Quick note! Did this on a Sunday, so my husband was home and mostly took charge of kids so I could clean how I *wanted* to. THEY DO HELP TOO!!!! But since this is a house reset, and not a daily routine, it's much easier to have all the kids out of my space so I can move furniture and clean under everything without little people in the way. Having kids in the room and having to direct other people on how I need them to clean is mentally taxing and overwhelming, and causes me to lose focus on what I need to do. It can then send me into meltdown, or freeze. Add filming on top of that, and it's just too much. Aside from that, there are a wealth of privacy reasons for why I don't involve my kids actively in filming what I do. When they wander through? That's fine. The baby shadowing me? Gonna happen. But, it's not my kids' job to be on UA-cam - it's MY job. Literal job. So I don't film them actively helping, I don't give them tasks so I can film them doing it, and in general I do these videos when they are elsewhere or I have them do what I need them to do before I start filming. For the love of all that's holy I don't need to list everything my kids do for a bunch of internet strangers who assume they do nothing because you don't see what they DO. You're going to have to take my word for the fact that they all have tasks. Deep cleaning isn't one of their tasks, believe it or not. Anyway I'm not here to be a mommy vlogger and exploit my kids for views OK BYE LOVE YOUUUU ;)
Sorry for the silly question, how is your refrigerator working for you? I looked them up and they have great reviews. I wish they came in yellow, I'm all about Sunflowers as you are with Strawberries. We're 4 adults, 2 parents and 2 adult children. I cook a lot and I'd worry about the size...? I think you are an amazing woman! You've helped me so much 💓
It’s an ok refrigerator if you have less food refrigeration needs. I have to be honest and say it’s not large enough for us but it’s what we could afford/what fit in the space because it’s not big enough for a full size fridge. The only big issue I’ve had with it is that the spot for milk jugs has a removable bar that constantly comes out and breaks. For a smaller household it would work fine though I think!
@@WithLoveKristinaok I was afraid of that, but when we get a new fridge I'm going to have more room so can have it as an immediate fridge in the kitchen (milk, eggs, current libations, cheese, tonight's dinner ingredients etc) and a bigger one in the garage for bulky things. Thank you so much for your time and trouble. You are such an inspiration and helping me clean and organize my mess.
@@athenathegreatandpowerful6365 I also have this fridge! It's pretty good, a bit small like she said. I would like to mention that while I really recommend it at its price point by virtue of what a fool proof simple model it is (It has 4 parts, the simplest fridge ever built) It does not have an evaporator or de-icing cycle built in like many large full size models, so periodically you will have to clear out your freezer and leave the fridge portion running to deice your freezer. Also because it's design is a chest fridge that has been stood up you should aviod putting really warm stuff in bc the cycle will take too long to regulate down again, bc all the cold is on the back wall and there are no fans.
Crumbs all over the floor means you had food to give your children. Piles of laundry mean you have plenty of clothes to wear. Dirty pots and pans means you have a space capable of cooking hot, safe meals for your family. Tripping over toys means your kids have lots of fun things to play with. I say all the time that gratitude is the key to happiness! You are doing a great job!!!
I raised 5 kids. A lot of work to say the least. One day husband came home from work and I was crying. I said,I got nothing done around this house today! All I did was take care of this sick baby. My husband said, so you mean to tell me all you did all day was to take care of our sick child!? Yes, I wept. He said, WELL I GUESS YOUR DAY WAS A COMPLETE SUCCESS! It changed my attitude forever. 💙💚✝️💜
Oh how I know what you mean. I raised 5 kids too. When they all came down with chicken pox, I'll never forget the day I literally collapsed and sat down on the floor crying from sheer exhaustion, stress and worry from taking care of them. It was SO hard. BTW, what a wonderful husband you have.
Absolutely, a priceless husband to give you words of comfort and praise. It's mentally worrying in case you don't know what's brewing inside the little one Your husband saw you upset, and gave you the appropriate response. Magic
You have great priorities and your husband is absolutely correct. Homemaking has too many jobs and it's great that your husband recognized this. Be kind to yourself and call a caregiving service and find out how much people pay for homemaker services. You are worth a lot of money and that does not include all the unconditional love that no one can ever pay for, but desperately needs.
I just found your channel last week. Im 61 and have ADHD. In 2018 i had a life threatening illness that i mever fully recovered from. So keeping house is an absolute mountain for me to climb. Things had gotten so bad i was starting to feel like a hoarder. I cried every day. Since i found your channel, i have washed 3 weeks worth of dishes, cleaned off my kitchen table which i jadnt seen the top of in months, put weeks worth of laundry away, vacuumed 2 rooms, and have cooked dinner nearly every day. I can barely walk and have to take frequent breaks, but the satisfaction is overwhelming. You dont fully know what you are doing here. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. ❤🍓
@@lorilorenz9758 I have bad spine issues. Vacuuming can put me down. Even sweeping. I understand where your coming from. It’s ok. Just do what you can.
Good for you, but as you can hardly walk, isn't there anyone family or friend who could give you a hand, that would ease your load. All the best from Scotland 😊
35 years ago I nursed an elderly German lady who told me the secret to having a constantly clean, tidy home was to TOTALLY clean one room each day. This included wiping down doors, walls and windows etc and tidying cupboards and wardrobes. After that she went on to cooking and washing etc. The next day she would totally clean a different room. I wish I had taken that advice on board! Ignore the nay-sayers, you're doing a wonderful job. I only had two children and found it overwelming. Thank you for sharing this video. Lots of love to you and your family. P. S. I love Dean Martin too! Love yourself for the great job you do 💕💖🌹🌹
This is similar to advice I read in an 80s book called the Messy Manual, which she called the Mt Vernon Method - because it's how the cleaners at the historical residence there keep it clean. They start at the door of a room and clean around it, moving around/into the room. They stop when they run out of time for the day, and start again in the same place. Obviously they aren't doing dishes or laundry, which you'd add into your "time allowance", but it means they know what's been cleaned and by the time they get back to it next time it's probably not that dusty or dirty anyway. It's a bit like painting a bridge 😅
Your home is so cozy. I love the lived-in vibe. So many youtubers are into the boring beige or super sterile personalityless style that their homes look like sad showrooms. Your home has so much personality and tells a story of a life well lived. Your kids are definitely going to look back on their childhood with warm nostalgic feelings when they grow up.
I came here to say the same. I miss the real life houses from the old days on UA-cam before people considered themselves “influencers.” I can’t relate to these fancy houses that are so different from the real life place where my family lives. I just discovered this channel, and I think I am in love! 🥰
This video made me cry. Growing up, my home was a place of fear. Fear of making a mess, not cleaning up after myself quick enough. Guessing what my mother would rage about in the house when she got home from work. You are making my childhood self feel loved and happy!
Me too! Oh and we had a list of chores that we had to do everyday.. it didn't matter if we were tired or ill. Although I think it taught me some important lessons, I couldn't help but feel envious of my friends who had childhoods. They got to either hang out with each other afterschool or work on their homework. Funnily enough when I first moved out at 18, my place was a complete mess. All those years of being so rigid I just let it all go when I finally had freedom. Now I keep on top of cleaning but being so hard on ourselves is not healthy.
OMG, I’m 75 and you are definitely me. There was no testing for ADHD. I have always had a hard time staying on on thing. Thank you. I feel better about myself.
My mom had OCD, she followed behind you with a rag if you got a drink from the fridge in case you , NO even if you didn’t make a spill she wiped the counter, THAT was the ONLY thing you could do in the kitchen, I was an only child and my dad WORKED, and as I have found out recently ( she has Alzheimer’s now) that he worked as NOT to be HOME, my father was a Wonderful provider, we were NOT poor, I was Spoiled because my mothe wanted to keep appearances, BUT, I was NEVER taught anything, I couldn’t cook, I may make a mess, I couldn’t do laundry, I might ruin something, i couldn’t get a job, she didn’t want me that far away, I drove to school BUT, we only lived 2 blocks away in a very small town and she stood at the end of the driveway in her nightgown and made sure I turned into school, she also smacked me and dug her nails into me regularly , called me a slut ,but I never went ANYWHERE without her, I HATED “ HOME” and her, my grandfather died when I was 18 , he was my protector and a second dad , as mine hated HOME as well, thought I was being well taken care of, my mother was a manipulative woman, and I was assured he was OK with her treatment of me, again, as of recently, I’m 58, he just found out about her treatment of me, I moved in with my grandmother, started learning to cook, do laundry and got a job, met my husband 2 months later … I SWORE, MY HOME would never be like that, my son had a vastly different childhood, and I hope he would say , he loved HOME!! These children LOVE HOME, rich or poor, and they don’t know which one they are, they know they are lLOVED and that means they are millionaires!!!
People need real content like this, especially those young moms that feel guilty that everything is not cold and sterile like lots of people like to post.
Young people, and old, need to appreciate that everyone doesn't have a big new home with all the perks. An older, smaller home, (like mine) can definitely be lovely and homey, maybe even more so.
@@THEazcardsgirl this!! The other day I saw a post from a low income mom and it was something as simple as her butter LOOKING like it's been used that made me realize that the other content I watch they tend to use entirely new things which just isn't sustainable. It opened my eyes to something that I didn't even know I needed reassurance on.
You’re such a breath of fresh air! I’m a ER surgical RN. Needless to say my days can be stressful at times. I watch your videos and listen to your calm voice during breaks. I cannot tell you how much you’ve helped me alleviate stress even for just a few minutes. So many of your videos reminds me of my beloved mom and grandmothers. Thank you!
