ASMR| You Don't Have to Pretend to be OK ❤ [Depression Comfort][Girlfriend Roleplay]

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  • Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
  • It is always OK to not feel OK. To have bad days, really bad days, and to not answer "I'm fine" when someone asks.

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  • @zombeeCAL
    @zombeeCAL Рік тому +211

    tittle is so real cuz i have to pretend about everything

    • @ravereligion8512
      @ravereligion8512 Рік тому +14

      These days everyone pretends, let us be special and not pretend anymore. I will start today :)

    • @bumzie2178
      @bumzie2178 Рік тому +3

      W tittle

    • @TheJudge-z1b
      @TheJudge-z1b Рік тому

      ​@ravereligion8512 haha shut up 😐🚮

    • @zombeeCAL
      @zombeeCAL Рік тому +2

      @@ravereligion8512 I've thought of that too, but people treat you better when you prentend to be happy/normal because i used to get beaten for the way i was before i pretended

    • @ShecriedhecriedIcried
      @ShecriedhecriedIcried Рік тому +1

      @@bumzie2178 I see what I think I’m seeing
      👴🏻- “ did you think you could escape me Boy? “

  • @thebaguetteguy2207
    @thebaguetteguy2207 Рік тому +116

    i wish someone like you existed to tell me this face to face
    thanks for the audio it was conforting while it lasted

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Рік тому +1

      🫂❤️🫂🙏🤍🙏

    • @andy6201
      @andy6201 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@stevenislas6459bro is in every comment replying with hugs respect

  • @TwistedMT297
    @TwistedMT297 Рік тому +25

    This video made me realize that the thought of a hug from someone makes me start to cry

    • @derevo439
      @derevo439 Рік тому +2

      Same there man I’m crying right now lol

    • @nicholasphipps5293
      @nicholasphipps5293 2 місяці тому

      Right there with you both

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 5 днів тому

      @@nicholasphipps5293 I cried hard today, now i have a smile on my face.
      god works wonders

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 Рік тому +68

    I always pretend to people that I’m fine it’s just how I’ve always done it. Don’t like to waste there time, plus I feel like I don’t deserve help. I feel it’s fine that I’m not ok because that’s just how I always am but at the same time I hate how I am. Lovely audio as always, I’ll be sleeping well tonight. ❤

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Рік тому +3

      🫂🫂❤️🫂🫂

    • @mydogcausewhynot7753
      @mydogcausewhynot7753 Рік тому +2

      This describes me well. A sad thing is, I remember something my step-dad said. He said, "Do you want some happy pills?" And my mother says,"My baby is always happy she dont need those." At that time, I was thinking, "I wish I was mom 😔."

    • @andy6201
      @andy6201 5 місяців тому

      Ong bruh. I listen to this virgin asmr cause ik i AM a virgin. Im never getting love, and i know i dont deserve love or anything, ever, so i just listen to this stuff to feel like i do deserve love

  • @Hazbin_Hotel_Quotes
    @Hazbin_Hotel_Quotes 3 місяці тому +4

    This is the lowest I've felt in 5 years

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      I fell in low places in life, really dark.
      but god helped me out of them
      and he will also help you out of those places .
      Christ loves you✝

  • @leah2271
    @leah2271 Рік тому +21

    "You don't have to pretend with me"
    this place and you the only place I don't pretend to be someone else
    this channel the only place I feel like it's okey to have any kind of feeling and the only place I feel that my emotions is valid
    I'm so thankful for you Sarah 💛

  • @silvergoldcopper9809
    @silvergoldcopper9809 Рік тому +27

    Sometimes I wonder if having someone like this in my life would make me want to stay or if not even that can fill the hole. As always, thank you for the audio, Sarah ❤️

  • @kayceekeith1997
    @kayceekeith1997 Рік тому +39

    I hate being depressed sometimes. You are a literal angel. :)

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Рік тому

      🫂❤️🫂🙏🤍🙏

    • @non-existant-being
      @non-existant-being 11 місяців тому +1

      Well, no not to be that guy, but LITERAL angels are terrifying, I think you meant metaphorical.

