We Were Told To Give Up Our Autistic Twins
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- Опубліковано 21 бер 2017
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Parents of twins with autism so severe they were forced to contain them in a prison-like home have gone to great lengths to improve their behaviour. As Mark and Annie Montague walk arm in arm along the beach, with their 11-year-old twins chasing waves in and out of shore, they are the image of a perfect family. But their home in nearby Graveney, Kent tells a more complicated story. In this idyllic village, a detached ramshackle house stands surrounded by high fence posts and chicken wire. Inside, doors are bolted shut, telephones are hidden in locked wooden boxes metres from the ground and barring a table, few chairs and a sofa there is no furniture. No carpets line the floors and a lone painting is tightly screwed in place. This has been a way of life for the Montagues since their twins, Samuel and Jacob, 11, were diagnosed with severe autism when they were just two-years-old.
Videographer / director: Jack Stevens
Producer: Katie Mercer, Ruby Coote
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"Autism isn't a choice, acceptance is."
-EHCCS, 2017
Kenya Gabrielle that’ll never happen
You're Right !
So true
Kenya Gabrielle thank Amen God Bless u
Thank you you are a amazing person
They look disconnected from life until that one guy started spinning them, you can see them snap into reality in a way. That's amazing.
orange peel oup, there goes gravity
Captain Davy Jones oh there goes rabbit he choked
they say a reality check is yur greatest weapon against an autistic. now, i guess it’s a reality spin. HA HA HA HA HA!
so beautiful
Stimulation
They look so much like their mom
Crazy Meh! they are very attractive
I wonder why
@@pinrhyme6703 lick a cheek.
I know even the haircut, it's really sweet. 😊
i ma now your 1k comment like
It's like us autistic folks have been saying for years: trying to understand us will work way better than trying to ignore our problems. Glad to see people who get that, and who are using that to better their lives.
I like this on it
learn from the people who have it rather than what people say it’s like because more often than not it’s actually way more educational when you just take the time to learn from those people and see what they see rather than the blinding rest of the world
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
The doctors told my mom that my brother he would never talk, would never be potty trained and would need assistance and medication till death. He was around 4, he's now 10 and uses the restroom himself, can talk, and do his own thing. As he's gotten older, he seems more like a socially awkward person. He still has behaviour issues, but he's better.
Fabulous chutulu you’re here
Fabulous Cthulhu yep, I know a little bit of how that feels, am autistic myself ( I might be borderline, but still autistic), my parents (maybe my mom) were told when I was about 5 years old that I would never have a sense of humor, I'm am just about to have my 22nd birthday next month ( this is posted in the early part of april of 2018 for those who see this year's later), and guess what, I have a sense of humor, I proved that person wrong.
I'm glad that he's been able to learn so well.
Fabulous Cthulhu Also best of luck to your brother.
If this isn't bs then bless you your brother is amazing and make himself feel happy everyday please.
wow they look just like their mom
23 Savage This is her, version little boy
23 Savage you don't get kids then your that old
69Nobody 69 when* you're* and yes you can have kids at that age, she's not that old.
i was going to comment the same. yeah, some children do copy one parent almost 100%.
+Cristy Chumney they are both so handsome!
As a mother of an autistic daughter, who wasn't diagnosed until age 20, I admire the dedication and love these parents are exhibiting. My daughter is now schizophrenic, and needs 24/7 care which we provide. It's been a very, very hard adjustment. These parents have all my admiration, respect, and empathy. Life is a journey, some folks have rougher bumps, and bigger mountains to go thru and up than others. What excellent progress from these boys!!
God Bless you !
You are an angel on earth for caring for your daughter
@@winning3329 Thank you for that sweet thought. There are many other parents in our situation as well. Angels as well.
I wasn’t diagnosed till I was 17 I’m 22 now and I have some issues which I’m pretty sure is from not getting the proper care I may have needed. I have had moments where the police have been called on me as a result of said issues while I don’t need 24/7 care I can understand to a extent.
I have Autism and Schizophrenia too. My mom takes care of me. Maybe you and her could be friends?
This is beautiful… I have Asperger’s Syndrome, which is on the autism spectrum, and looking at this… it’s just beautiful… seeing these 2 go from unable to really… deal with social interaction, and such, to slowly getting to a point where they can look in someone’s eyes… it’s beautiful.
AnimeLuchia I have Aspergers it’s very high in the spectrum and it means High Functioning
I have aspergers too
I also have aspergers and one of the worst things are sayings or phrases and taking things literally because i didnt understand
I have Asperger's to Xx
I have autism and ADHD but I’m high on the spectrum
This is so so important. Seriously, autism is not some sort of thing that always requires for institutionalization. It's as simple as developing an understanding for how to work with the way they learn and experience life. They walk down a path unimaginable to any of us
siri chauvaux yes, but oftentimes such as in this case, people see them as incapable and want to throw them into institutions where often they don't get help, but rather are further pushed into their own worlds. it's important to not simply diagnose and throw away
Bad Parents! Not all are ok with living with it. Bad parents! So, a 55 year old single mother can't do it anymore and she is a bad parent? Sorry, but an ass whooping at her age is not good. And besides, what institutions! They are RESIDENTIAL HOMES! JUDGING ONES SITUATION IS BULL.
Autistic Cancer i hope you said that just to get attention cuz u need help
Diego Correa i know that, but it seems like he needs help too cussing them out while aware of their conditions. thats just being ignorant
Diego Correa Not all of them.
