Woman Born With No Vagina Hopes To Have Children

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    A young woman who was born without a vagina is speaking out about her condition - and is now hoping to become a mother. Devan Merck was devastated after finding out she had no vagina when she was just 12-years-old. The 23-year-old was diagnosed with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome meaning she had no vaginal canal, a malformed uterus and no cervix. Surgeons created a ‘man-made’ vagina using skin taken from her bottom - allowing her to have sex and lead a normal life. And now Devan and her husband Trent, from Georgia, USA, are hoping to start a family with the help of a surrogate.
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  • @epresley8324
    @epresley8324 8 років тому +1350

    Her ex doesn't know what a real man is! Her husband is a great example! God bless them!

    • @StagrDawg
      @StagrDawg 8 років тому +11

      Emily Presley not really it just means that her boyfriend is probs asexual

    • @Liradu2
      @Liradu2 8 років тому +28

      MSERO C-OPS Or just a normal human being who doesn't think about sex all the time

    • @lede3321
      @lede3321 8 років тому +30

      Would you date a man with no penis?? Probably not!!

    • @lede3321
      @lede3321 8 років тому +20

      Haha bullshit!

    • @lede3321
      @lede3321 8 років тому +3

      So you don't like sex??

  • @amberagee7294
    @amberagee7294 6 років тому +279

    She deserves to be happy. She is a beautiful soul.

    • @mohammadpangcatan7405
      @mohammadpangcatan7405 4 роки тому

      Soul only? How about the body?

    • @Brucelee-pv6uf
      @Brucelee-pv6uf 4 роки тому +1

      She looks more than a pretty I hope I can help her gets childeren😑

    • @janycebrown4071
      @janycebrown4071 3 роки тому

      She's a beautiful on the outside to, and she would be an amazing Mom ❣️

  • @aquafina5381
    @aquafina5381 7 років тому +843

    *Her husband when she told her about her medical condition*
    Improvise. Adapt. Overcome.

    • @ashlleynicolle2658
      @ashlleynicolle2658 6 років тому +20

      Talsong Kingslayer your reply makes no sense. And the girl doesn’t have a uterus anyway she said she had a hysterectomy when she was 13

    • @DeFi4nCe
      @DeFi4nCe 5 років тому +3

      LMAO EPIC COMMENT

    • @johnmartinez2601
      @johnmartinez2601 5 років тому +21

      She still got that mouth 🤣🤣🤣

    • @johnmartinez2601
      @johnmartinez2601 5 років тому +7

      I'm playing but damn

    • @helenike3516
      @helenike3516 5 років тому +1

      Doesn't she get on her period? how does it flow out?

  • @kellybanks326
    @kellybanks326 6 років тому +55

    She has a good support system. From her Husband to Mom to friends. Lucky lady. I’m happy for her.

    • @khanbhai2643
      @khanbhai2643 5 років тому +1

      I'm with you..

    • @hordevran
      @hordevran 3 роки тому +1

      Yes. This is the difference between men and women. If the roles were reversed women would find it entertaining. Men were simply made to protect women they usually want to love them unconditionally unless they don't get bitter about current 'dating' situation and its rigidity. Women were made to do the same about offspring. Men are alone.

  • @pradacreazy3662
    @pradacreazy3662 8 років тому +1979

    appreciate tht man who accept her as she is.. really owsome story.. and they both r cute

    • @whatdoyoumeanbro4964
      @whatdoyoumeanbro4964 7 років тому +9

      no vagina lol tts

    • @moira132
      @moira132 7 років тому +7

      Ya it's cool but uh how old r u r u 6 because u spelled awesome wrong not to be offensive

    • @happysoul7353
      @happysoul7353 7 років тому +8

      Moira Dietz english isnt his first language thats why he made that mistake

    • @solomonberihu7299
      @solomonberihu7299 7 років тому

      prada creazy q

    • @shopnnut4615
      @shopnnut4615 7 років тому +1

      Awesome*

  • @McSx-km7wd
    @McSx-km7wd 8 років тому +619

    People, the vagina and the urethra are different parts of the body. The vagina is where women give birth and where they menstruate. The urethra is where urine comes from. You're welcome :-)

    • @ohheyy8755
      @ohheyy8755 8 років тому +7

      Is it the same with men?

    • @catherinec3735
      @catherinec3735 8 років тому +8

      +Brianna Janas You'd be surprised actually, a lot of men don't know that.

    • @Foreveralonecuuuh
      @Foreveralonecuuuh 8 років тому +1

      Meli Cs Thank u

    • @myaholmes4286
      @myaholmes4286 8 років тому +1

      Meli Cs I'm sorry could you explain that again, like I'm completely lost I'm confused, really confused lol

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 8 років тому +7

      Blk & Gld I hope I can help you understand. So women have 4 holes the back one is actually called the anus inside of the anus is the rectum where stool sits ( poop) just before it comes out. the next one toward the front, is called the vagina where babies come out and where girls menustrate from. Coming more up the body is the urethra where women pee out of. them following the vaginal area up more is the clitoris that's where women have sexually. pleasure and orgasms from. So they are just 4 in a row. here's a re-cap. back to front anus for poop, vagina for babies and period blood to come out of. and just above the vagina opening but still within the folds of the labia major and labia minora is the urethra for peeing. Then the clitoris. hope that helps. you can also just take a look down there while you are peeing and you can see the urethra and where it's located. hope this helps and you really wanted to know and werent some creepy weirdo. guys only have 2 holes. the anus for poop and the urethra fir peeing and for semen to.come out of. cheers.

  • @chowder125
    @chowder125 7 років тому +1121

    This made me realize how much I take my vagina and uterus for granted 😥😶.

  • @marianna1513
    @marianna1513 6 років тому +133

    For someone to go as low to bring up her surgery when they were in an argument, after he had been sleeping with her is extremely wrong! I’m glad she found a real man that knows better than that and accepts her.

