I too am a German married to a Zulu woman. The Lobola process was an amazing process of discovery of the culture which I loved. Haters are gonna hate. Steel yourselves and your hearts against them and believe in yourselves. God bless. Ps keep your clothes ironed Emmet 😅
Prayers for your continued happiness! I’m Dutch married to a black man from Barbados; we’ve been married over 50 years. Your personalities are similar to ours in the anxious vs calm. I call him the logical, I’m the emotional. Our shared sense of humor is the best part of our relationship. Don’t worry about stares or ugliness…they don’t pay your way in life!
Thank you for the warm wishes! 🙏❤️ Your love story is truly inspiring, and it’s great to hear how humor plays a big role in your relationship! What’s a favorite funny memory you have together?
Guys just saw your channel and have subscribed. What a beautiful couple you make so young but yet old for your years, intelligent and articulate.The main thing is you love each other, your family are fine with it and thats the most important thing, other people they don't matter one little bit I've been in an interacial relationship previously and it was the longest and most fulfilling out of all my previous relationships. Love sees no colour.
Keep loving each other out of a pure space because many waters cannot quench love. True love is stronger than death. Keep being totally honest and vulnerable to each other. True love is colorless/ color blind.
Guy's interactional couples are cute damn!😩❤️ Please write the questions you're asking them on screen if you don't mind I would love to know ba do they sleep without talking to each other xa bexabene?
That's one thing we never do , it's very important to us to resolve our issues before going to bed so we can have a goodnight sleep. One key thing is to not go to bed angry at each other , one might not wake up in the morning , you'll never know God's plan , and you're gonna be left with a thing of "I wish I could've fixed thing before going to bed" , you don't wanna have that guilt.
I love you two together. If anybody was meant to be together, it is you two. Forget the haters & those who oppose you because they weren’t true friends. Yes, put God in the center of your relationship & you will continue to be stronger.🙏🏽🫶🏽💜💜💞
The stares from ppl r the worst, I agree. Im black women in a the raletionship wit an Arab man. Both our families r lovely. But ppl outside can be so mean.
Ppl might be staring just bcoz they like u guyz. They think u so cute and love that interracial relationships, they found u interesting n lovely. Not boz they r haters, not all ppl are haters. Plz guys don't generalize.❤😅😊. Some stares bcz they embrace u. Unusual things are very attractive n easy to stare, very eye catching. U should consider that as well. Plz don't feel offended when they stare.
Thank you so much for the blessings! 🌟💐🌹✨ May your own life be filled with peace and joy as well. What’s something special you’re looking forward to in the near future?
Amen and amen Godbless u. I do have a friends that are cross culturalry married. When its of God+ both continue to walk in His ways it will stay together . Br P
Lobola, also known as "lobola," is a traditional practice in many Southern African cultures where a groom's family pays a bride price to the bride's family as part of the marriage process. It's a way of honoring and acknowledging the bride's family, and it's often seen as a gesture of respect and gratitude. The payment can be made in cash, livestock (such as cows), or a combination of both, depending on the cultural practices of the community. The amount and form of lobola can vary widely between different cultures and families. It's not just a financial transaction but is often imbued with cultural significance and is considered a key part of the marriage process in many communities.
If you’re worried about what people think then maybe y’all shouldn’t be together. Which for me I wouldn’t care who’s with who! If you have children what kind of solution would you have to prepare your child or children when it comes down to someone staring at you?! People look and talk whether you’re a multi cultural person anyway. I’m just saying!
You make a valid point! 🤔 It’s important to focus on love and support rather than worrying about others’ opinions. Teaching kids about diversity and confidence can really help. What are some ways you think parents can prepare their children for dealing with stares or comments?
I love it! My husband is white and I'm black and we've been married for 20 years now! With God you can make it. Bless you 2!
Let us know if you'd like to share your journey, sound very inspiring.
You guys look good together. I pray to God to keep your relationship solid to a point of marriage. I wish you all the best.
I too am a German married to a Zulu woman. The Lobola process was an amazing process of discovery of the culture which I loved. Haters are gonna hate. Steel yourselves and your hearts against them and believe in yourselves. God bless.
