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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2022
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    In this storytime, we're going to talk about one of the most significant topics of our lives: race. We'll explore the way race has affected our relationship over the years, and talk about some tips for building a more successful interracial relationship.
    Whether you're newly dating or have been together for a while, this storytime is guaranteed to help you grow and develop your relationship in the best possible way. Sit back, relax, and let's talk!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 564

  • @childressgiles7626
    @childressgiles7626 Рік тому +228

    Thanks for sharing. I'm a BW in a WM/BW Marriage. We met online, got married within 3 days and we have been married for some years now. Not everyone approves, but we were not expecting them to, therefore we thrived as a couple because we had already educated ourselves on race prospective mindsets. Our authentic desires to be together, plus our love for each other, along with the fact our race differences was not a hindrance to each other, made us conquerors. We removed all negative people from our lives if their views was constant toxicity. The public will always try to give their opinions. They will stir to get your attention, but ignore them and live your best lives together in love. Nothing can stop you two but yourselves. I am cheering for you two to thrive like us. 🙌🙌😇😇💕💕

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +20

      What an awesome journey ❤ thank you for sharing ✨

    • @beaniesonna3052
      @beaniesonna3052 Рік тому +44

      Wow married in 3 days!

    • @caroladams2074
      @caroladams2074 Рік тому

      I always believe that when the creation of Gods people came about as a human race I never saw any of his as a white person but as Caucasian people because when the melanin hit it made Brown, Caucasian, Maloto, and if white people were created where are they. if white people looked like Casper the friendly ghost or a white piece of paper they would really be in trouble because they would look like dead people. I can't call what I don't see and this was a name these people on themselves not society.

    • @OnPointWithIt
      @OnPointWithIt Рік тому +38

      @@beaniesonna3052 Most background checks don’t come back in 3 days. 😂😂😂😂.

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 Рік тому +7

      How long have you guys been married? Wow. What convinced you after 3 days?

  • @lana8305
    @lana8305 Рік тому +405

    She's beautiful and he's handsome. They seem like lovely people. I love to see black women thriving, being loved as we should and overall winning.

    • @songoku64
      @songoku64 Рік тому

      I would like to see them thriving only when they are with a white man huh? Just asking

    • @BSOG3
      @BSOG3 Рік тому +12

      As well to see white men thriving and being loved as they should. White women have for years dated Black men which is a form of rejecting white men. White men are also winning.

    • @songoku64
      @songoku64 Рік тому +5

      @BSOG3 huh? Well they have been winning since day one!! The majority of white women still love their white man. And I know this because as a black man I've always thought since white women now date black men, and I'm talking about back in the day I thought it was going to be a trend. But the more and more I started to see white women still choose their white man was still astounding, not saying it's a bad thing but still astounding. They was liking they're white man like they never had one before it was almost like trying somebody from a different culture but however they're both white and I see how white women were caress and love their white men just like how black women are doing that they've always been winning. The white women that were dating black men was doing it out of something new to try. Every time I grew up with the white girl that was dating black dudes I was like okay she's cool because one I thought she understood the culture don't think that it was better cuz she was with us, I just said okay she has a sense of understanding that's how I always looked at it. But for the most part she will be dating Pookie and Ray-Ray and when she grew up cuz we all grew up together she will always end up marrying a white man for the most part that is. But once a black woman go to these white man they still stay with them.

    • @tuka24a
      @tuka24a Рік тому +6

      I always said a white male will date a black sis if he really likes her. the reason we see more white ladies dating black men is because they are more open to accept others. While white male are afraid to assume black ladies due to skin complexity. For the black ladies who are looking for love please don’t chose a male by skin colour or money .Pray to Jesus to bless you with the right one. The first interracial marriaged couple in the UA-cam couple no longer are together. So don’t expose yourself too much . The secrete of a blessing life is too keep great moments within your loved ones . God bless you all 🙏🥰

    • @aye927
      @aye927 Рік тому

      It's over

  • @lelasmalls8958
    @lelasmalls8958 Рік тому +441

    Sweetheart! You two look 👀 beautiful together, as for race there is only one race, and that’s the human race, God created a race of people, but he decided to give his race of people different colors, so if God is impartial so should we, and love ❤️ one for whom they are, remember, one race, the human race, but many colors in that race!!!❤️🙏🏾😊🥰👩🏽👨‍🦰

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +22

      So true🤍✨

    • @eloisejackson4303
      @eloisejackson4303 Рік тому +21

      Well said we are one race the human race.

