Effortlessly Stylish Every Day - 7 Secrets
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
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Check out my favorites from Frank & Eileen in my LTK Shop here: liketk.it/4JFJp . I've also linked individual pieces below. I'm sharing 7 secrets to help us look effortlessly stylish even on ordinary days. Thanks for watching! ~ xxox, Kay
Good tips! Don’t forget good posture, a smile and kindness no matter your budget!
Yes, yes, yes!
And dental care. I'd rather thrift my clothing (I find Lauren, Michael Kors, Tommy Hilfiger, London Fog, Lands End for under $15), and spend my money on dental care.
Ever since this trend started, (one side of your shirt tucked in, the other side left out) I have not once seen anyone (a real person) wear their shirt this way. But fashion ads continue to show this “trend”. I don’t think it’s flattering, it gives you a waist or the illusion of a waist on one side but not the other side? Personally, I think it looks stupid.
I agree and other utubers say it’s out of style now.
Totally agree. Too contrived and odd looking.
AMEN!!!
I wouldn't say that it looks ''stupid''. I think y'all are being a little harsh for no reason at all. If you don't like it, then don't wear your blouses that way, so why get ugly about it?
@@laurysteinke865agree
I can relate to the point you made about dressing for your real lifestyle as opposed to a "fantasy" lifestyle. It's finally hit me that I need to build my wardrobe with items that I will reach for every day. Thanks for the reinforcing point and one that is so relevant and important. 🙂
You bet. Thanks so much for watching. 😊
Hi Kay. I have recently found your channel, and I love it! I'm a pastor's wife as we'll, but I'm in my 30's. I've been updating my wardrobe recently since I've finished having babies, and I get so much inspiration from your tips and outfits! Your point about having clothes that fit your current lifestyle has been a game changer for me recently. I also love your approach of wanting to show up with confidence in your day. God Bless!
Thank you! I am so happy that you are here!😊
Im wondering here on the fly: I wonder if we cut the labels out of our clothes, would we have a different opinion or an opinion at all on their quality? In other words how much do price and label infuence our opinion of quality garments? No answers required here but something to look at. For instance, I took a vintage bag to a leather repair shop to be mended. While there, I spied a Louis Vuitton bag on his worktable. "Nice bag" I said. "Well, cheap craftsmanship for the price they paid". This is no reflection on any brand featured here at all. Rather, the lesson is to look at quality of craftmanship before buying or keeping an item. Useful tips today as always.
UA-camr Jennifer Wang produces a number of videos on just this subject. What and where to look for quality revealing details , and why you should not rely on brands or stores to be consistently of a certain quality. Many of her recommendations are above a price I am comfortable with but her insight into what to look at has been useful.
Hello Kay. You make some great points on dressing for your lifestyle. Indeed Frank and Eileen is pricey and and so is Ralph Lauren (a style I like very much), but what I do is take their ideas and looks and shop places like Talbots, Banana Republic and J.Crew that offer very similar styles and meet more of my clothing budget. I do try to only buy natural fabrics from these retailers as well.
Another trick, "Next to New" stores - Shop for quality brands and makes sure the condition is good. You will be surprised how well you can do. I found a designer raincoat at a Goodwill. You have to recognize quality and be prepared to spend some time looking.
@@carolirvine7663I got a Lauren trench coat and overcoat and a Kors linen shirt at my thrift for under $15 each...
The clothes are beautiful but this half shirt in, half out…just why?
Frank and Eileen - $400 for a sweater! That is eye-poppingly expensive. Isn't there any quality in something more reasonably priced?
She is getting something from Fran and Eileen, kick back, discount, clothes or an outright paycheck. This is more a commercial than an "I want to help you" video.
It’s a sponsored video. Their clothes are lovely. I do better than many but couldn’t justify the cost of them. Take the ideas and implement them at your price range.
Frank and Eileen certainly have beautiful clothes…..I wish I could afford, but out of my reach. Great tips though Kay!
I’m so glad you enjoyed it. 😊
Good to remind us that it does take effort to dress well. So many people think they don't have what it takes and then dress sloppily. They don't think that we ALL take the effort.
Kay, love your videos and will always watch, that said- please ditch the 1 shirt side tucked and leave the other side untucked. I have not seen 1 woman wear this in the big city I live in...looks so messy. But I love the french tuck.
Agreed. I live in a place where we welcome 4M visitors per year (> Disneyland) from all around the world. They come with their fashion game ON and it's fun to observe. And never, not once, have I seen anyone dressed with one shirt side tucked in. Trust me, we see it ALL - the good, the bad and the ugly - just not THAT.
@@angelsshare.The only place I see this tuck is Pinterest lol
You are SO right! I’m always catching myself shopping for clothes for my FANTASY life😂
Right?!
Gorgeous clothes but too pricy for me.
Personally the clothes from Frank & Eileen look "old". Better options and prices at Ann Taylor Loft, Ann Taylor and Evereve. I have to agree with the half tuck, looks too undone.
Thanks, Kay, for your effort in sharing these style ideas. I appreciate it❤
You are so welcome!