    • @AzaleaZxZ
      @AzaleaZxZ 11 місяців тому

      @@non-existant-beingshut the fuck up you are that guy that’s annoying asf

  • @FlareToga76
    @FlareToga76 11 місяців тому +12

    i go to sleep at night fantasizing about someone holding me and telling me everything will be okay, even if its a total lie. i just need someone to be there for me and to hold me

    • @aalanisrios-rk3ul
      @aalanisrios-rk3ul 11 місяців тому

      Same these videos are like my escape when I'm by myself they help me feel cared about and comforted with my mental health issues

  • @neuro7594
    @neuro7594 Рік тому +4

    When home doesn't feel safe anymore.

  • @Fungoid
    @Fungoid Рік тому +6

    To the person reading this: your feelings, your pain, your loneliness are valid and reasonable things for a human being to feel. The fact that you can't share your tragedy with a lot of people because they would judge you makes it more tragic, not less. You don't need to feel shame for the feelings you have, or the steps you take to deal with those feelings. You are not alone. We are not alone.

  • @zach99999
    @zach99999 Рік тому +7

    This was really comforting. I tell everyone that I'm fine, even though I'm really not. And it was nice to hear someone tell me its ok to be not ok, even if its just a RP.

  • @aryamanbhadauria1584
    @aryamanbhadauria1584 Рік тому +3

    100 reasons to keep living
    1. to make your parents proud
    2. to conquer your fears
    3. to see your family again
    4. to see your favorite artist live
    5. to listen to music again
    6. to experience a new culture
    7. to make new friends
    8. to inspire
    9. to have your own children
    10. to adopt your own pet
    11. to make yourself proud
    12. to meet your idols
    13. to laugh until you cry
    14. to feel tears of happiness
    15. to eat your favorite food
    16. to see your siblings grow
    17. to pass school
    18. to get a tattoo
    19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
    20. to meet your internet friends
    21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve
    22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
    23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
    24. to see untouched snow in the morning
    25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
    26. to see stars light up the sky
    27. to read a book that changes your life
    28. to see the flowers in the spring
    29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
    30. to travel abroad
    31. to learn a new language
    32. to learn to draw
    33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
    34. Puppy kisses.
    35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek)
    36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
    37. Trampolines.
    38. Ice cream.
    39. Stargazing.
    40. Cloud watching.
    41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets.
    42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
    43. “I saw this and thought of you."
    44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
    45. The relief you feel after crying.
    46. Sunshine.
    47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
    48. Your future wedding.
    49. Your favorite candy bar.
    50. New clothes.
    51. Witty puns.
    52. Really good bread.
    53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
    54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
    55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
    56. The smell before and after it rains.
    57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
    58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
    59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
    60. Trying out new recipes.
    61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
    62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
    63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
    64. Breakfast in bed.
    65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre.
    66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
    67. a feeling of being loved
    68. Forgiveness.
    69. Water balloon fights.
    70. New books by your favorite authors.
    71. Fireflies.
    72. Birthdays.
    73. Realising that someone loves you.
    74. Spending the day with someone you love.
    75. Spending the whole day in bed.
    76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
    77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
    78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
    79. Bonfires and smokes.
    80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
    81. Coming home to someone you love.
    82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer.
    83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
    84. Cuddling.
    85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
    86. Someone’s skin against yours.
    87. Holding hands.
    88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
    89. Singing off key with your best friends.
    90. Road trips.
    91. Spontaneous adventures.
    92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
    93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
    94. Thunderstorms.
    95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
    96. The taste of your favorite food.
    97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning.
    98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
    99. Compliments and praise.
    100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it.
    PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live
    In my opinion I think the cure of loneliness mental health disorders is to find spirituality within yourself, and faith in God to help you during dark times. Advice I can give is don't go a day without a prayer or meditation to remind yourself to keep hope in life and that as long as god is with you, you're never truly alone. Also stand back and take time for seeing a view of natural sites like the forest or stars to remind you that if any negative thoughts arrive, take a look at the beautiful planet you would be leaving ❤❤

    • @non-existant-being
      @non-existant-being Рік тому

      "It may not be stylish, but live."

