@@heiseili9279 I had a c section as well. Looking at myself in the mirror afterwards in the hospital was one of my most traumatizing memories in my life.
Rachel is a freaking icon. Producer, Miss Vermont, cancer survivor, IUI twins mum. She has beauty, she has brains, she has wit, she's resilient as hell. She's so inspiring
@@MelanieFortin85 sometimes people stay together solely for the sake of their children especially if they are extremely young. Seeing their parents separate at a young age could cause unwanted and unforeseen consequences for the children. Now, none of us know the exact details as to why/how they're together but there's absolutely no denying Ned fumbled big time, and he should be ashamed.
Moments like this make me realise how ridiculous I sound when I mock my features. I see so many aspects of myself in these women, so why are they beautiful to me and not myself?? The brain can be very cruel >>
i wish their was a little less *being fat is my worst nightmare* but i appreciate them reaching in the right direction… this is a little tough to watch for bigger girls
@@QueenofWheels glad you've had an easier time than most, but don't invalidate other women's experiences. As a black woman, I've had just as much struggle being a woman as being black.
I really appreciate Rachel being honest about her discomfort with her photos. I struggle with the same thing and I think it's important to normalize the idea that everyone's relationship with their body is in a different place.
💯 it kills me when other people don't see how beautiful they are but I also totally get it on a personal level. It's hard to see oneself with out noticing all the "flaws" but I really hope Rachel one day is able recognize her own beauty
Yeah I agree. Because tons of us know now that beauty isn’t cookie-cutter, but just like you shouldn’t have to self-deprecate for others you also shouldn’t have to cheerlead just to make the room more comfortable if you don’t feel like it. Sometimes I feel like if I don’t hype myself up I’m guilty of messing up.
My family took a family photo at the end of our vacation last summer and posted on Facebook the one photo I asked them not to post. When I mentioned that I didn't mind them posting a group photo, I just didn't want them to post that one, they were not understanding even a little bit, and made it seem like I was being ridiculous about it when I had every right to make the reasonable request to post another picture. I wish the people closest to us would be understanding when we feel insecure about something. It would make living with insecurities a lot less stressful, and I would do the same for them.
Switching OB’s for her second pregnancy was probably the best decision she could’ve made. Babies make bodies bigger, it’s completely normal and healthy. I’m grateful to have a supportive OB for my first pregnancy.
I thought the point the doctor was making was that the baby would potentially have to be a c-section if it got too big bc shes tiny and her husband is giant so its likely
@@eloisebaker9544 you wouldn't be able to stunt a baby's growth though. If baby is going to be big they're going to be big, and it's very rare for a woman's body to grow a child that she is unable to birth vaginally (although with tearing)
@@michelacambareri6119 also depends if it's the head itself that's large, if they have a hand up by their face when they're coming out, or if the weight is more evenly distributed through the body
It's so hard to get past watching Ariel talk about what she has been insecure about and see how Ned deliberately chose to be with someone who hasn't been through pregnancy, and is a lot younger. It's heartbreaking.
I love how real this was. This didn’t make all their insecurities go away, but they took a bold step out of their comfort zone and that’s so fucking brave. Women supporting women is my favorite thing.
Hate that phrase…. it implies that normally we don’t support each other, and that it’s common for women to be petty bitches who tear each other down. That’s just not the truth.
Allison is focused on the parts of her body she doesn’t like, while we’re all focused on how stunning her face is. She should go in to modeling. Everyone looked great in the final photoshoot shots.
The fact Ned was cheating this whole time and Alex was there watching this and listening to Ariel’s insecurities. This makes me sick. Ariel deserves better. And Ariel’s insecurities are just proof how Ned isn’t doing his job as a “loving husband” he portrays to be.
Seriously heartbreaking. It just speaks to the kind of person they really are. Ned's out and one can only hope the other does the right thing and sees themselves out of the business.
That is the thing. Alex was there seeing, listening, literally feeling all of the atmosphere, the tension what this episode done to the girls. And she was there, she was the producer, probably she helped cutting it, editing it, everything. Disgusting.
I agree with everything but the last sentence. I have dysphoria and body dysmorphia and although my partner can make me feel sexy when I'm with them, the moment I look in the mirror again it's all wiped away. Your partner is NOT responsible for curing your insecurities! Expecting them to be is actually incredibly toxic. While they can be there for you and be your rock when you need them to be, sometimes professional help is required in order to get rid of deep rooted insecurities.
Dear Rachel, Eugene chose that photo for you not because he's extra, but because he had extreme confidence in you to know that you would KILL it. Please know that you genuinely looked so hot. How you managed that shoot AND look that hot...get it girl! PS: Everyone killed it. Did not expect anything less.😘😘😘
Can we talk about how people praised Rachel for being able to “bounce back” even though in reality she couldn’t eat or drink due to illness? We never know what people are truly going through and this is an example on how we should think twice about what we comment on
I had emergency surgery a week after birth and lost a ton of blood. I looked really skinny for being a week post partum and people kept commenting on it. It really sucked.
Totally agree!! Whenever I comment on a photo of someone, I always try to say things like you look so happy or so healthy. I never want to be the person that triggers or reinforces body dysmorphia.
i feel that comment head on ...when my mom's cancer hit her again, the first thing that was a visible symptom was her weight loss. but, most people just kept saying she looked prettier...like she was blooming. getting thinner is not always the same as getting healthier.
Yep! I had terrible health issues that caused drastic weight loss and people complementing me for it made me so uncomfortable and actually angry. It was like they were glad I was sick because it made me more appealing or something?
those make up artists weren't lying, Allison could totally be a model. literally breathtaking. when they were having her laugh during the shoot? angel on earth, holy crap.
She absolutely should like actually legitimately, not only is she incredibly beautiful and sexy, she also is fantastic at the actual art of modeling, she would be an excellent model of she's ever interested in doing it. But she's also just a hot human being, so she could just be that and not a model if she wants. 💕
Can we replace Ned for Ariel? She is so supportive, so funny, so likeable that I just want to have her around more and would not be mad if they decide to keep Ariel in the try guy channel.
