It's mostly true though that men mostly care about sex if they don't want a longterm relationship.... Most of the messages I get on social media are sexual. And I'm a modest Christian girl! For real! I'm sick of it. It's so rude...
Bull. I'm a straight male and I need comfort, safety, trust, enviorment, etc. before sex is even considered (and no I'm not religious or a feminist). According to this person men need "the physical contact" first before any of that. I can't think of anything more disgusting than being physical with a woman I just met and have not bonded with emotionally. Is there too much testosterone in the food or something?
It's true for most men you are just in touch more than other men and that's a good thing I am a Christian and I think the way you are is how God created it to be in the beginning but sin entered in and lust is at an all time high in this generation's
@@ripplem5121 I agree.. I've came to change my mind. When it's just sex it's just a lower state of emotional being.. It doesn't represent true love or the nature of a man/woman in their best.
You explain both sides - the male and the female - very well. Thank you for this video! Maybe you should make videos for guys, too. Such as to explain the women's primary need for safety.
He needs to be able to get her in the mood!! He should never nag about having sex over and over expressing his needs, he needs to be able to dominate her in a healthy way and express his needs that way, he needs to master the art of love making to a woman. Almost all sexual problems between men and women stems from his lack of understanding on how to do it! There is a man who teaches this and his youtube channel is Don of Desire and his name is Charles Black🙏❣️
Yes, it's turning me off. Grabbing my ass, boobs, and bottom. Every time I look he's grinding and licking playing. I hate it and I'm running away and our encounters are less. I've expressed how I felt numerous times. It's like he's so horney he can't control or help himself. I can give it to him four times over the weekend and he wants more. He won't stop until I say no. It's like he's using my body. Something is not right.
I would never turn down sex with a man that I am close to, but I won't be sleeping with any strangers to make them feel "loved". It seems to me that a lot of men want sex immediately! And I mean before the first date, usually the day you meet. That's just not for me.
Wow I completely agree with you!! We are all complicated lol and express ourselves differently. Communication with one another try to meet each other's needs in more then one way. Learning how to make him happy Every guy is different so just because some woman think they know guy's haha they are wrong. You have so much knowledge about both sexes it's absolutely incredible!! I have a question I like to be upfront with my guy like telling I'm my faults and strengths, my fantasies and fears and things that make me happy and mad. Not all at once but as they come up Is that a good thing? I just want him to know Somethings about me before we get into anything.
Thank you ! Happy to see a new video ! Please do more videos for the ladies ! I have a question : from my understanding of what you said here, I conclude that it's IMPOSSIBLE to have an emotional connection with a guy whithout having sex or intimacy with him ? Right ? (I am not talking about long term relation or marriage but in the process of learning to know a guy, or just dating....).
Thanks for your comment :) No I'm not saying it's impossible to have an emotional connection with a man if there's no sex or intimacy... you can definitely build a strong connection with a guy before anything physical contact happens. But in the long term, he will need that physical aspect, otherwise he will feel like he isn't desired/loved/wanted etc. So think of it as a long term thing. In the short term NO, but in the long term YES he will need some consistent physical intimacy in order to feel loved by you.
Thank you very much for this clarification :) And thanks again for educating us about mens.... it's true that ignorance about the opposite sex make us sometimes judgmental. Hope to hear you soon for another lecon :-)
@@GuyTellsAll so, in the end, indeed for a relationship to work with a man sex is compulsory. That's why it's impossible for asexual girls to have a relationship with non-asexual guys, because in the end, it all comes down to sex. They will leave if they don't have it. In the end, sex is the important thing for most guys.
All it means to men is that we know we would enjoy bonding with that person. Even just for a few hours. Even if the person is a stranger. Even if we know we may never see them again. Its not really a meaning, but an instinct, if that makes sense.
@@miajynette5110 i would say if you are in a relationship, than it means something. That means a man has to control himself and not cheat. If he can control himself, that means he values the girl more than his personal pleasure. And that means something.
@Angel Noel I wish that were true. but most men seem to just want to sleep with a girl and then dump her as soon as possible. I've never heard of a man truly wanting to connect with a girl.
This is complete bulllshit. Love is not about sex it's not about women vs men when it comes to love. Lust comes and goes just like how people used and abandon others after they get the sex they need but love stays with the other person untill the other person is comfortable, love is kind and patient it's not about jumping on bed every other second. Kissing is the simplest innocent form of showing love, if you love someone you will be able to wait if it's about long term relationship then trust me people are willing to wait for people who they see future with. When the attraction comes from lust it's impatient it's a quick pleasure that goes away in a blink of an eye so women don't take this BS and don't let anyone take advantage of you if you're uncomfortable, trust me if they love you they're willing to wait and it's better to let go than stays with the wrong person.
It's mostly true though that men mostly care about sex if they don't want a longterm relationship.... Most of the messages I get on social media are sexual. And I'm a modest Christian girl! For real! I'm sick of it. It's so rude...
Hey, straight male here, those guys are just sexual pigs who type online what they don't dare say in public to a real girl. Just let it slide :)
Men are physical first; women are emotional first. Got it.
Bull. I'm a straight male and I need comfort, safety, trust, enviorment, etc. before sex is even considered (and no I'm not religious or a feminist). According to this person men need "the physical contact" first before any of that. I can't think of anything more disgusting than being physical with a woman I just met and have not bonded with emotionally. Is there too much testosterone in the food or something?
