Hi, my silent friends ❤. I promise to buy a microphone for the next video. Some suggestions on good options please 🙏🏾. Thanks for your support always ❤
Hey Lulu. Young intern from South Africa here🇿🇦 I am enjoying your series! I literally check your profile everyday. Just wanted to say thank you, taking your words of wisdom with me throughout my career.
Hi LuLu, a little confused, you said your father moved to Northern Nigeria and felt like a foreigner? I thought your family was Nigerian. Can you clarify?
@@LulusDiaries-b6i UA-cam keeeps deleting my comments... Growing up in Africa, your family may have unconsciously shaped your early perception of Caucasians. I am not here to trade blames and Do not take it amiss. I beg to expose my naivety. It’s possible that, as a young girl, you were influenced by a notion often perpetuated in our societies: that adopting a manner similar to Caucasians somehow signified refinement or social status. This is a common misstep many African parents make, holding Caucasians to unattainable standards, almost as though they are demi-gods to be revered. My father, who studied in Russia in the late '60s, provides a contrasting example. Despite having the opportunity to marry a devoted Caucasian woman, he returned to Africa to marry my mother. He passed away with a steadfast confidence in our capabilities as Africans. Even amid our country’s struggle with poor leadership and economic instability, he never held Caucasians in undue esteem. Instead, he instilled in us a belief that, given equal opportunities, we could achieve just as much-if not more. This upbringing made my transition to the UK 14 years ago relatively seamless. Our parents emphasised God as our ultimate anchor, long before the introduction of Eurocentric religious views. They also prioritised family, education, and self-respect, never suggesting that any race was superior. This built-in confidence has been a shield against the culture shock and racial prejudice many of us face. It starts with our mindset, deeply rooted in how we view the world outside Africa’s borders. The state of Africa today is still entangled in the legacy of imperialism, which continues to cast a shadow over our progress. Racial bias is just one tool used to keep people of African descent subdued and unsure of themselves, maintaining a status quo of perceived superiority. Your pain, as I understand it, stems from a sense of betrayal-of not speaking up against blatant discrimination at work, prioritizing the security of a 9-to-5 job over the emotional and mental anguish inflicted upon you and your family. There’s a feeling that your professional accomplishments would grant you acceptance, but, as we've seen even with influential figures like Oprah Winfrey-who faced racism over a simple purse-status or wealth doesn’t insulate us from prejudice. Racial bias is a deep-rooted, almost demonic force that attacks the core of our identity. It’s mental warfare designed to erode our confidence and associate negativity with our skin color. Yet, the reality is that the most devious acts are often committed by those who benefit from a system that robs us of resources, dignity, and peace of mind. As dark-skinned women, the burden is even heavier. My wife, for instance, refuses to tolerate any degrading remarks or subtle prejudice. We both agree that standing firm is essential, not just for our own dignity but to set an example for our children. Your journey is one filled with hard-won lessons and resilience. It’s not something anyone would want to endure, yet it has brought you to a place of awareness and strength. Now, our mission is to instill that confidence in our children and prepare them for a world that won’t easily bend to their worth. Racial bias is systemic and pervasive; it isn’t going away anytime soon. So, we must equip our children with the emotional and mental tools to confront it, teaching them that while the world may be harsh, their strength and identity are not up for compromise. I hope you find sense in my view. **DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP. WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN A MATRIX, GOVERNED BY SYSTEMIC RACIAL BIAS: ONE THAT HAS COME TO STAY.**
Growing up in Africa, your family may have unconsciously shaped your early perception of Caucasians. I am not here to trade blames and Do not take it amiss. I beg to expose my naivety. It’s possible that, as a young girl, you were influenced by a notion often perpetuated in our societies: that adopting a manner similar to Caucasians somehow signified refinement or social status. This is a common misstep many African parents make, holding Caucasians to unattainable standards, almost as though they are demi-gods to be revered. My father, who studied in Russia in the late '60s, provides a contrasting example. Despite having the opportunity to marry a devoted Caucasian woman, he returned to Africa to marry my mother. He passed away with a steadfast confidence in our capabilities as Africans. Even amid our country’s struggle with poor leadership and economic instability, he never held Caucasians in undue esteem. Instead, he instilled in us a belief that, given equal opportunities, we could achieve just as much-if not more. This upbringing made my transition to the UK 14 years ago relatively seamless. Our parents emphasised God as our ultimate anchor, long before the introduction of Eurocentric religious views. They also prioritised family, education, and self-respect, never suggesting that any race was superior. This built-in confidence has been a shield against the