Michael Jai & Gillian White on Their Secret to Staying Married (Part 10)

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  • Опубліковано 17 тра 2024
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    Part 11: • Michael Jai White Name...
    Part 1: • Michael Jai White on K...
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    Michael Jai White and his wife Gillian recently opened up about their marriage, revealing their secret to a lasting union. The Whites often forget their official marriage date, making their bond seem more organic and less constrained by formalities.Their journey into offering relationship advice started unexpectedly. When Gillian began sharing their experiences on social media, Michael felt compelled to join in, which led to a viral post and invitations to speak about relationships on various platforms. This eventually blossomed into their podcast, "Love Strong," which aims to help others by discussing seldom-addressed relationship topics.
    Gillian highlights that being best friends and eliminating ego from their relationship has been crucial. They avoid competition and ego-driven conflicts. Instead, they focus on communication and genuine companionship. Michael adds that growing up in dysfunctional environments made their healthy relationship feel revolutionary. Their mutual dedication to sharing their insights with others underscores their commitment to service and helping others find similar happiness.
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  • @mrplatinum83
    @mrplatinum83 Місяць тому +49

    Its so refreshing to see a healthy black couple.

    • @larrycurrycarpediem
      @larrycurrycarpediem Місяць тому +5

      I soooo concur whole-heartedly!!!

    • @fredtolliver4798
      @fredtolliver4798 Місяць тому +6

      There are many more out here, that aren't in the industry...they just quietly mind their business and love on each other

    • @arlandoamb6754
      @arlandoamb6754 Місяць тому +1

      Stfu where you from? We see black couples everyday healthy ones for some reason your comment was annoying to me. My apologies, but I truly see black couples every day healthy, black couples people who are happy to be with each other so I don’t know where you live at, but if you don’t see that maybe you need to move to a different city or state a different part of town because I see happy Black people all the time but I do live in the south

  • @h.Freeman
    @h.Freeman Місяць тому +38

    I wish my wife would let me forget. She wanna celebrate the day we met. The day we got engaged...or wedding anniversary her birthday, Christmas, Valentine's...😂

    • @joojoobaw
      @joojoobaw Місяць тому +2

      The day you first admit to each other you gotta take a dump…

    • @elpaul5538
      @elpaul5538 Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂 I feel ya bro

    • @nightmareknee942
      @nightmareknee942 Місяць тому +2

      At least you found love. I envy you

    • @trueomegablack
      @trueomegablack Місяць тому +1

      The expression Huey is making in your profile makes your comment even funnier😂 👍

    • @ubuent4842
      @ubuent4842 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂

  • @rashardmitchell7915
    @rashardmitchell7915 Місяць тому +29

    Dizzzaammm!!! Talking about the perfect match....they even lowkey look alike.
    Their definitely twin🔥's.

    • @YoungWisdom319
      @YoungWisdom319 Місяць тому +1

      That's crazy! I say Dizaaaaaamn too🤯

  • @tpatt3511
    @tpatt3511 Місяць тому +8

    I feel like once celebrity couples start sharing information about their relationship that usually is the beginning of the end. Especially if it's on camera.

  • @sophisticatedignorance5697
    @sophisticatedignorance5697 Місяць тому +38

    Vlad is so obsessed with Rihanna being a babymama...

    • @hareemobduljawon
      @hareemobduljawon Місяць тому +16

      Vlad's obsessed with anything or anyone that doesn't concerns him.

    • @regg58
      @regg58 Місяць тому +2

      Lmaoo fax

    • @joojoobaw
      @joojoobaw Місяць тому +5

      He’s brings it up like 2, maybe 3 times in the past year and yall like “All Vlad does is talk about is Rihanna being a bm!!!” 😂

    • @HaileyHernandez-np1iy
      @HaileyHernandez-np1iy Місяць тому

      Rihanna is over hyped sucking off Jay z swinging at CB playing the victim and now she swallowing asap Rocky juice. She's lame. Over hyped

    • @wkang84
      @wkang84 Місяць тому

      A billionaire baby mama is just so degenerate

  • @gigi1625
    @gigi1625 Місяць тому +6

    Their body language is crazy for Vlad to have asked such a simple question. I never seen people squirm over how long they've been married.

