I think if you are an expat in the Philippines and you didn't build any friendship in a month - that's on you. Filipinos are generally welcoming; however, you need to show them you are genuinely interested in making friendships too. You have to open up yourself to deeper conversations - which most Americans and Europeans are not very comfortable in the first meeting. If you show them that you are a friend, you will be treated as a friend.
Agree. In reality, people choose who they wanna be friends with. As a Filipino, I wouldn’t mind being friends with these foreigners but it’s really up to them. 🤷🏽♂️
Filipinos are sometimes shy but if you're willing to open yourself up to deeper connections, it's not really that hard to fund a real friend here in the Philippines.
Phil. designed by capitalist a place nice for living for foreigner those who have plenty of money to spend and enjoy their living our natural beauty of our country
My dad is from France and my mom is a Filipina from Sampaloc. Manila me and my 3 siblings my oldest brother and my older sister both of us shock when we move to the Philippines we grow up in france. But when we move to The Philippines what i notice for filipino people are they are so resilient , and respectful and caring this is why we moved in my mom home country its just wonderful to hear that we as Filipinos are loved for people who have been lived here. This is something that we should proud of🖤🩶 love you all!♥️
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That's why you get baited easily. You don't have to worry about what other people think. I'm also a Filipino, and I always see foreigners as our equal. They are not above us/better than us. We're just the same. Stop with your inferiority complex or trying to find validation from them. The problem with Filipinos is they always see foreigners, especially the foreign men, as their savior, someone that can lift a family from poverty. Can we just stop with that mindset and stop belittling ourselves. That's why some of these foreigners don't have close friends here because Filipinos have this colonial mentality or hero complex when it comes to foreigners. They're just the same as us. Geez. Don't put them on a pedestal. It would be easier for them to have friends if we treat them no differently.
“Don't mistake my kindness for weakness, I'm kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me,weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” We Filipinos don't see foreigners higher than us. We are just respectful.
that's definitely your POV. Your reality is not the reality of many Filipinos. the reason why these foreign influencers visiting the PH are getting more views, music reactors getting more views when reacting to Morisette and many Filipino content is definitely that. Go through these videos' comment sections and the Filipinos seeking validation from foreigners is evident and then come back here and tell me that Filipinos don't think highly of foreigners.
i like how the girl in red dress explains her insights. I believe that as a filipino, when a foreigner learns what we also used to do, we kinda look at them as equals to us. The culture of Filipinos about hospitality influences how we see foreigners.
You have a talent in interviewing people. You made them comfortable enough to share their deep emotional thoughts. That's something that's not easy to do.
Great topic to talk about. From my perspective as a Filipino, I'm introvert but with this kind of community, you can never get lonely here. Sometimes my mother would advise me again and again to mingle with other people because its a cool positive thing, to build connections, friends. We relate to each other in terms of hardships, common things etc. And btw, did you know that this country is the lowest rate of suicide in Asia? its only 2%. It's because we've been resilient for a very long time and just trying to survive in our life everyday but we still smile and be positive about it even times in Typhoon. We often say "Bagyo lang yan, Pinoy kami!" Which translates "It's just typhoon, we're Filipinos!". New sub here. Keep it up!
I would have loved your comment but the comment on the suicide rate almost sounds like you are craving for validation. I don't know why do Filipinos do this. And btw, I'm also a Filipino.
Pro tip for living with Filipinos. No filipinos will ever force it require anyone but speaking Tagalog will take you to a different level as now they will see you as actually a Filipino. Very low requirement but speaking the language fluently will let you fly under the radar. Very good vlog by the way. Thanks for sharing.
Speaking the language fluently is not a very low requirement though. That takes years and years. I think if someone knows a bunch of phrases that are used in everyday situations, slang, and even funny words/jokes and the right situations to use them to make a Filipino laugh, that goes a long way already.
This has to be one of my favorite street interviews of foreigners in the Philippines. Great questions and editing, really allowing them to express their thoughts and no "clickbaity" moments
this was sentimental and the questions you asked them were great. i wasn't expecting it would be this good. it's almost like a professional documentary. great job.
Sometimes, its not all just because your living in another country. Ive noticed that as I mature, I like to keep a small circle of friends unlike before. You become less social, crave for more alone time, or be with family especially when your parents are getting older. I think it comes with maturity too. But I also heard of Filipinos migrating to other countries, the first thing they do to get settled is find a Filipino friend to manage homesickness. So I guess, its the same with these guys.
As an American I can confirm it's the same. As much as I like Filipinos, I will never be able to relate with them and they will never be able to relate with me and that's okay. That's what makes our cultures beautiful. The differences....
@@TheDamascenoFamily agree however as a foreigner living in another country, it is important to make the effort to interact with the locals in your community. EFFORT is necessary. Aside from building camaraderie, tt can also be beneficial to you especially in case of emergency where you will be needing help, or you want valuable info that only the locals know. It will make life easier --and happier.
As a Filipina American, it is almost like feeling displaced. I would relate more to the foreigners in the video, but still hold some of the cultural aspects. I wish all the participants of this video be safe, have success in their island life, be able to find and create long lasting friendships. I hope they don't give up and give the Philippines a chance. They are living my dream.
Speaking of friendships happening ‘organically’ without trying or putting in effort, I haven’t made a single friend organically living in Japan for almost 13 years. I happen to be a very friendly, outgoing, laid-back, open-minded Canadian. I understand that trying to make friends can come across as being ‘needy’, so I’ve never really gone out of my way to really initiate friendships. I often approach people to introduce myself and chat for a short while, which I figure should be enough to initiate a friendship, but it has never happened. From my experience everyone often seems to already have their regular friends established and seem to not have any desire to increase their friends. Just my experience.
You can encounter Filipino around the world and one of the character they posses is to easily adapt to the environment wherever that be. They are friendly people. Likewise the feeling of longing to the place, home, friends,where you spent half of your life is what we feel also. "No place like home" as they said.
It's not that Filipinos adapt easily, it's because Filipinos like to think that any place else other than their country is better so they have to make it work. Let's stop with this resilience thing. It's a lie.
One of barriers I think with expats making friends here is that language barrier. Imagine being a pinoy in a tight group and you introduce a foreigner who can’t speak Tagalog. The group now would have to accommodate the expat and speak in English all the time. It surely is draining if you’re not used to it.
man, the way you conducted those interviews is literally one of a kind. it's an eye-opener, and also mind boggling. i can feel that you didn't just put your mind into it but you really poured your heart with it.
