Please stop the cheesy wink at the end. Lol, for the love of all things not cheesy! 😂 dear gosh, LOL, that just makes me laugh 😆, it's like what in the hell? What in the hell is that ridiculousness, yo? 🤣 I see it n wonder if I'm back in the 1970s & somebody had put a porno on TV 📺 or something lmao.
what Ismael says is pretty accurate. My sister and I were planning to find a place together when I met him. I hesitated making him wait but I wanted desperately to see if he would. We saw each other nearly every day from November and December. On December 24th he proposed to me. Was I ready so soon? at 33 years old and never married? I can’t tell it is the right thing to do but I must say it was a little rocky at first. He had not only been married before but had three daughters. He was so sweet and cute too. I desperately tried not to copy my mother. When I did ask him to put his clothes in the hamper and put the toilet seat down after, he didn’t ever need reminded. Wow, I knew this was special. I gave him time to go fishing or work on cars with his friends, not wanting to smother him. We’ve been married 30 years now. We always kiss and hug good night and before he goes to work everyday. He’s my best friend, my ‘soulmate’. Every day starts amazingly. It’s up to you how it ends.
Anyone can say the words "I love you". I always tell my female friends not to listen to what a man says, but to watch what he does. When a man loves a women, she can tell. You give excellent advice. You now have a new follower.
No one is valuable just by thinking that they are. Everything is relative. I might be valuable for one man and totally worthless for another. If by “working on myself” you mean coming to that realization, then I agree we all need to work on ourselves. Thanks for your valuable videos!
I believe all of us have intrinsic value that has nothing to do with what other people think. But I also want to use kind words to show other people I value them because they exist for a reason. and get results in relationships that are good. So this can be useful. As long as nobody thinks it has anything to do with their intrinsic value. That doesn’t go up and down based on anyone’s evaluation.
@@jasjulkat I absolutely agree we all have intrinsic value. My comment was to be held only in the context of the value a woman’s is able to pose for a man she’s interested in in a relationship. So other than the obvious intrinsic value all people, things, air, mass, molecule or whatever we want to call it have, my statement still holds true. 😍☮️✌️
You're wrong. An objectively kind, good, loyal and loving woman is objectively valuable to EVERYONE. Because, if they had her in their life, their life would 100% improve, no matter who they are. Just like precious metals are valuable for everyone. But some people don't like them, that's a different story. When someone preffers silver over platinum, moisanite over diamonds, it doesn't mean that platinum or diamonds wouldn't be valuable to him if he had them. It just means they have their own reasons for preffering the cheaper option.
@@ashley_brown6106 Your statement does not negate mine. We all have value, but unless what you have to offer is appreciated, your value is therefore rejected. No amount of effort would make a man love you simply because because you’re good, kind, loyal and loving. Unfortunately it’s no different from people who like gold but hate silver or like silver but hate gold. We are all valuable, but coming to the realization that some people prefer others, different from us, good and all, is what sets us free.
I have learnt the hard way showing a man how much I liked him and ignored my instinct initially and now feel ashamed. I recently learned a man will be kept only if he wants to no matter what we do. He told me he couldn't be the rock/right person he wanted to be for me due to travelling and workload but deep down I knew it was invalid excuses. Recently he even put a pic of himself and the girl he is seeing on status knowing well I will see it. I deserve someone who is into me as much as I am into them ❤❤
Thank you. I noticed that following these advices became so much easier after I consciously give up waiting for validation or interest from any man I desire, because It was only a rejection wound that made me look for it. Then, I got back the conscious of my high value and rationally let go of any attachment. Following these advices was a natural response of my inner stand. Ladies, we have to be more rational, because putting your heart in every decision will only get It broken.
We have to be more careful and pay attention to red flags. I used to be so naive and saw people in a good light...oh never ever again... we have to test men more carefully ...
