Doja Cat Dragging Her Father Dumisani Dlamini 😭😭 F*You Dad

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  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2024
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  • @mokilisto
    @mokilisto 4 місяці тому +167

    I think deep down Doja wishes she had a relationship with her father. She's acting this way because she feels abandoned. 😢

    • @mynameis2685
      @mynameis2685 4 місяці тому +1

      Still she has a chance to do so. But is the media.the right platform ?? No

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому

      @@mynameis2685 it's sad because you'll find that some of the people cheering her have forgiven their deadbeat fathers and even started a relationship with them.

    • @noziqhamovokwana8826
      @noziqhamovokwana8826 4 місяці тому +5

      She’s crying for care 😢

    • @crispri3919
      @crispri3919 3 місяці тому +2

      @@mynameis2685 "chance" lol the reality is it is too late. Even if they pretend it will always be in the back of her mind that if she didn't become succesesful and was just a regular girl he would have never reached out and that he had to be shamed into acknowledging her.

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 4 місяці тому +255

    Interesting how the "zulus don't play & ancestors will deal with you" only applies to the child & not the deadbeat mxm.

    • @leratoloyal7981
      @leratoloyal7981 4 місяці тому +18

      The hypocrisy

    • @loyisog4795
      @loyisog4795 4 місяці тому +19

      Foolish customs and beliefs

    • @anelz122
      @anelz122 4 місяці тому +8

      It's not even about that,it all goes back to "Respect your parents".Zulu Culture aside but respecting your parent matters.

    • @leratoloyal7981
      @leratoloyal7981 4 місяці тому +33

      @@anelz122 respect is earned, no one owes you respect young or old. Had he been a respectable father, this would've been avoided

    • @lettyleigh6444
      @lettyleigh6444 4 місяці тому +10

      What is being Zulu got to do with this?? Don't be narrow minded

  • @Reign_255
    @Reign_255 4 місяці тому +35

    She ate. Rightfully so ! Makunyiwe once 😂😂

  • @okuhle1711
    @okuhle1711 4 місяці тому +37

    All of this could have been avoided if there was Khumbulekhaya in the States

  • @nkosinathindala4745
    @nkosinathindala4745 4 місяці тому +67

    They always want to come back and play "dad" when the child is now successful 😂

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 4 місяці тому +2

      Yes father's must fight to be in their child life

    • @PrimroseFundo
      @PrimroseFundo 3 місяці тому

      Those are called *******

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@busisiwemichelle5391CHILD'S life. Too late if the child is an adult. At that point stay away and respect their boundaries of they dotn want you in their life.

  • @nonodlamini
    @nonodlamini 4 місяці тому +34

    Did that one person just claim that the ancestors will deal with the person who never asked to be born and protect the one who actively chose to be a deadbeat?

    • @lindal3841
      @lindal3841 4 місяці тому +10

      The audacity of patriarchy😭

  • @TheHuny85
    @TheHuny85 4 місяці тому +27

    Doja is not the only child Dalithando Dlamini Doja`s brother is his son .DALITHANDO IS THE FIRST BORN .

  • @didilizzy1332
    @didilizzy1332 4 місяці тому +22

    Those ancestors could have dealt with the father first for being upset in his child life

  • @MathipaChepape
    @MathipaChepape 4 місяці тому +44

    Doja's mom have 2 kids and are both Dlaminis

    • @sethembilegwamanda4819
      @sethembilegwamanda4819 4 місяці тому +10

      His name is Dalithando, both these children are broken. I hear the brother abuses both her Mom and Doja.

    • @Rkts4k
      @Rkts4k 26 днів тому +1

      @@sethembilegwamanda4819correct its sad i grew up with them its honestly related to mental illness it runs in the family from the mom and dad to both kids

  • @gordenmg4966
    @gordenmg4966 4 місяці тому +22

    That's why being a step father is never ideal imagine the drama 😭😭😭

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 3 місяці тому +2

      Thats why Gen Z girls will never be Stepmom's either. Sick and tired of baby mama drama

    • @gordenmg4966
      @gordenmg4966 3 місяці тому

      @@suzygirl1843 personal choice you're not wrong at all.