I think it’s also important to note that Billie is most certainly wearing a corset. Rachel, please don’t compare yourself to that photo! You look really magical and don’t need to compare yourself to something in achievable.
Celebrities get trained on how to pose, both for photoshoots and red carpets. They also wear HD make up and are photoshopped by multiple artists. The women in these shoots only got brief tips from an Instagram model. The lighting is not always very good. It's not realistic to compare them because they don't have access to the same quality of training or tech. It's really not good to compare oneself to a celebrity.
Also, Billie did not create 2 beautiful twins! Rachel was on point when she realized that society encourages erasing the evidence of creating a new human rather than celebrating it.
Not to mention that Billie was a 19 year old teenager in that photo! Barely anyone has the same body they had at 19, baby or no baby! I know I sure don’t!
When Rachel said “I am very aware that my kids are the oldest but I am not the skinniest” and I saw how sad she felt during the shoot, I cried. I have never had a baby, but I have never felt so seen. Rachel, I just want to give you a hug. You are incredible. You are the hype woman for all of the other moms, you are so supportive and kind. You are a freakin cancer survivor! You are a mom to twins! You are crushing it as a producer! You deserve all the good things. It is so sad as woman that we have all been fed this lie that the most important thing about ourselves is our appearance. You are beautiful inside and out. I know it is so so hard to believe and feel, but just try and remind yourself everyday and I will try and do the same. Sending love and good vibes 💕
as a HUGE fan of Rachel I FELT this comment, I felt it deep down. everything you said is correct. RACHEL ANN COLE IS A BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, SMART WARRIOR AND EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW!
Cheating is never about the person getting cheated on and everything to do with the shortcomings of the cheater. It still sucks though when it happens to you.
Hearing Rachel's "maybe some are passable" about her pictures and going to Allison saying "I think they looked better than the models" We really are our own worst critics. Everyone looked so amazing
Agreed, and for her being apart of this, despite her emotional conflict? It’s heartbreaking! She’s so critical of herself, and the fact that she cried over the photos, it’s just so heartbreaking. She does so much, and it’s so sad that she’s so critical of herself.
I wish Rachel felt better about her photos, but also the fact that she’s insecure about her body doesn’t diminish her value as a person. It’s beautiful and heartbreaking to see her reaction, and I’m sure a lot of women will relate and feel validated, even if we wish all we had more of an Ariel reaction
I was sobbing when Rachel was talking about how she didn't like how she looked. I kept thinking, how can someone so beautiful not like how she looks!? Augh! I love how transparent this video was! And all the ladies looked amazing👏
Yes, she looked great! One day they'll all be sat around drinking mocktails at a fancy retreat for seniors and will look back and she will see it then! (Hopefully sooner, come on, girl!)
Is she the plus sized woman with dark hair? I can't believe how stunning she is!!! I'm a size 2, and would trade bodies with her in a heartbeat if I could look like her. Her proportions are perfect, her face is captivating, and even her personality is sexy.
this photo shoot seems like a nightmare scenario, especially for the women who aren’t as skinny. i think we forget that body positivity can be exhausting, and it’s really hard to put your body out there as something beautiful when you don’t think it is. i’m really proud of everyone who did this and i recognize how hard this shit is
“Body positive can be exhausting” god this is so true, especially for people who are larger. It’s so hard to even just be neutral about your bodies sometimes.
genuinely I have so much respect for them and it‘s actually made me think- maybe I should do that too. Maybe I should hold my own lil photoshoots recreating these magazine covers. Because in their own way they all looked INCREDIBLE and seeing these results is amazing
YES! I’m glad this video exists but the whole idea of “recreating” photos is setting this up for failure. Cuz the women are just going to be comparing their bodies to the original. The only woman who loved it was the one who was recreating a pregnancy shoot :(
Yeah, I really wish the body positivity movement included a little more of a "it's okay to not think you're pretty, you're a lot more than your appearance". As someone who has lived with mental health issues for most of my life, sometimes having people trying to convince me that I'm physically beautiful hurts, because that's not how I feel and that's not what I want to focus on. Whenever I have body image issues I focus on the other qualities I've got bc fuck pretty, I don't need to pressure myself into thinking I'm pretty when I'm so much more than that. Body positivity to me has been about recognizing my body as the structure that holds my actual being, and as long as it allows me to be me than it's a good body, even if I don't think it's a pretty one.
this comment!!! you’re absolutely right, it’s incredibly draining to constantly be convincing yourself of something you don’t inherently believe, even if it’s for the sake of something good in the long run. I don’t at all doubt that this was an overwhelming experience.
Rachel's reaction to her photo at the end made me cry. As a 21 year old, I still have such an incredibly difficult time looking at photos of myself, despite how young I am. I was really awed by what Rachel said about other's liking the photos but not her, and it just hit me so hard that I couldn't help crying, seeing how someone was able to put into words how I feel. I hope some day I'm able to get over that dread.
I can promise you that you will find a way to either cope or overcome that dread. For me, I learned how to cope. I'm 38yo now and still struggle with Body Dysmorphic Disorder. My whole life I've hated every single picture I've ever seen of myself and I despise mirrors. But being as old as I am now, I can look back at pictures of myself at your age and see them rationally, if that makes sense. It's like at the time, I was so busy picking my flaws apart I wasn't seeing the whole picture. I still hate having my picture taken and it takes me at least 100 selfies to pick 1 I'm generally ok with, but still don't like. But I promise you, there will come a time in your life when you'll be able to look back at your old pictures objectively and see them, and yourself, for what they really were. I know when I'm older I'll look back at pictures of myself at my current age and wish I looked like this. It can be a neverending struggle but I hope this brings you some peace. 💖
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You are beautiful and dont do this to yourself! I was the same, didnt like any picture of myself in my early 20s. Now I looove every old photo of myself and feel sad that I felt that way.
