Thank you!!
Totally relate to the precipice feeling. Someone actually asked me earlier this year what my personal goal for the year was and I replied that it was just to change things up in my life. I just kept feeling like something has to give.
Man alive!! Same!! I'm so thankful for you, Negeen!! I found your channel when I embarked on my "living alone" journey three months ago. So far, living alone has been exhilarating, and I anticipated having waves of good and bad days, some lulls here and there, but last night I was balling my eyes out!! I've been overwhelmed with so much change that happened all at once and have had to deal with it alone - it has everything to do with all of the people I was closest to: roommate, boyfriend, friends... so I feel like I have no one left to talk to or cook for. 😫 All of them SUCK by the way, and are no longer in my life. It has been wild and painful but also freeing and eye opening. Tomorrow's another day. Anyway, kisses!! Eeeee!!! (You jipped us of that part lol. My favorite part, btw, coz I like joining in while you say it!) 😄
awww what a kind comment! I'm super proud of you and thank you so much for the kind words! I just filmed a cooking video for one and forgot the "eeeee" part so i'll specifically film the outro and add that in there for ya!
Ahhh!! Same im going through this right now... And deciding between moving into a houseshare or staying alone! Im honestly terrified of living alone but amazing to watch these videos they're really giving me confidence
i live alone bc my roommate moved out a month ago and it has been really rough for me so stumbling upon this video made me feel better because a lot of the things you said were very relatable to my current situation. i feel so so stuck and so alone sometimes i almost never leave my apartment especially cuz i hate the area that i live in but your right we just need to choose a direction and just make a change! things will get better :)
Aww same with you!!! 😇
I m alone
Looking 👧👧❤❤😍🌷🌷
I love your honesty and totally agree, living alone is so lonely sometimes ❤
Sending you positivity, Negeen ✨ Quality video. Love the soul talk.
“If things don’t go right, go left.”
Yes! Thank you!
I thought you were going to say “Are you subscribed? Because I’m literally about to leave my house to go get coffe, and you’re not subscribed??” 🤣 thank you for being honest with us and sharing your thoughts. Like you said, I rather watch this kind of videos than the ones were we get the perfect life 💛 so thank you!
Aw thank you and hahah I shouldve done that!
I think when people live alone its very important to choose the right kinda apartment to stay, like for me , I also work from home as I m an artist , I spend all my day working on my paintings....
But my living area where I send my whole day have a park facing view, from which I can see people running, laughing, playing all day long..🧘🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🏌🏻♀️🤼♀️. So even if I live by myself but I never feel like I am alone.... I dnt talk to them but it gives me a feeling of being surrounded with so many people, and of course when I dnt want them , I can pull the curtains...😉😅
May be it’s crazy but I hope u understand what I mean....🤪🥰
Aww I love that and that's SUCH a good point!!
Heyy I'm in a similar situation and I can feel you! Let's hope things get better in 2022 ♥
You’re gonna make it all right queen!!!!!❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Hey thanks for sharing ! It’s a reminder that others are also experiencing similar situations. I have my days where I’m like ummm what should I do today ?? 🤷🏾♀️ I’ll try to plan out things the night before so I wake up in the morning with a purpose that gets me out of bed .
aw yes love that!
I m alone 😍😍🌷
Keep going baby girl! I appreciate the authenticity so much! We all have low points in life, I can say that I’m at a low point but I do feel like I’m on a precipice of a breakthrough! Definitely take time to analyze, and take action! And the “subscribe” attack at the end always gets me and it’s the funniest thing ever 😂
Aww thank you so much Dejah! I appreciate that so much and glad you liked the end hahaha
Im on the other end of life from you since I’m 74. I’m living alone for the first time in my life. My husband died just before the pandemic and we had been together since 1964. I have no family to connect with. I rarely leave my apartment because of the disease, and often weeks go by that I neither see nor talk to a living soul. My hands are arthritic, so I can’t engage in my former hobbies. My eyes are bad, so reading is difficult. People on You Tube are my only connections. Literally, I stay in bed 24/7 and cry.
I like u I m alone
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Negeen thank you homie made my better honestly from a hard day today.
Aw thank you!
@@NaturallyNegeen welcome Negeen 🤗❤️
You are amazing gal! Your personality is one of a kind.... loooove it
Awww thank you so much for that!!!