culture shock and racial prejudice many of us face. It starts with our mindset, deeply rooted in how we view the world outside Africa’s borders. The state of Africa today is still entangled in the legacy of imperialism, which continues to cast a shadow over our progress. Racial bias is just one tool used to keep people of African descent subdued and unsure of themselves, maintaining a status quo of perceived superiority. Your pain, as I understand it, stems from a sense of betrayal-of not speaking up against blatant discrimination at work, prioritizing the security of a 9-to-5 job over the emotional and mental anguish inflicted upon you and your family. There’s a feeling that your professional accomplishments would grant you acceptance, but, as we've seen even with influential figures like Oprah Winfrey-who faced racism over a simple purse-status or wealth doesn’t insulate us from prejudice. Racial bias is a deep-rooted, almost demonic force that attacks the core of our identity. It’s mental warfare designed to erode our confidence and associate negativity with our skin color. Yet, the reality is that the most devious acts are often committed by those who benefit from a system that robs us of resources, dignity, and peace of mind. As dark-skinned women, the burden is even heavier. My wife, for instance, refuses to tolerate any degrading remarks or subtle prejudice. We both agree that standing firm is essential, not just for our own dignity but to set an example for our children. Your journey is one filled with hard-won lessons and resilience. It’s not something anyone would want to endure, yet it has brought you to a place of awareness and strength. Now, our mission is to instill that confidence in our children and prepare them for a world that won’t easily bend to their worth. Racial bias is systemic and pervasive; it isn’t going away anytime soon. So, we must equip our children with the emotional and mental tools to confront it, teaching them that while the world may be harsh, their strength and identity are not up for compromise. I hope you find sense in my view. **DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP. WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN A MATRIX, GOVERNED BY SYSTEMIC RACIAL BIAS: ONE THAT HAS COME TO STAY.**
Hi, my silent friends ❤.
I promise to buy a microphone for the next video. Some suggestions on good options please 🙏🏾. Thanks for your support always ❤
Hello sis, Rhode or Senheiser is a good brand of microphone if you’re thinking of getting one😊
@@G.BDauda thank you
Hey Lulu. Young intern from South Africa here🇿🇦 I am enjoying your series! I literally check your profile everyday. Just wanted to say thank you, taking your words of wisdom with me throughout my career.
Thanks so much 🙏🏾 💓 I have loads more to share
I love your vulnerability
I'm from Kenya 🇰🇪 here I love your videos
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I just love your personality, so addictive
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Hi LuLu, a little confused, you said your father moved to Northern Nigeria and felt like a foreigner? I thought your family was Nigerian. Can you clarify?
@@darrenjoseph4005 we are from a neighbouring country, that's why I said I was raised as an immigrant kid
@@LulusDiaries-b6i UA-cam keeeps deleting my comments...
Growing up in Africa, your family may have unconsciously shaped your early perception of Caucasians. I am not here to trade blames and Do not take it amiss. I beg to expose my naivety.
It’s possible that, as a young girl, you were influenced by a notion often perpetuated in our societies: that adopting a manner similar to Caucasians somehow signified refinement or social status. This is a common misstep many African parents make, holding Caucasians to unattainable standards, almost as though they are demi-gods to be revered.
My father, who studied in Russia in the late '60s, provides a contrasting example. Despite having the opportunity to marry a devoted Caucasian woman, he returned to Africa to marry my mother. He passed away with a steadfast confidence in our capabilities as Africans. Even amid our country’s struggle with poor leadership and economic instability, he never held Caucasians in undue esteem. Instead, he instilled in us a belief that, given equal opportunities, we could achieve just as much-if not more.
This upbringing made my transition to the UK 14 years ago relatively seamless. Our parents emphasised God as our ultimate anchor, long before the introduction of Eurocentric religious views. They also prioritised family, education, and self-respect, never suggesting that any race was superior. This built-in confidence has been a shield against the culture shock and racial prejudice many of us face. It starts with our mindset, deeply rooted in how we view the world outside Africa’s borders.
The state of Africa today is still entangled in the legacy of imperialism, which continues to cast a shadow over our progress. Racial bias is just one tool used to keep people of African descent subdued and unsure of themselves, maintaining a status quo of perceived superiority. Your pain, as I understand it, stems from a sense of betrayal-of not speaking up against blatant discrimination at work, prioritizing the security of a 9-to-5 job over the emotional and mental anguish inflicted upon you and your family. There’s a feeling that your professional accomplishments would grant you acceptance, but, as we've seen even with influential figures like Oprah Winfrey-who faced racism over a simple purse-status or wealth doesn’t insulate us from prejudice.
