How Being Ugly/Unattractive Affects Your Life ? - (Blackpill Analysis)
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Hey guys in today's video we will be discussing how unattractive guys and girls get treated in our modern society , I will also talk about realistic self improvement advice and plastic surgery
PART1: 1:05
PART2: 3:20
"It's not all about looks"
- Goodlooking people.
"Money isn't everything"
- Rich people.
"Just be confident"
- Naturally successful people.
It's astonishing the way people who sail through life on the boat of success refuse to acknowledge that their blessings are EXACTLY the reason they have it easy.
True
It's not that they don't acknowledge it, it's that they don't realize it since those types of people don't have to think about this stuff on a daily basis like we do
@@Idkwhatthisis551 I think it can be a mix. Most people in general want the feeling of having worked hard to achieve something, I think with this in mind when people have achieved something unbeknownst to having an advantage they don't want to even consider the fact as it detracts from whatever they achieved.
@@Zaphod-ef9yz definitely. I mean that obviously doesn’t discredit their hard but it is what it is at the end of the day
@@Idkwhatthisis551I think one of the saddest things too is that if someone who is ugly, poor or just unlucky achieves something then it is played down or barely acknowledged outside of "aww, well done you" compared to when someone extremely attractive does something no matter how trivial it will be more "OMG.. Look at you go, my god has anyone else told you how amazing you are today?" *cracks open bottle of champagne* etc.
The biased society we are in is very apparent.
No matter how much people lie on how unattractiveness doesn't matter, their actions towards you show the opposite.
Exactly.... And how different they treat attractive people
Yep
@@herlinewright9097 if i earned a dollar for every time someone called me ugly i'd be a rich man.
@@gnbilios Same here 🥲
@@gnbilios Me too.
People automatically decide whether or not they like you solemnly based on your looks, the amount of respect a person gets especially as males is directly attributed to looks. People are more inclined to listen to what someone says if they are attractive . The same massage coming from an unattractive person would just role over their heads.
In other words no casual sex or knowledge of female bodies unless they are morbidly obese or diseased.
What did you say?
@@al1665
People will tolerate abnormal behaviour coming from an attractive person regardless of how bizarre or inappropriate it is, but if a an unattractive person is too quiet they are considered a weirdo. The strong silent type only works if a guy is extremely good looking ,if not people are not intrigued to find out if there is any depth to his personality because he isn't attractive enough to spark any interest. Reality is people aren't classified as being weird based on behaviour, people only judge other people based on looks.
@@aldainwalker3579 profound and absolutely true.
@@aldainwalker3579 Happened to me. You described it perfectly.
The worst part of being ugly is realizing that the image you see in the mirror is the reason for all the ignorance and ill treatment you face from others. The fact that you have no control over your facial features (appearance) cause it is purely genetic just adds to this terrible experience of being ugly. 😓
Absolutely!
I feel like everything in me flushes away like a toilet everytime I look myself on mirror and camera
I bet attractive people don’t have problem of being extroverts and doing everything they want bcs they know nobody will say Them anything. If I did that with all my confidence 😮💨my Lord, don’t even want to imagine the looks in their faces
i actually like my mirror image, the worse part are photos where i really can see my assymetrical eyes and face
its not entirely genetic, correct tongue posture, chewing and swallowing will make your face its full potential. promise
Being short, ugly and nerdy had a major impact on me in my teens and early 20s. It started with bullying in school. In my early 20s I decided to give up on dating. I change my mindset and focused on my studies. Now I have a PhD in Electrical Engineering. I have good friends, good hobbies and a very successful career. I plan to retire in my early to mid 50s. Life is good once you jettison those who are trying to bring you down, and focus on improving yourself and what makes you happy.
God bless you my friend. Happy returns of the day from my side.
lol i got bullied because i was dominating everyone, they knew i couldnt fight 10 at once
being smart can make someone also delude themselves into thinking theyre not because of alienation
really anything that alienates you can destroy your life- especially if you have a social drive
Hello, few weeks ago my short friend with a weird narrow voice committed suicide
@@mohammed_samiul_hasan can you blame him for walking out early?
@@WeebRemover4500 I'm skinny tall ugly too. Still I promised myself I will never commit suicide. I got all sorts of mental health problem. I think I have a brain tumor or something. I will die anyway.
The mirror is my Second worst enemy, the first is my face.
🤣😂
You're not ugly
Youre average looking bro stop being a fakecel 😂
It is hard I fell you
At least you’re clever
Recently realized the reason I dont like going out is not because I have social anxiety or anything, but because I see how ugly I am of a person when I walk through crowds of average and hot people.
This messes up my self esteem and makes me feel awful. As a result Ive become more and more reluctant to step outside :/
At least Im glad theres more people like me on the internet; not because I want others to suffer; but I feel isolated all the time because all my friends are living their youth to the max (Im 21M btw) and Im literally the only black sheep in my family, my ex-friend group (no longer, cut them all off because they had 0 respect for me. always ridiculed me)
I am like you + with bodydysmorphia start with 16 and continiue with 22 i can unterstand more and more why some poepel smoke/drink alcohol/take drugs yeah life is wondeful sure 🚬....
