I used to have this belief that everything had to look perfect on the outside instead of real because I cared about how others may perceive me. But their perception of me is not on me, my authenticity is my responsibility. Today I LOVE being perfectly imperfect, thanks to your help over the years. ♡
I believed things were perfect when I was satisfied with the outcome or result of something. (Ingrained from childhood!) Slowly I began to realize I was driving myself & most everyone else crazy! I did recognize where I got this trait from but still it took me way too long to even try to let it go. However I am so grateful that I have seen the light & I now give myself “permission “ to chill the f*#
Perfectionist are not seeking a perfect item or situation. But rather a confirmation and comfort feeling about something so to seek affirmation from an outside perspective of another person or object so that you can feel that you accomplished something correctly.
This was something I struggled to overcome for a while. I was so into the idea of being perfect at my job, then I ended up having a panic attack and went to the hospital. After that moment, I realized that no job is worth that level of stress. I started managing my work/balance, meditating, and just accepting the outcome, and now I have more respect from my coworkers than ever, less stress and worrying, and more focused time for myself and my son.
When it looks just like the directions 😂😂 If there are no directions then it's when my intuition tells me it's good enough. Good enough is when it gets the job done. Doesn't gotta be pretty, as long as it works, and you can learn from it
Peace Aaron ✌🏻✨ I'm feeling your level up with this Beta Test run. I'm excited❗ You 3 masculines each bring a different energy and balance to the program. Let's GO👏🏻🔥⭕💪🏻 Thank you Sir. 🙏🏻
Bro! I am enough. I don’t know how to edit either and that’s been holding me back. Skillshare is going to teach me and messing up and continuing to try is going to teach me. Thank you Aaron!!!!!🙏🏽🙌🏽✨☀️🌎♥️🌕💪 Already in the Beta Program! Can’t wait!
Oh I’m definitely a perfectionist… The “perfect” is a place I’ll never arrive because it doesn’t exist, it’s just a concoction of my own mind based on unrealistic societal expectations of things that aren’t realistically possible, but I was gonna try anyway because that gave me an escape from the things I was too afraid to look at ✌️ does that mean I get a cookie lol This video is so true about just starting imperfectly and messing up and embracing that.. thank you for sharing! 🙏
That’s Interesting that you pointed out and explained the “shadow” of the “perfectionist”. That really helps, because I def feel like this and it def stems from childhood. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I def mess up but when I feel failure I take it personally and it spirals and stops me from taking more action. I instantly just stop working on my dreams or slow alllll the way down. 🙄🫣 Thank you for addressing this Aaron. Feeling stuck now and needed this message today. 🙏🏽
Im so inspired by Aaron, Victor and Matt. This is the most inspiring time in my life and I look forward to learning as much as possible from these three awesome human beings. God bless you guys
As a musician, I thought I had objective criteria for judging what is perfect - right notes, rhythms that flow "correctly." Numerous times I edit a video and say that's perfect. Sleep, come back the next day, and say What the heck was I thinking??! So, nothing's objective - really.
I know something is "perfect" when it works for everyone involved and there is a flow to the task / project. Everyone is inspired and motivated by the mission and does their part. I do believe there is the most efficient way to do anything. Not healthy all the time especially when it costs me my health but the above has been true as well so hard to break that pattern. I agree with the bumps helping to make things more efficient / perfect. Bumps are necessary. But there is a "perfect" or most efficient/optimal way to do everything. Just gotta find that which takes time.
Great video on getting to the root of "perfectionism." I'm guilty and still learning, how to stop getting into my head that everything needs to be perfect. It's a false perception I'm working on now.
