How Narcissistic Abuse Pushes You to the Brink of Insanity
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It's just plain evil. This is truly a spiritual warfare for your very soul which include your mind, emotion and will. Who will win. It's your life on the line and you have to escape . The narcissist is the devil's foot soldier. Remember that.
Yes. But this turns into huge problem - when we cannot escape.
Like living in shame culture country where majority of people are toxic and intrusive, mentally ill due to toxic shame making them aggressive.
If we start to run away or make boundaries against toxic people - we are making them stronger. And we signal to our brain that we are weak and hence toxic people are powerful over us and superior over us.
It is paradox - but we need to allow toxic people to believe whatever they choose to form in their opinions, and not trying to react to their opinions about us. Instead - we need to make, do, act in life in accordance to our goals, projects, job, inner gps - which may include permanently removing ourselves from toxic people. This is a huge difference than reacting to toxic people.
Reaction must come from our inner values, not as response to toxic people so that we avoid making them boss over us and control us.
Looking Glass Self in sociology explains that we will form our identity with people around us. Our job is to switch focus away from toxic people and allow them to wallow in the mud, without trying to engage with them in any kind of meaningful way.
Thanks for sharing 💛🧠💪🙏
Yup I saw a video on this topic on narc con with Paula.
@@ranc1977When you surrender to God, and make Him your #1 priority, He can, and WILL free you. I'm talking about biblical Christianity, not modern day lukewarm Christianity. Modern day lukewarm Christianity gets you nowhere in life, but biblical Christianity gets you extremely blessed, protected, freed by God. God will make a way, when there is no way. He will lift you out of any situation, and highly bless you.. AND get you justice for the way ylu were treated. He reatores the broken, and puts tbem back together better than they ever werd to begin with.
@@Henrylovesyou Unfortunately, religion does not help with psychological issues.
I’ve never felt more crazy.. I questioned my sanity and even got to the point where I self h@rmed. I’ve never EVER been like that. They are emotional vampires
Me too 😢
Same! I ended up in therapy and my therapist was able to tell I was being abused and advised me to get out of that relationship. I have been no contact for 7 months and still suffering PTSD and physical pain from all the stress. It has been horrible!
Me too
One girl started the trend of cutting in Toledo. The rest were followers!!
Me too 😢 they are pure EVIL 😈
This type of abuse is so intangible and unbelievably difficult to articulate under narcissistic relationships.
So so true. It makes you sound crazy or schizophrenic when you say it out loud thus making you keep it inside.
thank you for discussing this because victims are portrayed as crazy
My life has been completely destroyed. I left with nothing 2 weeks ago. No money no car nothing. After years of cheating and abuse I found him sleeping with men as well. Unprotected. Even with proof he told me I was just crazy. I had screenshots. He looked at me dead in the eyes and said I was nuts. I feel like I have lost my mind along with everything else.
I was there as well. Keep going it gets better
The temporary insanity will inevitably pass and you will be restored to a wiser, stronger 💪🏼 more self assured and confident version of yourself. You will get through this and there is happiness on the other side 🕊️
@@casperinsight3524I sure hope so
For your sake stay away. Put as much distance between you and him as possible. Go no contact and heal.
We become aware of the insanity of such a relationship only when we begin to heal our trauma. That awareness becomes greater when we leave the relationship, for those of us not in co-parenting situations, or set boundaries if we are co-parenting.
I realized just how many of the ex-partner’s traits I had assumed while in the relationship,AFTER I had healed for a year or so.
Forgiveness of self is critical for the person we had become, due to the trauma we had experienced.
Truth you wrote thx
When in Rome ...
Interacting with NPD is life altering and often times we become someone we don't recognize during the process. Thankfully we can release those temporary survival techniques that no longer serve us as we release the trauma as we heal 🕊️ Forgiving ourselves is crucial and necessary for growth
I was
I hospitalised myself in mental institution
And still my mother and my husband get me even in closed unit
These people have no mercy, no empathy, no compassion, not single ounce of grace
Our brain 🧠 waves sync naturally with whoever is around us. Let’s choose wisely! 😜
Yup. Keep interactions brief and no over sharing
After ending the 15 year marriage almost 17 months ago, I can finally see the difference between the person I slowly became and the person I am since starting to heal 1 1/2 years ago. It's a long, agonizing journey to mental and physical health, but oh so worth saving my own life. I highly recommend therapy and huge amounts of self-love 😊
How did you end up escaping? Yes I say escaping, because as we all know, that’s what you have to do. So how, after 15 years of it, did you manage to get out? Asking for a friend
@@faithfullove5496 Great question! There is so much to unpack here with the lying, cheating, devaluing, and manipulation, that I just couldn't take it anymore. It was a Saturday morning and all I wanted to do was start a load of laundry after working 15 hours the day before. She began her customary belittling and I just fell to the ground a had a mental breakdown. She had finally broken my spirit. I was dying emotionally as I lay there in hysterics. I eventually mustered up the energy and strength to walk out of the house and never come back. I've been fighting in court ever since to get time with the kids. The ex was very good at parental alienation, which was proven to be true by the court. I can finally see glimpses of my former self as time goes on. I am in a good place now!