Same but im 15 lol
@@kaidanobue7232same but the most fucked up thing for me is even my parents mal treating me cause of how i looks :(
Same also I'm 21 too
Same. Your comment sums it all up perfectly.
I'm ugly. But I save a lot of money by not dating. I have LOTS of time for myself. I can study,read books for hours. I can meditate and pray for hours without distraction.
And you have a lot of time to cope
If ur introvert that's dream life style
virgin
Nobody shows me respect, Can’t get real friends, People look at me in disgust, can’t get jobs, disliked by everyone on site, it’s not even about dating at this point.
I have the same. I had to change my profession because they didn't want me anywhere in my previous profession.
Lose weight. No matter how much society tries to tell you fat is attractive we all know it’s the exact opposite.
Im so ugly that some even called me the DEVIL😢some are affraid of me most ladies in my place because they see me as a demonic person due to my frown face
I know it isn't changing any destiny but I have the utmost respect for any sub5 who doesn't rope himself.
there were always social circles in my high school that were apparently strictly forbidden for me, any attempt from my part to enter any social circle ended up failing miserably by just being shrugged off, or a simple "ew". at around age 15, i was seriously thinking about ending the carnival that is my life, but i kept in the back of my mind the hope that hey, "what if you become a little bit more patient, and actually find out if what they say, that personality is what really matters, is actually true".
fast forward to now, age 26, i plan to do some extreme stuff to people before i die. apparently what they were saying about personality, and after numerous bad looks and constant rejection by everyone, i came to the conclusion that their statement was only providing me lost hope.
what i always wanted since a very young age, was a peaceful life, a simple house, a wife, and a lot of kids; something that by biological standards, is what is the blueprint of a man's needs. however, since the world is biased against me in every aspect of reality, i will have to get those things through "unorthodox" means.
ive lived the past 7 years of my life in my room, ashamed, scared. others, nah, they have their cheekbones to carry them to acceptance. i plan to make everyone that has ever put me down to suffer.
I'm a sub-5 and life is great. Too many sluts to handle, actually. Lower your standards.
@@xadion6866 this was very interesting to read negl. I wonder how you must look for you to become so hopeless in life. There must be some redeeming factors? Do you look as bad as the guy in the video or worse? Any celebrity lookalikes?
And do you not have any other hobbies or goals in life that you can focus on or is getting a wife, kids etc your life's mission?
If that's not possible and you wish to end it all, how would you go about doing something to people and why have you not done it already?
@@xadion6866 bro just improve everything you can about yourself like working out, eat healthy, and become successful you definitely will be able to find a wife then and have children, but u gotta do it now 26 is already halfway into your twenties you need to start as soon as possible so by the time your 30 you wont regret
@@zesebi regret what? tell me regret what exactly, there is nothing to lose if i take a more chaotic as well as predatory path. the contrary even. do you want me to envision a path in which i live my life as a wagekuck, being exploited for whatever resources i can provide for my boss who outright enjoys the results of my hard work? and in the end being reward with what? a single-room apartment to lay my exhausted skin on? with no wife? with no property? just a dead hollow man walking down the street trying to get by with the least possible spending?
if you my dude dont think this world is unfair, then you havent been paying enough attention. i know girls that have bought themselves the most expensive cars when they turned 20 years old without even moving their pinky finger. women nowadays just sit back and wait for things to fall onto their feet without breaking a sweat. they just wear some tight leggings and wonder outside in the nightclubs, done, no more work, no nothing, just like that theyve settled their life for the long game with absolute 0 effort.
tell me again, what do i have to lose, and what will i regret? because losing a life in which im a literal slave is not really a loss. i dont intend to do anything to myself anymore, and you should have understood that by my first comment. being patient through all the adversities i lived in my life has earned me a very sharp toolkit that i intend to use for my own reproductive as well as well being state.
laws and governments are irrelevant to me at this point since they are the ones that invented the status quo which is created to literally enslave us. it takes only 10 men to overthrow any oppressive government in the world. we just have to get the boot out of our necks.
I remember that one time in high school, this attractive/above-average looking girl from another class (or school, I think) moved into my class.
She was very quiet and reserved, but everyone in my class started talking to her and befriending her, and in a few days, she had already become part of a social circle.
No coincidence.
The same thing happened at my school but the girl wasn't pretty
No frnds, got bullied by some girls and ended up having a breakdown by end of f year and I was like welcome to the clan
Fortunately, I realized I'm ugly in my early childhood. Therefore I've never tried dating and focused solely on myself and my friends. I know where my place is. I realized, it's nothing unusual that I'm getting looks of disgust from women when I have to talk to them. I'm trying to avoid them if possible though. Not for mine, but their comfort. I'm used to my life as it is. I'm ugly and I'm perfectly aware of it. So it's not affecting me in any way. Never did.
It's not so Black and white as you think , I'm a sub 5 too but I never had issue with dating and I'm shy and awkward ... If u wanted to have dating life u could , not with a supermodel tho
@@ivblizzard3616 no wayy you cant be sub five
@@WIEIRDO why?
same situation with me , but dam it kills me everyday . i jus wanna b loved 😔 .