    • @sg2570
      @sg2570 Рік тому +22

      True, we are one race,
      The Human race made up of different cultures.
      Relationships are a beautiful thing whether they be intercultural or not.
      It is a blessing when someone finds or meets that beautiful unique individual. Betwwen which there is love, respect, communication and togetherness.

    • @eloisejackson4303
      @eloisejackson4303 Рік тому +10

      @@sg2570 I agree

    • @jamiebrumant8512
      @jamiebrumant8512 Рік тому +12

      Amen

  • @syork6149
    @syork6149 Рік тому +118

    Super sweet. I have been with my husband for 20 years and have three kids. I am Asian and my husband is mix Black/White. Our kids are a great mixture of all three race. I wish you happiness in your future life together.

    • @luckyrabbit2
      @luckyrabbit2 Рік тому +14

      Very similar mix. My hubby is half Singaporean half German and I’m Haitian-American. We’re celebrating 20 yrs in July. He’s my best friend. I am blessed. 😊

    • @nancynahnigoh3550
      @nancynahnigoh3550 Рік тому

      Congrats , I am from mixed marriage both Asian from the south Asian , we married for 42 years till now

  • @MsLeefisher
    @MsLeefisher Рік тому +63

    Daughter met her fiancé on Tinder 4 years ago. They’re getting married in March. They are an interracial couple, with an interracial couple as parents, and an interracial couple on one side as grand parents. Life is a beautiful thing when you find “the one” :) My parents got married in 1935. The world was “rough” to say the least back then.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +13

      What an awesome story. Thank you for supporting!

  • @YTWorldTraveler
    @YTWorldTraveler Рік тому +9

    My wife of 20 years is Black (Jamaican). We have 2 sons. We had a similar experience to yours.

  • @josephgreene4174
    @josephgreene4174 Рік тому +139

    I'm here for interracial relationships that are healthy and based on a premise of love AND true compatibility vs.a 'preference' or a perceived status. They are a stunning couple. I noticed that Dillion dropped a couple black references and wondered how much exposure he's had with black culture prior to this relationship.

    • @kiwanacabrera366
      @kiwanacabrera366 Рік тому

      It's NY! You can't go anywhere here without being exposed to Black people! Even the most uptight white person has a lot of exposure to Black folks. It's not perfect, but I love my city.

    • @sashisoon8950
      @sashisoon8950 Рік тому +21

      I love my man. We met on match. He’s white and I don’t see color. 7 months strong. We went about meeting up safely. His mom said, “ I’ve been praying for a woman like you for my son.” We take good care of each other! ❤

    • @sashisoon8950
      @sashisoon8950 Рік тому +8

      Happy for the both of you.

    • @Heartsfor4u
      @Heartsfor4u Рік тому +4

      @@sashisoon8950 you are so lucky. I have tried almost all dating sites but I have never had any luck. Currently on match now. But still nothing. Happy for you. 😊

    • @ILuvMyBrwnSkin
      @ILuvMyBrwnSkin Рік тому +1

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @deb6828
    @deb6828 Рік тому +26

    I hope you grow old together. You are a beautiful couple. Keep your love alive.

  • @ceciliaparker6291
    @ceciliaparker6291 Рік тому +68

    You two are so cute together!🥰 I have said all my life, that although there are different Ethnicities, there is only One race. That is Human🙌🏽

    • @ndayakabuya483
      @ndayakabuya483 Рік тому +1

      Yes ! I was scrolling the comments to see if someone would correct. I am in a interracial relationship also. You are a beautiful and happy couple!!!!!

  • @bigred1120
    @bigred1120 Рік тому +16

    They seem like two people with a lot of emotional intelligence. Their focus on communication and not worrying about what others think is great advice for any relationship, regardless of racial makeup. They are luckly that their families are cool. Not all interracial couples have that benefit.

  • @DouradaBambina
    @DouradaBambina Рік тому +29

    Beautiful! I’m an Afro Brazilian married to a Canadian and never felt so comfortable and loved. Skin tone can’t be the deal breaker element for compatibility and building a solid relationship.

