I m so confused, you are so bubbly and joyful and then suddenly u talk with so much of maturity and depth… I love how u balance it… Yes, I m my soulmate, I love my own company (single child), I m pretty much obsessed with myself, my people and my dreams… I believe that we have one precious life, and it is our moral duty to take care and pamper ourselves … We got a life and we are responsible for living it to its fullest… 🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸
Yesterday I went to this Indian restaurant that I’ve been wanting to go to but kept putting off because I wanted to go there with a significant other. I decided to treat myself after a long work week and it was so nice to take myself out on a date and I enjoyed my own company. I’m no longer going to wait on anyone to do things I really want to do! You are a beautiful, kind woman and anyone you end up with will be an addition to your already great life!💕
THIS is exactly the type of message I was hoping to get across 🤍 I love hearing this and so happy that you made that step for YOU! It really does make life so much more purposeful :)
I love everything about this video. I started watching you when I moved out on my own and i basically watched all your videos while on the couch figuring out how am I going to deal with this loneliness lol but I finally can say just turned 29 and I love it and I will not settle for anything because I love my company now. Thank you for the inspiration 💓
Mindfulness moments I think they call it. I normally do some meditation in the morning eat breakfast in my courtyard and free writing in my journal for a timed 45 minutes. Use a fountain pen and go. Journal for personal growth is a part of narrative therapy.
Damn Negeen, this video really hit me right in the feels!!! ❤️ I’ve just bought my own apartment, mid break up, and will be starting my living alone journey next month!! And honestly, you’re literally my UA-cam bestie / living alone GURU right now without you even knowing it 😂 Please please please never stop making videos! You are literally the most beaut gal inside and out and you LITERALLY brighten my day!🥲 Sending lots of love from the UK!! 💖💖💖 xxxxx
I really needed this and that means SOOO much! Thank you so much for your kind words, Dani! I will remember this message and best of luck to you on your journey 😍
Honestly your videos help me so much. I moved out in december for the first time, first time alone aswell, and i have struggled so much with panic attacks and depression and just starting to feel a bit better, pleeeaasseee keep up the vids ❤️ much love
Great message in your video today. I'm in my late 50s and can totally relate to everything you are saying. I am single after divorcing almost 2 years ago during COVID when we were isolated. You talk about learning to be alone! That was definitely a test for me. Took me awhile to get used to it, but I am learning to enjoy my alone time more than I ever thought. So much so, that I prefer to stay alone at least for now and accomplish a huge list of Dreams. I did this through a vision board and just completed my 2nd vision board and that helps me stay focused on ME and what I want out of my life. I will one day meet someone that will have to be so special for me to allow him into my world. I'm a hopeless romantic and know that one day I will find him! Your videos are super light and funny and I find myself smiling when I listen to you. Keep up the great work!!
OMG this video is so timely! I went to the mall this evening, tried on a ring to put on my wishlist, and enjoyed a cup of tea in the seating area. I really relished in being alone! So glad you have found the beauty in your own company!
I love you so much you really make my days better each time I see your cute expressions your smile, you are so cute and such a good person ❤️❤️❤️ love from France 🇫🇷
Great video and the last thought, while a little dark perhaps was a great point and much needed. I'm not my own soul mate yet but I'm working on it and your video really helped.
Missed your videos Negeen! I've been living in solitude for the last 3 months and watched a lot of your videos in the lead up to moving out. They helped me so much and made me feel so excited for this positive step in my life which I'm now living! I went to see Dita von Teese in London on Tuesday on my own, and made a friend with another gal who went on her own too. Life is too short to wait around for others. Here's to peace in my current residence and better knowing and understanding myself in 2022
Belated Happy Valentine's Day. Thought you were gonna do a vlog for Valentine's Day ❤💖, but it's nice to watch a new vid. You're sooooo so my favorite, Negeen! Love the way you look, chuckle, dress, and smile! 😊
Hey I just found you and you've been helping me soooo much. I don't even know you, but you're like my big sister. Your videos are so awesome and inspirational ❤
Well my girl. I'm older chicky and seen this and you have givin me confidence to just do shit. Not worry about being alone. I have a head full of great women 😂😂I start hangin with them more lol 🙈
@@NaturallyNegeen Oo, lucky! Those nice Oxfords can be hard to find in Barnes and Nobles and the Half Price Bookstore sometimes. I hope to find the exact edition you have some day. It's like a treasure hunt haha.