    • @Jonathan-wj6uh
      @Jonathan-wj6uh 4 роки тому +2

      Well she made fun of his reproductive organ so I don't blame him.

    • @rej2095
      @rej2095 4 роки тому +10

      @@Jonathan-wj6uh what? Where did they say that?

  • @claireashley427
    @claireashley427 8 років тому +429

    Such a strong woman! and so beautiful on the inside and out! Her husband is a keeper too! Thats a real man! I hope they are able to have a baby through suragasy

    • @maxinew5817
      @maxinew5817 7 років тому +1

      I DeathSinger I what do you define as a real man?

    • @iwantmytacobacc.2040
      @iwantmytacobacc.2040 7 років тому +1

      Claire Wingerd surgery.

    • @dejanmedakovic1451
      @dejanmedakovic1451 7 років тому +5

      A real man is a sexually driven being who needs a vagina, not a loser who deliberately friendzones himself for life. Unless he is born without a dick, he shouldn't be dating someone without a vagina.

    • @elliespencer1053
      @elliespencer1053 7 років тому +4

      Dejan Medakovic do you see that as the only reason for boys to be with girls real men are kind and stick with their love no matter what he has not friend zoned himself if anything he has made it stronger and they can have sexual relationship if you listened please think of what you are saying and how you say it

    • @Floatingpooper
      @Floatingpooper 7 років тому

      What dog is that dog in your profile picture

  • @keikocha
    @keikocha 8 років тому +631

    i'm 30 years old, and i have MRKH as well. nobody outside my family knows my condition.
    never had a boyfriend, even if i wanted to because of fear of rejection. you guys will never understand the sadness of not being able to have normal sexual intercourse.
    listening to my friends talking about their monthly periods is quite hard because i can't relate and i feel that i'm not totally woman because of it.
    in our society, women are expected to get married and have children, and because of my age, people are asking me of my future plans of having a family and i can't even look at them in the eye and say that i can't.
    i know there are other options, like i can just adopt, but still, the feeling of inadequacy haunts me. i wanted to have my own child, or to have my own family but i guess that is not for me

    • @poopfuck
      @poopfuck 7 років тому +38

      Relena Heero God bless you, I'm praying for you, your are amazing, trust me you WILL find love

    • @lindseymounts777
      @lindseymounts777 7 років тому +19

      Relena Heero I also have it it does suck but I am having the surgery ina few months so I'm happy

    • @wawa6231
      @wawa6231 7 років тому +28

      Relena Heero hi I think you can live normal life.sex life doesn't depend completely on having a vagina.you can take care of yourself and your partner romantically.I'm a man and I know what I'm saying.sorry for my poor English.

    • @lovepeace4635
      @lovepeace4635 7 років тому +17

      Relena Heero
      never give up, the medicine is progressing every day. just go to a gynecologist and he can help you. try .
      do not feel ashamed is not your fault if people don't accept you they are no friends, live your life .

    • @godwinogbewi6593
      @godwinogbewi6593 7 років тому +4

      God is a mighty healer

  • @naiomiebehari2992
    @naiomiebehari2992 8 років тому +115

    That husband that she got....really appreciate her....hope everything will be ok....this actually made me sad 😭
    With god grace everything will be ok....
    I wish her well in future....

  • @emilycheek1899
    @emilycheek1899 5 років тому +59

    When I heard her say "I saw all my friends posting their belly pics and their kids on instagram and fb" I got really sad. Really sad. We shouldn't be comparing our lives to peoples online but we all do it

    • @jujuandwamwams165
      @jujuandwamwams165 5 років тому +2

      Emily Cheek so true. I’m 62 years a widow. A husband who was a drug addict.One child who was born with several disabilities. When I see people in long term healthy relationships, people with heathy children etc etc i get so depressed watching Facebook and instagram. I had to deactivate my accounts. When you sit in sadness, you stay stuck in sadness. Trying to be grateful and thankful but hurting inside 😢

    • @WarriorOfTheLight00
      @WarriorOfTheLight00 5 років тому +1

      @@jujuandwamwams165 Hey listen friend I don't know you or your situation, but from one man to another there is always an opportunity to better your life and make yourself happy! Don't accept defeat or sadness, as long as you're breathing you can make a change! Even the smaller changes you make can impact your life and help you create a better, bigger picture. If no one else will then I believe in you. There is always someone else out there for you, I promise you. Do not give up! You're a winner! Stay strong my friend.

    • @Nintendo119
      @Nintendo119 7 місяців тому

      This is why I don’t have any social media!

  • @PRETTYESHIA504
    @PRETTYESHIA504 7 років тому +1143

    i hope and pray one day she gets the chance to have a baby of her own. (surrogacy)of course. but no woman should have to experience this.

    • @thisisstrange4641
      @thisisstrange4641 7 років тому +36

      S K Uhh this whole vid was about her WANTING to have kids of her own through surrogacy after fsiled adoption-attempts and how bad she felt about not being able to carry a child herself? So wth, from the point of view of the woman in the vid, yes she does have to have a baby because that is what she wants and feels she needs to be happy...

    • @britneyboothe1574
      @britneyboothe1574 7 років тому +1

      S K why not. that's mean

    • @jprakash7245
      @jprakash7245 7 років тому +6

      504Thickbeautyy ... She said it, she have a "man made" vagina.
      Now you learn to tell f**k off to "god" instead of praying, if you have any sense.
      Only man made science is saving her life.

    • @Saku39fan
      @Saku39fan 7 років тому

      It's a shame that anyone would such a dumb comment.

    • @jprakash7245
      @jprakash7245 7 років тому

      Shame on pathetic senseless dumbs!

  • @lamakandil144
    @lamakandil144 8 років тому +54

    She's so pretty, really shows you that nobody is perfect

    • @TheVixenDiaries
      @TheVixenDiaries 7 років тому +3

      Lama Kandil She seems like a wonderful person

  • @Broken-Flesh
    @Broken-Flesh 8 років тому +70

    I've never heard of such a condition. That's intense!

