Wow, I just finished listening to this podcast while I went for my morning walk how inspiring chani u turned your pain into hope and it’s so nice to see you remarried after all that pain. I myself was divorced at a very young age and I took 21 years for me to meet my husband Thank God we are happily married.
I am in awe! Both of you have gone through your journeys with resilience, strength and bravery. I am amazed hope that you have a long and health married life together. Thank you for giving us the honor of hearing your story. Tziporah - another amazing job, you are saving the world!
I remember learning that Yudi was very sick and then of his petira. My heart just broke for his wife. Chani and Scott, I am so glad that you found each other and chose to share your respective journeys with the world! It made me so happy to learn that you have found happiness again! Mazal tov!
This episode moved me to tears , I’m Fascinated by the strength of each of this beautiful couple (I know she didn’t want to hear people tell her how strong she is so I hope this is ok) I truly enjoyed watching and gained so much, thank you!!
Wow wow wow. They are very inspiring and speak truth. Being single due to not being married or divorced or widowed in 30s and 40s is extremely difficult in the Orthodox world. There is hope for us all.
Even though I’m recently married I love listening to this podcast! My husband and met and got married in Yerushalim. I feel like our story is nothing compared to the amazing stories I’ve been privileged to hear on this podcast.
Very very relatable, the raw pain and frustration of being single, of being put in a labeled box, of being looked at as second hand and of feeling lonely, sometimes hopeless, sometimes giving up So nice to hear of happy endings May we all see true joy and yeshuos
What a beautiful and deep podcast! I was lucky to have shared many shabbos meals with friends and Yudi in Crown Heights. I remember when you got engaged and married. It brings so much joy to know you have found happiness again... your story imparts hope and strength when it feels impossible to find the true zivug right now. Thank you for helping me continue to hope. And thank you for your honesty about your struggles with Hashem. Someone once shared that "Hashem has broad shoulders and can carry the feelings you throw at him. He made them, and made you, and he can take it." Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness and joy together.
Scott and chani i feel so incredibly blessed i just got to witness the absolute masterpiece that is each of you individually and as a couple. You truly give voice to so many emotions and experiences many are not ready to own or share. What a gift you both are for sharing yourselves in this way. I truly wish i get to meet you both in person one day you are so likeable and relatable. You shoukd both be so blessed with a long healthy beautiful rest of your lives together. Planet earth is so blessed to have you both here❤
I was widowed at 27 and then got married way to fast again and it wasn't happy and eventually got divorced. I am now 58 and have been with my current husband for 15yrs now. Life often goes nothing like we thought! I had a son from my first marriage (my husband was the most wonderful guy ever) and my son now has a son named for him! My current husband was widowed also so we really connected when we met since we had both had loving marriages and understood what it meant to lose it and we have no problems talking about our late spouses in a way others may not have understood.
Chany, you brought me to tears. Growing up in a home where my parents should've been divorced but weren't, I always waited for the shoe to drop and still do... when things go well I'm just waiting for the drop... I'm totally with you and wish that you merit to be able to enjoy countless blessings together with Scott with a full heart, anxiety- free! Thanks for sharing, this episode will stay with me for a long time.
Whoa.. I remember seeing her story on Tziporas Instagram and thinking "wow this women is special".. such a crazy story wow. No words and so inspiring ❤ look forward to these stories every Sunday night
Unbelievable that is all I have to say. WOW! Your story should just be heard by everyone. Your ability to tell your story without holding back all the feeling and emotions involved is truly amazing. Tears for sure shed here but for good!
When someone says they’re angry at G-d they actually are in a place where they know exactly where to direct their anger, rather than at other people who do or say foolish things.
Wow!! Thank you!! What a beautiful inspiring episode with inspiring heartfelt stories! Especially thank you tzipora!!!!! I can listen to your intuitive empathetic conversation-interviews all day! :)))
what a beautiful, emotional and raw story of hope. Thank you Chan and Scott. I wish you. both so much blessing and happiness together. Thank you for your bravery.
This episode of Chani and Scott’s story is so beautiful, may they only see happiness in their lives together forever! Mazel Tov and wishing you loads of מזל וברכות!