Really glad you got out and are on the path to recovery ❤️🩹 Very inspiring. Thanks for sharing 😊
Self forgiveness is one of the last healing milestones 🤍
Carrying blame/shame, if onlys and coulda shoulda woulda is hindsight that keeps us chained to the past. We did the best we could at the time and there is no shame in that. Forgiving ourselves is true freedom 🕊️
@@faithfullove5496 Well, I came home on a Friday night after working a part time job at UA-cam Theater in Inglewood, CA. My ex accused me of cheating again. I just went to sleep, exhausted! Then, the next morning she kept on with the verbal assault. Venom spewd all over the place. All was trying to do was put a load of laundry in the washing machine. Enough is enough and I just collapsed to the ground in hysteria. She continued to punish me with verbal abuse. I knew at that moment my tank was empty and I would never come back to that house. The marriage was over at that point.
Sadly true. It's excruciating and so is the healing. The pendulum definitely swings from one extreme to the other.
They're poisonous
They poison your very essence..
Zero no contact ends of their game
Thank you Richard, it's shocking to become aware how many thoughts and emotions, stories and values are not my own that I thought were my own.😮😮 It really feels like the deception of the devil I/we bought into.
@bmdjk yes,we are so many. Good luck on your healing journey. ✨️
@@bmdjk thank you.
It’s even harder to live in the matrix knowing that you’re in the matrix because everything cycles through quicker. Because you get mad because your nervous system knows it and logically because you know what’s going on.
Thank you for exactly describing my current experience, perchance
I felt a physical dark cloud over me when I was in the relationship. That feeling of slight dread every so often. I miss her, but I’m so much happier without her.
@@Avogadros_number exact
Concept in sociology can help us.
It is about allowing toxic people to form their delusions thoughts about us, without us trying to fight it or change it or fawn to it.
Looking Glass Self theory by Cooley, 1902.
@@bmdjk Looking Glass Self does NOT mean death.
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Theories of the Self
William James (1890): A person has "as many social selves as there are individuals who recognize him and carry and image of him in their minds"
Charles Cooley (1902): Views of self reflect the standpoints of significant others in our lives ("looking-glass self")
George Herbert Mead (1934): We imagine the perspectives of others and incorporate these into our self views - and that this occurs continuously as we interact with others on an ongoing, moment to moment basis.
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Having a distorted looking glass (incorrectly imagining others’ opinions of us) can cause bad feelings, or a negative self-image.
No help from anyone. Most people just wanted to get a kick in while I was down.
I’m a wreck now after 3 years. I can’t take care of myself.
I had all kinds and education was the cure. But you have to continually educate, read and study. This is a healthy practice anyway, so it worked out for me. If you have abuse in your past, don't let grass grow underfoot. Get moving on a solution, you will get there and away from trouble. Don't invite any trouble in with your psychology while your going through your transformative psychological experience to a more healthy state. Being a little selfish in this way is healthy too. My father was orphaned at age 8 and he put our family through some stuff and my mom was a covert narcissist and it was all good and bad mixed up.
The point is, you can make it out if you clean yourself up and don't invite negativity in. Don't repeat your trauma on another person. If something happened to you, it should never be that for your son or daughter. This is punishing them in the same way. That is sadistic and crazy. You shouldn't procreate.
I experienced it as you stated.. I did completely break down. 3 years of therapy, and healing I'm finally finding me again. 1st year ,I was mostly comatose, not here, but nowhere else as well. Healing is and was painful, but I know it's possible.
Going through this right now. I never thought that this could happen to someone.
I never thought that a living human being was even capable of thinking about doing what they have done on a daily basis for years as if it were a normal tuesday.
