About Friend : Trust issues (what is friend?)

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  • Опубліковано 12 січ 2025

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  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому +4

    5:20
    For me, I make friends a lot and quickly.. Actually because I am a friendly person even with strangers, maybe being a very friendly person makes people around me uncomfortable.. But I just don't know how to draw my official boundaries with these people..
    Well, I think that, according to my knowledge of many friends, there is a difference between superficial relationships and close relationships.
    Formal friendships are relationships that always have boundaries, formal words, and appropriate timing.
    For example, your colleagues at work are people you see every day at the same time and place and talk to about work. These are definitely superficial relationships.
    But when the time and reasons for meeting these people differ, this relationship will go beyond formality.
    As for the subject of close friendship... it is not something you can control or simply desire and strive to achieve..
    Close friendship comes by chance. By chance, your heart may feel open and comfortable with someone, even if he is a stranger to you and your relationship with him is superficial.
    From my personal point of view, true friendship is one based on the trust of both friends in each other.
    "Trust and honesty" are the two main factors in any true friendship.

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      I really agree with you!! That's really perfect opinion

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому +1

    ‏‪26:28‬‏
    Your little brother is really cute and adorable! You are lucky to have a little brother like him.

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      Yeah he also come to my room here😂

    • @basmati1463
      @basmati1463 4 дні тому

      ​@@nunufujimi3115 That's awesome! Tell him he has some fans now 😭

  • @Ninibana
    @Ninibana 3 дні тому

    I think the worst type of friends are the ones that talk behind others backs. Becouse it is really likely that they are talking behind your back aswell

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  3 дні тому

      @@Ninibana yeah that probably the worst part of human behavior. Anyway thank you for coming here. Please feel free to comeback ☺️🙏

  • @Probably_ded
    @Probably_ded 3 дні тому

    Subscribed immediately because youre so relatable!!!!

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  3 дні тому +1

      @@Probably_ded thank youu for subscribed ☺️🙏 and welcome to my room. Here are so many good friends you can talk with. They really kind. And They are also relatable with you. So please feel home☺️

    • @Probably_ded
      @Probably_ded 3 дні тому

      @@nunufujimi3115 you're so sweet 🫶🏻

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  3 дні тому +1

      @@Probably_ded thank you. You also very kind to me😊

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  3 дні тому

      If you would like you can vote in my announcement video to join my discord. i want to build a community to meet you up with all my subscribers and know each other to make a friend from around the world ☺️ so you can make a talk on my discord to all my subscribers and me when ever you want to talk about something.

    • @Probably_ded
      @Probably_ded 2 дні тому

      @@nunufujimi3115 sure

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому +2

    ‏‪28:53‬‏
    Bro what!? It's a shame there are people who make fun of a nice person like you, they don't know what they're talking about, they're just idiots😖!

  • @shinrakusakabe3439
    @shinrakusakabe3439 5 днів тому

    Personally I think you don't need background music. Video is great. Also I just want to say I also got betrayed by my "friends" some even friends for 7 years. It really hurts but yeah I also have the trust issue so I can relate. Right now I am alone

    • @shinrakusakabe3439
      @shinrakusakabe3439 5 днів тому

      Right now I am alone but my life is more peaceful

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      @@shinrakusakabe3439 oh my lordd I'm really sorry for that. We have relate issue.

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      @@shinrakusakabe3439 i hope you find peace more and more and find another bestie who will never betray you anymore

    • @shinrakusakabe3439
      @shinrakusakabe3439 5 днів тому

      Thank you I wish you well too

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому +1

      @@shinrakusakabe3439 yeah i wish for you too. I believe People getting stronger with experience 😌

  • @Bellsell77
    @Bellsell77 4 дні тому

    I think your English is really good!