    • @Ucps_
      @Ucps_ 3 місяці тому

      I'm never gonna experience any of this

  • @tommyyang9454
    @tommyyang9454 Рік тому +6

    I wish I have someone like you to tell me these sweet things face to face than you for the audio 💕❤

  • @kristen678
    @kristen678 Рік тому +7

    Yes it's sleepy time for me 💜
    Thank you 🫂

  • @Game_Over64
    @Game_Over64 Рік тому +2

    Thank you. This was so nice, but i just can't keep doing this.. FUCK. I'm so tired

  • @deadboiadam6033
    @deadboiadam6033 Рік тому +1

    Just punch something it works for me. Just don't do it on living breathing creature.
    Maybe on a wall, a punching bag, the water, something soft or really fragile.
    Or just talk to someone about it. Find a friend/girlfriend/boyfriend and just tell them everything. It works believe me.
    I've seen someone who's a family member try to commit suicide Infront of me.
    It's not nice. Maybe try to be nice to others. But start to be nice to yourself. Yes it's alright to be angry and sad. Just don't suicide. And if you're American please don't homicide.

    • @deadboiadam6033
      @deadboiadam6033 11 місяців тому

      Speaking from experience because I "accidentally" kicked a tree and my right foot is Hurt for almost a month

  • @GravityAqua
    @GravityAqua Рік тому +1

    Bruh my life has hit rock bottom

  • @PinglyASMR
    @PinglyASMR Рік тому +3

    I know it's a little late but congratulations on 19k! I love this video, not often we get told it's okay to not be okay. Your voice is just incredible, thanks so much for posting!

  • @XTh3R3per
    @XTh3R3per 7 місяців тому +1

    honestly the amount of pretending I have to do daily in front of everyone is getting to me

  • @aralcasmr4053
    @aralcasmr4053 Рік тому +2

    I wish someone loved me like you did in 14 min

  • @femaleshapeshifter5678
    @femaleshapeshifter5678 Рік тому +1

    Hugs and comforts those who are lonely ❤. You will all find someone who will accept who you are someday, make sure that your taking good care of yourself so that way you would feel better when finding jobs, form relationships or friends.
    @YourgirlfriendASMR, thank you for helping many people fall sleep, feel loved and being understanding and sweet.

  • @stevenislas6459
    @stevenislas6459 Рік тому +10

    I needed to hear this, my father has recently passed away due to cancer, I’ve been trying to bottle up my emotions and wipe out my tears. I’ve been loving and supporting people. I want people to feel loved, cared and appreciated. Thank you… thank you for everything. I’m sorry if this is too much and sad. Time to be the happy Steven. Hope you all have a wonderful day. Remember that you’re all loved, cared and appreciated. 🙏🤍🙏❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂

    • @mrcwillis6970
      @mrcwillis6970 Рік тому +1

      Sorry to hear that. May your father RIP.

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Рік тому

      @@mrcwillis6970 thank you Mr c… 🫂❤️

    • @wxttsxnx
      @wxttsxnx Рік тому +1

      im sorry to hear that man. may he rest in peace.