I only know that what I do is not good enough for others. My videos are critiqued by family and friends in the messenges...... Embarrassed when I am chill
If I wasn’t perfect I was physically abused and on top of that I was a top athlete! So 😂 this is my wound-it surfaces every once in a while. Def need to mess a bit more, especially online-aka UA-cam
I agree with the concepto of trying to be the BEST as you can in order to try your mum attetion etc. But i also believe that the concepto of perfeccionismo is also a kind off beauty and LOVE to ourselves. Thank you😊❤ God Bless you
Sucha wonderful reflection. I always look forward to these high vibe messages 😉 Would love to see more of these ! After doing the emotional transformation challenge, so much has shifted inside me. I can’t thank you enough for making such a huge difference in my life. Lotsa love and Namaste 😀😄🥰
Over 200 plus or more cooking demonstration and Ask the Dietitian and more. Everyone thinks they know more than I. 4 degrees and 40 plus years experience and I am made to look foolish due to less technical skills or camera skills 🤔
Bigg Aaron with all the right advice 👌 I don't know if I should of had you as a teacher growing up because if I did I would be Elon musk by now... You always seem to get through to my insane mind off mine which that in itself is crazier by the way... Your funking good at what you do mate don't ever dought yourself. If you can get through to me that easily you have already won the race before it began.....boom Thankyou again brother 🙏
Perfectionism is basically integration. Integration to what? To a secret that is not a secret. You integrate into your body by being present. Not spectating. Doing shadow work is basically bringing your shadow into the light, also bringing what was in the dark into light. Perfectionism is a misconception not a conundrum, there's a huge difference. Integrate your shadow self into the stream of consciousness, basically enlightenment, basically the light, that spark you hold within your eyes. From thoughts to knowing. Integration is perfection, also meaning virtuous and benevolent. That's as honest as honest gets. Where's my meow?
Easy, perfection is when I can't find any flaws. Gimme my cookie 😛 You're right about the childhood stuff and failure though... but what if I enjoy taking my time making things as good as I can get them before I let others see? Is there really anything wrong with that?
If it's edible, it's perfect. If you don't look like you just went through the ringer, it's perfect. If your eyes can see it and not wince, it's perfect. That is my view on perfect. I lowered my expectations years ago and it still feels good.
As I have progressed in my awakening my self compassion has grown, which is allowed me to relax about my internal need for perfection As I realize it was me grasping for control I didn’t know I already have
There is no perfect but if it's not perfect, I've failed. It's a horrible feeling to be constantly failing because, ya, perfect is just some unattainable ideal I use to torture myself and reinforce that I'll never be good enough.
Perfection doesn't exist. If it did we would never learn anything. Also humans were made imperfect therefore anything we do or create will also be imperfect. Embrace the beauty of imperfections
Perfect message for those like myself who think they have perfection figured out. My ego needed a good kick in the behind for me to wake up to the impossible task of "being' a perfectionist. Who's job is this really? Only one fits the bill...God or the devine....We can certainly strive for it, but even those who have reached sainthood have admitted they make mistakes. This world was meant for us to make mistakes and learn from them in order to evolve. I would say it would be a pretty dull place if that weren't the case. Thank you for your video....
It looks like your entrepreneur program is closed? I got an email saying I was accepted yet the FB group link didn't work and another group link said the group was archived.
We can’t learn or succeed if we don’t even take a shot because we fear losing or making mistakes. We Might not get our hearts almost broken in two if we don’t open our hearts to sincere love, but we most Definitely won’t get sincerely loved if we don’t open our hearts to try. There are many types of love also, not just romance. A person can waste an incredible amount of time trying to appear as a certain type of individual just to gain love and attention but they will never be able to enjoy it because they feel false, down deep. Spend the energy actually Being that way genuinely and you’ll be more open to love- if you can love yourself (not in any conceited form). Let’s all try to remember “We are all just walking each other Home.” ~Makarios love lights! 💞✨
my perfectionism comes from being grounded in high school because my grades weren't good enough for my Dad's and stepmoms standards. my grades were not great but I feel like my Dad could've handled it better than isolating me from everything that was essentially keeping me alive because I was also struggling with severe depression and I was legitimately trying my best for what I could've done at the time. I actually look back at due dates for school and despite teachers saying its so they can grade the students work on time but I think It may also be a good source into getting people out of the perfectionism mind set.