  • @ketie_
    @ketie_ 4 місяці тому +59

    She needs to forgive him so shs can have peace coz its obviously still hurting her.

    • @mynameis2685
      @mynameis2685 4 місяці тому +2

      True. 😢😢

    • @Roses_777
      @Roses_777 4 місяці тому +10

      F forgiveness

    • @trayla3836
      @trayla3836 3 місяці тому

      You sound dumb , where was he when she wasn't famous?
      She doesn't owe him anything.

  • @yourgirrlll9975
    @yourgirrlll9975 4 місяці тому +21

    Chomy that is not his only child . Bayaxoka. Doja and her brother are the child walo baba. He also has kids that were proclaimed failures lo baba. KUNINIGI but he has plenty of kids . I can promise you that

  • @thabisocumaio6299
    @thabisocumaio6299 4 місяці тому +41

    She hates the fact that she loves him

    • @mokilisto
      @mokilisto 4 місяці тому +11

      She's hurting because she wishes it wasn't this way.

    • @GangstaLion
      @GangstaLion 2 місяці тому

      ​@@mokilistoUnderstandable I the same way about my dad. My mom didn't let him be in our lives now at 30 we like strangers to eachother I wish we was close

  • @malindinkosi888
    @malindinkosi888 4 місяці тому +8

    She went in on him 😂 😂😂😂

  • @The1-4287
    @The1-4287 4 місяці тому +5

    Can't blame the child. The father is a dead beat

  • @WNdaba
    @WNdaba 4 місяці тому +10

    She is too old to be parented. She needs to heal. Parenting will not happen anytime soon. Her dad is deadbeat and he won't change.

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому +8

      I don't think she is looking to be 'parented', that ship has sailed. The only thing that will heal her now is a relationship with her father. I think thats what she wants/needs right now.

    • @WNdaba
      @WNdaba 4 місяці тому +2

      @@MentalFacility-u7o that's what I mean when I say it will not come anytime soon. A relationship is part of parenting. Being there as a parent is parenting. She may never get it. She needs to heal alone and away from her ideas. The man doesn't want to father her the way she expects.

    • @Iamlove918
      @Iamlove918 4 місяці тому

      @@MentalFacility-u7o a relationship with a complete narcissist is like being alone in a room.

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому

      @@Iamlove918 damn!

    • @aeiou2
      @aeiou2 3 місяці тому +1

      Parenting is forever you never stop being a parent your parenting tactics change as the child becomes an adult that's all.

  • @DJDAVINCI
    @DJDAVINCI 4 місяці тому +6

    She looks just like him 😮

  • @sethembilegwamanda4819
    @sethembilegwamanda4819 4 місяці тому +8

    He is failing as a Dad lezingane zihlumezekile. His son abuse Doja and Mom.

  • @noellenonhlanhlamakiwane7497
    @noellenonhlanhlamakiwane7497 4 місяці тому +5

    As she should. She must fetch him for all the pain.

  • @Jaque-d9u
    @Jaque-d9u 4 місяці тому +12

    Ave befana njalo 😂😂😂😂

  • @sazisosibiya3569
    @sazisosibiya3569 3 місяці тому +1

    He’s got a son who’s a Hair Dresser who worked for me at the Salon in Durban on Smith Street, he’s name is Kwazi Dlamini, he looks exactly like him.

  • @futurefarms3440
    @futurefarms3440 3 місяці тому +1

    People don't understand life is a mystery... Maybe if Her Dad was in Her life She will not be Doja...Am not advocating for the Guy but Everyone Journeys through life in a unique Manner...