Many foreigners want others to adapt and understand their culture rather than realizing when you’re in another culture it’s important for them to adapt and understand the new culture.
This video made my day. I have never visited the Philippines but I plan on it because I get a positive impression about the country and The Filipinos I have met. I hope your channel takes off and wish you the best of luck brother!
I think the people( foreigners) want to blend in to be more acceptances by Filipinos, not just because they are foreigners or they differences. They seem to be wanted as normal people like us and learn more about our culture, lifestyle, beliefs, tradition, food, and more close relationships to ours. It is grateful for them to reside and live here. That's an amazing gesture.
Exactly. But most Filipinos treat foreigners as if they're some sort of savior so the interaction becomes superficial and less genuine. And the Filipinos always long for validation because of their inferiority complex. And this is observation is coming from a Filipino.
To look at the psychological aspect of a culture by asking people who grew up outside of it, this video is an exemplary example of it. This is some GREAT stuff, man.
I don’t know why but as a Filipino we tend to humble ourselves to different people groups from other countries. We love people from other countries. Nice video! From Florida USA
Pretty good content, Rob! I have lived almost all my life in the US and still find it amazing that most foreigners living in the PHL have the same impressions of the natives when it comes to culture, behaviour, and outlook in life. Looking forward to watching your other/future vlogs.
I applaud you for your courage in talking about a serious and personal matter. Thanks for sharing your vulnerability about your own experiences. Your conversations were deeply insightful, especially since I can relate to what you're talking about, being someone who's living in a different country. More power to you and keep it up! 👍🏽
thank you for this video. i’ve been looking for this kind of content regarding the philippines. where the questions are bigger and not just more daily vlogging. cheers mate
This vlog is exemplary. Me being a Filipino is curious what expats think about us. Thank you for this vlog. Btw, we may feel distant to foreigners but rest assured we are very friendly. Filipinos tend to be shy.
Best video about life in the Philippines and what I should expect. Thank you and please continue with great content! I only hope to meet the type of people you interviewed in this video. Makes my happy inside and very excited for my need adventures.
Love your videos! It's not the typical traveler blog or impression of the Philippines or expats experience of the Philippines. There's depth to it. Keep it up!!!
I like your content. As a Pinoy, I'd like to know what they can tell about my people, the country, living in, life comparison etc. keep it up. Mabuhay ❤
As a filipino we are thankful and always be grateful to all expats and foreigners coming into the Philippines because you all contributed in the development in any form it might be, financial or information awareness. We'll strive to be hospitable with evryone and respect our co existence and differences so we could live together in peace and harmony
I'm a Filipino & I can relate with the laziness of going out as I'm an introvert! 😅 It's probably why when I go out for coffee and errands I make the most of it and talk to others. Thank you for making this video ❤ encourages me to reach out more to foreigners here and make friends 😊
That’s correct. Filipinos are welcoming, friendly and respectful due to its culture but they don’t see foreigners as higher than them except perhaps you measure one’s achievement and status in life even between Filipinos.
You are definitely blind. Many Filipinos see foreigners as banks and sometimes take advantage of them. Many Filipinos also seek foreigners for a better life.
INCORRECT. where do you think the word AFAM comes from? its self explanatory. MONEY. FILIPINOS SEE EVERYTHING AS MONEY. therefore, if u have more money, they will respect you. as what u said, ''one's achievement'' = money. also dont forget the debt of gratitude or ''utang na loob'' dont be silly. @@annmarie6001
Great video. New perspective and questions regarding being a foreigner there. I hope the guy got the black fella’s contact info, and hangout. I like him. They both got good vibes and could be buddies.
Great job on this video. I hope to watch more of your videos. The African-American guy is right to build friendships you need to go and meet people. One of your interviewee, the Russian lady with a small dog, mentioned that she seemed had a hard time making friends in the Philippines...that's her opinion. But, I can say that if she limits herself to find and make friends only to expats but not more with the locals, then indeed, she really would have hard time to meet new friends. The guy you interviewed at Burgos Circle and the lady in red dress, I admire them for having an open mind and have opened their hearts that to be able to make more relationships in the country, you need to know the culture and the way they are. That is making yourself to level with the locals. Then you would understand them. By moving to a different country and settling there, it is expected that you would build more connections with the locals and yes with the other foreigners too; but you should look forward in meeting and making relationships with the locals. Thanks for this video mate.
I think friendship comes with the length of people living in your life. If we are visiting a place short time, we can expect that we won't have friends.
According to my kuya, he never felt loneliness or isolation living/working in Europe because there are many Filipinos there. The only mindset that he don't like with locals was they call filipinos as migrant workers while in the Philippines, we call them foreigner.
Posting my comment to one of the posts here and I think this also applies to everyone. Im Filipino by blood but have migrated here in US 14 years ago, I’ve traveled in other countries as a lone traveler and I understand how visitors feel coming into a country they barely know. You can’t really force yourself in a situation that’s uncomfortable for you instead you just have to find your own tribe of people you can relate more with :) I’m not the most sociable yet we were taught to always be as part of our culture, it’s harder as an introvert like me but i had life long friends back home. and we always relied on each other backs cos of camaraderie. But then at the same time as you grow older you get to learn how to honor your true calling and that’s okay too. It’s really just all part of growing up and developing as a person and that’s okay too. People should just learn to accept we’re all different as we are and that it’s okay to be different in some ways. Other nationalities are just like us too and they’re not a one size fits all personality, these people have different values as well as personalities and not everyone can be expected to be as extroverted as most people think they are. They’re people like us too, Some of them might have experienced things that just cause them not to open much about themselves and people shouldn’t expect much out of them either. Alot of them have been living under stressful lives and we never know what makes them cry every night before they arrive to PH. Most of the time they visit the country to relax and enjoy and we never know what life theyve lived before they visit. A handful of lone travelers im sure have traveled to PH to find themselves and experience peace. We can’t really compare the pain they feel to the pain we experience. We just have to validate that experience ce. Pain is a subjective thing and it just differs on how one is able to tolerate it. Some will have a hard time but give them time and they will learn to adjust once they get used to the ways of the people. It just happens that Filipinos are more adaptable than anyone else in the world. It just all boils down to respecting one another and being kind to each other
Your video is more calm and organized than most video interviews ive seen. Keep it up and you have beautiful blue eyes and nice pointy nose by the way 😋❤.
I am pure Filipino living here in Berlin Germany. Im living in Germany for almost 8 yrs. Berlin is a very international city. so with me as a Pinoy, I look on every races equally. Though me as a Filipino coming from a different culture. it is much more difficult to make friends in a foreign land as well.