Perhaps this is where I will have to disagree. I don't believe it is wise to love yourself a priori. If we are to truly stare at ourselves in the mirror naked (metaphorically speaking), we become painfully aware of our flaws. However, that awareness is necessary to prevent our flaws from becoming catastrophe. The one thing that I have learned since you and I last spoke is that a relationship is not about your personal happiness. Such feelings are fleeting and will not endure. Your soulmate isn't the one that can bring you eternal bliss but instead is the one who you can rely on throughout all of life's tragedies and dissasaters. It's the person who will stand by you while you raise a child, which is one of the most difficult and demanding responsibilities someone can have. No...... don't love yourself unconditionally because one day you may find yourself looking into the eyes of a small child who is depending on you to be the best person you can possibly be. Everyone of us falls short of glory or is insufficient compared to the imaginary archetype in our heads but with some carefull attention and a little effort, we and the world around us could be just a little better..... and perhaps that's good enough
Negeen, this is a depressing video for me. I dont want to spend the rest of my life alone. I've been alone for way too long. I dont feel mentally healthy. Why are we doing this? 🤔🥃 I'm going to have another drink. 😅
@@ChiChi-sb4ys I'm fine now. I go through phases of feeling miserable but tommorow is another day. As long as my diet is good, I keep exercising and I lay of the alcohol I'm okay. Good but not great. Its just that I'm living in a fkd up world. I cant change a world thats hopelessly brainwashed. I once wondered whether I was from another world because people are just so cruel and nasty towards each other.
If you've been a subscriber, I have a surprise for you at the very very end 😂
Thank you Homie Negeen even though i had a valentines day love you homie
اسم وفامیلی ت ایرانی هستش و حتی دریغ از یک ویدیو فارسی، و اینکه چراااااا؟؟؟؟
I'm my own soul mate ❤️
Going to the gym by yourself is the best!
I m so confused, you are so bubbly and joyful and then suddenly u talk with so much of maturity and depth… I love how u balance it…
Yes, I m my soulmate, I love my own company (single child), I m pretty much obsessed with myself, my people and my dreams…
I believe that we have one precious life, and it is our moral duty to take care and pamper ourselves … We got a life and we are responsible for living it to its fullest…
🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸
Yesterday I went to this Indian restaurant that I’ve been wanting to go to but kept putting off because I wanted to go there with a significant other. I decided to treat myself after a long work week and it was so nice to take myself out on a date and I enjoyed my own company. I’m no longer going to wait on anyone to do things I really want to do! You are a beautiful, kind woman and anyone you end up with will be an addition to your already great life!💕
THIS is exactly the type of message I was hoping to get across 🤍 I love hearing this and so happy that you made that step for YOU! It really does make life so much more purposeful :)
@@NaturallyNegeen Message well received! I felt so good that whole day, like a triumphant high☺️ Definitely more solo dates to come!
I love everything about this video. I started watching you when I moved out on my own and i basically watched all your videos while on the couch figuring out how am I going to deal with this loneliness lol but I finally can say just turned 29 and I love it and I will not settle for anything because I love my company now. Thank you for the inspiration 💓
This was so wonderful to read!! I am so proud of you and wishing you the best on your journey :) thank you for watching!
@Lourdes Moya Aw so proud of you and so happy you love it and this video!!!
Mindfulness moments I think they call it. I normally do some meditation in the morning eat breakfast in my courtyard and free writing in my journal for a timed 45 minutes. Use a fountain pen and go. Journal for personal growth is a part of narrative therapy.
It’s the ending for me LMFAOOO. I needed a good laugh thanks bestieeeeee
hahahaha 🤍
Damn Negeen, this video really hit me right in the feels!!! ❤️ I’ve just bought my own apartment, mid break up, and will be starting my living alone journey next month!! And honestly, you’re literally my UA-cam bestie / living alone GURU right now without you even knowing it 😂
Please please please never stop making videos! You are literally the most beaut gal inside and out and you LITERALLY brighten my day!🥲
Sending lots of love from the UK!! 💖💖💖 xxxxx
I really needed this and that means SOOO much! Thank you so much for your kind words, Dani! I will remember this message and best of luck to you on your journey 😍
I absolutely agree with you Negeen..ultimately we all have to be alone in the end so why not be ready for it..