  • @nonhlanhlambalizeemthembu3879
    @nonhlanhlambalizeemthembu3879 4 місяці тому +16

    Kodwa nalobaba akaye emelika aka america ayokhuluma nalengane ifuna ubaba wayo

  • @stvndymarv7304
    @stvndymarv7304 3 місяці тому +2

    This man is hurting his children this a cry for help for Doja to get closer to her father daughters needs their fsthers too.

  • @C-Lyfe85
    @C-Lyfe85 3 місяці тому +1

    She needs to reach out to him. If he reaches out they're just going to say he's chasing the dollars.

  • @MentalFacility-u7o
    @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому +8

    Talking to an American hun, my man said 'zulus don't play'😭😂... Tribal privilage not found, this is not a taxi rank. 'ancestors will deal with you'... Superstitious ideas invalid. 😭😭

    • @chantellemodisane
      @chantellemodisane 4 місяці тому +5

      As for “this is not a taxi rank” 🤣💀😭

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому +3

      @@chantellemodisane I just couldn't resist. Lmao.

  • @Lungelo_Gasa
    @Lungelo_Gasa 4 місяці тому +10

    She just wants her Dad...

  • @Skldmejsghwjwj
    @Skldmejsghwjwj 4 місяці тому +10

    I thought he was alledgely married to the mother and left them where he did when he came to South aaah and then never went back? Am I mistaken?😮

    • @cebile1493
      @cebile1493 4 місяці тому +5

      Yes Doja on an interview said her mom and him were married and they lived in another country here in Africa.....Doja's father left them in that country for an acting gig and that was the last time she saw his dad....thats why when they laugh at her they say his dad went to the store to buy milk and never came back....Doja then said shortly after the mom and her plus her sibling went back to her mom's home country and when they got there in the beginning the three of them were struggling, her mom had jobs but the money she earned was a hand to mouth kinda situation they also relied on donations from church cause her mom is Jewish....both of these were from a podcast and a magazine interview she had a few years back...I knew her dad was from SA but I never knew the actual actor after a clip of her and Whoopi Goldberg

    • @cebile1493
      @cebile1493 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes Doja on an interview said her mom and him were married and they lived in another country here in Africa.....Doja's father left them in that country for an acting gig and that was the last time she saw his dad....thats why when they laugh at her they say his dad went to the store to buy milk and never came back....Doja then said shortly after the mom and her plus her sibling went back to her mom's home country and when they got there in the beginning the three of them were struggling, her mom had jobs but the money she earned was a hand to mouth kinda situation they also relied on donations from church cause her mom is Jewish....both of these were from a podcast and a magazine interview she had a few years back...I knew her dad was from SA but I never knew the actual actor after a clip of her and Whoopi Goldberg

  • @skhumbuzomdlalose6349
    @skhumbuzomdlalose6349 3 місяці тому

    Crazy how people are taking sides like they are a part of that family. We don't know what happened. People should mind their own business.

  • @siyandabolo3435
    @siyandabolo3435 3 місяці тому +1

    I don't blame her I mean I doubt he would have been after her claiming her if she wasn't a big celebrity trying to keep himself relevant I think I last watched him on Yizo Yizo when I was a kid I don't see him anymore I even forgot he existed until news his Doja Cats Dad WHAT A GOOD WAY TO MAKE A COMEBACK!

  • @sthembisomabaso4321
    @sthembisomabaso4321 3 місяці тому +2

    She will miss this chance one day

  • @zero_zerozero_onepercent
    @zero_zerozero_onepercent 3 місяці тому +1

    Mind readers. I got you. And this time I'm sober. So fuck wit me again. I dare you.

  • @maikanyemphelo6006
    @maikanyemphelo6006 3 місяці тому

    Women always block their kids from meeting the father,evil
    I don't blame him

  • @kimkaytsulo703
    @kimkaytsulo703 4 місяці тому +4

    you know she can drag her father for as long as she likes but she will come back home she's using Dlamini as a surname Yakes......................................................................................................... feel sorry her, her should've given the child her maiden surname not a dead beat fathers name in the first place cause she wouldn't be cursing like this.

