Stage fright: Don’t get over it; get used to it. | Anwesha Banerjee | TEDxDecatur

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  • Scared to death of public speaking? Here’s some practical advice from Dr. Anwesha Banerjee, a neuroscientist and distinguished public speaker. Dr. Banerjee says that while it is hard to get completely over the fear of doing something, it is not hard to get used to the fear so that it becomes a part of life and you stop paying attention to it. Stage fright is no different.
    Bio: Dr. Anwesha Banerjee is a trained behavioral and molecular neuroscientist, currently working at Emory University, Atlanta. When asked why she chose to be a scientist, she says: “Probably my name, which in Sanskrit means ‘in search of knowledge’, decided my destiny many years ago. So, blame my parents.”
    With expertise in the field of neurological disorders including autism, fragile X syndrome and Myotonic Dystrophy, she is currently conducting pioneering research to understand the underlying mechanism of cognitive impairments in Myotonic Dystrophy that severely affect a patient’s quality of life. Anwesha was the recipient of a Myotonic Dystrophy Foundation research fellowship in 2017. She has authored multiple publications and presented at national and international conferences.
    Apart from science, she loves public speaking and has been an active member of Toastmasters International for over six years. What started as a side step for professional development has now become her passion. She is a Distinguished Toastmaster, which is the highest recognition given by Toastmasters International. An avid public speaker, she is well versed in facilitation, communication and leadership skills, winning various awards & commendations for her speeches and presentations. Anwesha Banerjee is a trained behavioral and molecular Neuroscientist, currently working at Emory University, Atlanta. When often asked, why she chose to be a scientist, she says “probably my name which in Sanskrit means, 'in search of knowledge' has decided my destiny many years ago. So, blame my parents”.
    With expertise in the field of neurological disorders including autism, fragile X syndrome and Myotonic Dystrophy, she is currently conducting pioneering research to understand the underlying mechanism of cognitive impairments in Myotonic Dystrophy that severely affects a patient’s quality of life. Anwesha has been a recipient of research fellowship by Myotonic Dystrophy Foundation in 2017. She has authored multiple publications and presented at national and international conferences.
    Apart from science, she loves public speaking and has been an active member of Toastmasters for over 6 years, attaining Distinguished Toastmaster status and occupying senior leadership roles. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @antoinettebiagi1176
    @antoinettebiagi1176 4 роки тому +56

    Brilliant delivery of the core message: Avoidance minimizes exposure, which only increases anxiety.
    Make the component that intimidates you most routine to reduce its influence and enable you to focus on more compelling thoughts.

  • @hariprasadkaravalla1154
    @hariprasadkaravalla1154 4 роки тому +49

    So realistic. For sure builds confidence , inspires people to get the energy to get up and be on stage. I really like the quote " Don't get over it, Get used to it.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому +2

      thank you! Please share the video on with your friends and colleagues

  • @oguzkaanuremis
    @oguzkaanuremis 4 роки тому +19

    Fear is the greatest motivator.

  • @alissamcfarland2906
    @alissamcfarland2906 4 роки тому +28

    I love how Anwesha combines her love of scary movies, neuroscience and public speaking to explain stage fright. I’m doing my best to live in the arena and not let fear hold me back and she is an inspiration!

  • @annaflore7098
    @annaflore7098 2 роки тому +8

    I just started performing my music in 2021 and I must say that stage fright really gets to me, but I do it anyway. Thank you for your great talk!

  • @TonyRome402
    @TonyRome402 Рік тому +3

    Excellent presentation. I speak in front of large groups at work 3-4 times a week. Virtually no one will get up and speak because they are scared to death. The way I see it is; if all of them are afraid and I am the one speaking; by default, I am in a dominant position. This has translated to higher pay and privileges. I am so grateful to the people I speak to that I sincerely care about each and every one of them. I never put anyone on the spot or expose anyone. I come with love to deliver quality to my coworkers every day.