I am happy to found you. I am divorced 4 years, look good for my age, educated and very sucessful in work and earn enough for me and child. But love life is disaster. I had no parents so nobody teached me to love my self. That was source of all my problems with man. You have teached me a lot in only 2 videos I have seen today.
I need to work on myself to make myself more valuable. Not for a man but for myself and to give back to the society that I came from. I've had a lot of traumatic experiences which still give me nightmares. It's like if I take 2 steps forward towards improvement, I'm pulled back by 10 steps. But, I go on no matter what. I constantly keep repeating in my mind that I am healed, I have no traumas, I don't need external validation, I am blessed with a healthy body, a kind heart and a pure soul. I read, exercise, prepare for competitive exams, write research papers, paint, cook, clean, take care of cats, etc. I'm trying my best and I will emerge better than the rest.
To answer the question.... You have to do both. You need to have it in your head that you have worth. You also need to put the work into achieving that very worth. But you aren't doing the work for anyone but you. Seeing is believing and having a good mind set makes the effort possible. Mind, body and soul.
Every woman is high value, some are just too hurt , suffered trauma in childhood or growing up, that they forgot that they are already high value. I was like that, i grew up with abuse that stood between me and realising that I am already enough and high value and have so much worth in myself. I wish every woman works on herself, her wounds and trauma that she heals herself and realises her value
If you start thinking you are valuable it doesn’t matter if you haven’t start that degree you’ve been thinking about or if your closet is a little messy, you know that you will work on those things because you have the mindset shift and you trust yourself to get where you want to be. This will help you set boundaries too. So yes I think mindset automatically makes you a more higher value woman because you’ll put up with less and be motivated for more within.
You’re more valuable by simply thinking you are. Because by thinking it, you will naturally start working on yourself to live a life that matches how you feel about yourself.
I think you show your value by pouring love into yourself and having your own back that you are so full of love that you’re not dependent on anyone else to fulfill this for you.
6:16 you got me subscribed, women need to hear this info, for us to stop making excuses for these players...🙌🏻 I would love to watch the whole session.
I appreciate your direct and clear information. That in itself has my gratitude. Finally hearing truth of what we need to hear, not what we want to hear. The clip was brilliant I love your no nonsense approach ❤🙏
I'm going to comment without even watching this video, what I believe the traits are that men consider high value in a woman. I have NOT watched the video. 1. Establish clear boundaries 2. Have your own interests 3. Do not be afraid to tell him no. ( Do not always cancel or rearrange your own plans to accomodate him). 4. Remain the 'chooser' rather than the 'chaser.' (Men are born hunters. Refrain from texting him repeatedly with no response from him.) 5. Remember that men have feelings and emotions too Now I'm going to see how close I came. Which I think will be pretty close. And it will strengthen my own belief that it's not what I'm doing wrong, but a real lack of people that are long term material, who have not allowed the disappointments of life to leave them cynical. Show me a decent man my age, who's polite, self aware, makes the most of any situation, and I would be all in. But there are none 😢
I believe we are what we believe. so when we believe we are valuable we are perceived as valuable by others. But that said when we work on ourselves, follow our ambitions and goals our value grows. When we reflect upon our traumas and work through the healing, we become better version of ourselves. so it has to be a right balance of working on ourselves and believing in ourselves. If we simply believe we are the best from a place of arrogance, the facade will soon fall off and if we work on ourselves to fix our value, we will end up feeling more inadequate.
Yes Ismael, I agree partially because values are intrinsic and comes from birth so it doesn’t matter if you have sex on the first, third, tenth date if he really likes you he will stay by your side no matter what. And about the boundaries, same thing happens, if he is into you, it doesn’t matter if you change your opinion, say one thing and does another, most men are confusing and don’t know what they want, so why should women be different?