Your channel is the only place on the Internet where I feel safe, not judged and calm. I struggle with something else than you (paralyzing anxiety and self doubt, and panic attacks when I'm overtaken by the intrusive anxious thoughts). I don't have money for therapy or access to it where I live and I also have no friends here, so I feel sometimes so alone and like such a bad mom. Whenever I try to open up about my struggles, all I get is judgement, so I just don't say anything anymore. But when you post a video, I feel warm, and safe, and calmer. So thank you. ♥️
can just agree.... you're not alone! I really feel your struggles and also the judgement... got and get it a lot, too. But we do our best and that's what matters. Those videos show me that it is okay to not be perfect and that it is okay to not get everything done in one day... it helps me a lot (cause I have a lot of days I can't do anything). Be sure, you're not alone and if you evere like to speak to someone, no matter about what... here I am. We don't know each other, but we don't need to to be there for each other
I do hate when people say “oh, you just stay home” when They find out I’m a homemaker. If they only knew the amount of work and effort goes into it. I also homeschool our 5 children. I don’t get to clock out at the end of my workday. I enjoy my job here at home, I chose it, but it’s hard when people assume I just get to hang out all day.
I’m just halfway through the video but I had to comment at what you said about 17 mins in. I find it ridiculous that people comment ‘just being a mom’ , as if growing babies and raising them well isn’t work. It’s hard and relentless work, beautiful and precious work too. I know lots of moms work outside the home as well as doing so much in the home and they are incredible women. And the moms that stay at home with their children all day and work hard within the home are incredible women! I believe that anyone who has a child and is putting effort in to raising them well, work hard. I absolutely LOVE your channel. I love that you show a realistic home. You are a beautiful and wonderful person and your family seem so well loved and happy. Your home seems like it’s the one you want to come round and have a cup of tea and be welcomed in. Beautiful ❤
THis was soo real and I have never seen this on any video. My kitchen is old and not perfect and never will be because I dont have to money to totally redo it. I have been too embarassed to share it because of it but you bravely show your imperfect home and even the mess without worry . Your saying messes happen because of positive things we are doing was an amazing insight. Thank you. Your kids are so happy and loved and enjoyed. You are doing a great job. Sadly the house will be easier to clean one day when they are off living their own lives. you are doing great as you are in balancing everything. Let it get messy if it means taking time to enjoy those sweet babies.
Kristina, I enjoy seeing you in dresses ; I am 82 years old and find comfort in in living a simple life. My mother always wore dresses and looked beautiful to me. She also had an inner calmness and pleasant personality that I have found to be rare. Thank you for your videos . They are so peaceful and calming, and an encouragement to others.
Your videos are always so warm…your adorable kiddos and kitties, the nostalgia of your vintage, your sweet motherly ways of cleaning, cuddling, and cooking.❤ I feel like I’ve come home, and it’s sort of bittersweet for me because I miss my parents and grandparents so much! You are such a lovely, inspiring, positive, hard-working lady! Thank you for all you share with us!🥰
Thank you for mentioning that the Proverbs 31 woman worked! Also, from what I understand, Proverbs 31 was not meant to be some sort of impossible standard for women to strive for like a "how to" manual. It is recited by Jewish men on the Sabbath before the evening meal as an expression of praise and appreciation for their wives' hard work. Again, your channel is so affirming and refreshing. ❤
That's such a beautiful thing for the men to do, to remind themselves and the whole family of all the effort the women in their lives put in. That's a ritual I think everyone should follow in their own way, for each in their family but especially those whose labors have often been overlooked or disregarded
Hey, Kristina. I just wanted to say thank you for your words. I was feeling pretty low about my house and my environment last night. Your words were so needed. I am a working mom who is a college professor, and I love my job. However, at times I feel guilty because I am so inept with cleaning and keeping house. I feel like I am one step away from burning everything down, but I am trying to be better. However, your words and channel bring me comfort and I hope that one day I can be as reflective and forgiving as you. Sorry if my comments seems to just ramble but I just had to say how much your words touched me and how I cried as I watched this video. Thank you so much for sharing with us and taking the time to encourage us. You have no idea how much I appreciate your content.
I'm an Autistic and ADHD SAHM too. I'm so glad I found your content that is comfy and kind and relaxing and helpful. I just want to thank you for the gentle and non-invasive way you mention your faith. I left my faith, and have no interest in returning. It holds a lot of trauma for me. I usually need to distance myself from anyone who has a visible faith that they discuss. Even if they are not being toxic, it brings up a lot of memories that are toxic and harmful. But something in me healed a little bit when you said "the Proverbs 31 woman worked." I still have no interest in that faith. But I think you're helping me make peace with other people's faith, and that is important to me as a human who wants to respect other humans of all and any faith. ❤
I love watching your videos. As with all the cleaning/decluttering/50's style channels that I watch, you dont make me feel guilty about my house, but rather inspired to get started. You feel like an old friend by now. That is probably why everytime I see something strawberry in the thrift store, I think of you.
I love your videos because as someone who is also neurodivergent and suffers from an anxiety disorder (most people with neurodivergence does) these are really helpful when it comes to cleaning and for helping me not feel so stressed that my house isn’t perfect! Thank you for sharing your life with all of us!!
Thank you for talking about ADHD. It really helps me navigate me but mostly my eight year old that can't find the correct words sometimes. I'm 46 and I just thought I was weird and lazy my entire life until I was diagnosed 2 years ago.
I just wanted to help you out 🥰 as a Mom of 4 (now adults) I never could do what your doing when I was in your shoes it was 1993. Your channel would have helped me so much!! Thanks!
This is what I wish I had grown up with. I can't look at strawberries without thinking about you and your lovely channel. You're my favorite. Thank you for putting in so much effort. God bless you and your family.
You soothing voice was a lovely way to wake up to this monday morning - while watching the cat enjoy your newly cleaned table! lol! it doesnt matter how you do it coz youre keeping a healthy happy home for your children to grow, as well as enjoying the house as best as possible. Thankyou for sharing the routine that you enjoy the most.
This is the real relatability we need to see more of on social media. I can look at the not social media ready nature of my own home and…accept that that’s real life. The not applying shame to mess is so freeing! Such incredible points made here. Cleanliness combined with design are often associated with competence, laziness vs protectiveness and charm. But…we need to be careful with these constructs we devise. But God’s view and intention for us. It’s so freeing to be made aware and not feel like your home is controlling YOU. Yes, Queen! That’s going to be my view from now on!!
your life is so amazingly chaotic: the shoe in the bassinet, the cat on the blanket pulled from under the table, the stickers on the coffee table... it's so relatable and made me chuckle.
My takeaway from your wonderfully soothing video is to find what works for you and do it. I no longer have the health to clean all day, so I tend to clean as I go, except for the Kitchen. I love to clean the kitchen and make it clean and bright. This may have something to do with having some issues with OCD. I need to clean to have a calm mind. Your house is filled with love, and this is the most important thing.
Can I make an aside comment? I mean it in the most positive & respectful way. Can I say that I really appreciate the way you wear varied necklines? I haven’t noticed before. But, I have been on a modesty deconstruction journey, and it is just so nice to see another mom (esp one I respect) be comfortable with herself just living her life and doing work in a lovely frock that makes her feel happy. Just living your life, ya know? I hope you aren’t hearing me say you’re immodest - that’s not what I mean at all. It’s just a moment of reassurance for me that modesty can mean a lot of things, and it’s safe to try out variations on this theme.
hahaha sometimes I remind myself that Jesus didn't say "if a woman causes you to stumble, tell her to cover up". He said "if your eye causes you to stumble, rip it out" ;) pretty good verse, that. But yes, I've had a long journey of deconstructing modesty culture. I grew up in a fairly neutral way with modesty but was still taught that I needed to cover up in order to keep men from sinning. And since then have realized the only thing the bible says about *Dressing* for modesty is "don't show up for worship dressed fancy just because you want attention". Otherwise, I believe all the things about modesty pertain to the heart, and how we treat others!
@@WithLoveKristina dear kristina, I love your videos. About the modesty.....let's remember that the Bible says that we are Brothers keepers. Also please read Romans 12:1-5 with love Dalia
Just found your channel and I love your videos. There's something very calming in the way you narrate them. I also love vintage clothes and decor. I have become a mom 6 weeks ago and I'm currently watching this video while holding my daughter and getting her to sleep. It's 5 am here in Poland, I'm a tired new mom of one and I salute you for being a mom of five and taking care of your household and family so well. Love from Poland!
I have adult ADHD too and I am often very scattered. One thing that helped me was using a basin for dirty dishes rather than using the sink. That way if I need the sink I can remove them. With the dishes contained, it just helps me feel more in control. I discovered it when we were remodeling the kitchen and I had to do dishes in a bar sink. The basin helped me so much then that I kept using it when we got our new remodeled kitchen- the one I waited for my entire life. It might not help you but the idea might help someone. After going through many plastic basins, I now use a stainless steel one, and put a rubber mat under it to protect my sink. Thank you for the cleaning tips. I will try it out, especially the hush one.
Your videos are a godsend. Three years ago, over the span of about six months, I lost my health, moved, got demoted, the love of my life passed, and then lost my job. Needles to say, I'm still recovering. My babies are all grown, but your videos help me to recall my own childrearing years and the joy I found there, and help me to remember it's still worth making a house a home, filled with love and new meaning as I continue on. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Please keep doing what you're doing. ❤️
In the years we were cosleeping, I never thought I’d miss it like I do! But that got me in the feels 🥰 I was planning to clean tomorrow - I’ll try your method! I’m also a mom of 5 with a spicy brain. If I clean as I go, I’m literally a crazy person by the end of the day, and I truly spend all energy and creativity cleaning. I never reach homeostasis. I really appreciate your cleaning and home management videos! I used to follow several creators for these topics, but I find yours the most relatable yet helpful
I just want to say that I always watch your videos twice; once with video when they come out and later with just audio so I can really focus on what you’re saying because it’s so profound and comforting. When I’m done with the first trimester and feel well enough to clean again I’ll put this audio on and clean away. Thanks for all you do.