    • @dohy1
      @dohy1 Місяць тому +1

      The body language as if they lien.😂

  • @3rdGenerationCancer
    @3rdGenerationCancer Місяць тому +21

    Just both of them are physically and mentally beautiful.

    • @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi
      @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Місяць тому

      Debatable... It's subjective, but if you think they're hot, more power to you, brsoki

    • @3rdGenerationCancer
      @3rdGenerationCancer Місяць тому

      @@NoneofYabiz-rx3zi pointless comment

    • @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi
      @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Місяць тому

      @@3rdGenerationCancer It's ok to be bi, don't be ashamed

    • @3rdGenerationCancer
      @3rdGenerationCancer Місяць тому

      @@NoneofYabiz-rx3zi not bi actually. But if I was it would be better than being you. I can see why your father left you. Best decision he made.

    • @3rdGenerationCancer
      @3rdGenerationCancer Місяць тому

      @@NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Sorry but I'm not bi. But if I was it would better than living your pathetic life

  • @bradleycampbell245
    @bradleycampbell245 Місяць тому +20

    I remember when Gillian got kicked out of Cole’s apartment on Martin and when she played that Jamaican girl Shante on Def Jam’s How To Be A Player

    • @Andrew_S51
      @Andrew_S51 Місяць тому +1

      Oh that's her from HTBAP? Wow, she was the baddest. Aged nicely.

    • @bradleycampbell245
      @bradleycampbell245 Місяць тому

      @@Andrew_S51 sure is

    • @nadecha5326
      @nadecha5326 Місяць тому +1

      I thought the girls name was Ashinkashay

    • @Andrew_S51
      @Andrew_S51 Місяць тому

      @@nadecha5326 haha yeah the sister was wild.

  • @kingstonking411
    @kingstonking411 Місяць тому +3

    I swear this the type of love I’m searching for. It’s almost unreal how true there love is. Truly honorable 💯🫡

  • @KKemp-bt6nl
    @KKemp-bt6nl Місяць тому +5

    It’s inspiring to see them making it work.

  • @rosakop1
    @rosakop1 Місяць тому +2

    Props to Michael, a good looking man with a muscular physique and exceptional combat skills that scored an exceptionally beautiful classy and feminine woman, love seeing couples that are evenly paired like this, they both scored, no one’s “punching” good for them 👌

  • @user-st1wi9bv3z
    @user-st1wi9bv3z Місяць тому +2

    These two souls are meant to be they definitely have the spiritual connection ❤ respect

  • @czarmitsanze4509
    @czarmitsanze4509 Місяць тому +10

    The secret of staying married is don't get married - yours truly TK-Kirkland.

  • @Danny-fs1hk
    @Danny-fs1hk Місяць тому +2

    Outstanding segment! Love this couple!

  • @because0011
    @because0011 Місяць тому +2

    So true best friends and no competition

  • @LeanneLeroy-ou7ob
    @LeanneLeroy-ou7ob Місяць тому +37

    Well done! The effort and passion are evident.

  • @HaliSue2009
    @HaliSue2009 Місяць тому +2

    Many more blessings to the couple!

  • @MrBrandon330
    @MrBrandon330 Місяць тому

    I knew this was possible. I refuse to let people tell me anything different about how 2 people can be perfect for each other. It's all about finding the right partner.

  • @mrdkhall33
    @mrdkhall33 Місяць тому

    Finally something about them we learned nothing about their relationship until now. Theyre more interesting the other tired topics

  • @ChristophSanAndreas
    @ChristophSanAndreas Місяць тому +13

    I bet MJW is happy the Diddy video came out lol

  • @The82monte
    @The82monte Місяць тому

    These two souls, are my parents in my next life. It is spoken.❤

  • @bryantwilliams3475
    @bryantwilliams3475 Місяць тому

    Brutal listening to my guy ry to simply form a thought

  • @SimbaAliMN
    @SimbaAliMN Місяць тому +2

    Who Would’ve Thought The First Question Would’ve Rattled Both Of Them.

    • @dohy1
      @dohy1 Місяць тому +1

      They lien or something.