I work with Autistic kids and I've been using similar techniques to interact with my kids. A lot of them smile and laugh when you copy what they're doing but on the flip side some hate it. That's the most difficult thing with kids with Autism is they are all so different, you just have to find what works for them.
CarbonGril Gt you can't diagnose someone that easily, you'd definitely if you have it, high functioning, so that would take a lot of tests and all. to get a diagnosis
+CarbonGril Gt I have aspergers, which is more on the me side of the spectrum, but it still affects me. Don't listen to your friend, you have to get an actual diagnosis.
*mild, not me
That's amazing! I'd also love to work with autistic kids but I don't know which studies would lead me there. May I ask which type of education you followed? Good luck on your path!
Kawaii Things I have Aspergers too and it is also very mild. I think most people don't understand it and think that all autistic people are the same but every single person is different.
I remember when I babysat a precious little 5 year old non-verbal girl in my late teens. The parents said she wouldn’t communicate, but she played/stimmed with her hands. So I let her clap & play with my hands. After a few days she saw me making breakfast, looked me dead in the eye & laughed. Most powerful moment with a child I’ve ever had. ❤ You may not now it, but they see you.
Wow, you’re an angel. I’m so glad you knew what to do naturally so she was able to connect with you.
My cousin has very severe autism and sotos (an over growth syndrome. Basically the posited of Down syndrome.) When he was born he was told he would eat, breath and walk by himself. They where told he would be blind and deaf. Today he is 14 years old and about 6 foot and he is walking without help, talking amazingly and communicating with my aunts clients. He only needs glasses and has no hearing difficulties at all. Though he will never be able to live alone or be left alone for a long period of time he has proven doctors wrong. We all love him to bits. Anyone struggling with anything like this know you aren't alone. :)
joe trohman
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
Where did your brain keep your grammar? In your arse?
as an autistic teenager i love this because they're so understanding and they encourage stimming and i love this
Christopher F lmaoo
I stim most of the time either shaking my leg or hitting my chest or verbally clicking
Christopher F God bless u and u kid
hang your wang no they won’t and don’t say that they will be dumb if you treat them dumb that’s not true
GabePlays God bless u
Wow that was so touching, I have so much admiration for those parents
Louise Stewart Scott , Yesss!!!!! Amazing people right there!!👏👏🤘
its amazing how they have stuck with their children and never gave them up. they truthfully are taking so much care of their children, that is amazing.
Xx_VULPIX _xX I love your profile picture
id be the living hell out of both theses kids.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
Finally a program that wants to help us by understanding us instead of all but beating us into submission until we learn to pretend to be "normal" and just stop doing what actually calms us and helps us cope with the world around us! ❤️
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
@@juniormako6184 lots of autistic kids start talking when they get older with or without speech therapy or other interventions. A lot just start talking perfectly fine once they're ready. As far as the behavior, if he's behaving as though he's not autistic at all now, he's masking due to the trauma from your "treatments" and "cures" which is detrimental to the psychological well-being of an autistic person and significantly increases the risk of a mental health crisis as an adult or even teen, up to and including suicide attempts! Please, for the love of all things good in this world, learn to love your child as they are instead of risking their lives for your comfort and convenience!
They are so cute aw
Madison Brooke ikr
Madison Brooke ikr 💕💕😍
who is cute? the tards or the comments? you have me a bit confused.
@@colonelyungblonsk7730 excuse me, there is nothing wrong with autism and if you have a problem your mind is extremely dameged and ugly
Akari- Chan so you come in this comment section just to say R I P X, just keep that stuff to yourself, he died, that’s it
I have autism and this is heartbreaking. My mum was told I'd never get better. That I would just always be naughty and unmanageable. That I'd never get anywhere in life.
... I'm now 20 years old. I've done my GCSEs, I've done three years in college with all Distinctions, I'm planning to go back to college again and I'm in a relationship.
When I was younger, I was bad. I couldn't leave the house, I was always self harming, I was destructive and had meltdowns everyday. It wasn't until I got help when I was 14 that my life improved. I went to a special needs school. One that had only 40 students. Every class had 5 kids and three teachers. They improved my life beyond what I thought was possible. They made me into the person I am today.
I still have meltdowns sometimes, I'm sill autistic. But I'm able to manage it. The one thing that still upsets me is that if I had got early intervention (help when I was still a little kid) I would be even better than I am now. It was only because my mum fought for me to have help for years that I got into that school. And it shouldn't be that way. It just shouldn't.
Don't focus on the negative Shannon. You have done wonderfully and should be very proud of your accomplishments.
I have ASPEGERS Syndrome and was homeschooled
There is DIFFERENT LEVELS of it you're clearly not too bad not trying to be funny just being honest
Thank you for sharing this! My son has autism and goes to School for Autism. He really enjoys it. Before he started we had considered 1/2 general 1/2 autistic school but now I hear more and more stories like yours and am glad we made this decision. He has two younger brothers so has definitely opportunity to socialise in a variety of environments...
Keep doing what you are doing x
4:41 - 4:51 made me cry so hard. My 3 year old son has autism and he is very similar to these boys and I feel like hes trapped in his world where he feels like hes alone and nobody can understand him or communicate with anyone. one day i did start copying him and he looked up at me as well like mama you understand me!! my heart is hurting so much right now and I'm crying. I want him to know mommy is here mommy understands you and I love you more than my next breathe!!
Heather s. He knows you love him!
