lol I’m kinda shocked at how many of these first “dates” are at either her apartment or his apartment. What ever happened to stranger danger lol it’s so dangerous to do that invite a random man from the internet to your home before you’ve even met?
Yes, I cannot stress this one enough. We as women really have to stop believing that dating is like a fairytale movie where men can be trusted. I was stalked in my early 20s, both physically and cyber, for over a year because I invited a dude over, and I broke things off with him. Never again. Never again. He doesn't need to know your real phone number, where you live (not even the neighborhood), or what your car looks like, if you have one. They will use all those things to terrorize you when they do not get their way.
Safety tip from an auntie: 1. Do not invite strange men to your home. 2. Don't let them pick you up. 3. Always have an exit strategy. 4. Send the car make and model and license plate number of your dates car if you see it to a trusted person. 5. Communicate in some way (I send photos) of what you are wearing, this includes if you've changed your hair i.e new wig/weave/colour/extensions. 6. Share your whereabouts. If you take an uber do the pin thing. 7. Let someone know your timeline e.g "the date is here and starts at x time, we're doing x activity which should take x amount of time. I'll call when I leave. And CALL okay? He can text for you, so CALL. 8. If he hits or throws things near you, he will eventually hit you. It's not 'if' it is 'when'. 9. Really should have put this as number one but DO A BACKGROUND CHECK. Sorry for the caps, but its seriously important we do this. Be safe and have fun ❤
Ladies - if a man is EVER more than 10 minutes late - cancel the date . Thats unacceptable . Unless you have roommates , dont ever invite a tinder or man you dont know inside . Dont tell them you live alone. Be coy and dont tell them personal information ie. Body count , sexual history - this has been weaponized and you dont know what type of crazy man you may be dealing with. Pay attention to your gut instincts and red flags and dont be afraid to up and leave a date if you feel uncomfrotable .
If I was a white lady I'd never ever admit to dating a black man. White men are so fragile in their egos now it's insanity. Pure racism. If they feel this way about black men, how do you think they feel about black women?
To the lady in New Zealand: You deserve to be loved and treated like a queen. Don't let any of these jerks make you feel any other way. Work on your relationship with yourself, and your person will show up when you least expect it. Much love and big hugs🥰
She should’ve realized that was a stock photo. Please tell me that was staged. He looks like he left six inches of height and about twenty pounds of muscle along with his eyebrows.
I agree and I felt it was disingenuous because she knows the only reason she was willing to go to dinner with that old ass man was cause she thought she could get some money. 😂😂😂
Right like I know 50yo and 30yo can probably have healthy relationships (idk I am not at that either of those ages) but the switch up of "well 50yos date 30yos only because they know they can't fool other 50yos" ... Umm ma'am you're the fool in this scenario
@@sydneyhughes7598and how is that a problem? What else does an older man want from a younger woman apart from her youth and body? So he can objectify her that way and exploit her but she can’t also use him for money? That’s a double standard. An older man should expect to bring out his wallet with a younger woman.
@@sydneyhughes7598 They knew along with the the rest of us what they both wanted out of that situation. If his damn near 60 year old ass was GENUINELY looking for a soulmate in a 30 year old woman, there’s something wrong with him lol. Therefore, his whole statement about wanting to make sure the woman was not a gold digger was also disingenuous. He wanted a young tenderoni to look at and love on and as old as he is, he should know what that entails. She was actually keeping it real but trying to put it eloquently. It was going to be an even exchange until he refused to give the damn girl a meal lol
NYC 🗽 here too! My father raised me and my sisters to never pay for dates. If he doesn’t pay or pay half it means a man is not investing in you therefore he don’t really like you.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585listen if a man asks you out , he’s looking for something. Paying your half is only making it easy for him to juggle you and a ton of other broads. If a man doesn’t even think you’re worth drinks and a meal , that should tell you all there is to know, but go off.
Their half of the bill? How about don't date if you're broke? I have never been asked to pay a tab, real men know that if nothing comes of the 1st date, charge it to the game!
