AITA for refusing to help my wife and her friend anymore over what my wife calls a miscommunication?

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  • @smsff7
    @smsff7 4 місяці тому +48

    Good on OP to back away from the friend. She sounded like a homewrecker in the making. The fact she never apologized to OP over her comment is enough proof that it is too risky to be alone with her.

  • @Panosptr
    @Panosptr 4 місяці тому +17

    She wants to break them up, so she can have her friend for herself.

  • @agirlwithglasses246
    @agirlwithglasses246 4 місяці тому +41

    Idk what anyone says, but Honestly, op is the only sane one here. Both Emily and Leslie are weird asf. That’s not just normal helping, they clearly are pathologically attached to each other, which some may find very endearing and all, but for me, it sounded toxic on both their ends, Emily offering up op like meat and Leslie using these both people.

  • @LolsIssajoke
    @LolsIssajoke 4 місяці тому +32

    both Emily and Leslie are too overdependent its really unsettling and unnerving tbh, also Leslie need serious help and is gonna become a homeweaker if she doesn't get it, also btw I find its really weird that Leslie didn't even say 'oh op this is inapporiate, your married to my good friend and I feel uncomfortable' but rather I am not looking for a boyfriend, like what would of happened if she was looking for a boyfriend? would she of pursued the op think that's his help was advancements towards her?. they need to do major distant in order for there to be no misunderstand or accusations of infidentity in the future.

    • @iammiist
      @iammiist 2 місяці тому +2

      Even the "I'm not looking for a boyfriend" is weird in the sense that she might be fine with flings?? Cause wouldn't you just say that you don't want any kind of physical relationship?

  • @kilbilv99
    @kilbilv99 4 місяці тому +9

    I’d bet Emily is making you do this so she can use it as evidence in case you get a divorce boom he’s a cheater!!

  • @sgv0719
    @sgv0719 4 місяці тому +4

    Wait, the single mom ditched by her fiance is trouble? What a shocker!

  • @SCK-1231
    @SCK-1231 4 місяці тому +8

    Best solution would be if OP tells Leslie that he helped her just like he would have helped if he had his sister in such difficult situation. he looks at her like a sister. :D

  • @nazli70
    @nazli70 Місяць тому +2

    The guy is the only sensible person in this stupid mess

  • @Reggy2000
    @Reggy2000 3 місяці тому +1

    Girl logic: He’ll leave you eventually, send him over to my place!!!

  • @cliffcarden3411
    @cliffcarden3411 4 місяці тому +3

    The wife is cheating while he is gone and Leslie is covering for her

  • @ShiNijuuAKL
    @ShiNijuuAKL 2 місяці тому +1

    damned if you do and damned if you don’t

  • @pixie_the_rabbit6833
    @pixie_the_rabbit6833 Місяць тому

    NTA. Something fishy going on! Absolutely NOT! Enough is enough! She needs to get her act together! Do NOT help Leslie again. Ever! You are just asking for trouble. You two have helped out enough. There is something going on here... Tell your wife that she, too, should back off!

  • @timriggins70
    @timriggins70 4 місяці тому +1

    The two want to push him out to create a momune.

  • @anthonyburke5656
    @anthonyburke5656 3 місяці тому +1

    S1, NTI, you’re a wise man, run a million miles away from Leslie, to the extent you ghost her and her kids, females bond in weird ways, just stay completely out of it AND keep an eye on your wife, next she will empty your savings for her girlfriend