*A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.*
My issue is I dont fit in where I live! Im not in the position to move and long distant relationships wont work. I have 2 kids under 14. When i get out of the dallas area men are much more interested in me. I have a Stevie Nicks kinda vibe with a dash of Issa Raye. Im not religious or conservative. A intellectual with a free spirit streak. On dating apps most of the men arent my type and Im not theirs😢 i am on 3 dating apps...3!! I dont get a lot of matches or messages. Sigh... most of them want a fling or casual situationship. Uh no
That’s why you don’t spread your legs for any man unless you’re married. Don’t be stupid to cave into sex when you get a shut up engagement ring and are engaged for 10 yrs giving out pussy regularly with no monetary/legal gain on your part. Play a man’s game and they’ll hate it.
Wow! I deleted my dating profile about 3 weeks ago. For me at least I wasn’t meeting the type of man I was seeking. Emotionally available, heard and open to a loving and positive relationship. Looking to meet someone holistically, but at a loss as to how! Looking forward to listening to this interview. Thanks Jonathan.
Made some good points. I had never thought about the emotionally unavailable thing with most men being about men not having as many experiences as women. I think that might apply to a younger group, but not in mid life. I say that because as a woman in her 50’s I believe men and women are on a more equal playing field. Two reasons- older women are making the first move more, and just more life experiences to learn. I honestly think older men are not as focused as women on figuring out their wounds and going about healing. So their wounds from past bad experiences are greater by the time they reach mid life. You are an anomaly Jonathan. I’ve thought about my last few interactions and realize those men were like grown up kids emotionally. I don’t need a grown up baby to raise. Men seem to still seek somewhat of a mom figure in their lives when they get older. You see their own mom has likely passed. So I still am confused where to meet emotionally mature men holistically! The person who asked about the 60 year old who wouldn’t give up his high school girlfriend. You both mentioned emotional maturity. Ding ding ding! You asked her what will she do about it…look at herself. If it were me what I’ve done in the past is tell him sorry we are not aligned, wish you the best. So I’m still solo! Am I giving up to easy? I don’t think so . I don’t want to hear I’m sorry. I want to hear, I respect that and thank you for letting me know it bothers you. Let’s discuss this further. Jonathan it’s so much tougher for mid lifers when we understand our boundaries and see the red flags and act. I’m happily single, but still wonder if a fabulous partner is out there. I thank you again. We need more videos either way perspectives discussed like this one!
55:13 I agree with dating one at a time. It's a big turn off for me when a guy interested in me says he wants a harem of girlfriends and won't be faithful to one until his wedding night. It hurts!
What i find so different today is for example you see a couple in a restaurant sitting across from one another and hardly interacting with each other, staring at there phones, i believe if youre a couple or on a date leave phone in the car, eye contact and true connection with conversation, my opinion
When I am meeting a man for the first time, I leave my phone on until face to face. I then tell him I am shutting the ringer off and put my phone in my purse. If he leaves his on or worse, keeps glancing at it, I won't see him again. Phone abuse is plain rude.
@@musicdesign7264 Agree one hundred percent. Poor social skills. Also answering calls or texting people. It indicates how addicted and disconnected some people are.
Etiquette is important. Shady phone behavior is a dealbreaker. When you're in someone's company and they're constantly or frequently on their phone that's a dealbreaker.
Yes, we have a fear of speaking up. Because in my experience men calm up, not being willing to talk or just completely shut down. I’m a single 46 year old and I don’t do dating apps. I prefer to meet men organically but even though that it’s still hard to find a partner who wants a commitment relationship. I’m a business owner, how lives on my own and I am in shape and take care of myself. Yet, I hardly get approached from a man. The current situation I’m in has recently shifted his energy after 4 months of dating. Now, I’m sure what he’s thinking. I find that most men tend to want less commitment relationships and bounce out after 2-4 months of dating.
