Thank you so much for this. It’s such a gift. If no one takes care of you emotionally when you’re a kid, you grow up thinking it’s normal to have no one take care of you emotionally, and it’s really hard to start letting someone in to do that. But it feels so good when you finally do. Guys, we are human, not robots. Be humans! ✊
This made me cry. A genuine cry. Something I haven't done in years due to my survival instincts effectively stripping me of that ability. and for the longest time I was training myself to be an emotionless automaton, to fake emotions in front of friends and family. It got so bad that I was even questioning if my "feelings" we're real or just emulated from my instincts. This audio has proven to me that I still have genuine feelings. Albeit buried deep. And will take time to coax out. But still there
For real, you wrote my life. Never thought some people would exactly think the same as i, about the whole :" Are my feeling real, or just emulated ? " Feels good to know i'm not alone.
You know, it's almost funny. I've been in the "boys don't cry" mentality for so long that it comes naturally at this point. Even if I'm sad I force it down on instinct. I want to cry, because they say it helps, but I can't
i will forever blame society and whoever started this "boys don't cry" yes we do have feelings and emotions too. loved the audio Sarah and Happy Halloween everyone if it's celebrate it where you live. 😊
This whole shitty mindset existed from always I think. And in today's society it's even worse, if other men see you being even a little bit emotional they think of you as weak, looking down upon you, that's why society is just a horrible place to be.. we are not freaking robots. We are humans with real feelings and emotions, men are allowed to cry too, that doesn't take away from their value, I'm glad people like you can understand that, have an awesome day my g 🤝🏻
i am a woman and i find it hot when a man shows emotions and shows his vulnerable side. i just want to hug him and make him feel good again. i’m a very shy person, but for my dream male wife, i am willing to go out of my own limits and be brave for him. stand up for him. fight for him. shield him. comfort him. even die for him. i wish more guys could dare to show their soft sides and dare to be different. i wish there were more emo boys in this world.
Man this brought tears to my eyes this really hit home you know I wish I had someone to cry on their shoulders but it's ok I can take it ☺️ Great video sooo much love ❤️
There are only like, 4 things in life that makes me cry. I only cry on occasion. But i prefer to do it when i am by myself. Not necessarily from any "past experiences", just because it's always been my natural instinct since I can remember. No matter how supportive anyone is about it, I still hurriedly leave and go to the most private area i can find or to my room and then let it out there. To me, it's like cleansing the soul or draining the pipes, exercising my tear ducts etc. I just don't see the point of crying in front of others. Has nothing to do with what society says or what certain people say or think. Just how I've always been. I just don't want anyone to see that side of me. Fortunately and oddly enough, i have found myself crying less as I've gotten older. (I am 27 as of this comment) To me, it's the same as i don't defecate or urinate or fart or anything else in front of anyone. I also try not to lose my temper or share any unpopular or controversial opinions. It's pretty easy to spare everyone unnecessary burdens or nuisances or awkwardness and spare myself the unnatural and pointless feeling of over-exposure and get my business over with comfortably and privately, to be honest. Just my take anyway. In a world where everything is out in the open whether you like it or not, it's nice to have some things that are secret, silent, and private and I value my privacy and solitude very much.
With every video you upload, you give me more motivation to improve myself and fight in hopes of a better tomorrow. You're an absolute legend, you dont know how much every upload means to me!
We need a remake or another version of this. I will forever blame society and whoever started this “Boys don’t cry” bullshit. I seriously needed this, and all the other men (I think) watching this video needed it too. TYSM.
Thank you for doing something positive for men. The way men are treated has slowly gotten worse. One side makes the argument that men need to be strong and stoic all the time because their viewed as weak otherwise (And id agree only with that with men in positions of power should not get emotional in public, because it teaches your opponents your weaknesses. If a president burst into tears at the podium, that country would be viewed as weak by its enemies) But then the other side says your masculinity is "toxic" and that you need to be more feminine and emotional, and then mock them publicly when they do so. Meanwhile everyone Says men are "privileged" and you're very existence "oppresses" someone else. Despite the fact men have an insanely high suicide and depression rate. Men Especially young men Are left with nowhere to turn because basically everyone seems to be doing and saying something that works against them, and public figures who do try to actually become a good role model for the "incels" are shamed and "canceled" for it. So They get crap advice from tik tok instead, and then don't understand why it doesn't work.