I love how you brought the Proverbs 31 woman. She did work! Her family called her blessed. I was a stay at home mom for most of my kids lives. I always found ways to contribute, whether that was evening cleaning jobs or evening retail work or I just plain worked at saving money so that my husband’s income was enough. We struggled financially a lot but it was very worth it! I will never regret my choices. I now how 3 grown daughters who are well adjusted and I have great relationships with. ❤ You’re are doing awesome!
I’ve been watching you for years, but I never comment. I’ve seen you through 2 pregnancies, maybe 3 lol .. I have watched you grow SO much & I LOVE your videos. Your home has become so warm, vintage, loving & just what it is, a home. I’m glad you stuck with the strawberries in your kitchen! Loving your head wrap in this video. Thank you for your time & I’m always looking forward to the next! 🩷🌹✨
I really loved your commentary on women's free choice here 💖 I'm not a mom, and I ended up here because I love your kitchen, stayed for the ADHD relatability. There is a lot in this video I can really relate to and it really made me pause, thinking about the relationship between mess and shame, all this especially as a disabled person who finds it SO HARD to clean. Thank you for the motivation and honesty
I welled up a little watching this. I believe I have ADHD (undiagnosed) I have five children at home and I feel so overwhelmed with the chaos all the time. Thank you so much for this video, I needed it. I feel like I can try and tackle the mess with this method now. Love and hugs x
Hello. I am a 67 yr old granny in NE Texas. I found you today as i am getting over first spell of vertigo and having so many scans and tests done in hospital to find most likely caused my inner ear problem, so thankful all the major organs that could cause vertigo are not the cause. Back to reason i wanted to comment.. i have mad(awesome) respect for you and how you and hubby are living your life. I only have 1 grown son and 4 grandchildren. My son used to ask me when he was young what would i do if i had more children, i told him i probably would be baldheaded from pulling my hair out. I was a working single mom our whole lives he was growing up. So my hat is off to you, your doing a fantastic life. I also came to realize my limitations in doing it all could not be perfect but i would get to those other things i wanted to get done in the home when i was more able and time permitted. Loving and caring for your family is the most important at the end of the day. My favorite style for women was the 1930's. Your a lovely young woman and thank you for sharing. I am sure your posts will help other young women in their lives in some way. Good luck with your writing of novels. God Bless you and yours.
Kristina, I’m just getting to watch this and I really love it. Your channel is one of my favorites 😊. The only way to describe this feeling is: sitting at the kitchen window wearing my 1950s dress and scarf, sipping a cup of coffee and reading the latest good housekeeping magazine while the children are at school and I’m stealing a few precious moments to myself. I just love your family. Thanks for sticking this channel out❤
I just started following your channel today but wanted to say that I relate to your past issues with cleaning so much. As someone with mental health struggles, it is so difficult to get certain tasks done and I will jump from task to task without finishing many of them to find myself drained. Making a list seems productive until I have to face it. You're doing a great job and I love the embrace of vintage. I have been doing that myself for years. Thank you for sharing these videos (I watched a few while cleaning) and hope this message finds you and your family well ❤
Memories of small children and the constant need to pick up after them. You are so wonderful with your kids! And good for you for being available for your children. So special!
You know I really enjoy your open, honest commentary. In years past I have struggled with keeping a tidy house. I do my best and I to work from home whether I am babysitting for others, take in ironing sew for others. I prepare 3 meals a day for my family and budget the money we have. We all contribute in our own way. Thank you for sharing your happy life style.
I love your house. It's comfy and homely. My 2 grandmothers were very different. One was more closer to minimalist the other had stuff. The one with the house full of stuff was the one who's house felt like home. It felt comfy. It was the one the kids ran around in. As a kid I loved going through Grandmas china and looking at the designs on the plates. Sitting under her antique table and running my hands over the nobbly legs. My other grandmother we had to sit. Even as kids. Give me a house with stuff any day. It tells the story of the persons life. It's fun to look at if your a visitor and it can start a conversation
I love your channel! It reminds me of growing up in the 60s/70s. My mom used to have each of us (6 total) help her with dishes on different days so she could talk to us individually and find out about our day or what’s was going on in our life. Dishes took as long as the conversation lasted…. I cherish those days in my memory. Love from Tucson, Az💕
I tried this yesterday and concentrated on my kitchen. Cleaned out cabinets, reorganized, etc. Felt so good about doing it. Thank you for this! Will start to plan - daily rooms to work on when I get home from work as well as trying to keep organized daily.
🌹You are a lovely inspiration to so many! “The days are long, but the years are short “ is a message that I think of so often. I wish I had heard it when my children were little and I stayed home with them. It was a never ending job being a stay at home mama. But I was and still am SO very thankful that God made a way for me to do this, because we can’t put a price tag on our family life. Thank you for sharing your faith in the story of the Proverbs 31 woman. You are a lovely example of her. I’m in my mid sixties now and look back on my years past with gratitude and yet regret for many things I have done and things that I have not done. I can’t go back and change anything, but try to Live each day intentionally and with deep thankfulness to the God I love and serve. 🙏❤️🙌🏻
Well said about the Proverbs 31 wife. Many seem to misunderstand traditional in this regard, especially as of late and with what’s trending. I had been planning on sharing such things too. To me, cleaning as I go means while I’m in the space, I keep my feet planted and take care of cleaning up the mess I’m making as I’m creating. Dinner for instance will be cooking and then I wipe up my mess and do the few dishes I made before leaving the space or room. Of course never leaving a room empty handed helps me to not waste a trip I’m making anyway. You do a great job as a mom of 5 no matter your method and you certainly have a lovely, curated aesthetic that’s uniquely you🌹
Thank you Nikki! I always love your cleaning videos, they are among my favorites and you’ve been so encouraging to watch as you share how you organize and care for your home!
I love your calm videos and calm music. I am good at cleaning the kitchen, laundry, and bathrooms, but I struggle with the floors. I never thought I could get items that I don't need out of my home, but I have changed the way I think about stuff I don't need. I finally, after 30 years, removed things I inherited when my mother passed away, and because I don't sew, I got rid of buttons and sewing items she coveted. Made me feel better instantly, now on to the rest of my house clearing.
I’ve been a long time watcher but don’t usually comment. I love your channel and especially enjoy seeing your happy healthy family! I’m 63 so no littles at home but your cleaning routines keep me focused. Thank you!
as a mom of 3 with adhd, i also have a really hard time staying on task. I found a method that has been very helpful for me is putting all my cleaning supplies on a tiered cart. Top level has supplies, second one has all rags, mop heads etc and bottom level is reserved for “put backs” (random lego in kitchen, hair brush in play room etc). i’m using one of those 3 tiered hobby things on casters, mine used to house all my children’s diapering supplies but i found this has been a much better use of it. anyways, as im watching this i see you have a basket you use, haha. Anyways! hope you could try it one day xxx
I love your show! You truly are blessed with an amazing family❤ I love your cleaning ways and your pretty personal clothing style and the way you do your hair an makeup. I raised 4 children and I have to say I always had a hard time keeping up with my housework as well. God bless you and your family 😊😊
Concerning your cat: our grandson brought home a distressed pregnant female, who had her litter soon after. I made an appointment to get her spayed, but as with what happened to you, she got pregnant again before I expected it ("they" say to have them spayed after they stop nursing, but she never did). She's now been fixed and 2 more pregnant females (strays) had litters. We're in the process of getting them all fixed. Sadly, it takes about 45 days to get it done after calling the vet for an appointment. God bless you and your kind heart......Carla H.
28:34 I love that you say this about it taking months/years to get through a process. Sometimes I get so stuck in wanting instant gratification that I won’t even start doing something that needs to be done because I know it can’t be rushed through.
I love your house! It’s jam packed full of love!!! My whole house is a doom pile. I do try, I do the best I can, but I’ve got animals, and a big yard with a garden and lots of plants that need to be tended. Plus, I work. It’s very hurtful when people try to shame me.
I love your neurodivergent cleaning tips. They help me so much. It's been a really long journey for me attempting to get through the shame and trauma I have around cleaning, but your videos remind me that I'm not alone and I shouldn't feel ashamed about my apartment not being picture perfect. Thank you so much ❤
Sometimes I feel like I'm not making "good enough" progress because I just don't keep house like most people, but comments like yours remind me, also, that I'm not alone and that a homemaking journey is different for everyone. Thank you for being here!
I'm so late watching this video because life has been overwhelming lately, but I really really needed this video today. I struggle with perfectionism and neurodivergencies as well as physical disabilities, and so many homemaking, SAHM and vintage channels are so disheartening because of their "perfect" always spotless aesthetic homes, I NEED beautiful REAL homes and people and I love you so much for being that. Thank you 🖤🖤
Kristina I LOVE your home! It is perfectly imperfect! Older homes have so much character …I too have an older perfectly imperfect home…I think it’s fun…I make little changes here and there and make it my own style..which of course is 1930 and 40’s…I love that era too…love to go to yard sells and junk stores and make my own things as well. What a beautiful family and life..I can feel the love that you have in your home. You are an amazing Woman in all ways❤
Thank you so much, i recently found out i have adhd and it’s so comforting to see that i am not alone in being overwhelmed sometimes. I love the realness of the video too. Thank you lovely human♥️
What a lovely video; just my 2nd one to watch. I love the way you clean, you just have patience to get it done, all while taking time for your family, with the interruptions that are precious. I love watching your kitties as well ❤❤ You get it all done, and what doesn't get done, you get it the next time around. You are an awesome homemaker, mother and wife. Thanks for all you do.