❤yep
Richard you are spot on, I did question my sanity it was all so confusing and I Absolutely maladapted, psychotic thoughts and behaviors did happen and of course, the Narc used All That against me!
I hope your far gone now .
Oh of course. I'm looking around where I can move to so I never have to see the psychopath or his fkying church monkeys...ever anywhere, even from behind, even if they don't see me. Nor the residents of last elderly bldg I lived in. ~50K in town and still to large. I liked this town very much. Quintessential Mountain Colorado. I can't leave that only thus town.
Perfectly said. When he left. All symptoms went away.
Then you were not trauma bonded. Good for you.
You need to look into what attracted you to the narcissist to begin with.
That's where the healing is
After effects of narcissistic abuse don't just "go away". ✌🏻
Mine got worse for over a year with cptsd. Im better now ive worked really hard to heal my body and mind. @@YA-46and2
Omg! Me too! My energy came back
& all the anxiety he puts you through . Blocked arteries. Myocardial infarction - Heart Attack !!! Stent in Heart . Eight tablets a day , rest of my life !!! Narcissists are Designed to Kill You !
thats what women do, i hate it, but needs alot of prayer and therapy
I'm sovery sad you were put in this position to endure such harm to yourself and your body & mind. It's not fair! We are all human. My thoughts n prayers for the strength to heal and become yourself again. Prayers for you....
Thankyou xo
I'm sorry to be reading this. My brother died in December from undiagnosed atherosclerosis from the stress of being in an abusive relationship then being dragged through the family courts then my mum had a massive heart attack last month which is atherosclerosis too from mainly stress and grief.
Please try to heal and look after yourself for the sake of your family if nothing else.
I hope you feel better soon ❤
Narcissists need to come with a health warning ⚠️
More like a Danger ☢️ Toxic Waste Dump
It was when I hit this brink, what felt like life or death that I chose to take my power back. It wasn’t to retaliate but I chose to leave our house and live in my car until she moved out. It was what I have started to call radical mindfulness. It was though I was 5 seconds ahead of things playing out in real time. I felt fear at an all time high, but my feet kept moving. I knew it was the only way to stay alive. Just keep moving forward and only for myself.
Radical mindfulness 👍
Your response was mine as well .Amazing . It is about self preservation . My life was in jeopardy and like what you said ,I employed "radical mindfulness " in order to save my own life . Be well my friend . Well done . We are all on our healing journey after leaving them to live their own toxic lives.
After being through every trauma response going I was coping okay. But then a family death pulled away my shield. 21 years in and it’s now like my body is crumbling: Fatigue, low mood, procrastination, no self esteem, moody, my humour has gone, I’ve amnesia to all my talents, and much more. It’s been an endless cycle of power struggle and it still is. Trauma bond is real. He keeps me confused everyday. Jekyll and Hyde.
Please take time and make plans to secretly escape. This situation is hell. Spiritual warfare. Your soul and life is being offered to the dark side. Make a way to escape. GO NO CONTACT and never go back because he is after your very life. I've been out 1.5 years after 22 years. Your Life Is Important too.
This is so hard. Especially when you love them unconditionally. So much grief. I don’t understand the need to twist reality in the devaluation stage
Me too me too. EXACTLY…
@@suzannefields3686 It is not love...
100% Truth
You know I had to play this over 10 times. It's like sweet music to my ears! I'm not the crazy evil one 💯🤗
Thank you.
When meeting a narracissit be prepared 🤔 its coming ptsd for you or perhaps even CPTSD 😵💫panic attacks breathing fast to complete a task, edgy, worries beyond thinking everyone is against you very very 🥺sad
Yes I experienced this, it was hellish! Took awhile to pick myself up and rebuild myself, your content Richard has helped so much!
I dont know what happened but I just want all of us to recover 🙏
Then the narcissist who did this to you will BLAME YOU for your reaction to how THEY treated you with such cruelty. 🤬
I was in survival mode forever.
I feel as if I'm to be there forever...sadly
Not good being a child . I slept well only when my Dad went away to work abroad for a year.
Got a messed up story I just went through!
Cousin died June of last year. The things that happened after, I literally had to go to therapy because of dealing with a narcissistic person controlling my cousin's widowung wife. I was under constant attacks from her accusing my cousins wife and me of having a relationship 2 weeks after my cousin died. The whole story is insane! My cousin's wife is so brainwashed by this person. Knowing this person has said and done things, still defends and sides with her.
It literally blew my mind out!