  • @ellag8068
    @ellag8068 Рік тому +78

    Seeing you both gives me hope for my two young daughters. I am so happy that you both found one another!

    • @gutchiespencer1227
      @gutchiespencer1227 Рік тому +3

      If you're hoping they won't have issues like poverty, racism, abuse etc, that comes with every race.....

  • @sda141
    @sda141 Рік тому +6

    My son and his girlfriend look like this couple. I love this generation for being open. 💕💜💜💕

  • @876me7
    @876me7 28 днів тому +2

    Their children are gonna be absolutely stunningly beautiful. Wow what gorgeous people!

  • @knowledgebornunderstanding8826
    @knowledgebornunderstanding8826 Рік тому +50

    As a black man who grew up in Brooklyn, I don’t see why you need to explain your relationship to anyone focus on each other not on outside idiots who’s life is empty and full of envy. Stay true and loyal to each other and the universe will continue to bless you. As for your haters f’ them they will always hate no matter how hard you try to explain to them! Peace and blessings to you.

    • @LisaLee__
      @LisaLee__ Рік тому +4

      Dude, outside of the 5 boros of NY, interacial couples raise eyebrows and really upset people. Its weird I know. If youre born and raised here, its so normal and natural but its not like that in any other place in the world.

    • @knowledgebornunderstanding8826
      @knowledgebornunderstanding8826 Рік тому +5

      @@LisaLee__ where do you travel to?
      I’ve been 17 countries including 3 on the African continent and have not seen any problems with interracial couples
      Germany, Russia Poland Ukraine Czech
      Rwanda Uganda Tanzania Italy Thailand
      To name a few and I didn’t see any problems
      Stop the hijack of this couple’s happiness

    • @LisaLee__
      @LisaLee__ Рік тому +4

      @@knowledgebornunderstanding8826 that's awesome, what a dope life. I have 0 clue why you're taking whatever I said in such a way, it's not how I meant anything. I have a biracial child and married and dated out of my race since middle school. I have had the occasional messed up thing said usually to the white or Asian guy i was with, fights even diffraction times to different guys. Thats my experience. I guess im telling you because, well idk what i said that you're responding to but i certainly am not disparaging this couple! God bless them! Bye!

    • @LisaLee__
      @LisaLee__ Рік тому +2

      @@knowledgebornunderstanding8826 oh, well yeah you cant honestly have traveled to all of these places and not seen how uncomfortable people are with interacial couples. You're lying. So why? Idk but i also don't care

  • @blakeaaron5698
    @blakeaaron5698 Рік тому +5

    Y’all are going to have the most beautiful kiddos

  • @lillie2917
    @lillie2917 Рік тому +10

    The colour of skin comes in different shades, but the colour of blood is one!

    • @bernardbrooks3935
      @bernardbrooks3935 Місяць тому

      So true. The life is in the blood. God is loves the color of skin should not matter. Love this couple. God bless you always.

  • @LadyAstarionAncunin
    @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +8

    I always say that a relationship should start with a friendship. That helps ensure that you can have a strong foundation that's not primarily built on attraction but on openness and trust and reliability.

  • @ladonnawashington1643
    @ladonnawashington1643 Рік тому +42

    This makes me smile broadly. Best wishes for a long union.

  • @YTWorldTraveler
    @YTWorldTraveler Рік тому +4

    Welcome to FL! I live in South FL, on the east coast.

  • @michelleezell2189
    @michelleezell2189 Рік тому +11

    Your husband definitely handsome. Win win. Beautiful couple.

  • @teniola9304
    @teniola9304 Рік тому +9

    I don't pay too much to the negativity towards Interracialism. Because I LOVE it then and I still love ❤️. Always will.
    Congratulations 🎊 👏🏿 💐 to you both.

  • @peeteeonutee10
    @peeteeonutee10 Рік тому +16

    Sounds like a love connection to me. Stay together forever!!!!!