Thankyou for this video, it is very helpful. It confirmed I was on the right path in this area. I let go of seeking perfectionism about a year ago, what I noticed was a huge weight off my shoulders. I let go of controlling behaviours. I found that letting things just be, going with the flow and allowing flexibilty in each area of my life reduced stress levels & all became more manageable. In my opinion no one & nothing is perfect why did I waste time & energy trying! I'll file it under learn & grow 😃
When I dont feel the urge to fix/ fiddle/adjust/move/ect any longer. The feeling of peace without thinking about it. I feel like I finally teach perfect at that point.
For me it's about excellence in Godly balance, as perfection isn't real. We are constantly in transition, and so perfection fails change. Excellence is obtained over time, it becomes bolder, wiser, better informed, therefore better in it's design and capabilities. Excellence feels really good when you achieve it, a sense of peace. I love it!
You are the only person I've ever encountered to has any kind of similar issues in childhood that I had. I've been able to understand you more easily than many others because of it. I am enough. Om so hum. Namaste.
Every living being or even non being living for instance water and snow flakes achieve the higher form of the universals perfection. So yes every single human being and every living being on this planet and outside of it into this entire universe and the multiverse they achieve the perfection in a universal form. It's a myth that we cant be perfect, yes we can be perfect of we can strive hard for it for instance you have achieved perfection over the years that I have been listening to you. Just like that everyone has the capacity and just that its hidden. Once they know their full potential they will themselves achieve the perfection. A taoist archives the perfection in the water element, a phonies achives perfection in the fire and even the so called dragons. According to gita god the supreme deity is in everything and everyone. I believe that.
thanks for making such a nice effort to define it. I think that perfectionism is as you said is an attempt for safety. perfectionism is the assault of the ego against the beauty of our imperfections. That somehow we are perfect In our vulnerabilities we strive to be unassailable it is not perfect. the definition of perfectionism is interesting....
But I feel I don't have time or money to "mess up". I'm 61 and down to my last $10k with no job. The clock is ticking and I don't have the luxury to "mess up."
I used to have this belief that everything had to look perfect on the outside instead of real because I cared about how others may perceive me. But their perception of me is not on me, my authenticity is my responsibility. Today I LOVE being perfectly imperfect, thanks to your help over the years. ♡
I believed things were perfect when I was satisfied with the outcome or result of something. (Ingrained from childhood!) Slowly I began to realize I was driving myself & most everyone else crazy! I did recognize where I got this trait from but still it took me way too long to even try to let it go. However I am so grateful that I have seen the light & I now give myself “permission “ to chill the f*#
Perfectionist are not seeking a perfect item or situation. But rather a confirmation and comfort feeling about something so to seek affirmation from an outside perspective of another person or object so that you can feel that you accomplished something correctly.
Totally agree, for me it has been all about feeling safe in the world and with people. Perfect comment 😉👍
Brilliantly worded.
YES to High Vibe messages ❤
I grew up surrounded by people who always used to say "it could be worst" but damn it! things don't have to be "perfect" but it could be better too.
This was something I struggled to overcome for a while. I was so into the idea of being perfect at my job, then I ended up having a panic attack and went to the hospital.
After that moment, I realized that no job is worth that level of stress. I started managing my work/balance, meditating, and just accepting the outcome, and now I have more respect from my coworkers than ever, less stress and worrying, and more focused time for myself and my son.
Love this❤
When it looks just like the directions 😂😂 If there are no directions then it's when my intuition tells me it's good enough. Good enough is when it gets the job done. Doesn't gotta be pretty, as long as it works, and you can learn from it
Peace Aaron ✌🏻✨
I'm feeling your level up with this Beta Test run.
I'm excited❗
You 3 masculines each bring a different energy and balance to the program.
Let's GO👏🏻🔥⭕💪🏻
Thank you Sir. 🙏🏻
Absolutely, 1000 % thank you 🙏🙏..
Thank you Aaron ✨🌎
Bro! I am enough. I don’t know how to edit either and that’s been holding me back. Skillshare is going to teach me and messing up and continuing to try is going to teach me. Thank you Aaron!!!!!🙏🏽🙌🏽✨☀️🌎♥️🌕💪 Already in the Beta Program! Can’t wait!