Hi Ismael, I really appreciate everything you have to say on relationships men/women and believe me, when I listen to you I don’t do any other things 😉. I like your values and how clear you express them and yourself 👌🏼👏🏼
Your videos are truly valuable, I love it. I was deeply codependent for a long time in my life and I didn’t do any of this, I‘ve been a match to guys that ghosted me and all that stuff. Slowly but surely I‘ve been finding back to my selfworth and I think I made so much progress and now I can see myself resonating with many of the points. I will continue seeing myself as valuable everyday and when the next guy comes I will be so happy to stay in my feminine energy and let him pursue me ❤ Only givers from now on and nothing less 🎉
Your advice helps me a lot and thanks to that I think I've been able to understand my value much better and found myself someone who values my true self. Thank you💜
I'm 28 years into a marriage that I committed a lot of the mistakes you've have spoken of... In the past few years I've realized none of it worked and he can't understand how/why I've changed and what happened to me... Anyway, I wish I would have had access to this info 25 years ago for sure! Lots of time wasted 😢
I consider your advice very useful in the sense of honesty and reality, I find them applicable in my life and I kind of identify myself while I make comparison of myself version before and confident version now, thanks very much for making this kind of content, it truly helps and by the way I kind of like so much your English 😅
The deep deep truth behind this: 1. Heal inner wounds that affect your self love, self worth and self respect so that you won't subconsciously seek to heal yourself through him 2. You should never make him the center of your world, be yourself and be the center of your own life , sounds obvious but we often give men more attention and energy than we should. Turn that attention and energy to your own growth and development on all levels of life 3. Once you're on the healing journey and focused on your improvement and love yourself and your life the man who is aligned with you will show up automatically ❤
That was great advice you have that woman. I am guilty of that myself. I'm not very good at turning away. I wish I was. Even when I know it, hurting someone makes me feel bad. I think he banks on that. It's all very confusing to me.
No, I need work, I've neglected myself as far as a relationship goes. Now that I have watched your video, I'm moving forward. I'm going to try and watch every video you have made, maybe I'll be an expert, hahaha thanks
I've been in a long distance relationship for 3+ years, it's very hard, sometimes my insecurities step out, he assures me that he's never cheated on me, I've never spoken to him on the phone we communicate on a dating site, he's a Psychologist for autistic children and reason being that we don't talk on the phone is what he told me. I told him you can get a different email, because this site is expensive, he trusts this dating site more than he does me? I don't know if it's true, I want to believe him, sometimes red flags creep out, too long to explain, I just don't know, it breaks my heart to think any thing different.
It starts with thinking, and finding things you enjoy and build on your values.. what you value is unique to you.. so find the meaning in life and build from there, being transparent and honest with you needs wants and desires..
Thank you for the great advice...I like watching your videos because your are smart and the advice your speak is common sense..you are helping us women...
I have a question; would approaching a guy I like and introducing myself be chasing him, or were you referring to more like, begging him to come back after a breakup?
You whole aura changes the more valuable you think you are, i can feel a man’s value from the way he speaks and interact.. question is why am I not attractinh high value man when I am high value woman?
U r a good person n u explain very well I'm from India yes what u say makes sense gotta apply it to oneself n get the feeling that things work out right. 🌹
You are a dear man. 4 years ago, I can guarantee you were a dear man as well. I suspect your confidence only surfaced after you felt you had earned it. For me, it's what is going on in a person's head and heart is what really matters.
1. Know your worth, face challenges, accomplish difficult goals, check your frequency vibes and energy. 2. Limit access to you-out of reach, make him wait and work for it. Build a life of excitement and fun and goals first. 3. Show your boundaries- the power of saying no. 4. Always be ready to walk away 5. Never chase a man- I think you need to work on yourself and figure things out it was nice getting to know you
Like the last high value Ismael, it’s helped watching my favourite comedian today Sarah Milligan , and her words ring true in my mind ,”If you don’t like me the way I am , the Fuck off !” How true that is in all situations 😂😂😂
Cooking, Cleaning, Playful, Elegant, Say a lot with your facial expressions and body language, be a great judge of character, yet expect a man to take care of you.