I would pay to see the look on their faces when you try to talk to them. I'm sorry....
Usually when I have to talk to women their smiling and laughing. So I'd like to see what thats actually like when they give looks of disgust
I would genuinely listen to the argument "looks don"t matter" when good looking or even average looking people turn into ugly beasts (with prostetics, makeup whatever) stay that way for a month and come back to tell me nothing has changed in there life. But I think that will never happen. Truth is good-looking people only need average personality traits to have a partner, a good job or anything else they want. When you are ugly you need either money and strong personality or just money.
People care about looks/image, money, power, and popularity/fame. You need to be strong in at least 1.
If you are good looking, then it's easy to have popularity and easy to make money, and people will actually be attracted to you.
If you just have money, power, or fame, and no looks, then you will only attract gold diggers and people who just want to use you and who are not actually attracted to you.
@@AJBlueJay I always feel that, i have money and sometimes i feel that ppl want still to stay with me because im like to not stingy and reliable when they have money problems.
People say dumb things and it is amazing what you can get people to believe. Yes, looks matter and No it's not true that "all you need is love" - you want someone to love you when you're dirt poor and can't do anything for them? There is so much propaganda in our lives, it's amazing.
Random guy your right about that one if your ugly you need to have above average intelligence and personality to make up for it if you don't have those things then life becomes very hard and cold . But you can still make a difference
I have noticed this about life and how my brother and older cousin was treated. They are both handsome and in shape and got girls back to back. Plus the special treatment they got from my family versus me and my cousin who was around my age who were both obese. As i grew up i noticed the taller guys pulling women left and right and the shorter guys struggling just to get a woman to acknowledge them. Black pill has really opened my eyes to things i was blind to before.
Anyone who says "be confident" or "improve your game" doesn't know what life is like when you're ugly. Fellas, here's the solution... get at least a decent job, date down, and pick someone who will go to the gym to get in shape. We can build up a nice looking girlfriend, but snagging one outright... never happened for me in my life.
I agreed with what you until you said date down. Never do that, rather be alone instead of dating down which will probably make me even more miserable.
@@UserRobot215 Nothing wrong with dating a 4 as a 5 🤷🏻
Take your girl to the gym and you will lose her. I can guarantee you that.
@@153ridzzzz i have no idea how this video ended up on my TL (probably becs I watch a lot of psychology stuff) but well, this channel attracts a looot of insecure people. How does one even come to the conclusion "take your girl to the gym and you'll lose her"??? I've always been "exercising" all my life (I've been a dancer since I was 2-3 years old and that includes much more exercising than people think lol) and none of my boyfriends ever "lost" me to another guy. If you're dating someone you're afraid of "losing to someone else", you probably shouldn't be with them. I've had 2 serious boyfriends and both of them were really into gym and stuff and not once was I scared that I'd lose them to the women that go to their gyms. In fact, I used to go with them sometimes just to hang out or something and they'd help me with the equipment. The girls at those gyms were super friendly. I've been hit on a lot of times even while I was in relationships but I didn't respond becs I was in a relationship. Same with those guys. People are more loyal than you'd think.
@@nini-qc1qd Keep being oblivious. Just because you are certain way doesnt mean everyone else may be like you too. I also speak from watching multiple guys who have shared their stories about their girls hooking up with other guys from the gym.
Its time to stop looking at the world from a narrow scope. Just as there are loyal people out there, many unloyal ones also exist.
When I was at school, in the 1960s/ 70s we had physical education. The teacher would select two sporty types to choose two teams out of the class. Because I was skinny and ugly i was always chosen last. It always hurt, and humiliated me.
i feel you bro. same thing happened to me. i was even pretty athletic and skilled at most sports. but since i was ugly no one would choose me
@@youngsvph7573 Thanks for your reply. One day it happened and i had enough. I was so humiliated I got up and walked back to the gym to get changed. The Physical Education teacher was calling out to me to return, but I kept on walking away. He threatened to cane me, but I still kept walking and ignored him. I changed and went home This was in the mid 1970s, when schools punished boys with a cane. It was considered discipline. The PE teacher never caned me. I won that.
@@carltwidle9046 man i’m really sorry that happened to you. i hope you are doing better in life now. i’m only in my early twenties so this happened to me more recently. it’s sad to see that society is still as shallow as it was 50 years ago.
@@youngsvph7573 I find you young people to be more open minded than my generation. It was very oppressive, and people were bigoted Everyone had to be the same, conforming. The only thing i liked back then was 1970s music. If you were different, people did not like and accept you. It was hard. I can remember being bullied by girls, because I was skinny and ugly. I never hit them but it was hurtful.
@@youngsvph7573 Yes my life today is good. Now that im in my sixties, Im no longer interested in what people think of me. If they don't like me I'm fine with that.
Perception is reality. Yet, people will conveniently downplay the profound effect looks have. When your physical form is exactly what is perceived throughout "life"
9:48 personality is your looks. Your looks is your personality. That’s why we say FACEsonality
Literally nobody says that
@@onepunch5810 literally, like literally, literally is so literal. Do you literally agree?