So helpful. Thank you, Aaron!
Man, your energy has gotten brighter with each passing day, you are truly an inspiration ❤🙏🍀
Hating you is a good comment
Great message Aaron, thank you! 🙏🏼💙
Oh I’m definitely a perfectionist… The “perfect” is a place I’ll never arrive because it doesn’t exist, it’s just a concoction of my own mind based on unrealistic societal expectations of things that aren’t realistically possible, but I was gonna try anyway because that gave me an escape from the things I was too afraid to look at
✌️ does that mean I get a cookie lol
This video is so true about just starting imperfectly and messing up and embracing that.. thank you for sharing! 🙏
That’s Interesting that you pointed out and explained the “shadow” of the “perfectionist”. That really helps, because I def feel like this and it def stems from childhood. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I def mess up but when I feel failure I take it personally and it spirals and stops me from taking more action. I instantly just stop working on my dreams or slow alllll the way down. 🙄🫣 Thank you for addressing this Aaron. Feeling stuck now and needed this message today. 🙏🏽
@@IAMInfinite I’ve read it three times lol. One of my fav books🙏🏽
Wrong
Do, mess up, re frame. Do, mess up, re frame. Do, mess up, re frame...💜💫💜💫🙌... After that, it's only continuing re framing, which is doing (action).
Im so inspired by Aaron, Victor and Matt. This is the most inspiring time in my life and I look forward to learning as much as possible from these three awesome human beings. God bless you guys
Yes a holy trinity 😅✨️
Loved this video I’m inspired I’m going to accompany myself singing Sunday..Thanks Arron
As a musician, I thought I had objective criteria for judging what is perfect - right notes, rhythms that flow "correctly." Numerous times I edit a video and say that's perfect. Sleep, come back the next day, and say What the heck was I thinking??! So, nothing's objective - really.
I know something is "perfect" when it works for everyone involved and there is a flow to the task / project. Everyone is inspired and motivated by the mission and does their part. I do believe there is the most efficient way to do anything. Not healthy all the time especially when it costs me my health but the above has been true as well so hard to break that pattern. I agree with the bumps helping to make things more efficient / perfect. Bumps are necessary. But there is a "perfect" or most efficient/optimal way to do everything. Just gotta find that which takes time.
Great video on getting to the root of "perfectionism." I'm guilty and still learning, how to stop getting into my head that everything needs to be perfect. It's a false perception I'm working on now.
survival mechanism brings perfection down to reality
Perfect for me always means it could be better. It's unreachable
Make more videos about starseeds 🙏🏼🙏🏼⭐️ -and the types of starseeds🙏🏼🙏🏼
I only know that what I do is not good enough for others.
My videos are critiqued by family and friends in the messenges......
Embarrassed when I am chill
If I wasn’t perfect I was physically abused and on top of that I was a top athlete! So 😂 this is my wound-it surfaces every once in a while. Def need to mess a bit more, especially online-aka UA-cam
This one hit hard, right in the feels. All of its so true, especially the shadow. That high unachievable standard. This was so helpful. ❤ Thank you.
Hi Aaron. I would def love if you could bring back the high vibe message of the day series! Thanks for changing my life :) you rock!
I agree with the concepto of trying to be the BEST as you can in order to try your mum attetion etc. But i also believe that the concepto of perfeccionismo is also a kind off beauty and LOVE to ourselves. Thank you😊❤ God Bless you
I asked "What do I need to work on today?" And boom got your text. Thank you❤
Sucha wonderful reflection. I always look forward to these high vibe messages 😉 Would love to see more of these !
After doing the emotional transformation challenge, so much has shifted inside me. I can’t thank you enough for making such a huge difference in my life. Lotsa love and Namaste 😀😄🥰
Over 200 plus or more cooking demonstration and Ask the Dietitian and more. Everyone thinks they know more than I. 4 degrees and 40 plus years experience and I am made to look foolish due to less technical skills or camera skills 🤔
Bigg Aaron with all the right advice 👌 I don't know if I should of had you as a teacher growing up because if I did I would be Elon musk by now...