Ps keep your clothes ironed Emmet 😅
Let us know if you'd like to share your journey on our channel. Do you keep your clothes ironed? 😄
Yes please
Prayers for your continued happiness! I’m Dutch married to a black man from Barbados; we’ve been married over 50 years. Your personalities are similar to ours in the anxious vs calm. I call him the logical, I’m the emotional. Our shared sense of humor is the best part of our relationship. Don’t worry about stares or ugliness…they don’t pay your way in life!
Thank you for the warm wishes! 🙏❤️
Your love story is truly inspiring, and it’s great to hear how humor plays a big role in your relationship!
What’s a favorite funny memory you have together?
Beautiful couple. I wish you guys all the best.
Guys just saw your channel and have subscribed. What a beautiful couple you make so young but yet old for your years, intelligent and articulate.The main thing is you love each other, your family are fine with it and thats the most important thing, other people they don't matter one little bit I've been in an interacial relationship previously and it was the longest and most fulfilling out of all my previous relationships. Love sees no colour.
Thank you ❤❤❤
I'm happy for you as long as you guys are happy we thank God for you🥰
Oh this is so sweet! May the Lord your union inthe Name of Jesus.
Keep loving each other out of a pure space because many waters cannot quench love. True love is stronger than death. Keep being totally honest and vulnerable to each other. True love is colorless/ color blind.
Such beautiful wisdom! ❤️🌊
What’s a moment of vulnerability in your life that strengthened your relationships?
❤ guys the best is yet to come 👌✌️
How wonderful that you should seek God's hand in your union. Since it was instigated by God himself between a man and a woman. Praise God.
What matters, is that you both are in this together❤ God is with you❤🎉
Much love to you guys ❤❤❤
You are really a cute couple together and yes the love you both have for one another is great and may the Lord bless both of you ❤❤❤❤
You did stick to your own 👍 You chose a human.
It’s all about the connection and mutual respect you build together.
What do you think is the most important quality in a lasting relationship?
Guy's interactional couples are cute damn!😩❤️
Please write the questions you're asking them on screen if you don't mind
I would love to know ba do they sleep without talking to each other xa bexabene?
That's one thing we never do , it's very important to us to resolve our issues before going to bed so we can have a goodnight sleep. One key thing is to not go to bed angry at each other , one might not wake up in the morning , you'll never know God's plan , and you're gonna be left with a thing of "I wish I could've fixed thing before going to bed" , you don't wanna have that guilt.
Absolutely! Interracial couples do have a unique charm! ❤️😩
We’ll definitely consider adding those questions on screen.
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I love you two together. If anybody was meant to be together, it is you two. Forget the haters & those who oppose you because they weren’t true friends. Yes, put God in the center of your relationship & you will continue to be stronger.🙏🏽🫶🏽💜💜💞
Love inter-racial relationships and may the good Lord strengthen these. It's all about unconditional love ❤❤❤
Keep your love going. Yes, keep God in your relationship and he will work all things out.
Absolutely! 🙏
What’s one way you keep love and positivity alive in your own life?
Beautiful couple
He gives me Prince vibes. Apart from that, good on you two!
Thank you! 🌟
What do you think makes someone stand out like that?
@@Briefly_TV_Life Looks like Prince to me.
We love you guys ❤
Hi guys I am happy for u two u will make beautiful ❤️ children stay safe ❤️ .
Beautiful couple ❤️
We agree!
Such beautiful and perfect couple.❤❤❤
The stares from ppl r the worst, I agree. Im black women in a the raletionship wit an Arab man.
Both our families r lovely. But ppl outside can be so mean.
Let us know if you'd like to share your journey.
Truly speaking God is the pillar of strength it's time for Connected ness We are One 💪🙏
Absolutely, God and unity are powerful sources of strength! 🌟💪🙏
How do you incorporate this belief into your daily life?
Love you guys❤❤❤
This is part of the 🌈 nation. Sadly, there aren't many interracial couples in SA. Praying for you ❤ 🇿🇦
Thank you for your support! ❤️🌍
What do you think could help promote more acceptance and understanding in South Africa?