Rachel's part about us being our own worst critic made me cry so much, cus I felt what she feels at that moment. To anyone reading, you are loved and we are proud of you.
Same I know I am a heavier guy but I have accepted that. It is also strange that now that I’m in my 20s I get compliments even as a heavier person by people from both sides (I’m bisexual). And right now I’m mainly trying to loose weight for my health rather than worrying about how I look. But of course like anyone in my private quiet moments I feel worried about my appearance. But I try to remember that I will always be my own worst critic.
If Ned and Ariel stay together or not I hope the other 3 guys and their partners manage to stay friends with Ariel. It would just break my heart to think she would lose any friends over this. ❤ she seems like such a wonderful person.
@@eve9306 People do drop friends that stay with cheaters. Which makes it harder for the person to leave the cheater later on. They will feel isolated and even more dependent on the cheating partner. It's a vicious circle. So I really hope they don't drop Ariel. She needs ALL the support.
I don't think they'll stop being friends her. I think it'll be a case of them being there for her regardless of what she chooses BUT if she stays with Ned, it'll be friendships at a distance which is still something but sad. I don't see any way for them to remain this close if she stays with Ned.
i hate hearing rachel talk about herself like that. she’s literally so beautiful and it makes me wish she saw what we see in her on the outside and inside
Seriously 😢 they all look amazing! But her picture was one of my favorites a REAL beautiful bodies and such a strong flawless face. We as women are way too hard on ourselves with the standards of the world
I’m sorry but she is tryin too hard to be a victim…her photo wasn’t even bad, legit just an average looking photo Her starting base is not bad, she could legit work out for a few months, 15-20 mins a day at home and get a body she’s more comfortable with Enough talking, crying Rachel and feeling bad about yourself and get to work on your body
@@ivanichianus bruh it's like you didn't even watch the video??? Have some empathy for 1. Women and the incredibly high standards of beauty placed on them and 2. The struggles of Mothers and parenthood
I've always liked Ariel, but as she's starred in more videos and taken more of a central role in the Try Team, I've also come to really respect and admire her. She's so positive, confident, and just grabs life with both hands. Just listening to her talk makes me happy.
I love Ariel! I feel like she's that person who is just such a great friend. Like she's that shoulder to cry on but she'll also make you laugh and smile.
As a fellow Jo, I love Joey! 😍😂❤️ Her sense of humor is everything. She also has the traits other Jo’s and Joey’s have: Jo March and JK Rowling are also incredibly funny and they don’t fit the mold of the stereotypical feminine female. We Jo’s have “guy” humor and are one of the guys. I think she had the best cover out of everyone. 😍
I own the same bathing suit Allison was wearing. The one with the deep V. I literally have kept it in the drawer never to see the light of day. BUT after seeing Allison in it and ABSOLUTLY KILL her shoot, she has given me the confidence to put that swim suit on and feel good. Allison you are awesome and thank you for giving me confidence through your stunning body!!!!
@@vaamikasharma Yeah, I like that the guys are kept away from these shoots and it's just women praising and supporting women. ...that said, given how head-over-heels Ned is for Ariel I really do want to see his reactions - I'm pretty sure both photoshoots basically broke his brain.
I wish they had shown Allison a sports illustrated cover with Hunter McGrady or Ashley Graham. As a plus size woman, I would have liked to see a magazine cover with my body type represented. She’s beautiful and I felt for her when she said she cried as the others went first.
To Rachel: if you’re seeing this, you need to see how you’d look if you became your own biggest fan, instead of your worst critic. If you go in with a positive mindset, then it’s all about how you angle your body. In this particular case, Billie was leaning slightly forward with her left foot slightly in front of her right foot. Her positioning creates an hourglass figure due to the body positioning and the angle of the camera. You look amazing in the picture you took, but I think the reason you don’t like it might be that you went in with your self-criticism in the forefront of your mind instead of the positives or having fun. Ps you should be proud of your body, it is because of your body that your babies are here. Your body has performed miracles and created one of a kind masterpieces just for you and your family. Be proud of your body for it is the roadmap of your life. Be proud of how you look, because only you can decide how beautiful you are.
That’s what I was thinking. I think some of the photos didn’t look as good because they went into it feeling insecure and negative (which is completely valid) but it also came across through the pictures.
I think rachel looked beautiful, glowing even, in the interviews more than the pro image but I also notice rachel looked way more confident and happy in the interview clips than the final image. I honestly think it had more to do with the outfit choice rather than the way her body and face looked because she definately still has got it going on.
So proud of the women being vulnerable and taking this step. It's hard to put yourself out there, especially in a time of air brush, and super high expectations.
HELP MY!!! My muscles are too big! I am a big tall man and my muscles are even BIGGER! I use them to get views but they HURT so much!!! Because they are heavy. Do you have any advice, dear geave
allison’s experience literally made me almost tear up. being a woman in this world is so hard because we are expected to be perfect and skinny and tiny and that’s just not normal for most women.
You can be small and skinny and still be very insecure, like feeling too small in areas, such as boobs or hips. In fact typically it's seen as more attractive to have curves then be flat and/or straight up and down like a rectangle, which also feel less feminine. There's such a specific "sweet spot" for women that most of us aren't blessed enough to fall under. It feels like on either side of the scale there's so so many different ways a body can look but only very few are deemed attractive.
A few things: 1. I love Joey’s confidence, she SERVED during that shoot 2. Was anyone else reminded of Ashley Graham’s ICONIC Sports Illustrated cover by Allison’s picture 3. Rachel’s vulnerability in this video is so important Love these videos and the try moms. I think they are so important
Completely agree! She has to come back. I thought for sure she was a comedian or a writer. Also just the fact that she made it through the shoot is incredible, hyperemisis is no joke.