As with all your other cleaning videos, I appreciate how real you keep things and how honest you are about things you struggle with. I so enjoy seeing you go through all the tasks one by one. It’s incredibly satisfying and relaxing and I’m always inspired to get on top of things I’ve let go for a bit. I am a huge believer in doing what works for you rather than a more rigid one-size-fits-all approach. We are all different and there is more than one way to keep house. The goal is to have a clean home (as much as is possible with a busy life and little ones) that is a safe, comfortable, and happy place for your family. It’s an ongoing process not a one time fix. There will always be times when we need to do a reset, right? That’s life. I was interested in what you said about not cleaning as you go. I can totally see how that makes sense for you and especially like the analogy of If You Give a Mouse a Cookie. I definitely understand where you are coming from. The only thing I slightly differ on…mostly because of my anxiety…is that I always dealt with clutter throughout the day. Not the cleaning part so much, just the “actioning” of items that I could see were starting to pile up. This is not judgement at all. The piling up of things more than the cleaning aspect is what would overwhelm me and send my anxiety through the roof. My brain could deal more with doing large cleaning tasks all at once more than seeing stuff accumulating on what I always called “catch all” areas. Please don’t think I treated my house like a museum, though. I definitely wasn’t that strict about everyday items being left out which were actually being used like a few kids toys, a cup of tea, a project in progress, or a book someone was reading. Anyway, please keep making content like this. It’s so enjoyable to watch and I truly think it helps people.
Kristina saw your videos today for the first time. You are absolutely amazing. Everything you do to make a loving warm home for your family despite some hardships and mental health issues is incredible. You are a wonderful role model for your children. God bless you and your family.
I am fairly new to your channel and I love your way of getting things done! When my three girls were young (they are now 50, 46, and 40) my house was never 15 minutes away from tidy! I love how you show the reality of living in a home. I am also in the process of hushing some rooms. Love to you and yours from Texas ♥️🙏
I just found your channel and i actually love your openness believe you are not alone. I kept admiring all of your vintage items and the record playing just reset my mind to a better place.
I thank God for you, your channel & how you truthfully share your life experiences with us (both positive & otherwise)! You have helped me & I love your channel for that! ❤
Just found your channel....stay-at-home mom is beautiful when a mother can do so. Enjoy your site very much !! Scheduling to doing a room at a time is also what I have been doing which works very well for me. You are a very beautiful wife/mother working with what you have giving to your family very richly in many ways....it is wonderful !!
I'm assuming most families read 'Goodnight Moon' and look for the mouse on every page. In your videos I look for the orange cat every time you switch camera angles. 😀 The best homemakers perfect the skill of making the bed without disturbing the sleeping kitty. Good job, good lady!! Blessings to you and your darling family!!
My spouse works the night shift and generally sleeps most of the day so I often find myself doing majority of house keeping when I'm off from work. We recently started fostering a boy and I find myself watching your videos when I need to see that things get messy when you have children in your life, that my old cabinets might need a new coat of paint but isn't prioritized over making sure everyone has clean clothes and a clean surface to eat from. There are only so many hours in the day, and we should try to find calm in most of them. Thank you for sharing your life. It helps a lot of us
I love your channel, all the items in your home looks antique and beautiful especially the one you use in the kitchen. You are strong and courageous. Thank you for the inspiration. Keep up the good work!
I know this is an older episode, but i just discovered your channel and have been binge watching. Im going through a particularly hard season, and this episode specifically resonated with me. Being in a fixer upper house, stay at home mom, and someone who tries to also be as the prov 31 woman, i dont feel alone in my journey when i watch your vids. My anxiety and depression over time has manifested in physical issues over the last two years, and im trying to reset myself and have a different outlook on things and take things slower. My heart always races thinking i need to have my fixer upper perfect now, the if you give a mouse a cookie analogy is exactly me, everything looks like so much and being that my husband is gone a lot because of the military, i get into my head a lot. I know i need to do better for my children, and you gave great encouragement and practical ways to focus on making your home that safe haven for the family, and make it work for you. I hardly even know myself and my style anymore, and so when i saw your vid where you redid your kitchen, it inspired me to continue working on mine and actually try enjoying it and figure out what i like again. Thank you for this content.
This video is gold. I struggle hard with CPTSD and am currently working through healing, those video speaks to my retrovibe, the orphan inside that doesn’t know how the heck to live, and the quiet calm that is so needed since I am really overstimulated by my mental health journey. I’ve been a longtime subscriber….. I just love this video and will be rewatching/listening as it feels like I have you encouraging me while I do stuff along side you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was a mum of 5 boys , I always did my cleaning , washing & prepping meals for the next day as soon as my boys were bathed & settled in bed around 7:30/8:00pm Leaving the next day largely free to to take care f the young ones that’s were not at school By doing things this way I found that I had more free time to pick up little jobs around the house here & there.
This video was SPECTACULAR!! I struggle with cleaning so badly, as I do with so many other things that require focus. Your advice is balanced and realistic and your personal experiences are appreciated. Thank you!!
Thank you for this. As a mom of 2 neurodivergent boys and a husband who is also (I probably am also I've not been tested) Cleaning is a struggle for me. I also have physical problems which often feeds my procrastination. Your channel has helped me in starting to make our home a space of claim. We are also financially struggling and help knowing we are not alone in the struggle. :)
Absolutely love that your home is full of love and the way you explain how our homes are to be used to fit us articulates the perfect home. Love watching your videos and God bless you and your family and thank you for creating one of the most realistic life of a loving home that characterizes the type of home that any child would thrive in because it is based in love and acceptance.
I was reading a book and it was very helpful, it’s called cleaning at the speed of life, it’s not just a cleaning book but a decluttering book too, she talked about how she would have to do layers of cleaning. Like she had to first go through piles of stuff and put it back in the right places, than go through piles of mail that needed sorting keep/trash etc. than she would finally get to cleaning after those things. She goes through how prioritizing what’s most important is key, balancing clutter along with family things etc. I had a home like yours, filled to the brim with things, cute things, memory keepers, pictures, an over abundance of clothing (some never worn or not worn in years). I say this all not to be negative but I had no idea the decluttering would drastically cut down my cleaning time and create more time for family. At the end of the day clutter isn’t necessary to have but your family and time with them is. If you de cluttered 50% of your things you would see how amazing it is to let go of things and it’s very freeing, you also have way more time with your family.
I love watching you pick up and clean. It’s so artistic. I see all the patterns and colors and I feel like I’m back in time. I don’t know if it would work for you but we started keeping the kids clothes permanently in the laundry room. We have a tall closet but a bookcase could work. So there’s no carrying things to the room. With five kids and you both there has to be a lot of laundry lol. Thank you for doing all that you do.
Im so glad to hear explanations on your channel that tells me what ive been doing wrong. Now in my 60s maybe i can do better. Bless you for all you do .❤❤❤❤
I clean the same way - one room at a time, and find it very satisfying to completely finish a room before moving on. What a nice, cozy video! I wish you a lots of luck with your channel! 🍀
I always look forward to your videos as you create such a welcoming, calm and thoughtful experience. I'm a single person living in a small space and I have learned so much from you, though our life circumstances are quite different. Thank you for creating and sharing your wisdom. I clean along with you - you are such an encouragement!
I love your videos, and I love your house and where it is. It’s so pretty with all the trees and birds. Everything you do I admire and I like how you find time to look nice everyday. I love being at home and keeping it looking nice, living simply, cooking and baking, I’m a nana now with 7 grandchildren who visit a lot ❤
Quick note! Did this on a Sunday, so my husband was home and mostly took charge of kids so I could clean how I *wanted* to. THEY DO HELP TOO!!!! But since this is a house reset, and not a daily routine, it's much easier to have all the kids out of my space so I can move furniture and clean under everything without little people in the way.
Having kids in the room and having to direct other people on how I need them to clean is mentally taxing and overwhelming, and causes me to lose focus on what I need to do. It can then send me into meltdown, or freeze. Add filming on top of that, and it's just too much.
Aside from that, there are a wealth of privacy reasons for why I don't involve my kids actively in filming what I do. When they wander through? That's fine. The baby shadowing me? Gonna happen. But, it's not my kids' job to be on UA-cam - it's MY job. Literal job. So I don't film them actively helping, I don't give them tasks so I can film them doing it, and in general I do these videos when they are elsewhere or I have them do what I need them to do before I start filming.
For the love of all that's holy I don't need to list everything my kids do for a bunch of internet strangers who assume they do nothing because you don't see what they DO. You're going to have to take my word for the fact that they all have tasks. Deep cleaning isn't one of their tasks, believe it or not.
Anyway I'm not here to be a mommy vlogger and exploit my kids for views OK BYE LOVE YOUUUU ;)
Sorry for the silly question, how is your refrigerator working for you? I looked them up and they have great reviews. I wish they came in yellow, I'm all about Sunflowers as you are with Strawberries. We're 4 adults, 2 parents and 2 adult children. I cook a lot and I'd worry about the size...? I think you are an amazing woman! You've helped me so much 💓
It’s an ok refrigerator if you have less food refrigeration needs. I have to be honest and say it’s not large enough for us but it’s what we could afford/what fit in the space because it’s not big enough for a full size fridge. The only big issue I’ve had with it is that the spot for milk jugs has a removable bar that constantly comes out and breaks.
For a smaller household it would work fine though I think!