So basically you're telling me that I wasn't good enough just being myself. That myself just isn't going to be good enough for a man That's what you're saying. You're saying that I need to act differently than who I am in order to become a high value woman for some man. You're saying I need to play hard to get. I mean that is what you're saying because I would be lying to myself if I didn't just be honest with myself and admit that the only reason I'm even talking to a man is because I am actually interested in him. And if I act like I'm not interested and I have better things to do then all I'm doing is playing mind games with him from the beginning. And if that's what men want then it is in my best interest to steer clear of them. I mean let's just be honest what every man wants is a Barbie with huge boobs and a perfect body and who plays hard to get because she can in most women let's just be honest here myself included Don't look like Barbie and we don't have perfect bodies. And I honestly think that after many relationships with many men that want men really want is a Barbie. Of course they want someone with brains too so they can have a conversation once in a while but by a large they want a 10 out of 10 Barbie that is out of reach but who they can conquer and gloat about to their friends. You actually have to be worth something to a man in order for him to see your value. And it seems to me like the only women that are worth anything to men are like rock stars or actresses because they are extremely good looking and they have a lot of money and they are smart. I'm just an average woman who works for minimum wage and according to several men I've asked I'm around a five out of 10 and definitely not worth pursuing. This was a valuable video to me because it made me realize that I was completely wasting my time with men. I should be celibate. Thank you.
I agree , we all are playing mind games here and we all put facades on faces to impress the other party which is so stupid , I have decided I am not going to act any differently just so that a man would like me , just be true to yourself and others and the one who genuinely likes you would like you FOR YOU and not the mask that you are wearing ,cut all the BS ,I also hate pretending what I am not.
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I’m already high value! We are always working on ourselves
Please stop the cheesy wink at the end. Lol, for the love of all things not cheesy! 😂 dear gosh, LOL, that just makes me laugh 😆, it's like what in the hell? What in the hell is that ridiculousness, yo? 🤣 I see it n wonder if I'm back in the 1970s & somebody had put a porno on TV 📺 or something lmao.
1_know your worth
2_limit access to you
3_show your boundaries
4_always be ready to walk away
5_never chase a man
what Ismael says is pretty accurate. My sister and I were planning to find a place together when I met him. I hesitated making him wait but I wanted desperately to see if he would. We saw each other nearly every day from November and December. On December 24th he proposed to me. Was I ready so soon? at 33 years old and never married? I can’t tell it is the right thing to do but I must say it was a little rocky at first. He had not only been married before but had three daughters. He was so sweet and cute too. I desperately tried not to copy my mother. When I did ask him to put his clothes in the hamper and put the toilet seat down after, he didn’t ever need reminded. Wow, I knew this was special. I gave him time to go fishing or work on cars with his friends, not wanting to smother him. We’ve been married 30 years now. We always kiss and hug good night and before he goes to work everyday. He’s my best friend, my ‘soulmate’. Every day starts amazingly. It’s up to you how it ends.
Anyone can say the words "I love you". I always tell my female friends not to listen to what a man says, but to watch what he does. When a man loves a women, she can tell.
You give excellent advice. You now have a new follower.
No one is valuable just by thinking that they are. Everything is relative. I might be valuable for one man and totally worthless for another. If by “working on myself” you mean coming to that realization, then I agree we all need to work on ourselves. Thanks for your valuable videos!
I believe all of us have intrinsic value that has nothing to do with what other people think. But I also want to use kind words to show other people I value them because they exist for a reason. and get results in relationships that are good. So this can be useful. As long as nobody thinks it has anything to do with their intrinsic value. That doesn’t go up and down based on anyone’s evaluation.