Thank you! Miss Amber
Porter Lockert. I didn't know it was showing... ;) excuse me. *covers my lady parts*
Heather s my brother has autism and he's 3 turning 4 your not alone.
As a person with autism talking to others with autism, this is what I have found autism is. Autism is a different way the brain can be "wired". Some observations may lead an outside observer to think one way, but without the rest of the context it can be very misleading. People with autism take in more information from their surroundings. While doing some activity the neurotypical person (not autistic) may take some time to process said activity and some of their surroundings, an autistic person takes in everything around them that is going on while doing an activity. Take eating lunch in cafeteria for example; while sitting with their friends a neurotypical person will be eating food, talking with their friends, and listening to what they are saying while an autistic person will be doing the same while taking in every sound difference in their friends voice, eye movement, body language, and doing all of these things with anything they also see and hear. Because of that a delay in time to respond may occur as they are taking in and processing more information before they can respond. A lot of autistic people also have Sensory Processing Disorder, which is a disorder that manifest itself in such a way that the individual with it processes their senses either more dramatically or less. For example, take the cafeteria example again; the autistic may be hearing every noise and conversation at once in that room and the lights may be fine for some people and so bright for an autistic person it is physically painful. This can get overwhelming as all of this stimulus can be too much. Stimulus is any information gathered by any of your 7 primary senses: sight, touch, hearing, smell, taste, proprioceptive (sense of where you are in space and movement), and vestibular (sense of balance). While these are external stimuli, internal stimuli can affect an autistic person in the same way; internal stimulus being things such as stress or anxiety to name a few. It is important to let an autistic person know how they live and process information is normal and fine, there is nothing wrong with them. They are perfectly normal people, just with a nerotype that isn't typical. Too much can cause a meltdown sometimes, or a shutdown. A shutdown is straightforward as they just shutdown like a computer and need to rebute away from all that stimulus. A meltdown is when the autistic person goes into a fight or flight response, where they will act accordingly as does anyone when their subconscious feels threatened. Keep in mind, too much stimulus is painful, and be drastically so. You could say that a shutdown is when the fight or flight response goes so extreme they freeze. To combat all of this stimulus an autistic person needs to do one of two things, and may sometimes need help doing them: 1.) Remove the negative stimulus, say like going somewhere darker or quieter 2.) Stim. Stimming can be with any of the 7 primary senses as it replaces bad information, or stimulus, with good. This may be repeating some sound, rocking back or forth, touching some textured object, or hand flapping. These are just a tiny few examples of stimming. Stimming is good stimulus, so an autistic person may stim sometimes just because it feels good to do so with no other reason or maybe to express themselves as is natural and feels good to them. Sometimes when an autistic person has too much negative stimulus they may become nonverbal, or in other words may not be able to talk or use their words. Sometimes they may still be able to make sounds, write, or communicate in some other alternative fashion. Some autistic people take in more stimulus than other autistic people, and can be prone to experiencing more meltdowns and being nonverbal. Nonverbal occurs when the mind and body has to divert resources to dealing with other tasks. An autistic person may normally not be nonverbal but become so during a meltdown or when overwhelmed. Sometimes instead of being nonverbal, there might be a stutter instead. An autistic person has a certain amount of “spoons” they have for every day. Spoons the resources (mentally, emotionally, physically) you can use to do some task. Some days you may have more spoons, and other days you may feel like you none. Getting up out of bed cost spoons, dressing oneself cost spoons, brushing your teeth, showering, eating breakfast, going to work, going to class, anything you do cost some amount of spoons; with little resources of spoons available, you may only be able to accomplish only a few tasks, and that is perfectly okay. Sometimes a task can cost a lot of spoons, and sometimes the same task may cost more spoons than other times. Sometimes looking at a person's face or communicating with someone can be difficult. Communication is like a dance, and can be very difficult to follow. There are 3 ways of communication: what is said, how it is said, and body language. A person's face goes through a lot of changes over a short period of time to reflect how they are feeling, and looking at a person while talking can take a lot of spoons at time. It can be very overwhelming to try to pick up on a lot of cues people have in any form of communication. A lot of times an autistic person may only focus on one form of communication, if any, to be able to communicate. Communication in of itself (talking, listening, changes in subject) yet alone looking at some, taking in all the noise, and light, among some many things happening at once can be too much. If things feel that way, that everything is overwhelming, it is okay to remove yourself from that situation or choose not to be there in the first place. There is nothing wrong in taking care of yourself
I can’t get over the cuddles and the kisses. I couldn’t have imagined that outcome for them. The eye contact. That’s such a blessing.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
My brother is autistic and this video actually made me cry.
It's so hard to love him sometimes because when he's angry I'm just a person that gets in his way instead of someone who you would want to talk things out with. It hurts, sometimes. But we'll get through that all together.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
Kids with autism need to know you are thier for them no matter what just because your child has a disability like autism doesn't mean you give up on them or abanoed them you stick with them and learn new ways to communicate with them it is aled most like a newborn learning new skills everyday they will eventually bond with you when they see that you are fully comitt
Fully committed to them they eventually will trust and build that bond with you but everyday is going to be different for you and other siblings that don't have this promblems may feel left out but that's when you try and teach the other siblings how to recognize the behaviors and help them find their own way of communicating with them once your a family your always a family you should never just give up on them because they have different needs and learning issues you bond with those and create a environment for each kid so they feel connected and loved and trust you even when the going gets tuff easier said then done but loving them should never stop and you pick and choose what really is the best for your children when dealing with the outside professional world of doctors and therapist they are their to just help guide you but the end result is you know what works best for your children on a individual basis even though they might be twins they still have individual needs that are different it is a very long road to journey down with your children but it is so rewarding also even when things get tough these kids can learn and can become successful in society in their own unige way music therapy is a great tool and interacting the music with them is so rewarding and you don't have to be a good singer your natural talent will be the best reward of building this with your children they will rember this the rest of their life and it will build a special bond with them
I have autism and the hardest part of it is knowing about the world and how it works.
