🇵🇭Who Should Pay for Dates? | Street Interview in Cebu, Philippines

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  • @cebu4crews
    @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому +1

    How much would you bring for a date?💰💰

  • @Anonymous-xq3cd
    @Anonymous-xq3cd 2 місяці тому +7

    When you ask women, try finding someone who is alone so you will get a more accurate answer. Women in groups of 2 or more tend to just follow, copy, or fall in line with whatever is the answer of the first one because that is women's nature, they tend to follow, be in line, and to conform. Women in general dont want to go against the flow or be different. That is one thing I always notice in interviews when its 2, 3, or 4 women together, they always tend to follow and fall in line what whatever was the answer of the first one, but if you ask 4 different girls who are all alone and by themselves, you will get a more accurate answer,

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      so if one thinks im cute , the rest will also? i kinda like that lol

  • @CatNMrDJ
    @CatNMrDJ 2 місяці тому +1

    The last Filipina is my kind of Filipina and she's gorgeous on top of that...

  • @SitBackandWatch.Official
    @SitBackandWatch.Official 2 місяці тому +6

    It’s a bit complicated because, while I don’t mind paying for the date, I want to avoid being taken advantage of. If we get more serious, I could end up covering all her expenses, taking care of her family’s needs, and being responsible for unexpected financial emergencies.

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому +1

      Fair relationships are definitely the best way to go☺
      Thanks for watching the video!

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      man theres lots of filipinas i think that expect financial support for their families if u guys are married. not sure if just in a serious relationship.

    • @SitBackandWatch.Official
      @SitBackandWatch.Official 2 місяці тому

      @@archiecruz6336 Marriage is understandable when you know what to expect from the relationship. In my case, I tend to be too generous, and many of the Filipinas I date often become too comfortable. They may see an opportunity to take advantage of that.

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SitBackandWatch.Official ya when ur too nice, too generous too fast and early, some do take advantage of that. i just hope u find someone that wont take advantage of ur kindness and generosity. theyre out there, you just have to be patient and selective. hope u find a good one my man.

  • @ryokohonda4619
    @ryokohonda4619 2 місяці тому

    These girls are very lovely and thoughtful. They care if their partner spends too much on them. That's one of the reasons why they said 50/50 but usually it's the guy who wants to spend, as you can see the answers of the Filipino men. I know many Filipino men doesn't like it if they're not the one giving money in the relationship. They said it hurts their pride as a man. You should do the same interview but with Filipino men.

  • @gumi7195
    @gumi7195 2 місяці тому +2

    It's fair for both of them to split the bill.
    It depends on the date plan.

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      ill pay if i get a happy ending later that night otherwise i agree we go halfsies

  • @PizzaLord
    @PizzaLord 2 місяці тому +1

    Not accurate. A lot of the couples being asked were already a couple. And a lot of girl groups that were asked will not want to look greedy on camera.
    Reality is that you are not only expected to pay for food and drinks but also their taxi fare there and to go home.
    In 15 years of dating here only once has a woman bought me a meal and that was the breakfast in a cafe the morning after she slept in my bed.

  • @stelthmunky
    @stelthmunky 2 місяці тому +2

    If I invite, I pay, just don't take advantage. I usually also send them home with food for their families as well. I'm a foreigner so I assume I pay for everything anyway, but now I'm getting too old to date. I am almost 40 (edit: and back in the States) and it is hard to find single women my age 😂🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      hard to find someone ur age in the philippines?? theres tons of single moms lol unless ur not over there and in the states

    • @ryokohonda4619
      @ryokohonda4619 2 місяці тому

      You can find younger single women in their 30s or late 20s

    • @stelthmunky
      @stelthmunky 2 місяці тому +1

      @@archiecruz6336 i updated my comment to include that I moved back to the States 😅

    • @stelthmunky
      @stelthmunky 2 місяці тому

      @@ryokohonda4619 i dated younger once, and never again. I prefer dating around my age

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      @@stelthmunkyahh ok ya makes more sense. It is tougher here. Im in Vegas but might be moving to Pinas in 2026

  • @ejtaylor73
    @ejtaylor73 2 місяці тому +1

    "The man should pay to win the woman's heart." That's not winning her heart, it's BUYING IT. If her heart is that easy to buy, what else is?
    I would pay for the date, but ONLY for the ONE woman I was going on a date with, not a chaperone (She's an adult in a public place, why does she need one) or her family/friends. Although I would pay, her offering would be a nice sentiment and appreciated and show she's not trying to take advantage of it.

  • @vladimirstancobangbang5831
    @vladimirstancobangbang5831 2 місяці тому +2

    50/50 is good idol ❤

  • @FlyingDutchMen-BE
    @FlyingDutchMen-BE 2 місяці тому +1

    I would not mind to pay ,but sometimes i asking myself why women in the world wanne have equal rights ,if the always expecting the guy pays ,where is the equal rights then? the just want equal rights when it suit them?

  • @nikumimito3164
    @nikumimito3164 2 місяці тому

    The person that asks the other person for the date should pay. Though I would never let a woman pay for a date unless I know she's filthy richer than me.