@@BoredomandVanity lmfao 😆
Liesss
Your looks is your bare face
looks are everything, im 18 and i´ve experienced some extremely brutal stories at High school.... if only you knew how bad things really are boyos.
Nice video brother
Can u tell the stories
I understand, bro. I'm extremely ugly and must endure dirty looks, angry, hostile behavior from women, and mistreatment daily.
I am a -10 and so I accept it completely. Since I’ve been treated negatively, I give it back very subtly. I treat EVERYONE the exact same nobody gets special treatment - I do not chase anyone, I don’t simp or go on social media. I am very direct and there isn’t any gameplay. My communication is cold and direct.
I do not do anything special for anyone.
Yeap as a girl you can see the beauty hierarchy too. Men are so attentive and codescendent towards atractive women. Also, other women tend to be either friends or jealous toward beautiful women. So, it affects both sexes as well.
Women get casual sex with attractive partners. That's the difference. Women can psychologically relieve sexual tension with another person easily. Men in the West can't even get an escort with European features without feminists rushing to the voting box to squelch all the escort sites and encouraging women to blame men for asking for dates. This in turn just inflates the costs of normal looking escorts, while making undesirable ones a bucket of diseases.
@EDGAR yes it does
@@ritaevora9430 only if you’re chasing chads. Go for your looksmatch
@@DCtheGod no u dont understand
@@ritaevora9430 I mean unless you’re literally a 2/10 I don’t see how you’d have a hard time finding a guy who’d give you a chance. Are you a mentalcel?
when u are bullied for years for being a skinny guy, that shit stays with u
I'd be interested in what you have to say about plastic surgery for people that have asymmetrical maxilla bones and front bossing in their forehead
I’d be interested too
THE most important bone in the face. Everything in the face revolves around proper development of the maxilla.
I have a forwardly grown jaw and my chin is 80% okay. But I don't have a square prominent jaw line my face viewed from the front tapers off below my cheekbones giving it a more oval shape. Is there a surgery than can give you a squared off jawline?
I got a nosejob and it helped a TON. My maxilla is like Robert Pattinsons, disgusting unless other features match it. Asymmetry is overrated; celebrities who are too symmetrical have to draw beauty spots and uneven eyebrows to look human
There was a curly haired green eyed boy that went to school with me , he was very well liked solely66 based on his looks . He would step into any room and instantly his presence would command the attention of any one there. Girls would line up around him and start brushing his hair and fixing his shirt, he made every guy feel inferior to him by comparison but they liked being around him because by association with him makes them likeable too. He wasn't bright ,but he got advantage over everyone else.like if his homework was passed due he knew exactly how to cuddle up to teachers and get extention even extra grades when strict dead lines applied for everyone else
Looks controls everything
@@hasankumar089
I honestly would prefer to be Poor and goodlooking than to be rich and ugly because if you are poor and handsome it's guarantee that people will help you and you can find your way out with ease, but if you are rich and ugly people will abuse you and steal from you with no concern about you .
@@aldainwalker3579 bruh stealing happens to both good-looking and ugly guys
Is curly hair an attractive feature?
@@aldainwalker3579 Honestly, how can someone steal from you when you know they are there for your resources anyway. If I was rich no one would even get close enough to steal because I know why they're there in the first place.
being ugly and/or unattractive.it's a blooming pain in the backside isn't it?it's absolutely despised all over the world isn't it?
Only get plastic surgery if you have ONE major flaw that is holding you back. Don't mess with it if you have several short comings because it will not help and will cost you a lot of money!
Looks are important that is why I'm working on my self to make myself physically attractive because i already got decent jaw and face cheek bones and just need to lower the body and face fat which is actually healthy and also helps with Attractiveness
I am really skinny(comically) with no jaw crooked teeth and balding head
It's over for me 😢
But people say I'm really good to talk too but slowly I'm losing my sanity and getting negative day by day realising I'll never get married, putting up the facade of happiness is getting harder
Sometimes I feel like quitting it altogether all at once
I'm doing this now as well
Exactly. thanks for pointing this out and sheding some light on these kind of topics which many people consider them to be a taboo.
I used to have a friend he was pretty short I can't really tell how short he was but trust me he was short. he also was kinda fatty which adds another disadvantage to his looks as well, he also suffered from alopecia, his hair was curly so he could do much about it since he was very scr3w. one thing that happened to him was that his girlfriend was constantly cheating on him (she used to use him for his little financial resources) once, she even confesssed to him that she felt very disgusted when she gad to get laid with him
Thank you for giving me a fucking nightmare
I was hoping an happy ending after such long nightmare,
i hope your friend finally wakes up, stops blaming family genetics....
and start working on what he can control. for eg. the fat percentage
Damn what a story
@@JayPatelVlogs Some people shouldn't have kids
@@josephcieplak8920 thank u for being so kind
Its refreshing to see a fellow Moroccan post this kind of content , could you do a video on the importance of skin and skin texture when it comes to attractiveness ?
Sure thanks for the support that will come in the future
As someone who is only pug ugly and not ugly ugly, I can vouch for this.
Yet attractive people say its all mindset. Such b.s.