Marie Morgan same but with adhd
Yes, I'm 13 and I have Aspergers, and I have a higher understanding of the world than most people my age. I think I agree with most 30 year olds than the people of my generation.
Marie Morgan so ture
I have autism to
Lexi Burke I'm also 13 with Asperger's, but it's mild-ish. I've skipped two classes, so I'm interacting with 15 year-olds on a daily basis; combined with my high understanding of the world, it makes it difficult to truly connect with any age group. How can I be 11, 13, 15, 18, and 20 all at the same time?
Autism is the toughest of all physical and mental disorders for parents to deal with their kids, they get zero recognition and love for their hard work and soul they put in. This video is so incredible, parents should keep on working for many years without seeing any positive results nor did they get any lovable return. Just wow!
I have autism and it took me years to realise that I was not very "giving" towards my parents. I apologised for that as a 20 year old and told my mum that I love her. It made her cry. I believe, as we grow up, that we are to realise the fault in our ways and it will be worth it in the end. But if I had been told that I had been cold towards my parents, I would have apologised and showed affection sooner. I think.
You're right, I have high functioning autism (aspergers). I used to be in my own world as a child, pretending I was an animal and not responding to people in a "human" way for years. I'm still in social therapy and I'm almost 21. You could argue that I was an "easy" child compared to other autistic children, but I do know for a fact that I was not and I still am not easy to be with. I do know folk who have low fuctioning autism though, who have gotten great results from therapy like the one in the video. I myself at least got more in touch with reality from all the therapies I went to.
shmiel kleinman Since when is autism a mental disorder?
I wouldn't say its the toughest condition, especially since there is such a range as to how much it effects people...
That said, you're right! Good on them...
shmiel kleinman but our children are beautiful and special no matter how tough it is
People often want to clamp controls onto kids instead of joining them in harmless activities, so the kids see them as opponents.
I have a autistic cousin. Hes a year older then me and on a scale from 1-10, he is a 11. Its to the point where my aunt has started thinking about putting him in a assisted living home at 15 years old. Now before anyone says anything about how selfish and cruel it would be to put him in a home, he is big for his age, he self harms, he put holes in the walls with his head, he hurts his younger siblings, and he is very emotionally draining. My aunt has 4 kids and he is the second oldest. We all love him so much because he really tries to be good and to not hurt anyone but he is getting almost unmanageable. He is very a very sweet boy and i hope they find a way to help him.
I hope he’s and your families situation gets better 💕
There is no shame is asking for help even if it comes to someone else being the one who does it
Maybe your aunt can get some professionals just like these two on the story to help turn things around.
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
That literally sounds just like my family like exactly like it
you would have to have ALOT of patience dealing with this...
whitwhit87 You do. This is my job too but in a public school setting and it's definitely hard but I absolutely love my kids.
whitwhit87 * a lot
zach healey (i have autism just so u know)
whitwhit87. they only require love. lots of it.
Yes... you need a lot of it.
bless these angels and bless their parents.
Anjali Sharma No religious bs pls
in what way was that religious?
'Bless' is a Christian term. and 'Angel' is what you become in the afterlife in heaven. Also Christian. However you are correct. They should be blessed.
Jessop yes no b.s.
Anjali Sharma amen❤❤❤
You can't blend in when you were born to stand out
Garfield show yeah
Yeah i prooved you wrong i have aspergers and people respect me
~Dr Seuss
Way to show the world to never give up on their kids! Thanks for being great parents!
My brother has autism. He is 16 years old in high school. Before a year or two ago, he had no close friends from school. Now, he has friends from a special class he was moved to with all special needs kids. There he met Daniel, who has been his best friend ever since. Even in high school, I hear students call others like Daniel and my brother weird or joke about them. They just don't understand. People like my brother don't see a difference between someone who has down syndrome or someone in a wheel chair. That's what makes them special. They accept everyone, no matter what. The complete opposite of most kids today.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
Beautiful. The recent push to understand the human behind the autism is wonderful to see. The more we try to communicate on their wavelength, to *listen* to them, the better these therapies will become.
What lucky kiddos. Wishing them and their folks the best.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
I am a 74 yr. old female who was diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder just 1 year ago. During this year I have progressively been understanding more and more about myself. What was said in this video about autism being the inability to connect socially helped me understand another thing about myself. Even though my ASD manifests itself in a much milder way than that of these boys, there are still basic similarities between them. I have always wondered why I have never been able to keep friends; I always drift away from them and don’t have the deep, caring feelings for friends that most people have. Through this video I now understand that I’m that way because of the ASD. Thank you for your video, and I’m SO glad your sons are improving.