@@WithLoveKristinaok I was afraid of that, but when we get a new fridge I'm going to have more room so can have it as an immediate fridge in the kitchen (milk, eggs, current libations, cheese, tonight's dinner ingredients etc) and a bigger one in the garage for bulky things. Thank you so much for your time and trouble. You are such an inspiration and helping me clean and organize my mess.
@@WithLoveKristinaI love watchin this video , its soo relaxin an feels calmin..... 😊😊❤❤😊❤😊❤😊❤
@@athenathegreatandpowerful6365 I also have this fridge! It's pretty good, a bit small like she said. I would like to mention that while I really recommend it at its price point by virtue of what a fool proof simple model it is (It has 4 parts, the simplest fridge ever built) It does not have an evaporator or de-icing cycle built in like many large full size models, so periodically you will have to clear out your freezer and leave the fridge portion running to deice your freezer. Also because it's design is a chest fridge that has been stood up you should aviod putting really warm stuff in bc the cycle will take too long to regulate down again, bc all the cold is on the back wall and there are no fans.
Crumbs all over the floor means you had food to give your children. Piles of laundry mean you have plenty of clothes to wear. Dirty pots and pans means you have a space capable of cooking hot, safe meals for your family. Tripping over toys means your kids have lots of fun things to play with. I say all the time that gratitude is the key to happiness! You are doing a great job!!!
I’ve heard this before and it’s so true! It’s all about perspective 😉
Love your comment! So positive
I literally tell myself things like this all the time.
I raised 5 kids. A lot of work to say the least. One day husband came home from work and I was crying. I said,I got nothing done around this house today! All I did was take care of this sick baby. My husband said, so you mean to tell me all you did all day was to take care of our sick child!? Yes, I wept. He said, WELL I GUESS YOUR DAY WAS A COMPLETE SUCCESS! It changed my attitude forever. 💙💚✝️💜
That’s a WONDERFUL HUSBAND…..And a KEEPER…..
Oh how I know what you mean. I raised 5 kids too. When they all came down with chicken pox, I'll never forget the day I literally collapsed and sat down on the floor crying from sheer exhaustion, stress and worry from taking care of them. It was SO hard. BTW, what a wonderful husband you have.
Absolutely, a priceless husband to give you words of comfort and praise. It's mentally worrying in case you don't know what's brewing inside the little one
Your husband saw you upset, and gave you the appropriate response. Magic
my husband says these things to me and it feels like the weight instantly falls off my shoulders. the reassurance is relieving
You have great priorities and your husband is absolutely correct. Homemaking has too many jobs and it's great that your husband recognized this. Be kind to yourself and call a caregiving service and find out how much people pay for homemaker services. You are worth a lot of money and that does not include all the unconditional love that no one can ever pay for, but desperately needs.
I just found your channel last week. Im 61 and have ADHD. In 2018 i had a life threatening illness that i mever fully recovered from. So keeping house is an absolute mountain for me to climb. Things had gotten so bad i was starting to feel like a hoarder. I cried every day. Since i found your channel, i have washed 3 weeks worth of dishes, cleaned off my kitchen table which i jadnt seen the top of in months, put weeks worth of laundry away, vacuumed 2 rooms, and have cooked dinner nearly every day. I can barely walk and have to take frequent breaks, but the satisfaction is overwhelming. You dont fully know what you are doing here. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. ❤🍓
@@lorilorenz9758 I have bad spine issues. Vacuuming can put me down. Even sweeping. I understand where your coming from. It’s ok. Just do what you can.
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❤ this really got to my heart... I wish you everything good.
Good for you, but as you can hardly walk, isn't there anyone family or friend who could give you a hand, that would ease your load. All the best from Scotland 😊
35 years ago I nursed an elderly German lady who told me the secret to having a constantly clean, tidy home was to TOTALLY clean one room each day. This included wiping down doors, walls and windows etc and tidying cupboards and wardrobes. After that she went on to cooking and washing etc. The next day she would totally clean a different room. I wish I had taken that advice on board! Ignore the nay-sayers, you're doing a wonderful job. I only had two children and found it overwelming. Thank you for sharing this video. Lots of love to you and your family. P. S. I love Dean Martin too! Love yourself for the great job you do 💕💖🌹🌹
This is similar to advice I read in an 80s book called the Messy Manual, which she called the Mt Vernon Method - because it's how the cleaners at the historical residence there keep it clean. They start at the door of a room and clean around it, moving around/into the room. They stop when they run out of time for the day, and start again in the same place. Obviously they aren't doing dishes or laundry, which you'd add into your "time allowance", but it means they know what's been cleaned and by the time they get back to it next time it's probably not that dusty or dirty anyway.
It's a bit like painting a bridge 😅
I love the comment "this is a home, not a magazine." This is so true!!
❤❤❤❤soo true
Your home is so cozy. I love the lived-in vibe. So many youtubers are into the boring beige or super sterile personalityless style that their homes look like sad showrooms. Your home has so much personality and tells a story of a life well lived. Your kids are definitely going to look back on their childhood with warm nostalgic feelings when they grow up.
I came here to say the same. I miss the real life houses from the old days on UA-cam before people considered themselves “influencers.” I can’t relate to these fancy houses that are so different from the real life place where my family lives. I just discovered this channel, and I think I am in love! 🥰
This video made me cry. Growing up, my home was a place of fear. Fear of making a mess, not cleaning up after myself quick enough. Guessing what my mother would rage about in the house when she got home from work. You are making my childhood self feel loved and happy!
Me too! Oh and we had a list of chores that we had to do everyday.. it didn't matter if we were tired or ill. Although I think it taught me some important lessons, I couldn't help but feel envious of my friends who had childhoods. They got to either hang out with each other afterschool or work on their homework. Funnily enough when I first moved out at 18, my place was a complete mess. All those years of being so rigid I just let it all go when I finally had freedom. Now I keep on top of cleaning but being so hard on ourselves is not healthy.
OMG, I’m 75 and you are definitely me. There was no testing for ADHD. I have always had a hard time staying on on thing. Thank you. I feel better about myself.
Same 😢❤
My mom had OCD, she followed behind you with a rag if you got a drink from the fridge in case you , NO even if you didn’t make a spill she wiped the counter, THAT was the ONLY thing you could do in the kitchen, I was an only child and my dad WORKED, and as I have found out recently ( she has Alzheimer’s now) that he worked as NOT to be HOME, my father was a Wonderful provider, we were NOT poor, I was
Spoiled because my mothe wanted to keep appearances, BUT, I was NEVER taught anything, I couldn’t cook, I may make a mess, I couldn’t do laundry, I might ruin something, i couldn’t get a job, she didn’t want me that far away, I drove to school BUT, we only lived 2 blocks away in a very small town and she stood at the end of the driveway in her nightgown and made sure I turned into school, she also smacked me and dug her nails into me regularly , called me a slut ,but I never went ANYWHERE without her, I HATED “ HOME” and her, my grandfather died when I was 18 , he was my protector and a second dad , as mine hated HOME as well, thought I was being well taken care of, my mother was a manipulative woman, and I was assured he was OK with her treatment of me, again, as of recently, I’m 58, he just found out about her treatment of me, I moved in with my grandmother, started learning to cook, do laundry and got a job, met my husband 2 months later … I SWORE, MY HOME would never be like that, my son had a vastly different childhood, and I hope he would say , he loved HOME!! These children LOVE HOME, rich or poor, and they don’t know which one they are, they know they are lLOVED and that means they are
millionaires!!!
People need real content like this, especially those young moms that feel guilty that everything is not cold and sterile like lots of people like to post.
Young people, and old, need to appreciate that everyone doesn't have a big new home with all the perks. An older, smaller home, (like mine) can definitely be lovely and homey, maybe even more so.
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This comment is great. I watch the channels where they clean a beautiful home, but they don't seem like they're lived in.
@@THEazcardsgirl this!! The other day I saw a post from a low income mom and it was something as simple as her butter LOOKING like it's been used that made me realize that the other content I watch they tend to use entirely new things which just isn't sustainable. It opened my eyes to something that I didn't even know I needed reassurance on.
You’re such a breath of fresh air! I’m a ER surgical RN. Needless to say my days can be stressful at times. I watch your videos and listen to your calm voice during breaks. I cannot tell you how much you’ve helped me alleviate stress even for just a few minutes. So many of your videos reminds me of my beloved mom and grandmothers. Thank you!
I love your videos! They are so relaxing and have a way of bringing me peace. Thank you for posting! 😊
This is real motherhood, A mom without nannies and babysitters! Doing it all on HER own! I can DEFINITELY relate!!!❤❤❤❤
I love to hear a cat purr and watch her babies nurse. So precious.
Your channel is the only place on the Internet where I feel safe, not judged and calm. I struggle with something else than you (paralyzing anxiety and self doubt, and panic attacks when I'm overtaken by the intrusive anxious thoughts). I don't have money for therapy or access to it where I live and I also have no friends here, so I feel sometimes so alone and like such a bad mom. Whenever I try to open up about my struggles, all I get is judgement, so I just don't say anything anymore. But when you post a video, I feel warm, and safe, and calmer. So thank you. ♥️
Sending you love friend. I totally understand what you’re saying & you’re not alone. ❤
@@turtzturtson thank you ♥️
can just agree.... you're not alone! I really feel your struggles and also the judgement... got and get it a lot, too. But we do our best and that's what matters. Those videos show me that it is okay to not be perfect and that it is okay to not get everything done in one day... it helps me a lot (cause I have a lot of days I can't do anything). Be sure, you're not alone and if you evere like to speak to someone, no matter about what... here I am. We don't know each other, but we don't need to to be there for each other
@@LeeZetLMG thank you ♥️ reading your message was like a warm hug from a friend!