I am sooo skeptical about the story where the guy came to the girls house used the bathroom and broke up with her. I’d be checking that bathroom for hidden cameras or something sounds so weird.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 separated by a sheet absolutely not where were y’all gonna be intimate at if you would’ve came to that with his roommate over there jacking off listening you know what this is disgusting
An ex in my 20’s picked me up 45 minutes late for my birthday dinner, then yelled at me and made me cry for asking him why he was late. In some weird gaslighting way he turned it on me that it was my fault. I ended up finding out that he was cheating on me the whole time with his ex. I broke up with him and he stalked me at my work where they had to ask him to leave. He would show up at my house and throw tantrums and punch his car. It was scary. He finally gave up and moved on, I dodged a bullet!!
Why are y’all debating with these men, why are y’all going to these men house especially with other roommates in the beginning (not safe), why are y’all giving these men money, why, why, why??? Women we are bringing the drama into our lives! Protect your energy early onnnnn!
😂 "he aint like an oil painting" is the most iconic way to call someone ugly. She was so glowing and charismatic. Forget that fool girly it was his loss anyway
DO NOT INVITE MEN YOU HARDLY KNOW TO YOUR HOUSE. DO NOT GO TO THEIR HOUSE. DO NOT LET THEM PICK YOU UP EITHER. TAKE AN UBER OR LYFT OR DRIVE YOURSELF 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I hear that. I went on a date with this dude, that had one beer after another on our date. I told him I was not into drinkers but he insisted he wasn't one. I did not go on another date with him, and that was only one part of the equation.
Ladies PLEASE STOP OVER EXPLAINING, STOP TRYING TO REASON WITH THEM at the first sign of dust, LEAVE/BLOCK/NO CONTACT the more you talk and explain the more undeserved energy and attention you give them
Fortunately, the only guy I met on Tinder was awesome. He was gorgeous, down-to-earth, fun, and a genuinely sweet person. We ended up spending a lot of time together. But, I have met other men from other dating apps that ended up being weirdos.
Ladies…. there is a MUCH higher probability you will be unalived by a man rather than finding “true love”. That stuff in the movies and shows is all for money because they know you keep buying into it. Is it really worth it??
Depends on the culture. In some European cultures, it is the norm to split the bill even between married couples. It was a huge culture shock for me when I was dating my European husband.
That blonde girl was asking to get scammed by the "Nigerian prince." Somebody asks you for a thousand dollars to "invest" and you don't smell a scam? You deserve to get scammed if you're that silly.
@@sarangtokki2045 You are right. Nobody deserves for another person to have ill intent for them but you still deserve to get scammed if you're acting goofy. People out here making rookie mistakes.
Any man who expects women to pay on dates should go date a Man/Dude. They can go halvsies together. If you don’t have money for dates, you have no business dating AND you need to get your priorities in order. Get a 2nd maybe 3rd job and get your money right
Sorry but BOTH these women and the stories about their men are crazy! 😅geeezzz you go to their houses? You sit in a strangers car? And you expect to be safe? What did your parents teach you about dating?
I absolutely love listening to you speak. Your accent is awesome, but the way you use inflection and tone when speaking gives me a feeling of calming and comforting energy. You are also very beautiful. Apologies if compliments like this make you uncomfortable. That certainly is not my intention. I think your videos are very soothing when you speak, and the subject matter is entertaining. Blessings and positive vibes to you!
Don’t expect to find the cream of the crop on a dating app they’re mostly the guys too awkward to approach women in person lol or the ones who get rejected when they do approach women irl😂
I think she mentioned the fact that the guy is Indian because of the fact that this girl was originally supposed to be his wife through an arrangement. She was explaining the closeness of the bond between him, the girl, and their families
Why is every house with multiple men living there so awful. Like no TV stand, no bed frame, so decorations, just the ugliest shit I’ve ever seen?? Why do men not know how to have a space.
The obvious reason she wasn't sure if it was bc he was Indian or just a bad date is bc of the cultural differences she didn't know! Thought that was obvious, guess some things have got to be broken down for others.
So the roommate was in on the date when he said we’re not a phone house it’s like if you don’t get out of my face oh my gosh, I already ran out of there, but I was not gonna be sitting on the mattress with the airplane blanket, watching a movie on a computer with him telling me I don’t know how to park wow he’s eating salad from a bowl under his musty arm. Absolutely not you know what all of this was horrible All of it
Dating is a recreational sport, courting is best. This is why women complain about being trapped in these 3+ year relationships where they’re giving the man the wife bundle package to learn 5-7 years down the line that they wasted their time. Yes, as women we crave companionship and commitment but it should be established under the solid foundations. And fyi, no I’m not a Christian, just an old school woman who’s been through the drama of dating.