I appreciate all the work you put into your videos. I like Frank & Eileen clothing and have a few pieces in my closet that I enjoy wearing. Like anything else in life you take what applies and leave what doesn’t. Regardless of the items shown there is always a take away to incorporate into my life, budget and taste. I find that what makes fashion fun is seeing a piece I like and then trying to find similar items in my budget and color. You always look great in your videos and I have learned so much from you. Thanks!
Thanks so much for sharing. I’m truly glad you enjoyed the video. 😊
Ooh, good idea to drape a long sleeved tee over shoulder (instead of sweater) in the summer! Much cooler, but with the look! I also love a popped collar on my button ups but my husband always comes around and flips it down, thinking I did it by mistake. Ha! Great tips today👍🏻
I, too, love collared shirts but find that whole 'Pop the collar' thing so silly.
@@angelakeep5238the popped collar irritates my neck. It rubs the skin. I also do not wear turtlenecks - same reason uncomfortable
Thanks for the great tips. I love the beautiful clothes but not sure I can spend that much on a single item. I appreciate your research!
You are so welcome!🤗
Tip number 3 is so important for me! I have always had an outdoor/ active lifestyle but now with my husband having retired it has become more of that. it is making me rethink my clothing choices! Active wear for the gym and outside, sports bras, UPF and quickdry garments. I like to have a nicer shirt and other shoes that I can change up afterwards as we often stop somewhere after being out on our adventures. Style is an evolving process!
I would rather invest in one classic quality piece rather than 4 of lesser quality. After a few years you will have a beautiful wardrobe.
I completely agree. I’ve decided I want to be more thoughtful and discerning about my purchases and make fewer of them. Thanks for sharing. 😊
Thank you, Kay, for all the effort you put into this vlog. I already use some of the styles mentioned but learned a new one.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for All of your really good advice . By following your advice I am finally dressing for ‘My Lifestyle’ I enjoy my wardrobe now and it is so much easier to reach in and bring something out I love wearing ❤️
Great tips, as always, Kay! You always look terrific!
Thank you!😊
Thanks for all the great styling tips. So classy. Love the half tuck, full tuck & no tuck. Frank & Eileen clothing is lovely. I am looking forward to my first purchase.
Lovely. Thank you for sharing. I’m so glad you enjoyed it. 😊
I might be late to the game but your hair is adorable!!
Thank you!😊
I am one of your faithful followers, and I relate totally with your classic style look. HOWEVER -- I agree with the ladies down below that have stated the one side shirt tucked in, and one side out is not a good asymmetric look for anybody. It does not make your legs look longer or taller, or any part of your body appear thinner. And where do you think the first place the viewers eye goes?? Right to your middle, rather than your face, or travel up and down the garment. Sorry, but it looks like you went to the bathroom and forgot to finish the tuck job. Kay, I think you have so much taste and class in what you present. Please just stop!!
I think it is a little appalling that you would think it is appropriate to scold another grown woman about what she’s wearing or how she’s wearing it. You don’t have to like this style hack. That just really doesn’t bother me. If it bothers you that much that I wear it you may need to spend your viewing time elsewhere.
Frank and Eileen is great. I shop on Poshmark a lot and have picked up 2 like new pieces and a huge discount. A linen shirt and popover top, 2 of their classic pieces. I love them and will be on the lookout for more. Also they do have a sale section and reloved section. ❤
Great tip! Thanks for sharing!
The blouses are very beautiful, but way too much for my budget so I looked at the Tee, $120! Even if I was very wealthy, I couldn't splurge on this. That's just me.
P.s I’m loving the Front Tuck , as I’ve recently realised I am short waisted so if I do the full tuck in , it actually makes me look a bit squat , but when I do the front tuck it actually looks better . I know a lot of people don’t like the Half Tuck , but I do quite like it and it does suit me ( as it really suits you Kay) BUT! as I haven’t seen anyone where I live doing it I just don’t have the confidence to go out with it .
Tucking in your top and wearing a nude shoe/sandal really adds polish. I love a half tuck in front, it looks finished. I never see the one side in the other out in our area. I don't like a dark shoe in summer, for longer legs a shoe that matches the skin tone. Thanks for the positive tips, your advice is sensible and doable!
Thanks so much for watching and for sharing your thoughts. 🤗
Very beautiful unfortunately I won’t be purchasing. Thank you for another lovely video🌺
In so glad you enjoyed the video. Thank you for watching. 😊
Their clothes are beautiful but very expensive. I agree with paying for quality materials and workmanship but I'm not sure I could get myself to spend $400 on a casual dress. As for the half tuck button up shirt stye hack I think that will be like the MC Hammer pants of the 80's. You will look back at pics and videos and think "what was I wearing". Looks very unfinished and sloppy.
Totally agree- $250 for a button up shirt is .. I’m sorry .. ludicrous and certainly not in the budget of most people these days. I love Kay’s tips but the prices and non existent size inclusivity of these pieces show just how out of touch some are.
Agree on all points ! Reality check - when at a nearby large college town , I honestly did not see any gals of any age group doing the half tuck or the front tuck ! ( Same w/ frayed hems . ) 😂
( And even if they had-been {wearing their shirts like that}, I still would not be ) !