  • @romarisrogers8005
    @romarisrogers8005 Місяць тому +4

    Marriage supposed to be an institution of love but not still seen as a cute little boyfriend + girlfriend kind of crush..💯

  • @joshburnett3583
    @joshburnett3583 Місяць тому +2

    3 Arguments in 28 years? I’ll take that ratio. Kudos to you two.

  • @TerriBlanchard-nh7xy
    @TerriBlanchard-nh7xy Місяць тому +32

    I love how you address this topic with such honesty.

    • @navi.p
      @navi.p Місяць тому +1

      Vlad how after how many times of having MJW on you've never plugged his podcast 🙄. I'm defo have check them ou t👍🏼

    • @joojoobaw
      @joojoobaw Місяць тому +2

      @@navi.p Because their podcast was like 4 years ago and it was “a limited series” of just a handful of episodes.. they decided to bring it back just recently

  • @TheBulletzgottishow20
    @TheBulletzgottishow20 Місяць тому +10

    We need Gillian back on by herself so beautiful

    • @fredtolliver4798
      @fredtolliver4798 Місяць тому

      No we don't.....the entire point is the unity....look at her mind deeply, and try to forget the physical

    • @TheBulletzgottishow20
      @TheBulletzgottishow20 Місяць тому

      @@fredtolliver4798 He insecure you can tell when she talks about the other guys she been with in the industry

    • @fredtolliver4798
      @fredtolliver4798 Місяць тому

      @@TheBulletzgottishow20 I'm not so sure about that...that's a very confident Black man who is a proven winner...you're reading the room wrong

    • @D1man1525
      @D1man1525 Місяць тому

      @@TheBulletzgottishow20lmao in what way shape or form does he show any form of insecurity??😂😂 People just don’t like hearing about their partners exes

  • @Ricsteed1987
    @Ricsteed1987 14 днів тому

    I just wish them success and happines

  • @REAlMIDOFFICIAL
    @REAlMIDOFFICIAL Місяць тому +6

    The secret to staying married is to include God in your marriage, and keep him in it. Have a healthy relationship with him and your marriage will last. The reason a lot of marriages fail is because. They either don't include God in it from the jump, or somewhere down the line they stop including him in it. They start depending solely on the love that they have for each other, and the amount of time that they've been together. That's when the devil Creeps in and causes confusion, drama and trouble. Once the devil sees that God is no longer being included in the marriage that's when he attacks.

    • @jordanhtiffirg1990
      @jordanhtiffirg1990 Місяць тому +1

      Not necessarily you dont have to be very religious to have a successful marriage or partnership. It definitely helps to be if you take religion serious but whats very important to me is communication and respecting one another

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 Місяць тому

      👍👏👍👏👍👏
      TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES COULD BE NEXT STEP!!!

  • @mrcole83
    @mrcole83 Місяць тому +1

    Relationships Goals!! Hope I don't regret saying that later

  • @xDTHECHEMISTx
    @xDTHECHEMISTx Місяць тому +1

    Mike is with a different one. She let him slide forgetting how long they been married lol but I love their vibe together

  • @Shroomunati
    @Shroomunati Місяць тому +9

    Keep only the man’s last name😂

    • @user-ce1nf1fx2z
      @user-ce1nf1fx2z Місяць тому

      It looks like a butch lesbian doesn't it,
      same with Will Smith's wife & Madonna.

  • @kennethmiller1080
    @kennethmiller1080 Місяць тому +1

    GREAT couple!!!

  • @CorGP
    @CorGP Місяць тому

    Be attracted to each other for ever. It looks like no one fell off in this marriage

  • @rastafari4932
    @rastafari4932 Місяць тому +7

    My marriage of 27 years was also inconspicuous but we made sure to engrave the date on the rings so as to remember…

  • @BirdFromYakiVegas
    @BirdFromYakiVegas Місяць тому +1

    Mike that talking thing "everyday" comes and goes in a relationship. We are on our 20th & we ain't talked all year 😆 butt were still together ✊🏽❤️

  • @whodatboi2567
    @whodatboi2567 Місяць тому +4

    Vlad has such a weird obsession with Rihanna having kids out of wedlock. It's possible to maintain a long-lasting relationship without tying the not and even if they separated (which is highly doubtful) there's nothing wrong with being responsible co-parents.