This video should have been viral !!
Love you, Negeen! **in a non creepy to platonic way** I love me too 😄⭐️🧡
I really needed this today. Thank you for being so positive!
You are so welcome! 🤍🤍🤍😊
Glad to see you have become so emotionally self-sufficient, still hoping you'll find someone worth settling with though.
😊😊
Honestly your videos help me so much. I moved out in december for the first time, first time alone aswell, and i have struggled so much with panic attacks and depression and just starting to feel a bit better, pleeeaasseee keep up the vids ❤️ much love
Great message in your video today. I'm in my late 50s and can totally relate to everything you are saying. I am single after divorcing almost 2 years ago during COVID when we were isolated. You talk about learning to be alone! That was definitely a test for me. Took me awhile to get used to it, but I am learning to enjoy my alone time more than I ever thought. So much so, that I prefer to stay alone at least for now and accomplish a huge list of Dreams. I did this through a vision board and just completed my 2nd vision board and that helps me stay focused on ME and what I want out of my life. I will one day meet someone that will have to be so special for me to allow him into my world. I'm a hopeless romantic and know that one day I will find him! Your videos are super light and funny and I find myself smiling when I listen to you. Keep up the great work!!
Thank you for this kind message! I'm so excited for your new journey and really happy you're focusing on you!!! 💕
9:21 better human being because of that. I can connect cause I've been through that journey the past month... 40 years in. Keep it goin sis.
Yes! Thank you!😍
I am afraid to do fun things because it only reveals how sad i am because I can’t enjoy it (or reveals how sad i have been, filling me with regret).
OMG this video is so timely! I went to the mall this evening, tried on a ring to put on my wishlist, and enjoyed a cup of tea in the seating area. I really relished in being alone! So glad you have found the beauty in your own company!
That sounds like such a dreamy day! Good for you! Thank you 😍
Wishing you love and sending you virtual hugs 🤗, Negeen! Wish you were my soulmate! 😊❤💖
You should literally get an award for this video 😉❤️
aw thank you!!
I agree with the poster way below who said you should do a video with your grandma!!
You’re such a ray of sunshine!! So happy I found your channel ♥️
I love you Negeen!! Always look forward to your uploads
You're the best! Thank you Victoria 🤍
You’re a beautiful wise ‘old soul’ ❤️
I just love your videos and the way you think, also find them very relaxing!
Oh thank you!
You are awesome! your last sentences were what i needed to hear!
I loved this video so much!!! I’m in the process of becoming my own soulmate and this helped so much 🥰 please keep making vids like this ✨
thank you so much! I definitely will :)
ugh felt thisssss
I love you so much you really make my days better each time I see your cute expressions your smile, you are so cute and such a good person ❤️❤️❤️ love from France 🇫🇷
You are so darn cute! :-D Your energy makes me so happy! And this topic... on point!
You're the best!
Great video and the last thought, while a little dark perhaps was a great point and much needed. I'm not my own soul mate yet but I'm working on it and your video really helped.
I literally love your channel, girl I thought you had at least 200k
Thank you so much!!
Thank you so much for this. Such an important video! ❤ I am on a self love journey and it took me 28 years to start.
You are so welcome!
It was great
Thank u so much ..I’m listening to this over & over ..I’ve been down about being alone ty so much for easing my ❤
You are so welcome ❤️
🔥🔥🔥
You are speaking to me!!! You’re awesome and you inspire me on so many levels!! Keep on being amazing!!
Thank you so very much 😍
Missed your videos Negeen! I've been living in solitude for the last 3 months and watched a lot of your videos in the lead up to moving out. They helped me so much and made me feel so excited for this positive step in my life which I'm now living! I went to see Dita von Teese in London on Tuesday on my own, and made a friend with another gal who went on her own too. Life is too short to wait around for others. Here's to peace in my current residence and better knowing and understanding myself in 2022
I thought you were about to say “this day is grrreat!” And you said “grrrim!” The way I screamed.
hahahahahaha and I stand firm by that
Negeen, i just moved to my new place...... this is just what i needed, brb going to romantacise myself!
aw yay!!!