  • @katrinabauelle9845
    @katrinabauelle9845 2 роки тому +8

    In about 35 minutes I will have to speak in front of my class. Previous time I had to, I burst out in tears..
    But I feel like my practicing and this video will secure a better outcome this time🤍

  • @magicaltimetravelingelves1834
    @magicaltimetravelingelves1834 4 роки тому +31

    This video's got a good message. There really is no way around stage freight, just embrace the fear and get used to it.

  • @charanckck
    @charanckck 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much. " Don't avoid it. Get used to it". Love you. 15 min of interesting speech

  • @dmsosa08
    @dmsosa08 4 роки тому +16

    I am not surprised coming from Anwesha.. so clear, generous, and powerful as usual. . " One thing I realize ...If I want to move ahead in life
    I can not avoid public speaking... " communication is everything.. really pleased to know you are still commited to deliver this message since we enjoy and learn from you all of those days at the Richardson Evenings Toastmasters.. in Texas.. all the best Anwesha.. Namaste.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому +3

      Thank you for your kind words! Hope life is treating you well!

  • @Mpr91
    @Mpr91 Рік тому +6

    This is a fantastic speech. Thank you.

  • @hannehanneart8605
    @hannehanneart8605 2 роки тому +6

    She’s a great speaker, I truly enjoyed this TEDtalk.

  • @bonganimaseko2060
    @bonganimaseko2060 2 роки тому +5

    This is changing my life thank you

  • @sonalirupali99
    @sonalirupali99 4 роки тому +7

    Well done Anwesha! You nailed it! Such an important message delivered so well. A very complicated concept, which you have managed to simplify so beautifully! Congratulations!

  • @meiliu1020
    @meiliu1020 2 роки тому +2

    Wow. This is the best one I’ve ever heard about overcoming stage fright!

  • @benlequang6366
    @benlequang6366 2 роки тому +4

    This is the best method I have ever heard. Thank you.

  • @konglum
    @konglum 4 роки тому +8

    This is good, I didn't want to watch it but some in my group said I should, and I get it.

  • @mbb1849
    @mbb1849 9 місяців тому +1

    What. A. Speech. BEAUTIFUL speech. Thank you!

  • @rishi6085
    @rishi6085 4 роки тому +8

    Very well spoken Anwesha! Really enjoyed it ! Great Talk with some very insightful advice. :)

  • @-raaj
    @-raaj 4 роки тому +11

    Very neatly compiled and put forth.
    Something a lot of folks including me are struggling with. You're an example, indeed. Be a legend.
    Congratulations and best wishes

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you! Please share the video on with your friends and colleagues

    • @-raaj
      @-raaj 4 роки тому

      Sure

  • @irfanimp
    @irfanimp 2 роки тому +2

    You're one of the sweetest girls in the world!. It was the most perfect, most realistic, honest motivation I've ever watched. That's how I beat it!: Constantly confronting the feared thing makes you immune to fear!. Think of the day you first drove and went out on the street! your hand is like your arm!.that's it!thanks!.

  • @debrapcollieranderson3856
    @debrapcollieranderson3856 4 роки тому +5

    OMG!!!!! Anwesha, what an absolutely awesome job of public speaking. Great eye contact, humor, informative, encouraging, engaging, clarity, encouraging, and great stories. I really enjoyed your presentation.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому

      Thank you Debra for you kind words! Share with audience who might find it useful!

  • @anweshas
    @anweshas 4 роки тому +24

    Wowwww this is fabulous. Many many congratulations - that was indeed a terrific talk; excellent hand use for communication and owning the stage, and how amazing and easy examples you have used to communicate differences between amygdala and basal ganglia. As a scientist also you seem to be on the top of your game, Superb👌👌👌👌👌! Keep it up!