I dunno i just felt like we give back the same energy to what you're giving us. Like that Ceasar guy, he's so jolly and he has that bright and positive aura aeound him. I mean, like it's in our nature to welcome visitors but ofc if that guests don't give us the same energy as we are giving them ofc we'll feel aloof and may think that maybe we're crossing the line and your boundaries, so we'll keep a respectable distance too. Know what I mean?
Thanks be to God for uploading this video. It's not my very first time watching this but... it's so insightful you just earn my subscription so keep it up. I hope in the foreseeable future someday, we meet in person and become friends, brother. You and all the foreigners out there are very much welcome here in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Mabuhay ka. Sulong! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
As a Filipino myself, I would love to meet foreign nationals as it feels like I’m travelling myself! Whenever I’m touring domestic places I approach tourists who might need help then eventually I make friends with them. Although as an introvert I only want to make real connections and that’s a challenge.
Personally as a full Filipino, I prefer foreigner friends because they’re more open minded and they’re easier to talk to about anything without judgement.
Ang ganda ng ganitong content or talagang mahilig lang talaga ako sa mga talk shows or content na ganito. Base lang naman sa content title 'yung culture talaga ang isa sa nagiging barrier kaya may ilang Pinoy ang hindi masyadong nakikipag usap sa mga foreigner lalo na pag mga deep conversation or mga personal na bagay bagay na kailangan ibahagi sa iba.
Filipinos don't like small talk. The trick how to get to close to a Filipino and to get that genuine conversation going is with food. And the problem with Westerners is they do not understand the gusto of Filipinos when it comes to simple things, especially when it comes to their food. If they cannot embrace Filipino cuisine they won't be able to get real chummy with us. Who would want to be friends with people who make pintas with your food. There is a deep psyche when it comes to Filipino cuisine because it traces back to our roots and our multiculturalism, we've been doing fusion cuisine before everybody else. Most of the time the only thing you'll read/hear from foreigners is they don't like our food that it's too salty, sweet, etc...without trying to learn why or how. They refused to learn that the ulam is not salty, it's supposed to be paired with rice, but they are too quick to judge just because they refuse to adapt/learn since they're too accustomed with Filipinos looking up to them. If they can learn to adjust/adapt with us they'll find real friends here, just like Kulas. Just saying. Food is a huge deal to us because that's how we connect with people, that's why we love birthday parties and fiestas. The girl in the red dress gets this. I hope some foreigners read this so they'll learn a thing or two.
Very nice video sir.. I would say every country is unique in culture and people are all different, but as a Filipino I am truly proud with my heritage. New follower here 👏 watching from Saudi Arabia 🎉❤ God bless!!
Yoo really enjoyed the video man! From the storytelling and coherent blend between interviews, to your own outlooks on the whole situation 😌 I have had issues with the same topics you mentioned in the video and can relate to the difficulty of finding deep and meaningful friendships whilst traveling, pursuing your goals and being away from home. Well done, I appreciate the effort put into the video 🙌🏼
I just woke up in a late monday night to watch random videos about learning different languages. I end up liking this video and subscribing as context of this vlog is pure. 🙂💞
As a Filipino and an introvert with a few friends, being alone doesn't mean your lonely it's all in the mind and your attitude to cope with loneliness.
I'm not a foreigner but I'm from the province and feel the same way you guys have, now I'm trying to get out and find very good friends. Thanks for this video
I relate to what you say when you just started drifting apart from others like you dont really feel or have that connection. Like you're friends but not deeper. I always feel that way, it feels like I have my own world and sucks sometimes ngl.
Very interesting perspective. One thing expats are already in a country where lots are welcoming and friendly. Expats or locals have lots of reservations. The next move is only observe who you find fit you’ll consider as a real friend. These people are open arms for a real friends and this will bridge the gap. Locals will forget you’re a foreigner. I’m a Filipina. ☺️
All you need to do is NEVER compare yourself with others. Regardless if you have bigger goals or not. If you continue doing that you will always be isolated. Just live and enjoy each moment. Having few friends even if they are far away is better than having none. Life is short so remove the self-centered attitude. Otherwise, you will always be lonely no matter where you live
Learned something today, Just smashed sub brother. Felt the same way too but I have experienced having a westernian officemate. I and other colleague give him a good tour of the good places to have food and cheap of course, nice place to have a beer with good ambiance etc. I won't hold myself anymore talking to foreigners and making friends when I get the chance! Keep the videos coming Bro! Bless you
New subscriber here. I like this new (well for me it's new) way of showing a country to the world. Usually, it's more about superficial things like food, language, dating, exchange rates, etc. But you've tackled on a deeper topic that makes me think and reflect. I definitely like this, and I hope to see more of this type of video.
As a foreigner living here now i think Filipinos find us foreign as superior to them idk if it's a respect or something but they never discriminate against you from being different which is good... Actually yes they are friendly and a bit shy at first but if you approach them they are welcoming and friendly but if you want deeper friendship i think we need to work it out by going out... And Filipinos are one of the kindness and smartest people in the world i hope they realize it...
11:08 To be fair, greeting people while referring to them as "sir/"ma'am", as well as opening doors for them is not special treatment for foreign people. They do that for everyone, as long as you're a customer. It's their work ethic.
this is such a cool take/perspective. I grew up in the Philippines but I am at the age where I have spent more time now outside of it and looking back, I am still holding on the friendships I have made back then but when I do the math, I've only known them for 2 years and friends I made abroad I've known for more than 15 and I'd say 4/5 I am closer to those back at home.
speaking of friendship here in our country, one advice is all I can give you guys especially to those expats or foreigners.... never expect Filipinos to approach you first as most of us are very shy to speak with foreign people... but once you tried building a connection with our locals, you will then realize that we are never hard to befriend with.... one more thing, never carry a very serious face with locals, they will be more distant from you if you did.. try to give them a smile or even a simple "hi" or "hey how are you" will be reciprocated.
Very nice video. You seemed to want to say something but was hesistating at the end of the video. Looking forward to your next videos on human connections. Pure filipino here and happy to share my thoughts and hear yours.
What's important is knowing who you truly are first. Your true identity and learn to love yourself. Forgive yourself and others of things that have been keeping you down. Once you become a loving and happy person people will like who you are and friendships will come to you naturally.