It's sad that our culture doesn't admire the post birth body. Women who create another human being should be given way more credit. Men have no clue what it does to a body.
everyone is talking about ariel and ned but this video is so mf cute and im SOBBING RN THESE WOMEN ARE ALL SO BEAUTIFUL IM SO SAD FOR THE ONES WHO DIDNT LIKE THEIR PICTURES BECAUSE THEY LOOKED SOOO GOOD SOMEONE PLEASE TELL THEM THEYRE BEAUTIFUL
Rachel is the greatest hype woman of all time. She is so genuine, kind, and you can feel the love radiating from her. All of the moms look amazing and I really appreciate not retouching the photos so we can see real bodies!
hearing the way Rachel critizes herself made me cry a bit, she's such a beautiful person and an amazing mom. it hurts seeing her say things about herself it really is sad, she's gorgeous and I hope she can see how gorgeous and stunning she is! It really broke my heart as someone who knows how she feels about herself, I couldn't help but cry :(
OH MY GOD, YES! All the girls looked so beautiful! And I understand completely how Rachel feels, but... There's something about her that just makes her look like a GODDAMN QUEEN! THEY ALL FEEL LIKE ROYALTY, LIKE- I DON'T DESERVE TO LOOK AT SUCH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WE DON'T DESERVE WOMEN AAAAAAAA
They need to remember that more likely then not, all of those original photos were Photoshopped and air brushed! Perceived perfection comes from within! POWER to all the MOMS out there!
Agreed! I love what Becky said in one of the YCSWU podcasts, about how she would hate if someone saw her makeup stuff on Insta and felt bad that their skin didn’t look like hers. Not only are the originals probably photoshopped, some of these folks it is literally their job to look like this!
seriously!!! Plus the fact that she broke down crying before the shoot and still managed to show up and kill it afterward!? She was so fabulous. It's so sad she struggled to bring herself to say she was beautiful at the end of the video, like she's GOR-GEOUS!!
Came back after the whole ned thing and, I just keep adding question marks to the pile. Ariel is really a mature win and he gave that and his two handsome children for a fling. Ill never understand the mind of cheaters.
It’s so telling when the women are scared to say that they like their photos. It’s ingrained in us to be afraid of liking ourselves, and are taught as girls that it is wrong.
Just agreeing to do this video is big. Huge kudos to these women for being vulnerable in such a public setting and bringing attention to an important issue - body confidence. Honestly, I'm not sure if I'd be able to do this. All of these women are beautiful and if the last photoshoot indicates anything it's that these photos will also be amazing.
This makes me want Rachel to have her own shoot. In what makes her feel the most flattered and beautiful. I love the way she looks. I want her to love it too!
I agree! She also needs a real stylist to get her clothes that fit well and professional photographer telling her how to pose. I think a one on one shoot would make her feel more comfortable and she would look more natural and love the pictures.
Or a photo shoot where those that love her the most have a photo shoot on what makes her amazing. Really they could it with all the try women and have it be a season of it.
@@pasc8699 Yeah. I really related to when she was feeling overwhelmed about how many people were giving suggestions. Suggestions that Rachel perceived as them saying she's not good enough. But still understanding that everyone truly means well.
I think Rachel was just done dirty by the thin, flimsy material of the silk bodysuit, Billie definitely had a strong corseting/bra situation that helped shape & lift everything. I think the top they used would be unflattering on most people, I'm about 110 lbs with no curves & it would look like a pink trash bag on me lol. I wish they would've gotten a higher quality top & then maybe she would've been happier with the results :( It honestly really hit home when she said "I can't tell you how many times I've cried over this photo in the last week," I also can't count how many times that's been me
I think so too. Clothes shouldn't wear the person, and I think those clothes didn't "fit" her. We've seen her in many videos and in some she looks drop dead gorgeous. Especially her in green.
I think also the fact that the gloves and skirt were pink and not a skin tone latex played a factor in things, because on billie's photo that color difference really draws attention to the torso and face and breaks up the shape, whereas the all pink makes her one whole pink shape. Something I also noticed with Krisanne in the side by side comparison: she talks about feeling like she just looks straight, but if they'd used a photo of her with her hands on her hips like Kim does, that would create negative space around her body and allow her to maybe look curvier than she does with the photo they chose.
I didn’t see this until after the cheating scandal. I identify so much. I gained almost 60 lbs and I was also on bedrest postpartum. Also, like Ariel my husband cheated through my pregnancy. I hope she is getting the support she needs because it’s so unbelievably cruel to carry and birth someone’s child and have them do this. She looked so beautiful ( all of the women) it’s so hard for me to understand how someone can participate in creating life with someone and not see them as a goddess. It is something deeply wrong with men who do this.
If I would find out this I would kill the fetus I'm about to birth. I wouldn't want to carry the child of a cheater especially since I wouldn't treat it right when it becomes a baby. I could never love it.
I am so sorry for you. But also I'm not, a man like that doesn't deserve anyone, forget a wonderful woman like you who created life in their bodies. I hope you'll get the best in your life
This video absolutely encapsulates how women who we all respect are just as insecure and have the same insecurities that we do, we are not alone and just because they showcased them, do they lose our respect? No quite the opposite, and I look at all of these women with such admiration.
mom of two here: hey Try Guys, can you gift these moms a session with a mindset coach, or a day of self-care, or some kind of support to dismantle all these damaging thoughts they have about themselves? it was heartbreaking to watch some of these BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, INCREDIBLE women struggle with self-worth. they all looked phenomenal, they rocked that shit, they deserve to see themselves for how awesome they are.
Allison saying she wants her kids to see pictures of her that show them she is happy with herself after having them made me tear up. I'm a new Mom and feel the same way. I want pictures to show my life is fulfilling regardless of how my body looks.
