Every one of your podcasts resonates with me so very deeply. Thank you. I read something the other day which really made me think. It was 'Don't be sad for what is gone. Be glad for what you had'. I am grateful for every thing I shared with my Darling husband, the good, the bad, the happy, the sad. We shaped each others lives and it created a very deep bond. He said at our wedding that we were a team and would always be a team, and he was right. Together for 30 years through thick and thin.
Thank you for sharing your time and effort regarding grief. I lost my wife of 51 years to pancan. I did not know this level of sadness existed. I know now there are somethings I cannot fix but must be carried. Best wishes to you and this group.
Thank you , I lost my wife four months ago after she had a very short illness, we were married for 41 years , I am just devastated , we were so happy She was my beautiful wife, soul mate, mother, granny Your pod cast help me once again thank you kind Regards Michael x
I can not express the help and comfort you've been to me. I lost my husband 4 months ago to cancer after 61 years of marriage. We started dating when I was 16 years old. I feel so completely lost. I'm grateful for the time we had together, but I can't see a life ahead for me. Thank you for your videos.
I talk to my late husband every night while listening to the radio. When a song comes on that reminds me of him, I feel that he is with me . I kiss his photo and say "good morning" every day.
I speak to my husband every night. His favorite blankets hangs over his recliner. I visit him as often as I can, and it makes feel better. Thank you for these videos. They always make me feel better.
Thank you Alice for your encouragement as it’s great to hear that these videos are helpful. It’s good you are still feeling the closeness and connection to your husband. Sending love and comfort x 🥰
Thank you, this video has helped me. I think of Sean and my other loved ones as having Gone Ahead to heaven and I have the hope to be reunited with them. I am happy that I had shared this idea with Sean before he joined our loved ones there. This entry is done on his laptop. I am Belinda Stratton.
I still think & talk to my late wife every day even after nearly 3 years. I still have her coat & hat in the hall. I still have her slippers & dressing gown in the bedroom. Thank you so much for your time to make this video.
I lost my wife just under 2 months ago, I also left her shoes and overcoat in the hallway downstairs, I also sleep on her side of the bed so I can be as near as I can to her, she died of a very aggressive cancer and from diagnosis to passing was only 5 weeks. I feel my heart has been torn out !
I just lost the love of my life 4 days ago. We were highschool crushes & lost contact after school but reconnected again 3 years ago. We were planning to get married. I feel like the pain is even worse, knowing that we could have been together all of those years. Three years is such a short time to be with the one you love. And we are both young, he was 41 when he passed. I feel like my love for him and the pain of this loss will linger with me forever. I have been talking to him throughout the day amongst my episodes of breaking down sobbing, and had wondered if I was crazy, but I’m glad to hear I am not alone in doing that. Your videos have been very helpful.
This video is amazing! A few months ago, I lost my sweet wife, my soulmate of 54 years. Like so many others, I attempted to deal with the devastation by watching dozens of UA-cam videos dealing with grief, guilt, and mental trauma in the hopes of finding some relief. Each helped in their own way, but I'm writing to let you know that your video, "Losing Your Loved One - Holding onto the Love", resonated with me in many ways that no other person has done. Having experienced my loss for several months, it felt like you were talking directly to me, describing so many of my feelings, and with such surprising accuracy. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with me and others on your channel. Very helpful!
This about the best i have herd after my wife passed away two years ago .I talk to my wife all the time /tell her every thing am thinking and doing or about to do as i will never forget her its all i have got to hold on to as my family as turned there back on me thank you for your video .
That means a lot to me Michael and feels like my own grief and loss have not been in vain … this video work honours their lives and memories if it comforts just one person. Thank you & bless you as you navigate your sorrow x 🙏❤️
I lost my spouse April 6th 2023 and it still is so hard. I cry a lot, spend more time alone doing things, I feel like I walk around with an empty void inside me, I'm not happy or content in my life, I just go through the motions. I don't know if/when this will go away, at this point I don't think it will. And to find peace and acceptance with him dying of one of the most brutal and deadly cancers ever, Glioblastoma brain cancer, doing the palliative care journey alone in the middle of covid and isolation just about destroyed me. Being with someone for 20 years (my entire adult life) i don't know how to move forward alone, happy or even content. I can't make peace with how he died and the age.