  • @jzw55
    @jzw55 Місяць тому +1

    That may sound strange they don’t remember when they were married but I was married for 13 years before my wife passed but we had started our journey on my spring break in 1992. We said March 9 but we don’t know if that’s the actual date. Plus we dated briefly in high school til I did some dumb shit. I totally relate. We had our disagreements but we had rules. No name calling and don’t fight in front of the kids

  • @stanfarmer6098
    @stanfarmer6098 Місяць тому +1

    You have to be compatible. That’s the Key.

  • @danielleshipman9001
    @danielleshipman9001 Місяць тому +2

    0:05 👀 Ladies this man is still up for grabs!!!

    • @Darkspotlight28
      @Darkspotlight28 Місяць тому

      Thats crazy how you said that on video specifically talking about him and his wife staying together.shorty you whore and deserve to be treated as such

    • @PamBallard
      @PamBallard Місяць тому

      Crazy comment!!

  • @shanab794
    @shanab794 Місяць тому

    What a beautiful couple ❤️

  • @TreeSnackz
    @TreeSnackz Місяць тому

    Salutations!

  • @RudyRudacious
    @RudyRudacious Місяць тому

    🖤

  • @idenjames7717
    @idenjames7717 Місяць тому +12

    I don’t take advice on marriage from people 10+ years older than me and been married 10+ 15 or so years. The dating, morals and values etc, were different back then especially before social media was a factor. Today is a different “today”

    • @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi
      @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Місяць тому

      Nobody forces you or your gf to live on social media.
      If you choose to do, yeah, you kinda setting yourself up

    • @idenjames7717
      @idenjames7717 Місяць тому

      @@NoneofYabiz-rx3zi me and my “gf” don’t have social media other than shit like UA-cam and Reddit. But I understand you are speaking in a general sense. But in reality, 95% of people have social media. So my comment still stands. If 95% of the population is doing something detrimental, how good are the odds?

  • @cmunnerl
    @cmunnerl Місяць тому

    This is beautiful. Mutual respect and love between the two of them. Side note: they kinda look alike to me. Different complexion obviously but as far as bone structure around the eyes and cheeks....they look like relatives...first cousins or something lol!.

  • @culloutoltec9111
    @culloutoltec9111 Місяць тому

    class couple..

  • @jamesclark8931
    @jamesclark8931 Місяць тому +1

    She is so fkn beautiful man Michael Jai bro you a lucky man bro salute to both of you a powerful and power couple love it!! And can also kick some ass together lol

  • @sirQB
    @sirQB Місяць тому

    I'm cynical of any couple that pretends "oh we're just perfect together". The healthiest couples in Long term relationships I've seen are the ones that acknowledge that the marriage isn't perfect, but they work hard at making things work.
    Sure, this may be genuine, but I've seen enough "we're just perfect" couples completely fall apart after 10 years.

  • @albertcarrolljr9935
    @albertcarrolljr9935 Місяць тому +5

    I thought he was married to shawty on baby boy Tyrese mother on there

  • @Sophia-zx4hk
    @Sophia-zx4hk Місяць тому +1

    Tupac was knocking that off the frame

  • @vladtv
    @vladtv  Місяць тому

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  • @isaiah102509
    @isaiah102509 Місяць тому +2

    That how long you been married answer seems suspect

    • @dohy1
      @dohy1 Місяць тому +1

      Very suspect.

  • @omgitzhaze
    @omgitzhaze Місяць тому +6

    Black love is beautiful but, very rare💯

  • @courtneyhoward2758
    @courtneyhoward2758 Місяць тому

    If you reference how many times she looks to her left at him, and how many times he looks to her to his right. There is no competition as she saying but she's deferring to him, that's what makes relationships work because ultimately the woman still has to defer to him because he has all the responsibility so he needs all the authority..watch from the top. I digress and that's what I'm looking for and she knows he's the man and she refers to the man other than calculating her own conclusions before deferring to him.I digress.. congratulations

  • @nadecha5326
    @nadecha5326 Місяць тому +1

    Vlad trying to put a stain on Rhianna’s name lowkey. Like he couldn’t find a white celebrity that is in the same boat.

  • @stacey3763
    @stacey3763 Місяць тому

    It has to be the right person or it will never work.