Hey Rose a fulfilling life is all about experiencing life both its good and bad, as long as your child is fed, loved, clothed and know right from wrong just do your best and shower your kid with experiences thats all that matters. You’ll kill it as a mom.
that’s one of the hardest things of my mom passing very young. she was always insecure and never allowed photos to be taken of her, and there are very few photos of her with us kids. it makes it very hard to remember her and remember the good times we had. remember, you may not like the picture but someone will want that memory of you. 🥺😢
That last woman who went in the bathing suit - I was so worried for her when she said she broke down and how she was feeling, but as soon as the camera panned as she was posing I became FLUSTERED and said "oh wow" out loud! ABSOLUTELY stunning, I hope she (and all the the gorgeous women in this video) know how beautiful they are 💜
I wish videos like this would also discuss how society sees gaining weight as one of the worst things that can happen. I think fatphobia and the intense fear of becoming a fat person should be talked about. Because all these women seem to be afraid of being perceived as fat when being fat isn't ugly or horrific, it's just fat.
All of this and I'd generally like to see more body diversity in videos like this. I feel like the message could be more impactful if there were also fat women expressing love and positive thoughts for their bodies.
Whenever I say I'm fat, people always try to correct me by saying I'm curvy or voluptuous or something else to make it sound better but I always correct them back like "no, I'm fat, and there's nothing wrong with that". Fat is just fat, it's not a value judgment, it's just a fact, just like I'm blonde and average height.
Rachel literally made me cry because I felt like she was reading my own thoughts off of a script. I’m not a mom but that feeling of knowing that the photos aren’t going well and just not being able to love them is so real.
joey is literally my new favorite person not only is she so gorgeous, but she's hilarious and has a wonderful head on her shoulders and i would love to see more of her
Exactly what I thought! You could tell she was super nervous but she was just laughing off her nerves and having a great time. And her pregnancy body is INSANE, like wow, she looks to die for!
As someone who’s had horrible body insecurities for pretty much all of my 18 years of life, seeing all of these moms be so honest and open about their insecurities is really healing for my inner child
When this video initially came out I overlooked it for not being the audience for this particular video (im a 28yr old male) but upon watching, this is one of my favorite videos on the channel! I learned so much from this video on what women go through. Thank you for making this video
Definitely! Plus size modelling is definitely becoming the next big thing (no pun intended lol) and she would be crazy not to go for it! She’s so beautiful, and she would be signed up in a second! I’m a lot bigger than she is, and I would love to have her body. And I know there are women both my size and women who are much smaller, who would love to look like her (or any of the other women in the video today!) there’s literally at least several thousand people who’d love to look like each one. Can you imagine having that many people who’d like to look like you?! It’d be amazing!
I want a friend like Joey.. she looks like she’d be a blast to hang out with Also I love how everyone was boosting the moral in the shoot, it’s so healthy and I’d love to see more of it in the real world ❤️ We should all be more comfortable in our own skin. Beauty fades but good hearts prevail
This is special. As a 17 year old female who already very self conscious, this really made me cry seeing these woman be vulnerable and still be happy. I hope one day I'll have the courage to be like them
Oh stop. I'm 29 now and I have been there... I've done a lot of therapy and it helps. My current boyfriend loves my tummy which is not my favourite part of me so it's nice that he likes it. Makes me care less. And I know external validation isn't what we're supposed to want or need but it does help.
the courage comes from YOU! you are getting up every day and your body is doing so much for you. not every day is gonna be great but as a 22 y/o, it gets easier when you decide it does. much love to you!!
This made me sob. Every single one of these women is gorgeous; no exceptions. That's not a hype up, that's how I genuinely feel. And the _pain_ that everyone is carrying is an artificial burden created by misogyny. It's not their fault they feel this way, but we shouldn't be living this way. I want a series where women are tricked into seeing a photo of themselves with someone else's head expertly photoshopped in, so they get that honest "oh she looks _great_!" thought before the reveal that it's her own body
Allison has amazing facial expression, very photogenic. She definitely should considering modeling. And damn! Everyone looks so frikin' good! Also, I feel everyone looked their best in the last photo, where they were actually comfortably being themselves :)
@@TheIncredible_Panda2214 I'm glad you have a great relationship with her. My mother and I are the same. She did everything a mom should do and love her so much 💜 I want to treat her right until the day I can't anymore
The moment she said "we gave birth to babies, so why do we try to erase that?", I cried. Its so true. I was so young when I had a baby. I went from a size 1 to a size 7. I had a baby pouch through out my whole 20s while other girls were skinny with tight bodies and no stretch marks. I am now entering my 30s and I'm finally starting to accept my body. Thank you ladies for these videos. They truly help.
Two of the original models were clearly wearing corsets; comparing a corsetted woman to an uncorsetted woman isn't really fair, but the try moms all looked amazing in the end photos
Rachel is breaking my heart. She's SO supportive and hypes up the other women, but when it's her turn she's super critical of herself. I completely understand that and I wish she could feel as cool as she looks in her photo.
"I made a couple of humans, why do I wish that I looked like I had not" Rachel I love you :'(((((
THIS QUOTE! I LOVE IT!
Teared up at that when she said it
i started crying at this
I had my son at 22. Emergency csection and my stomach hangs.. it's so.. upsetting to me..
@@heiseili9279 I had a c section as well. Looking at myself in the mirror afterwards in the hospital was one of my most traumatizing memories in my life.
Rachel is a freaking icon. Producer, Miss Vermont, cancer survivor, IUI twins mum. She has beauty, she has brains, she has wit, she's resilient as hell. She's so inspiring
Facts
Right?! She's a huge hero of mine!
This had me tearing up 🥺 she’s amazing and so beautiful!
She was Miss Vermont?! I never knew that!!
IUI* but she's an infertility mom yes
NED FUMBLED THE BAG BRUHH ARIEL IS SO BEAUTIFUL :( she didn’t deserve it
He didn't fumble anything she's still with him lol
@@MelanieFortin85 he fumbled.
@@MelanieFortin85 sometimes people stay together solely for the sake of their children especially if they are extremely young. Seeing their parents separate at a young age could cause unwanted and unforeseen consequences for the children. Now, none of us know the exact details as to why/how they're together but there's absolutely no denying Ned fumbled big time, and he should be ashamed.
@Cali Smith it still stands she’s still with him for the kids lol
@@AllieBee00 it must be incredibly hard though
Seeing these women makes me realize insecurities are completely in our heads. Because, without a shred of a lie, these women are so beautiful.