  • @marisela_sweetheart
    @marisela_sweetheart 7 років тому +405

    Man she's a strong woman and lucky she found someone who fell in love with who she is I wish I could find a good man who wasn't worried about how I am people Judge me all the time

    • @julsc2106
      @julsc2106 7 років тому +5

      Marisela of course she find someone. She's very very gorgeous and seems very sweet to top it off 💖💖💖💖

    • @edoboy5407
      @edoboy5407 7 років тому +1

      Marisela you look really good....

    • @Kcimor78
      @Kcimor78 7 років тому +6

      Marisela the anus!

    • @a.g.vventures7849
      @a.g.vventures7849 6 років тому

      Marisela are you still like her

    • @anaalcantar9362
      @anaalcantar9362 6 років тому

      Julian C lol

  • @wulfrir8607
    @wulfrir8607 8 років тому +106

    I have MRKH. It's been one of the worse diagnoses of my life. It's devastating for me. Going through the comments and seeing so much bullshit makes me fucking sad. It's not a matter of "haha I don't have periods" or "lol I can just do anal". It makes me feel inadequate to not be born correctly. It makes me feel like a screw up. It makes me feel like a disappointment, and it's not funny. I feel like shit.

    • @gabbye4986
      @gabbye4986 7 років тому +8

      GeneralHands these comments are disgusting. i am so sorry for what you are going thru.

    • @purplejournalpodcast9783
      @purplejournalpodcast9783 7 років тому +7

      You're not a screw up because it's not your fault. Look at any other video, there's always people trolling and talking shit. People suck regardless so it's not because of your condition, it's because of the human condition. Don't let it get you down, you'll still have a great life no matter what if you don't let it dominate your life.

    • @spideyhunter20
      @spideyhunter20 7 років тому

      Generally people think vagina is the whole thing and not just the openings

    • @yardsausage
      @yardsausage 2 роки тому

      people that say mean things are just insecure with their selves ...let them all f#ck off.

    • @QueenPrincess888
      @QueenPrincess888 10 місяців тому

      Look on the bright side of things. Focus on what you have and not on what you don't have. Go out, travel the world and trust in God.

  • @likjhnfkjsbn
    @likjhnfkjsbn 8 років тому +70

    Hang in there!! Hoping for awesome life long good results from your surgery!

    • @dmerck11
      @dmerck11 8 років тому +13

      RandomStuffFixer thank you

    • @daniefrem1233
      @daniefrem1233 8 років тому

      @Devan Merck everthing happening for a reason i hope everthing in your future will Good and it will be ! GBU

  • @Ajf1891
    @Ajf1891 8 років тому +18

    Wow. That must be tough. I wish her and her husband the best of luck. They deserve it! 💜

  • @westwardpomonagyrl4358
    @westwardpomonagyrl4358 7 років тому +127

    Glad she found some 1 to love&accept her.

  • @bethpickle74
    @bethpickle74 8 років тому +115

    My son was born without a rectum and parts of his stomach lower intestine & spine is not "normal" thank you for sharing your story it could help many people!

    • @odiol3158
      @odiol3158 8 років тому +7

      Beth/Betty Pickle-Rice stay strong

    • @naomi2893
      @naomi2893 7 років тому +17

      Sad Twat wow that is a horrible thing to say just because someone's born different doesn't mean that they deserve to be called a pice of shit. You said something horrible and I hope you understand what you said and how mean it was. That mom should love her child just like she would love any other child. She is strong and you don't deserve to say that to anyone. I just want to ask you if that mom said that her child wasn't born that way and for the girl in the video to stay strong and hopes she can have a child of her own would you say to kill the moms child if so then you don't understand that everyone should be loved the same even if they were born differently. Why did you even watch this video if you would say that.

    • @Ambergirl-ek1ji
      @Ambergirl-ek1ji 7 років тому +15

      rainbow unicorn230 Some people only come on here to write nasty comments and see what kind of response they get. They have no morals or thoughts for anyone. They only care about making people feel bad. It's sad but don't let them get to you.

    • @Ambergirl-ek1ji
      @Ambergirl-ek1ji 7 років тому +5

      alex wvood “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,”
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭1:18‬ ‭NASB‬‬
      bible.com/100/rom.1.18.nasb

  • @masuganut2082
    @masuganut2082 4 роки тому +54

    I would love an update about her! Like is she finally a mommy like she wanted ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @nicolexxxg
      @nicolexxxg 3 роки тому +6

      Same I’d love to know

    • @samhowl1152
      @samhowl1152 3 роки тому +1

      Who cares

    • @nicolexxxg
      @nicolexxxg 3 роки тому +14

      @@samhowl1152
      Obviously lots of people 👍

    • @samhowl1152
      @samhowl1152 3 роки тому +3

      @@nicolexxxg yeah, 20 likes, tons of people

    • @nicolexxxg
      @nicolexxxg 3 роки тому +9

      @@samhowl1152
      That’s just on this comment,
      if you don’t care why you on here commenting and watching 👍😂

  • @tinkerbell3667
    @tinkerbell3667 6 років тому +146

    When you find the right man, he will love you unconditionally the way you are. Whether you have a health condition or not. Love is pure. I hope that everyone has a chance to have a good partner who loves them sincerely in their lives.🙏

  • @AnanYMouse-pj7uw
    @AnanYMouse-pj7uw 7 років тому +1458

    To all the people asking how she pees.
    *Magic*

    • @fabianmz4403
      @fabianmz4403 6 років тому +1

      Anan Y. Mouse hahaha

    • @allytyler3322
      @allytyler3322 6 років тому +8

      Obviously the only explanation, haha!

    • @chin2255
      @chin2255 6 років тому +51

      Anan Y. Mouse GIRLS DON'T PEE FROM THERE VAGINA!!!