They are SO cute ❤😊😍
Dont mind the world my children , just love each other more darlings ❤This aunty loves you to bits ❤❤❤
Thank you so much, Aunty! Your love and support mean the world to us. 🥰💕
How did you come across our story? 🌟😊
@@Briefly_TV_Life I came across your story by sheer coincidence 🤔 lol 😆 😂 and I just loved it. 🥰😍
Aww, Continued Blessings ❤❤❤
Thank you for the love and support! ❤❤❤
What part of their journey has inspired you the most?
@@Briefly_TV_Life All of it 😊😊😊
Nice
You are a beautiful couple!!!❤❤❤
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Good on you two❤
Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️
What part of the story resonated with you the most?
Ppl might be staring just bcoz they like u guyz. They think u so cute and love that interracial relationships, they found u interesting n lovely. Not boz they r haters, not all ppl are haters. Plz guys don't generalize.❤😅😊. Some stares bcz they embrace u. Unusual things are very attractive n easy to stare, very eye catching. U should consider that as well. Plz don't feel offended when they stare.
You are beautiful God is good
Wish you both lots of happiness and fun, you both seem very mature for your age God bless you both in your endeavors Amen , Amen
Thank you so much for the kind words and blessings! 🙏❤️ What’s something you think contributes to maturity in relationships?
You are both young yet mature ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your lovely comment! 😊
GOD bless u both of you in your relationship what is important is love between both of you 🙌🙌🙏🙏🎊🎊
Love truly is the foundation of a strong relationship.
How do you like to celebrate love in your own life? 😊💖
Christ like love…unconditional
That kind of love truly makes a difference in the world. 🙏
What’s a moment you’ve witnessed unconditional love in action?
She is so pretty
She really is!
What do you love most about her personality? 😊💖
@@Briefly_TV_Life She is sincere, humble and, most of all, she loves God…both of them do. Color does not matter when it comes to love.
Blessings upon you Couple to be 💥💐🌹☮️🙏
Thank you so much for the blessings! 🌟💐🌹✨ May your own life be filled with peace and joy as well.
What’s something special you’re looking forward to in the near future?
He looks like the singer Prince!
True. Very handsome
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#LoveWins | Keep praying 😇 -
Absolutely! Love always wins! 💖🙏
What’s something you’re currently praying for or hoping to see more of in the world?
That’s so beautiful
How long have u been together ?
They have been together for almost 2 years.
my faves🥰
They are so wonderful together!
What do you love most about them? 😊
Love youuuuu❤❤❤
You're are beautiful ❤
Amen and amen Godbless u. I do have a friends that are cross culturalry married. When its of God+ both continue to walk in His ways it will stay together . Br P
Amen and amen! 🙏🏾
How do you and your friends support each other in maintaining strong, faith-driven relationships? Blessings to you! 🌟❤️
Would you educate me on what Lobolais???
Lobola, also known as "lobola," is a traditional practice in many Southern African cultures where a groom's family pays a bride price to the bride's family as part of the marriage process. It's a way of honoring and acknowledging the bride's family, and it's often seen as a gesture of respect and gratitude.
The payment can be made in cash, livestock (such as cows), or a combination of both, depending on the cultural practices of the community. The amount and form of lobola can vary widely between different cultures and families.
It's not just a financial transaction but is often imbued with cultural significance and is considered a key part of the marriage process in many communities.
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You are so cute ❤❤
Be your self
Being yourself is the best way to find true happiness and connection with others.
What's something unique about you that you love to share? 😊
Weee ❤
I hope to marry a white man…I love interracial marriages😊
That's wonderful to hear! 🌍
What do you find most appealing about them?
If you’re worried about what people think then maybe y’all shouldn’t be together. Which for me I wouldn’t care who’s with who! If you have children what kind of solution would you have to prepare your child or children when it comes down to someone staring at you?! People look and talk whether you’re a multi cultural person anyway. I’m just saying!
You make a valid point! 🤔
It’s important to focus on love and support rather than worrying about others’ opinions. Teaching kids about diversity and confidence can really help.
What are some ways you think parents can prepare their children for dealing with stares or comments?
Where was ''god'' during those brutal Apartheid years?
Please don't pin that to them 😅
How is that their problem? Uyanya nje wena
God hated it hence it diminished and still diminishing !
That's a profound and complex question.
What are your thoughts on how faith and community can help people heal from such experiences?
@@Briefly_TV_Life Community and spirituality, not man-made religion as such.
Beautiful couple ❤❤
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