  • @realnewstalkshow6389
    @realnewstalkshow6389 Рік тому +10

    In Love is not race its joy and happiness! Congratulations

  • @AnnNico
    @AnnNico Рік тому +15

    Fellow "met online/interracial couple" here ! Just subscribed 😊
    We agree it’s so important to be true to yourself and to be open to meeting a partner no matter their background. That’s truly what makes life special, is a love with no boundaries (especially in terms of race, religion, etc)! xxx

  • @ToniHopeLive
    @ToniHopeLive Рік тому +3

    My husband is a Hill Billy from Ohio and I’m an Army brat lol night and day! We meet on POG 12yrs ago. I’m so happy for you both God bless💕🙏🏾💕

  • @tinadavis566
    @tinadavis566 Рік тому +11

    You make a beautiful couple don't let race interfere in your relationship you just stick together even what family members and no one can come between you.

  • @KathleenVWalterRLott
    @KathleenVWalterRLott 9 місяців тому +4

    We love you both.... Keep on thriving together no matter what race you are.....

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  9 місяців тому

      Thank you!! ❤️

  • @bettybryant913
    @bettybryant913 Рік тому +10

    CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT. YOU ARE A BLESSED COUPLE

    • @ThePrinceOfTheTalkbox
      @ThePrinceOfTheTalkbox Рік тому

      would u call them Blessed .. if it was a pretty white woman with a FINE black man? .. nope

  • @roselynbrickenstein1005
    @roselynbrickenstein1005 Рік тому +8

    This is a beautiful love story, been married for 22 years now hope you guys get to stay together for a long time. Love is love has no race or color

  • @anna-mayramnarine875
    @anna-mayramnarine875 Рік тому +4

    interracial relationships/marriages are the best it's the most beautiful thing for me i love love it GOD BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH..

  • @sayawills8518
    @sayawills8518 Рік тому +33

    So nice to meet you Both! Thank you for sharing your lives with us!😇❤️🙏🏽

  • @patricialegare6847
    @patricialegare6847 Рік тому +19

    Good for y'all. Quiet the noise. Keep loving each other. I will be 60 years old and in my younger days I always dated white guys but my dad always told me if I married a white guy he would disown me, so I never did. I can tell those guys loved me. Now I am not afraid, it is never too late to love.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +2

      I agree Patricia, thanks for sharing and supporting!

  • @karenhodges4933
    @karenhodges4933 Рік тому +8

    Congrats to you guys!! Dylan is superrr cute! I met my husband online in 2018 and we got married in 2019. You go girl!!

  • @Own.lee.who.men.516
    @Own.lee.who.men.516 Рік тому +5

    D@mn he fine! 🥰🥰🥰. Congratulations on your engagement! 💍💒

  • @howardamberealestate
    @howardamberealestate Рік тому +15

    It’s really heartwarming to hear you guys share your experience because when I was in Highschool, I was in an Interracial relationship with a girl whose mother didn’t like me just because of the color of my skin, and it traumatized both her and I for a While. Till this day it still stresses me out thinking about it. It gives me hope because shows me things are changing and hopefully people in the future won’t have to through what me and my Ex girlfriend went through in Highschool.

  • @barbarabenford1172
    @barbarabenford1172 Рік тому +12

    I commend this couple for the way they looked and handled their relationship. Blessings bestowed upon your relationship, engagement and hopefully marriage.

  • @MBmysterio
    @MBmysterio Рік тому +1

    I discovered this channel when randomly browsing videos. I'm going to check out Gallow Green since I live in NYC. Edit: I'm still watching this and taking notes at the same time.

  • @ms.inspiration385
    @ms.inspiration385 Рік тому +18

    UA-cam recommended your video. You two are beautiful together. May your relationship continue to prosper and may you both grow old together. Love your vibe!

  • @pinkysegolabeng3576
    @pinkysegolabeng3576 Рік тому +12

    This channel popped up and I love it
    I love you too
    So chilled.....God bless you

  • @ruthf.gordon5787
    @ruthf.gordon5787 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful couple and congratulations! God Bless you both today and always. Love, love, love, always! No matter what! Love always wins when all is said and done in the end. I’m from Papua New Guinea, a dark skin woman, married to my White American husband - will be 32 year anniversary this year. It was Love at first sight, asked me to marry him after my 2nd visit to see him (4 days total). Through many trials and tribulations, bad enough to tear us apart, but because of LOVE We made it this far! And because of LOVE, we plan on making it till death do us apart. 😍

  • @tarahearly3593
    @tarahearly3593 Рік тому +12

    Congratulations on your engagement! I hope the day will come when race is not an issue when it comes to the friendships we make and the relationships we have. I don't understand racism especially because each race has all types of people.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому

      I agree and thank you for your support 🤎😌

  • @tspann9613
    @tspann9613 Рік тому +26

    Love the analogy! Blessings to you both!