Hey Negeen Don't feel lonely we are all with you since forever ❤keep sharing your feelings so that your heart will feel lighter I am here to listen everything you say☺
That is so sweet, thank you so much!!
Youre so fun! And yes i really feel where you are coming from❤ struggling with money is the toughest, maybe in the future youre youtube channel blows up and you dont have to worry about it anymore, keep going🙋♀️
Aww yes that is honestly the dream!! I just have to be a bit more consistent with uploading. Thank you for saying that 😇
It feels good to be on ur own u can alp anytime u want and u dnt have to do a lot u can watch what ever you want with out ppl bugging u so be happy with what u have and that’s peace of mind
So feeling you on the question mark/fork road on everything! And figuring out the directions from all the choices. I wonder if it is COVID related.
FYI, I live with a partner and pets and I STILL feel super lonely at times. Especially if I don't leave the house much. It's not all down to living alone. :) Hope your upcoming weeks start to feel better for you and you figure out what it is you're wanting to do. ❤️
NEEDED THAT! Thank you for the kind words 😊
I just started watching and I find these videos so nice. I am alone now, and I also feel like I'm at 5/10, lmao maybe a 3.6/10. Anyway... Good luck Negeen! Hope things get better and you get more coffee!
Aw you got this and thank you so much!!
I'm going through a very unexpected divorce....at 55 years of age. I'm lonely, sad, depressed, and scared financially for my future...as I am the bigger wage earner. And I'm facing living alone once my kids move out...which is happening at the end of this year. So.....yeah. what I do right now when I'm feeling lonely and sad....I just get up and physically do something. I also am going out on my own, dinner, movies, etc. It just is what it is....but I do give thanks for all the blessings I do have....cause it could be a lot worse. Hang in there girl! Do the best you can...and accept that it's ok to feel lonely....nothing bad about that...just force yourself to get up and do something that takes ur mind off of being lonely.
Sending you lots of love and healing! Thank you for the kind words!!
I just moved out on my own and your videos help me out a lot! Btw I wish I could find some as gorgeous as you are!
You got this!
Hi Neegan missed your videos. I live alone too (well with my dog) she's great company and I don't have to work financially blessed. . Anyways I got on a schedule every week I write on a note pad things I want to go do that week.. like maybe Monday go to Barnes and noble "I love to read", then afternoon park. On Tuesday "the zoo" then go visit my mom. Wednesday do my laundry then go wash my car then buy groceries.. Thursday go have lunch with bff then go watch the sunset by the water... schedule times for all that and make sure you go... it makes life fun and living alone great bc everyday you look forward to your schedule and as new things come up you add to schedule the following week... hope this helps... life is fun enjoy every minute. Peace.
WOW love all of that!! Great ideas - thank you :) !!
On the why can't you get another car part i relate big time. As someone who's working on living alone again it's so hard with a car payment. As someone who's paying down a car it's basically another rent payment lol. I also feel like I'm on the precipice, I am going to be 30 in like 3 weeks, and I had to restart and am trying to live alone. But also being basically 30 and saying to people you're living at mom's house for a bit isn't exactly appealing and creates a stigma. Keep up the incredible content Negeen. Love what you do! Sending support from the mystical land known as Oklahoma!
Aw yeah I completely relate!! Thank you for your kind comment! I believe in you and the timing for you. You got this!!!
Hi Negeen. I think you should have a kazillion followers and big patrons. Sometimes your videos are the only thing I can find some comfort in and literally laugh between crying. I think I’ve been on the precipice for a long time. I live in a cool building with great neighbors but it still gets lonely. No relationship or pet either because I guess I’m just not ready. And I’m 51! Don’t know how I got here. Alas, here I am.🤷♀️
But I do feel like change is around the corner. It always does. Keep being your genuine and charming self and sharing it with the world. I believe you are helping people and that’s what we should all be doing. That’s where true success lies. I believe the money will come when you go about it like this and a little strategy of course.
I’m not sure what I’m gonna do. Maybe start a UA-cam channel. Lol Looks like a lot of work but also fun.
Much love and success to you.
wow I couldn't agree more with what you said! Thank yo uso much for watching and for the kind message - wishing you the best!!!
Not having a job with coworkers, would be such a big challenge for me. Even though your struggling, I have so much respect for how you're dealing with it.
Right now I'm still in the process of getting back to my own house in stead of living with my mom. The weekends were particularly difficult for me when I lived there. Also, so I do have coworkers that I speak daily, but most of them have a family at home. So Fridays were so sad, when they were talking about all of their plans with partner, kids, whoever, and I was gonna be alone.