How much it is possible for one person words effect to all these societies I thought it was only in my society but I was wrong Since we were young we heard that boys don't cry I didn't know how much not crying affects people in a very bad way I am a girl but when my father bassed away one of my friends told me not to cry in front of anyone be strong for your mother and yor siblings I listened to that advice at that time and this was the worst thing I could do in my life in a short period of time I lost myself that changed I became that angry person all the time for no reason I became more isolated this was very bad And the truth is that Asmr Video is what helped me to come back feeling that it is normal to cry and these days your videos helped a lot sometimes just listening to them Without feeling sad or something make me cry and i'm so glad for that for you thanks 🌼
The whole "men shouldn't cry, that's only a girls thing" has probably always existed. It's so sad, having society to tell you what you are allowed to feel and show and what not. F them. Stay real, if you need to cry, freaking cry. Doesn't matter what they think, never lose yourself because of others
Jag skriver på svenska då jag märkt att du är svensk. Jag älskar dina videos, videosarna ger mig den tröst och komfort jag önskar att jag fått av min mamma. Du heter ju däremot "Yourgirlfriend" men ändå får jag den komforten. Så TACK för det! Sluta aldrig med det du gör. Jag använder bara ASMR när jag ska sova, du lyckas att söva mig varje gång jag lyssnar på dina videos!
I just can't seem to man I'm trying but it's like I have no tear duckts I'm sad I wanna just release it all but how much I try I can't seem to cry. Sometimes I get this fear that what if I won't even cry at my grandma's funeral I won't shed a single tear drop for my parents they made sure of that but my grandma has been there for me I feel pain in my chest I feel numb and my throat closes up but I just don't cry anymore I fear that I've lost that ability
There are days where you can't lift the shield.. Even saiyans, full of pride, let their defense down sometimes (hey vegeta, gohan, trunks, and so on.. )
I needed to hear these words every couple weeks to remind myself I can cry , I don’t have anyone in my life I can comfortably cry in front of and this helps me a lot .
One of the things I'm grateful to my parents for is that they never encountered this awful stereotype that men don't cry. I can't begin to imagine the harm that would have caused me, had a believed it. This of course, doesn't excuse all the shitty things they did but indeed that it's worth noting
Crying is the response to some emotion, be it sadness or joy. It is not subject to being a woman so that they do not see it as weakness. I grew up with that ideal, my parents never told me not to cry because I'm a man, but I always heard it from other people, men and also women. I particularly don't like to cry, but not because of a question of social stigma. I just don't like the feeling of doing it, just as I wouldn't like the feeling of burning, I hope you understand what I mean. Anyway, great video 😉👍
This is wonderful..Unfortunately in the real world. the moment a man shed a tear, most women would definitely see him as a weaker being. Though at least in fiction, I can feel validated. thank you for this
Naturally i gave up on feeling stuff like that i didnt see a point anymore so i fot rid of emotions so people think im just lazy or carefree when reality i just dont wanna feel nothings given me a reason to express much its rare and true ive gotten more lazier but still take care of myself but lazy cause i see no point in trying really
I'm going to be dead honest I'm scared. Everything in my life has been going downhill I've tried everything and I don't know what else I have left to try. Each day is getting worse and worse, I'm always on the verge of crying and I'm sick of always hiding it. I just want someone to at least show a little interest in me. So if this is my last comment then so be it, I had a good run and see you all on the flip side.
Please don’t give up! You are so loved and there are people in your life who care about you. God has a plan for your life, even if it feels like your life is meaningless. Seriously, take care of yourself and talk to someone you trust, like a parent or friend or a therapist. I’ll be praying for you!
@@ethanburch422 Yeah, let's not start the religious bogus. If Christ really cared about people he wouldn't allow all these innocent souls to suffer every day things that they don't deserve. If god is real, he doesn't give a flip about anyone, he probably enjoys seeing his creations suffer
@@blackbullet4254 The reason god doesn’t get rid of all suffering immediately is because he wants us to seek him to help us so we can build a relationship with him. If he removed negative emotions entirely then nobody would look for god anymore. That would also ruin the whole point of heaven since it would be impossible to feel sad or angry like in the heavens.
I felt so alone the last year but I heard this I felt like I was actually talking to someone no on in real life would talk to me even when I want them too but I listen to this audio and I gotta say thanks for this
@@zach99999 I am so sorry, I don’t have Twitter. But whatever is happening, you are going to be okay. You are loved, and cared for, and there is a plan for your life. Stay strong and keep going!