@@luizahundt You're welcome!
I do hate when people say “oh, you just stay home” when They find out I’m a homemaker. If they only knew the amount of work and effort goes into it. I also homeschool our 5 children. I don’t get to clock out at the end of my workday. I enjoy my job here at home, I chose it, but it’s hard when people assume I just get to hang out all day.
I don’t know anyone who could keep a small home with 5 kids clean consistently. Of course we do what we can… awesome video!❤
I’m just halfway through the video but I had to comment at what you said about 17 mins in. I find it ridiculous that people comment ‘just being a mom’ , as if growing babies and raising them well isn’t work. It’s hard and relentless work, beautiful and precious work too. I know lots of moms work outside the home as well as doing so much in the home and they are incredible women. And the moms that stay at home with their children all day and work hard within the home are incredible women! I believe that anyone who has a child and is putting effort in to raising them well, work hard.
I absolutely LOVE your channel. I love that you show a realistic home. You are a beautiful and wonderful person and your family seem so well loved and happy. Your home seems like it’s the one you want to come round and have a cup of tea and be welcomed in. Beautiful ❤
THis was soo real and I have never seen this on any video. My kitchen is old and not perfect and never will be because I dont have to money to totally redo it. I have been too embarassed to share it because of it but you bravely show your imperfect home and even the mess without worry . Your saying messes happen because of positive things we are doing was an amazing insight. Thank you. Your kids are so happy and loved and enjoyed. You are doing a great job. Sadly the house will be easier to clean one day when they are off living their own lives. you are doing great as you are in balancing everything. Let it get messy if it means taking time to enjoy those sweet babies.
you perfectly summarized what I have been feeling and thinking throughout this video.
Kristina, I enjoy seeing you in dresses ; I am 82 years old and find comfort in in living a simple life. My mother always wore dresses and looked beautiful to me. She also had an inner calmness and pleasant personality that I have found to be rare. Thank you for your videos . They are so peaceful and calming, and an encouragement to others.
Your videos are always so warm…your adorable kiddos and kitties, the nostalgia of your vintage, your sweet motherly ways of cleaning, cuddling, and cooking.❤ I feel like I’ve come home, and it’s sort of bittersweet for me because I miss my parents and grandparents so much!
You are such a lovely, inspiring, positive, hard-working lady! Thank you for all you share with us!🥰
Wow, your comment perfectly expresses why I love this channel. ❤ I always feel better after watching a video. 🙂
Thank you for mentioning that the Proverbs 31 woman worked! Also, from what I understand, Proverbs 31 was not meant to be some sort of impossible standard for women to strive for like a "how to" manual. It is recited by Jewish men on the Sabbath before the evening meal as an expression of praise and appreciation for their wives' hard work. Again, your channel is so affirming and refreshing. ❤
That's such a beautiful thing for the men to do, to remind themselves and the whole family of all the effort the women in their lives put in. That's a ritual I think everyone should follow in their own way, for each in their family but especially those whose labors have often been overlooked or disregarded
Hey, Kristina. I just wanted to say thank you for your words. I was feeling pretty low about my house and my environment last night. Your words were so needed. I am a working mom who is a college professor, and I love my job. However, at times I feel guilty because I am so inept with cleaning and keeping house. I feel like I am one step away from burning everything down, but I am trying to be better. However, your words and channel bring me comfort and I hope that one day I can be as reflective and forgiving as you. Sorry if my comments seems to just ramble but I just had to say how much your words touched me and how I cried as I watched this video. Thank you so much for sharing with us and taking the time to encourage us. You have no idea how much I appreciate your content.
I'm an Autistic and ADHD SAHM too. I'm so glad I found your content that is comfy and kind and relaxing and helpful.
I just want to thank you for the gentle and non-invasive way you mention your faith.
I left my faith, and have no interest in returning. It holds a lot of trauma for me. I usually need to distance myself from anyone who has a visible faith that they discuss. Even if they are not being toxic, it brings up a lot of memories that are toxic and harmful.
But something in me healed a little bit when you said "the Proverbs 31 woman worked."
I still have no interest in that faith. But I think you're helping me make peace with other people's faith, and that is important to me as a human who wants to respect other humans of all and any faith. ❤
I love watching your videos. As with all the cleaning/decluttering/50's style channels that I watch, you dont make me feel guilty about my house, but rather inspired to get started. You feel like an old friend by now. That is probably why everytime I see something strawberry in the thrift store, I think of you.
I love your videos because as someone who is also neurodivergent and suffers from an anxiety disorder (most people with neurodivergence does) these are really helpful when it comes to cleaning and for helping me not feel so stressed that my house isn’t perfect! Thank you for sharing your life with all of us!!
This makes me want to clean & not feel overwhelmed by it. Also, as a cat lover, I absolutely love seeing your cute kitties! 😊
Finally a refreshing, real, calming and useful channel without 200 adds in it. Love you, Kristina! Greetings from Germany ❤
Thank you for talking about ADHD. It really helps me navigate me but mostly my eight year old that can't find the correct words sometimes. I'm 46 and I just thought I was weird and lazy my entire life until I was diagnosed 2 years ago.
I appreciated you validating us homemakers whose hard work often is silent and thankless. I feel that way everyday and it’s nice to hear that❤
You work so hard and I think with five kids you do a really good job. ❤
I just wanted to help you out 🥰 as a Mom of 4 (now adults) I never could do what your doing when I was in your shoes it was 1993. Your channel would have helped me so much!! Thanks!
Thank you so much! This is such a sweet comment and I cannot express my gratitude enough!
This is what I wish I had grown up with. I can't look at strawberries without thinking about you and your lovely channel. You're my favorite. Thank you for putting in so much effort. God bless you and your family.
You soothing voice was a lovely way to wake up to this monday morning - while watching the cat enjoy your newly cleaned table! lol! it doesnt matter how you do it coz youre keeping a healthy happy home for your children to grow, as well as enjoying the house as best as possible. Thankyou for sharing the routine that you enjoy the most.
This is the real relatability we need to see more of on social media. I can look at the not social media ready nature of my own home and…accept that that’s real life. The not applying shame to mess is so freeing! Such incredible points made here. Cleanliness combined with design are often associated with competence, laziness vs protectiveness and charm. But…we need to be careful with these constructs we devise. But God’s view and intention for us. It’s so freeing to be made aware and not feel like your home is controlling YOU. Yes, Queen! That’s going to be my view from now on!!
I find the less clutter you have the easier it is to tidy. I have my energy in the morning and do all my cleaning right off the bat.
your life is so amazingly chaotic: the shoe in the bassinet, the cat on the blanket pulled from under the table, the stickers on the coffee table... it's so relatable and made me chuckle.
Me too! 😅
My takeaway from your wonderfully soothing video is to find what works for you and do it. I no longer have the health to clean all day, so I tend to clean as I go, except for the Kitchen. I love to clean the kitchen and make it clean and bright. This may have something to do with having some issues with OCD. I need to clean to have a calm mind. Your house is filled with love, and this is the most important thing.
Can I make an aside comment? I mean it in the most positive & respectful way. Can I say that I really appreciate the way you wear varied necklines? I haven’t noticed before. But, I have been on a modesty deconstruction journey, and it is just so nice to see another mom (esp one I respect) be comfortable with herself just living her life and doing work in a lovely frock that makes her feel happy. Just living your life, ya know? I hope you aren’t hearing me say you’re immodest - that’s not what I mean at all. It’s just a moment of reassurance for me that modesty can mean a lot of things, and it’s safe to try out variations on this theme.
As a fellow “deconstructing modesty culture” gal I know exactly what you mean. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m so glad the comment landed how I intended it to! I love so many aspects of my faith, but this particular facet is definitely getting a re-do!
hahaha sometimes I remind myself that Jesus didn't say "if a woman causes you to stumble, tell her to cover up". He said "if your eye causes you to stumble, rip it out"
;) pretty good verse, that.
But yes, I've had a long journey of deconstructing modesty culture. I grew up in a fairly neutral way with modesty but was still taught that I needed to cover up in order to keep men from sinning. And since then have realized the only thing the bible says about *Dressing* for modesty is "don't show up for worship dressed fancy just because you want attention". Otherwise, I believe all the things about modesty pertain to the heart, and how we treat others!
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dear kristina,
I love your videos.
About the modesty.....let's remember that the Bible says that we are Brothers keepers.
Also please read Romans 12:1-5
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Just found your channel and I love your videos. There's something very calming in the way you narrate them. I also love vintage clothes and decor. I have become a mom 6 weeks ago and I'm currently watching this video while holding my daughter and getting her to sleep. It's 5 am here in Poland, I'm a tired new mom of one and I salute you for being a mom of five and taking care of your household and family so well. Love from Poland!
I love that you always put your apron on before you start to cook and clean. Housesife queen.
Gotta use em all I have so many 😂
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I have adult ADHD too and I am often very scattered. One thing that helped me was using a basin for dirty dishes rather than using the sink. That way if I need the sink I can remove them. With the dishes contained, it just helps me feel more in control. I discovered it when we were remodeling the kitchen and I had to do dishes in a bar sink. The basin helped me so much then that I kept using it when we got our new remodeled kitchen- the one I waited for my entire life. It might not help you but the idea might help someone. After going through many plastic basins, I now use a stainless steel one, and put a rubber mat under it to protect my sink. Thank you for the cleaning tips. I will try it out, especially the hush one.