Well said Jaimie. Simply go out. Definately speak up. Assertiveness. It's challenging to meet someone aligned. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
If you’re financially independent why would you need a temporary situationship with a man? Self hate? Make friends, be with family, adopt a dog or 2, all 3 things listed are more loyal to you than a man. Decenter men. No disease - STDS, drama and having to center your life on his family, career choice moving, his mentally stability, living where he wants to in retirement and your needs being put on hold for the rest of your life.
I’m listening to the rejection piece about men ongoing in relationships; I would say that in general before I did the work I was more afraid of abandonment than rejection… 🤷♀️
33:59 Yes. I was in that rabbit hole. Resonance. Feeling of rejection. I felt that all the time with my cousin. I just didn't realize he was machista. As a cousin, he's sweet. As a boyfriend, he's cold and domineering.
Enjoy your life whether you’re paired up or not. I did a day trip to Ohio 2/1/24 and enjoyed the mild sunny day watching people talk to each other. Dating apps are for horny men. Get out there and LIVE. Don’t obsess over meeting someone for romance. Life is finite.
Yes! I've joined a swing dance group and it's incredibly fun!! I took a couple classes before as prep. I've noticed it's mostly older folks there. Would love to see more youth joining. It's easy, cheap and early in the evening to allow people to return at a reasonable hour (7-9). Family friendly too. Great group to make friends. Highly recommend.
I wonder how if the female population would decenter the male population romantically, and practice self love, that we would all be treated a hell of a lot better because men wouldn’t be the prize anymore.
I deleted all of my dating apps, period. I just can't take the games anymore. I don't want to pay for them and I feel like they are a complete waste of your money. I have been noticing more speed dating events are coming more open to meet someone there. Which I prefer that instead honestly. It just makes more sense to me.
I'm on 3 dating apps and went on 7 dates in 8 months and nope. Now it's a chore. I don't get many matches or anything. There is perception that women have men beating down our doors. We don't. I dont
@@sherriflemming3218 I meet dozens, if not hundreds every week in my job and my hobby, and very few of them are desirable or available and definitely none are both. Meeting holistically sucks too. I just don't know how to progress from here.
@@JonathonAslay I used to chat with a guy called Tom, back in 2016. Back then, years ago, I got him to ask me on social media for me to be his girlfriend. We even broke up because he wanted us to have premarital sex as soon as we met in person. Years later, we chat again and I went all the way to West Palm Beach to meet him! A year or so passes by and we plan to meet at a baseball game, he changes his plans, tell me he never wants to marry and that he refuses to bring me something from his refrigerator. Never really dated!!! That's all you really get -- chatting and making plans to meet and more commitment-style conversations that never happen!!! I think it's conformism. They just relax in their feminine energy and don't really care if there's any real dating happening. They aren't busy. They think they are busy. They are exausted!
59:50 I agree. I also think it's impatience and laziness. I needed a quick fix when my cousin-in-law told me my cousin was bringing a woman to his house! I was in pain! He said I had two years to decide if I wanted to be with him and here he was bringing another women to his house!!!
This was a great discussion with two coaches sharing an even exchange with positivity. This is how I want my conversations to flow with selecting a partner. The give and take here is EXCELLENT!
13:26 I disagree. Emotional Intelligence was a term used for customer service skills in business. Howard Gardner is known to theorized on 8 type of intelligences and "emotional intelligence" is not one of them. I highly recommend courses in Public Speaking and Interpersonal Communication for relationship skills. Emotional Intelligence as term used in social circles is simply not a real thing. Shared illusion. Just one of those concepts that outside a group, it doesn't exist.
We so enjoyed (and learned from) this beautiful conversation, Coach! Much appreciated, and notes taken. Blessings (and joyful dating/mating/relating) to you and everyone here. ❤️
It would be great to have a longer than 10-minute conversation about the dating apps. How about some data? Maybe you could do a questionnaire with your audience? I would definitely participate!