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Рік тому

      @@wxttsxnx god bless you sir, thank you… 🫂❤️

    • @corru-kun7865
      @corru-kun7865 Рік тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sure it can't be easy. May he rest in peace and please take care of yourself

  • @vernaobsioma9204
    @vernaobsioma9204 Рік тому +2

    ohh to be loved:(

  • @isaachui5945
    @isaachui5945 Рік тому +2

    We love you Sarah(@YourgirlfriendASMR)❤️🥰

  • @Paper_Spartan
    @Paper_Spartan Рік тому +1

    Amazing work! You are a genuine blessing for a lot of people. The passion behind your work makes it like no other! Thank you for the warm fuzzy feels and cozy snoozes.

  • @agentsmith6204
    @agentsmith6204 Рік тому +1

    Kinda hard not to pretend when you’ve been programmed to

  • @coolkid558_
    @coolkid558_ Рік тому +1

    This was so sweet and calming. You have an amazing voice. Excellent work❤

  • @bingusreal
    @bingusreal Рік тому +2

    Thank you for helping us ❤

  • @Lt_Koro
    @Lt_Koro 6 місяців тому

    one moment I'll be listening to something like this and the next I'll listen to some music to pretend to myself that I'm ok.

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Рік тому +2

    I been ummm having hard getting out of bed i hate being alone with my thoughts at night it's so hard trying to be ok trying not to breakdrown in front of the people you love i sometimes dont what goibg any where 🥺😭💔

    • @Lesha27
      @Lesha27 Рік тому

      You are not alone 🥺 wish you the best, ❤.

    • @Taythedreamer
      @Taythedreamer Рік тому

      @@Lesha27 thank you i wish the best too 💓

  • @EmoryFree
    @EmoryFree 3 місяці тому

    I'm numb, no matter the audio, or personal, I'm numb, I hate that I don't get it

  • @zaprising2844
    @zaprising2844 Рік тому +1

    girl this hit too close to home tysm for this im crying so hard 😭😭😭

  • @Skellefte_
    @Skellefte_ Рік тому +1

    Bra video och grattis till 19000 prenumeranter!

  • @rosashadow2119
    @rosashadow2119 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this audio. Today was just not a good day for me and this helped me so much. I'm grateful to have found your video when I did.

  • @Melly_The1
    @Melly_The1 9 місяців тому

    i should write a fourth song about my lonesome

  • @Casvondrak
    @Casvondrak 7 місяців тому

    I haven't been fine for a while. I close myself off and avoid showing people that I've been broken for a while. This was hard to listen to... but it was worth it. 😭

  • @excilow
    @excilow 6 місяців тому

    how did you know i was pretending in real life

  • @slagarcrue85
    @slagarcrue85 5 місяців тому

    I love you Ellen. I love you too Rick.

  • @ghouishfouiyshf
    @ghouishfouiyshf Рік тому

    I want someone to care about me

  • @Maro-yl6ek
    @Maro-yl6ek Місяць тому

    yall here are we so god damn cooked aren't we

  • @amandagresham1298
    @amandagresham1298 Рік тому

    Your sooo sweet and amazing I loved this audio Sweetheart thank you I needed this today love you Sweetheart 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @BurgerMuncher6969
    @BurgerMuncher6969 6 місяців тому

    I know I fuck my self up when I’m crying to this but telling my self is this real chat just so I can try to keep a smile

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      Im filled with joy, and with peace.
      and this feeling to my 15, 14 year old self, would have been unimaginable.
      and i know for sure that you, YOU, can also get to the beautifull parts of life.
      By god i found joy, in truth i found joy, eternal life awaits to those who believe in the name of the son of god.
      Trust christ
      and he will heal you
      the same way he has healed me

  • @LoudGamer7
    @LoudGamer7 Рік тому +1

    I love your voice ❤

  • @aalanisrios-rk3ul
    @aalanisrios-rk3ul 11 місяців тому

    Videos like these help so much depression and anxiety get to me so much as well im a very busy person and i dont have the best relationships with the people in my life so listening to these types of videos help so much

  • @rhiannonalello3420
    @rhiannonalello3420 Рік тому

    I feel depress when my father passed away last year he is 50 and I'm 21 years old.