Really appreciate the worldview of the Ukranian guest, I think thats a positive way of growing and expanding your mind as you travel. You observe the culture, you dont take offense as easily because you know its a culture/way of life that makes the difference. On making friends, I imagine it would be difficult for anybody esp if you didnt grow up in the place because your less likely exposed to scenarios where those connections are built. Like in the community as kids growing up playing together with neighbors, going to school (where I think a lot of friendships are forged atleast for the philippines), and its a given that moving into a place where you absolutely know nobody or have no family, you're bound to be lonely. Because you'd already be adults by then and as adults, we rarely have time for anything other than our own work and our own growth (its a selfish mentality but it makes sense). I think if you want friends the way of making friends would require you to be constantly exposed again to a certain demographic of your choosing. Ofcourse nobody approaches anybody unless they have a motive. It can be good or bad depending on the person, thats why the general response would be of any sane person would be that relating to an acquantance. You dont wear your heart on your sleeve or else youd be taken advantage of. What sets friendships apart would be if after that you realize that you find something in common or something that you like in the other person or you get exposed to the other person more to a point that you find something that makes you reach out to stay connected. And at the same time, have them realize and do the same. I think thats the key. Thats why as adults your best bet would be joining social circles that facilitate that, whether it be the gym, a club/organization/sport/activity that you like where there is some unifying commonality that would bridge making the friendship. That would be the avenue of making friends. The next step of solidifying those acquiantances then would be up to you and the other person but then thats a different story and requires time as you get to know each other. I think this applies in any country. Which the point Im getting to is unless you put yourself out there, preferrably with people who have the same likes, goals, hobbies as you, your bound to stay isolated and lonely. It will always be of your choosing. And itll always take effort, just not as easily as when you were younger where you made friends as easy as because you were placed in the same team in sports, same classroom in school, or even the same game in a play pen. Notice that all of which have the commonality of being thrusted in a scenario where youre forced to interact and get to know somebody. Now the good thing is as adults, we already have a say in what and where were placed at which is definitely a plus. So all you really have to do then is replicate those scenarios to those of your choosing and youll definitely meet the right people and find your crowd in a sense. Great video btw.
Filipinos are friendly with both countrymen and foreigners and many treasures to have friends from other nations. That's where Filipinos became humble to foreigners.
This interview is so great as a Filipino and I really appreciate this because for some reason I can finally have a deep understanding of the thoughts of the different perceptions of you guys foreigners, the questions are so great I appreciate that, and all those answer's to that questions ,I appreciate your honesty for those answer's, for me As a Filipino we are open to everyone who wants to explore our country or have good connection's with us to like have friends with us or to the extend of like deep connections kind of friendships We are into too that us well, but I think it's like 50\50 because for us Filipino thought that you guy's here for like a Visitor's, you guys are here for Vacations here in our country and won't stay that long. by that case we are also thinking of your well being that you guy's might wanted a peaceful and enjoy your vacation here were we are also thinking and we have a whole respect of every someone else's personal space where we don't want to like bather you so much of what you do or thing here we also understand the other culture of where you guys come from and we think about that first as well but either of all that we are all open and embrace any races you are into the world come from maybe it depends on you guys intentions really if you wanted to like a tourist connections with us thats fine and if you also wanted to like deep kind of connections with us we can share that one with you too it depends I can say I think there must have a both consent of that thing to one another's intentions might be you guys wanted to have from us, we are a loving people here either of that we could easily get attouch to someone who is been with us for quiet a while then if we knew that its your last day here its kinda a bit hard for us because it break's our hearts too knowing that your about to leave the country but then again I was hoping that eventually things will change in a long run. i think I talk to much hahaha As a Filipino who live from southern part of the country Love from here to ya all :)
This is a great video with much thought put into it especially for people who travel a lot or moving to another place. Friendships and relationships take time. Yes, I agree, Filipinos are generally friendly and welcoming, but it also takes time like any other culture to build something true. However, initial steps will be easier here, you just need to get to know them better if they are sincere and true like any other people. Hope you do indeed get to build true friendships with certain Filipinos to make you less lonely. Good work!
One of my favorite street interview so far. “Power dynamic” or “perceived value as higher” may have some truth to it. However, you can look at it the other way around where Filipinos point of view in terms of value is lower. See I felt the same way when I was young and didn’t bother to talk to foreigners here in Manila or had a hard time talking to some. When I visited the US for the first time, I didn’t have a choice but to approach Americans for assistance to some items and realized, hell yeah I can talk to Americans!! See Filipinos still look at themselves as inferiors to foreigners and still lack the confidence to approach but listen, try to make the initiative and they will give you the treatment you’ve never received from other countries. That’s who we are. Slowly, we will gain that confidence but don’t hesitate to reach out man.
regarding about the girl saying the relationship is superficial we just respects peoples privacy but once you yourself open up to filipino friend to make that deeper connection...
I think if you are an expat in the Philippines and you didn't build any friendship in a month - that's on you. Filipinos are generally welcoming; however, you need to show them you are genuinely interested in making friendships too. You have to open up yourself to deeper conversations - which most Americans and Europeans are not very comfortable in the first meeting. If you show them that you are a friend, you will be treated as a friend.
Agree. In reality, people choose who they wanna be friends with. As a Filipino, I wouldn’t mind being friends with these foreigners but it’s really up to them. 🤷🏽♂️
Filipinos are sometimes shy but if you're willing to open yourself up to deeper connections, it's not really that hard to fund a real friend here in the Philippines.
Phil. designed by capitalist a place nice for living for foreigner those who have plenty of money to spend and enjoy their living our natural beauty of our country
fund? like fund funding?? 🤔
@@johndoe-g6f find
@@johndoe-g6fi think he meant find
As long you speak Tagalog well (outside Manila). and don't talk like if you know personally any filippino.
My dad is from France and my mom is a Filipina from Sampaloc. Manila me and my 3 siblings my oldest brother and my older sister both of us shock when we move to the Philippines we grow up in france. But when we move to The Philippines what i notice for filipino people are they are so resilient , and respectful and caring this is why we moved in my mom home country its just wonderful to hear that we as Filipinos are loved for people who have been lived here. This is something that we should proud of🖤🩶 love you all!♥️
c'est de la belle naiveté.
@@maegalroammis6020 la vie est toujours belle
@@jkarlleboom4304 je ne supporte pas votre attitude.
Poor innocent animals. Longest living people on Earth, are vegan.
PIaque forms eating animals. Plant-based/vegans don’t have pIaque. ✅♥️😬🐒🐵🦧🦍👱🏼♂️👩🏽😉. Buddhist monks most of them are vegan ✅♥️💪😬😉.