It really is a relief to hear that you are struggling with these things too, even though I don't wish them for you of course. Let's struggle together 😆
Aww yeah I love all of that - thank you! Yes, we are in this together!!
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Welcome back
Used cars are seriously overpriced at the moment.
I just discovered your channel today and honestly you have a entertaining personality. Thank you sharing your experiences with us 😆
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Welcome aboard! And yes i'm so conflicted! Should I buy a new car versus a used one?
I understand what you mean! I feel like I need a change in my life, but I dont know what to change for sure. I thought of a song that you might like its called I'll Just Dance by Su Lee. Its about being alone and not knowing which way to turn. Its really good. 😀
I'm going to listen to it today!! Thank you Andrea!
Fine, I still would like to live with you. I don’t mind a number 5 mood. Together we can strive to the top, girl 😌
Love ya
I just crossed over to the living alone gang!!
Love your videos and your whole personality so much! 🥰
Yaaaay! You're going to love it so much :)
Thanks for your honesty. Your channel helped me move out and live alone. I wish I had the words for you. Hang in there ❤️
P.s. I live in South Africa, and here the South African Guide Dog Association allows you to care for a puppy for 12 - 16 months and pays for all the costs associated with it. Maybe a way to have a dog and outsource major responsibilities?
Thank you so much and that is a really good idea. I honestly hope to get one within the year if I have enough money saved up :)
I have a 2005 car - low mileage and I love it. I don't want a new one
Dang lady I have 5 cars I drive regularly the oldest is 1970. I purposely seek out the old junk ;) I actually got excited when i saw your 4 runner!
You are amazinggg Negeen ! Ur content I love it 😘! u r a cute, beautiful, 😍 person .. would love to meet u someday for sure !! Am genuinely praying u get all the Good things u r dreaming about😇! Love you 💕! (From India 🇮🇳 )
hello Negeen I love u big fan
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When I get lonely I ho to the park and walk around or go to the mall and walk around I carry money for lunch. Got very lonely after my 2 kids moved out. I am retired . I finally adopted a small dog and she keeps me busy
Aww, that’s so sweet! I love that you adopted a dog! 😊
Negeen I've been watching all your vids and every vid you post. I think it's great content. I appreciate your honesty and throughness. Not many people put that out there on UA-cam which I understand. What I wanted yo say was I noticed that you don't have a pet? Maybe get a dog or a cat? I own a Chihuahua and I can tell you it's good for mental health to maintain and develop a relationship with a pet. Then maybe get a bf? Start a fam? Not sure if you're open to it but I think it would really cut the loneliness down. Having someone to confide in and bounce ideas off of. Yeah you can depend on yourself but like you said it gets lonely. I'm ranting. I'm rooting for you girl I like your personality. I'd say get a pet. It gets lonely even if you have friends or w.e you need something in your inner circle you know? Pet is like no risk. Anyway love your content!
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Aw thank you so much. You're totally right, honestly. I think I need to start with a pet and the rest will follow. Appreciate the kind words!! 😇
I just noticed you live about 4 hours away from me and I just watched how much you pay for your apartment…. If you ever want to move away Dallas area is cheaper js
i dont no whats more cute her on that accent.
*me hearing someone use the word "precipice"*.... have you been watching Schitt's Creek?... 😂
hahaha yes!
I knew it you wake up looking perfect 👌 😘, noooooooooo, that hurt we fell, lol I don't have air conditioner and the windows don't open i live in Texas, if you ever need someone to talk to we are here for you, you need to make a call to God he will help you
Hey Negeen good job making that video! I’m better off working at a new job with a gig economy where I get to be a delivery driver or something! That I can make extra money to save up to buy my own car! So I’ll see how life is going to work out for me! And I would need to create a personal bank account to earn some savings with my direct deposit to buy what I can afford! I hope you had a great day and take care of yourself! P.S. you’re still beautiful and gorgeous as always!❤️🙂😊
Appreciate you!
What a reaction on you ran out of coffee.
You locked the lock car and then you open that's why I said You, you are insane 😂😂.
Well how old is that car. You will get a good car, u need a change one day but it's OK.
I like your outfit half out half tucked shirt, that is me all the time in home ✌
If only you knew a professional Toyota mechanic🤔
hahaha you're too far!
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OOOOOF yep. THIS