Coffee dates are nice in the evenings. 45 minutes tops. It's a good start. IMO, a man has to earn the time to have an actual dinner date with me. I can discern this during a short evening coffee date.
I know she said she didn’t like coffee dates cause people want to “rush back to work”. Maybe it’s just me but I was thinking “why not do it when they both have a day off?”. It’s a good public space where you can feel safe and still get to know the person. She just kinda gave off the vibe that she’s too good for coffee.
The point is…if a man is offering you a coffee date, he is telling you that you are not worth the investment of a proper date and/or just cheap. I would never get myself dressed and waste my time just for some coffee. Letting them take you to dinner is a gift to the man that is really interested in you. Also, cheap (coffee) dates only makes it easier for men to date multiple women without him putting in much effort. Girl stop!
I'm sorry but I see the annoyance when someone decides to not be over the Ex and test drives you to see if they could be, I've been through two of these recently, if you have any, i mean any sort of feelings for your Ex, do not date, because the other person either has to pay for a heart they didn't break or has to regroup and deal with the disappointment if they really did like you, it is not fsir to the other person that you can't get your crap together after 3 years of being broken u and that petson has moved on with someone else, get council, take some pills ,do something but for the Love of God don't make someone else pay for a heart they didn't break.
😂😂😂😂 Andrew tates generation willdiealone , all these red pilers talking about money are lame lame, just tell her before you go on a date we all pay for ourselves.
Men get rejected 95% of the time or more, but we cry like babies when 1 out of 100 men turns us down. I approached my husband. He's fine, i didn't get turned down, but i never thought he'd marry me either!! 27 years later, I am glad i approached him!!
The girl with the DINNER over COFFEE is clearly a gold digger. She would do coffee with a man 30 years older as he's not a good match, but she'd go out to dinner with him. The difference? A free meal
Not enough comments on this lol I was like wtf he’s too old to have coffee with but not too old to eat off? A coffee date isn’t about being cheap but the quick in person feel for one another to see if you should spend and hour and a half for dinner. $20 and 30 minutes vs $150 and an hour more with an awkward af person you aren’t comfortable/compatible with makes more sense to me 🤷🏾♂️
Ain’t no way people are still falling for the Nigerian prince scam in 2024, that’s literally the oldest one in the internet book. It’s literally a joke/meme at this point, it’s so infamous. 😂
I think on the first date if the woman does not have a real good attraction to the man and is not expecting to go back out with him, she should pay for her own meal. At least that's what I would do if I know for sure. I'm not going to go back out with that man. I would pay for my own food so there's no damn problems
It’s just a date , you don’t owe the man anything . That’s why you choose the place , get there yourself , and don’t order too much. Most men play games and know they don’t want anything, except sex but will string women alone. Fk em
Nope, my time, gas, makeup and mileage are expensive! A real man that isn't broke does not get bent out of shape paying a tab if things don't work out! Don't date broke men!
A F k does not cost a dinner, why should he expect that? If he wants a h kr then he should go straight to one and ask her straight so god forbid he doesn't "lose" aaaaaalllllll that money in a nice dinner that HE is also eating, by the way, with a nice lady
Atp women need to stop dating in general. I’m at the point where I feel almost nothing good comes out of dating or even some relationships. Single and celibate is it.
Ummm the girl who didnt introduce the guy is an asshole... the guy was weird but if ur on a date with someone and ither of ur friends walk up u should introduce the person even as just a friend or a date ...dosent gotta be serious but just ignoring his presence is rude AF
Ladies, please don’t invite strange men you barely know to your house 😔
This should be common sense.
lol I’m kinda shocked at how many of these first “dates” are at either her apartment or his apartment. What ever happened to stranger danger lol it’s so dangerous to do that invite a random man from the internet to your home before you’ve even met?
Yes, I cannot stress this one enough. We as women really have to stop believing that dating is like a fairytale movie where men can be trusted. I was stalked in my early 20s, both physically and cyber, for over a year because I invited a dude over, and I broke things off with him. Never again. Never again. He doesn't need to know your real phone number, where you live (not even the neighborhood), or what your car looks like, if you have one. They will use all those things to terrorize you when they do not get their way.