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I like these video. As a filipino, i like to know what foreigners really think about my country with a foreigner interviewer, so they express it
That's why you get baited easily. You don't have to worry about what other people think. I'm also a Filipino, and I always see foreigners as our equal. They are not above us/better than us. We're just the same. Stop with your inferiority complex or trying to find validation from them. The problem with Filipinos is they always see foreigners, especially the foreign men, as their savior, someone that can lift a family from poverty. Can we just stop with that mindset and stop belittling ourselves. That's why some of these foreigners don't have close friends here because Filipinos have this colonial mentality or hero complex when it comes to foreigners. They're just the same as us. Geez. Don't put them on a pedestal. It would be easier for them to have friends if we treat them no differently.
“Don't mistake my kindness for weakness, I'm kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me,weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” We Filipinos don't see foreigners higher than us. We are just respectful.
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that's definitely your POV. Your reality is not the reality of many Filipinos. the reason why these foreign influencers visiting the PH are getting more views, music reactors getting more views when reacting to Morisette and many Filipino content is definitely that. Go through these videos' comment sections and the Filipinos seeking validation from foreigners is evident and then come back here and tell me that Filipinos don't think highly of foreigners.
i like how the girl in red dress explains her insights. I believe that as a filipino, when a foreigner learns what we also used to do, we kinda look at them as equals to us. The culture of Filipinos about hospitality influences how we see foreigners.
You have a talent in interviewing people. You made them comfortable enough to share their deep emotional thoughts. That's something that's not easy to do.
I do agree 👍
Great topic to talk about. From my perspective as a Filipino, I'm introvert but with this kind of community, you can never get lonely here. Sometimes my mother would advise me again and again to mingle with other people because its a cool positive thing, to build connections, friends. We relate to each other in terms of hardships, common things etc.
And btw, did you know that this country is the lowest rate of suicide in Asia? its only 2%. It's because we've been resilient for a very long time and just trying to survive in our life everyday but we still smile and be positive about it even times in Typhoon. We often say "Bagyo lang yan, Pinoy kami!" Which translates "It's just typhoon, we're Filipinos!".
New sub here. Keep it up!
I would have loved your comment but the comment on the suicide rate almost sounds like you are craving for validation. I don't know why do Filipinos do this. And btw, I'm also a Filipino.
Pro tip for living with Filipinos. No filipinos will ever force it require anyone but speaking Tagalog will take you to a different level as now they will see you as actually a Filipino. Very low requirement but speaking the language fluently will let you fly under the radar. Very good vlog by the way. Thanks for sharing.
Speaking the language fluently is not a very low requirement though. That takes years and years. I think if someone knows a bunch of phrases that are used in everyday situations, slang, and even funny words/jokes and the right situations to use them to make a Filipino laugh, that goes a long way already.
@@BeastBrook0 it's a basic requirement to anybody who wants to live in any country. kinda comes with the country. I'm an immigrant myself.
This has to be one of my favorite street interviews of foreigners in the Philippines. Great questions and editing, really allowing them to express their thoughts and no "clickbaity" moments
this was sentimental and the questions you asked them were great. i wasn't expecting it would be this good. it's almost like a professional documentary. great job.
Sometimes, its not all just because your living in another country. Ive noticed that as I mature, I like to keep a small circle of friends unlike before. You become less social, crave for more alone time, or be with family especially when your parents are getting older. I think it comes with maturity too.
But I also heard of Filipinos migrating to other countries, the first thing they do to get settled is find a Filipino friend to manage homesickness. So I guess, its the same with these guys.
As an American I can confirm it's the same. As much as I like Filipinos, I will never be able to relate with them and they will never be able to relate with me and that's okay. That's what makes our cultures beautiful. The differences....
@@TheDamascenoFamily agree however as a foreigner living in another country, it is important to make the effort to interact with the locals in your community. EFFORT is necessary. Aside from building camaraderie, tt can also be beneficial to you especially in case of emergency where you will be needing help, or you want valuable info that only the locals know. It will make life easier --and happier.
As a Filipina American, it is almost like feeling displaced. I would relate more to the foreigners in the video, but still hold some of the cultural aspects. I wish all the participants of this video be safe, have success in their island life, be able to find and create long lasting friendships. I hope they don't give up and give the Philippines a chance. They are living my dream.
Coz you're still foreigner in the Philippines despite of being filipino descent since you grow up in US
Speaking of friendships happening ‘organically’ without trying or putting in effort, I haven’t made a single friend organically living in Japan for almost 13 years. I happen to be a very friendly, outgoing, laid-back, open-minded Canadian. I understand that trying to make friends can come across as being ‘needy’, so I’ve never really gone out of my way to really initiate friendships. I often approach people to introduce myself and chat for a short while, which I figure should be enough to initiate a friendship, but it has never happened. From my experience everyone often seems to already have their regular friends established and seem to not have any desire to increase their friends. Just my experience.
You can encounter Filipino around the world and one of the character they posses is to easily adapt to the environment wherever that be. They are friendly people. Likewise the feeling of longing to the place, home, friends,where you spent half of your life is what we feel also. "No place like home" as they said.
It's not that Filipinos adapt easily, it's because Filipinos like to think that any place else other than their country is better so they have to make it work. Let's stop with this resilience thing. It's a lie.
This is beautiful. Not the usual street interview. There's deep sentiments and emotions😊😊😊
One of barriers I think with expats making friends here is that language barrier. Imagine being a pinoy in a tight group and you introduce a foreigner who can’t speak Tagalog. The group now would have to accommodate the expat and speak in English all the time. It surely is draining if you’re not used to it.
man, the way you conducted those interviews is literally one of a kind. it's an eye-opener, and also mind boggling. i can feel that you didn't just put your mind into it but you really poured your heart with it.
Many foreigners want others to adapt and understand their culture rather than realizing when you’re in another culture it’s important for them to adapt and understand the new culture.
Yes i agree, all i can say is that , dont find yourself to the other , we are not thesame, all you have to do is to understand, and no hatred.
This video made my day. I have never visited the Philippines but I plan on it because I get a positive impression about the country and The Filipinos I have met. I hope your channel takes off and wish you the best of luck brother!
This is an excellent way to also help Filipinos understand how foreigners perceive things here as well.
I think the people( foreigners) want to blend in to be more acceptances by Filipinos, not just because they are foreigners or they differences. They seem to be wanted as normal people like us and learn more about our culture, lifestyle, beliefs, tradition, food, and more close relationships to ours. It is grateful for them to reside and live here. That's an amazing gesture.
Exactly. But most Filipinos treat foreigners as if they're some sort of savior so the interaction becomes superficial and less genuine. And the Filipinos always long for validation because of their inferiority complex. And this is observation is coming from a Filipino.