Unbelievable!!! Chani, your journey is so over whelming. To see the strength and tools around you that Hashem gave you, WOW! Every step in life you were working on from single to married. Each time in a new journey. May this new journey last you forever! Scott kol hakavod for investing in your self and a home. As i say if the property doesn't work out. You can always sell and afford the value of a different one. Believe it or not what really spoke to me was Tzipora in her car. She just grabbed the bull by the horns and gave us her best even with out a studio at hand. That is true talent at work. Thank you! All of you. And may Hashem keep on giving you koach. Because we can truly see that he gave all of you the koach and the tools you needed till now. May all of you have a wonderful amazing year. Till next week stay safe and healthy Yitzchak from Jerusalem.
Wow you can't make this story up! Amazing and inspiring. Appreciate how open Chani & Scott were. Hashem does work in mysterious ways ❤ May they only know of good things from now until 120 BH 🙏
I gained so much hope from ur stories. I appreciate the rawness and the times where it is ok to be angry and super sad. Thank you for giving me a glimmer of hope
Chani and Scott, thank you so much for sharing! YOu should build a beautiful Jewish home! Your comfort level and authenticity were very refreshing! Ty @SOH for presenting this podcast.
Incredible journey and thanks for sharing. It would also been nice to hear how they navigated getting marriage at this stage in life, for example how they navigated settling on a prenup (which every couple should have, but is obviously easier the younger you are)
i am really enjoying these stories, it is a great service to singles! HOWEVER, i feel like there is this need to promote and agree with every single thing the people who are interviewed say. why is it SO amazing that they had periods of time where they weren't keeping shabbos? i feel like if they would say, so i decided to eat pig for a while, tsipporah would be like "wow! that is so authentic and amazing. good for you! people feel like they can't do that and you are so amazing that you did it. people need to not judge others who eat treif". i feel like there is a way to not judge people and to empathize with their journey without gushing over behavior that is clearly not religious. there is nothing that needs to be glorified about not keeping shabbos because you went through yisurim...you don't need to criticize it either, but you could have been more neutral! if this podcast is geared to an orthodox community, i think that orthodoxy should be valued!.
Wow truly amazing inspirational honest authentic a pleasure to listen to and so much to learn from them! May Chani and Scott have a long beautiful healthy happy life together ❤
@Tzipporah Thank you so much for an incredibly inspiring podcast. I have listened to every single episode and have been inspired by each and every individual including yourself! Thank you!!!! Tamar From Ohio
Chani and Scott, I am so overwhelmed with joy. May Hashem give you so much good health, happiness, love, laughter and shalom bayis. So happy you found each other.
Beautiful episode! I've been divorced and married again - lost him after only 6 years. Though I'm in my 60s now - - interested to try again though very nervous. Hatzlacha Raba with this very special couple.
What a great couple. I can feel the pain they felt. I both resonate with getting “bottom of the barrel” suggestions in the past and also it rubs me the wrong way to call it that. We are Am Yisrael- A Kehilla Kedosha, and a nation of priests. How dare we be so repulsed by our own. It is Ahavas Chinam. I am guilty of this too. This goes for the people “in the parsha,” the shadchanim, and the in-betweeners like parents or mentors. There are so many people that gatekeep great matches out there for their own agendas, to make sure they’re “Keeping up with the Steins” or to avoid getting side-eyed by non-friends. I have a friend who is divorced too, and many people will not redt shidduchim for her because of it. She is incredible and will make a great wife to someone someday. And if a single wants a house, they should buy it!
You cannot be angry without a connection. The more angry you are, the stronger the connection. if you are intensely angry at God, it shows you are actually very, very close to Him.
It definitely used to be like that. But unfortunately as more people are getting divorced in every community they have learned to change the way they look at things. For example the previous Belzer Rebbe was divorced. His first marriage was VERY toxic. May we be zoche to see everyone open their hearts and minds for every soul that is broken.