I was born female (now consider myself non binary) and all my life I was taught that emotions were bad things, never giving comfort, neglect when I cried, told to shut up or that I was being too emotional whenever I tried to let my parents know that they were doing something that I didn’t like. I was taught that my emotions were bad things and now I constantly feel like a burden.
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Thank you so much for this. It’s such a gift. If no one takes care of you emotionally when you’re a kid, you grow up thinking it’s normal to have no one take care of you emotionally, and it’s really hard to start letting someone in to do that. But it feels so good when you finally do. Guys, we are human, not robots. Be humans! ✊
True
Sounds like an excuse
@@orbeez2322 Thank you for this helpful and constructive comment!
@@heartfeltscenesanytime! i hope people stop glorifying weakness soon
@@orbeez2322 If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
This made me cry. A genuine cry. Something I haven't done in years due to my survival instincts effectively stripping me of that ability. and for the longest time I was training myself to be an emotionless automaton, to fake emotions in front of friends and family. It got so bad that I was even questioning if my "feelings" we're real or just emulated from my instincts. This audio has proven to me that I still have genuine feelings. Albeit buried deep. And will take time to coax out. But still there
Same bro
For real, you wrote my life. Never thought some people would exactly think the same as i, about the whole :" Are my feeling real, or just emulated ? "
Feels good to know i'm not alone.
You know, it's almost funny. I've been in the "boys don't cry" mentality for so long that it comes naturally at this point. Even if I'm sad I force it down on instinct. I want to cry, because they say it helps, but I can't
I hope you're doing okay and having a good summer.
Got stuck like that for almost 5 years, trying to cry and not being able to. It gets better
Bro same, I'm bawling my eyes out right now, I only cry at night when no one's awake, it's sad AF tbh
Even now it's hard for me to cry
Same
And although I'm not a boy, this one was a real pleasure to listen to! Your comfort audios are always so special and gentle 😩💛
i will forever blame society and whoever started this "boys don't cry" yes we do have feelings and emotions too. loved the audio Sarah and Happy Halloween everyone if it's celebrate it where you live. 😊
This whole shitty mindset existed from always I think. And in today's society it's even worse, if other men see you being even a little bit emotional they think of you as weak, looking down upon you, that's why society is just a horrible place to be.. we are not freaking robots. We are humans with real feelings and emotions, men are allowed to cry too, that doesn't take away from their value, I'm glad people like you can understand that, have an awesome day my g 🤝🏻
boys wanna be tough but that does not mean we don't wanna cry at times
It is what it is.
I f-cked up my spelling
i am a woman and i find it hot when a man shows emotions and shows his vulnerable side. i just want to hug him and make him feel good again. i’m a very shy person, but for my dream male wife, i am willing to go out of my own limits and be brave for him. stand up for him. fight for him. shield him. comfort him. even die for him. i wish more guys could dare to show their soft sides and dare to be different. i wish there were more emo boys in this world.
Man this brought tears to my eyes this really hit home you know I wish I had someone to cry on their shoulders but it's ok I can take it ☺️
Great video sooo much love ❤️
There are only like, 4 things in life that makes me cry.
I only cry on occasion. But i prefer to do it when i am by myself. Not necessarily from any "past experiences", just because it's always been my natural instinct since I can remember.
No matter how supportive anyone is about it, I still hurriedly leave and go to the most private area i can find or to my room and then let it out there. To me, it's like cleansing the soul or draining the pipes, exercising my tear ducts etc.
I just don't see the point of crying in front of others. Has nothing to do with what society says or what certain people say or think.
Just how I've always been.
I just don't want anyone to see that side of me.
Fortunately and oddly enough, i have found myself crying less as I've gotten older. (I am 27 as of this comment)
To me, it's the same as i don't defecate or urinate or fart or anything else in front of anyone. I also try not to lose my temper or share any unpopular or controversial opinions.
It's pretty easy to spare everyone unnecessary burdens or nuisances or awkwardness and spare myself the unnatural and pointless feeling of over-exposure and get my business over with comfortably and privately, to be honest.
Just my take anyway.
In a world where everything is out in the open whether you like it or not, it's nice to have some things that are secret, silent, and private and I value my privacy and solitude very much.