What's going on
Exactly like wtf
I’m on the 3rd story and I’m already crying 😂😂…the African Prince requesting money and you gave him 3Xs the amount is insane 😅
Right!! Sucks it happened to her but she kinda deserved that. Who the hell would give some random dude that kind of money 🤦♀️
If he was a prince, he wouldn't need money 😂 good for her getting him back 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
@@jessicaHarrell-zt3fp not random,they were 6mths in.
@@outofthisworld4437No....2 years in!
I would love if it's true she scammed him back 😂 DESERVED.
Safety tip from an auntie:
1. Do not invite strange men to your home.
2. Don't let them pick you up.
3. Always have an exit strategy.
4. Send the car make and model and license plate number of your dates car if you see it to a trusted person.
5. Communicate in some way (I send photos) of what you are wearing, this includes if you've changed your hair i.e new wig/weave/colour/extensions.
6. Share your whereabouts. If you take an uber do the pin thing.
7. Let someone know your timeline e.g "the date is here and starts at x time, we're doing x activity which should take x amount of time. I'll call when I leave. And CALL okay? He can text for you, so CALL.
8. If he hits or throws things near you, he will eventually hit you. It's not 'if' it is 'when'.
9. Really should have put this as number one but DO A BACKGROUND CHECK. Sorry for the caps, but its seriously important we do this.
Be safe and have fun ❤
Whew I wish someone told me about #8 when I was in my early 20s!
Amazing advice. So smart about the taking the pictures because people often forget details in times of distress.
Ladies - if a man is EVER more than 10 minutes late - cancel the date . Thats unacceptable . Unless you have roommates , dont ever invite a tinder or man you dont know inside . Dont tell them you live alone. Be coy and dont tell them personal information ie. Body count , sexual history - this has been weaponized and you dont know what type of crazy man you may be dealing with. Pay attention to your gut instincts and red flags and dont be afraid to up and leave a date if you feel uncomfrotable .
All good points and great advice 💯
Honestly men shortage this advice too some crazy women out there. Be safe stay in public don't say where you live.
Even if you have a roomate don’t put them in danger tf. Mfs is real deal crazy out here ! Meet in public
y’all don’t EVER bring a stranger into your home. Even with a roommate, but I agree with everything else.
The tiny guy in the distance who didn’t grow taller as he drew near, got me crying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm on that one now
U cra zeee! 😂🤣😅
Bro got possessed because she said she slept with a black man 💀
i believe it 😬
He knew his little Peter wacker stood no chance LMFAOOO he was UPSETT😭😂😂😂
If I was a white lady I'd never ever admit to dating a black man. White men are so fragile in their egos now it's insanity. Pure racism. If they feel this way about black men, how do you think they feel about black women?
Nah, she's lying.
Old white boomers ask about black men and hate them but will beg to watch if you say you're not racist
To the lady in New Zealand: You deserve to be loved and treated like a queen. Don't let any of these jerks make you feel any other way. Work on your relationship with yourself, and your person will show up when you least expect it. Much love and big hugs🥰
“Didn’t learn to cut symmetrically from Gordon Ramsay or his mother…”😭😭😭
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6:25 where are your eyebrows 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 they stay back in Africa 😂😂😂
She should’ve realized that was a stock photo. Please tell me that was staged. He looks like he left six inches of height and about twenty pounds of muscle along with his eyebrows.
@@kconway2263 LOL!!
LMFAO this had me crying, I played it back way too many times😂😂
The coffee date vs dinner date conversation was beyond silly. 🙄
I agree and I felt it was disingenuous because she knows the only reason she was willing to go to dinner with that old ass man was cause she thought she could get some money. 😂😂😂
Right like I know 50yo and 30yo can probably have healthy relationships (idk I am not at that either of those ages) but the switch up of "well 50yos date 30yos only because they know they can't fool other 50yos" ... Umm ma'am you're the fool in this scenario
@@sydneyhughes7598and how is that a problem? What else does an older man want from a younger woman apart from her youth and body? So he can objectify her that way and exploit her but she can’t also use him for money? That’s a double standard. An older man should expect to bring out his wallet with a younger woman.
@@mrs.w8193 it’s absolutely not a problem. The problem was she was disingenuous and said that wasn’t what it was about. That’s all.