    • @Thors5006
      @Thors5006 6 років тому +2

      Anan Y. Mouse the best comment yet XD

    • @hastalavista3814
      @hastalavista3814 6 років тому +3

      Anan Y. Mouse no one asked how she pee

  • @taralucent1219
    @taralucent1219 6 років тому +383

    After reading these comments, there are two things I realized.
    1. The amount of people who think that women pee out of their vaginas.
    2. And the amount of people who don't know the difference between a vagina and a vulva.

    • @JojoOlokun205
      @JojoOlokun205 6 років тому +14

      I never watched a woman pee.

    • @AB-pl5zq
      @AB-pl5zq 6 років тому +13

      I never watched myself pee

    • @taylorjams4845
      @taylorjams4845 6 років тому +18

      Haha a girl at my work (28 years old) thought she peed out of her vagina. Imagine two dudes trying to explain to a female how her body actually works... crazy. We also had to explain to her why her plumbing was clogged after flushing all her tampons down the toilet...

    • @zeahbank4073
      @zeahbank4073 5 років тому +2

      Tara Lucent what’s the difference

    • @さみしい-f7p
      @さみしい-f7p 5 років тому +1

      Well some people are virgins and dont know

  • @brianacherry776
    @brianacherry776 8 років тому +510

    Why is it soooo soooo complicated to adopt? I understand that you want to make sure that they get adopted by a good family but yeesh! There are sooo many kids who go through the system all their teen life and never find a home.

    • @yellowhouse4911
      @yellowhouse4911 8 років тому +23

      Briana Cherry I think you don't realise how long adoption can take...people tried for over 10 years and it didn't work

    • @brianacherry776
      @brianacherry776 8 років тому +25

      No that's exactly what i'm saying. I think you misunderstood what i was saying.

    • @yellowhouse4911
      @yellowhouse4911 8 років тому +1

      Briana Cherry whoops yea I did sorry your English confused me

    • @brianacherry776
      @brianacherry776 8 років тому +1

      lol it's cool. Where are you from?

    • @amandaqualls7643
      @amandaqualls7643 8 років тому +3

      Most of the kids that are in the system were taken away from their families. My sister just adopted a little boy and it took 3 years to get a baby. People change their mind last minute. They were use for money many times in hoping to adopt someone's baby.

  • @thebeausoleilXO
    @thebeausoleilXO 8 років тому +23

    don't ever feel like you HAVE to give your husband a child. you can make it through life without that mindset. stay strong, beautiful! 💕

    • @GenaFrog
      @GenaFrog 8 років тому +5

      thebeausoleilXO she wants a child also, its most young girls dream, I'd have been destroyed if I couldn't have had children.

    • @thebeausoleilXO
      @thebeausoleilXO 8 років тому +3

      Gena F that's fine that she too wants a child. I was just saying there are so many girls who just "settle" and give in to what the guy wants/says. she may not be one of those girls, but it's heartbreaking if you look at the statistics here in America. all the innocent children brought into this crazy world and don't deserve to go through the hardships they'll probably face all because of selfish parents.

    • @thebeausoleilXO
      @thebeausoleilXO 8 років тому +4

      guy tremblay I am SO far from being a feminist, dude get your shit together. I'm just saying that around where I live, that's the norm. money comes out of MY paycheck to support these girls and their children all because...really, why does it have to be that way exactly? answer - it doesn't and shouldn't. I just don't enjoy the statistics; especially in areas similar to where I'm at. obviously the girl in the video doesn't fall into the category I'm talking about (nor did I say she did). I just would like her to be happy, healthy and level headed. that does NOT make me a feminist, thanks.

    • @PaperFolder_
      @PaperFolder_ 7 років тому

      I agree, but it goes both ways. A man should also never feel like he has to have a child with his wife either.

  • @ChattyMaddyMae
    @ChattyMaddyMae 7 років тому +13

    He loves her SO much it's really beautiful ❤ Im so happy they're together and they found each other!

  • @hope2nou95
    @hope2nou95 6 років тому +37

    I hope all your dreams come true and life gives you everything you deserve.

  • @gracewilliams1841
    @gracewilliams1841 8 років тому +24

    i love her husband.. may God bless them both... i hope they get kids of they own someday.

  • @ashleyt545
    @ashleyt545 8 років тому +16

    She's so gorgeous and so strong! And what a great husband 💜 I wish them the best of luck!

  • @taineshwty
    @taineshwty 7 років тому +70

    It’s like trying to bring the old headphone jack to the iphonex

    • @FriaGram
      @FriaGram 7 років тому

      The jack has been done, it is not a very difficult mod.

    • @taineshwty
      @taineshwty 7 років тому

      I know it has

  • @ivannama8289
    @ivannama8289 8 років тому +262

    She's so beautiful and she seems so nice! I can't believe guys would dump her just because she can't have a sexual relationship. Its sad

    • @arnez844
      @arnez844 8 років тому +27

      really,you can't believe that?

    • @ivannama8289
      @ivannama8289 8 років тому +4

      arnez844 sadly, I'm not ignorant enough to not believe that. It has become our reality, yet it seems impossible in the right mind.

    • @koioniaku351
      @koioniaku351 8 років тому +6

      Ivanna MA well like I would date her but I'd never marry her because you know, I need fun stuff

    • @andikyte9751
      @andikyte9751 8 років тому +4

      Did it not say in the video that she has had, or will have, surgery to create a *cough* penetrable vagina so that she can have intercourse?

    • @ivannama8289
      @ivannama8289 8 років тому

      Olivia Harris yes, but it'll be tough and risky...

  • @max3zizo
    @max3zizo 8 років тому +562

    Who has exams and is procrastinating on weird videos?