Exactly! There isn't a single one in the group that I think is any less than stunning!!!!!
Moments like this make me realise how ridiculous I sound when I mock my features. I see so many aspects of myself in these women, so why are they beautiful to me and not myself?? The brain can be very cruel >>
@@user-jb1mb5xh9t Right?!
@@sofiaa.6550 Yes!!
It also created by person around you ,which is sad
In the words of Keith: “Being woman hard.” But sometimes, especially when you’re surrounded by other great women, it can be cool.
being woman hard. being woman with women? FUN
@Highway Unicorn Same :) but woman supporting woman is the best feeling ever
i wish their was a little less *being fat is my worst nightmare* but i appreciate them reaching in the right direction… this is a little tough to watch for bigger girls
I am a woman. It is not as hard as women make it out to be. I have family and friends who are black males that is hard being a woman is just a gender.
@@QueenofWheels glad you've had an easier time than most, but don't invalidate other women's experiences. As a black woman, I've had just as much struggle being a woman as being black.
I really appreciate Rachel being honest about her discomfort with her photos. I struggle with the same thing and I think it's important to normalize the idea that everyone's relationship with their body is in a different place.
Agreed! From one Rhiannon to another 🙂
💯 it kills me when other people don't see how beautiful they are but I also totally get it on a personal level. It's hard to see oneself with out noticing all the "flaws" but I really hope Rachel one day is able recognize her own beauty
@@rhiannonbeccachickensen6999 that's such a crazy coincidence that you both have the same name
Yeah I agree. Because tons of us know now that beauty isn’t cookie-cutter, but just like you shouldn’t have to self-deprecate for others you also shouldn’t have to cheerlead just to make the room more comfortable if you don’t feel like it. Sometimes I feel like if I don’t hype myself up I’m guilty of messing up.
My family took a family photo at the end of our vacation last summer and posted on Facebook the one photo I asked them not to post. When I mentioned that I didn't mind them posting a group photo, I just didn't want them to post that one, they were not understanding even a little bit, and made it seem like I was being ridiculous about it when I had every right to make the reasonable request to post another picture. I wish the people closest to us would be understanding when we feel insecure about something. It would make living with insecurities a lot less stressful, and I would do the same for them.
Switching OB’s for her second pregnancy was probably the best decision she could’ve made. Babies make bodies bigger, it’s completely normal and healthy. I’m grateful to have a supportive OB for my first pregnancy.
Right? What an OFFENSIVE doctor
I thought the point the doctor was making was that the baby would potentially have to be a c-section if it got too big bc shes tiny and her husband is giant so its likely
@@eloisebaker9544 that's somewhat of a myth. Trust me, knowledge and ignorance around childbirth is a business.
@@eloisebaker9544 you wouldn't be able to stunt a baby's growth though. If baby is going to be big they're going to be big, and it's very rare for a woman's body to grow a child that she is unable to birth vaginally (although with tearing)
@@michelacambareri6119 also depends if it's the head itself that's large, if they have a hand up by their face when they're coming out, or if the weight is more evenly distributed through the body
It's so hard to get past watching Ariel talk about what she has been insecure about and see how Ned deliberately chose to be with someone who hasn't been through pregnancy, and is a lot younger. It's heartbreaking.
Can we make this a series? Women lifting up women, reminding women that even where their body changes they are beautiful.
yes!! and even beyond that i think it really helps everyone watching feel okay about their bodies when other women are honest about theirs
I totally agree, woman lifting up woman.
YESSSSSS
PLEASE
Yes! Need
I love how real this was. This didn’t make all their insecurities go away, but they took a bold step out of their comfort zone and that’s so fucking brave. Women supporting women is my favorite thing.
ALL of this.
Yes!
Hate that phrase…. it implies that normally we don’t support each other, and that it’s common for women to be petty bitches who tear each other down. That’s just not the truth.
@@hiilikespicynoodles5873 d
@@EC-yw5hg some women are brainwashed by the patriarchy to believe that other women are their competition 😓 so sadly, it does happen
Allison is focused on the parts of her body she doesn’t like, while we’re all focused on how stunning her face is. She should go in to modeling. Everyone looked great in the final photoshoot shots.
And her body looks amazing too. she knows how to wear herself.
I agree. She's naturally beautiful. I can sometimes see Selena Gomez on her. I wish I had a face like hers.
@@payengx sameeee
She looks like Miranda Kerr ❤️❤️..no kidding..got the face of a VS model. 👍
@@payengx I agree she looks similar to Selena Gomez, she would be a great model. ^^
The fact Ned was cheating this whole time and Alex was there watching this and listening to Ariel’s insecurities. This makes me sick. Ariel deserves better.
And Ariel’s insecurities are just proof how Ned isn’t doing his job as a “loving husband” he portrays to be.
Seriously heartbreaking. It just speaks to the kind of person they really are. Ned's out and one can only hope the other does the right thing and sees themselves out of the business.
That is the thing. Alex was there seeing, listening, literally feeling all of the atmosphere, the tension what this episode done to the girls. And she was there, she was the producer, probably she helped cutting it, editing it, everything. Disgusting.
Agree 100%
@@vivienm2037 The thing she did on one of the Food Baby episodes where she makes a joke of Ned's 'hot wife' made me throw up in my mouth.
I agree with everything but the last sentence. I have dysphoria and body dysmorphia and although my partner can make me feel sexy when I'm with them, the moment I look in the mirror again it's all wiped away. Your partner is NOT responsible for curing your insecurities! Expecting them to be is actually incredibly toxic. While they can be there for you and be your rock when you need them to be, sometimes professional help is required in order to get rid of deep rooted insecurities.
Dear Rachel,
Eugene chose that photo for you not because he's extra, but because he had extreme confidence in you to know that you would KILL it.
Please know that you genuinely looked so hot.
How you managed that shoot AND look that hot...get it girl!
PS: Everyone killed it. Did not expect anything less.😘😘😘
This comment better be in the next read your comments video!
