He Says He Feels Like ‘Less of a Man’ Because His Wife Is Physically Violent
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- Опубліковано 15 тра 2024
- Quinn is a soldier who spent four years in the U.S. military and completed two tours in Iraq; yet he says his deepest physical and emotional scars are not from fighting at war - they’re from his abusive wife, Sara. He says his wife has smashed a glass door over his head, punched, slapped and kicked him in the face. But why won’t he leave her? Plus, Sara
and Quinn’s mothers, Tracy and Rene, say they’re worried the couple’s 2-year-old daughter has also fallen victim to the alleged abuse. Dr. Phil confronts Sara about the alleged abuse. Can he help mend this fractured family? (2210054)
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I was watching this episode today, my advice to you is this: If she doesn't admit that she has a problem with violence, husband if you have to live in the barracks to get away from her, and/or file for divorce pursue it with all cost.
This man must leave her and take those children.
She seems to be faking each emotion. Wiping fake tears.
Her first goal was to deflect and center the topic around what her mother has been doing wrong. Probably what she views as the best reason/excuse for her own abhorrent behavior. Often, when people are willing to act like this, they have low empathy to begin with (likely narcissistic) and are clearly self centered, oblivious to other people’s needs. These type of people often feel the need to put on a show and fake tears are frequently used as part of their manipulation tactic.
He needs to take the kids and leave because that’s abuse to the kids and him. What if she ends up killing him?
Straight away she tries to deflect and put blame on him. Shame on her.
3:34 Many of us were spanked and screamed at and we dont abuse anyone!!
Her parents failed miserably ....period !!!
Ok but she knows right from wrong and is responsible for her own actions as an adult!!
her parents aren't to blame, she's a grown woman, she can think for herself
She's blames everyone but herself
What is going up here? Why this woman is near her kids and husband? Why that husband is still with her? He's also negleting the children.....
Leave dude. She’s got issues that you can’t handle as a support person. Not saying divorce but you are jeopardizing YOUR custody of the kids.
Child abuse plain and simple.
You have to take responsibility for yourself!!!!
Please leave! No person deserves being abused 😢
Bro leave, just leave
And take the children with you
Heartbreaking for him. His eyes showed pain and hurt.
I know people who do this to their kids... they think it's totally normal and acceptable, and the other adults in their lives stand by and watch, saying and doing nothing to stand up for them. In two weeks I'll be marrying into that extended family, and you can bet I will not quell my tongue. If no one else will stand up for those kids, at the very least I WILL!
This mom needs meds and therapy.
I grew up with this ..... take the children and LEAVE. Don't wait until "it's too late."
She needs help...get it and THEN TALK.
SAVE THE CHILDREN AT ALL COST.
Texas Nana
Why does he stay with her?? She hits their kid, him. Unlike some men, he walks away. He definitely could do better. She hits her 2 year old with a belt?? If they both, husband also don't get her under control. They both could lose their daughter. Sad. Her mother in law & husband are so sweet.
Well, you’re asking such a good question because I feel the same way about women who have abusive husbands or boyfriends
Why doesn’t anybody just get out of an abusive situation? I guess from what I heard from victims of abuse that the abuser brain watches them they make them think that they can save everything that they can have they would dream of, and that are the only ones I can make that happen in their lives so they rely on that person to basically survive
All all the times victims of abuse apparently rely on financials and food mostly food and you know I think the majority of a lot of it is having to pay for food to eat and a lot of times the person that is abusive controls that part of a person’s life they feel they can’t just get out of there
Because I guess their mind is like well, how do I get money to eat? Where Do I go to bed every night? how would I ever get money to even afford a place to live on a daily basis?
But my grandparents were horrible people and they were them to people that always seem to care about themselves and about what they wanted and never cared about anybody else, including me
And they forced me to eat what they were having then you literally have to eat it or else starve I mean literally starve and if they controlled what I do on a daily basis and what my hobbies were and that I mean, I could leave I could run away somewhere. I could tell somebody about the mistreatment grandparents are doing to me.
When you out in the real world, it’s easier to just run away then anything and then when you get out there it’s like holy cow. I didn’t plan this out very good because now how do I get food to eat? Where can go to stay in sleep?