This channel should be blowing up now, very interesting content, motivational, educational purposes, cannot tapped it up
To look at the psychological aspect of a culture by asking people who grew up outside of it, this video is an exemplary example of it. This is some GREAT stuff, man.
Great interview! I love the insights of the people too.
I don’t know why but as a Filipino we tend to humble ourselves to different people groups from other countries. We love people from other countries. Nice video! From Florida USA
im filipino and man i like you stuff plain and simple much love to y'all expats here in Philippines
So honest and sincere. Love this video. I feel like i wanna give hug each one of them.
Pretty good content, Rob! I have lived almost all my life in the US and still find it amazing that most foreigners living in the PHL have the same impressions of the natives when it comes to culture, behaviour, and outlook in life. Looking forward to watching your other/future vlogs.
I think your series on human connections is going to be awesome.
I applaud you for your courage in talking about a serious and personal matter. Thanks for sharing your vulnerability about your own experiences.
Your conversations were deeply insightful, especially since I can relate to what you're talking about, being someone who's living in a different country.
More power to you and keep it up! 👍🏽
thank you for this video. i’ve been looking for this kind of content regarding the philippines. where the questions are bigger and not just more daily vlogging. cheers mate
This vlog is exemplary. Me being a Filipino is curious what expats think about us. Thank you for this vlog. Btw, we may feel distant to foreigners but rest assured we are very friendly. Filipinos tend to be shy.
Best video about life in the Philippines and what I should expect. Thank you and please continue with great content! I only hope to meet the type of people you interviewed in this video. Makes my happy inside and very excited for my need adventures.
A very interesting topic. Good job Rob, I say this is pretty unique content. And well edited too!
dude, your contents are getting so good ♥️♥️
I just realized, you've been gone in youtube for so long, so I'd say WELCOME BACK! 🎉
Thanks!
Woww!! Thank you so much 😮 You're the first to donate on my channel 😁
well im a Filipino and im Lonely in my own country. thats fine keep on living, lets enjoy life.
Love your videos!
It's not the typical traveler blog or impression of the Philippines or expats experience of the Philippines.
There's depth to it.
Keep it up!!!
Oh thanks for coming back on UA-cam and Tiktok with your no nonsense interview Hope you doing great.
I like your content. As a Pinoy, I'd like to know what they can tell about my people, the country, living in, life comparison etc. keep it up. Mabuhay ❤
As a filipino we are thankful and always be grateful to all expats and foreigners coming into the Philippines because you all contributed in the development in any form it might be, financial or information awareness. We'll strive to be hospitable with evryone and respect our co existence and differences so we could live together in peace and harmony
I'm a Filipino & I can relate with the laziness of going out as I'm an introvert! 😅 It's probably why when I go out for coffee and errands I make the most of it and talk to others. Thank you for making this video ❤ encourages me to reach out more to foreigners here and make friends 😊
As pilipino we dont see a foreigners as higher than us but we just like to respect other people
That’s correct. Filipinos are welcoming, friendly and respectful due to its culture but they don’t see foreigners as higher than them except perhaps you measure one’s achievement and status in life even between Filipinos.
You are definitely blind. Many Filipinos see foreigners as banks and sometimes take advantage of them. Many Filipinos also seek foreigners for a better life.
INCORRECT. where do you think the word AFAM comes from? its self explanatory. MONEY. FILIPINOS SEE EVERYTHING AS MONEY. therefore, if u have more money, they will respect you. as what u said, ''one's achievement'' = money.
also dont forget the debt of gratitude or ''utang na loob'' dont be silly. @@annmarie6001
Right
Meanwhile poc are getting direspect and unwelcome in western countries.
Great video. New perspective and questions regarding being a foreigner there.
I hope the guy got the black fella’s contact info, and hangout. I like him. They both got good vibes and could be buddies.
Great job on this video. I hope to watch more of your videos. The African-American guy is right to build friendships you need to go and meet people. One of your interviewee, the Russian lady with a small dog, mentioned that she seemed had a hard time making friends in the Philippines...that's her opinion. But, I can say that if she limits herself to find and make friends only to expats but not more with the locals, then indeed, she really would have hard time to meet new friends.
The guy you interviewed at Burgos Circle and the lady in red dress, I admire them for having an open mind and have opened their hearts that to be able to make more relationships in the country, you need to know the culture and the way they are. That is making yourself to level with the locals. Then you would understand them. By moving to a different country and settling there, it is expected that you would build more connections with the locals and yes with the other foreigners too; but you should look forward in meeting and making relationships with the locals.
Thanks for this video mate.
They don't even learn and speak the language.
I think friendship comes with the length of people living in your life. If we are visiting a place short time, we can expect that we won't have friends.
In general filipino is kind,humble , hospitable..open minded..
According to my kuya, he never felt loneliness or isolation living/working in Europe because there are many Filipinos there. The only mindset that he don't like with locals was they call filipinos as migrant workers while in the Philippines, we call them foreigner.
Posting my comment to one of the posts here and I think this also applies to everyone. Im Filipino by blood but have migrated here in US 14 years ago, I’ve traveled in other countries as a lone traveler and I understand how visitors feel coming into a country they barely know. You can’t really force yourself in a situation that’s uncomfortable for you instead you just have to find your own tribe of people you can relate more with :) I’m not the most sociable yet we were taught to always be as part of our culture, it’s harder as an introvert like me but i had life long friends back home. and we always relied on each other backs cos of camaraderie. But then at the same time as you grow older you get to learn how to honor your true calling and that’s okay too. It’s really just all part of growing up and developing as a person and that’s okay too. People should just learn to accept we’re all different as we are and that it’s okay to be different in some ways. Other nationalities are just like us too and they’re not a one size fits all personality, these people have different values as well as personalities and not everyone can be expected to be as extroverted as most people think they are. They’re people like us too, Some of them might have experienced things that just cause them not to open much about themselves and people shouldn’t expect much out of them either. Alot of them have been living under stressful lives and we never know what makes them cry every night before they arrive to PH. Most of the time they visit the country to relax and enjoy and we never know what life theyve lived before they visit. A handful of lone travelers im sure have traveled to PH to find themselves and experience peace. We can’t really compare the pain they feel to the pain we experience. We just have to validate that experience ce. Pain is a subjective thing and it just differs on how one is able to tolerate it. Some will have a hard time but give them time and they will learn to adjust once they get used to the ways of the people. It just happens that Filipinos are more adaptable than anyone else in the world. It just all boils down to respecting one another and being kind to each other
Your video is more calm and organized than most video interviews ive seen. Keep it up and you have beautiful blue eyes and nice pointy nose by the way 😋❤.