@@sydneyhughes7598 They knew along with the the rest of us what they both wanted out of that situation. If his damn near 60 year old ass was GENUINELY looking for a soulmate in a 30 year old woman, there’s something wrong with him lol. Therefore, his whole statement about wanting to make sure the woman was not a gold digger was also disingenuous. He wanted a young tenderoni to look at and love on and as old as he is, he should know what that entails. She was actually keeping it real but trying to put it eloquently. It was going to be an even exchange until he refused to give the damn girl a meal lol
Nigerian Prince lady is so hilarious like girl how did you skip your way into that
I’m honestly impressed she got her money back and then some lol Most people just accept the loss and move on lol
Yeah I was like does she really still believe his friend’s a Nigerian prince?! I guess she’s just young and dumb.
I’m so glad I’m married!
💍💍💍💍💍
Just old lady knowledge here:
Do not drive to a bar ever. Take an Uber.
Y
@outofthisworld4437 because if its a bar ur likely to drink and drunk people make stupid decisions AKA driving drunk 🥴
@@BreeBrat35 Correct 👍❤️
But what about the situation where the girls were almost kidnapped from the bar 😮....gotta keep the getaway car 🙈
That is not safer for women
Idk why it's so hard to block folks. I'm not going on a weird date with anyone and letting them continue to have access to me after. BLOCKEDDD
That second girl needs to love herself. Her priorities are all messed up
I want to believe maybe her bathroom was unclean....and that's why he immediately left her after going there. A big turn off!
I’m from NYC and I have never attracted a man who made me pay for any dates 😩 if he asked to go, do not touch that bill!
Thank you. These women are getting played playing their half and thinking that’s hurting the man 😂 . They dgaf
NYC 🗽 here too! My father raised me and my sisters to never pay for dates. If he doesn’t pay or pay half it means a man is not investing in you therefore he don’t really like you.
If you asked him out would be the only reason. If he asked you out, well hopefully he’s a gentleman
Right! I don't.
If you want someone to pay their half of the bill on a date, let them know before the date. People can’t guess what you want.
when they pay they think you "owe " them at the end of the night! NOPE! I take myself where I wanna go😹😹😹😹
@@kayshawnsimmons5585listen if a man asks you out , he’s looking for something. Paying your half is only making it easy for him to juggle you and a ton of other broads. If a man doesn’t even think you’re worth drinks and a meal , that should tell you all there is to know, but go off.
Their half of the bill? How about don't date if you're broke? I have never been asked to pay a tab, real men know that if nothing comes of the 1st date, charge it to the game!
@@ForeverLuxeDesigns These are not men. They are subpar males and don't deserve to have a women. Dating a broke guy can cause all types of problems .💯
@@ForeverLuxeDesignsnah if no coochie u can pay for your own meal
Height-fishing 😂 I’m 5’10” and crack up when guys look UP at me and say with a straight face they’re 6’ tall
STFU shawty!
I'm the same height. Met a supposedly 5'11 Korean guy in person (and he was not expecting to see me- long story) and he was legit
I am sooo skeptical about the story where the guy came to the girls house used the bathroom and broke up with her. I’d be checking that bathroom for hidden cameras or something sounds so weird.
She said " I wonder when this will stop happening " so she might be the problem
I want to be single and i have no interest in being with anyone whatsoever.
💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰
No tv😂😂😂,he was a gold digger 😂😂😂😂😂,and broke one at that😂😂😂😂
YES! Lying about his Job and Sleeping in a corner on a mattresses on the floor😮😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 separated by a sheet absolutely not where were y’all gonna be intimate at if you would’ve came to that with his roommate over there jacking off listening you know what this is disgusting
An ex in my 20’s picked me up 45 minutes late for my birthday dinner, then yelled at me and made me cry for asking him why he was late. In some weird gaslighting way he turned it on me that it was my fault. I ended up finding out that he was cheating on me the whole time with his ex. I broke up with him and he stalked me at my work where they had to ask him to leave. He would show up at my house and throw tantrums and punch his car. It was scary. He finally gave up and moved on, I dodged a bullet!!
Why are y’all debating with these men, why are y’all going to these men house especially with other roommates in the beginning (not safe), why are y’all giving these men money, why, why, why??? Women we are bringing the drama into our lives! Protect your energy early onnnnn!
A lot of women will take the drama as long as it meant they had a dude to fool around with, let’s be honest 🤷🏾♀️
I go to their house to see how they are living.
Some women choose the bear 🐻🐨🐻❄️🐼I'm choosing the cat 🐈 😻 🐈⬛️.