These boys are very lucky to have such wonderful parents.i wish all of you alot of succuss, i hope to see an update.bless you all
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
My little brother has autism, but he can talk. He can't read though. He is still smart, for he can build a replica of a plane quickly and with no instructions.Though he can't behave well at school (he is getting homeschooled soon) ,He truly blows my mind and defies the odds every day. that proves all he needs is LOVE! our father has been in prison all our life and he's been through so much. I love him dearly and when I'm older I plan to make a book for him
That isnt how autism works. Autism is autism, theres no such thing as mild/severe/high functioning/low functioning. Its a spectrum and it isnt 'completely different' at all. Maybe do some research (I recommend ASAN).
Pineapple homeschooling is illegal without filling in a bunch of forms and such
Pineapple
My friends cousin has Autism, but he's really smart too. He knows every US president. I only know the more famous ones like George Washington or Abe Lincolnl
My little brother has Autism too. He is really smart and kind...it's sorta like he doesn't know how to be mean or hurt anyone. He can fib in a joking way, but he never actually lies. It's really cool. He is very fun to be around and thankfully I'm moving to my Mom's house in a little less than a week, and that is where he is. :)
Me to and he always bends his knwe s and sits down like that he is smart fast and I luv Mt Lil bro
do they communicate with each other?
It's hard to say but as someone on the Autism spectrum I would imagine that they communicate to a minor level. Not so much verbally but more physically.
Voice Nerd that's not always right depends on with diagnose people get inside the autism spectrum
skye furlong omfg Skye how did I find you here I was just scrolling down the comments and I didn't even realise it was you haha
Voice Nerd people with autism do communicate physically and verbally depends on how severe it is
yes telepathicly
Son Rise changed our lives as well. Thanks to Jack and other angels.
I can’t believe this still happens today. ALL children thrive with love. Where do these doctors draw the line for who’s deserving of a childhood, a life? That where it’s really terrifying. That’s where history repeats itself.
I hope more parents get help to keep their children at home.
People with autism have their own thoughts, emotions, ways of communication, opinions; these vary between every individual ..Just because """normal""" minds can't understand them doesn't mean they aren't being coherent and it doesn't make them uncaring or uncooperative. .
Yea they are very clearly trying to communicate that something is WRONG with their home environment. People (nor animals for that matter) don't try to escape a place half a dozen times if they feel safe and happy there......
Videl Vasquez I have Aspergers and everyone thinks that I don't care or that I'm such a mean person. I don't know how to show that I care to others.
Jessica Coleman exactly. I have it and I had a cover teacher once. I was rlly upset because my dog had died. She asked my after class what’s wrong. I told her and she also knew I have autism. But then she said “But if you feel empathy your obviously not autistic are you?” I walked out of the class because that’s really disrespectful
MinionPink!!! That teacher is horrible
I agree !
i have never commented on one of these but i couldnt help but show how much this makes me so happy, i love this so much.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
I have autism. When I was younger the doctors told my mom I would never be able to talk or use the restroom myself, things like that. But now I am 15, and I just got into the gifted program at my school. It still amazes me that even doctors don’t know enough about autism to know how much and how fast it changes and how different it is for each person.
My brother has autism and he is so intelligent and kind. I love him to bits
this video made me so happy. i hope to, in the future, to adopt children. and i would like to adopt a child who is autistic. i have friends and family who are autistic and i know how wonderful they can be and it upsets me no one is willing to give these children a chance
The Grinch you are so mean
shweta yadav, I'm not called The Grinch for nothing.
Good luck then.
Adopt me jk
You just restored a tiny bit of my faith in humanity. It's gonna be hard, really, but they're still children, nevertheless.
Wouw! I really love this types of videos! I learn so much.
Sidney Levy these*
Lit Sniper Thank you! Im Panamenian, i just watch it to practice my english 😉
Sidney Levy wow*
stuartc2838 really????
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This inspires me so, so, so, so much. As an autistic 12 year old girl with high hopes for the future, I feel like I can change amazingly just like these two. I've been through a lot, too. I've been bullied my whole life, but I stay strong through it. I'm more different than others and that's fine, because I'm unique.
Looking for residential care is not always ‘giving up’ not every parent has the skills or funds to monitor children like this 24/7. Especially when other children are in the house that deserve safety and attention, and the child in question can be extremely violent. Too many negative comments from people who haven’t lived through this.
I'm autistic and while I am in great favor of the Son-Rise program, I understand what you're saying. Every child who is autistic is different and they all have a family that's different and they will all grow up differently. It's not easy to live with anyone who is on the spectrum and sometimes people who are autistic do better when they live in a residential environment that is more structured than a typical family home.
As long as we love our children, make sure they are safe and we're doing what is best for an entire family there should be no judgement
What is in the best interests of each child with autism is what matters.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
@@raea3588 Yes, that is true. I think the issue with how these parents were told to institutionalise their boys, and what they felt it would equate to as a result, was that they would be going against their gut of what was right for their boys based on what society was telling them was right and necessary for society. So it wasn't what was being said that they were upset about exactly, but the subtext of it, and the reason for it. I can completely understand that, and agree that was pretty monstrous. It doesn't mean it isn't the right solution for some people though, or that there aren't good places and people that benefit from them, or that there aren't right reasons to go down that route. It just was handled really badly in their own particular case, and thus it's good they found a different way.
This is so cute and inspiring. I want to be a special ed. teacher or a carer for children with autism (or Down Syndrome). DIdn't know about the Son-Rise program. Thank you so much for sharing, Barcroft! And koodos to those parents and the carer for giving those children so much love!