I am pure Filipino living here in Berlin Germany. Im living in Germany for almost 8 yrs. Berlin is a very international city. so with me as a Pinoy, I look on every races equally. Though me as a Filipino coming from a different culture. it is much more difficult to make friends in a foreign land as well.
This type of interviews/conversations is really good.
Hi Rob. Very interesting Vlog. I liked it different perspective from expats... Greetings from Filipinos from Germany!
KEEP it up brother! mabuhay ka
I dunno i just felt like we give back the same energy to what you're giving us. Like that Ceasar guy, he's so jolly and he has that bright and positive aura aeound him. I mean, like it's in our nature to welcome visitors but ofc if that guests don't give us the same energy as we are giving them ofc we'll feel aloof and may think that maybe we're crossing the line and your boundaries, so we'll keep a respectable distance too. Know what I mean?
Thanks be to God for uploading this video.
It's not my very first time watching this but... it's so insightful you just earn my subscription so keep it up.
I hope in the foreseeable future someday, we meet in person and become friends, brother.
You and all the foreigners out there are very much welcome here in the Philippines 🇵🇭.
Mabuhay ka. Sulong! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
As a Filipino myself, I would love to meet foreign nationals as it feels like I’m travelling myself! Whenever I’m touring domestic places I approach tourists who might need help then eventually I make friends with them. Although as an introvert I only want to make real connections and that’s a challenge.
Personally as a full Filipino, I prefer foreigner friends because they’re more open minded and they’re easier to talk to about anything without judgement.
Ang ganda ng ganitong content or talagang mahilig lang talaga ako sa mga talk shows or content na ganito. Base lang naman sa content title 'yung culture talaga ang isa sa nagiging barrier kaya may ilang Pinoy ang hindi masyadong nakikipag usap sa mga foreigner lalo na pag mga deep conversation or mga personal na bagay bagay na kailangan ibahagi sa iba.
Filipinos don't like small talk. The trick how to get to close to a Filipino and to get that genuine conversation going is with food. And the problem with Westerners is they do not understand the gusto of Filipinos when it comes to simple things, especially when it comes to their food. If they cannot embrace Filipino cuisine they won't be able to get real chummy with us. Who would want to be friends with people who make pintas with your food. There is a deep psyche when it comes to Filipino cuisine because it traces back to our roots and our multiculturalism, we've been doing fusion cuisine before everybody else. Most of the time the only thing you'll read/hear from foreigners is they don't like our food that it's too salty, sweet, etc...without trying to learn why or how. They refused to learn that the ulam is not salty, it's supposed to be paired with rice, but they are too quick to judge just because they refuse to adapt/learn since they're too accustomed with Filipinos looking up to them. If they can learn to adjust/adapt with us they'll find real friends here, just like Kulas. Just saying. Food is a huge deal to us because that's how we connect with people, that's why we love birthday parties and fiestas. The girl in the red dress gets this. I hope some foreigners read this so they'll learn a thing or two.
Very nice video sir.. I would say every country is unique in culture and people are all different, but as a Filipino I am truly proud with my heritage. New follower here 👏 watching from Saudi Arabia 🎉❤ God bless!!
Yoo really enjoyed the video man! From the storytelling and coherent blend between interviews, to your own outlooks on the whole situation 😌 I have had issues with the same topics you mentioned in the video and can relate to the difficulty of finding deep and meaningful friendships whilst traveling, pursuing your goals and being away from home. Well done, I appreciate the effort put into the video 🙌🏼
Sarap panoodin, ang chill lang. The interview, edit, and bg music. 👌
I just woke up in a late monday night to watch random videos about learning different languages. I end up liking this video and subscribing as context of this vlog is pure. 🙂💞
As a Filipino and an introvert with a few friends, being alone doesn't mean your lonely it's all in the mind and your attitude to cope with loneliness.
I'm not a foreigner but I'm from the province and feel the same way you guys have, now I'm trying to get out and find very good friends. Thanks for this video
I relate to what you say when you just started drifting apart from others like you dont really feel or have that connection. Like you're friends but not deeper. I always feel that way, it feels like I have my own world and sucks sometimes ngl.
Very interesting perspective. One thing expats are already in a country where lots are welcoming and friendly. Expats or locals have lots of reservations. The next move is only observe who you find fit you’ll consider as a real friend. These people are open arms for a real friends and this will bridge the gap. Locals will forget you’re a foreigner. I’m a Filipina. ☺️
All you need to do is NEVER compare yourself with others. Regardless if you have bigger goals or not. If you continue doing that you will always be isolated. Just live and enjoy each moment. Having few friends even if they are far away is better than having none. Life is short so remove the self-centered attitude. Otherwise, you will always be lonely no matter where you live
Thank you for making this video. Get to know them and they will be a good friend and Filipinos will consider you as part of their family 😊
This is actually a very good interview on foreigners perspective on our country and us filipinos 😊
Learned something today, Just smashed sub brother. Felt the same way too but I have experienced having a westernian officemate. I and other colleague give him a good tour of the good places to have food and cheap of course, nice place to have a beer with good ambiance etc.
I won't hold myself anymore talking to foreigners and making friends when I get the chance!
Keep the videos coming Bro! Bless you
Your interview style is unique so far. I like it!
New subscriber here. I like this new (well for me it's new) way of showing a country to the world. Usually, it's more about superficial things like food, language, dating, exchange rates, etc. But you've tackled on a deeper topic that makes me think and reflect. I definitely like this, and I hope to see more of this type of video.
As a foreigner living here now i think Filipinos find us foreign as superior to them idk if it's a respect or something but they never discriminate against you from being different which is good...
Actually yes they are friendly and a bit shy at first but if you approach them they are welcoming and friendly but if you want deeper friendship i think we need to work it out by going out... And Filipinos are one of the kindness and smartest people in the world i hope they realize it...
Thank you for seeing the positive in our country and enjoying it despite its flaws. im glad our country could leave a postive impression on you!
11:08 To be fair, greeting people while referring to them as "sir/"ma'am", as well as opening doors for them is not special treatment for foreign people.