I’m with you. I’ve found good quality in less expensive items and shoddy quality on higher-priced items. Sometimes it seems as though we’re buying a label that happens to have a garment attached. True style doesn’t come with a price tag.
Totally agree, I found Walmart carry the Freeassembly brand they worth your money
Thank you so much! ❤
Thanks for being here!😊
Loved the video. You always look so pulled together and stylish. I looked at Frank & Eileen and they are a bit out if my price range for now, but lovely clothes.
Have you ever considered doing a video on body proportions? I loved the red pants, white tee and white long shirt but I am having a hard time trying to figure out where things should hit me. I am 5’7”, so not really short and I have quite a few lbs to lose (working on it) but when I dress I feel like everything is sliding down. Yes I am in my 70s and nature/gravity is doing its thing. I have been for 3 bra fittings in the last year, and because I prefer no underwire, all the bras seem to “squash” the girls and not provide any shape. Anyway I was hoping, if I could figure out the proportions I might be able to look a little talker as opposed to chopped off. Just a thought. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Yes, I have a video here on body proportions. I hope you find it helpful. 😊 How to Determine Your Body Proportions
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Thanjs very much for this. It was thumbs upped, so I must have watched it when i started watching you, but it was a good refresh.
Thanks again.
Good morning Kay, and thank you, for another great video, great tips and you also, look great, in all the looks.
Thank you for sharing.
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You are so welcome!🤗
$238 for a women's floral button up shirt?! Really?!
I hope she hasn't "sold out" to Frank and Eileen, but it is starting to appear that way. Maybe it is just this one video. Time will tell. She has moved to another level when she suggest $238 for a blouse. I find her less relatable.
I love watching her but I find most of her clothing ideas are way too expensive. In today's economy, most can't afford to shop at the top sites.
I have stopped coloring my hair and boy has that put a turn into my wardrobe. Before I wore earth tones that just aren’t me anymore. Luckily grey is in fashion and I have been wearing this color along with more black and ivory. What I can’t figure out is what colors I can wear now with my grey and white hair color. Ant suggestions would be appreciated.
I had to change my makeup when I went silver. Brighter lipstick and blush. But love my silver!
I recently had color analysis done because my hair is totally grey now also. I used to be a golden blonde. I found out that my color season is still the same, a spring. Your best colors don’t change with your hair color. Colors may go great with your hair, but wash your face out. I found that to be true. Hope this helps you.
Love the blue and white striped shirt.
Thank you! It’s great!😊
I have always enjoyed your videos but in this one you sound like a commercial for FranK and Eileen which tends to limit what you show.
Hi Kay, thank you for these secrets and you’re right. But since I’ve grown, it’s hard, difficult to dress with pleasure. I’m trying to lose some weight… I’m a little bit down some days…Have a good week end.☀️🌸
You deserve to feel good in the clothes you wear right now!
Do you shop QVC? They sell stylish clothes fr petite to 4-5X. Not in every thing but lots of looks. I am very short. I have to get any dress that is petite shortened at the tailor. Most of us ladies have challenges finding the right fit. Give QVC a try you get 30 days to return if you do not like the piece. I also get my 5 1/2 shoes there.
You are so welcome!🤗
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Thank you Mary-Ann, ypur comment helps me. 😘💪
You look great in the striped shirt!
Thank you!😊
As a retired professional, I like most of your casual selections but, the half tuck shirt looks sloppy and unkept. Secondly, the prices of your recommended clothes are out of the range of most women. At my age I prefer changing styles more frequently. Talbots and Chico’s are my latest go to clothes companies.
Wonderful. I have a video lined up with Talbots in a couple of weeks. I enjoy being able to share things from a variety of retailers. I have many viewers who enjoy Frank & Eileen. I appreciate you watching today’s video. 💜
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Congratulations on getting a Frank and Eileen sponsorship! Lovely brand of clothing. I do feel great wearing their clothing.
I totally agree! Thank you. I truly love everything about this brand. 😊
@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Yesterday, I was at Nordstrom and noticed the Frank and Eileen brand and came upon the striped button-up that you are wearing. They had the XS and I tried it on. Yes, the quality is absolutely beautiful, but as a petite woman, the XS was huge. Just letting you know that this brand doesn't work for us little ladies. You look wonderful in this blouse, though.
Too pricey, enjoy the videos, but sometimes you spend a lot of time promoting
Love their clothes,but way too pricey. So many influencers are going the high price route.
This half tuck looks unfinished and sloppy. I travel all over the world no one does this. Your tips otherwise are right on.
The clothes are lovely, but way too pricey for the average shopper. Maybe links to more affordable options would be beneficial to those of us who can’t afford $258 for a linen shirt.
Sorry but how many of us are spending this amount of money on our everyday, casual attire?! Since kay has expanded her channel and aquired her 'helpers' she has lost the essence that her channel started out with , in my opinion.😕🤔
I feel like that too. I used to watch her every week. Now just once in a while. I understand influencers need to have sponsors but I hate when it sounds like a commercial. I just turn it right off.
I want ideas and help putting together clothes I already have not where to buy more