  • @aupricx
    @aupricx Рік тому +1

    perfect timing

  • @plate2105
    @plate2105 2 місяці тому

    I don't want to kill myself anymore. I don't want to keep on living either

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      Yn what.
      i was on the ewxact same situation a couple months ago, thats a good way to put it.
      What i can recomend you, is what helped me.
      God.
      trust god, follow god, love god.
      and the same love you give, will come back 1 gazillion times back to you
      I learned that god is loving, and that he doesnt want anyone to fall into this depressive places, thats why jesus died for our sin, so that if we put our faith in him, we will live eternally, in eternal joy, hapiness and peace, no more tears, we will walk up and down the new jerusalem, the new heaven adn new earth, and i want to see you there
      thats why im writing this
      Because god loves you, and wants to see you in heaven
      I love you brother.
      I hope you find joy and love in christ
      Jesus loves you ✝

  • @devin_godat
    @devin_godat 29 днів тому

    When someone across the planet understands you better than anyone else you've met😔

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      I thought that life was gonna be dark and lonely, a feeling of void and pain in me, and when i thought i should kill myself.
      then in the darkest places of life.
      I met christ
      and ever since im filled with a joy and a peace than i can hardly describe.
      Christ is king
      and i want to share the same joy i feel today.
      With you
      Christ loves you✝
      Seek him

  • @tavocastanedas5744
    @tavocastanedas5744 6 місяців тому

    Llevo un rato que tengo que actuar como que estoy bien, es llegsr a mi casa y parecer un fantasma de lo que era... Estoy cansado...

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      "Vengan a Mí, todos los que están cansados y cargados, y Yo los haré descansar"
      Mateo 11, 28.
      Mi consejo para vivir en felicidad, y paz
      es que confies en dios, tengas fé en cristo, y vivas en el.
      Te amo hermano.
      Dios te ama ✝

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North Рік тому +15

    Comment For Engaygement 🏳️‍🌈

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 Рік тому

    It's always "one of those days" but thanks for the comfort 😊

  • @funnymemes2248
    @funnymemes2248 6 місяців тому

    I'm sooooo lonely 😭

  • @topfishing
    @topfishing 4 місяці тому

    I do have to pretend, That is all I have known and will know.

  • @quantum_spectra
    @quantum_spectra Рік тому

    You really most of the favourite rp asmrtist i hear to, i love your voice, your vibe, your sweet and comfy nature 😢

  • @soaringsquid0.129
    @soaringsquid0.129 8 місяців тому

    I've been waiting for this moment

  • @Toastie875
    @Toastie875 7 місяців тому

    This audio got me a lil choked up

  • @SpencerKidd-p4t
    @SpencerKidd-p4t 22 дні тому

    i don’t ever wanna be codependent but i don’t want my loved ones yelling at me for a reaction because they know im struggling and urhm conditioned

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      I understand what you amy be going through, my family was also kinda disfunctional
      tho, one thing i know for sure, is that, God always comforts those who mourn, sooner or later
      For you, the highest place on all creation has opened, and the gate bridge we must cross to get there, is Jesus
      By his sacrifice we can enter heaven, for the price for our sin is paid on the cross, and by faith in him we can be in god´s grace.
      God loves you, and he will never leave you.
      Trust god, and pray.
      that helped me a lot int he darkest places of my life
      I love you brother, big hug.
      Christ loves you ✝

    • @SpencerKidd-p4t
      @SpencerKidd-p4t 6 днів тому

      @@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v i want to believe

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      @@SpencerKidd-p4t The decition you just made, is the most important one that you ever will do
      I highly recomend you to read the gospel of jhon, mathew, mark and luke
      start by there, write me any question you have about anything
      You just made my day, heavens are rejoicing now.
      I LVOE YOU BROTHER
      God loves you.