I choose myself
Same😹😹😹😹😹💯
What's the difference?
I’m choosing the dildo 😂
These girls are way too permissive and while they're downloading dating apps they need to learn to download Uber so they can leave when they want.
You shouldn't be going over anybody's house or should anybody be going over yours so soon. That's supposed to be dating 101!!
Getting scammed by a Nigerian prince in real life is diabolical 😂
I’m glad she was able to get her money back
“Where are your eyebrows?” 💀
3rd girl is wild for going to his house with his roommate. That's dangerous.
😂 "he aint like an oil painting" is the most iconic way to call someone ugly. She was so glowing and charismatic. Forget that fool girly it was his loss anyway
DO NOT INVITE MEN YOU HARDLY KNOW TO YOUR HOUSE. DO NOT GO TO THEIR HOUSE. DO NOT LET THEM PICK YOU UP EITHER. TAKE AN UBER OR LYFT OR DRIVE YOURSELF 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
No sympathy for alcoholism 😅
I hear that. I went on a date with this dude, that had one beer after another on our date. I told him I was not into drinkers but he insisted he wasn't one. I did not go on another date with him, and that was only one part of the equation.
@@christinerodriguez3976 it only takes one time and be glad he showed u early
@@christinerodriguez3976 glad u saw the signs
Ladies PLEASE STOP OVER EXPLAINING, STOP TRYING TO REASON WITH THEM at the first sign of dust, LEAVE/BLOCK/NO CONTACT the more you talk and explain the more undeserved energy and attention you give them
Right! We don't entertain incels for free😂 Just block and move on
Fortunately, the only guy I met on Tinder was awesome. He was gorgeous, down-to-earth, fun, and a genuinely sweet person. We ended up spending a lot of time together.
But, I have met other men from other dating apps that ended up being weirdos.
Ladies…. there is a MUCH higher probability you will be unalived by a man rather than finding “true love”. That stuff in the movies and shows is all for money because they know you keep buying into it. Is it really worth it??
So true , I was telling a friend who’s super male centered that the reason u want a husband is based on best case/ fantasy scenario!
@@amilllion1 I do too. 2 of my ex friends got really mad at me for saying this🤦🏾♀️😒😑
Same. I lost 2 childhood friends for telling them this🤦🏾♀️
Soooo true! There are a lot of women being killed.
Hell no to splitting the date
Thank you!! Keep your standards high as taxes!!!
Depends on the culture. In some European cultures, it is the norm to split the bill even between married couples. It was a huge culture shock for me when I was dating my European husband.
That blonde girl was asking to get scammed by the "Nigerian prince." Somebody asks you for a thousand dollars to "invest" and you don't smell a scam? You deserve to get scammed if you're that silly.
Right!
Nobody DESERVES for another person to have ill intent for them unprovoked 💯
@@sarangtokki2045 You are right. Nobody deserves for another person to have ill intent for them but you still deserve to get scammed if you're acting goofy. People out here making rookie mistakes.
@@sarangtokki2045I agree. 💯 But a prince who needs money! 😳No ma'am🙅🏾♀️
@@clementineslaughter6904she still was smart she got her money back and didnt end up with the oga sir
So glad I'm old and well past the "wall" lol
The puddle of water filled with Mileria was REAL😓😅
*malaria
@@Poeticfloetic ur correcting all over,love it.
Any man who expects women to pay on dates should go date a Man/Dude. They can go halvsies together. If you don’t have money for dates, you have no business dating AND you need to get your priorities in order. Get a 2nd maybe 3rd job and get your money right
Thank you!! The pickmes in this comment section are saying it's okay to go half or pay the tab! Way to set the bar in hell!
@@ForeverLuxeDesigns and the same pickmeshia would cry about how their men don’t treat them right.
New here ! Hey girl hey 👋. Ohh and 🌴🌴🌴. Anyways just wanted to say that you’re soooo beautiful and the accent is so cool! I subscribed 🖤🖤
Aw, Thank you so much 🤗 Welcome to the Islanders Family, we’re excited! 🇯🇲😆🎉
Sorry but BOTH these women and the stories about their men are crazy! 😅geeezzz you go to their houses? You sit in a strangers car? And you expect to be safe? What did your parents teach you about dating?