People talk about improving your chances: 1. You give your heart too fast 2. Lose some weight 3. Why are you giving your power away? 4. You'd have a boyfriend if you weren't with your mom all the time 5. Look for other types of men 6. Don't date until you've worked on your personal growth 7. No man wants to marry 8. Men will only want to marry if it involves money 9. I think you just like infatuation and not the other phases 10. Etc., etc., etc., At the end of the day, when it happens, it happens! You cannot mess up the right relationship!
Was fun had wine good conversation and some shenanigans (hanky panky) lol. I noticed he had cell phone out to look up music for us and was on a while so I got him to put it away. If he catches me on phone he’ll say something. Lol @@JonathonAslay
Jonathan ❣❣❣ Look out. I have an inkling that you’re going to draw a crowd of about 200; provided that the “weather” cooperates and it isn’t inclement weather 😉 I think there’ll be a GREAT turn out. I absolute “know” that you’ll have a great presentation. I am wishing you all the success. Way to go!❣❣ S 🎀
I was thinking about the duct tape but I didn’t want to look like I was interrogating him. I was trying to find out why he was out overnight. I usually find out when it comes up in conversation when he says what he was doing that day.
I’ve interrogated men in the past in my 30s and 40s (dated around, didn’t sleep around the whole time) and they didn’t like it at all. Men are completely overrated. Their only use to women is their wallets or a 2nd income to pay bills on. After your breeding years are over they will basically suck the life out of you if you let them.
Men who graduate from college can at least communicate without it coming off as playing games and manipulation. I think they lie to women less, too. You don't feel like lying when you know how to be honest.
All men lie. It’s the only way they can get laid. They don’t have viable personalities or physically attractive attributes. As you can tell I took off the rose colored glasses long ago.
@@JonathonAslay haha but heyyy that wasn't the question.or point. Hey when I was younger wasn't necessarily "the right guys" dated, married, babies with... and now I'm older, single hit on more by more guys.especially younger guys. Many guys are excited about what they want but have parents still in control of their decisions. Even at 40. I've found also many guys who see what they want as guilty pleasure and shame themselves about what they actually want. Being in love is not popular norm. There are lots of guys either way it didn't decrease as I got older. All kinds of guys, not just manipulative guys.
@@stephaniepersin4222 they do? Most men project desperation onto the woman, like you are instead of seeing who they are, and then reject the woman as if shes using him because the guy is actually triggered by his own insecurity & fear of being abandoned or rejected himself. They cannot believe she cares about him, they assume she's desperate and humping anything he doesn't see himself as the gold she chose out of 100s sadly. Most Men hate women in need. Its trendy to belittle women in desparate circumstances not help or believe in them. And many of us are in need of emotional & financial support these days but are painfully holding out for real love and attraction. It's very sad. If men loved desperate women....would any woman be single? They don't love strong women in desperate situations. They merely see desperate and are repelled.
Would it be the womens responsiblity to assess the males emotional intelligence and emotional experience when 1st meeting the male? That could be an important aspect of the vetting experience!
one of your best shows, been on different type of dating sites, too much rests on a few pics, so many men are only looking for sex hookups, ask nothing about the woman many are not even real or live where they say they do, ughI want to meet more normal way! so so difficut nowadays I refuse to pay , did so 2 times , and they just want to keep you paying forever!!!
@@anneiconex1473Im NOT looking for trumpers, but after being poisoned by a pharmaceutical that I didn’t even need & watching at least over 20 family members, friends, acquaintances, spouses & children of friends ALL die- NOT from “Covid” BUT they ALL got the 💉; if someone’s gotten several of those 💉; I’m sorry but the chances of them having blood clots or strokes or heart attacks; esp the older they are - it’s Not political for me. It’s about health & common sense. 🙏
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*A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.*
8:46 Jonathon, hook-up means one-night stands.