  • @eileengineitis6721
    @eileengineitis6721 Рік тому +43

    I think your channel will be a success. You’re both open, you’re both attractive (let’s be honest, that matters in social media) and it’ll be fun to watch your progression. Glad to have found you!

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for the support 🤍✨

  • @johningardia2088
    @johningardia2088 Рік тому +3

    My wife is black and I'm white. We have five children 45 years down to 34. We went years without seeing other couples like us. It was very different back then. I've was fired from a job, slap by an old women I didn't know. So much more.

    • @kelsilulu
      @kelsilulu 8 місяців тому +2

      Whoaaa that’s intense I’m so sorry you went through that

  • @baje10312
    @baje10312 Рік тому +5

    Dude, listening to you two talk is awesome. You remind me of how my husband and I view things. We are both black but from different cultures. In a lot of ways we walk the same path but our perspectives are wildly different. Being able to talk in a non- judgmental way is key to the strength of our relationship. Also we are bluntly honest about everything. Sometimes that means hurt feelings, but we have learned to disagree in a way that just feels like a conversation.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому

      You are so right! Thank you for your support ❤️❤️

  • @sdavis6456
    @sdavis6456 Рік тому +30

    I love this! So glad that your channel popped up in my feed. You both look great together and I wish you both happiness. I’m a BW who met a WW and we were together 25 years before cancer took her from me 3 years ago. She was my best friend and I have the same sentiments as you about race. It was not an issue for us either. I would love to see more videos from you guys! 😊

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +3

      I'm sorry to hear that! Life is short and love should be love without color. Thank you for your support and sharing your story ✨

  • @TheSTALLIONESS
    @TheSTALLIONESS Рік тому +15

    Being consistent and mindful will literally make someone stand out like a bright star. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeing race and the differences and yet still learning snd supporting each other on a human level. I enjoyed this video. You’re both gorgeous. ❤

    • @pearlljewels7330
      @pearlljewels7330 Рік тому +2

      I appreciate your comment. We all see color and it's nothing wrong with that.
      We were created to see and enjoy color. It's a gift.

  • @laurawiley288
    @laurawiley288 Рік тому +15

    YESSSSS I AM HAPPY FOR MINA AND DYLAN ALL LIVES MATTERS 💖

  • @kathie1499
    @kathie1499 Рік тому +7

    They are beautiful. I have all colors in my family. My family skin tone’s are from really dark skin tones to white. It’s nice that my family is really accepting. Love is Love is Love. TRUE LOVE DOESNT DISCRIMINATE ❤❤❤❤

  • @deb6828
    @deb6828 Рік тому +10

    Pray your love is forever. You are a great beautiful couple.

  • @soniag295
    @soniag295 Рік тому +22

    Amazing content, i am so happy for you both Congratulations on your engagement,,

  • @emguilbe
    @emguilbe Рік тому +1

    Hey Hi from New Tampa, Fl. Well, being born and raised in Brooklyn New York myself, it’s common to date others of different race, religion, background , etc. I’m Puerto Rican and raced in diversity! Beautiful couple! Blessings and best wishes for a lifetime ♥️♥️

  • @lennyakuku8971
    @lennyakuku8971 Рік тому +6

    U both r a wonderful couple.
    U even appear to b cool-headed people who genuinely love/respect each other.
    Have a blessed relationship ❤️ 🙏

  • @kazochrymowicz3076
    @kazochrymowicz3076 Рік тому +4

    You are an amazing couple. The things that matter is love of two people. Everyone else shouldn’t get involved. I’m married going on 35 years to Dominican lady. I do see good vibes coming from both of you. Congratulations and bless you.❤

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому

      That's awesome 35 strong years✨ thank you for your support 😌

  • @franklinbrathwaite1256
    @franklinbrathwaite1256 Рік тому +2

    MY SISTAH THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING HIM TO LOVE AND HEAL YOU

  • @CBaller2020
    @CBaller2020 Рік тому +1

    Wow!!! You two are going to have BEAUTIFUL children, eventually, of course.
    Get married, have fun for a while, and then have kids. That's the best advice I can give...26 years married this August.