You always seem to get through to my insane mind off mine which that in itself is crazier by the way...
Your funking good at what you do mate don't ever dought yourself.
If you can get through to me that easily you have already won the race before it began.....boom
Thankyou again brother 🙏
Perfectionism is basically integration. Integration to what? To a secret that is not a secret. You integrate into your body by being present. Not spectating. Doing shadow work is basically bringing your shadow into the light, also bringing what was in the dark into light.
Perfectionism is a misconception not a conundrum, there's a huge difference. Integrate your shadow self into the stream of consciousness, basically enlightenment, basically the light, that spark you hold within your eyes. From thoughts to knowing. Integration is perfection, also meaning virtuous and benevolent.
That's as honest as honest gets. Where's my meow?
Easy, perfection is when I can't find any flaws. Gimme my cookie 😛 You're right about the childhood stuff and failure though... but what if I enjoy taking my time making things as good as I can get them before I let others see? Is there really anything wrong with that?
If it's edible, it's perfect. If you don't look like you just went through the ringer, it's perfect. If your eyes can see it and not wince, it's perfect. That is my view on perfect. I lowered my expectations years ago and it still feels good.
As I have progressed in my awakening my self compassion has grown, which is allowed me to relax about my internal need for perfection As I realize it was me grasping for control I didn’t know I already have
When I'm satisfied with what I have created (usually my art/writing). I usually measured by how much fun it was to get there.
There is no perfect but if it's not perfect, I've failed. It's a horrible feeling to be constantly failing because, ya, perfect is just some unattainable ideal I use to torture myself and reinforce that I'll never be good enough.
Perfection doesn't exist. If it did we would never learn anything. Also humans were made imperfect therefore anything we do or create will also be imperfect. Embrace the beauty of imperfections
Perfect message for those like myself who think they have perfection figured out. My ego needed a good kick in the behind for me to wake up to the impossible task of "being' a perfectionist. Who's job is this really? Only one fits the bill...God or the devine....We can certainly strive for it, but even those who have reached sainthood have admitted they make mistakes. This world was meant for us to make mistakes and learn from them in order to evolve. I would say it would be a pretty dull place if that weren't the case. Thank you for your video....
It looks like your entrepreneur program is closed? I got an email saying I was accepted yet the FB group link didn't work and another group link said the group was archived.
We can’t learn or succeed if we don’t even take a shot because we fear losing or making mistakes. We Might not get our hearts almost broken in two if we don’t open our hearts to sincere love, but we most Definitely won’t get sincerely loved if we don’t open our hearts to try. There are many types of love also, not just romance. A person can waste an incredible amount of time trying to appear as a certain type of individual just to gain love and attention but they will never be able to enjoy it because they feel false, down deep. Spend the energy actually Being that way genuinely and you’ll be more open to love- if you can love yourself (not in any conceited form).
Let’s all try to remember “We are all just walking each other Home.” ~Makarios love lights! 💞✨
my perfectionism comes from being grounded in high school because my grades weren't good enough for my Dad's and stepmoms standards. my grades were not great but I feel like my Dad could've handled it better than isolating me from everything that was essentially keeping me alive because I was also struggling with severe depression and I was legitimately trying my best for what I could've done at the time. I actually look back at due dates for school and despite teachers saying its so they can grade the students work on time but I think It may also be a good source into getting people out of the perfectionism mind set.
Thankyou for this video, it is very helpful. It confirmed I was on the right path in this area. I let go of seeking perfectionism about a year ago, what I noticed was a huge weight off my shoulders. I let go of controlling behaviours. I found that letting things just be, going with the flow and allowing flexibilty in each area of my life reduced stress levels & all became more manageable. In my opinion no one & nothing is perfect why did I waste time & energy trying! I'll file it under learn & grow 😃
Thank you for this❤
Needed this message today. 🙏 thank you. For me, perfection is when I feel satisfied with the results.