Your videos are a godsend. Three years ago, over the span of about six months, I lost my health, moved, got demoted, the love of my life passed, and then lost my job. Needles to say, I'm still recovering. My babies are all grown, but your videos help me to recall my own childrearing years and the joy I found there, and help me to remember it's still worth making a house a home, filled with love and new meaning as I continue on. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Please keep doing what you're doing. ❤️
In the years we were cosleeping, I never thought I’d miss it like I do! But that got me in the feels 🥰 I was planning to clean tomorrow - I’ll try your method! I’m also a mom of 5 with a spicy brain. If I clean as I go, I’m literally a crazy person by the end of the day, and I truly spend all energy and creativity cleaning. I never reach homeostasis. I really appreciate your cleaning and home management videos! I used to follow several creators for these topics, but I find yours the most relatable yet helpful
I love cosleeping so much, I'm really going to miss it when my last baby is done!
“Spicy brain” is a great description 😊
I just want to say that I always watch your videos twice; once with video when they come out and later with just audio so I can really focus on what you’re saying because it’s so profound and comforting. When I’m done with the first trimester and feel well enough to clean again I’ll put this audio on and clean away. Thanks for all you do.
Me too
I love how you brought the Proverbs 31 woman. She did work! Her family called her blessed. I was a stay at home mom for most of my kids lives. I always found ways to contribute, whether that was evening cleaning jobs or evening retail work or I just plain worked at saving money so that my husband’s income was enough. We struggled financially a lot but it was very worth it! I will never regret my choices. I now how 3 grown daughters who are well adjusted and I have great relationships with. ❤ You’re are doing awesome!
I do not just like your videos, I love them :-) You are a most blessed and wise young woman with a loving and lovely family and a beautiful home.
I’ve been watching you for years, but I never comment. I’ve seen you through 2 pregnancies, maybe 3 lol .. I have watched you grow SO much & I LOVE your videos. Your home has become so warm, vintage, loving & just what it is, a home. I’m glad you stuck with the strawberries in your kitchen! Loving your head wrap in this video. Thank you for your time & I’m always looking forward to the next! 🩷🌹✨
I really loved your commentary on women's free choice here 💖 I'm not a mom, and I ended up here because I love your kitchen, stayed for the ADHD relatability. There is a lot in this video I can really relate to and it really made me pause, thinking about the relationship between mess and shame, all this especially as a disabled person who finds it SO HARD to clean. Thank you for the motivation and honesty
I welled up a little watching this. I believe I have ADHD (undiagnosed) I have five children at home and I feel so overwhelmed with the chaos all the time. Thank you so much for this video, I needed it. I feel like I can try and tackle the mess with this method now. Love and hugs x
Hello. I am a 67 yr old granny in NE Texas. I found you today as i am getting over first spell of vertigo and having so many scans and tests done in hospital to find most likely caused my inner ear problem, so thankful all the major organs that could cause vertigo are not the cause. Back to reason i wanted to comment.. i have mad(awesome) respect for you and how you and hubby are living your life. I only have 1 grown son and 4 grandchildren. My son used to ask me when he was young what would i do if i had more children, i told him i probably would be baldheaded from pulling my hair out. I was a working single mom our whole lives he was growing up. So my hat is off to you, your doing a fantastic life. I also came to realize my limitations in doing it all could not be perfect but i would get to those other things i wanted to get done in the home when i was more able and time permitted. Loving and caring for your family is the most important at the end of the day. My favorite style for women was the 1930's. Your a lovely young woman and thank you for sharing. I am sure your posts will help other young women in their lives in some way. Good luck with your writing of novels. God Bless you and yours.
Kristina, I’m just getting to watch this and I really love it. Your channel is one of my favorites 😊. The only way to describe this feeling is: sitting at the kitchen window wearing my 1950s dress and scarf, sipping a cup of coffee and reading the latest good housekeeping magazine while the children are at school and I’m stealing a few precious moments to myself. I just love your family. Thanks for sticking this channel out❤
I just started following your channel today but wanted to say that I relate to your past issues with cleaning so much. As someone with mental health struggles, it is so difficult to get certain tasks done and I will jump from task to task without finishing many of them to find myself drained. Making a list seems productive until I have to face it. You're doing a great job and I love the embrace of vintage. I have been doing that myself for years. Thank you for sharing these videos (I watched a few while cleaning) and hope this message finds you and your family well ❤
Memories of small children and the constant need to pick up after them. You are so wonderful with your kids! And good for you for being available for your children. So special!
You know I really enjoy your open, honest commentary. In years past I have struggled with keeping a tidy house. I do my best and I to work from home whether I am babysitting for others, take in ironing sew for others. I prepare 3 meals a day for my family and budget the money we have. We all contribute in our own way. Thank you for sharing your happy life style.
Youre doing a great job momma! Also, little babies sitting on the counter..be still my heart! I so miss that❤
🥲 my second and last is now a toddler and Always wants to get up there, I do love It...
I love your house. It's comfy and homely. My 2 grandmothers were very different. One was more closer to minimalist the other had stuff. The one with the house full of stuff was the one who's house felt like home. It felt comfy. It was the one the kids ran around in. As a kid I loved going through Grandmas china and looking at the designs on the plates. Sitting under her antique table and running my hands over the nobbly legs. My other grandmother we had to sit. Even as kids. Give me a house with stuff any day. It tells the story of the persons life. It's fun to look at if your a visitor and it can start a conversation
I love your channel! It reminds me of growing up in the 60s/70s. My mom used to have each of us (6 total) help her with dishes on different days so she could talk to us individually and find out about our day or what’s was going on in our life. Dishes took as long as the conversation lasted…. I cherish those days in my memory. Love from Tucson, Az💕
I tried this yesterday and concentrated on my kitchen. Cleaned out cabinets, reorganized, etc. Felt so good about doing it. Thank you for this! Will start to plan - daily rooms to work on when I get home from work as well as trying to keep organized daily.
🌹You are a lovely inspiration to so many! “The days are long, but the years are short “ is a message that I think of so often. I wish I had heard it when my children were little and I stayed home with them. It was a never ending job being a stay at home mama. But I was and still am SO very thankful that God made a way for me to do this, because we can’t put a price tag on our family life. Thank you for sharing your faith in the story of the Proverbs 31 woman. You are a lovely example of her. I’m in my mid sixties now and look back on my years past with gratitude and yet regret for many things I have done and things that I have not done. I can’t go back and change anything, but try to Live each day intentionally and with deep thankfulness to the God I love and serve. 🙏❤️🙌🏻
Well said about the Proverbs 31 wife. Many seem to misunderstand traditional in this regard, especially as of late and with what’s trending. I had been planning on sharing such things too. To me, cleaning as I go means while I’m in the space, I keep my feet planted and take care of cleaning up the mess I’m making as I’m creating. Dinner for instance will be cooking and then I wipe up my mess and do the few dishes I made before leaving the space or room. Of course never leaving a room empty handed helps me to not waste a trip I’m making anyway. You do a great job as a mom of 5 no matter your method and you certainly have a lovely, curated aesthetic that’s uniquely you🌹
Thank you Nikki! I always love your cleaning videos, they are among my favorites and you’ve been so encouraging to watch as you share how you organize and care for your home!
I love your calm videos and calm music. I am good at cleaning the kitchen, laundry, and bathrooms, but I struggle with the floors. I never thought I could get items that I don't need out of my home, but I have changed the way I think about stuff I don't need. I finally, after 30 years, removed things I inherited when my mother passed away, and because I don't sew, I got rid of buttons and sewing items she coveted. Made me feel better instantly, now on to the rest of my house clearing.
I’ve been a long time watcher but don’t usually comment. I love your channel and especially enjoy seeing your happy healthy family! I’m 63 so no littles at home but your cleaning routines keep me focused. Thank you!
as a mom of 3 with adhd, i also have a really hard time staying on task. I found a method that has been very helpful for me is putting all my cleaning supplies on a tiered cart. Top level has supplies, second one has all rags, mop heads etc and bottom level is reserved for “put backs” (random lego in kitchen, hair brush in play room etc). i’m using one of those 3 tiered hobby things on casters, mine used to house all my children’s diapering supplies but i found this has been a much better use of it. anyways, as im watching this i see you have a basket you use, haha. Anyways! hope you could try it one day xxx
I just found you, I just wanted to say it takes a special person to run a house and to enjoy your children 24/7 you go girl.
I still love your stove/oven it's sooooo you and fits the personality you've given your home perfectly!
I love your show! You truly are blessed with an amazing family❤ I love your cleaning ways and your pretty personal clothing style and the way you do your hair an makeup. I raised 4 children and I have to say I always had a hard time keeping up with my housework as well. God bless you and your family 😊😊
Concerning your cat: our grandson brought home a distressed pregnant female, who had her litter soon after. I made an appointment to get her spayed, but as with what happened to you, she got pregnant again before I expected it ("they" say to have them spayed after they stop nursing, but she never did). She's now been fixed and 2 more pregnant females (strays) had litters. We're in the process of getting them all fixed. Sadly, it takes about 45 days to get it done after calling the vet for an appointment. God bless you and your kind heart......Carla H.
Don't overlook local humane society for help. Don't ever wait. Take cats to vet asap.
28:34 I love that you say this about it taking months/years to get through a process. Sometimes I get so stuck in wanting instant gratification that I won’t even start doing something that needs to be done because I know it can’t be rushed through.
I love your house! It’s jam packed full of love!!! My whole house is a doom pile. I do try, I do the best I can, but I’ve got animals, and a big yard with a garden and lots of plants that need to be tended. Plus, I work. It’s very hurtful when people try to shame me.