@@ajaesque agreed!
I hope they see this and remember it always!! They looked absolutely amazing!
100% what she said, Rachel and I being super self critical is relatable but she killed it, good choice on the photo by Eugene
And I bet that Eugene thinks the world of her, that's why he has faith that she will definitely pulls off that look. And she did!!
Can we talk about how people praised Rachel for being able to “bounce back” even though in reality she couldn’t eat or drink due to illness? We never know what people are truly going through and this is an example on how we should think twice about what we comment on
I had emergency surgery a week after birth and lost a ton of blood. I looked really skinny for being a week post partum and people kept commenting on it. It really sucked.
Totally agree!! Whenever I comment on a photo of someone, I always try to say things like you look so happy or so healthy. I never want to be the person that triggers or reinforces body dysmorphia.
Yes! Not all weight loss is good weight loss! The motive and method matters!
i feel that comment head on ...when my mom's cancer hit her again, the first thing that was a visible symptom was her weight loss. but, most people just kept saying she looked prettier...like she was blooming. getting thinner is not always the same as getting healthier.
Yep! I had terrible health issues that caused drastic weight loss and people complementing me for it made me so uncomfortable and actually angry. It was like they were glad I was sick because it made me more appealing or something?
those make up artists weren't lying, Allison could totally be a model. literally breathtaking. when they were having her laugh during the shoot? angel on earth, holy crap.
Those were my favorites she is so beautiful!
She absolutely should like actually legitimately, not only is she incredibly beautiful and sexy, she also is fantastic at the actual art of modeling, she would be an excellent model of she's ever interested in doing it. But she's also just a hot human being, so she could just be that and not a model if she wants. 💕
i was thinking that the whole time they were doing her shoot. she’s so beautiful and she was doing so great with it all!
Totally agree!! Her photos were gorgeous 😍
her smile is so beautiful
Can we replace Ned for Ariel? She is so supportive, so funny, so likeable that I just want to have her around more and would not be mad if they decide to keep Ariel in the try guy channel.
I support this.
I also support this
Down for this!
I would love this, but i don’t know if Ariel would commit that time away from the babes. Im so into this though!
I really hope we don't loose Ariel on the channel because of this bs with Ned.
I think it’s also important to note that Billie is most certainly wearing a corset. Rachel, please don’t compare yourself to that photo! You look really magical and don’t need to compare yourself to something in achievable.
Celebrities get trained on how to pose, both for photoshoots and red carpets. They also wear HD make up and are photoshopped by multiple artists.
The women in these shoots only got brief tips from an Instagram model. The lighting is not always very good. It's not realistic to compare them because they don't have access to the same quality of training or tech. It's really not good to compare oneself to a celebrity.
Also, Billie did not create 2 beautiful twins! Rachel was on point when she realized that society encourages erasing the evidence of creating a new human rather than celebrating it.
Yep!
Not to mention that Billie was a 19 year old teenager in that photo! Barely anyone has the same body they had at 19, baby or no baby! I know I sure don’t!
@@jenlc1536 Absolutely
When Rachel said “I am very aware that my kids are the oldest but I am not the skinniest” and I saw how sad she felt during the shoot, I cried. I have never had a baby, but I have never felt so seen. Rachel, I just want to give you a hug. You are incredible. You are the hype woman for all of the other moms, you are so supportive and kind. You are a freakin cancer survivor! You are a mom to twins! You are crushing it as a producer! You deserve all the good things. It is so sad as woman that we have all been fed this lie that the most important thing about ourselves is our appearance. You are beautiful inside and out. I know it is so so hard to believe and feel, but just try and remind yourself everyday and I will try and do the same. Sending love and good vibes 💕
I really hope she sees your comment. Well said.❤
Very well said, I felt exactly the same
You brought tears to my eyes. So very well said. I hope she sees it as well and it gives her a much needed boost.
I hope she sees this.... Very well said 💖🦄
as a HUGE fan of Rachel I FELT this comment, I felt it deep down. everything you said is correct. RACHEL ANN COLE IS A BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, SMART WARRIOR AND EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW!
Allison is literally one of the most stunning women I've ever seen .
she's so stunning my jaw was literally on the mf floor when she was posing
@@chickenthotpie765 I actually agree. She's gorgeous! I hope she reads this!
And her voice as well she's just so cute and gorgeous 😊
LIT-ER-AL-LY. She's so pretty.
ALL OF THEM ARE OMGGG ❤❤
Ned fucked up. How could anyone cheat on a beautiful person like Ariel.
Cheating is never about the person getting cheated on and everything to do with the shortcomings of the cheater. It still sucks though when it happens to you.
Men cheat all the time, no matter how beautiful their spouses are
Doesn’t matter if she’s beautiful or not
Guys, I'm not putting the blame on Ariel at all. Obviously Ned is a POS. I'm just saying he doesn't deserve her radiance.
yes but also he cheated with another beautiful woman. Its just not about looks.
Hearing Rachel's "maybe some are passable" about her pictures and going to Allison saying "I think they looked better than the models"
We really are our own worst critics. Everyone looked so amazing
I couldn't agree more with this
Huge shout-out to Rachel for bringing us this INCREDIBLY INSPIRING series!
Agreed, and for her being apart of this, despite her emotional conflict? It’s heartbreaking! She’s so critical of herself, and the fact that she cried over the photos, it’s just so heartbreaking. She does so much, and it’s so sad that she’s so critical of herself.
Zuperrrrr
I wish Rachel felt better about her photos, but also the fact that she’s insecure about her body doesn’t diminish her value as a person. It’s beautiful and heartbreaking to see her reaction, and I’m sure a lot of women will relate and feel validated, even if we wish all we had more of an Ariel reaction
she is woke af her twins are SOOOOOOO SO SO SO SO lucky to call that warrior their mom
I feel like she could definitely pull off a ninety's look or like a Rosie the riveter type thing
@@chickenthotpie765 bruh
Leaving it here.