@@jasjulkat I absolutely agree we all have intrinsic value. My comment was to be held only in the context of the value a woman’s is able to pose for a man she’s interested in in a relationship. So other than the obvious intrinsic value all people, things, air, mass, molecule or whatever we want to call it have, my statement still holds true. 😍☮️✌️
Absolutely I agree with you
You're wrong. An objectively kind, good, loyal and loving woman is objectively valuable to EVERYONE. Because, if they had her in their life, their life would 100% improve, no matter who they are. Just like precious metals are valuable for everyone. But some people don't like them, that's a different story. When someone preffers silver over platinum, moisanite over diamonds, it doesn't mean that platinum or diamonds wouldn't be valuable to him if he had them. It just means they have their own reasons for preffering the cheaper option.
@@ashley_brown6106 Your statement does not negate mine. We all have value, but unless what you have to offer is appreciated, your value is therefore rejected. No amount of effort would make a man love you simply because because you’re good, kind, loyal and loving. Unfortunately it’s no different from people who like gold but hate silver or like silver but hate gold. We are all valuable, but coming to the realization that some people prefer others, different from us, good and all, is what sets us free.
Appreciate a man speaking up to help women
SAME. He's so smart
I have learnt the hard way showing a man how much I liked him and ignored my instinct initially and now feel ashamed. I recently learned a man will be kept only if he wants to no matter what we do. He told me he couldn't be the rock/right person he wanted to be for me due to travelling and workload but deep down I knew it was invalid excuses. Recently he even put a pic of himself and the girl he is seeing on status knowing well I will see it. I deserve someone who is into me as much as I am into them ❤❤
I’m sorry 😢 yes you do deserve someone who’s into you and you will find him by living your life and following your dreams 🤍
Block him... why keep him on your list of friends....?? Ego .....???
Free yourself from evil, childish, insecure baby boys.
Work on yourself.....make yourself proud, so that you don't feel insecure anymore......love yourself....before loving anyone else
Thank you. I noticed that following these advices became so much easier after I consciously give up waiting for validation or interest from any man I desire, because It was only a rejection wound that made me look for it. Then, I got back the conscious of my high value and rationally let go of any attachment. Following these advices was a natural response of my inner stand. Ladies, we have to be more rational, because putting your heart in every decision will only get It broken.
Beautifully stated 🙏
We have to be more careful and pay attention to red flags. I used to be so naive and saw people in a good light...oh never ever again... we have to test men more carefully ...
I am happy to found you. I am divorced 4 years, look good for my age, educated and very sucessful in work and earn enough for me and child. But love life is disaster. I had no parents so nobody teached me to love my self. That was source of all my problems with man. You have teached me a lot in only 2 videos I have seen today.
I hope you keep finding helpful lessons in my videos. Thanks for watching.
I need to work on myself to make myself more valuable. Not for a man but for myself and to give back to the society that I came from. I've had a lot of traumatic experiences which still give me nightmares. It's like if I take 2 steps forward towards improvement, I'm pulled back by 10 steps. But, I go on no matter what. I constantly keep repeating in my mind that I am healed, I have no traumas, I don't need external validation, I am blessed with a healthy body, a kind heart and a pure soul. I read, exercise, prepare for competitive exams, write research papers, paint, cook, clean, take care of cats, etc. I'm trying my best and I will emerge better than the rest.
Respect you for that 📈
faith in JESUS who is GOD is the best thing you can ever do with the life he gave you , John 3.16 ❤
You will. And ask Jesus to heal you
To answer the question....
You have to do both. You need to have it in your head that you have worth. You also need to put the work into achieving that very worth. But you aren't doing the work for anyone but you.
Seeing is believing and having a good mind set makes the effort possible. Mind, body and soul.
Thanks. I've always struggled to accept that I order to get a husband , you have to "not want" one. That's hard. But that's life.
Every woman is high value, some are just too hurt , suffered trauma in childhood or growing up, that they forgot that they are already high value. I was like that, i grew up with abuse that stood between me and realising that I am already enough and high value and have so much worth in myself. I wish every woman works on herself, her wounds and trauma that she heals herself and realises her value
If you start thinking you are valuable it doesn’t matter if you haven’t start that degree you’ve been thinking about or if your closet is a little messy, you know that you will work on those things because you have the mindset shift and you trust yourself to get where you want to be. This will help you set boundaries too. So yes I think mindset automatically makes you a more higher value woman because you’ll put up with less and be motivated for more within.