And where am I gonna go next in order to not be found by the people who are abusive to me? These are things that I have never experienced thank God, but I do know I’ve seen UA-cam videos of people that I’ve been through that they have said the exact same thing
That’s why I’m able to tell you about it because I have heard people say exactly what I said you know so yeah it’s easier to ask somebody while you just couldn’t get out of there and just run away and tell somebody
Duhhhh said it’s easier said than done right and I guess when you’re in the situation, it is easier to ask somebody that then, if you actually experienced abuse by the hands of somebody else whether there’s a family member or a random person
That is honestly honestly what they would say you know that they have asked themselves the same questions. They have probably most likely thought about it, but they are basically no independence. They have no money they have no means or necessary financial to survive. Eat you know I mean, you have to pay for food at the grocery store you can’t just walk out with them, you know
These things abuse victims often think about and you do think it happens to women more so because they speak out about it, but it does happen to men as well because I’ve heard of it happening to men
Did you ever see the 60 minute Australia episode? Where Sarah Jane Parkinson told the police whole bunch of lies about her fiancé Dan Jones. And he basically got thrown in jail and it was so bad that his parents actually had to get divorced because they spent a lot of money on like lawyers and different things trying to get him out of there that they had no money to even stay together because they couldn’t afford stuff for their house you know they couldn’t afford food you know
I believe they spent over $600,000 and yeah a lot of that money they lost they spend it all trying to get their son out of jail because he was innocent. He wasn’t a bad guy at all. You know he wasn’t a horrible person.
Never did anything to abuse her he loved her. He started to build a house and you know I don’t think any man that abuses a woman would even go out of their way to build a house from scratch. They just take whatever the person owns the abusers would never deal with anything from scratch or make anything from scratch like that
Yeah Sarah Jane Perkinson was a girl she was a person. I wouldn’t even call her a human but I would say she is a person who looks like a woman, but she isn’t really woman. I don’t think she is even human you know.
And there is another incident on an episode a current affair where this man met this woman on a Muslim dating site and I think I don’t know for whatever reason he wanted out of her life I think maybe he found out that she had been doing things that weren’t OK so yeah
But he bought her everything like jewelry, leather jackets, fine dining and different kinds of trips and I think he said that was over $200,000 and she apparently ran sucked the place where they were living in and she said something to him that was more like a threat like a warning
And she ran away into the elevator, started giving herself a couple sucker punches to her face to make it like that Weisel the guy that she was dating she wanted to make it look like that he had abused her and that he was a very horrible person that he was treating her very very very badly
And he actually got thrown in jail too they actually believed her, but I think what saved him is she got caught unsecure camera when she went in the elevator so there was actually security cameras and yeah, and I think what they did is that they saw the video and Decided to let him out of jail because they made a huge mistake. You know they probably felt bad for trusting her.
So yeah, there’s a lot of so-called women out. There are just as abusive and controlling, and our capable of doing these exact same things if not worse then the men were actually abusive and controlling.
Men just don’t talk about that as much because I can see a man if they went to the police and said my girlfriend or my wife is abusive to me, and they apparently showed all the bruises on them selves
I don’t even think that they would have a trial for the abusive women out there? Yeah they don’t even do enough for women who are abused if they were men I don’t even think that those people would even go to trial at all because they would be labelled as liars. They would be not even taken seriously.
And to me, it’s not fair it’s not right you know because there’s lots of women out there who abuse their husbands and boyfriends as well. There’s lots of people who were dating their gender of people who are gay and lesbians who get abused by their intimate partner you know so it’s not just a woman being abused by her husband/boyfriend it could be a woman you get abused by your intimate woman partner
Or a man getting abused by his boyfriend or husband, you know they always talk about on the news how domestic violence against women is getting more and more and more out of control
However, do we really know exactly why the man beats up their wife or slaps her in the face sometimes? Majority of women aren’t doing anything wrong, and I know that sometimes though the women could be the one that are being the instigator so
And then, sometimes it could be both sides two as well like you know like one is trying to make the other one jealous and the other one tries to get back at the other person by making them jealous you know sometimes it’s on both sides you know left and right
So you can’t always assume that it’s always a so-called man or a so-called woman who is the one that blame I mean normally it is just one person and it always seems to be women that get taken more seriously than men
And that is why men don’t speak out about dating somebody and things didn’t work out quite well and it just turned into a nightmare for that guy, you know why you don’t hear about it too often, but it probably happens more often than we think it really does. You know I have no doubts in my mind that men are victims abused on the same level as women who are victims of abuse
Just leave her, take the kids.