Thanks a ton for this. The timing of the video was perfect, just at the right time
With every video you upload, you give me more motivation to improve myself and fight in hopes of a better tomorrow. You're an absolute legend, you dont know how much every upload means to me!
I do not cry, i was taught to be a big boy and crying does nothing to sol😊ve any problems
Haven’t cried in years and I’m still scared to do it. I’ve trained my body not to so now I’m just numb
i needed that, damn.. awesome video, fr you helped a lot
We need a remake or another version of this. I will forever blame society and whoever started this “Boys don’t cry” bullshit. I seriously needed this, and all the other men (I think) watching this video needed it too. TYSM.
Thank you for doing something positive for men.
The way men are treated has slowly gotten worse.
One side makes the argument that men need to be strong and stoic all the time because their viewed as weak otherwise
(And id agree only with that with men in positions of power should not get emotional in public, because it teaches your opponents your weaknesses. If a president burst into tears at the podium, that country would be viewed as weak by its enemies)
But then the other side says your masculinity is "toxic" and that you need to be more feminine and emotional, and then mock them publicly when they do so.
Meanwhile everyone Says men are "privileged" and you're very existence "oppresses" someone else.
Despite the fact men have an insanely high suicide and depression rate.
Men
Especially young men
Are left with nowhere to turn because basically everyone seems to be doing and saying something that works against them, and public figures who do try to actually become a good role model for the "incels" are shamed and "canceled" for it. So They get crap advice from tik tok instead, and then don't understand why it doesn't work.
How much it is possible for one person words effect to all these societies I thought it was only in my society but I was wrong
Since we were young we heard that boys don't cry I didn't know how much not crying affects people in a very bad way I am a girl but when my father bassed away one of my friends told me not to cry in front of anyone be strong for your mother and yor siblings I listened to that advice at that time and this was the worst thing I could do in my life in a short period of time I lost myself that changed I became that angry person all the time for no reason I became more isolated this was very bad
And the truth is that Asmr Video is what helped me to come back feeling that it is normal to cry and these days your videos helped a lot sometimes just listening to them Without feeling sad or something make me cry and i'm so glad for that for you thanks 🌼
The whole "men shouldn't cry, that's only a girls thing" has probably always existed. It's so sad, having society to tell you what you are allowed to feel and show and what not. F them. Stay real, if you need to cry, freaking cry. Doesn't matter what they think, never lose yourself because of others
@@blackbullet4254 This is the most wise thing I've heard in a while.
Amazing comfort video
Jag skriver på svenska då jag märkt att du är svensk. Jag älskar dina videos, videosarna ger mig den tröst och komfort jag önskar att jag fått av min mamma. Du heter ju däremot "Yourgirlfriend" men ändå får jag den komforten. Så TACK för det! Sluta aldrig med det du gör. Jag använder bara ASMR när jag ska sova, du lyckas att söva mig varje gång jag lyssnar på dina videos!
I just can't seem to man I'm trying but it's like I have no tear duckts I'm sad I wanna just release it all but how much I try I can't seem to cry. Sometimes I get this fear that what if I won't even cry at my grandma's funeral I won't shed a single tear drop for my parents they made sure of that but my grandma has been there for me I feel pain in my chest I feel numb and my throat closes up but I just don't cry anymore I fear that I've lost that ability
Saiyans always have to be strong.
There are days where you can't lift the shield..
Even saiyans, full of pride, let their defense down sometimes (hey vegeta, gohan, trunks, and so on.. )
I feel this to be honest I have not cried in 4 years I can be sure because last time I cried was when my grandpa passed thank you for this
I needed to hear these words every couple weeks to remind myself I can cry , I don’t have anyone in my life I can comfortably cry in front of and this helps me a lot .
No matter how much I beg and hope for someone like this to come along... no one ever does... Im always gonna be alone.
One of the things I'm grateful to my parents for is that they never encountered this awful stereotype that men don't cry. I can't begin to imagine the harm that would have caused me, had a believed it.
This of course, doesn't excuse all the shitty things they did but indeed that it's worth noting
I love When u post a New Vídeo.... I ' ll come back when I see it.
Have a good night Sarah 🥰
Awwww!!!This is so sweet and soothing and I loved this audio Sweetheart your amazing love you ❤❤❤❤💖💖💖💖
Still won't cry tho rather just bottle it up 😅
Crying is the response to some emotion, be it sadness or joy. It is not subject to being a woman so that they do not see it as weakness.