When you say " all right beautiful" I smile 😊😁
You’re more valuable by simply thinking you are. Because by thinking it, you will naturally start working on yourself to live a life that matches how you feel about yourself.
That's a quite interesting point. Yet, if you don't take action, thinking that you are won't be enough I'd argue.
IF,...YOU DON'T 'ALREADY' THINK 'I AM VALUABLE',....why do you think someone other than yourself would think it???
Definitely both. I’m a big believer in always working on oneself, and belief is essential for motivation.
I think you show your value by pouring love into yourself and having your own back that you are so full of love that you’re not dependent on anyone else to fulfill this for you.
6:16 you got me subscribed, women need to hear this info, for us to stop making excuses for these players...🙌🏻 I would love to watch the whole session.
I appreciate your direct and clear information.
That in itself has my gratitude. Finally hearing truth of what we need to hear, not what we want to hear. The clip was brilliant I love your no nonsense approach ❤🙏
Respect is the key here 😊❤
You ate genuine person with facts and genuine knowledge
I accept myself the way i am, i know my boundaries.
I do all these things without knowing these are qualities of a high value woman😍
I'm going to comment without even watching this video, what I believe the traits are that men consider high value in a woman. I have NOT watched the video.
1. Establish clear boundaries
2. Have your own interests
3. Do not be afraid to tell him no. ( Do not always cancel or rearrange your own plans to accomodate him).
4. Remain the 'chooser' rather than the 'chaser.' (Men are born hunters. Refrain from texting him repeatedly with no response from him.)
5. Remember that men have feelings and emotions too
Now I'm going to see how close I came. Which I think will be pretty close. And it will strengthen my own belief that it's not what I'm doing wrong, but a real lack of people that are long term material, who have not allowed the disappointments of life to leave them cynical. Show me a decent man my age, who's polite, self aware, makes the most of any situation, and I would be all in. But there are none 😢
I believe we are what we believe. so when we believe we are valuable we are perceived as valuable by others. But that said when we work on ourselves, follow our ambitions and goals our value grows. When we reflect upon our traumas and work through the healing, we become better version of ourselves. so it has to be a right balance of working on ourselves and believing in ourselves. If we simply believe we are the best from a place of arrogance, the facade will soon fall off and if we work on ourselves to fix our value, we will end up feeling more inadequate.
Yes Ismael, I agree partially because values are intrinsic and comes from birth so it doesn’t matter if you have sex on the first, third, tenth date if he really likes you he will stay by your side no matter what. And about the boundaries, same thing happens, if he is into you, it doesn’t matter if you change your opinion, say one thing and does another, most men are confusing and don’t know what they want, so why should women be different?
Hi Ismael, I really appreciate everything you have to say on relationships men/women and believe me, when I listen to you I don’t do any other things 😉. I like your values and how clear you express them and yourself 👌🏼👏🏼
Your videos are truly valuable, I love it. I was deeply codependent for a long time in my life and I didn’t do any of this, I‘ve been a match to guys that ghosted me and all that stuff. Slowly but surely I‘ve been finding back to my selfworth and I think I made so much progress and now I can see myself resonating with many of the points. I will continue seeing myself as valuable everyday and when the next guy comes I will be so happy to stay in my feminine energy and let him pursue me ❤ Only givers from now on and nothing less 🎉
Your advice helps me a lot and thanks to that I think I've been able to understand my value much better and found myself someone who values my true self. Thank you💜
Hi Ismael, thanks for your videos, I only stumbled on it today. You have a gentle yet subtle way of conducting your tips. 🌹
Much appreciated.