    • @kimkaytsulo703
      @kimkaytsulo703 4 місяці тому

      and she will need ama Siko she will come back one day

    • @mbulelondaba814
      @mbulelondaba814 4 місяці тому +5

      The parents were married that's why doja and the brother use the Dlamini surname .

  • @kram9076
    @kram9076 4 місяці тому +8

    What if he wanted mother to abort 😮? She should just live her life. He clearly wants nothing to do with her.

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +6

      I don't think he wanted her mother to abort her, because not only did he give her a Zulu name, he already had a son with her mother, who is her older brother.
      I think she's just desperate for his attention, considering how her father is famous here in SA, but never for once bothered about her.

    • @cebile1493
      @cebile1493 4 місяці тому +9

      I also doubt he wanted her aborted that man claimed Doja alot more then Doja claimed him especially at the peek of her sucess with music he'd randomly send congratulations and happy birthdays unprovoked 😅😅😅 I think Mr Dlamini is those kind of fathers that come after a braai is prepared he don't want the part of buying ingredients then preparing salads, pap, marinating and the fire for braai

    • @kram9076
      @kram9076 4 місяці тому +1

      @mphosa995 you never know hey, most men wanted women to abort but here some people are alive. But I get it, she is trying to get attention and probably some answers. She's doing it wrong way.

    • @kram9076
      @kram9076 4 місяці тому +1

      @cebilenkabinde1493 lol. I hope he's not like that father who comes drunk as well and starts saying things like " you people killed my mother" 😅😅😅.
      Okay, jokes aside. They need each other but I hope they get to see one another. Doja should've asked Tyla to be her guide when she comes to SA. There's nothing keeping her from coming and confronting him. I think she should be an adult about it.

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +4

      @@kram9076 it's obvious she's desperate for her father's attention even though she's doing it the wrong way... She even recently released a song consisting of a Zulu chorus because she said she wanted to connect with her African heritage.

  • @cebile1493
    @cebile1493 4 місяці тому +1

    On an interview lobaba only claimed Doja and this other child he claims to live with he was like 12 or 11 when I watched that interview some years back on sabc 1 it was before lock down to be precise

  • @sylviamodise3887
    @sylviamodise3887 4 місяці тому +3

    Ok. I can hear the back and forth. The dad being a dead beat and Doja being vile. What does Doja want? Does she want him to stay away from her or does she want to have a sit down with the man? This crazy behaviour is not helping anyone. She must just decide and keep it moving.

    • @Iamlove918
      @Iamlove918 4 місяці тому

      S t f u get her name out your mouth

  • @boiy_alpha3558
    @boiy_alpha3558 3 місяці тому

    Hai their relationship is crazy... Coz ai at this moment doja cat is lost and probably coz the father was a deadbeat... But at this point there's no saving her... America has got her

  • @christopherjacksonpasaya5559
    @christopherjacksonpasaya5559 3 місяці тому

    I think Doja Cat is my daughter, should arrange DNA .

  • @theo777mthembu
    @theo777mthembu 3 місяці тому

    You know the swearing would have been prompted by the father.
    I’m sure she was minding her business as she has been for so many years than the father said or did something or he claim he did a good job raising the musical queen etc.
    But yes anger changes a person maybe that’s what led her to swear him but still we don’t know what he said to anger her and it’s not an excuse for her but if he swore her first than what was she suppose to say thank you,maybe he called her a female dog never know how it actually began

  • @officialjiggyworld3555
    @officialjiggyworld3555 3 місяці тому

    Damn all the South african men she said this behaviors typical of yall? 😢

  • @dimakatsobolibe1123
    @dimakatsobolibe1123 4 місяці тому +5

    He must do imbeleko for Doja cause wow, she's too much

    • @CelebrityVill
      @CelebrityVill 3 місяці тому

      They were already married when they gave birth to doja and her brother

    • @dimakatsobolibe1123
      @dimakatsobolibe1123 3 місяці тому

      Really, I didn't know that, thank you for the info. They need to visit each other more often, because I feel she's longing for something from the Dad.