My issue is I dont fit in where I live! Im not in the position to move and long distant relationships wont work. I have 2 kids under 14. When i get out of the dallas area men are much more interested in me. I have a Stevie Nicks kinda vibe with a dash of Issa Raye. Im not religious or conservative. A intellectual with a free spirit streak. On dating apps most of the men arent my type and Im not theirs😢 i am on 3 dating apps...3!! I dont get a lot of matches or messages. Sigh... most of them want a fling or casual situationship. Uh no
I start to hate chemistry and connection, WHEN communication is ambiguous, insensitive and unaffectionate. Yes. Ghosting is crazy frustrating, too.
That’s why you don’t spread your legs for any man unless you’re married. Don’t be stupid to cave into sex when you get a shut up engagement ring and are engaged for 10 yrs giving out pussy regularly with no monetary/legal gain on your part. Play a man’s game and they’ll hate it.
Celia, sometimes ghosting it's a blessing!
Wow! I deleted my dating profile about 3 weeks ago. For me at least I wasn’t meeting the type of man I was seeking. Emotionally available, heard and open to a loving and positive relationship. Looking to meet someone holistically, but at a loss as to how! Looking forward to listening to this interview. Thanks Jonathan.
Same but I deleted dating apps long ago. So many undesirables and damaged men online. No choice.
What did you think?,
Made some good points. I had never thought about the emotionally unavailable thing with most men being about men not having as many experiences as women. I think that might apply to a younger group, but not in mid life. I say that because as a woman in her 50’s I believe men and women are on a more equal playing field. Two reasons- older women are making the first move more, and just more life experiences to learn. I honestly think older men are not as focused as women on figuring out their wounds and going about healing. So their wounds from past bad experiences are greater by the time they reach mid life. You are an anomaly Jonathan. I’ve thought about my last few interactions and realize those men were like grown up kids emotionally. I don’t need a grown up baby to raise. Men seem to still seek somewhat of a mom figure in their lives when they get older. You see their own mom has likely passed. So I still am confused where to meet emotionally mature men holistically! The person who asked about the 60 year old who wouldn’t give up his high school girlfriend. You both mentioned emotional maturity. Ding ding ding! You asked her what will she do about it…look at herself. If it were me what I’ve done in the past is tell him sorry we are not aligned, wish you the best. So I’m still solo! Am I giving up to easy? I don’t think so . I don’t want to hear I’m sorry. I want to hear, I respect that and thank you for letting me know it bothers you. Let’s discuss this further. Jonathan it’s so much tougher for mid lifers when we understand our boundaries and see the red flags and act. I’m happily single, but still wonder if a fabulous partner is out there. I thank you again. We need more videos either way perspectives discussed like this one!
Deleted Bumble today. Extra charges for what should be part of membership. I met 3-4 men over a couple months. Mostly a disappointing experience.
Im.right here with you queen! Just tired of swiping and chatting then getting ghosted @cecef2597
55:13 I agree with dating one at a time. It's a big turn off for me when a guy interested in me says he wants a harem of girlfriends and won't be faithful to one until his wedding night. It hurts!
Exactly Celia. No harems.
Loyalty and committment are essential in healthy relationships.
What i find so different today is for example you see a couple in a restaurant sitting across from one another and hardly interacting with each other, staring at there phones, i believe if youre a couple or on a date leave phone in the car, eye contact and true connection with conversation, my opinion
You are absolutly right 🤷♀️☺️😅but we dont know whats happening in Peoples relationships, most are bored, The spark is gone 🙈☺️😬
When I am meeting a man for the first time, I leave my phone on until face to face. I then tell him I am shutting the ringer off and put my phone in my purse. If he leaves his on or worse, keeps glancing at it, I won't see him again. Phone abuse is plain rude.
@@musicdesign7264 smart on you, phones distract and people get ignored or interrupted
@@musicdesign7264 Agree one hundred percent. Poor social skills. Also answering calls or texting people. It indicates how addicted and disconnected some people are.
Etiquette is important. Shady phone behavior is a dealbreaker. When you're in someone's company and they're constantly or frequently on their phone that's a dealbreaker.
Yes, we have a fear of speaking up. Because in my experience men calm up, not being willing to talk or just completely shut down.