I did my own experiment one time, I have a smaller weak chin/jawline and so I started punching my jawline to try and toughen up my look and I realized the blood swelled up on the chin and I had a bigger looking jawline .. the crazy part is for the next few hours I remember have a conversation with someone and they treated me so much differently.. they kept carrying on the conversation and then really listening to me when I spoke. I couldn't believe it.
I never did that again but I should have got a chin implant because that's what improves your appearance the most most. My social experiment confirmed what I always thought which is most people want to feel better about themselves by associating themselves with more attractive people.
You have major issues bud. Get some help
I'm definitely ugly 😢 it sucks
I'm 3/10 person :(
Once again you choose a hugely important and tragically interesting topic.
And your analysis too is tragically true and relevant and very moving.
Please can you do a video on usefulness of plastic surgery WITH real cases of faces which have been really improved so that the social life of their owners was really improved too?
A french admirer from Paris
I'm from Poland. I have had many situations where people were rude or aggressive to me for no reason. Recently, while I was at a club, sitting and having a drink, a woman came up to me and headbutted me twice in the face. I was shocked, I saw that the men present there were ready to beat me to possibly defend this woman. I got dressed and left so as not to escalate the situation. all this because I'm ugly (I'm also athletic, 12% bf).
Being healthy is a choice, however advantage and disadvantages can vary on genetics.
Be happy for what you can change, but don't get mad for what you can't control.
LOL, gymmaxxing can't change your face much
@@legallyregarded what he said focus on those things which you can change.
Life is fragile and looks can change in a blink of an eye.
Your spirit is what counts and how you treat other living things.
It doesn't matter how you treat others
Others will ignore you at best and treat u horribly if you're ugly
you must try to have the important elements of the face which are: - eyes with: positive canthalt tilt, dense eyebrow, color, wide horizontally and compact vertically, little visible upper eyelid and little visible sclera. the distance between the eyes is not important as we would have you believe, the proportion systems vary according to the times so they don't mean anything... your eyes just have to have protected it deep in the skull then the jaw: no receding chin, gonion and mandible visible and you must have hollow cheeks the ratio between the philtrum and the chin is not important as for the distance between the eyes it varies during the times and according to the people so do not waste your time with that.... then the fwhr; your face must appear wide, i.e. have good zygomatics again the proportion system as for the midface does not mean anything and it is not having a midface of 1.1 which is not going to give you a horse face For the body just try to have a v body, focus on shoulder width and shoulder girdle, don't waste time with arms and legs... and the secondary points are the teeth and the hair This is how you will be attractive I want to say again that the systems of proportions are just a fantasy and that the people who put it before you are just trying to complicate knowledge to make money.... so don't trust people who tell you that
bro... u dont need to have all these features to be attractive and you should definitley work arms and legs still
Compact mid face implies good FWHR that’s why it’s important
@@DrDomeGetter zahn mclaron, pietro bosswli et ian somerlander have not compact midface but they have large short face still
@@zesebi 15 inches of arm circumference is not very important for the attractiveness of your body and the legs even less I believe
I have a severally recessed chin. It's over.
When I was raped and told the cops, they laughed and told me I don't look like someone ppl want to have sex with. That's when I truly realized I'm ugly. I was at my lowest weight back then so it's really over for me 😎
🥺
FUCKING BRUTAL
Wow, that's suffering on the highest level. Fight through
Same happened to me 😢 a cruel world with cruel looks aren't going to mingle well.
Is this real?
Just win the lotto bro.
Thanks for the advice brother
I know exactly how it feels first hand!
me too
If you r attractive you know it, cos I heard from my mother aunts as they are beautiful they rate people just on the basis of their look not on other charecteristic and in north india beauty is only defined through colour
My mom never allowed me to play in the afternoon during the sun mainly because of tanning and falling ill
@@Tf2snipergaming same here bro my mom is pure racist they are just so proud that I am fair, they talked bad about dark people, my sister was not that fair and for that reason my mother never liked her that much, indian society is racist frankly dark men looks much more musculine and for fair person to look mesculine you need to have muscles like bull
Yeah , am Indian too and the more non Indian and fairer you look the easier time you have. I regret being born with dark skin.
@@ConmanRajat brutal
My mom asked me if I have any female frnds
She knew I was ugly
Again you should determinate the term unattractive (you mean by it average and below average man or just below average ) and those perspectives don't apply very much in the third world due to dominance to other factors (money, status)
your view is obscured. your opinions arent useful.
I mean sub 5 and yes they apply to the third world countries cause I live in one
@@neroangelo2028 believe me man here in tunisia a lot of man whose smv is 4/10 (overweight ,balding or recessed hair ) and they do just fine . The problem begins if you have bad deformities ( smv 3 or below) and i can assure à lot of 4/10 man achieved success (money/status) more than certain 7 and 8 man (very rare in my country and third world in general due to poverty )
@@taamallahdhia5070 in US.. women have jobs so they have no need for ugly guys (they used to be providers in 20th century)
@@neroangelo2028 which one?