We never know the situation... And i think that it is already bad enough for them to divorce... Also I am happy I was never pushed at a young age, because i would definitely not know myself yet andmake the wrong choice
What a beautiful and heartwarming inspiring story. I do have to say I was bothered by the part about them admitting that their shabbos observance was spotty. I’m ok with that choice- it’s not my business and I’m not judging - BUT when Scott said that when he came home to an empty apartment on shabbos he “couldn’t just read a book “ and Tzippora said -“of course “ - validating his choice to be mechalel shabbos. It’s not ok to break shabbos because you’re lonely and bored and you’re sending a very dangerous and damaging message. This is presented as a “kosher show “ and you have impressionable teens watching. I’m surprised that Nachi was ok with putting this out there. It’s a huge responsibility. That being said - I’m happy they found each other and wish them only the best.
Wow, I just finished listening to this podcast while I went for my morning walk how inspiring chani u turned your pain into hope and it’s so nice to see you remarried after all that pain. I myself was divorced at a very young age and I took 21 years for me to meet my husband Thank God we are happily married.
Wow! Excellent episode. Chani & Scott were just amazing in how raw & honest they were. May they only know happiness.
I am in awe! Both of you have gone through your journeys with resilience, strength and bravery. I am amazed hope that you have a long and health married life together. Thank you for giving us the honor of hearing your story. Tziporah - another amazing job, you are saving the world!
I remember learning that Yudi was very sick and then of his petira. My heart just broke for his wife.
Chani and Scott, I am so glad that you found each other and chose to share your respective journeys with the world! It made me so happy to learn that you have found happiness again! Mazal tov!
Wow. Blown away. Two beautiful people.
honest, raw, and authentic, best episode so far by a mile!
Agreed!
This episode moved me to tears , I’m Fascinated by the strength of each of this beautiful couple (I know she didn’t want to hear people tell her how strong she is so I hope this is ok) I truly enjoyed watching and gained so much, thank you!!
Wow wow wow. They are very inspiring and speak truth. Being single due to not being married or divorced or widowed in 30s and 40s is extremely difficult in the Orthodox world. There is hope for us all.
Even though I’m recently married I love listening to this podcast! My husband and met and got married in Yerushalim. I feel like our story is nothing compared to the amazing stories I’ve been privileged to hear on this podcast.
Very very relatable, the raw pain and frustration of being single, of being put in a labeled box, of being looked at as second hand and of feeling lonely, sometimes hopeless, sometimes giving up
So nice to hear of happy endings
May we all see true joy and yeshuos
Such an inspirational couple. They are both articulate and genuine in sharing their struggles with us. Thank you for an amazing interview.
What a beautiful and deep podcast!
I was lucky to have shared many shabbos meals with friends and Yudi in Crown Heights. I remember when you got engaged and married. It brings so much joy to know you have found happiness again... your story imparts hope and strength when it feels impossible to find the true zivug right now. Thank you for helping me continue to hope.
And thank you for your honesty about your struggles with Hashem.
Someone once shared that "Hashem has broad shoulders and can carry the feelings you throw at him. He made them, and made you, and he can take it."
Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness and joy together.
Scott and chani i feel so incredibly blessed i just got to witness the absolute masterpiece that is each of you individually and as a couple. You truly give voice to so many emotions and experiences many are not ready to own or share. What a gift you both are for sharing yourselves in this way. I truly wish i get to meet you both in person one day you are so likeable and relatable. You shoukd both be so blessed with a long healthy beautiful rest of your lives together. Planet earth is so blessed to have you both here❤
I was widowed at 27 and then got married way to fast again and it wasn't happy and eventually got divorced. I am now 58 and have been with my current husband for 15yrs now. Life often goes nothing like we thought! I had a son from my first marriage (my husband was the most wonderful guy ever) and my son now has a son named for him! My current husband was widowed also so we really connected when we met since we had both had loving marriages and understood what it meant to lose it and we have no problems talking about our late spouses in a way others may not have understood.
Chany, you brought me to tears. Growing up in a home where my parents should've been divorced but weren't, I always waited for the shoe to drop and still do... when things go well I'm just waiting for the drop... I'm totally with you and wish that you merit to be able to enjoy countless blessings together with Scott with a full heart, anxiety- free! Thanks for sharing, this episode will stay with me for a long time.
Whoa.. I remember seeing her story on Tziporas Instagram and thinking "wow this women is special".. such a crazy story wow. No words and so inspiring ❤ look forward to these stories every Sunday night
Unbelievable that is all I have to say. WOW! Your story should just be heard by everyone. Your ability to tell your story without holding back all the feeling and emotions involved is truly amazing. Tears for sure shed here but for good!