  • @m_9714
    @m_9714 8 років тому +19

    The mother and the daughter look amazing

  • @maryjacob3680
    @maryjacob3680 6 років тому +9

    The guy who have this beautiful girl is one in a million.. God bless you both

  • @victory9086
    @victory9086 8 років тому +12

    Devan your a strong person for sharing your story I applaud you my prayers are with you that you will have your heart's desire.... BLESSINGS to you and your family

    • @dmerck11
      @dmerck11 8 років тому +2

      Victory thank you ❤☺

  • @kaylarose9760
    @kaylarose9760 8 років тому +15

    That doctor was so sweet n cute "can I give you a hug?"

  • @phil5037
    @phil5037 8 років тому +85

    Why do people think intercourse is the point of a relationship? I'm not sure if it's the guys' fault for being assholes or hers for dating guys that just want sex.

    • @Lilayce49
      @Lilayce49 8 років тому +4

      phil null it's not the point but it's a part of it.

    • @AlexOjideagu2
      @AlexOjideagu2 8 років тому +9

      It is a very important part of it. Most guys wouldn't even be in relationships if there was no sex

    • @GenaFrog
      @GenaFrog 8 років тому +3

      phil null I know what you mean, sex isn't the be all and end all of a relationship and too many ppl prioritise it. My husband and I are so secure we can go months without and could last forever if we had to because our marriage means so much more, but young men focus too much on the sexual side of things with many needing sex more than the love and companionship. My sex life is about love, 100% and giving love to my husband and vice versa. Obviously this couple are so young and would love a family together and so the fact Devan still has ovaries is important. I do believe her husband would live his life without sex though, he's so committed and clearly madly in love with Devan but I think if she were unable to have sex that she may have felt she wasn't giving enough to him? I don't know. When I was young sex had a lot more importance than now I'm mid forties.

    • @Lilayce49
      @Lilayce49 8 років тому +4

      Kj Laurenson Right? It's annoying how men will just accept a sexless relationship and say they're completely contempt.

    • @AlexOjideagu2
      @AlexOjideagu2 8 років тому +6

      Often a man happy in a Sexless Relationship has underlying health issues. I agree I never understand women who are fine with this. It shows how women are on a different planet to men. Either the man has a prostate or low testosterone issue or he just is not attracted to the wife anymore

  • @C.kirk1287
    @C.kirk1287 5 років тому +27

    I pray that God blesses you and your husband with a beautiful family you 2 seem so deserving of that beautiful blessing ❤️💯🙏🏽

  • @14shelbygold
    @14shelbygold 6 років тому +9

    Girl you are strong for dealing with this keep looking up you’ll eventually get what you want

  • @JenniferHiless
    @JenniferHiless 8 років тому +173

    It's nice to see BARCROFT cover real stories looks this one! I started following them after they did a story on me. Some of them are a bit crazy. I really enjoyed yours and hope you get your family! I think it's great you found a husband that was willing to just have a emotional relationship. I honestly think that would be so amazing. I'm sure you guys are really close! You both seam super sweat and I truly do wish the best for you! I didn't read any of the other comments but if you are like me, your prob reading each one like I did on my BARCROFT story! Don't let them get to you. Everyone has opinions unfortunately. Take the good and don't think twice about the bad. Much love to you and yours with love from me and mine! Jennifer Hiles

  • @vanityrae83
    @vanityrae83 8 років тому +297

    I have MRKH or Müllerian Agenisis is what else it's called as well. but I don't have a uterus or ovaries. I have a vagina & a vaginally opening, but at the end of my cervix is a wall of skin. Nothing is there. my reproduction organs never fully developed when I was a fetus in my mommas belly. I've never had a period. this has brought me so many tears. so much sadness & stress. knowing I'll never be a mother. knowing I'll never have a family of my own. adoption is for the rich. although that would be amazing, that's a feasible option for everyone, unless u have lots of money. I've been finding & seeing & learning about more & more women with this condition. it's good to know I'm not alone in the world, bcuz I felt alone for a very long time. but it just really sux that I'll never me a mother of my own. I'm 33 now, no man wants a woman who can't give him a family. I feel like I'll be alone forever.

    • @wulfrir8607
      @wulfrir8607 8 років тому +15

      Vanity Rae I got diagnosed with MRKH a few weeks ago. It feels horrible.

    • @sunflowerthebunbunbunny
      @sunflowerthebunbunbunny 8 років тому +9

      Vanity Rae - thoughts with both of you...

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci 8 років тому +23

      Vanity Rae omg you're making it seem like it's the end of the world. Not everyone wants to breed and breeding isn't for everyone. Even fertile women get abortions or constantly take birth control to avoid pregnancy and never have kids. You're just desperate to be a victim 🙄 nature clearly doesn't want you to breed, accept it and be happy!! You'll never ruin your body, looks, and life with spawn. And FUCK the asshole men who don't want you because they think womens sole purpose is to be an incubator for their spawn!!!

    • @karrannewman4984
      @karrannewman4984 8 років тому +3

      Vanity Rae I don't know where you are in the world but I assume you have a child welfare there is so many unwanted children & children who haven't had the best start in life & that are constantly looking for permanent foster parents maybe that's an option if you love babies & children so much! I feel for people like yourself & I love to carry a baby for someone that could have children! but I know you can't even have that & that why I suggested your child welfare agency. I wish you all the best for the future! warm hugs Karran.

    • @lilbihxxx1234
      @lilbihxxx1234 8 років тому +12

      Look on the bright side, you dont get periods, consider that a blessing.
      My periods make me black out so if u need a uterus, then call me because I'm willing to give them up.

  • @shemikagrimes3530
    @shemikagrimes3530 7 років тому +1

    this story was so touching, as a mother of two healthy children sometime I don't realize what some woman go through who can't have children and my heart goes out to them. I wish this couple the best and I hope their baby is in the making and ready to him his/her wonderful parents.