  • @relaxedsvn
    @relaxedsvn Рік тому

    i just wanna be happy bro

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Рік тому

    Thank you for audio you truly a amazings ❤🥺

  • @chrisholland2016
    @chrisholland2016 Рік тому +1

    This is definitely my safe zone for my aching emotional wound. A girlfriend protecting me to where I can be under her arms as long as needed and stay there. She should still make these more often. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🛏🛏🛏🛏🛏🌡🌡🌡🌡🌡

  • @rhiannonalello3420
    @rhiannonalello3420 Рік тому

    It hurts really bad

  • @maro2402
    @maro2402 Рік тому

    Thank You for the audio from the bottom of my heart ❤

  • @seattleseahawksnewshq2295
    @seattleseahawksnewshq2295 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Sarah.

  • @잠꾸러기-_1
    @잠꾸러기-_1 3 місяці тому

    I’m a failure 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      Youre not.
      youre alive, youre young, and self aware enough to look inside you and judge.
      dont treat yourself the way you wouldnt want other peope to treat you
      Love abundantly, forgive often, and express care.
      our time in earth is limited, and Jesus is coming back soon.
      For me, the most important decition i made was to develop a personal relationshp with God and Jesus christ
      I ask that you trust god, and realise that you, YOU as a human being with a rational mind, created in teh image of god, are more valuable than any amount of gold or silver, taht anyone could ever imagine
      God bless you
      i wish you the best✝

  • @Puffy_jpg
    @Puffy_jpg 6 місяців тому

    The fact that an asmr audio is better able to comfort and understand my struggles compared to my actual parents hurts. Not in a positive way-

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 6 днів тому

      I ask that you trust god, i ask that you seek him.
      i can give you comfort and say that youre loved,e tc.
      wich you are btw
      by me, yes
      but also by god
      and a lot by god
      Im filled with joy and with peace, thanks to god.
      and i want to share it with hte people that ware int eh same dark place i was on.
      because that is god´s will.
      I love you brother,
      Trust in christ ✝

    • @Puffy_jpg
      @Puffy_jpg 5 днів тому

      @@MaximilianoSanabria-b9v unfortunately I’m atheist, but thank you ^^

    • @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v
      @MaximilianoSanabria-b9v 5 днів тому

      @@Puffy_jpg Dont worry about it, sooner or later god will touch your heart, the same way he has touched mine.
      God bless you✝
      And know that, no matter how dark the place youre in.
      Jesus loves you✝
      And so do i
      and everyone who calls themselves a follower of christ.
      Big hug brother

  • @soma_448
    @soma_448 Рік тому

    🤍

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Рік тому

    All i can do is cry 😭

    • @meltinqtearsks
      @meltinqtearsks 9 місяців тому

      it's okay to cry..sending hugs :)

  • @Crow_Bitch
    @Crow_Bitch Рік тому +1

    my friend is depressed idk what to do to help them they're in another country so I can't hug them and whenever I try to comfort them I just fail miserably
    I'm debating sending them something like this audio but I don't want to offend them
    I'm losing sleep worrying

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Рік тому +1

      I think the one thing you can do is to stay in touch. Keep calling, texting etc just to talk and to mention that you're there to listen if they need you. I'm just saying this as someone who's been on the other side and for a long time a) didn't want to admit that I was depressed b) certainly didn't want to accept anyone helping. But one thing I really will never forget are the people who stuck by my through all that, who kept being there for me, just listened, gave me a hug when I needed it and didn't ever judge or push to hard.
      I know it is different when you can't vist them but just being there in the ways that you can is enough. And if you are, trust me, they will always remember and be thankful for it. But you can't put the expectation and pressure on yourself to fix the reason why they're depressed. They have to want to get help, to want to get better for themselves. You're doing exactly what you can do; being a good friend that cares. Try not to be too hard on yourself ( I know, easier said than done). ❤

    • @Crow_Bitch
      @Crow_Bitch Рік тому +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR thank you, your advice means a lot