    • @CelebrityVill
      @CelebrityVill 3 місяці тому

      @@dimakatsobolibe1123 she obviously wants him but the man has no sense bra imagine she looked for him as a teenager and he didn’t respond now that she’s successful he keeps posting her on his page instead of him to get on the flight and go make up for his mistakes he’s not putting in any effort he’s just on internet making noise. She really wants him to want to be in her life but he’s not trying. She’s feeling neglected all over 😭😭

  • @franklinmolefe5854
    @franklinmolefe5854 4 місяці тому +2

    O tshwenya ke badimo o

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @mousepad9763
    @mousepad9763 4 місяці тому

    Damn i used to think shes crazy now i feel bad for her shes just a little girl whose dad abandoned her

  • @mduduzikhumalo5363
    @mduduzikhumalo5363 3 місяці тому

    If you really want to make news & report proper verified issues, do not rely on Google, as it will mislead you. Especially coz he doesn't have 1 child, he has more than one. It's just that the media want to tell their own story, not the actual story. It would be better if you were trying to assist help both father & daughter to resolve the issue, not enjoying a relationship getting worse

  • @4den63
    @4den63 3 місяці тому

    Chester

  • @pelomk9022
    @pelomk9022 4 місяці тому

    I wonder what happened

  • @mduduzimanyatsi9311
    @mduduzimanyatsi9311 4 місяці тому +3

    Hehehe the backstory we dont know

    • @Nja6u1o
      @Nja6u1o 4 місяці тому +2

      That's also another thing hey

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 4 місяці тому +1

      They both spoke about it & they are pretty similar. She said he left for a acting gig to another country & never went back. He said he moved for a job.

  • @zarofficial9
    @zarofficial9 4 місяці тому

    Where i m from... insulting your parents is insulting God.

    • @sesethuduze6328
      @sesethuduze6328 3 місяці тому

      We done insulted god and his son already earlier this year, so what are you saying?

    • @zarofficial9
      @zarofficial9 3 місяці тому

      @@sesethuduze6328 God is big, he takes his time.... you Gon repent

  • @star_624
    @star_624 3 місяці тому +1

    Doja Cat is South African????

    • @rainh3861
      @rainh3861 Місяць тому

      Yes! Her father is a famous South African movie star and music producer. One of his famous films he has worked is "Sarafina."
      Doja's mom is White Jewish-American from New Jersey. Her mom is a film writer and an extremely great painter.
      Doja Cat grew up in Los Angeles most of her life. She was raised in a Hindu cult temple for part of her childhood. She also spent some of her childhood in New Jersey with her maternal grandmother. However, most of her roots and upbringing are centered in Los Angeles with her mom and her full-brother.

    • @rainh3861
      @rainh3861 Місяць тому

      Amala Ratna Zandile Dlamini is Doja's actual name.

  • @vuyisilezulu2590
    @vuyisilezulu2590 3 місяці тому

    Typical blackness in her yeah we all blame father's for not being there while there are orphan who don't even know their parents but they grow up just fine I'm sure her mother did a perfect job raising her but the blackness of when things go south we blame the absent parent those with both parents blame society really people we need to take responsibility of our actions by the way I grew up just fine without my father my grandparents did an excellent job

  • @mynameis2685
    @mynameis2685 4 місяці тому +5

    Clearly the mother did a bad job. Not teaching her respect. we always teach kids respect .thier dads dad beat or not. . Or older people in gen .

    • @tyali84
      @tyali84 4 місяці тому +13

      Doja is not a child anymore. She is an adult who is able to dissect and introsopect her whole childhood and realise that she had a shitty, absent father. You can tame a child and make up lies why her father is absent but the sooner that child is a grown person and sees what the real situation was/is then their reaction on how they feel about the absent father/mother cannot be blamed on the present parent.