I love your photography, your choice of music your soothing self and calming voice ! What a beautiful life
I love your neurodivergent cleaning tips. They help me so much. It's been a really long journey for me attempting to get through the shame and trauma I have around cleaning, but your videos remind me that I'm not alone and I shouldn't feel ashamed about my apartment not being picture perfect. Thank you so much ❤
Sometimes I feel like I'm not making "good enough" progress because I just don't keep house like most people, but comments like yours remind me, also, that I'm not alone and that a homemaking journey is different for everyone. Thank you for being here!
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I appreciate you being so real and vulnerable. You have given me even more of a push to just start my channel, I've been putting it off for 6 yrs 😅
I'm so late watching this video because life has been overwhelming lately, but I really really needed this video today. I struggle with perfectionism and neurodivergencies as well as physical disabilities, and so many homemaking, SAHM and vintage channels are so disheartening because of their "perfect" always spotless aesthetic homes, I NEED beautiful REAL homes and people and I love you so much for being that. Thank you 🖤🖤
Kristina I LOVE your home! It is perfectly imperfect! Older homes have so much character …I too have an older perfectly imperfect home…I think it’s fun…I make little changes here and there and make it my own style..which of course is 1930 and 40’s…I love that era too…love to go to yard sells and junk stores and make my own things as well. What a beautiful family and life..I can feel the love that you have in your home. You are an amazing Woman in all ways❤
Thank you so much, i recently found out i have adhd and it’s so comforting to see that i am not alone in being overwhelmed sometimes. I love the realness of the video too. Thank you lovely human♥️
What a lovely video; just my 2nd one to watch. I love the way you clean, you just have patience to get it done, all while taking time for your family, with the interruptions that are precious. I love watching your kitties as well ❤❤ You get it all done, and what doesn't get done, you get it the next time around. You are an awesome homemaker, mother and wife. Thanks for all you do.
Happy holidays from my family to your beautiful family. I love your channel. Happy New Year.
As with all your other cleaning videos, I appreciate how real you keep things and how honest you are about things you struggle with. I so enjoy seeing you go through all the tasks one by one. It’s incredibly satisfying and relaxing and I’m always inspired to get on top of things I’ve let go for a bit.
I am a huge believer in doing what works for you rather than a more rigid one-size-fits-all approach. We are all different and there is more than one way to keep house. The goal is to have a clean home (as much as is possible with a busy life and little ones) that is a safe, comfortable, and happy place for your family. It’s an ongoing process not a one time fix. There will always be times when we need to do a reset, right? That’s life.
I was interested in what you said about not cleaning as you go. I can totally see how that makes sense for you and especially like the analogy of If You Give a Mouse a Cookie. I definitely understand where you are coming from.
The only thing I slightly differ on…mostly because of my anxiety…is that I always dealt with clutter throughout the day. Not the cleaning part so much, just the “actioning” of items that I could see were starting to pile up. This is not judgement at all. The piling up of things more than the cleaning aspect is what would overwhelm me and send my anxiety through the roof. My brain could deal more with doing large cleaning tasks all at once more than seeing stuff accumulating on what I always called “catch all” areas.
Please don’t think I treated my house like a museum, though. I definitely wasn’t that strict about everyday items being left out which were actually being used like a few kids toys, a cup of tea, a project in progress, or a book someone was reading.
Anyway, please keep making content like this. It’s so enjoyable to watch and I truly think it helps people.
Watching you’re videos is so calming. Thank you
Just found Your channel today ❤ it. I like the fact that You are letting Your kids be kids. I need to practice alot of Your tips Thank You.
Kristina saw your videos today for the first time. You are absolutely amazing. Everything you do to make a loving warm home for your family despite some hardships and mental health issues is incredible. You are a wonderful role model for your children. God bless you and your family.
I am fairly new to your channel and I love your way of getting things done! When my three girls were young (they are now 50, 46, and 40) my house was never 15 minutes away from tidy! I love how you show the reality of living in a home. I am also in the process of hushing some rooms.
Love to you and yours from Texas ♥️🙏
I just found your channel and i actually love your openness believe you are not alone. I kept admiring all of your vintage items and the record playing just reset my mind to a better place.
I thank God for you, your channel & how you truthfully share your life experiences with us (both positive & otherwise)! You have helped me & I love your channel for that! ❤
Just found your channel....stay-at-home mom is beautiful when a mother can do so. Enjoy your site very much !! Scheduling to doing a room at a time is also what I have been doing which works very well for me. You are a very beautiful wife/mother working with what you have giving to your family very richly in many ways....it is wonderful !!
I'm assuming most families read 'Goodnight Moon' and look for the mouse on every page. In your videos I look for the orange cat every time you switch camera angles. 😀 The best homemakers perfect the skill of making the bed without disturbing the sleeping kitty. Good job, good lady!! Blessings to you and your darling family!!
My spouse works the night shift and generally sleeps most of the day so I often find myself doing majority of house keeping when I'm off from work. We recently started fostering a boy and I find myself watching your videos when I need to see that things get messy when you have children in your life, that my old cabinets might need a new coat of paint but isn't prioritized over making sure everyone has clean clothes and a clean surface to eat from. There are only so many hours in the day, and we should try to find calm in most of them. Thank you for sharing your life. It helps a lot of us
I love your channel, all the items in your home looks antique and beautiful especially the one you use in the kitchen. You are strong and courageous. Thank you for the inspiration. Keep up the good work!
I know this is an older episode, but i just discovered your channel and have been binge watching. Im going through a particularly hard season, and this episode specifically resonated with me. Being in a fixer upper house, stay at home mom, and someone who tries to also be as the prov 31 woman, i dont feel alone in my journey when i watch your vids. My anxiety and depression over time has manifested in physical issues over the last two years, and im trying to reset myself and have a different outlook on things and take things slower. My heart always races thinking i need to have my fixer upper perfect now, the if you give a mouse a cookie analogy is exactly me, everything looks like so much and being that my husband is gone a lot because of the military, i get into my head a lot. I know i need to do better for my children, and you gave great encouragement and practical ways to focus on making your home that safe haven for the family, and make it work for you. I hardly even know myself and my style anymore, and so when i saw your vid where you redid your kitchen, it inspired me to continue working on mine and actually try enjoying it and figure out what i like again. Thank you for this content.
This video is gold. I struggle hard with CPTSD and am currently working through healing, those video speaks to my retrovibe, the orphan inside that doesn’t know how the heck to live, and the quiet calm that is so needed since I am really overstimulated by my mental health journey. I’ve been a longtime subscriber…..
I just love this video and will be rewatching/listening as it feels like I have you encouraging me while I do stuff along side you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was a mum of 5 boys , I always did my cleaning , washing & prepping meals for the next day as soon as my boys were bathed & settled in bed around 7:30/8:00pm
Leaving the next day largely free to to take care f the young ones that’s were not at school
By doing things this way I found that I had more free time to pick up little jobs around the house here & there.
This video was SPECTACULAR!! I struggle with cleaning so badly, as I do with so many other things that require focus. Your advice is balanced and realistic and your personal experiences are appreciated. Thank you!!
Thank you for this. As a mom of 2 neurodivergent boys and a husband who is also (I probably am also I've not been tested) Cleaning is a struggle for me. I also have physical problems which often feeds my procrastination. Your channel has helped me in starting to make our home a space of claim. We are also financially struggling and help knowing we are not alone in the struggle. :)
Absolutely love that your home is full of love and the way you explain how our homes are to be used to fit us articulates the perfect home. Love watching your videos and God bless you and your family and thank you for creating one of the most realistic life of a loving home that characterizes the type of home that any child would thrive in because it is based in love and acceptance.
I was reading a book and it was very helpful, it’s called cleaning at the speed of life, it’s not just a cleaning book but a decluttering book too, she talked about how she would have to do layers of cleaning. Like she had to first go through piles of stuff and put it back in the right places, than go through piles of mail that needed sorting keep/trash etc. than she would finally get to cleaning after those things. She goes through how prioritizing what’s most important is key, balancing clutter along with family things etc.
I had a home like yours, filled to the brim with things, cute things, memory keepers, pictures, an over abundance of clothing (some never worn or not worn in years). I say this all not to be negative but I had no idea the decluttering would drastically cut down my cleaning time and create more time for family. At the end of the day clutter isn’t necessary to have but your family and time with them is.
If you de cluttered 50% of your things you would see how amazing it is to let go of things and it’s very freeing, you also have way more time with your family.
Thank you. I just ordered that book.
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Hope you enjoy it! It was super helpful for me.
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I love watching you pick up and clean. It’s so artistic. I see all the patterns and colors and I feel like I’m back in time. I don’t know if it would work for you but we started keeping the kids clothes permanently in the laundry room. We have a tall closet but a bookcase could work. So there’s no carrying things to the room. With five kids and you both there has to be a lot of laundry lol. Thank you for doing all that you do.
Im so glad to hear explanations on your channel that tells me what ive been doing wrong. Now in my 60s maybe i can do better. Bless you for all you do .❤❤❤❤
I clean the same way - one room at a time, and find it very satisfying to completely finish a room before moving on. What a nice, cozy video! I wish you a lots of luck with your channel! 🍀
I always look forward to your videos as you create such a welcoming, calm and thoughtful experience. I'm a single person living in a small space and I have learned so much from you, though our life circumstances are quite different. Thank you for creating and sharing your wisdom. I clean along with you - you are such an encouragement!
I’m watching this again and it’s just so many levels of wonderful.
I also now realize my own doom pile system. It has opened my eyes.
I love your videos, and I love your house and where it is. It’s so pretty with all the trees and birds. Everything you do I admire and I like how you find time to look nice everyday.
I love being at home and keeping it looking nice, living simply, cooking and baking, I’m a nana now with 7 grandchildren who visit a lot ❤