  • @hancake420
    @hancake420 8 років тому +63

    It's always happening to those who want children and their period, I'm here like "JUST TAKE IT PLEASE, I DON'T WANT IT ANYMORE"

    • @fatimaaden3960
      @fatimaaden3960 8 років тому +1

      Hanna Smedenmalm

    • @subhalakshmi820
      @subhalakshmi820 8 років тому +7

      Hanna Smedenmalm OMG GURRLLL TELL ME ABOUT IT THE TEACHERS B LIKE U WILL SUFFER WEN U DONT HAVE IT AND IM HERE UR A MAN WATCHU KNOW BOUT US HUH?!

  • @tatjana7191
    @tatjana7191 8 років тому +122

    People are saying how amazing her husband is for not leaving her over sex. Listen up! If someone doesn't treat you with the same respect and leaves you because you don't want to have sex with them yet or until you're married etc. they don't deserve you.
    Think about it. If someone leaves you it shows that he doesn't care about you as a person.

    • @frogman305t4
      @frogman305t4 7 років тому +9

      Tatjana I don't agree with that at all a physical relationship is healthy. also what if he wants kids? I think he's incredibly strong

    • @tatjana7191
      @tatjana7191 7 років тому +7

      a physical relationship is only healthy when both people are ready

    • @lisatheboywonder6744
      @lisatheboywonder6744 7 років тому +3

      Tatjana she is able to have sex. In the beginning of the video she talks about her reconstructive surgery to build her a vagina so she can have sex.She had a hysterectomy cause her uterus was under developed, that is why she cant have children cause she cant carry them.

  • @simply_complex4407
    @simply_complex4407 8 років тому +7

    kid or not there will always be someone who loves you, and you can always adopt. wishing you the best!

  • @davidlefort4553
    @davidlefort4553 7 років тому +8

    I love her personality she's so genuine I want this to work for them so much I see that kind of love is so precious amazing poeple she's so beautiful thankyou for sharing your amazing story

  • @potatoqueen7362
    @potatoqueen7362 8 років тому +695

    atleast she doesn't have to deal with a period

    • @nsoforamaka3947
      @nsoforamaka3947 7 років тому +91

      Are u stupid or what

    • @Sankisu
      @Sankisu 7 років тому +57

      Potato queen ikr but on the down side she can’t have children & sex

    • @dresswithk3122
      @dresswithk3122 7 років тому +93

      That isn't a good thing to think like that period is important and you should be thankful you have it one day you will understand and start appreciate everything you have in your body

    • @lisah2948
      @lisah2948 7 років тому +35

      Really?? Wow! You can also choose to not have a period.. Just get on birth control Pills and when it comes time to take the white or green ones (depending on what type of birth control pills you take) it's the 5 different ones before you start a new pack, just skip them and Walla!! No period....You don't have to think this ladys pain is cool. What she is experiencing is sad. Not a blessing.

    • @whydoieventry7577
      @whydoieventry7577 7 років тому +9

      Potato queen me having the same condition and u saying that is just disgusting

  • @lisaarchie5810
    @lisaarchie5810 8 років тому +13

    God bless you Devan and your husband. Seeing this story brought tears to my eyes. just made me realize all my blessings. I pray you have the children you want💕

  • @angussneef
    @angussneef 8 років тому +15

    I wish her all the best, I really hope she can have kids.

  • @allykatt1849
    @allykatt1849 6 років тому +18

    No vagina!? And I thought I had problems... Gheez! 🤦‍♀️😮 I truly wish her happiness and the very best! ♥️

  • @tylervilbert4101
    @tylervilbert4101 7 років тому +14

    and she's probably the sweetest most loyal woman ever, wish I could find a girl like this..

  • @RandomPerson-qc2vw
    @RandomPerson-qc2vw 7 років тому +164

    Has anyone else been well educated with the reproductive system? Bc I feel like these are some dumb questions/statements. Omg

  • @taylord3527
    @taylord3527 7 років тому +101

    What if a ten year old watched this 😂
    *Oh wait, the comment section says so*

  • @andig2218
    @andig2218 5 років тому +4

    I hope and pray they have moved on and have a family, bless them all.

  • @kinslayer1298
    @kinslayer1298 8 років тому +9

    She is very pretty and has a great personality. I hope her and her husband are able to conceive a baby together.

  • @Preetpandher9
    @Preetpandher9 8 років тому +5

    Have positive thoughts and I pray that this works out for you guys

  • @northernsoutherngirl
    @northernsoutherngirl 8 років тому +6

    Seems like her mother is the one who is trying to get pregnant hollering about that's the best news SHE'S heard in a long time. The daughter seemed real humble!

  • @Bluxdemon
    @Bluxdemon 6 років тому +57

    scars or no scars i don't care, she is beautiful and personally i think scars are beautiful aswell, "men" that run away from the sight of scars are not men they are little child boys, they need to grow up and learn what real beauty is.

  • @_J.P._
    @_J.P._ 8 років тому +183

    This comment section here is one of the most idiotic on UA-cam I`ve seen so far. And I`ve been many times to the weird part of UA-cam.

    • @_J.P._
      @_J.P._ 8 років тому +3

      yowza where did you get the idea that I am saying or even nearly implying something like that? Either you did not study the comments here yet or you feel somehow touched by my comment.... nevertheless your comment is inapropriate in every possible way.

    • @tuogvii4027
      @tuogvii4027 7 років тому

      m
      mmmmbvcsss

    • @mercyfae3069
      @mercyfae3069 7 років тому +6

      I'm pretty sure all the videos by this uploader are criticized a lot.... People are assholes.

    • @anjalisookram3965
      @anjalisookram3965 7 років тому +3

      John Crusader how dare you!

  • @tosinadigun14
    @tosinadigun14 7 років тому +77

    nothing is beyond God's power, if you keep praying am sure one day miracle can happen. stay strong. you are beautiful and I commend your husband for standing by you, it's rare to find such a man.... wish you happiness.

    • @rishi_uppal
      @rishi_uppal 5 років тому +7

      Who taught you all this?

