Good on OP to back away from the friend. She sounded like a homewrecker in the making. The fact she never apologized to OP over her comment is enough proof that it is too risky to be alone with her.
Idk what anyone says, but Honestly, op is the only sane one here. Both Emily and Leslie are weird asf. That’s not just normal helping, they clearly are pathologically attached to each other, which some may find very endearing and all, but for me, it sounded toxic on both their ends, Emily offering up op like meat and Leslie using these both people.
both Emily and Leslie are too overdependent its really unsettling and unnerving tbh, also Leslie need serious help and is gonna become a homeweaker if she doesn't get it, also btw I find its really weird that Leslie didn't even say 'oh op this is inapporiate, your married to my good friend and I feel uncomfortable' but rather I am not looking for a boyfriend, like what would of happened if she was looking for a boyfriend? would she of pursued the op think that's his help was advancements towards her?. they need to do major distant in order for there to be no misunderstand or accusations of infidentity in the future.
Even the "I'm not looking for a boyfriend" is weird in the sense that she might be fine with flings?? Cause wouldn't you just say that you don't want any kind of physical relationship?
Best solution would be if OP tells Leslie that he helped her just like he would have helped if he had his sister in such difficult situation. he looks at her like a sister. :D
NTA. Something fishy going on! Absolutely NOT! Enough is enough! She needs to get her act together! Do NOT help Leslie again. Ever! You are just asking for trouble. You two have helped out enough. There is something going on here... Tell your wife that she, too, should back off!
S1, NTI, you’re a wise man, run a million miles away from Leslie, to the extent you ghost her and her kids, females bond in weird ways, just stay completely out of it AND keep an eye on your wife, next she will empty your savings for her girlfriend
Good on OP to back away from the friend. She sounded like a homewrecker in the making. The fact she never apologized to OP over her comment is enough proof that it is too risky to be alone with her.
She wants to break them up, so she can have her friend for herself.
Idk what anyone says, but Honestly, op is the only sane one here. Both Emily and Leslie are weird asf. That’s not just normal helping, they clearly are pathologically attached to each other, which some may find very endearing and all, but for me, it sounded toxic on both their ends, Emily offering up op like meat and Leslie using these both people.
both Emily and Leslie are too overdependent its really unsettling and unnerving tbh, also Leslie need serious help and is gonna become a homeweaker if she doesn't get it, also btw I find its really weird that Leslie didn't even say 'oh op this is inapporiate, your married to my good friend and I feel uncomfortable' but rather I am not looking for a boyfriend, like what would of happened if she was looking for a boyfriend? would she of pursued the op think that's his help was advancements towards her?. they need to do major distant in order for there to be no misunderstand or accusations of infidentity in the future.
Even the "I'm not looking for a boyfriend" is weird in the sense that she might be fine with flings?? Cause wouldn't you just say that you don't want any kind of physical relationship?
I’d bet Emily is making you do this so she can use it as evidence in case you get a divorce boom he’s a cheater!!
Wait, the single mom ditched by her fiance is trouble? What a shocker!
Best solution would be if OP tells Leslie that he helped her just like he would have helped if he had his sister in such difficult situation. he looks at her like a sister. :D
He also only helped her because his wife said to
Leslie: damm OP is into incest
The guy is the only sensible person in this stupid mess
Girl logic: He’ll leave you eventually, send him over to my place!!!
The wife is cheating while he is gone and Leslie is covering for her
damned if you do and damned if you don’t
NTA. Something fishy going on! Absolutely NOT! Enough is enough! She needs to get her act together! Do NOT help Leslie again. Ever! You are just asking for trouble. You two have helped out enough. There is something going on here... Tell your wife that she, too, should back off!
The two want to push him out to create a momune.
S1, NTI, you’re a wise man, run a million miles away from Leslie, to the extent you ghost her and her kids, females bond in weird ways, just stay completely out of it AND keep an eye on your wife, next she will empty your savings for her girlfriend