  • @patty3451
    @patty3451 Рік тому +4

    My daughter met her husband online, not sure if was Tender, but I'm very pleased with their union. I wish you the best in your future marriage❤❤❤

  • @lucyakomiah9306
    @lucyakomiah9306 Рік тому +12

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful 😍 love story…. Wishes you guys the best

  • @RHIdezigned
    @RHIdezigned Рік тому +7

    Y'all are TOO CUTE!! 😭❤️
    May God bless your togetherness.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому +1

      Thank you love ✨☺️

  • @ihavethots1261
    @ihavethots1261 2 місяці тому +1

    you both have very calm, balanced energy. that's rare.

  • @millie8311
    @millie8311 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for making this video you guys remind me so much of my relationship when I met him at school and we are still going strong for 4years now it's just sometimes hard here in South Africa people are always looking at us when we in public there was a time I did not even wanna go shopping with him but I think the older you get the more you don't give a f anymore this video is so inspiring

  • @nighni459
    @nighni459 Рік тому +16

    Great story. Wishing you all the best moving forwards.

  • @victoriaf.6078
    @victoriaf.6078 Рік тому +2

    Thank you both for sharing your love. You're such an attractive couple. At 53 I'm a widow and desire another opportunity at love

  • @meliamedaverman3558
    @meliamedaverman3558 Рік тому +25

    My husband is black and race doesn't affect our relationship because we BOTH do not care what anybody including family says. As long we allow what people thinks and their opinions of us come in our life it will have an affect. Our MINDSET need changing when it comes to people opinions. Give them NO rooms in your heart with their racism and hatred.

  • @maebryant1864
    @maebryant1864 Рік тому +2

    you are a beautiful couple. l watch different racing on line it beautiful to see. congratulations be you.FRANCES

  • @lorrainea.285
    @lorrainea.285 Рік тому +8

    OH MY GOD!!!! That is a FINE man😫😫 & you are GORGEOUS!!! My husband is Irish & Italian🥰

  • @billangel2626
    @billangel2626 Рік тому +16

    Beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @daisymay3321
    @daisymay3321 Рік тому +9

    Congratulations on your engagement. You make a beautiful couple!

  • @joanevelyn5490
    @joanevelyn5490 Рік тому +2

    I'm new here and i already loving you guys sending hugs from Barbados just do you and God will do the rest❤

  • @kelleshamorris-adams9640
    @kelleshamorris-adams9640 Рік тому +2

    I like your idea of alternating date nights! Great tips in your reflection.

  • @loishunter1140
    @loishunter1140 Рік тому +1

    The Universe gives us permission that was millions of years ago. Love, Love and more Love is the greatest gift of all!

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg5819 Рік тому +8

    Beautiful couple. Sending you love from South Africa.

  • @nubiandivegirl3316
    @nubiandivegirl3316 Рік тому +1

    Our heart doesn't know color...we should all get out of our heads more...we'd probably find the love that we desire. You guys are a beautiful couple. Best of luck.

  • @shirlenewilcher1415
    @shirlenewilcher1415 Рік тому +5

    Love is color blind and you two were meant to be God only knows who our mate is and who we are supposed to be with and you guys truly were meant to be together God used social media so continue to be bless and wish both nothing but happiness ♥️🙏

    • @erlebnislernen5185
      @erlebnislernen5185 Рік тому +2

      I don't believe this as I love my dark brown husband, he is so handsome, sweet and,❤️❤️❤️❤️ and our mixed sons are so handsome! Yet my husband is the sweetest to look at. I am not color blind, I love the color or the best man I could have gotten.

  • @ministerg1258
    @ministerg1258 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful couple.May ALMIGHTY bless you both.

  • @marlynmorgan3658
    @marlynmorgan3658 Рік тому +8

    I subscribed immediately after watching! A very 'delightful' video!😊. And you're both so easy on the eyes and ears. And your diction....Good Lord, amazing! Looking forward to watching all your videos to come. See you again soon! 🥰❤❤

  • @leslietiwari8625
    @leslietiwari8625 Рік тому +2

    If There's chemistry, that's what's important.
    .