I maladapted as a toddler. My husband of 40 years has narcissistic tendencies. I was already groomed to be engaged in the same situation.
Ur videos help us all so much thank you❤🙏✝️
It really happens
Is that why my body feels like a pretzel 🥨 ?
Like i have twisted my body up. So much physical pain
We twist ourselves into pretzel to please toxic people.
Wow dear Lord set me free
I ended up in the psych ward. Homicidal rage.
Same , but because of extreme anxiety and depersonaliztion. Hope you're better now .
I was so out of my mind I started to get paranoid that not only was he abusing me physically, emotionally, verbally and psychologically but I thought he was even poisoning me through my food or drink bc my body was physically starting to shut down on me. I know now I wasn’t getting physically poisoned but mentally poisoned. I’m just grateful it’s over. Getting me back one day at a time. Therapy therapy therapy.
Many are the afflictions of the righteous but, the Lord delivers him out of them all 😂❤
This is what happened to me, complete nervous system dysregulation, head all over the place, living in fight/flight mode, no appetite and insomnia. I left over a year ago and I still haven’t recovered from this abuse. I am determined not to let this ruin me, my children or my life 🐦🔥❤
And then when you get help, set boundaries and start saying no, adopt self care, when you shake it all off- they call YOU a narcissist!!! Among other things!
I thought I was having a nervous breakdown. I've never been so twisted in my life that I had no idea as to what I was dealing with. It took me 3 years to get out, lost it all, but I left never to go back. Moved 3 states away and still healing after 6 years divorced. They cause brain damage to their partners.
When you need a pill just to be in their presence
100% correct. Been there, done that. It's only taken 16 years to recover.
I got to that point , first time with my mom .
Today was the beginning of the healing. I organised his funeral. I gave him a good send off. Nobody would know we were divorced. I cant stop crying. I thought I'd healed but I think I swept it under a carpet to cope.
I hope I can heal. He was so damaged. I'm grieving for the little damaged child that was abused. I know it will get better
❤❤
Lost almost 40 pounds since beginning of March when he flipped on me again for the 784th time. Hair falling out, feeling every emotion every day, etc. Questioning myself over and over again. 12 years of this. Just now finally seeing what has been going on. He has screwed my mind up so much and blames every single bit of it on me. Packing up my kids and I to leave ASAP.
This really was happening to me. I got out and I’m healing now
It’s horrific. I don’t wish this on anyone.
So true.keep bringing the truth.hidden
Yes, some days I still feel like I'm drowning and we broke up in 2021. It used to be full blown, now it's just anxiety luckily.
Being abused I once had a dream I was in a room I could not escape from. I was drowning. I nearly got crazy.
Been there,don't wanna be there again 😢
I was depressed for years. He had me convinced I needed help. Found out I needed help away from him. Haven't been on depression medicine in the year I left. Narcs are cruel and evil beings. Had me believing I was crazy.
Mine was the worse form I ever did see ..
Well put!
It's a real challenge overcoming those patterns, but not impossible once you've healed from narcissistic abuse.
Absolutely! Just realized that all the emotional illiteracy and abuse and neglect that I grew up with were laying the foundation for me to fall into cluster bee relationships later in life, unknowingly. But I’m putting all the pieces together now from the most active abuse of my NPD/borderline Partner and business partner, to the reactions of my family who have spent their entire lives in denial of reality and scapegoating me for all the family, bullshit and drama, when in fact, I’m the only one that’s even been on the healing journey -for decades! Just mind blown and the wind knocked out of my soul. 14 years of chronic illness +8 years of abuse and having the narc wreck everything that I’m doing in my life and business… Finally had the breakdowns back to back last two summers.
Yes I did.
I left 5 days ago.
Most difficult yet best decision in my life
I’m going through the same thing.
Been there, still "there" 😊my gosh, wtf would I do w out you?? God bless you, truly
I was eating constantly from the stress of living with a walking talking nightmare on 2 feet, it was horrible but I am free now ❤❤
WOW Richard you have totally hit the nail on the head I'm absolutely going through this alone thinking I'm going crazy and feel I'll every day 😢😢😢 Dont know who to turn to for help But I would just like to say thank you SOOOOO much for sharing your videos absolutely AMAZING 🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Yup yup yup. Get out us fast and as unbeknownst to them as possible once you get that this is what you’re up against!!!!!!!!!