I’m a single 46 year old and I don’t do dating apps.
I prefer to meet men organically but even though that it’s still hard to find a partner who wants a commitment relationship.
I’m a business owner, how lives on my own and I am in shape and take care of myself. Yet, I hardly get approached from a man. The current situation I’m in has recently shifted his energy after 4 months of dating. Now, I’m sure what he’s thinking.
I find that most men tend to want less commitment relationships and bounce out after 2-4 months of dating.
Well said Jaimie. Simply go out. Definately speak up. Assertiveness. It's challenging to meet someone aligned.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
If you’re financially independent why would you need a temporary situationship with a man? Self hate? Make friends, be with family, adopt a dog or 2, all 3 things listed are more loyal to you than a man. Decenter men. No disease - STDS, drama and having to center your life on his family, career choice moving, his mentally stability, living where he wants to in retirement and your needs being put on hold for the rest of your life.
I’m listening to the rejection piece about men ongoing in relationships; I would say that in general before I did the work I was more afraid of abandonment than rejection… 🤷♀️
Aren't they kinda of the same...
33:59 Yes. I was in that rabbit hole. Resonance. Feeling of rejection. I felt that all the time with my cousin. I just didn't realize he was machista. As a cousin, he's sweet. As a boyfriend, he's cold and domineering.
Enjoy your life whether you’re paired up or not. I did a day trip to Ohio 2/1/24 and enjoyed the mild sunny day watching people talk to each other. Dating apps are for horny men. Get out there and LIVE. Don’t obsess over meeting someone for romance. Life is finite.
Very well said and so true. I won’t use dating sites for that very reason. Not intrested in ‘hooking up’ with a man I don’t even know.
Stephanie. I'm with you on this.!
I would love to see dancing come back! Assisted seridenpity is an excellent idea as well.
Exactly
Yes! I've joined a swing dance group and it's incredibly fun!!
I took a couple classes before as prep.
I've noticed it's mostly older folks there.
Would love to see more youth joining.
It's easy, cheap and early in the evening to allow people to return at a reasonable hour (7-9). Family friendly too.
Great group to make friends.
Highly recommend.
@@brandymeidl7126 Very cool!
I often wonder how We would all get on if dating apps vanished over night
I’d be happy personally 😊
Exactly
I wonder how if the female population would decenter the male population romantically, and practice self love, that we would all be treated a hell of a lot better because men wouldn’t be the prize anymore.
Heck, I treat them like they don't exist. Meet organically in real life. It's healthy to socialize
I spoke up and didn't hear from him again! Wow
Yup, been there
That's a blessing. Wrong man!
I deleted all of my dating apps, period. I just can't take the games anymore. I don't want to pay for them and I feel like they are a complete waste of your money. I have been noticing more speed dating events are coming more open to meet someone there. Which I prefer that instead honestly. It just makes more sense to me.
I'm on 3 dating apps and went on 7 dates in 8 months and nope. Now it's a chore. I don't get many matches or anything. There is perception that women have men beating down our doors. We don't. I dont
Women owe men absolutely nothing. They’ve earned it.
Meet organically ladies. Socializing is healthy. Meeting people in real life.
@@sherriflemming3218 I meet dozens, if not hundreds every week in my job and my hobby, and very few of them are desirable or available and definitely none are both. Meeting holistically sucks too. I just don't know how to progress from here.
Dating apps suck. They should be called, Non-Dating Chat apps.
Yes
@@JonathonAslay I used to chat with a guy called Tom, back in 2016.
Back then, years ago, I got him to ask me on social media for me to be his girlfriend. We even broke up because he wanted us to have premarital sex as soon as we met in person.
Years later, we chat again and I went all the way to West Palm Beach to meet him!
A year or so passes by and we plan to meet at a baseball game, he changes his plans, tell me he never wants to marry and that he refuses to bring me something from his refrigerator. Never really dated!!!
That's all you really get -- chatting and making plans to meet and more commitment-style conversations that never happen!!!