I talk to my husband a lot, mostly I'm saying how much I love him and miss him. I also talk to God. It's nearly 6 months ago he died. I sometimes think he'll come back and life will be back to normal - though I'm not in denial, it just feels strange now and unreal.
Thank you for your interesting comment.. I don’t think it is denial to feel like they are going to just come in from work again or phone you or walk into a room. The connection with them is so strong and they’re such a part of your life that it’s alien to be apart. I often think that’s there’s no closure on those thoughts of .. how did this happen and I can’t believe I’ll never see them again.. a feeling of disbelief after years can still hit me. Sending love and prayers x We always want more .. one more hug, I love you, one more memory.. 🙏❤️
My husband died in May 2024. I am fearing all the firsts without him coming soon. I have experienced death before in my family, but the loss of my husband of 42 years has been the deepest cut of my heart.
My husband passed away 13 months tomorrow. I dont feel like i have progressed at all. I just camt get it in me he's gone. My family doesn't understand😭
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Every one of your podcasts resonates with me so very deeply. Thank you. I read something the other day which really made me think. It was 'Don't be sad for what is gone. Be glad for what you had'. I am grateful for every thing I shared with my Darling husband, the good, the bad, the happy, the sad. We shaped each others lives and it created a very deep bond. He said at our wedding that we were a team and would always be a team, and he was right. Together for 30 years through thick and thin.
Thank you for sharing your time and effort regarding grief. I lost my wife of 51 years to pancan. I did not know this level of sadness existed. I know now there are somethings I cannot fix but must be carried. Best wishes to you and this group.
Thank you , I lost my wife four months ago after she had a very short illness, we were married for 41 years , I am just devastated , we were so happy She was my beautiful wife, soul mate, mother, granny
Your pod cast help me once again thank you kind Regards Michael x
I havent moved any of his things. I wear his wedding band alongside mine. I talk to him. My hope is in that eternal reunion.
Absolutely, the promise of Heaven assures us of the eternal reunion 🙏❤️ x
Same 3 years
I can not express the help and comfort you've been to me. I lost my husband 4 months ago to cancer after 61 years of marriage. We started dating when I was 16 years old. I feel so completely lost. I'm grateful for the time we had together, but I can't see a life ahead for me. Thank you for your videos.
Thank you for your encouragement.. it makes my pain of loss a channel of hope and comfort .. bless you.
Sending love & prayers x
I talk to my late husband every night while listening to the radio. When a song comes on that reminds me of him, I feel that he is with me . I kiss his photo and say "good morning" every day.
That’s a beautiful thing to do.. as you would have said good morning with a kiss every day.. thank you for sharing this. Sending love and comfort x 🥰
I speak to my husband every night. His favorite blankets hangs over his recliner. I visit him as often as I can, and it makes feel better. Thank you for these videos. They always make me feel better.
Thank you Alice for your encouragement as it’s great to hear that these videos are helpful.
It’s good you are still feeling the closeness and connection to your husband. Sending love and comfort x 🥰
Thank you, this video has helped me. I think of Sean and my other loved ones as having Gone Ahead to heaven and I have the hope to be reunited with them. I am happy that I had shared this
idea with Sean before he joined our loved ones there. This entry is done on his laptop. I am Belinda
Stratton.
I still think & talk to my late wife every day even after nearly 3 years. I still have her coat & hat in the hall. I still have her slippers & dressing gown in the bedroom. Thank you so much for your time to make this video.
Thanks so much for your video, it helps me so much .I can really relate to it. K
I lost my wife just under 2 months ago, I also left her shoes and overcoat in the hallway downstairs, I also sleep on her side of the bed so I can be as near as I can to her, she died of a very aggressive cancer and from diagnosis to passing was only 5 weeks. I feel my heart has been torn out !
@@mikewest1542 I know how you feel Mike, people say it gets easier after time but I haven't found that to be the case. My heart goes out to you mate.