I LOVE your overalls! Where did you get them?
I enjoy watching all of your videos and absolutely love this video. I agree with everything you said. Everything starts with loving ourselves.
Thanks for this video Negeen! I like your outfit btw 😊
Thank you! 😊
I needed to really hear this RIGHT NOW. Esp the part about being a raisin. I believe I am my own soulmate.
so happy it was helpful at the right time :)
You are a great gal... This is one of your best videos. PS. Happy late Valentines.😁
Belated Happy Valentine's Day. Thought you were gonna do a vlog for Valentine's Day ❤💖, but it's nice to watch a new vid. You're sooooo so my favorite, Negeen! Love the way you look, chuckle, dress, and smile! 😊
This is a really beautiful
Hey I just found you and you've been helping me soooo much. I don't even know you, but you're like my big sister. Your videos are so awesome and inspirational ❤
So sweet! Thank you 🤍
Cooking videos and lounge wear idea’s…😊🥰
Noted!
Great video!!!!!
Well my girl. I'm older chicky and seen this and you have givin me confidence to just do shit. Not worry about being alone. I have a head full of great women 😂😂I start hangin with them more lol 🙈
Great video, I'm 57 so nearly a raisin 😅
Hello!!!! Missed you!!!🤪
Hello!!
What is the book where it said to romanticize yourself?
Back in the day, we used to say “A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.”
You are so cute and you are one of my soul mates
and you are one of mine!! 🥺
❤❤
Oh! Where did you get that nice edition of Anna Karenina from??
A local bookstore in town!
@@NaturallyNegeen Oo, lucky! Those nice Oxfords can be hard to find in Barnes and Nobles and the Half Price Bookstore sometimes. I hope to find the exact edition you have some day. It's like a treasure hunt haha.
@@Shribble11 Oh wow!! Is it really? Are they difficult to find??
@@NaturallyNegeen they can be, especially if you're looking for a specific book. But I come across them often enough :)
❤️❤️❤️
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It's hard negeen 😔
you got this 🤍
I don't want to see myself naked LOLOL nor do I think anyone else would LOLOL
Is there anything wrong with me that I prefer to be alone?
Perhaps this is where I will have to disagree. I don't believe it is wise to love yourself a priori. If we are to truly stare at ourselves in the mirror naked (metaphorically speaking), we become painfully aware of our flaws. However, that awareness is necessary to prevent our flaws from becoming catastrophe. The one thing that I have learned since you and I last spoke is that a relationship is not about your personal happiness. Such feelings are fleeting and will not endure. Your soulmate isn't the one that can bring you eternal bliss but instead is the one who you can rely on throughout all of life's tragedies and dissasaters. It's the person who will stand by you while you raise a child, which is one of the most difficult and demanding responsibilities someone can have. No...... don't love yourself unconditionally because one day you may find yourself looking into the eyes of a small child who is depending on you to be the best person you can possibly be. Everyone of us falls short of glory or is insufficient compared to the imaginary archetype in our heads but with some carefull attention and a little effort, we and the world around us could be just a little better..... and perhaps that's good enough
I would love to be friends with you
Negeen, this is a depressing video for me. I dont want to spend the rest of my life alone. I've been alone for way too long. I dont feel mentally healthy. Why are we doing this? 🤔🥃 I'm going to have another drink. 😅
Honey, have you thought of therapy. I have been where you’re at, just down on myself but now I’m in therapy and healing
@@ChiChi-sb4ys I'm fine now. I go through phases of feeling miserable but tommorow is another day.
As long as my diet is good, I keep exercising and I lay of the alcohol I'm okay. Good but not great. Its just that I'm living in a fkd up world. I cant change a world thats hopelessly brainwashed. I once wondered whether I was from another world because people are just so cruel and nasty towards each other.
shes proper fit
Seeing you long time. Now message will come after the video 😊
You still look the same till now.
Little bit you loose weight i guess.
Anna karenina is so sad
Negeen are you still looking for a man or have you given up?
Don't you feel sad about it ?