39:52 Its not just simply having tattoos that makes it masculine at all, its what you have tattooed or the style of tattoo that determines whether its masculine or feminine.
Great content! Thanks for putting this out! So I’m kind of stuck right now. Im very into rock climbing and pretty much do that every weekend. So obviously I’d love to find someone with that same passion as me. The climbing scene in my town is pretty rough. It seems like there are 3 climbing guys for every 1 female. Girls in the gym get hit on all the time. It’s extremely competitive.
There is one thing I have noticed that I think comes under the niche topic with dating, which I find irritating for a few specific reasons that and I do not understand why this is. Where a goth woman will date a normie guy as well as goths and other types of Alternatives (punk, metalhead, emo etc); however I never see a Goth guy dating a normie woman, only with Alternative women whether its the same type or not. When I say this I mean ones who typically look the part not just liking the music. So that's one of the reasons it irritates me as you never see it the other way around. Off the top of my head one of the other few reasons is you get some Alternative women who seem basically refuse to date Alt guys, not decent clue why this is the case. Though one of the reasons I think I've read is something to do with a specific personality trait that apparently all the Alt guys that particular woman's met has. Which you can not generalise whole groups because they might have this one red flag personality trait.
Co ed sports. I play both softball and soccer and there is a fair amount of attractive women, but in 90% of the case they are there with on unathletic twiggy skinny fat joke of a boyfriend and it’s very disheartening but in the end, it’s still a pretty fun activity despite that.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcastthey don't have the right facial structure and lots of them have insecurities about it. They make lots of plastic surgeries which in West don't know about
The thing about k-popmaxxing is that it's one of the most hardcore loolksmaxxing routs. Most of Asians don't look like k-pop star. Even k-pop stars didn't look like that before. They are really hard on plastic surgeries
I’ve been into metal for a while, so I’ve been going to some shows and buying a few band shirts to be more expressive about it and connect with others of that niche. It’s been half successful so far, I’ve made some likeminded friends through the scene but no partners yet, I rarely even meet any other young metalheads lmao, and many are already partnered up. I’ve also recently started branching out into punk and goth, I’m definitely gonna start gothmaxxing when I get the chance, get some outfits and learn more about the subculture, fashion, and music. My absolute dream would be a punk bf to my goth gf but either way the pickings look pretty slim 🥹🫶🏾
39:52 Its not just simply having tattoos that makes it masculine at all, its what you have tattooed or the style of tattoo that determines whether its masculine or feminine.
I think niche activity / passion almost deserves a separate discussion from niche appearance.
We tried to fit both in one episode
Having insight and Knowing what fits your strength is key.
There’s a lot of guys out there with a lot blind spots
Great content! Thanks for putting this out! So I’m kind of stuck right now. Im very into rock climbing and pretty much do that every weekend. So obviously I’d love to find someone with that same passion as me. The climbing scene in my town is pretty rough. It seems like there are 3 climbing guys for every 1 female. Girls in the gym get hit on all the time. It’s extremely competitive.
great advice guys
There is one thing I have noticed that I think comes under the niche topic with dating, which I find irritating for a few specific reasons that and I do not understand why this is. Where a goth woman will date a normie guy as well as goths and other types of Alternatives (punk, metalhead, emo etc); however I never see a Goth guy dating a normie woman, only with Alternative women whether its the same type or not. When I say this I mean ones who typically look the part not just liking the music. So that's one of the reasons it irritates me as you never see it the other way around.
Off the top of my head one of the other few reasons is you get some Alternative women who seem basically refuse to date Alt guys, not decent clue why this is the case. Though one of the reasons I think I've read is something to do with a specific personality trait that apparently all the Alt guys that particular woman's met has. Which you can not generalise whole groups because they might have this one red flag personality trait.
Co ed sports. I play both softball and soccer and there is a fair amount of attractive women, but in 90% of the case they are there with on unathletic twiggy skinny fat joke of a boyfriend and it’s very disheartening but in the end, it’s still a pretty fun activity despite that.
Yes! It's crazy how that works.
Please distinguish between South Asian and East Asian. Trust me that most South Asian guys can't pull off the ultra pretty-boy K-Pop look.
Why do you think they can’t pull it off (if they’re young)?
@@theemilyandtoddpodcastthey don't have the right facial structure and lots of them have insecurities about it. They make lots of plastic surgeries which in West don't know about
The thing about k-popmaxxing is that it's one of the most hardcore loolksmaxxing routs. Most of Asians don't look like k-pop star. Even k-pop stars didn't look like that before. They are really hard on plastic surgeries
I’ve been into metal for a while, so I’ve been going to some shows and buying a few band shirts to be more expressive about it and connect with others of that niche. It’s been half successful so far, I’ve made some likeminded friends through the scene but no partners yet, I rarely even meet any other young metalheads lmao, and many are already partnered up. I’ve also recently started branching out into punk and goth, I’m definitely gonna start gothmaxxing when I get the chance, get some outfits and learn more about the subculture, fashion, and music. My absolute dream would be a punk bf to my goth gf but either way the pickings look pretty slim 🥹🫶🏾