    • @mynameis2685
      @mynameis2685 4 місяці тому +3

      @@tyali84 key word still being R.E.S.P.E.CT Regardless. You dont use such words . To an elder .you are taught somethings at an early age. Yes shes an adult. But respect. She now looking like shes the bad person in all of this.

    • @lindal3841
      @lindal3841 4 місяці тому +6

      Children are people who form their own ideas, opinions and behaviour. It's not fair to blame the parent that stayed for this messed up dynamic. Mothers cannot be continue to catch heat for men's actions. Doja is a grown woman who is accountable for her own actions

    • @faithvezi8199
      @faithvezi8199 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@mynameis2685 whatever values you are taught when you're a child, you can choose to unlearn them in your adulthood, it has has nothing to do with your parents.. This narrative of blaming parents needs to stop

    • @mynameis2685
      @mynameis2685 3 місяці тому +2

      @@faithvezi8199 point taken sweetheart 💕

  • @MfokaZinqaObala
    @MfokaZinqaObala 4 місяці тому

    I'm sure he has his reasons so until he tells about them we stand with him😌🙏

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +4

      I think he should just stay silent rather than going back and forth with a child on social media.
      He's too old for this.
      She'll eventually get tired and move on.

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому +14

      There are reasons to abandon your kids? 😳 Hebanna!

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +2

      @@MentalFacility-u7o how do you know that he abandoned his kids? Were you there when he abandoned them?
      What if Dumisani asked her mother to move to South Africa with him, but she refused and then decided to use the children to get back at him for leaving?

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 4 місяці тому +8

      @@mphosa995 brother. Dumisani said with his own mouth that when he moved to South Africa, he wanted to bring his family over, but unfortunately he failed to do so. HE FAILED! You move away from your kids for an extended period of time, and never visit and or keep in contact with them, or get them to visit you =abondenment. It's not rocket science. Don't try to be academic about this 🤦🏽‍♂️ we become part of the problem when we try to justify things like these. Now girl can't even enjoy her success/life without thinking about her dad who went to get the milk and never came back.
      I can agree with you thou, that he should not entertain a social media war with his daughter. Best thing he can do now is fly to America/contact her privately. It's long overdue.

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +2

      @@MentalFacility-u7o him admitting of how he failed shows that he's taking accountability for what he did and the least she could do is try to forgive him rather than being childish about it, and how is he stopping her from enjoying her success? I mean many American celebrities grew up with deadbeat fathers, but they're very successful and you'll never see them insulting their fathers on social media.
      Even if he flies to America, she'll still use social media to try and humiliate him because she just showed us her level of immaturity, she'll probably take videos of herself insulting him in his presence and post them online... Apparently she also doesn't have a good relationship with her brother whom she grew up with.
      I think Dumisani should just stay where he is because that girl is damaged beyond repair.

  • @KhumbulaniFakude-rd2nw
    @KhumbulaniFakude-rd2nw 3 місяці тому

    fanele azokwenzelwa umsebenzi lona

  • @mphosa995
    @mphosa995 4 місяці тому +7

    I don't know why she's making a big deal out of this because she's not the first American to be raised with a deadbeat dad.
    She should be thankful that she still made it in life even with his absence and move on, if she wants nothing to do with her father.
    Dumisani never came out to the public in the first place to announce that he has a famous American daughter, it was Doja who did it and started dragging him.
    She's not even his only child and he can easily forget about her and focus on his South African children.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 4 місяці тому +10

      You are misinformed. He claimed her the minute she reached success. Even did interviews in S.A about her. That is when she asked him to keep her name out of his mouth. Just because bad things happen to others it does not take away your hurt. Or his responsibility as a father.

    • @mphosa995
      @mphosa995 4 місяці тому

      @@beewest5704 from what I know, he only started talking about her after she announced that her father was Dumisani during an interview with whoopie Goldberg and talked about how she never met him before.
      That's when he started doing interviews about her.

    • @NanoB1802
      @NanoB1802 3 місяці тому

      YOOR😂, UR MENTALLITY IS MESSED UP. I hope u don't have kids, I don't mean to be mean.