When someone says they’re angry at G-d they actually are in a place where they know exactly where to direct their anger, rather than at other people who do or say foolish things.
This is such a beautiful interview with a wonderful and mature couple. You are a fantastic moderator.
Thank you for sharing your incredible stories. It is so clear how much you appreciate each other and see the best in one another. Very inspiring.
Wow!! Thank you!! What a beautiful inspiring episode with inspiring heartfelt stories! Especially thank you tzipora!!!!! I can listen to your intuitive empathetic conversation-interviews all day! :)))
this was a tear jerker. what a beautiful and awesome couple! thank you tzipora and MM for this podcast!
Ask me how many times I cried while watching this episode. Wow. This one is really going to stay with me. Thank you so much for sharing
what a beautiful, emotional and raw story of hope. Thank you Chan and Scott. I wish you. both so much blessing and happiness together. Thank you for your bravery.
This episode of Chani and Scott’s story is so beautiful, may they only see happiness in their lives together forever! Mazel Tov and wishing you loads of מזל וברכות!
Thank you for opening your heart and soul to the audience. This was one of the best episodes.
Unbelievable!!! Chani, your journey is so over whelming. To see the strength and tools around you that Hashem gave you, WOW! Every step in life you were working on from single to married. Each time in a new journey. May this new journey last you forever! Scott kol hakavod for investing in your self and a home. As i say if the property doesn't work out. You can always sell and afford the value of a different one. Believe it or not what really spoke to me was Tzipora in her car. She just grabbed the bull by the horns and gave us her best even with out a studio at hand. That is true talent at work. Thank you! All of you. And may Hashem keep on giving you koach. Because we can truly see that he gave all of you the koach and the tools you needed till now. May all of you have a wonderful amazing year. Till next week stay safe and healthy Yitzchak from Jerusalem.
You guys are so strong!💕MAZAL TOV ON YOUR WEDDING🥳 Till 120! Fav podcastttt!!!
Wow you can't make this story up! Amazing and inspiring. Appreciate how open Chani & Scott were. Hashem does work in mysterious ways ❤ May they only know of good things from now until 120 BH 🙏
I gained so much hope from ur stories. I appreciate the rawness and the times where it is ok to be angry and super sad. Thank you for giving me a glimmer of hope
Chani and Scott, thank you so much for sharing! YOu should build a beautiful Jewish home! Your comfort level and authenticity were very refreshing! Ty @SOH for presenting this podcast.
So happy for you both! Wishing you a LONG and beautiful life together filled with simcha and Kol tuv!
What a great story thank you so much for sharing!
Your love for eachother is so beautiful and wholesome❤️
Chani and Scott, your story was great! Thank you for sharing. May you be zoche to a long happy life together til 120!
thank you! amazing!!!!!
Fantastic episode ! A lot of genuine takeaways
This was very raw and real. Thank you for sharing!!
Incredible journey and thanks for sharing. It would also been nice to hear how they navigated getting marriage at this stage in life, for example how they navigated settling on a prenup (which every couple should have, but is obviously easier the younger you are)
Wow I was moved to tears watching this episode, thanks for sharing your story
Powerful story. Wishing both - but particularly Chani continued strength to get to where they want to go in life.
Wishing this beautiful couple years of love and happiness and understanding until they are both 120.
i am really enjoying these stories, it is a great service to singles! HOWEVER, i feel like there is this need to promote and agree with every single thing the people who are interviewed say. why is it SO amazing that they had periods of time where they weren't keeping shabbos? i feel like if they would say, so i decided to eat pig for a while, tsipporah would be like "wow! that is so authentic and amazing. good for you! people feel like they can't do that and you are so amazing that you did it. people need to not judge others who eat treif". i feel like there is a way to not judge people and to empathize with their journey without gushing over behavior that is clearly not religious. there is nothing that needs to be glorified about not keeping shabbos because you went through yisurim...you don't need to criticize it either, but you could have been more neutral! if this podcast is geared to an orthodox community, i think that orthodoxy should be valued!.
VERY WELL SAID
This is the best episode!! Thank you for sharing your journey!!!