She is not a victim!
Healing and peace 🙏🏼
I'm sick of people telling men they can't defend themselves against a woman physically attacking them.
THAT IS WRONG.
There is never a good reason to hit your child.
Move on. You accept then she will continue doing it. You can walk away
Leave her. ASAP
My Brother was beat up by his wife. I didn’t know until years after they divorced. My niece told me. Don’t put up with this.
You have to make effort to control yourself. It's not automatic.
bruh,I cannot! wtf is rly even going on here? &&,why is this being allowed to continually occur?🤔
If you don't pursue the help that you sincerely need, they will grow up and accept this behavior.
To the grandmother - I can relate.😊
Funny how some couples are more incensed by the infidelity than by the violent abuse.
I made a promise to my daughter while I was pregnant with her that I will always love and protect her. I promised that she will not experience what I did as a child. She was nine months old when I left her father because of the mental abuse, the screaming etc. Two years later, I have never regretted that decision. When it comes to her wellbeing, those decisions are the easiest to make. Would I rather climb a volcano with her on my back thats about to erupt or take her hand down another path, a path filled with beautiful flower's, birds chirping, water, and serenity.
She belts a 2 year old? The man is failing as a parent
Please God wrap your loving arms around this family & your protection around the children & healing for the parents. In Jesus name Amen
They don't need god, they need to get away from her.
Dr Phil ❤ needs too be more on
Regardless of what she says her parents did in disciplining her as a young girl,she's just evil to use a belt on a 2year old is just evil,it's just in her to be like this,her parents aren't to blame,she,herself is to blame 100% for everything that's happened,she knows what she's doing but knows how to work the system
These people watch her abuse the kids ? My ex knows she better not try any of that on my daughter
The wife needs to use prescribed meds for her anger issues to maintain a healthy loving peaceful and safe inviorment for the sake of the kids
You honestly believe meds will cure this?
@@Enoughalready20237 I agree with you meds is not the solution it is just a part of the solution for her anger issues, and certainly it wont magically cure her 100%, it will take a lot of time for her to live in peace within herself and others as well.. However, the wife needs some time to heal on her own and distance her self from her husband and kids, and during the distance she should take therapy sessions and once she feels that she is a fit mother for her kids, and a fit wife for her husband, then from there she can start a fresh start for both of their lives .
what happened to this couple. are they still together?
Gee mental illness is a serious issue and it's a hard diagnosis it really goes around sometime it seems like every day life but it's always in the background!
I think it,s abuse not p.p. d this poor man went to Iraq and comes up home to an war zone at home awful!!!!!!
He needs to marry a women who really wants to be a mom and a wife
Sounds like my x to our son😢
You are bc you stay wtf?🤣
10000%
now imagine if the roles were reversed
@@TotalDramaOwenandNoah the woman should leave too wtf? And she’s dumb as rocks if she stays with a man going upside her head
@@TotalDramaOwenandNoah It's the same idea either way. When you allow yourself to be treated that way and don't leave...
@@GrooveisKing i mean you're right
also my guy should fight back bro shes the woman hit her w a 2 piece
You are not less you are more
😰😥😢😱😂😂😂🤣🤣
Postpartum maybe? ... Maybe she's always home with the kids.. does he still date her? Even when you're still married you still have to keep dating to keep the magic
What excuses can we make for a violent woman? Can't be that she's an awful person 🤔
Yes, but hitting her 2 year old definitely isn't an excuse. She maybe she should have thought about that before she had a kid.
Blame everyone and everything except her.
There is no excuse for her abusing her children and her husband I am not sorry for her and I am sorry for her children and husband she needs help and she isn't a victim they are.