Who the fork is snoring?!?!😂😂
I paused the tv cause I thought my daughter was snoring lmao so I wasn’t bugging, ok
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I thought my dog was in respiratory distress. It honestly sounded like someone was dying. Like, girl, do you have that man tied up in the backseat?
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I was like, is she not hearing that!?? Someone needs a CPAP machine
I absolutely love listening to you speak. Your accent is awesome, but the way you use inflection and tone when speaking gives me a feeling of calming and comforting energy. You are also very beautiful. Apologies if compliments like this make you uncomfortable. That certainly is not my intention. I think your videos are very soothing when you speak, and the subject matter is entertaining. Blessings and positive vibes to you!
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I don't believe in online dating
It worked out for my aunt she is now married to an amazing man
Anyone who does online dating is DESPERATE!
Yeah…it seems like a big waste of time. Too much trash to go through!
I met my most recent ex online needless to say I haven’t been on a dating site ever since… that man was crazy af
@@BrianaStone-y4q Same!
Don’t expect to find the cream of the crop on a dating app they’re mostly the guys too awkward to approach women in person lol or the ones who get rejected when they do approach women irl😂
Don’t forget other women’s husbands!
The name for those guys is Incel
@@amilllion1These 🥷🏽 don't care about NO wife ring or kids🤦🏾♀️😒😑
Even the awkward ones are players in disguise. Ever frequented an incel forum?
I think she mentioned the fact that the guy is Indian because of the fact that this girl was originally supposed to be his wife through an arrangement. She was explaining the closeness of the bond between him, the girl, and their families
Ladies... men are supposed to pay for the dates.
Really felt the pain in the second story and related. Poor baby.
Yeah there's a lot of guys on tinder that are trying to get clients and not girlfriends.
Tinder swindler
The second girl really had me feeling bad. ..until the "$67" thing. 😂😂😭. Then i just cracked up. LOLL. poor thing. Hugs to her. She seems sweet.
Why is every house with multiple men living there so awful. Like no TV stand, no bed frame, so decorations, just the ugliest shit I’ve ever seen?? Why do men not know how to have a space.
That’s why they need women 😂
16:57 you dodged a bullet. I take it as a blessing when I get rejected.
The first story kinda triggered me 😮”you F’d a BLACK MAN?!!!!” 🤦🏽♀️
Man i randomly found your channel and ive been hooked binge watching ur vids!
Awesome! Thank you!😊
Ladies Please get off the On-line Dating sites. Your setting yourself up for Failure 🤦🏾♀️💯
A lot of these men want Princess treatment.
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"Where are your eyebrows?"
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The obvious reason she wasn't sure if it was bc he was Indian or just a bad date is bc of the cultural differences she didn't know! Thought that was obvious, guess some things have got to be broken down for others.
The second girl! You're beautiful af! Don't let that man hurt your feelings girl!
The man with the air plane blanket and roommates. Maybe he’s lying about his line of work and income ?
Where your eyebrows
TF
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2:20 he found something in her bathroom that’s a no for him lol
So the roommate was in on the date when he said we’re not a phone house it’s like if you don’t get out of my face oh my gosh, I already ran out of there, but I was not gonna be sitting on the mattress with the airplane blanket, watching a movie on a computer with him telling me I don’t know how to park wow he’s eating salad from a bowl under his musty arm. Absolutely not you know what all of this was horrible All of it
"Ride him like Seabiscuit!"
Dating is a recreational sport, courting is best. This is why women complain about being trapped in these 3+ year relationships where they’re giving the man the wife bundle package to learn 5-7 years down the line that they wasted their time. Yes, as women we crave companionship and commitment but it should be established under the solid foundations.
And fyi, no I’m not a Christian, just an old school woman who’s been through the drama of dating.
LMAO, "FLIPPING Peetah"!
The first man has performance anxiety issues, got him scared because the competition is a black man. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Coffee dates are nice in the evenings. 45 minutes tops. It's a good start. IMO, a man has to earn the time to have an actual dinner date with me. I can discern this during a short evening coffee date.
He already got you at coffee date. You’re a coffee girl on Tuesday. He’s inviting his dinner girl out on weekend. Girl wake up. 😂
I know she said she didn’t like coffee dates cause people want to “rush back to work”. Maybe it’s just me but I was thinking
“why not do it when they both have a day off?”. It’s a good public space where you can feel safe and still get to know the person. She just kinda gave off the vibe that she’s too good for coffee.