  • @Ravenovah
    @Ravenovah Рік тому +5

    Congratulations on your engagement,, ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @mimiramsey7147
    @mimiramsey7147 Рік тому +1

    Amazing couples don’t worry what we think, just love each other100 percent met each other needs, ready to make love all the time, never go to bed angry never talk bad about your marriage. God is love. God bless both of you. I am very happy for both of you.

  • @denisehurst5854
    @denisehurst5854 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations on your engagement and may Jehovah, God bless your union of marriage and may you have many years together.

  • @ceceliadavis1999
    @ceceliadavis1999 Рік тому +4

    I am happy for you guys because you are living your best lives and not letting society tell you how to do it. Keep sharing your truth with us ❤️

  • @angelenarobinson6745
    @angelenarobinson6745 Рік тому +4

    I hope that they both have a wonderful relationship. They look so cute together. I like them.

  • @nomondemlambo9600
    @nomondemlambo9600 Рік тому +5

    Wow you guys are beautiful, that was my first thought when I started this video and then remembered that I had to listen to your story time 😅. Your story just gave me new hope about Tinder

  • @queenljay5859
    @queenljay5859 Рік тому +3

    Hello I am watching this channel for the first time....I Appreciate you both for sharing....You are a Beautiful Couple...I wish you both the very best...God Bless you both 😊 💖 ❤️

  • @CLDRICH1
    @CLDRICH1 Рік тому +5

    Thx for sharing your wonderful journey together, growing from good friends, to partners to fiancees now. And yes his parents are 'pretty much hippies', and they want your happiness always. ✌️❤️🙏😘

  • @Lisa-kz7vw
    @Lisa-kz7vw Рік тому +14

    You guy's are so cute, I love how you met all dating sites have a bad reputation these days, I hear so many good stories like this you just gotta be cautious and make smart decisions when meeting and dating people gotta weed out the bad.

    • @Pecan_Tan
      @Pecan_Tan  Рік тому

      Thank you ❤️ And I agree!

  • @namastea
    @namastea Рік тому +1

    Both of you look gorgeous ! It's evident it was meant to be 💜💜💜

  • @LeeLeeWilliams-1908
    @LeeLeeWilliams-1908 Рік тому +6

    Awww beautiful couple 🥰 congratulations on your engagement ☺️

  • @tinap9787
    @tinap9787 Рік тому +1

    Like # 4.3k plus 1, thank you both so much for sharing your story. I've been interracially married for 27 yrs & we are the proud parents of 20 yr old fraternal twins. We, like the two of you, have never given a thought to what anyone may say or think about us. We honestly do not care. Congrats on becoming engaged, I wish you both many more years of love, happiness & togetherness. Thank you both for sharing & making me smile. Tina in Cali

  • @paulapeeler3157
    @paulapeeler3157 Рік тому +7

    I love it! You two sound like you're going in the right direction... 🥰

  • @yvonnewhitfield2382
    @yvonnewhitfield2382 Рік тому +2

    U both are a beautiful couple I wish a happy life together God blessu both

  • @annetteredd2976
    @annetteredd2976 Рік тому +9

    Your such a great couple. God bless your marriage.

  • @babyshy85
    @babyshy85 Рік тому +7

    So sweet! 🥰 Wish you both a lifetime of happiness

  • @myrnasymes1536
    @myrnasymes1536 Рік тому +5

    You both have a wonderful spirit together

  • @chrissiec2123
    @chrissiec2123 Рік тому +1

    Y'all are both so gorgeous, I am gobsmacked!

  • @fredricalowe9871
    @fredricalowe9871 Рік тому +2

    Congrats on your engagement. Keep the date nights going throughout your relationship.
    I love your two together you all look great as a couple. Did not let race or hater get into your love story.
    Good luck.

  • @wlachappelle
    @wlachappelle Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful couple, i wish you all the happiness in the world

  • @smallfootprint2961
    @smallfootprint2961 Рік тому +2

    Love the diner story, how you met, etcetera. How you communicate and trade off on planning dates is wonderful. You guys are a great example to anyone wanting to have a good relationship.

  • @claritywithkj2509
    @claritywithkj2509 Рік тому +4

    I love your authenticity and genuine regard for each other. Beautiful couple. You must post video of the nuptials!