Silpae Kang Wow. You must have a big heart and passion to care for them! I work as a special education teacher and it does takes a lot more than just patience to handle them. it takes passion, genuine heart and great interest. I wish you all the best and hope there would be more people like you :)
I would love to be a special needs teacher aswell! Which type of education are you going for to get there, if I may ask? Good luck on your journey!
+Dashaun Wright Everyone with disabilities just Wants To be Accepted by those around us. Look, IT'S NOT OUR FAULT WE were Born Different, No one can help it That's Funny Because Last time I Checked NO one Had any Say so on WHAT skin, Hair and Eye Color / Abilities That We are born with. . .
+Dashaun Wright Your Not very Smart are you !? People like you Are Rude and Disrespectful to those of us Who can't help the way we were born, We didnt ask to have Disabilities Yeah we're Different SO WHAT ?! You don't Get to decided Who lives and dies. Your not better then Me or others who are different in the end Were ALL EQUIL and human at theend of the day.
Shawna Fletcher Jesus fucj then no need to get butthurt
Great parents!
they really are great parents
I have asperger's syndrome, it's hard because I have no filter, so people who do not know me think I'm rude...which is very embarrassing for me because I worry about it alot. I admire any parent who's child is on the spectrum, it takes love and patience and a good sense of humor.
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
Me and my twin brother are both on the spectrum (I also have ADHD , mental issues , multiple personalities , anger issues , learning and behavioural issues and possibly bipolar) and I find it hard to hear this I think the parents are doing a good job
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
I think they're doing the right thing. People are so quick to abandon others when times are tough. Those are their children and they'll always be their children, autistic or not.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on UA-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏
The twins are cute! The boys and their parents are so strong. I love the willingness and patience the parents and everyone involved with autism has.
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
Oh! As someone with autism as well, it seems to me that they felt isolated in their thinking, which is a extremely difficult experience. When the dad started spinning with them, they felt connected for one of the first times in their life to their parents. It’s kind of hard to put it in to words, but I can imagine the ease they felt when they saw someone who accepted them/ someone who were similar to them. I believe they then began to trust the parents as they accepted the world around them. Profound it is. They never forgot that their sons were as human as them.
Wow. That son-rise program is brilliant!
I have a mild form of autism.
I feel kind of odd looking through these comments- because some of them make me feel like you think THIS is the way all autistic kids act.
Sorry if this upsets anyone, but I hope you understand.
Madjickal Boi same
ShermTank same...
Me too I was diagnosed with adhd and asperger about two months ago and I’m still trying to get used to it
You are different not less❤️ it’s a spectrum some are severe mild moderate
@@MarieOlesen It's hard to accept at first but now that you've been diagnosed you can hopefully get help and grow as a person 😊
My brother has autism. I HIGHLY recommend iodine. Having iodine has helped is behaviour and cured the fog.
He is now 18 and is amazing now. It is such an amazing relief.
--_-- iodine?? really??? you know what iodine is right?? It wont help, autism is a permanent neurological disorder that cant get fixed or treated with a halogen
Neikoo Iodine is a supplement and it helps because there is a link between iodine deficiency and autism, I believe. She/he didn't say it cured it she/he just said it helped.
Mate i have taken Iodine before to help with a muscle spasm and it dident change shit with my autism. Mate there is no link just a bunch of Jenny Mccarthy bs
Neikoo pleas educate yourself with deficiencies and WHAT OUR BODY NEEDS!!!! Shame on you read a book
Neikoo maybe it's a plasebo lol
I have aspergers and it's gotten milder as I grew up, being almost 21 now. It's nice to see things like this and know I wasn't a freak like I thought as a kid. I wasn't diagnosed until I was 13, even though I clearly showed signs of being on the spectrum. My mom just didn't know.
I have apsergers got diagnosed at 21 and I’m 24 now it’s a battle everyday for me
I have Asperger's and I'm also 21, got diagnosed as a kid
Everyone is different with or without autism and you are all special. We all have value and something to offer. So stand strong. Be the person you are. And be kind to yourself
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
My brother has autism, and he’s four. People think when they meet him, that he’s weird, or just naughty - but people don’t know what actually goes on in people’s head. These parents are truly inspiring. I hope no one should judge a book by their cover.
First time I've seen British boys with names other than "James" "Harry", or "George"...
Zahn Saunders I'm British and called Harry. fuck
Eleven Studios Lol
***** Well then, I stand corrected
Hahaha Harry Potter reference
I know someone named harry but im in greece 😐
why are there so many people in the comments talking about them like they're brain-dead vegetables? frankly, that's rude and ableist.
Karen Y where
Karen Y cause that’s the impression they leave on the masses.
Karen Y we are just saying we can relate is all, and I hope you have a good day/night
Karen Y they are brain dead
They are brain dead vegetables though
They're both so handsome 😭💚
Ikr❤❤❤
There is nothing wrong with having Autism. I’m Autistic, and I’m quite high-functioning (Asperger’s). I am an extremely kind and caring person, a great writer, a good artist, very knowledgeable and love animals...
I too have what was called Asperger's. I've had a successful career, people tell me I am kind, generous and caring, and a nice guy. It seems that people like me far more than I like them. I like very few people, maybe just two.
My friend's nephew has severe autism. He is destructive, aggressive, and will never be able to live an independent life, at 15 he still wears nappies.
Had I not known severely autistic people, I may have thought, because of my own experiences, that there is nothing wrong with autism. At it's worst autism has little or nothing positive about it.
My best friend has autism and it is so sad but all I think of is he's happy I need to be happy too
JuiceBox Jocelyn I have it but no offence but can you not say it's sad.