The point is…if a man is offering you a coffee date, he is telling you that you are not worth the investment of a proper date and/or just cheap. I would never get myself dressed and waste my time just for some coffee. Letting them take you to dinner is a gift to the man that is really interested in you. Also, cheap (coffee) dates only makes it easier for men to date multiple women without him putting in much effort. Girl stop!
45 mins is a lot for a coffee date
I am screaming at the girl saying he was holding the bowl like a FOOTBALL 🏈
These ladies have no boundaries, please stop inviting strangers in your home 🇬🇧🇯🇲🤦🏾♀️
The way that I will just walk away casually. We can’t count on man. We need to have boundaries
These stories are too crazy
Sounds like two people forgot the dog in the car.
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I'm sorry but I see the annoyance when someone decides to not be over the Ex and test drives you to see if they could be, I've been through two of these recently, if you have any, i mean any sort of feelings for your Ex, do not date, because the other person either has to pay for a heart they didn't break or has to regroup and deal with the disappointment if they really did like you, it is not fsir to the other person that you can't get your crap together after 3 years of being broken u and that petson has moved on with someone else, get council, take some pills ,do something but for the Love of God don't make someone else pay for a heart they didn't break.
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Andrew tates generation willdiealone , all these red pilers talking about money are lame lame, just tell her before you go on a date we all pay for ourselves.
These aren't bad dates. These are bad decisions.
35:38 “…he’s a growing lad.”
OMG, I saw what she did there. 🤣🤣😂
"Where's your eyebrows?"
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Wait wait! What did the text say? And did she really send him $200??
Where are your eyebrows? 😂
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Well played she played the scammer
Where are your eyebrows 😂😂😂
Why is she accepting to go to a bar on the first date? She should've known better
I can’t imagine my friend being excited about a date and helping her get ready but she never comes home because the guy was a CREEP 💔
30:22 so, block him? Like…
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WOW!! ITS THAT BAD IN THE NEW DATING GAME?? woOooOooo i was just about to stArt dating again , BUT NOOOOOOO🤣😂🙏
Men get rejected 95% of the time or more, but we cry like babies when 1 out of 100 men turns us down.
I approached my husband. He's fine, i didn't get turned down, but i never thought he'd marry me either!! 27 years later, I am glad i approached him!!
The girl with the DINNER over COFFEE is clearly a gold digger. She would do coffee with a man 30 years older as he's not a good match, but she'd go out to dinner with him. The difference? A free meal
Not enough comments on this lol I was like wtf he’s too old to have coffee with but not too old to eat off? A coffee date isn’t about being cheap but the quick in person feel for one another to see if you should spend and hour and a half for dinner. $20 and 30 minutes vs $150 and an hour more with an awkward af person you aren’t comfortable/compatible with makes more sense to me 🤷🏾♂️
The Nigerian Prince scam has been around for at least 20 years. I can't believe she didn't know he was scamming her.
Ain’t no way people are still falling for the Nigerian prince scam in 2024, that’s literally the oldest one in the internet book. It’s literally a joke/meme at this point, it’s so infamous. 😂
I think on the first date if the woman does not have a real good attraction to the man and is not expecting to go back out with him, she should pay for her own meal. At least that's what I would do if I know for sure. I'm not going to go back out with that man. I would pay for my own food so there's no damn problems
This is a good one💯
It’s just a date , you don’t owe the man anything . That’s why you choose the place , get there yourself , and don’t order too much. Most men play games and know they don’t want anything, except sex but will string women alone. Fk em
Nope, my time, gas, makeup and mileage are expensive! A real man that isn't broke does not get bent out of shape paying a tab if things don't work out! Don't date broke men!
A F k does not cost a dinner, why should he expect that? If he wants a h kr then he should go straight to one and ask her straight so god forbid he doesn't "lose" aaaaaalllllll that money in a nice dinner that HE is also eating, by the way, with a nice lady
Atp women need to stop dating in general. I’m at the point where I feel almost nothing good comes out of dating or even some relationships. Single and celibate is it.
I would never be able to admit this for free....i just couldnt.
18:53 this is so painfully fake lol 😂
You’d be surprised 😂
Ummm the girl who didnt introduce the guy is an asshole... the guy was weird but if ur on a date with someone and ither of ur friends walk up u should introduce the person even as just a friend or a date ...dosent gotta be serious but just ignoring his presence is rude AF