They do that for everyone, as long as you're a customer. It's their work ethic.
this is such a cool take/perspective. I grew up in the Philippines but I am at the age where I have spent more time now outside of it and looking back, I am still holding on the friendships I have made back then but when I do the math, I've only known them for 2 years and friends I made abroad I've known for more than 15 and I'd say 4/5 I am closer to those back at home.
speaking of friendship here in our country, one advice is all I can give you guys especially to those expats or foreigners.... never expect Filipinos to approach you first as most of us are very shy to speak with foreign people... but once you tried building a connection with our locals, you will then realize that we are never hard to befriend with.... one more thing, never carry a very serious face with locals, they will be more distant from you if you did.. try to give them a smile or even a simple "hi" or "hey how are you" will be reciprocated.
Very nice video. You seemed to want to say something but was hesistating at the end of the video. Looking forward to your next videos on human connections. Pure filipino here and happy to share my thoughts and hear yours.
What's important is knowing who you truly are first. Your true identity and learn to love yourself. Forgive yourself and others of things that have been keeping you down. Once you become a loving and happy person people will like who you are and friendships will come to you naturally.
Really appreciate the worldview of the Ukranian guest, I think thats a positive way of growing and expanding your mind as you travel. You observe the culture, you dont take offense as easily because you know its a culture/way of life that makes the difference.
On making friends, I imagine it would be difficult for anybody esp if you didnt grow up in the place because your less likely exposed to scenarios where those connections are built. Like in the community as kids growing up playing together with neighbors, going to school (where I think a lot of friendships are forged atleast for the philippines), and its a given that moving into a place where you absolutely know nobody or have no family, you're bound to be lonely. Because you'd already be adults by then and as adults, we rarely have time for anything other than our own work and our own growth (its a selfish mentality but it makes sense). I think if you want friends the way of making friends would require you to be constantly exposed again to a certain demographic of your choosing. Ofcourse nobody approaches anybody unless they have a motive. It can be good or bad depending on the person, thats why the general response would be of any sane person would be that relating to an acquantance. You dont wear your heart on your sleeve or else youd be taken advantage of.
What sets friendships apart would be if after that you realize that you find something in common or something that you like in the other person or you get exposed to the other person more to a point that you find something that makes you reach out to stay connected. And at the same time, have them realize and do the same. I think thats the key. Thats why as adults your best bet would be joining social circles that facilitate that, whether it be the gym, a club/organization/sport/activity that you like where there is some unifying commonality that would bridge making the friendship. That would be the avenue of making friends.
The next step of solidifying those acquiantances then would be up to you and the other person but then thats a different story and requires time as you get to know each other. I think this applies in any country. Which the point Im getting to is unless you put yourself out there, preferrably with people who have the same likes, goals, hobbies as you, your bound to stay isolated and lonely. It will always be of your choosing. And itll always take effort, just not as easily as when you were younger where you made friends as easy as because you were placed in the same team in sports, same classroom in school, or even the same game in a play pen. Notice that all of which have the commonality of being thrusted in a scenario where youre forced to interact and get to know somebody. Now the good thing is as adults, we already have a say in what and where were placed at which is definitely a plus. So all you really have to do then is replicate those scenarios to those of your choosing and youll definitely meet the right people and find your crowd in a sense. Great video btw.
this...
saves me from commenting👌
Filipinos are friendly with both countrymen and foreigners and many treasures to have friends from other nations. That's where Filipinos became humble to foreigners.
This interview is so great as a Filipino and I really appreciate this because for some reason I can finally have a deep understanding of the thoughts of the different perceptions of you guys foreigners, the questions are so great I appreciate that, and all those answer's to that questions ,I appreciate your honesty for those answer's, for me As a Filipino we are open to everyone who wants to explore our country or have good connection's with us to like have friends with us or to the extend of like deep connections kind of friendships We are into too that us well, but I think it's like 50\50 because for us Filipino thought that you guy's here for like a Visitor's, you guys are here for Vacations here in our country and won't stay that long. by that case we are also thinking of your well being that you guy's might wanted a peaceful and enjoy your vacation here were we are also thinking and we have a whole respect of every someone else's personal space where we don't want to like bather you so much of what you do or thing here we also understand the other culture of where you guys come from and we think about that first as well but either of all that we are all open and embrace any races you are into the world come from maybe it depends on you guys intentions really if you wanted to like a tourist connections with us thats fine and if you also wanted to like deep kind of connections with us we can share that one with you too it depends I can say I think there must have a both consent of that thing to one another's intentions might be you guys wanted to have from us, we are a loving people here either of that we could easily get attouch to someone who is been with us for quiet a while then if we knew that its your last day here its kinda a bit hard for us because it break's our hearts too knowing that your about to leave the country but then again I was hoping that eventually things will change in a long run. i think I talk to much hahaha As a Filipino who live from southern part of the country Love from here to ya all :)
I like your content, Rob. Cheers mate!
You are in a right path using philippines to grow your channel.. Good luck
Wonderful interview. The vibes felt genuine and sincere. Loved it very much.
this is a very nice topic.. it hits different cos you're an expat too. thanks for being here ❤
This is a great video with much thought put into it especially for people who travel a lot or moving to another place. Friendships and relationships take time. Yes, I agree, Filipinos are generally friendly and welcoming, but it also takes time like any other culture to build something true. However, initial steps will be easier here, you just need to get to know them better if they are sincere and true like any other people. Hope you do indeed get to build true friendships with certain Filipinos to make you less lonely. Good work!
looks like you're going through something bro based on your actions I hope you can get through it...just be strong🙏❤
One of my favorite street interview so far. “Power dynamic” or “perceived value as higher” may have some truth to it. However, you can look at it the other way around where Filipinos point of view in terms of value is lower. See I felt the same way when I was young and didn’t bother to talk to foreigners here in Manila or had a hard time talking to some. When I visited the US for the first time, I didn’t have a choice but to approach Americans for assistance to some items and realized, hell yeah I can talk to Americans!! See Filipinos still look at themselves as inferiors to foreigners and still lack the confidence to approach but listen, try to make the initiative and they will give you the treatment you’ve never received from other countries. That’s who we are. Slowly, we will gain that confidence but don’t hesitate to reach out man.
Love your vlog so real and pure. Dont be sad here. Its not that hard to build friendships here🎉
I like watching this kind of video. It’s kinda sensitive and honest to their feelings.
I ❤ this one. It’s truly touching!
Filipino attitude is shy. We don't open conversations but when you open up conversations we are down to earth people.
Always bring chismis with you especially about celebrities. lol! be open to eating our food! we can always have conversations around food and drinks
regarding about the girl saying the relationship is superficial we just respects peoples privacy but once you yourself open up to filipino friend to make that deeper connection...
Woah. At last, a more educational interview vlog from a foreigner
Good video, this channel has more direction now, good job.