I'd be interested if u analyse those k-pop idols who looks handsome despite not fitting in the western beauty standard
I'm interested in that aswell
@@neroangelo2028 it will be awesome if you make a video about it
Because they fit east Asian beauty standards which are different
@@TwistedLullabies they're far from the so called 'perfect face'
@@lancelot4704 Americans have a very American centered world view
Lost 170lbs and let me tell you, life is completely different with the amount of respect I get now.
One thing that is ignored here is that plastic surgery can't fix many flaws and there are some cases where the cause of ugliness/deformity is not clear so there is no way to fix it when the problem can't be diagnosed even by plastic surgeons. For example, there are shapes which look very ugly when it comes to the cheekbones/jaw/forehead and surgery can't significantly reshape bone, it can only move it forward or add forward and lateral projection through an implant, the only exception being jaw rotation causing a slight change in face shape. Also, having too many surgeries for too many flaws creates an uncanny valley effect, which looks unnatural and even uglier, a surgery can go well and still reduce the harmony of the face and overall make the face worse. Also, 3/4 view or side profile doesn't really matter only the frontal view does. It's ideal to view faces in motion than pictures to determine their true attractiveness, sometimes there can be a significant difference. For those who are unattractive and can't be fixed with surgery or weight loss, if they are wealthy they can create a charity to improve plastic surgery techniques or learn more about aesthetics, since there are many factors still unknown. Since this is not happening our only hope is singularity allowing for such techniques to be developed and potentially merging with AI which is the only way lookism can be eliminated since it's ingrained and wired into human brains.
It also doesn't help that it's not easy to come by videos made by people who are actually deemed by society as physically ugly. Like I find most videos like this made by people who might be dealing with ugliness, but are actually so beautiful even the comments point it out.
You can absolutely get bullied even if you look good.
I was the best looking kid in school, girls throwing their numbers at me, but STILL I got bullied hard because I was very skinny, weak and gentle.
Also bullied out of jealousy because of popularity with girls and very good grades.
After high school, same thing, lot of dudes hated me for the simple fact I had girls, I even got punched out of nowhere for such reason and risked fights many times.
People bully ugly people because they want to take their intimacy and breeding rights away, it's the same with bullied attentive people, but it's driven by competition.
@@thesittingtraveller3467 right, I was bullied in front of my crush and my bully ended up with my crush 😑
@@varuntripathi8712 you have the chance to change that, its never too late.
@@varuntripathi8712 that's rough
@@xadion6866 ridiculous, why would you disrespect yourself by chasing an unfaithful partner
Proccessed sugar is sh!t it can make your face ugly as hell, face bloating sucks, that is why I quit white Sugar and also decreased carbs intake because too much carbs does the same thing
great vid as always, cheers
Thank you
This is all common sense but most people have no enough courage to admit that, anyways, deny or admit it everyone will feel all the consequences of genetics impact on their live
As a wise man once said it’s about heightfidence and facenality
In high school sometimes i was just walking near a girl to enter in the class and a girl says : you are an agression for the eyes
You don't deserve that Brother
@@neroangelo2028 actually im a 27 yo tfl actually thinking of nose job and eyelid but im not sure about that cuz my religion belief forbid those kind of thing so im literally lost between waiting until i die and hopefully go to heaven with a handsome face or surgerymaxxing to feel better about myself
@@kamellolz7 where are you from?
@@thorodinson6649 algeria
When I was in high school a girl called Sarah didn't want to sit next to me for group work... She looked at me like I'm a monster
Most of us are average yet we put so much emphasis and importance on what's rare, beauty. Idk why. I think beauty affects women most because most of life is based on a woman's attractiveness. Marriage and procreation. Men are visual so women need to be attractive. Ugly men can always just have a cool persona and some $ and their unattractiveness becomes accepted. Nothing an ugly woman can do to change that for herself though, not even being rich.
Make up should help with that issue , also not everyone can get rich
@@neroangelo2028 umm makeup can only go so far. A few hours in and it wipes away. And at home u take it off. U can't hide your true self forever
@@nawal10 well this is life there are somethings we can and can not change all we have to do is accept it and focus on what we can change
Many statistics point that looks matter to women more than men. It is an age long misconception that men care about looks and women do not. If a man is unattractive, NOTHING will make him more desirable. Back in the old days, women looked to men for money and stability. But now women make their own money and can stabilise themselves, so the only thing they look for in a man is good genetics and success. On top of this, the threshold for looks is A LOT lower for women. A 2/10 woman on tinder will still gets HUNDREDS of matchs a week. Whereas even a 5/10 man will only get about 5 a week MAX. Women only date the best, men date whomever they can get unless they are top tier 7s and above in-which they have an abundance.
Ugly men who get girls with money arguably worse than being alone. Being a betabux is pathetic. Also the way women view average and below average men is compatible to how they see women. Average men are invisible to women and guys who are ugly enough will even come off as repulsive. Regardless of personality and status
I'm a 17 I have good facial bone structure but my chest has a special deformity called pectus craninatum which is the sternum of chest wall protrude and making it weird. I was depressed and I tried to kill my self by taking a knife and tried to stabb my neck ......this sounds weird right but I'm not joking
Bodybuilding changed my life
glad you are doing great now
My assymetrical jaw fs me up heavy🤦🏾😂
@ Nero Angelo You have an awesome channel my friend 👍🏼 Keep up the great work. You’re appreciated by your audience.