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you Anwesha D so much for liking the video.. Its all in the name ;)

  • @praveenkatara1767
    @praveenkatara1767 2 роки тому +2

    thank you mam for the wonderful talk. after hearing you i recalled my disasterous experience of public speaking, it was my first experience so i had some butterflies in my stomach, but when i started i went blanked.rather than giving up i decided to face that.And as a result, today i can at least present my self in front of the crowd.

  • @GarethBretherton
    @GarethBretherton 3 роки тому +3

    Great talk! Great way of looking at it!

  • @katrinabauelle9845
    @katrinabauelle9845 2 роки тому +2

    I love this, thank you!!

  • @DilipMallick
    @DilipMallick 4 роки тому +8

    This is cool n motivational! Nice👏👏👏

  • @emily_the_studd
    @emily_the_studd Рік тому +2

    I have a mentor. I’m not a special person with a special degree or experience other than some 3 years in the military before getting disabled. My mentor is pushing me to follow my dreams. One of them is to be a motivational speaker, another is to play music with and for others, another is acting. They all require learning how to deal with fear. The military messed me up physically and mentally but I’m overcoming it all by preserving and having hope. I looked up “stage fright” because I realized it wasn’t just on the stage but when I procrastinated doing a task or performing a responsibility. The same fears were present. Your video is the best I’ve seen so far. And I’m making notes and quoting you in my notes because one day I’m going to have you as one person to thank for my “getting out there!” Thank you for bringing so much of yourself to this speech. Your personality made the message so much easier to digest.

    • @anweshabanerjee1568
      @anweshabanerjee1568 Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your wonderful words. I am confident that you will be able to overcome your stagefright. It is a process. Best wishes

  • @paulkahanovitz9380
    @paulkahanovitz9380 4 роки тому +6

    Makes sense. One of the better talks on performance anxiety aka stage fright. How do we find you Anwesha?

  • @newaccount88
    @newaccount88 2 роки тому +4

    This is amazing ❤️

  • @lizbeethgonzalezhernandez
    @lizbeethgonzalezhernandez 4 роки тому +9

    What a smart woman, and what wonderful work.

  • @gerANNAmoe
    @gerANNAmoe 4 роки тому +2

    This was fantastic Anwesha! This was an excellent talk with dazzling delivery. I'm so honored to be one of those southerners you couldn't understand 😆

  • @preetibangera6215
    @preetibangera6215 4 місяці тому +1

    You just nailed it to the point Anwesha.Recently joined Toastmasters and going through the same emotions.This will be really really helpful.Thanks

  • @anndhary9714
    @anndhary9714 3 роки тому +2

    Very informative! I love it

  • @rijuray9612
    @rijuray9612 4 роки тому +10

    Outstanding presentation of these valuable insights 👏👍

  • @mayukhdutta5986
    @mayukhdutta5986 4 роки тому +6

    The whole talk is so good Anwesha. Congratulations

  • @Miriam_Imuh
    @Miriam_Imuh 3 місяці тому +1

    Brilliant speech full of lessons and intelligent humour 😂😂. I love this lady ❤

  • @valuabletipseasylife
    @valuabletipseasylife 4 роки тому +10

    Thank you so much for making me smile early in the morning 5:30 here in Italy. You have a great sense of humour talking different arguments.

  • @vymioyt1864
    @vymioyt1864 2 роки тому +5

    Amazing speach simple and accurate ❤

  • @princesspearlthumb
    @princesspearlthumb 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you!!!

  • @kawikyamazingira6106
    @kawikyamazingira6106 Рік тому +1

    I long for the day I will remain this calm infront of thousands of people 😂😂.
    I have learnt alot😍.
    Thanks Anwesha❤️

  • @dwaipayangoswami8599
    @dwaipayangoswami8599 Рік тому +1

    Terrific, super, mind blowing

  • @rafajaw
    @rafajaw 4 роки тому +1

    Very good! Congrats!!!

  • @roshanantony64
    @roshanantony64 3 роки тому +3

    Really good one!