When I dont feel the urge to fix/ fiddle/adjust/move/ect any longer. The feeling of peace without thinking about it. I feel like I finally teach perfect at that point.
You are exactly right. I never thought about what "perfect" is.
For me it's about excellence in Godly balance, as perfection isn't real. We are constantly in transition, and so perfection fails change. Excellence is obtained over time, it becomes bolder, wiser, better informed, therefore better in it's design and capabilities. Excellence feels really good when you achieve it, a sense of peace. I love it!
I like good enough, but I also like perfect enough lol. Good enough usually comes after I have done all I can to be perfect enough
I agree! ✨☀️✨
Love this! This is quite the journey and I must say for me lately it is the imperfections that now “ feel “ better 😊
Namaste 🙏
You are the only person I've ever encountered to has any kind of similar issues in childhood that I had. I've been able to understand you more easily than many others because of it.
I am enough. Om so hum. Namaste.
By getting a grade of 100 on an assignment. By getting on the scale and it saying what my BMI is lol 😅. Got to get my BMI perfect etc.
Excellent message for the day!!! Especially when starting Your Conscious Business awareness course, thank you 🙏💛😊
Cool. I'm asking the first people who see this and post this comment😮
There’s never an answer. The only answer is to surrender to what is, just the way it is. Pure acceptance.
Every living being or even non being living for instance water and snow flakes achieve the higher form of the universals perfection. So yes every single human being and every living being on this planet and outside of it into this entire universe and the multiverse they achieve the perfection in a universal form. It's a myth that we cant be perfect, yes we can be perfect of we can strive hard for it for instance you have achieved perfection over the years that I have been listening to you. Just like that everyone has the capacity and just that its hidden. Once they know their full potential they will themselves achieve the perfection. A taoist archives the perfection in the water element, a phonies achives perfection in the fire and even the so called dragons. According to gita god the supreme deity is in everything and everyone. I believe that.
I needed this so much today. Thank you Aaron!
Thanks! Massive imperfect action is key…
Very wise message, thank you Aaron 🙏🏻
My Fullfillment at the present moment is the proof.. It can be for seconds but there is a point of achievement
thanks for making such a nice effort to define it. I think that perfectionism is as you said is an attempt for safety. perfectionism is the assault of the ego against the beauty of our imperfections. That somehow we are perfect In our vulnerabilities
we strive to be unassailable it is not perfect. the definition of perfectionism is interesting....
Perfectly imperfect 💃💃💃🌈🌈🌈😇😇😇
came from the email list and I am so happy I clicked the link! great message!
Once upon a time yes. Now, kno way, pressure lessens, flow.
I'd say perfection would be where I please/impress everyone, and upset no one. It's definitely about not losing people in my life.
This message was very interesting and it hit home for me. I would love to hear your messages you have to pass on.
Yes the freedom that comes with letting things be, thanks & namaste 🙏🏻
Loving these flowy high vibe of the day brother🙏
Thank you 😊 This was very helpful.
Thank you so much Aaron❤️🔥👏🏼
To me being perfect is being happy in every aspect of my life
Used to be haven’t been for years now just let it flow thank you
Definitely interested!! Love these ❤
Thanks for the high vibes Aaron
thanks for this message today
But I feel I don't have time or money to "mess up". I'm 61 and down to my last $10k with no job. The clock is ticking and I don't have the luxury to "mess up."
@@IAMInfinite Thank you! I felt that in my heart!
Mess up… I think I can💛😀❤️
Exactly Aaron. Exactly.
Thank you so so so much 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, I needed this
Yes ❤😊 thank you 🙏🏽
Great advice Aaron
Love the high vibes messages.
This was so helpful ❤
Yes my Guy I asked to be a part of the beta brotha
Thank you so much! ❤️
If it feels right, if its through the heart.
Thank you Aaron❤
Thank you so much ✨🙏
Awesome. See ya at the beta test!🙌
Wise words..
Thank you 🙏
I needed this