It's true for most men you are just in touch more than other men and that's a good thing I am a Christian and I think the way you are is how God created it to be in the beginning but sin entered in and lust is at an all time high in this generation's
This guy isn't talking about sex with someone you just met. The stuff he is talking about is best suited for married people.
What about men sleeping around with strippers and women they don't even know or didn't have enough time to do ?
They love strippers
Mona Abdelbaset yup, if men are not like that why they’re willing to pay to have sex?
What about strippers sleeping with thousands of men? They don't want sex they just want comfort and security.
@@ripplem5121 I agree.. I've came to change my mind. When it's just sex it's just a lower state of emotional being.. It doesn't represent true love or the nature of a man/woman in their best.
@@monaabdelbaset8726 plenty of men would never fool around with any of the mentioned.
Sex & physical contact is what maintains that close intimate Love connection....that's my experience from my first marriage!
You explain both sides - the male and the female - very well. Thank you for this video! Maybe you should make videos for guys, too. Such as to explain the women's primary need for safety.
brilliant explanation. thank you for existing
He needs to be able to get her in the mood!! He should never nag about having sex over and over expressing his needs, he needs to be able to dominate her in a healthy way and express his needs that way, he needs to master the art of love making to a woman. Almost all sexual problems between men and women stems from his lack of understanding on how to do it! There is a man who teaches this and his youtube channel is Don of Desire and his name is Charles Black🙏❣️
Yes, it's turning me off. Grabbing my ass, boobs, and bottom. Every time I look he's grinding and licking playing. I hate it and I'm running away and our encounters are less. I've expressed how I felt numerous times. It's like he's so horney he can't control or help himself. I can give it to him four times over the weekend and he wants more. He won't stop until I say no. It's like he's using my body. Something is not right.
Couldn't been said any better. Communication is key!
I would never turn down sex with a man that I am close to, but I won't be sleeping with any strangers to make them feel "loved". It seems to me that a lot of men want sex immediately! And I mean before the first date, usually the day you meet. That's just not for me.
Thanks....bcs of your videos I have started respecting men.....may god bless you
WOW! Very eye-opening! Didn't know that. Really did think they were penises on legs.
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Men are just wired differently....got it!
Wow I completely agree with you!! We are all complicated lol and express ourselves differently. Communication with one another try to meet each other's needs in more then one way. Learning how to make him happy Every guy is different so just because some woman think they know guy's haha they are wrong. You have so much knowledge about both sexes it's absolutely incredible!! I have a question I like to be upfront with my guy like telling I'm my faults and strengths, my fantasies and fears and things that make me happy and mad. Not all at once but as they come up Is that a good thing? I just want him to know Somethings about me before we get into anything.
They care of nothing but sex
But how can we get along then if we need different things first???
Thank you ! Happy to see a new video ! Please do more videos for the ladies !
I have a question : from my understanding of what you said here, I conclude that it's IMPOSSIBLE to have an emotional connection with a guy whithout having sex or intimacy with him ? Right ? (I am not talking about long term relation or marriage but in the process of learning to know a guy, or just dating....).
Thanks for your comment :) No I'm not saying it's impossible to have an emotional connection with a man if there's no sex or intimacy... you can definitely build a strong connection with a guy before anything physical contact happens. But in the long term, he will need that physical aspect, otherwise he will feel like he isn't desired/loved/wanted etc.
So think of it as a long term thing. In the short term NO, but in the long term YES he will need some consistent physical intimacy in order to feel loved by you.
Thank you very much for this clarification :)
And thanks again for educating us about mens.... it's true that ignorance about the opposite sex make us sometimes judgmental.
Hope to hear you soon for another lecon :-)
Thanks :) I hope to upload more soon
@@GuyTellsAll so, in the end, indeed for a relationship to work with a man sex is compulsory. That's why it's impossible for asexual girls to have a relationship with non-asexual guys, because in the end, it all comes down to sex. They will leave if they don't have it. In the end, sex is the important thing for most guys.
finally a new video!! :)
Im confused. Men say sex is just sex, but are now saying that it means something. Does it mean something or not?
All it means to men is that we know we would enjoy bonding with that person. Even just for a few hours. Even if the person is a stranger. Even if we know we may never see them again. Its not really a meaning, but an instinct, if that makes sense.
@@chiozo11 so men doing that with women whom they are in a relationship with doesn't mean anything either?
@@miajynette5110 i would say if you are in a relationship, than it means something. That means a man has to control himself and not cheat. If he can control himself, that means he values the girl more than his personal pleasure. And that means something.
Men only want sex, trust me.
@Angel Noel I wish that were true. but most men seem to just want to sleep with a girl and then dump her as soon as possible. I've never heard of a man truly wanting to connect with a girl.
This is extremely helpful, thank you!
Great idea thanks again...
I say this because men bring sex up before I've even MET them, on the phone. What gives? Where have all the classy guys gone?
You re doing great.
This is complete bulllshit. Love is not about sex it's not about women vs men when it comes to love.
Lust comes and goes just like how people used and abandon others after they get the sex they need but love stays with the other person untill the other person is comfortable, love is kind and patient it's not about jumping on bed every other second. Kissing is the simplest innocent form of showing love, if you love someone you will be able to wait if it's about long term relationship then trust me people are willing to wait for people who they see future with.
When the attraction comes from lust it's impatient it's a quick pleasure that goes away in a blink of an eye so women don't take this BS and don't let anyone take advantage of you if you're uncomfortable, trust me if they love you they're willing to wait and it's better to let go than stays with the wrong person.
great..i agree