I love to listen to this guy, easy to understand❤
Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
I'm 28 years into a marriage that I committed a lot of the mistakes you've have spoken of... In the past few years I've realized none of it worked and he can't understand how/why I've changed and what happened to me... Anyway, I wish I would have had access to this info 25 years ago for sure! Lots of time wasted 😢
Wow, the way you explain everything resonates with me so well. Thanks
Dropping truth bombs. Thank you
Thank you for this very helpful information!
Hi Ismael ..i am from india and i want to thank you..for all the answers I am searching for years ..😊i wish you all the best for your future
Thank you dear. I'm glad you find my content helpful.
Timely advise here. Thank you!
I consider your advice very useful in the sense of honesty and reality, I find them applicable in my life and I kind of identify myself while I make comparison of myself version before and confident version now, thanks very much for making this kind of content, it truly helps and by the way I kind of like so much your English 😅
I appreciate the kind words. I'm glad you find the videos helpful.
i think i need to work on my self to get to the right place
Oouf! That short clip you inserted turned me into a new subscriber. Truth was spoken!
Same here
Excellent.
The deep deep truth behind this:
1. Heal inner wounds that affect your self love, self worth and self respect so that you won't subconsciously seek to heal yourself through him
2. You should never make him the center of your world, be yourself and be the center of your own life , sounds obvious but we often give men more attention and energy than we should. Turn that attention and energy to your own growth and development on all levels of life
3. Once you're on the healing journey and focused on your improvement and love yourself and your life the man who is aligned with you will show up automatically ❤
Wow, what a progress in 4 years!
Thank you for this valuable information. You. Are 💯 correct. ❤
That was great advice you have that woman. I am guilty of that myself. I'm not very good at turning away. I wish I was. Even when I know it, hurting someone makes me feel bad. I think he banks on that. It's all very confusing to me.
Constant self evolution should always be important. I am never the same person I was yesterday.
No, I need work, I've neglected myself as far as a relationship goes. Now that I have watched your video, I'm moving forward. I'm going to try and watch every video you have made, maybe I'll be an expert, hahaha thanks
It takes time. You have to be brutally honest with yourself and listen to guys like this. He's telling the truth. Best wishes to you.
I've been in a long distance relationship for 3+ years, it's very hard, sometimes my insecurities step out, he assures me that he's never cheated on me, I've never spoken to him on the phone we communicate on a dating site, he's a Psychologist for autistic children and reason being that we don't talk on the phone is what he told me. I told him you can get a different email, because this site is expensive, he trusts this dating site more than he does me? I don't know if it's true, I want to believe him, sometimes red flags creep out, too long to explain, I just don't know, it breaks my heart to think any thing different.
@@leighannfleming8670 Just keep in mind: He can be anyone he wants to be online. I'm just going to leave that right here.
The gold analogy is so on point
It starts with thinking, and finding things you enjoy and build on your values.. what you value is unique to you.. so find the meaning in life and build from there, being transparent and honest with you needs wants and desires..
Your videos truly inspire me and helps me stay true to myself. Tq
Thank you for the great advice...I like watching your videos because your are smart and the advice your speak is common sense..you are helping us women...
I appreciate your kind words.
I need to work on myself n need to learn more traits to value myself.
Dude I can't believe how young you are with all this knowledge . Great job!
I have a question; would approaching a guy I like and introducing myself be chasing him, or were you referring to more like, begging him to come back after a breakup?
Think about it as a dance. Chasing is when you're taking 3 steps consecutively and he hasn't even moved.
You whole aura changes the more valuable you think you are, i can feel a man’s value from the way he speaks and interact.. question is why am I not attractinh high value man when I am high value woman?
Thanks you. Vidhya
U r a good person n u explain very well I'm from India yes what u say makes sense gotta apply it to oneself n get the feeling that things work out right. 🌹
The first one.... all the way with the 2nd one as a tune up
God bless you, Thank you.
Thank you for making this video.
My pleasure dear.
thanks for this video it's really eye opening
Wow! All of this really hit home for me. Thanks for this fascinating look into the male mind!