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому +1

      @@Bellsell77 thank you for your compliment and welcome to my room😊 let’s be friends 😊🤝

    • @Bellsell77
      @Bellsell77 4 дні тому

      @@nunufujimi3115I’m from Australia here :)

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому +1

      @ wawwwww that’s really surprised me🥹🥹 im your neighbor indonesia 🇮🇩 I guess it would easy for us to meet face to face someday . Nice to see you😊

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому

      I have favorite singers from Australia his name is casey banes and my fav song is good took his time on you . I hope i can visit Australia to meet you and him🥳😊

    • @Bellsell77
      @Bellsell77 3 дні тому

      @@nunufujimi3115bagus Sekali haha

  • @reinossa
    @reinossa 4 дні тому

    you made this video to improve your english and i'm watching it to improve my listening skills haha; i agree with you about appreciating things just the way they are, if you only see the flaws, you're gonna live frustrated with people and with yourself, so seeing the authenticity and being able to see the beauty in things, it's gonna make life more enjoyable.
    for me friendship is based on trust and care, when you take care of someone it means that person is important to you, in a friendship you should be comfortable enough to be yourself and joke around, and at the same time being vulnerable and open with your emotions, to hear and be heared, that's why it's important to find people that are really kindhearted and as you say, have some few common interests. finding this type of friendship might seem complicated, since in my experience, people tends to be mean sometimes :[ but there's people with good intentions and warmth feelings.
    you have a really nice voice to listen to, thanks for you video (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому +1

      @@reinossa omggg thanks a lot for making time just for come to my room and give me a lot about your perspective. I really appreciate it. And i learn a lot about new words through your comment,this really help!! Thanks a bunch 🥹🙏🏼

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому +1

      @@reinossa thanks too for your compliment! I am so happy 😊

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому

    ‏‪12:19‬‏
    Have you been taken advantage of? That's a little frustrating to know... Friends of convenience are just assholes bro..

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому +5

    I'm sorry I talk so much🙏🏻, but I take this channel seriously.

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      Owh that's really make me happy 🥹

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      Thanks to always stay tune

    • @basmati1463
      @basmati1463 4 дні тому

      ​@@nunufujimi3115 Don't thank me, we are friends😂

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому

    ‏‪9:00‬‏ Do you mean "conversation"?

  • @carlw5360
    @carlw5360 4 дні тому

    Your accent is cute when you speak English

  • @basmati1463
    @basmati1463 6 днів тому

    5:00
    Oh hi it's me again 😅.. well i thought my comments were bothering you but now i think i have a different point of view.. trusting someone definitely takes time.. so i'll give you enough time to trust me.

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      Sure i love to make friend and i believe you gonna be my best friend because you want to spend time a lot just for writing to me.

    • @basmati1463
      @basmati1463 4 дні тому

      Oh you have to believe me I write a lot because you are such a great person.. and I actually make some free time for myself to watch your videos and comment on them in the room.. you are kind of fun​@@nunufujimi3115

  • @Fadly-i8s
    @Fadly-i8s 6 днів тому

    Ini fadly

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  5 днів тому

      Ehh ada fadli 😂 kamu tau ga aku lagi ngomongin apa😂

  • @MehmetEmreAriturk
    @MehmetEmreAriturk 4 дні тому

    hey 👋 Where are you from my friend

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому

      @@MehmetEmreAriturk hi!! 👋 im from indonesia 🇮🇩 😊 how about youu?!

    • @MehmetEmreAriturk
      @MehmetEmreAriturk 4 дні тому

      @ Türkiye 🇹🇷 😊

    • @nunufujimi3115
      @nunufujimi3115  4 дні тому

      @ oh dude i love turkey so muchhh ive been there once for vacation I really love turkish peoples they really really really kinddd!!!

    • @MehmetEmreAriturk
      @MehmetEmreAriturk 4 дні тому

      @@nunufujimi3115 thanks brother, i think the same thing for indonesian people, i had so many friends from indonesia and you guys are really nice and kind too

  • @syazwanmomo
    @syazwanmomo 6 днів тому

    Perfect