Racial bias is a deep-rooted, almost demonic force that attacks the core of our identity. It’s mental warfare designed to erode our confidence and associate negativity with our skin color. Yet, the reality is that the most devious acts are often committed by those who benefit from a system that robs us of resources, dignity, and peace of mind. As dark-skinned women, the burden is even heavier. My wife, for instance, refuses to tolerate any degrading remarks or subtle prejudice. We both agree that standing firm is essential, not just for our own dignity but to set an example for our children.
Your journey is one filled with hard-won lessons and resilience. It’s not something anyone would want to endure, yet it has brought you to a place of awareness and strength. Now, our mission is to instill that confidence in our children and prepare them for a world that won’t easily bend to their worth.
Racial bias is systemic and pervasive; it isn’t going away anytime soon. So, we must equip our children with the emotional and mental tools to confront it, teaching them that while the world may be harsh, their strength and identity are not up for compromise. I hope you find sense in my view.
**DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP. WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN A MATRIX, GOVERNED BY SYSTEMIC RACIAL BIAS: ONE THAT HAS COME TO STAY.**
@@LulusDiaries-b6i
Which country are your parents from?
Growing up in Africa, your family may have unconsciously shaped your early perception of Caucasians. I am not here to trade blames and Do not take it amiss. I beg to expose my naivety.
It’s possible that, as a young girl, you were influenced by a notion often perpetuated in our societies: that adopting a manner similar to Caucasians somehow signified refinement or social status. This is a common misstep many African parents make, holding Caucasians to unattainable standards, almost as though they are demi-gods to be revered.
My father, who studied in Russia in the late '60s, provides a contrasting example. Despite having the opportunity to marry a devoted Caucasian woman, he returned to Africa to marry my mother. He passed away with a steadfast confidence in our capabilities as Africans. Even amid our country’s struggle with poor leadership and economic instability, he never held Caucasians in undue esteem. Instead, he instilled in us a belief that, given equal opportunities, we could achieve just as much-if not more.
This upbringing made my transition to the UK 14 years ago relatively seamless. Our parents emphasised God as our ultimate anchor, long before the introduction of Eurocentric religious views. They also prioritised family, education, and self-respect, never suggesting that any race was superior. This built-in confidence has been a shield against the culture shock and racial prejudice many of us face. It starts with our mindset, deeply rooted in how we view the world outside Africa’s borders.
The state of Africa today is still entangled in the legacy of imperialism, which continues to cast a shadow over our progress. Racial bias is just one tool used to keep people of African descent subdued and unsure of themselves, maintaining a status quo of perceived superiority. Your pain, as I understand it, stems from a sense of betrayal-of not speaking up against blatant discrimination at work, prioritizing the security of a 9-to-5 job over the emotional and mental anguish inflicted upon you and your family. There’s a feeling that your professional accomplishments would grant you acceptance, but, as we've seen even with influential figures like Oprah Winfrey-who faced racism over a simple purse-status or wealth doesn’t insulate us from prejudice.
Racial bias is a deep-rooted, almost demonic force that attacks the core of our identity. It’s mental warfare designed to erode our confidence and associate negativity with our skin color. Yet, the reality is that the most devious acts are often committed by those who benefit from a system that robs us of resources, dignity, and peace of mind. As dark-skinned women, the burden is even heavier. My wife, for instance, refuses to tolerate any degrading remarks or subtle prejudice. We both agree that standing firm is essential, not just for our own dignity but to set an example for our children.
Your journey is one filled with hard-won lessons and resilience. It’s not something anyone would want to endure, yet it has brought you to a place of awareness and strength. Now, our mission is to instill that confidence in our children and prepare them for a world that won’t easily bend to their worth.
Racial bias is systemic and pervasive; it isn’t going away anytime soon. So, we must equip our children with the emotional and mental tools to confront it, teaching them that while the world may be harsh, their strength and identity are not up for compromise. I hope you find sense in my view.
**DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP. WE ARE CAUGHT UP IN A MATRIX, GOVERNED BY SYSTEMIC RACIAL BIAS: ONE THAT HAS COME TO STAY.**
A lot of facts shared in your writeup, a lot i resonate with! Thanks for sharing your perspective
This last phrase, abi na sentence, so it means the legacy of imperialism lives on! Chai... #nowayout #exceptChristreturns😢😮
Hi Lulu what is you instagram handle, would like to join you there as well