Wow truly amazing inspirational honest authentic a pleasure to listen to and so much to learn from them! May Chani and Scott have a long beautiful healthy happy life together ❤
@Tzipporah Thank you so much for an incredibly inspiring podcast. I have listened to every single episode and have been inspired by each and every individual including yourself! Thank you!!!! Tamar From Ohio
Chani and Scott, I am so overwhelmed with joy. May Hashem give you so much good health, happiness, love, laughter and shalom bayis. So happy you found each other.
Loved this podcast and wonderful couple may Hashem bless you both with health wealth and happiness till 120!
such a powerful episode!
Amazing story, thanks for sharing 🙏
I loved this episode!
Have a great succot !
Thanks for the episode
Beautiful episode!
I've been divorced and married again - lost him after only 6 years. Though I'm in my 60s now - - interested to try again though very nervous.
Hatzlacha Raba with this very special couple.
Thanks for sharing!
What a great couple. I can feel the pain they felt. I both resonate with getting “bottom of the barrel” suggestions in the past and also it rubs me the wrong way to call it that. We are Am Yisrael- A Kehilla Kedosha, and a nation of priests. How dare we be so repulsed by our own. It is Ahavas Chinam. I am guilty of this too. This goes for the people “in the parsha,” the shadchanim, and the in-betweeners like parents or mentors. There are so many people that gatekeep great matches out there for their own agendas, to make sure they’re “Keeping up with the Steins” or to avoid getting side-eyed by non-friends. I have a friend who is divorced too, and many people will not redt shidduchim for her because of it. She is incredible and will make a great wife to someone someday. And if a single wants a house, they should buy it!
Unreal raw authentic totally inspired by this amazing couple !
Wow you guys are an inspiration!!! So much to learn from!!
WOW❤ Such a special story!
Such an amazing and inspiring story!
I know Scott from when we were kids... He is just a great guy with a smile on his face always.
The stigma is so painfully felt
We must start being more open minded to c ppl for their true selves
I really like scott very authentic!
I really vibe to Scott!
Amazing story and episode
They are a lovely couple, please update us on their future happenings.
You guys are amazing! Mazal Tov!!
Such a wonderful love story ❤
You cannot be angry without a connection. The more angry you are, the stronger the connection.
if you are intensely angry at God, it shows you are actually very, very close to Him.
Amazing!!!!! So inspiring!!!!!
Being divorced in haredi community is like you comited a crime. The more religious the community is, the greater the prejudice. Very sad.
It definitely used to be like that. But unfortunately as more people are getting divorced in every community they have learned to change the way they look at things. For example the previous Belzer Rebbe was divorced. His first marriage was VERY toxic. May we be zoche to see everyone open their hearts and minds for every soul that is broken.
We never know the situation... And i think that it is already bad enough for them to divorce... Also I am happy I was never pushed at a young age, because i would definitely not know myself yet andmake the wrong choice
Wow the stories get more interesting over time
i feel like frum dating is extremely judgmental - based of superficialities. Is this how Gd wants us to be?
Wow!!
Chani’s Loss caught my eye, because I promote Jewish Music, & Chani’s ex was best friends with singer Moish W..
It’s hard to find a good therapist. Can you share the name of your therapist?
What a beautiful and heartwarming inspiring story. I do have to say I was bothered by the part about them admitting that their shabbos observance was spotty. I’m ok with that choice- it’s not my business and I’m not judging - BUT when Scott said that when he came home to an empty apartment on shabbos he “couldn’t just read a book “ and Tzippora said -“of course “ - validating his choice to be mechalel shabbos. It’s not ok to break shabbos because you’re lonely and bored and you’re sending a very dangerous and damaging message. This is presented as a “kosher show “ and you have impressionable teens watching. I’m surprised that Nachi was ok with putting this out there. It’s a huge responsibility. That being said - I’m happy they found each other and wish them only the best.
I disagree. It is important to highlight that no one of us is perfect and our relationship with Hashem can evolve over time.
MCS phone number wasn't in show notes?
His "reason" was that he felt safe...that is the main hurdle for overly analytical ppl. I can identify!
Yr a very talented host
i totally agree, shes amazing!
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Did she have any children with her first two husbands?
I don't think so.
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