I think it's conformism.
They just relax in their feminine energy and don't really care if there's any real dating happening.
They aren't busy. They think they are busy. They are exausted!
And the chats consist of 1 or 2 word msgs, like: "hey", or "how r u"
@@barbaraweatherman5340please don't go there omfg!! I'm a talker so that is a huge turn off
Wow! Loved this! So interesting to hear from a "dating coach" who primarily coaches men. Fascinating. Thanks, Jonathon!
Glad you enjoyed it!
59:50 I agree. I also think it's impatience and laziness. I needed a quick fix when my cousin-in-law told me my cousin was bringing a woman to his house! I was in pain! He said I had two years to decide if I wanted to be with him and here he was bringing another women to his house!!!
Why not leave? If you enjoy drama/disease stick around and hate on yourself.
This was a great discussion with two coaches sharing an even exchange with positivity. This is how I want my conversations to flow with selecting a partner. The give and take here is EXCELLENT!
Glad you enjoyed it!
13:26 I disagree. Emotional Intelligence was a term used for customer service skills in business. Howard Gardner is known to theorized on 8 type of intelligences and "emotional intelligence" is not one of them. I highly recommend courses in Public Speaking and Interpersonal Communication for relationship skills. Emotional Intelligence as term used in social circles is simply not a real thing. Shared illusion. Just one of those concepts that outside a group, it doesn't exist.
The book Emotional Intelligence is brilliant.
Glad you discussed the dating apps!!
Good presentation. I enjoyed your speaker. Articulate and interesting guest .
Glad you enjoyed it!
We so enjoyed (and learned from) this beautiful conversation, Coach! Much appreciated, and notes taken. Blessings (and joyful dating/mating/relating) to you and everyone here. ❤️
You are so welcome!
🎉 this is resonating and sinking in 😍💝❣
Happy to hear
I am now learning when a man say it is casual means sex and friends.
Yes...
It would be great to have a longer than 10-minute conversation about the dating apps. How about some data? Maybe you could do a questionnaire with your audience? I would definitely participate!
People talk about improving your chances:
1. You give your heart too fast
2. Lose some weight
3. Why are you giving your power away?
4. You'd have a boyfriend if you weren't with your mom all the time
5. Look for other types of men
6. Don't date until you've worked on your personal growth
7. No man wants to marry
8. Men will only want to marry if it involves money
9. I think you just like infatuation and not the other phases
10. Etc., etc., etc.,
At the end of the day, when it happens, it happens! You cannot mess up the right relationship!
Decentering men is the best self love any woman can give herself. I have zero respect for men so it’s a piece of cake to me.
This list is desperation and a constant need to kiss male butt. Congratulations you’re like every female out there. A man pleaser.
Love the man taking the lead!
I can testfy that my exhusband was always worried about rejection, no matter how I tried to help him feel secure. :-/
Question. How do a woman find a man for a relationship and not a hook-up being a older woman?
Ask better questions early is how...
You ask from the first conversation: what are you looking for and what is a relationship to you?
Jonathon's list of questions are excellent.
Thomas was great
Agreed 👍🏼
Very interesting. Enjoyed this speaker and your conversation. Thanks Johnaton!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I missed this video last night because I was on date lol
And? How did it go?
Was fun had wine good conversation and some shenanigans (hanky panky) lol. I noticed he had cell phone out to look up music for us and was on a while so I got him to put it away. If he catches me on phone he’ll say something. Lol
@@JonathonAslay
It went fine enjoyed wine and good conversation@@JonathonAslay
Still I find Tinder most active and effective
Jonathan ❣❣❣
Look out. I have an inkling that you’re going to draw a crowd of about 200; provided that the “weather” cooperates and it isn’t inclement weather 😉 I think there’ll be a GREAT turn out.