Thank you all of you
I am 17 and i am probably 7 or 8/10 facially because i get women attention easily, the only reason i am not able to pull a shit ton of womens is because i don't go out too much. And being really honest, my so called friends literally are jealous from me and make me insecure about my colour just because i am a little bit brown and i have a symmetrical face and perfect facial growth and literally all of them are below 5 and they try to insult me infront of other women about my colour and call me with racist names. Even though i am able to attract womens but i find them unattractive. And literally chads ot lite chads are always treated badly by normies or ugly people. Every man tries to compete with me.
And even some girls disrespect me just because i rejected their snapchat requests.
All other girls treat me nice.
I am a sub5
@@ivblizzard3616 look my friend everyone has different problems and we have to accept what we got from god and we cannot do anything about it. You know what i am 5'8. So i also have flaws. But even though you are a sub5 you still can get a descent women if possible in future, if you work on yourself.
@@rachitbhati1what's your Instagram
They hate you 'cause they can't be you. Enjoy while you still can.
@@casper12365 I am enjoying my life! Thanks for the advice G!
😕 Everything he said is 100% True!!
I'm considered somewhat unattractive.. YET I managed to have been seduced by 6 woman....have been flirted...teased... mainly by 4-6 tier level in looks
I'm nor rich nor that tall...but I am somewhat tanned...dark hair...in shape
On the bright side the guy never give up now has a good looking wife.
The worst thing is being considered visually attractive but having a shy timid and gentle personality and I can often sense a woman's disappointment when they approach me thinking I'm going to be all confident and extroverted all I get is looked at and smiles and all I get is awkward attempts of women trying to flirt with me.
"Ugly and "unattractive " are Worlds apart but share getting "the short end of the stick"
Channel is growing bro
Yeah thanks to all of you
I lift weight, my body is fit , but you know the answer
I can personally attest that I used to have a cuter nose, and after an injury, it healed crooked. I feel like a freak. I don't attract anyone. People in general. My teeth are also crooked, but I'm doing Invisalign, so at least that will be handled. I'm too scared to get a nose job. I'd love to try filler for it, but I don't know if it would be enough in my case.
When it comes to attraction, 50% looks and 50% personality but your looks is your first 50%
looks are personality
80% looks
20% personality
I think it's 90%looks 10% personality
But yea I understand your point what ppl see first is your looks, if you are ugly they will have bad assumption about you and didn't even care about you Which means they wouldn't even know your personality lmao
I'm 5'8, have a receding chin, a big nose, acne scars, and I'm balding. There is really no hope for me. As an ugly man I can tell you, it sucks, but you can learn to live with it. My best advice is let your right hand be your best friend, if you know what I mean. It helps tremendously with the pain of being lonely.
Become a warrior, like me. Battle is the great redeemer.
Samuel 16:7
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
I got no bitches till I grew out my hair and then girls I thought were out of my league started to like me
Please make a video of the surgeries one can do to increase attractiveness. I’m stuck and can’t decide what surgery would best help me out.
Well well welll. I suggest taking the L plastic sergery
Stop shaming people for wanting to improve their quality of life we don't do that here
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 bro always try to think from their perspective.
There is no way that someone life is that bad just because of their looks.
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 you're insane
I Would Lick To Tell Everyone That Just Because You Are Not Handsome Person Does Not Mean That You Will Definitely Not Have Freinds Or Relationships With Women,
Because I Myself 25 Years Old, Handsome And Attractive, Even Though I Have No Freinds And I Still Have Not enterd Into A Relationship With A Girl, What A Mean By My Words Is That Even Handsome Men Can Suffer From These Things
Today I was running on 1 hour of sleep and a ton of self doubt, I was wondering whether or not I was ugly. I went to the store and to pick up a cup ramen because I didn’t want to cook, then with cosmic timing some teenage girl walked past me while staring. I heard her friend say “stop staring at him let’s go” and as they walked away I was like “am I that ugly?” Until the girl that was staring at me said “but he’s so pretty though” so that saved me from throwing myself into a river.
i just really really loathe myself, ugly inside and out.
there's no escape to being me.
I am so called ugly for the society because I am fat due to medical reasons which are not in my hands (auto immune hypothyroidism since childhood)
But the fact is that I accept myself and love myself and ina way I was lucky to see reality of this world .
They don't love you but love your beauty and money .
What I believe is that being successful is more important and in becoming successful your looks hardly matters . Looks can never supercede your calibre your hardwork and intelligence.
Therefore I just don't want to change myself to look attractive to get accepted by this fake world.
Just working hard to be healthy and successful that's all what matters in life .
Even if you get attention of this fake world by looking good then also it's of no use . They will be the first to run away in your bad times..
great topic to discuss
That’s why I’ve been in the gym and been putting in work I always been told I have a baby face/Handsome face and is always rated a 7 plus I have nice looking dreadlocks and also I have a very good potential jaw line and getting girls is 50/50 with me as I actually tend to pull really pretty girls but nothing to overly attractive girls so I know when I drop to a more healthy weight I should be a 8/9 and life is gonna become way better I just can’t wait 🔥🔥‼️💯
Hated my parents so much they already have my two older sister which looks decent and they decided to make me and now i suffer everyday seeing an abomination in the mirror
People been cruel to me and I been cruel to people it's just a big circle of cruelty in abundance. Why does life have to be this way?