    • @bbkikooi
      @bbkikooi 5 років тому

      Dinesh that’s what I thought lmao

    • @guckned2479
      @guckned2479 5 років тому +9

      Yeah guys if you pray enough one day you might just grow a vagina

    • @woofwoof5390
      @woofwoof5390 5 років тому

      @@guckned2479 lol

    • @anticlosedmindedspirit4640
      @anticlosedmindedspirit4640 4 роки тому

      I mean... Not really but I guess.

  • @aditroitz
    @aditroitz 8 років тому +12

    please be strong woman, you are so beautiful! keep loving your husband,

    • @dmerck11
      @dmerck11 8 років тому +1

      aditroitz thank you ❤

    • @aditroitz
      @aditroitz 8 років тому +2

      +Devan Merck welcome, Hope God always blessing you all the times :)

    • @GenaFrog
      @GenaFrog 8 років тому +3

      Devan Merck I'm shocked at the vile comments from some of these plebs but thank you for raising awareness of your condition, I do hope you'll have a baby with your husband, if you do, it'll be a beauty with both of your genes

  • @janvanholten7592
    @janvanholten7592 3 роки тому +1

    You have a really great husband. He understands the enourmous impact that this all have on you. Hope you get a happy family live.

  • @chrismc8000
    @chrismc8000 8 років тому +11

    I was born in 1950. I was also born without a vagina, and absent was an opening, although I did have a normal cervix and uterus. My Grandparents found a plastic surgeon, and I had surgery to create a vagina. The surgery left mostly scar tissue, which does not stretch like the normal lining of the vagina. You are not alone.

    • @shafwandito4724
      @shafwandito4724 7 років тому +2

      Chris Mc 1950? Do you have any children or grand children now?!

  • @haileytate8570
    @haileytate8570 8 років тому +51

    Girl I'll give you mine

  • @alixe4226
    @alixe4226 8 років тому +5

    Devan and her mom are gorgeous! I hope she has a healthy baby!

  • @theresaandrade5708
    @theresaandrade5708 6 років тому +1

    So glad you found the right person to cherish and accept you the way you are.

  • @alexismurphy2130
    @alexismurphy2130 8 років тому +56

    she got married at 18??

    • @dashakovaleva9663
      @dashakovaleva9663 8 років тому

      847,628 views sorry, but... I think it's spelled "you're"

    • @chariclo2998
      @chariclo2998 8 років тому

      Alexis Murphy my uncle got married at that age

  • @Everett_James
    @Everett_James 4 роки тому +5

    So does anyone have updates? This wonderful couple deserves gods greatest gift.

  • @evangelistacahyanara2089
    @evangelistacahyanara2089 6 років тому +8

    Her husband is so good... I am proud to them accepting any one else..

  • @rebekahkirkendoll669
    @rebekahkirkendoll669 3 роки тому +2

    Wow. She a beautiful girl! You'd never suspect all the hardships she has had to overcome. She's the perfect example of, "You can't judge a book by its cover." I hope she'll be blessed with a healthy baby soon. They deserve it!

  • @gracehannah5686
    @gracehannah5686 8 років тому +10

    What an amazing woman. Likes for this lady!!

  • @heatherettebabe
    @heatherettebabe 8 років тому +54

    That husband is one hell of a lover. Like he's never had sex with her and still married her lol

    • @waldosplace3119
      @waldosplace3119 8 років тому

      Heatherette Babe so

    • @heatherettebabe
      @heatherettebabe 8 років тому +2

      bubbles turner Is that every guy that's walking around here?

    • @waldosplace3119
      @waldosplace3119 8 років тому

      What ❓

    • @heatherettebabe
      @heatherettebabe 8 років тому

      bubbles turner .........maybe you should try to understand what I'm saying

    • @waldosplace3119
      @waldosplace3119 8 років тому

      No it's not every guy lol but not all guys are that loyal which is a good thing

  • @majajanusz973
    @majajanusz973 8 років тому +9

    It kills me when people have children as 16 year olds and don't want the baby. When there are people who want a baby so much. I hope they are successful.

  • @moonbubbles3046
    @moonbubbles3046 7 років тому +1

    A beautiful, loving, committed relationship is something to behold. I love the understanding and support that comes from her husband and that she was able to meet a friend who can completely understand her situation.
    We (I say we as in 1st world folks) often take so many things for granted. Stories like this never fail to remind me how fortunate I am no matter how badly I feel at any time.

  • @sayounara1232
    @sayounara1232 7 років тому +7

    I want a Trent for myself thank you! Good luck Devan and Trent! Trent T_T you're a real man dude! Devan you're gorgeous keep being your lovely self!

  • @globe1globe1
    @globe1globe1 6 років тому +9

    Girl! He is good to you because that's the way you deserve to be treaten!

  • @marilynmroe9077
    @marilynmroe9077 6 років тому +5

    Prayers!!! U r beautiful ..brave...and deserve the world

  • @kattelyn92
    @kattelyn92 7 років тому

    Wow! This is such a touching story. She has such a bright and positive spirit, especially considering what she has gone through. Hoping the best for her and her husband!

  • @ericwheep
    @ericwheep 8 років тому +13

    yeah this is confusing. i need to see a picture i guess

  • @KemiAdorin
    @KemiAdorin 8 років тому +88

    IDK HOW I WEN FROM watching Rihanna look-alike to this

    • @whybeinfn1433
      @whybeinfn1433 8 років тому +3

      Kemi M. I went from watching famous dex to this lmao

    • @ogjuggalo4545
      @ogjuggalo4545 8 років тому +3

      Kemi M. somehow viking history has lead me astray 😑

  • @agadorisabel
    @agadorisabel 8 років тому +4

    What a lovely couple. I hope she has her own baby soon. I checked and she has a Go fund me page.