I used to care for a child with autism. The family had so many different caregivers come and go. I was the only one who stayed for as long as needed. Truly patience and love will change things around. I saw and know how very difficult this situation can be. One was already a challenge, I can only imagine with twins. God bless the parent; I admire them both.
This is amazing. My older brother has autism and autism really does manifest for everybody differently. No two individuals with autism are exactly the same, they are all so unique.
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
Such caring parents. I’m a twin, and this melts my heart.
When they said Montague I thought of Shakespeare:)
**distant Capulet rage**
Xeon Hawaik Right.
Nanika I was looking for *this* comment😰
honestly this almost made me cry... just to see those boys be so happy. I'm so elated that there are people who actually care on a level that isn't fueled by embarrassment or the need to change their child. seeing them be worked with instead of Changed is just beautiful. so many parents will go through great lengths to "fix" their autistic child by using abusive therapies such as ABA and other coercive treatments and just to see parents that truly want the best for their kids and would be open to encouraging them and realizing that autism isn't a disease that it's just a different way of being. there is no cure, and there doesn't have to be. this is just so refreshing to see, as an autistic person. I hope more people like this get a bigger stage to encourage others to be accepting!
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
these boys are my age and im literally crying so hard😭
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
What an innovative program. One that I have never heard of, but it makes so much sense. These parents are incredible. So devoted to their sons and desperate to find a way of coping with everyday life, so that everyone is happy. Seeing the boys interacting with their parents towards the end of the video was so wonderful!
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
And the capulets
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT
Thank you
Lol
Reading that for school rn 😂😂😂
Literally was searching for some one to bring this up
My 9 year old daughter is autistic. She wasn't diagnosed until she was 7 because she is so high functioning that nobody saw it but us. She is such a kind child, and the way I describe her to most people Is, she lives in such a beautiful world in her mind, its not reality but, it is sunny and beautiful all the time where she lives in her head and I am so thankful for that.
The therapist helped them so much God bless him and the parents for not giving up on their babies
I have a aunt who is a very terrible parent... she calls my younger cousin autistic and talks terribly about him... and my younger cousin acts like a completely normal kid and was not diagnosed with autism... even when he was just a baby she would call him names... he only opens up to my younger brother and me... whenever she’s around his mood completely changes... he becomes quiet and distant... but when she isn’t around he opens up more and is happy... I don’t know what goes on in their household but I honestly worry a lot about him. And he hasn’t been eating like at all and has lost a lot of weight and has dark circles around his eyes and has become even more distant than before and always seems really sad... I worry a lot about him I practically take care of him whenever he comes over... another thing is that her and my uncle fight practically 24/7 their always fighting over the smallest of things... I just honestly worry a lot about him because every time I see him he just looks worst and acts more distant.
This is quite similar to my son. He's 13 and he's very affectionate to me and to a lesser degree his dad and younger siblings. What's interesting to me is my other kids (aged 1 to 7) have always done the joining in with my son too and you can tell he enjoys it because he feels he's interacting with them in a way he knows. What a lot of people don't realise is that these kids do actually want to be part of the world, they just find it confusing and overwhelming so they don't know how. At any age if people just give them a chance they'll see there are some amazing strengths in them, and when they get to working age if they could be put into a job that suits those strengths they'd blow all their colleagues out the water!
Don't beat yourselves up; You are both doing the best that you can do as parents for your boys and don't let anybody tell you any differently. I am proud of you for taking such good care of them parenting is already a difficult around-the-clock job I can't even begin to imagine what the two of you must go through on a daily basis and I love how patient and sweet you guys are with them.
It’s so wonderful to see people who care! My brother has had autism my whole life and he is the dearest person in my life!
Thank you!
MJ
Never give up, I have a autistic nephew and he has been such a blessing in our life! He is very special and he continues to get better and better.
Institutions are the worst thing. I have high functioning autism and being locked up in a hospital was one of my worst fears.
Jessica Jayes why you went to a hospital?
No, I was just afraid.
Jessica Jayes I asked you because my son has high functioning autism he is five and I am helping him with ergotherapy and logo therapy. He is very smart and he is starting to play with other kids.iam so happy for him!
I never thought to close him into a hospital its not necessary. That is out of mind
In old movies you never saw autistic people because they were always in institutions. Up until the 1970's it was believed that autism was caused by maternal neglect. So not only did you find out your kid was different but you were the blame. Maternal neglect does cause developmental disability but autism is something you are born with.
This gives me hope for anyone whom suffers from autism I hope that today they have a great day and I will always remember that it will take 1 person to make change thanks to these boys
As long as stimming isn't harmful or disruptive like in a classroom setting it shouldn't be suppressed period
02:59 I don't really agree with the parents in this point. Of course I recognize that what they are doing for their boys is just outstanding and amazing. As a special needs teacher I have seen a lot of similar behaviour in (autistic) kids. But sometimes all the love in the world just isn't enough. I don't think parents who make the decision to put their children in residential living are bad parents. Just imagine a single parent, parents living in a small appartement or parents with additional kids having to sacrifice what these parents are sacrificing for their boys. Not everybody has the strenght or ability to do that. And that is completely okay. That is the reason for this institutions to exist. And despite the bad reputation these places are having, the kids will be loved and cared for and they will live a happy and fullfilled life.
Don't judge anyone until you walked a mile in there shoes.
I'm glad someone raised that point. Every situation is different. With the twins, the parents can spend all of the time they want, not everyone can.