  • @gabres19871
    @gabres19871 2 місяці тому

    I had one Filipina who was forcing 50/50 and it was a nice experience even we didn't work out it was a nice experience...she eas from country side not from the city,small town.
    Never ever had 50/50 with others

  • @vincentclaro2945
    @vincentclaro2945 2 місяці тому

    50/50 is sometimes. Because one of the partners may not have money and the other partner has money and can help and support as long as there is communication and honest. ✌️

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому +1

      That's a great thought☺
      You seem like someone who can build good relationships with anyone!

    • @vincentclaro2945
      @vincentclaro2945 2 місяці тому

      ​@@cebu4crewssalamat gid

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      man everry foreigner should pay for the date. even if u aint rich, u still have way more money than most girls ur going to date.

    • @vincentclaro2945
      @vincentclaro2945 2 місяці тому +1

      @@archiecruz6336 depends on one's lifestyle. In the western, women expect men to pay for the date. Then, it didn't work out because of too much expectations or not consideration. In the Philippines, we're okay because we help each other even if we don't have money or little money. And sometimes it may not work out for the date.

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      @@vincentclaro2945fair enough

  • @TheBigBananaaa
    @TheBigBananaaa 2 місяці тому +4

    I took a girl to Jollibee 🫣 95 pesos x 2 🤣 then 2 chocolate sundae’s🍦35 pesos x 2 🤪

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      That’s such a nice and affordable date!
      Mix & match at its best!🐝🐝🐝

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому +1

      well u can do cheap dates cuz u have a big banana, for the rest of us longanisas we have to impress em with an expensive outing

  • @VirusAlert0
    @VirusAlert0 2 місяці тому

    Always.. not only first date.. pay will be on who invites. "I invite you to a cofee" vs "would you like to meet and drink a cofee or walk"

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      depend on the guys financial situation. if im going back to pinas and date around. ill pay for everything cuz its way cheaper there than here in america/vegas. i just went on a date a paid fkn $150 for kbbq restaurant, movies and boba drinks

    • @ejtaylor73
      @ejtaylor73 2 місяці тому +1

      And who does majority of inviting? The man, so just say the man pays.

  • @protegelin
    @protegelin 2 місяці тому

    The salary of a college graduate worker in Cebu is about 15k peso...with a huge chunk going to support her family... how much is left for dating ???

  • @palmtreesandpaychecks
    @palmtreesandpaychecks 2 місяці тому +4

    A foreigner will usually pay for everything

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      Me as well...haha

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому +1

      as they should. they got money and it aint gona break that bank esp in the provinces. these girls talking about 500-2000 pesos/$10-$40. my last date was $150 here in Las Vegas and we didnt even go to a fine restaurant. just a decent kbbq, movies, and some boba drinks

  • @johnnyjohn101
    @johnnyjohn101 2 місяці тому

    6:55 I would like to marry her 😍

  • @Tompham1111
    @Tompham1111 2 місяці тому

    men, just pay for the first date. If she is worth , next spot she will want to pay for coffee/drinks. If she doesnt show, then you already know

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      if shes hot im paying. if shes mid level we splitting it

  • @aaroncarandang3103
    @aaroncarandang3103 2 місяці тому

    I’m always ready financially when I invite a girl on a date but if she insist to split the bill then it’s fine with me 😊

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      You’re one cool guy👨Wishing you a great dating life!

  • @dougiehikesvegas
    @dougiehikesvegas 2 місяці тому

    This video is one of the many reasons I gave up on American Women. Team Pinay

  • @TheBigBananaaa
    @TheBigBananaaa 2 місяці тому +1

    ❇️ Barangay Seoul = 150 pesos each ✅ then some sexy dessert 🍮 in my condo 😋

  • @peterhuang1431
    @peterhuang1431 2 місяці тому +1

    when will we get the " how much does a man need to earn monthly to date you? "

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      Great question😮 Thank you!
      I'll work hard to make that interview happen👍

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      i saw another vid. interviewed girls in bicol. they were saying in a range, a man should make like P3,000-P10,000 per week. im like, id be a prize over there lol

  • @2007beet
    @2007beet 2 місяці тому

    English kaau naa sa IT Park

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      Yeah, their English is amazing😮

  • @peterhuang1431
    @peterhuang1431 2 місяці тому

    God bless filipinas. If this question was for western women, they will say crazy things and all about money and not for a coffee date or walk in park.

    • @cebu4crews
      @cebu4crews  2 місяці тому

      depend on woman I think😁 anyway thanks for watching !!

  • @OGsir
    @OGsir Місяць тому

    If its local filipino woman and local filipino man on a date - yeah i'd agree they'd be more incline to go 50/50. if its a foreign man and local filipino girl on a date... they definitely won't go 50/50 lmao😂😂

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 2 місяці тому

    Man is happy to pay . Just do Not bring your family !

    • @archiecruz6336
      @archiecruz6336 2 місяці тому

      umm she can bring her sisters if theyre pretty too, i dont mind

  • @ismethoxha6882
    @ismethoxha6882 2 місяці тому

    Man should pay for the date to impress the women! No matter what!