You are absolutely right....
great video
Thanks
Jesus doesnt care if you are ugly or not.
The only one who loves you 100 % no matter what. And you cant trick him with good looks or charisma.
being a man in this decade is gonna be harder than ever. the amount of work out grandparents put in to get average women will look night and day compared to our generation
Not really. We have abundance of resources and information that the previous generations did not have.
Our lives are overall so much easier.
Go to a poor country and find a woman there
First.
This Is so true being a ethnic growing up in the west kids used to bully me from a young age for having a big nose.
love your self and that's it!
I got bullied alot for my race
good content
For my first five years, I was cute, sort of a White Gary Coleman. Then I got fat, after a tonsilectomy. Unfortunately, I have my father's bad looks, bad eyes, but my Mother's lack of height instead of her beautiful looks. Life is rough as the shortest kid in the school, and you get to work twice as hard for half the pay, despite having the most degrees. The one "love of my life" died, and there has been no one since (I still don't know what she saw in me).
Do you do personalized phone or video calls with clients?
So far it's mainly just messaging
its not important, it is all in our head, good body is more important.
I was born with the gift of lightning fires.
It isn't always looks there are multiple factors that makes a person attractive. If you don't think so tell me how Humphrey Bogart landed Lauren Becall. Bogart was short, scrawny, and homely but he was supposedly also charming, intelligence, and interesting.
He had this kind of punk face decades before punk was even heard of. But if he wasn't an actor but a street cleaner she wouldn't even see him.
Well I’m ugly, I decided to focus on my religion and studies sport and hobbies
Now I’m a medical student thank god
I’m still alone,maybe no one will marry me, but at least I’m kind person and people have admitted that and everyone treats me good
I know I’m blessed with a lot lot lot of things but sadly no beautiful face
Hmm yeah I’m trying to deal with it and live my life alone and happy
I have very dark almond-shaped eyes, very thick eyebrows (black and close to the eye), a small upper eyelid, buried eyes, a distance between the eyes of 43%, of the face and a positive canthal tilt. I know that my eyes are attractive even in the time of Corona, when I was wearing a mask, most girls would look at me with admiration and lick their lips (a sign of admiration), and even from my school boys they tell me your eyes are beautiful. But when I take off the mask, I look normal and I don't feel that I am attractive or beautiful, I think this is because my jaw is not strong enough and my face is almost round. So I think the jaw is more important than the eyes. My father and grandfather have strong and visible jaws, and I saw a video of jaw angles and did it on my jaw, and my jaw is perfect! But unfortunately it is not visible.. Can you help me to show my jaw and make it stronger (without surgery) I have already been doing mewing for a while.
Well mewing takes times, I would also recommend you to chew hard gum 5 times a week and hard food to develop the jaw muscles , also dropping in body fat may help aswell
Bro stick to the basics like mewing, proper eating habits and correct your posture. You have to be patient because it takes time
My jaw developped very well by doing Kick boxing and lifting, but it was Also during 17+(puberty),anyway i have a way above average jaw, both the muscle and boné structure
Yea I can relate. As a woman I have strong jaws (from my African father) which I guess isn't a feminine trait (although many models have it). So it sometimes gets me called transgender smhz
Being ugly has its advantages. Like you wont have to get divorced you wont have to pay child support. You wont worry about Std's etc. The earlier you accept that you will not find love the quicker you will realize that if a girl shows any interest in you its a dead giveway that she is trying to put you up on game. Im literally the worlds most unattractive man (not the ugliest) but i have other traits that go along with my extremely dark complexion, personality disorder, low intelligence, lack of charisma, mental disorder, unlikeability, zero friends, creepiness, social anxiety, social awkwardness, hocd, hard flaccid disorder, groinal response disorder, being confused for being gay, etc.the combination of these characteristics makes me the worlds most unattractive man. Im am the champion.
You've pretty much described me.. it sucks but I've just about accepted that I'll never have a women in my life
great video as always man btw i have a question my middle face is wider than my jaw and forehead ( they both are wide too but not as wide as my middle face) is there anything i can do about it
Grow a beard and longer hair
Attractive people said: "But the bad thing about being attractive is that people approach you because want to exploit you." But yes, they never think that being alone is a bad thing too, and many ugly people are approached because of exloit too, especially if they are rich and kind. To be approachable by manipulative people, ppl don't need to be attractive.
Absolutely! people only wanted to get close to me to manipulate me for their needs. I realized when I reflected on my past experiences with friends, being ugly I only attracted cunning and manipulative people for their own gain.
What can I do to fix mouth breathing face? Is surgery the only way?
Start mewing and breathing through your nose
I have a mouth breathing face.. any updates on the mewing ?
Ive been scarily ugly and obscenely handsome. Dont ever give your heart away. Looks cause night and day differences that make you lose faith. Especially women, you find out women are complete savages when it comes to looks.