I absolute “know” that you’ll have a great presentation. I am wishing you all the success. Way to go!❣❣ S 🎀
Oh wow! Thanks
I was thinking about the duct tape but I didn’t want to look like I was interrogating him. I was trying to find out why he was out overnight. I usually find out when it comes up in conversation when he says what he was doing that day.
I’ve interrogated men in the past in my 30s and 40s (dated around, didn’t sleep around the whole time) and they didn’t like it at all. Men are completely overrated. Their only use to women is their wallets or a 2nd income to pay bills on. After your breeding years are over they will basically suck the life out of you if you let them.
Men who graduate from college can at least communicate without it coming off as playing games and manipulation.
I think they lie to women less, too.
You don't feel like lying when you know how to be honest.
All men lie. It’s the only way they can get laid. They don’t have viable personalities or physically attractive attributes. As you can tell I took off the rose colored glasses long ago.
Celia, I respectfully disagree. Educational level doesn't correlate with dishonesty or duplicity.
I’ve joined a meetup group that dance a few times a month at a ballroom. Lots of fun but…no dates came out of it. Not even an introduction 🙄
Im 51 and only getting hit on more & more.
Being hit on by the right guys?
@@JonathonAslay haha but heyyy that wasn't the question.or point. Hey when I was younger wasn't necessarily "the right guys" dated, married, babies with... and now I'm older, single hit on more by more guys.especially younger guys. Many guys are excited about what they want but have parents still in control of their decisions. Even at 40. I've found also many guys who see what they want as guilty pleasure and shame themselves about what they actually want. Being in love is not popular norm. There are lots of guys either way it didn't decrease as I got older. All kinds of guys, not just manipulative guys.
I never get git on I think it depends on where you live. I'm in a suburb in texas with mostly couples soooo...
Men love desperation in women.
@@stephaniepersin4222 they do? Most men project desperation onto the woman, like you are instead of seeing who they are, and then reject the woman as if shes using him because the guy is actually triggered by his own insecurity & fear of being abandoned or rejected himself. They cannot believe she cares about him, they assume she's desperate and humping anything he doesn't see himself as the gold she chose out of 100s sadly. Most Men hate women in need. Its trendy to belittle women in desparate circumstances not help or believe in them. And many of us are in need of emotional & financial support these days but are painfully holding out for real love and attraction. It's very sad. If men loved desperate women....would any woman be single? They don't love strong women in desperate situations. They merely see desperate and are repelled.
Would it be the womens responsiblity to assess the males emotional intelligence and emotional experience when 1st meeting the male? That could be an important aspect of the vetting experience!
It's a humans responsibility... it's the first thing I look for.
one of your best shows, been on different type of dating sites, too much rests on a few pics, so many men are only looking for sex hookups, ask nothing about the woman many are not even real or live where they say they do, ughI want to meet more normal way! so so difficut nowadays I refuse to pay , did so 2 times , and they just want to keep you paying forever!!!
If you’re a female who believes that men read profiles after they look at pics, you’re ridiculously naive.
Dancing 💃 🕺
💯
Speed dating is not avail for 60+
Yes, it is...
@JonathonAslay How to locate such events? I live in a city with a population of 100,000.
Na. I need an unvaccinated website now … I’m hated now
@rubberducky1507 lol yes. I haven’t had a hard time finding patriots/Trumpers on Facebook dating. They’re everywhere 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@anneiconex1473Im NOT looking for trumpers, but after being poisoned by a pharmaceutical that I didn’t even need & watching at least over 20 family members, friends, acquaintances, spouses & children of friends ALL die- NOT from “Covid” BUT they ALL got the 💉; if someone’s gotten several of those 💉; I’m sorry but the chances of them having blood clots or strokes or heart attacks; esp the older they are - it’s Not political for me. It’s about health & common sense. 🙏
I TOTALLY agree w you! Unfortunately, it’s become a political issue when it should be about health & common sense! 💕🙏
I can respect a person eho choose not to participate in an experiment. Not all of us drank the red stuff that looked like koolaid but wasn't koolaid.
Hated? Why?
He is also not emotionally intelligent.
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