1. You're not enough for him. If he didn't want you, he wouldn't be with you as he "has options" it's just that no one is enough for him or maybe he's an avoidant who fears or is uncomfortable/against committing and is emotionally unavailable.
Love needs logic. Love is not enough. Compatibility is crucial. Red flags for anyone that's novelty seeking sensation seeking, impulsive, needs constant adventure and simulation. sensory seeking. thrill seeking. Behavioral patterns and addictions. Easily bored. Risk adverse common sense and a conscience is important. For many a stable healthy relationship is boring. A good valuation question: If you had to choose between a life of great adventure and uncertainty or a life of stability safety and security which would you choose? This is a risk assessment question.
I'm not playing any games with nobody it's just disrespectful how these people do they walk around impressing other women and and think I'm suppose to hold them down not only that just have done things to me and think that's it's ok. None of these guys know how to b men. They r mice I have stood by my relationships through the toughest times but one particular person hasn't had the guts to say I'm sorry, I'm wrong, what can I do to fix this it's just being a coward I'm going to be just fine cause he never loved me he just lied and I did what I could to help but I got it throwed in my face. Won't say I'm sorry, I want to fix it nothing
Taking notes down to add for my book.. Def will be a section on being inconsistent. From my experience, it has been alot of little to no effort from a handful. I would stop texting and they may or may not text me. It gets old and tiring hearing they want to spend time but don't make any. Sex wasn't involved in many cases. I feel guys need to be more open with what they want. If they just want a Fwb they see whenever, or they don't want a relationship but want to exclusively see one another just be real.
I have been tryin to get ahold of ur team self crowned for a membership that I didn't sign up for yet your group keeps tryin to charge me 37 dollars all I did was buy a book to support my friend!!
in all honesty its not just men. women also tend to do this period... people in general just plain old take thing,people,and life for granted. open your eyes and dont be in such a hurry. slow your roll..
Is not always that. Is sometimes lack of clarity of what we want. Sometimes is better to understand yourself and what you want, then to blame a partner. As soon as you get clarity, you might stop thinking about what your partner did wrong. You just think to deal with him or he does not add up to happy picture of your world.
1.He don't want you.
2. Your a rebound
Rebounding = addicted to the milk too. Thank you for posting this. I will consider it for my own projects. Have a great one.
Facts
1. You're not enough for him.
If he didn't want you, he wouldn't be with you as he "has options" it's just that no one is enough for him or maybe he's an avoidant who fears or is uncomfortable/against committing and is emotionally unavailable.
Prayers everyone here finds/maintains a healthy relationship🤞🏽🤍 don’t settle!
Went through this, never felt so let down and humiliated I'm my life. God got me through🙏🏼
Nature of the Beast = to extract as much as one can with minimal effort or investment
That's so true! After trying to help fix him now I'm the one needing to fix myself & get me back after I lost almost everything
This is how you will refocus from usual woman routine thinking about men and will see what you want, or why you don't want it.
Love needs logic. Love is not enough. Compatibility is crucial.
Red flags for anyone that's novelty seeking sensation seeking, impulsive, needs constant adventure and simulation. sensory seeking. thrill seeking. Behavioral patterns and addictions. Easily bored.
Risk adverse common sense and a conscience is important.
For many a stable healthy relationship is boring.
A good valuation question: If you had to choose between a life of great adventure and uncertainty or a life of stability safety and security which would you choose? This is a risk assessment question.
He explains this so well!
Well, yeah, he’s lived.. he’s talking about himself
@@Solitaire427 exactly, spoken like s seasoned pro.
@@Solitaire427Facts 💯😅😅
Thank you Father God for sending this. I am happy to end the pattern of inconsistency today and forevermore. 1/12/23
Evolved men are a must!
High in Character; High in Quality
Bread crumbing is for the birds 🐦 -or- if it quacks like a duck …. must be a duck.
Do you have a masterclass for men on how to mature, build character, and become evolved?
Yes, tbe same one he needs to take himself
I say it all the time u better know game when it's being played. Don't take these kinda people serious cause there is a means to no end.
Such clarity. This brings into focus many things I experienced and could not understand- I thought it was just me. Thank you.
Still have to b consistent. Yea I agree with the breadcrumbing it's just enough to keep u hanging on just have to know it when you c it
I agree
I'm not playing any games with nobody it's just disrespectful how these people do they walk around impressing other women and and think I'm suppose to hold them down not only that just have done things to me and think that's it's ok. None of these guys know how to b men. They r mice I have stood by my relationships through the toughest times but one particular person hasn't had the guts to say I'm sorry, I'm wrong, what can I do to fix this it's just being a coward I'm going to be just fine cause he never loved me he just lied and I did what I could to help but I got it throwed in my face. Won't say I'm sorry, I want to fix it nothing
I'm the most loving forgiving person but I can't understand why I'm the most one who gives my all but the one that gets hurt.
@@latashahumphrey769 Same here 🤔🥺
I Appreciate this Video, and I’m gonna Watch all of them!
Taking notes down to add for my book.. Def will be a section on being inconsistent. From my experience, it has been alot of little to no effort from a handful. I would stop texting and they may or may not text me. It gets old and tiring hearing they want to spend time but don't make any. Sex wasn't involved in many cases. I feel guys need to be more open with what they want. If they just want a Fwb they see whenever, or they don't want a relationship but want to exclusively see one another just be real.
Every time I think I've heard it all, there is more to learn🙆♀️
What is Fwb pls?
@@raytiesings1 Friends with benefits
Funny, because I’m hitting pointers for my book as well😊
Makes alot if sense, ty
Some men are very consistent, though. Cough.
Can u see the light
Shelving sounds like he is using her.
Well Said.
You are interestingly real!
This is crazy to me.... just wow!
Where were u when i was twenty
Great video! Thank you! 😊
"'💣" your Always Dead On !!!
Breadcrumming
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Pretty much things that I already know that's y I don't play into any of it.
I have been tryin to get ahold of ur team self crowned for a membership that I didn't sign up for yet your group keeps tryin to charge me 37 dollars all I did was buy a book to support my friend!!
How did you get so wise ? Education? Experience? Both?
Interesting 🤔
in all honesty its not just men. women also tend to do this period... people in general just plain old take thing,people,and life for granted. open your eyes and dont be in such a hurry. slow your roll..
Is not always that. Is sometimes lack of clarity of what we want. Sometimes is better to understand yourself and what you want, then to blame a partner. As soon as you get clarity, you might stop thinking about what your partner did wrong. You just think to deal with him or he does not add up to happy picture of your world.
Don't go fixin something that you don't broke ;D)))
Options… my God
Educational
💯💯🎯🎯♥️♥️♥️
Please I'm going into this so what shall I do
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
I love you so much
He he that we been married 22 years
❤❤
He is in an RP
Yall crazy as hell for still being here
@mz. white this is where you think you're gonna get those secrets? Cmon ma'am
What makes us crazy? The fact that he is telling the truth or the fact that you just don’t c it??
Experience is the best teacher
I don't go out with these guys I don't go out with these
When he just doesn't count not important to give any care about!
God the first one sucks 😭😭😭😢