You can’t change a narcissist and they are wired to fight to the death to stay this way. Narcissists are terrified unauthentic people living as safe and as opportunistic as possible at your expense. They don’t love you, it is a facade. They don’t know how to feel real love
I’m in this now n feel absolutely bonkers! Can’t wait to get away and be free….
Sir 100 percent true that’s why I hit the best bottom EMOTIONAL bottom of substance abuse. Others experience jails or other but in my experience in the recovery rooms the emotional is the best and most genuine way of DEFEAT ANDSTOPPING the one true weapon of all evil. Not the only way evil hurts but addictions are the one way THANK YOU AND ILL KEEP WAFCHING. keep fighting the good fight
That is true ..That happened to me as well.. I wish you strength to carry on ❤
It's pain like no other iv not eaten for a week now and can't see a way out of this hole I'm in
Especially with an Super Empath.
100% your productivity starts reducing
I felt so crazy by the end. I made the decision to leave for myself. 3 weeks out of the relationship, I've crashed and burned, and I think I'm getting better now.
They hurt you ego badly, putting love as your priority can help to deal with it. ❤
Victims of NPD abuse are often referred to as "crazy" by the abuser ....now you know why. As if driven to the brink of insanity isnt enough, they are then blame shamed.
God Bless everyone who is going through this type of abuse. There's a difference between mental abuse and spiritual warfare. There are spirits in this world and negative energy that mess with your head. And unfortunately you go threw both. So it gets worse. But threw Christ you can get threw it. Talk to a pastor or therapist. The narcissist and really the covert narcissist is tying to break you down . Or just drive you crazy. There's all types of narcissism. Some people just play or joke around. But some are actually trying to harm you. The covert narcissist enjoys it. So it's just best to stay away and leave them in Gods hands.
It took me a year before I felt half way normal but after 2 yrs I'm still dealing w after effects of my temp. craziness! I lost everything and this was caused by a so called friend who was only at my house for a year. She w in a car wreck and had move in w family. She only was to be staying for a few days, I spent a year waiting for her to move bc I knew she would do something terrible to me if I put her out. She already did horrible things to me but made me look like a horrible crazy person. I felt and started to act crazy and stayed that way for months after she left waiting for the her to pull more shit. Thank you for your videos, it helps to know that I'm not looney, only surviving.
Many hospital visits, 8 months the longest stretch. Yeah my mind was f-ed
After Grey Rock I was a bit rattled that the psychonarcc (just like the derivation and definition). They get no NSM 5 Code. No they get a nickname. I was confused as to the discard. I didn't argue but once. Removed myself as much as possible physically and emotionally. Ear buds, favorite music, spiritual growth teaching, playw my Svc dog. Psychology, Philosophy, Theology, Microbiology. Just withdrew when under same roof. Ear buds. Talk to friends. Put a shield around ne as much as I could . Engaged as little as possible. Once out I felt kind-of Shockey. I had seen no human traits of empathy inn7 Mos. None. Believe he was in dwelled by evil. I did as much as I was b4. Cooking whatever w/o being told it smelled like crap. I love to cook. Not walking in eggshells. No path-rages. Just cooking or walking and a nasty remark which had been said w incredible razor-like contempt would float into my mind while doing self care. That was sh!tty. Out of nowhere. But I continued to ask God the Father to nature and heal me. The self condemnation was pretty intense a while. I didn't have or want a boy friend. A platonic friend. Not se>
Hey 👋. So, I've been following you for a few months now. This is my first comment though. It's inspired by what you were saying about the sexual attraction and maybe how people accept or maybe even seek an abusive partner if they had an abusive parent. I would definitely be here for that. It's something I need to study.
I've been in an extremely abusive relationship the past few years . I'm out of, or at least safe now. But while trying to learn just WTF happened here, I've learned that it was because I already knew from a family member what narcissism is. I just didn't know the word to call it.. so when my narc man and I got together, it just felt like home, and I understood him on a level I had never known. You see, I was already damaged. I was already accustomed to a certain way of things, so I didn't recognize it wasn't unusual.
But then, my narc is not just a narc. He is evil. He is very dangerous. He is a sadist. It is just really, really bad.
I don't want to ever, ever, ever, experience something like this again. But also, I don't want to bring all this into a new relationship. Honestly though, I don't want to be bored with a partner or somehow in my sick mind, judge a new guy as not as hot as the narcissist.
I'm sorry, that's real long. I'm screaming in my head. I don't think I'll be ok emotionally again.