I just lost the love of my life 4 days ago. We were highschool crushes & lost contact after school but reconnected again 3 years ago. We were planning to get married. I feel like the pain is even worse, knowing that we could have been together all of those years. Three years is such a short time to be with the one you love. And we are both young, he was 41 when he passed. I feel like my love for him and the pain of this loss will linger with me forever. I have been talking to him throughout the day amongst my episodes of breaking down sobbing, and had wondered if I was crazy, but I’m glad to hear I am not alone in doing that. Your videos have been very helpful.
So beautifully said. Thank you.
This video is amazing! A few months ago, I lost my sweet wife, my soulmate of 54 years. Like so many others, I attempted to deal with the devastation by watching dozens of UA-cam videos dealing with grief, guilt, and mental trauma in the hopes of finding some relief. Each helped in their own way, but I'm writing to let you know that your video, "Losing Your Loved One - Holding onto the Love", resonated with me in many ways that no other person has done. Having experienced my loss for several months, it felt like you were talking directly to me, describing so many of my feelings, and with such surprising accuracy. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with me and others on your channel. Very helpful!
This about the best i have herd after my wife passed away two years ago .I talk to my wife all the time /tell her every thing am thinking and doing or about to do as i will never forget her its all i have got to hold on to as my family as turned there back on me thank you for your video .
So sorry for your loss .. 2 years is still raw and early in the grief journey .. sending you comfort & love as you navigate the ongoing months ahead x
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I find your words so healing and comforting for me in my time of loss. I just want to say, "Thank You for sharing your beautiful thoughts"
That means a lot to me Michael and feels like my own grief and loss have not been in vain … this video work honours their lives and memories if it comforts just one person. Thank you & bless you as you navigate your sorrow x 🙏❤️
I lost my spouse April 6th 2023 and it still is so hard. I cry a lot, spend more time alone doing things, I feel like I walk around with an empty void inside me, I'm not happy or content in my life, I just go through the motions. I don't know if/when this will go away, at this point I don't think it will. And to find peace and acceptance with him dying of one of the most brutal and deadly cancers ever, Glioblastoma brain cancer, doing the palliative care journey alone in the middle of covid and isolation just about destroyed me. Being with someone for 20 years (my entire adult life) i don't know how to move forward alone, happy or even content. I can't make peace with how he died and the age.
Thank you so much! Love listening to you!
Bless you Susan.. thanks for your kind words. Sending love 🥰 x
My wife could have been a friend of yours, because of the individual wisdom you've shown us. Thanks!!
Thank you for your kind words.. I’m sure I would have loved your wife’s friendship. Sending love 💕 and comfort x
I talk to my husband a lot, mostly I'm saying how much I love him and miss him. I also talk to God.
It's nearly 6 months ago he died. I sometimes think he'll come back and life will be back to normal - though I'm not in denial, it just feels strange now and unreal.
Thank you for your interesting comment.. I don’t think it is denial to feel like they are going to just come in from work again or phone you or walk into a room. The connection with them is so strong and they’re such a part of your life that it’s alien to be apart. I often think that’s there’s no closure on those thoughts of .. how did this happen and I can’t believe I’ll never see them again.. a feeling of disbelief after years can still hit me. Sending love and prayers x
We always want more .. one more hug, I love you, one more memory.. 🙏❤️
Thank you..... ( from Cape Town)
Glad that these videos are reaching far and wide.. sending love and comfort to you in South Africa. X 🥰
I made a pillow out of the shirt he passed in. I sleep with with him every night.
That’s a tangible thing to connect you with his presence.. how precious. Sending love and comfort x 🥰
My husband's jacket is still hanging on the back of the chair in the kitchen. Every morning I touch it and say good morning to him.
That’s a lovely thing to do every morning.. keep your love alive ❤️ x
@@lifelosshope Thank you...I miss him so...
My husband died in May 2024. I am fearing all the firsts without him coming soon. I have experienced death before in my family, but the loss of my husband of 42 years has been the deepest cut of my heart.
My husband passed away 13 months tomorrow. I dont feel like i have progressed at all. I just camt get it in me he's gone. My family doesn't understand😭