I grew up with that ideal, my parents never told me not to cry because I'm a man, but I always heard it from other people, men and also women.
I particularly don't like to cry, but not because of a question of social stigma. I just don't like the feeling of doing it, just as I wouldn't like the feeling of burning, I hope you understand what I mean.
Anyway, great video 😉👍
Not as cry crying but feel so tired exhausted and exhausted...
This is wonderful..Unfortunately in the real world. the moment a man shed a tear, most women would definitely see him as a weaker being. Though at least in fiction, I can feel validated. thank you for this
F4M 😌 I don't mind watching it either.
the Sims analogy
But society says I do, therefore I must.
Not as cry crying but feel so tired exhausted and exhausted... Im commenting this while watching you know...
Not a man but definitely gonna enjoy this one
Thank you ❤❤
I am a girl but still feel weak for crying
Ditto 😔
This is nice.
Bro I'm always putting on like a tough face but at night it all comes back to me 😢
Welcome back to another episode of “That’s comforting, too bad I’ll never have it”
A man crying is disgraceful... I even believe it... And somehow I'm still here. I'll admit it, I'm perplexed.
There is nothing wrong with a man crying. Men are not robots and deserve compassion and kindness.
@@YourgirlfriendASMR you're not wrong, but engrained habits are hard to break
Love it
”boys don’t cry”
well i just did
Naturally i gave up on feeling stuff like that i didnt see a point anymore so i fot rid of emotions so people think im just lazy or carefree when reality i just dont wanna feel nothings given me a reason to express much its rare and true ive gotten more lazier but still take care of myself but lazy cause i see no point in trying really
Why did you make me cry....
Lately it feels like im never strong
I'm going to be dead honest I'm scared. Everything in my life has been going downhill I've tried everything and I don't know what else I have left to try. Each day is getting worse and worse, I'm always on the verge of crying and I'm sick of always hiding it. I just want someone to at least show a little interest in me. So if this is my last comment then so be it, I had a good run and see you all on the flip side.
Please don’t give up! You are so loved and there are people in your life who care about you. God has a plan for your life, even if it feels like your life is meaningless. Seriously, take care of yourself and talk to someone you trust, like a parent or friend or a therapist. I’ll be praying for you!
Its when you feel most alone that God is right there reaching out. Turn to Christ my friend. He will never leave you nor forsake you
@@ethanburch422 Yeah, let's not start the religious bogus. If Christ really cared about people he wouldn't allow all these innocent souls to suffer every day things that they don't deserve. If god is real, he doesn't give a flip about anyone, he probably enjoys seeing his creations suffer
@@blackbullet4254 The reason god doesn’t get rid of all suffering immediately is because he wants us to seek him to help us so we can build a relationship with him. If he removed negative emotions entirely then nobody would look for god anymore. That would also ruin the whole point of heaven since it would be impossible to feel sad or angry like in the heavens.
please let me have this just once in my life im actually begging
Off topic HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE
Thank you for reminding me❤ 😉
I felt so alone the last year but I heard this I felt like I was actually talking to someone no on in real life would talk to me even when I want them too but I listen to this audio and I gotta say thanks for this
due to my current position im not allowed to show aby emotions what so ever thx for this even if it is not real it makes Life a lil bit easier
Me: I am a boy.
Also me: umm no your-
Me: YES I AM SHUT UP IM WITH MY GF
Lovely
💜
GIVE ME DA PUPPY VID
I wish I could open up to someone
I’m here for you, if you’d like to. No pressure or judgment
@@Hannahleigh_b sure, but how?
@@zach99999 idk you could just do it here if you don’t mind the possibility that others might see it. I didn’t really think that far to be honest
@@Hannahleigh_b I can't do it here. If you're serious, the channel name on my shared channel list is my name on Twitter
@@zach99999 I am so sorry, I don’t have Twitter. But whatever is happening, you are going to be okay. You are loved, and cared for, and there is a plan for your life. Stay strong and keep going!
💙🦋
I was born female (now consider myself non binary) and all my life I was taught that emotions were bad things, never giving comfort, neglect when I cried, told to shut up or that I was being too emotional whenever I tried to let my parents know that they were doing something that I didn’t like. I was taught that my emotions were bad things and now I constantly feel like a burden.