I used to try and be nice to everyone. But, when people have said to me over the years that I think I am better than them, I realized the problem was them not me. So I don't waste anytime or energy trying to make people like me, including my family.
Wanting everyone to like you is a residual effect of slavery I feel. Us as black women need to get to a place where we stop passing down trauma and start loving and lifting one another. I grew up feeling like my own mother didn't like me and just now coming to a place in my 50's that I don't care anymore. What is it about 50 lol?
Facts! Girl, these late 40s body changes lead to the mind changes because you realize what's important, what you can actually change and what you need your energy for lol. I got to that place with my mom in my late 20s though.
I used to try and be nice to everyone. But, when people have said to me over the years that I think I am better than them, I realized the problem was them not me. So I don't waste anytime or energy trying to make people like me, including my family.
You're a smart cookie!
A wise person once said, "Don't let people rent space in your mind."
Wise indeed!
😎 cool stuff❤
Wanting everyone to like you is a residual effect of slavery I feel. Us as black women need to get to a place where we stop passing down trauma and start loving and lifting one another. I grew up feeling like my own mother didn't like me and just now coming to a place in my 50's that I don't care anymore. What is it about 50 lol?
Facts! Girl, these late 40s body changes lead to the mind changes because you realize what's important, what you can actually change and what you need your energy for lol. I got to that place with my mom in my late 20s though.