Thank you so much!
You are a dear man. 4 years ago, I can guarantee you were a dear man as well. I suspect your confidence only surfaced after you felt you had earned it. For me, it's what is going on in a person's head and heart is what really matters.
Loved it 7:32
Thank you for sharing with us the picture of you 4 years ago
Awesome submission Ishmael; all the best guys🎉🙏🏽
6:30 ur answer opened my third eye🌞
Great video! 👍
Thank you Sir
Wonderful, love it❤
Great insights thank you
Thank you..
i am so valuable that i need to work on myself
Thank youuu❤
God bless💯🙏❤️🥰
❤❤❤ Thank you. 🙏🏻
I use to be proud of my worth but got shot down after 30 yrs of someone who found out as he told me he "never loved me"...😢
Focus on yourself and your dreams and to being the best version of yourself keep learning and it will follow haha ❤.
1. Know your worth, face challenges, accomplish difficult goals, check your frequency vibes and energy.
2. Limit access to you-out of reach, make him wait and work for it. Build a life of excitement and fun and goals first.
3. Show your boundaries- the power of saying no.
4. Always be ready to walk away
5. Never chase a man- I think you need to work on yourself and figure things out it was nice getting to know you
Love you .... thanks so much
Thank You.
Like the last high value Ismael, it’s helped watching my favourite comedian today Sarah Milligan , and her words ring true in my mind ,”If you don’t like me the way I am , the Fuck off !” How true that is in all situations 😂😂😂
Well trees and plants bloom only when they are prepared.
Thank u ismael
Excellent❤
Cooking, Cleaning, Playful, Elegant, Say a lot with your facial expressions and body language, be a great judge of character, yet expect a man to take care of you.
New subscriber here 👍🏾, I WISH I found you years ago.
Welcome aboard.
Iove it❤❤❤
Just I love ❤️
Great
Woooh thkz
Thzk
So no matter what , value is based on what your person believes it is? Not what I believe it is, but what they see in me?
So basically you're telling me that I wasn't good enough just being myself. That myself just isn't going to be good enough for a man That's what you're saying. You're saying that I need to act differently than who I am in order to become a high value woman for some man. You're saying I need to play hard to get. I mean that is what you're saying because I would be lying to myself if I didn't just be honest with myself and admit that the only reason I'm even talking to a man is because I am actually interested in him. And if I act like I'm not interested and I have better things to do then all I'm doing is playing mind games with him from the beginning. And if that's what men want then it is in my best interest to steer clear of them.
I mean let's just be honest what every man wants is a Barbie with huge boobs and a perfect body and who plays hard to get because she can in most women let's just be honest here myself included Don't look like Barbie and we don't have perfect bodies.
And I honestly think that after many relationships with many men that want men really want is a Barbie. Of course they want someone with brains too so they can have a conversation once in a while but by a large they want a 10 out of 10 Barbie that is out of reach but who they can conquer and gloat about to their friends.
You actually have to be worth something to a man in order for him to see your value. And it seems to me like the only women that are worth anything to men are like rock stars or actresses because they are extremely good looking and they have a lot of money and they are smart.
I'm just an average woman who works for minimum wage and according to several men I've asked I'm around a five out of 10 and definitely not worth pursuing.
This was a valuable video to me because it made me realize that I was completely wasting my time with men. I should be celibate. Thank you.
I agree , we all are playing mind games here and we all put facades on faces to impress the other party which is so stupid , I have decided I am not going to act any differently just so that a man would like me , just be true to yourself and others and the one who genuinely likes you would like you FOR YOU and not the mask that you are wearing ,cut all the BS ,I also hate pretending what I am not.
I dated a man who sees a woman has high status or has good money is high value woman. So I let him go out to find those women.
It is hard to discover that you were with the wrong person 😔😔😔
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Ha ha
If u make ur guy wait for a single kiss for too long , he will find another women for free kisses.
And those are the guys you should usually avoid.
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