  • @darkethereal
    @darkethereal Місяць тому

    Relationship goals by Gillian and Mike confirmed. I honestly thought Cardi B and Offset was it but unfortunately not.

  • @treylito2252
    @treylito2252 Місяць тому +1

    Marriage can work yall......rare these days but it's possible as u see🤔

  • @bellzo5
    @bellzo5 Місяць тому +1

    That's kind of odd this relationship is very odd

    • @dohy1
      @dohy1 Місяць тому +1

      Very odd.

  • @mcchoirboy
    @mcchoirboy Місяць тому

    If ur not arguing something wrong

  • @ClarenceLumsey-ik4vh
    @ClarenceLumsey-ik4vh Місяць тому +1

    Bring her back by her self.

  • @celpabedn
    @celpabedn Місяць тому

    She is the sexy cat in the Hey Lover!

  • @itshiho
    @itshiho Місяць тому

    A relationship with no drama, rare to see but really the problem usually is women only like the guys with drama. The nice and good guys they think are weak or boring for the most part so guys have to play this role for respect. That whole thing is silly and never has made any sense but that's how it works most of the time smh.

  • @joycewilson7045
    @joycewilson7045 Місяць тому

    She is Gorgeous!

  • @Xyz_Report
    @Xyz_Report Місяць тому +1

    Jai is the last of a dying Breed of men

  • @Metso-ateco
    @Metso-ateco Місяць тому +7

    Wow is she latino??? She is beautiful,

  • @rashardmitchell7915
    @rashardmitchell7915 Місяць тому +6

    And she lowkey look like Tisha Campbell🧐....but a prettier version 🙃🤣

  • @gtergeez7935
    @gtergeez7935 Місяць тому +1

    Ahh sh!t they might be a couple that the industry is trying to plant

  • @sermishadarius7849
    @sermishadarius7849 Місяць тому

    Interview Gillian by herself. I feel like she will divulge way more

  • @elliot2177
    @elliot2177 Місяць тому +1

    Rihanna is 36 and Beyonce is going to be 42.Not that much of a difference.

    • @AppliedPressure493
      @AppliedPressure493 Місяць тому

      Rihanna is 35 years old.... if not she just turned 36.... She is around Chris Brown age

    • @elliot2177
      @elliot2177 Місяць тому

      @@AppliedPressure493 She is 336

    • @elliot2177
      @elliot2177 Місяць тому +1

      @@AppliedPressure493 She is a year older than C.B.Feb 88

    • @AppliedPressure493
      @AppliedPressure493 Місяць тому

      @elliot2177 Don't be disingenuous. You just said she is 38 years old. I looked her up because a couple months ago she was literally 35 years old. I also know Chris Brown is 35 because my Brother is tge same age but 2 days apart. You edited your comment to make it look like I was being confrontational for no reason.

    • @elliot2177
      @elliot2177 Місяць тому

      @@AppliedPressure493 Feb 88

  • @timetter7062
    @timetter7062 Місяць тому

    They are the same person

  • @mikey7349
    @mikey7349 Місяць тому +2

    Tupac’s old joint 😂

  • @integrafreak1
    @integrafreak1 Місяць тому

    Vlad where’s your family? Stop hiding the kids

  • @1stnamebr406
    @1stnamebr406 Місяць тому

    As long as she light light to white...stay in it to win it black man. Shaking mjy head.

  • @latricetaylor7928
    @latricetaylor7928 Місяць тому

    Chile they’re not married

  • @romelloskuggz5728
    @romelloskuggz5728 Місяць тому

    🗣 CAP .. to much stuttering

  • @lawrencereid2767
    @lawrencereid2767 Місяць тому +3

    First

  • @caper087
    @caper087 Місяць тому

    Taylor swift is bigger then riri

    • @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi
      @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Місяць тому

      She ain't have a kid though and she's just dating to break up and write songs about her ex bfs

  • @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi
    @NoneofYabiz-rx3zi Місяць тому

    0:14 sweaty armpit

  • @SINTHEREBEL666
    @SINTHEREBEL666 Місяць тому +1

    Till get they divorced 😂

  • @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204
    @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 Місяць тому

    Boring

  • @AlexisDaddyPappizzle
    @AlexisDaddyPappizzle Місяць тому

    🫡 Salute Big brother Michael Jai you are the truth