    • @dmerck11
      @dmerck11 8 років тому +1

      Agador thank you❤

  • @rangar6749
    @rangar6749 6 місяців тому

    This Story Makes Me Cry. 😭
    It's So Adorable, Inspiring & Sweet.
    💖❤❤❤❤❤💖
    We Have To Understand These Kind Of People, Find Solutions ☺ & No Bullying.

  • @griffdaz1982
    @griffdaz1982 8 років тому +4

    i wish you all the luck in the world. you're a beautiful person and a beautiful couple. i had a tear in my eye (sssh though,im a tough guy lol) when you mentioned your husband with other babies and other girls FB posts. That must be so hard.
    sending all my love from wales UK to you both (plus 1).x

  • @emojistyle6812
    @emojistyle6812 8 років тому +45

    :( I feel bad for her

    • @spitfyregaming9501
      @spitfyregaming9501 8 років тому +7

      Emoji Style your profile picture suggests otherwise

    • @briestoll
      @briestoll 8 років тому +1

      SpitFyre Gaming had the same thought! Ha ha ha

    • @isabellakuan8323
      @isabellakuan8323 8 років тому +1

      SpitFyre Gaming Lol ikr!!

  • @charlettaramono8949
    @charlettaramono8949 6 років тому +61

    It's so sad that's it's always the ones that want kids whom can't have them. Meanwhile, bastard baby making machines never stop!

  • @ViktoriaHausman
    @ViktoriaHausman 6 років тому +1

    I'm 24 years old and coming from Germany.
    I also know how much it can hurt to be this different inside. And nobody knows..
    For me it's hard to accept that I have Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser-Syndrom.
    I can't even feel like I am a person who is meant to be here.
    Watching my friends growing older, having all I ever wished vor. I stated to have strange eating habits and start seeing myself not as a real human..
    It can ruin your life, if you take this thoughts so badly deep in your mind..

  • @juliemitchell7964
    @juliemitchell7964 8 років тому +19

    omg why do some people feel sex is important, have they never heard of intimacy and foreplay or oral sex. you can have just as much fun in the bedroom department without having vaginal intercourse. to end a relationship because of that is pathetic and to make fun of a person about something they have no control over is despicable! this woman is beautiful in so many ways and does not need negative people in her life. their loss not hers she's better off without them

    • @henrymccomments
      @henrymccomments 7 років тому +3

      Julie Mitchell keep lying to yourself... tell your significant other no more sex see how long that person sticks around

  • @1rage17
    @1rage17 8 років тому +4

    my cousin in the Philippines was a baby girl born without a vagina and because of poor healthcare in the province she died at 6 months from not being able to pee or poop. :( some always have it worse. R.i.p. Jessa's sister

    • @1rage17
      @1rage17 8 років тому +2

      every vagina was born different. i cant wear tampons because if i go dancing or exercise it gets stuck in there so i was told i had a retroverted vagina. never liked em anyways the only thing going up my cooch is my boyfriends dick!!! o.o

    • @ewewewewewwtf
      @ewewewewewwtf 8 років тому +3

      Well your Bladder is a little bit different than a Vagina and a butt. So it probably had an extremely small immune system. I don't exactly know but sorry for your loss :).

    • @leylamorin7209
      @leylamorin7209 8 років тому

      Asia W. sure you are such a lie

  • @Laxlahjuli
    @Laxlahjuli 5 років тому +3

    She is so pretty and I hopes she has the kid she seems like a great person

  • @challimuguira8848
    @challimuguira8848 6 років тому

    This is absolutely awesome. I know the struggle. We did a barcroft media documentary as well about me aging faster than I should. I would love to be a mom. I also know the risk, and I can’t carry. So I truly feel for you and pray you get your bundle of joy soon!

  • @gracegracegrace1827
    @gracegracegrace1827 5 років тому +8

    She is Beautiful....... Oh my God!! I have so many questions in my mind but let me thank God !! Cause he is The creator ....all power,honor and praise belongs to him!!

  • @babyshawn2674
    @babyshawn2674 8 років тому +48

    so she doesn't have periods?!?

    • @babyshawn2674
      @babyshawn2674 8 років тому

      IKnowIFailedCus' IJustSmokeMajorWeedBro! right periods hurt

    • @babyshawn2674
      @babyshawn2674 8 років тому +1

      IKnowIFailedCus' IJustSmokeMajorWeedBro! oh😳 just know our uterus*can't spell that* it hurts it feel like someone is stabbing us

    • @kikithegreat22
      @kikithegreat22 8 років тому +1

      IKnowIFailedCus' IJustSmokeMajorWeedBro! Of course she looks sick! SHE LOSES SO MUCH BLOOD. I am so glad I don't have them anymore...

    • @destinymcdaniel4649
      @destinymcdaniel4649 8 років тому

      IKnowIFailedCus' IJustSmokeMajorWeedBro! it depends on the girl, some bleed for 1 day while others bleed up to 2 weeks.

    • @teyoncetatum1690
      @teyoncetatum1690 8 років тому

      lmao i was just thinking that

  • @ashleymorgan2199
    @ashleymorgan2199 8 років тому +4

    she could honestly be a model

  • @paulbernal9207
    @paulbernal9207 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I served with him in Korea and I also did her tattoo. They deserve to have happiness and children. Wonderful people.

  • @sandraradhay2966
    @sandraradhay2966 6 років тому +3

    She is so beautiful,you are a lovely sprited soul,stay strong my dear.

  • @zedzdead
    @zedzdead 6 років тому +16

    for all the folks in the comments that clearly failed sex ed and biology hold this eternal L

  • @morgan7014
    @morgan7014 6 років тому +3

    So happy for her ❤️

  • @davidsisk3167
    @davidsisk3167 6 років тому

    What a powerful story of a young lady who has battled with imperfection and persevered. Love the fact she found someone who will love her regardless. May God bless her and family. Good luck to you!!!! Hope we see an update on this when she has her first little blessing