It is fucking criminal & they need to be locked up forever. Mental abuse may not be "shown" to other people, but, that does not mean that the abuse is not happening. Also, mental abuse does effect you physically too. It is physical abuse even if they are not physically hitting you.
its amazing how they pride in themselves as vampires
I think your analysis is soo accurate and considered.
All true. I was born in a narc family. 8 narcs out of 11.
Thank you for your post!
My ex was diagnosed narcissist. He was diagnosed in 3th year of our relationship and everything you are saying is true. I imagine that y you are talking about him 100%
I completely lost myself for aong time. Couldnt remember who Ireally was, the things I used to like, the thingsI used to do.
So true! Leave evil behind if your in a narc relationship! There's no benefit being with narc! Take immune tablets to build you up and turn to Jesus Christ!🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️
I have a neighbour who abuses his wife. Gave her cancer, calles regurarily the police on her when she disobeys, tortures her daily. She is imprisoned in her house, no money, no health, no future.
Pray the Rosary in Latin every day. It's the most powerful gun against demons.
Exactly! You’re not in your right mind. You wonder, who am? What happened? At least that’s been my experience. Only when you try does this happen, once you let go knowing you have no control over it you find yourself again. Sadly the only solution, complete no contact.
Its the gaslighting
Psychotic breakdown ✅
Yes, never experienced depression and disregulation this severe, so bad I get up in the morning having not slept more than 1/2 the night looking forward to going to bed again, knowing I have to wait and occupy myself for 16 hours until then. I'm in emotional agony most of the day with intermittant extremes of lethargy or manic conversation if someone happens to cross my path. I watch videos just for maintaining sanity to distract me from the terror I feel with these evil people abidng in my house and holding it hostage. The videos about Narcissism do little to comfort me anymore, since what is happening here feels so much worse than simply Narcissistic need for validation and emotional supply. It feels like they are slowly strangling me, waiting for me to die, so they can have my whole house to themselves. My whole support system has turned their back on me, tired of waiting for me to get up and kick them out. If I could do it without their help, I would have done it 6 months ago when I went no contact because of their abuse.
You can. I got a legal separation. Then look up1 1) notice in paper that your no longer responsible for their debt. Notice to remove their belongings. Hire temp. workers. 3) putting their things outside after that. Its like an eviction but get a legal separation first. You may be as I and are in a common law state. Look up requirements to be seen as a couple. I would say, yes the other presented you both as a couple, as married and get a legal separation. It us cheaobtobfike yourself. Don't talk to other's persons or friends as it could easily be said to person. No exxuses about it. You can do it.
In 2 months I felt the worse it was awful he was such a manipulator and never was wrong he’s out of my life. 6- yrs old what a miserable life
Your amazing brother. ❤
I took a simple road and became a wino at 46, a year into our relationship. Never had a drinking issue of any kind and then boom. Even after I escaped his malignant DV insanity after three years and fled our shared home one day with a hastily packed suitcase, even after I rebuilt my life away from him, it persisted. I am unable to drink normally anymore, and had to go to program. They give us emotional herpes I swear. Psychological symptoms that persist for years. It’s awful.
Been there done that no thanks good bye I’m not even going to entertain…
Omg! This is so true.
Absolutely
I am impressed! You have an excellent understanding.
Very rightly stated ❤😊
Spot on.
I remember reading years ago, that the teen years were as close to insanity as you’ll ever get in your lifetime.
WRONG!
Maybe for people who are fortunate enough to have a somewhat ‘normal’ life.
But I have gone through DECADES OF INSANITY, not realising until now, that it was because of being raised and groomed by narcissistic psychopaths….which in turn had me marrying a narcissistic psychopath, who died after 31 years of marriage, but I idealised that marriage in a way that I had not come to understand until 20 years after his death. And for the last 20 years, I have been married to a flaming narcissist…..but have been FINALLY learning about all of this crap for the last five or so years.
I feel like it was a raw deal to have wasted my entire life on being gaslighted to stay in these relationships…..I wish I had this information decades ago, it would have empowered me to take a much different course in my life.
I suppose, better late than never…..oh well.
Thank you for your valuable information!
YEP !!!!!
IT WAS GRUESIM!!!
It happened to me after being abused by my narcissistic-psyhopathic-sadistic father for 17 years. My covert narcissist mother sent me to psychiatrist and convinced her that I had just out of the blue went crazy and she has no idea why it happened ans she’s really worried about me. Psychiatrist scolded me for being such a brat.