  • @shikhaacharya1961
    @shikhaacharya1961 4 роки тому +8

    Fantastic presentation Anwesha! Congratulations on your outstanding work :)

  • @chandanritvik1
    @chandanritvik1 10 місяців тому +1

    Awesome! ❤

  • @RamaKrishnaMallampally
    @RamaKrishnaMallampally 2 роки тому +2

    Great speaker 👌

  • @Elusive-Khan
    @Elusive-Khan 4 роки тому +2

    Yep, this is good. Fear creates more fear.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому

      fear indeed creates more fear! well said and thank you for watching!

  • @theschoolofbodylanguage
    @theschoolofbodylanguage 2 роки тому +2

    Excellent

  • @thomashurbert
    @thomashurbert 4 роки тому +6

    I went to Toastmasters, I can do it now, but I am still fighting fear.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому +2

      It takes time Thomas but you will get there :) Good Luck!

  • @samuelygeissler
    @samuelygeissler 4 роки тому +3

    The good Doctor got this right.

  • @vckrscindy
    @vckrscindy 2 роки тому +10

    I had stage fright in the middle of a speech and felt like I had an injection of adrenaline, it was a nightmare. But 2 years into my career I spoke in front of crowds of 100 to 200 people regularly and never gave it a 2nd thought.
    Never understood what had changed.

    • @MegaBev
      @MegaBev Рік тому

      I wish I was like you

    • @vymioyt1864
      @vymioyt1864 4 місяці тому

      What is your job?

  • @aliyahrhodes
    @aliyahrhodes 4 роки тому +1

    Brilliant!!!

  • @ruviniliyanage5838
    @ruviniliyanage5838 3 роки тому +2

    Brilliant

  • @classicalshubha
    @classicalshubha 4 роки тому +8

    Wow... excellent analogies 👏👏👏
    Very thought provoking and such well delivered speech by you, Anwesha 🙌🙌🙌 Kudos😇

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому

      Thank you! Please share the video on with your friends and colleagues

  • @giorgichkhatarashvili1171
    @giorgichkhatarashvili1171 3 роки тому +3

    The summery: Practise!

  • @BeHappy-bq4pw
    @BeHappy-bq4pw Рік тому +1

    I have an extreme level of stage fear, while speaking in front of people my heart beats faster, my legs shake, i panic , i stutter and at the end i almost cry , i haven't watched the vedio yet but hopefully this helps me

  • @azdnalor
    @azdnalor Рік тому +1

    Don't get used to it! Get rid of it or minimize it using EFT tapping or other emotional freedom technics.

  • @blanchebosdet
    @blanchebosdet 4 роки тому +1

    Wow it terrifies me.

  • @vishnuv705
    @vishnuv705 3 роки тому +2

    It's a great presentation ,

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 3 роки тому

      Thank you Vishnu!

    • @vishnuv705
      @vishnuv705 3 роки тому +1

      @@anweshabanerjee5503 you are always welcome, ... Please upload more videos like development of soft skills...

  • @janegeegeehogge
    @janegeegeehogge 4 роки тому +3

    I really hate talking to people, I am terrified I will try this.

    • @anweshabanerjee5503
      @anweshabanerjee5503 4 роки тому

      Thanks Jane for watching! Do try a few times and let me know if the fear is getting lesser.

  • @caroldendy851
    @caroldendy851 4 роки тому +3

    Oh do I know the fear of speaking....

  • @kennedywilliams2280
    @kennedywilliams2280 2 роки тому

    Sounds like I'm on the phone with customer service

    • @richardshark
      @richardshark 2 роки тому +4

      What a crass and bigoted comment. Here is someone who has overcome her fears and succeeded yet all your almond shaped amygdala can come up with is this?!?! Mastering more than one language is a gift!

  • @sonalirupali99
    @sonalirupali99 4 роки тому +17

    Well done Anwesha! You nailed it! Such an important message delivered so well. A very complicated concept, which you have managed to simplify so beautifully! Congratulations!