My friend's nephew has severe autism and it is destroying the lives of his sisters. The parents focus just on the boy, and to be honest the younger girls are bringing themselves up. No one chooses autism, so deserve the best. However, no one chooses an autistic sibling, and if they have one, then they also deserve the best. Best for the boy, or best for the girls? An horrendous decision to have to make, and I would certainly not consider them to be bad parents if they chose a residential unit for the boy. Unfortunately, the oldest sister is already showing signs of mental illness due to her home life.
As you rightly say, walk a mile in someone's shoes before you criticise.
It depends on the child. My foster son loved School but hated boarding. I fought to get him as a day pupil for 3 years and eventually won the case on his behalf. And he thrived. He is now nearly 40 years old and a lovely person. It's all about trust and compromise. And loving that person for who they are. Acceptance.
This is incredible. Good for these parents for pursuing and pushing to help their children.
I highly recommend these boys go through sensory learning I went through it and it is a simple process that opened up all of my problem areas.
It rarely has any effect though, and majority of the time it can actually be very traumatic for the child depending on which center you go to and which "course" you go through. Like this one course that ABA provides, they will starve the child, hold the child to the ground, force them to be touched, force them to keep their eyes open in bright lights no matter how much pain they are in, etc.
I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.
I love this channel. I have a disabled sister and Im greatful that channels like this help spread knowledge about this.
Annie and Mark, you an inspiration to all. It is a real pleasure to take care of your family. Keep sharing your story so others can have the strength to learn and take care of their children too.
Before reading, a note: all the " are the words neurotypical people would use, I don't like them but it will be easier for you :)
I am so happy that these parents didn't choose the "easy path". As it is a spectrum, every autistic has a different experience. My cousin, for exemple, his autism is a little "lighter" than the twins, but it doesn't mean he is "easy" too. My autism is very low, so you wouldn't think I am autistic unless we spoke for more than 10 minutes, and even so you would need to pay attention to the specific things. A lot of it has to do with masking, and it was undiagnosed for 18 years, so this is how you know I can "act normal" and go unnoticed. But I am still autistic, and I feel them. I've seen horrific stories about autistic people that can't communicate very well, and seeing this new technique makes me so happy that it can actually help them manage better their feelings and express themselves more.
There's no such thing as "cure" for autism because it is a disorder, not a disease. But with proper help and resources we can live a normal life (now that's up to you to change your broken perspective of what normal is!) and be happy and enjoy things! It's all up to society understanding differences and embracing them (because no one is equal to anyone, everyone has differences and that's what makes us who we are - not robots, not "perfect", not copies)
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This is absolutely such a touching story .and I'm so so glade that they have there boys interacting and playing with them most of all the boys showing them love and kindness is so heartwarming,good luck with you're boys and I believe they will keep improving with you're love,you never gave up on them and they will never give up on you,❤️🇦🇺
I have an 8 year old brother with autism and I don't know what I would do without him he is my everything. The fact that if I am crying at a sad movie or crying in general he starts crying to and gives me hugs and kisses it melts my heart
How can someone be soo evil
To tell them to guv the twins away
I know Right!
my older sister has ADHD and Autism I love her so much
I dont have autism but i have adhd but its very slight
The love and patience these two parents have is just wonderful. It must be frustrating and yet rewarding. I know you want the best for your boys. I am glad they are making progress. May God continue to bless and protect you. May He continue to guide you to good programs for the boys.
'The future for...them is limitless.' And that is all any parent wants for their kids. Great parents.
I have adhd and autism people always say to me “you don’t look autistic u look normal”
autism doesnt have a look... smh
I'm autistic and this therapy seems so much better than ABA! I love the video it's very cute and touching
It's wonderful. I'm so glad that those boys got such a great loving family to take care of them, and I'm grateful to those parents who never gave up on their children. The world needs more parents like them
You are truly wonderful people.
The boys are blessed to have you and you've been blessed to have them
My twin brother is autistic and as babies/toddlers I was the quicker one to learn physically such as walking and being potty trained. We're both 16 now, he went to a grammar school, got A🌟 and other amazing grades. My grades weren't as good as his for sure but I was super happy about his. He is now studying at the sixth form at his grammar school to become a pilot. At first he was told he wouldn't be able to be a pilot because of his autism, but he already has flight experience from my mum booking and paying for it so its allowed for him now.
Autism is NOT the end of the world!
My beautiful son Morgan, was perfect when he was born. When he was 2 I started to notice lots of different things he would do. He was diagnosed with severe Autism at age 3. I was told he’d never be able to talk, interact or make eye contact. I was heartbroken, any parent would be I wanted him to be independent. I was told that the best place would be a residential institution as his behaviour was challenging. I never had even considered giving my child away. Now I have learnt to accept and appreciate my son. We have highs and lows but, I love him I really do and always will, it’s hard to think that just 4 years ago I thought there would be no hope for him. A few months ago he started making I contact and listened to me! And we are very slowly progressing.
( my hopes for the future is that he will be able to communicate with the people around him who knows when that will be, maybe a few weeks maybe a few years but I don’t care what happens I will still love and support him ❤️💖
I think it’s sweet that there are people out there who want to help people like the twins
My heart melted when I saw the smile on the boy's face. I have Asperger's syndrome and always hated being reminded of how different I am from other people, especially whenever I hear the word 'autistic'. I am just mine is only mild but at the same time, sad there's more severe cases. At least there's hope to help them