ARIEL IS BEAUTIFUL AND REAL DIAMOND!
A beautiful diamond that was dropped for a plain rock. Smfh Ned, you really fucked up. Ariel has all my love and support ❤
I love how the try guys channel is branching out to different types of content. More try moms!
Yes!
YESSSSSSSS
Agreed
💯💯💯
I was sobbing when Rachel was talking about how she didn't like how she looked. I kept thinking, how can someone so beautiful not like how she looks!? Augh! I love how transparent this video was! And all the ladies looked amazing👏
Yes, she looked great! One day they'll all be sat around drinking mocktails at a fancy retreat for seniors and will look back and she will see it then! (Hopefully sooner, come on, girl!)
Allison NEEDS to model she’s literally gorgeous I see her walking a savageX runway
Is she the plus sized woman with dark hair? I can't believe how stunning she is!!! I'm a size 2, and would trade bodies with her in a heartbeat if I could look like her. Her proportions are perfect, her face is captivating, and even her personality is sexy.
@@bodyofhope yup! she was the second mom after ariel :)
THIS, absolutely.
And where is the runway for bigger men?
she’s SO pretty my god
no one has ever fumbled the bag as hard as ned did.
Deadass.
Fr
Ariel is so sweet and gorgeous. Eff Ned.
not even a fumble, a full 20 foot drop with the bag
EDIT: Spelling
this photo shoot seems like a nightmare scenario, especially for the women who aren’t as skinny. i think we forget that body positivity can be exhausting, and it’s really hard to put your body out there as something beautiful when you don’t think it is. i’m really proud of everyone who did this and i recognize how hard this shit is
“Body positive can be exhausting” god this is so true, especially for people who are larger. It’s so hard to even just be neutral about your bodies sometimes.
genuinely I have so much respect for them and it‘s actually made me think- maybe I should do that too. Maybe I should hold my own lil photoshoots recreating these magazine covers. Because in their own way they all looked INCREDIBLE and seeing these results is amazing
YES! I’m glad this video exists but the whole idea of “recreating” photos is setting this up for failure. Cuz the women are just going to be comparing their bodies to the original. The only woman who loved it was the one who was recreating a pregnancy shoot :(
Yeah, I really wish the body positivity movement included a little more of a "it's okay to not think you're pretty, you're a lot more than your appearance". As someone who has lived with mental health issues for most of my life, sometimes having people trying to convince me that I'm physically beautiful hurts, because that's not how I feel and that's not what I want to focus on. Whenever I have body image issues I focus on the other qualities I've got bc fuck pretty, I don't need to pressure myself into thinking I'm pretty when I'm so much more than that.
Body positivity to me has been about recognizing my body as the structure that holds my actual being, and as long as it allows me to be me than it's a good body, even if I don't think it's a pretty one.
this comment!!! you’re absolutely right, it’s incredibly draining to constantly be convincing yourself of something you don’t inherently believe, even if it’s for the sake of something good in the long run. I don’t at all doubt that this was an overwhelming experience.
Rachel's reaction to her photo at the end made me cry. As a 21 year old, I still have such an incredibly difficult time looking at photos of myself, despite how young I am. I was really awed by what Rachel said about other's liking the photos but not her, and it just hit me so hard that I couldn't help crying, seeing how someone was able to put into words how I feel. I hope some day I'm able to get over that dread.
You are so beautiful!
@@salifer thank you so much 🥺
Your name sounds very Balkan and all Balkan girls are beautiful 😁
I can promise you that you will find a way to either cope or overcome that dread. For me, I learned how to cope. I'm 38yo now and still struggle with Body Dysmorphic Disorder. My whole life I've hated every single picture I've ever seen of myself and I despise mirrors. But being as old as I am now, I can look back at pictures of myself at your age and see them rationally, if that makes sense. It's like at the time, I was so busy picking my flaws apart I wasn't seeing the whole picture. I still hate having my picture taken and it takes me at least 100 selfies to pick 1 I'm generally ok with, but still don't like. But I promise you, there will come a time in your life when you'll be able to look back at your old pictures objectively and see them, and yourself, for what they really were. I know when I'm older I'll look back at pictures of myself at my current age and wish I looked like this. It can be a neverending struggle but I hope this brings you some peace. 💖
You are beautiful and dont do this to yourself! I was the same, didnt like any picture of myself in my early 20s. Now I looove every old photo of myself and feel sad that I felt that way.
Rachel's part about us being our own worst critic made me cry so much, cus I felt what she feels at that moment. To anyone reading, you are loved and we are proud of you.
I know her words will resonate with so many people. A few tears also came to my eye listening to her as well as everyone else’s words.
Just seeing her being so harsh on herself, but then being so supportive for the others, was so relatable :
Same I know I am a heavier guy but I have accepted that. It is also strange that now that I’m in my 20s I get compliments even as a heavier person by people from both sides (I’m bisexual).
And right now I’m mainly trying to loose weight for my health rather than worrying about how I look. But of course like anyone in my private quiet moments I feel worried about my appearance. But I try to remember that I will always be my own worst critic.
If Ned and Ariel stay together or not I hope the other 3 guys and their partners manage to stay friends with Ariel. It would just break my heart to think she would lose any friends over this. ❤ she seems like such a wonderful person.
She’s not going to be the one losing lol. Pretty sure everyone will drop Ned and support Ariel 100%
@@eve9306 they’re saying that if she decides to stay with him she hopes no one leaves because of that
@@eve9306 People do drop friends that stay with cheaters. Which makes it harder for the person to leave the cheater later on. They will feel isolated and even more dependent on the cheating partner. It's a vicious circle. So I really hope they don't drop Ariel. She needs ALL the support.
I don't think they'll stop being friends her. I think it'll be a case of them being there for her regardless of what she chooses BUT if she stays with Ned, it'll be friendships at a distance which is still something but sad.
I don't see any way for them to remain this close if she stays with Ned.
i hate hearing rachel talk about herself like that. she’s literally so beautiful and it makes me wish she saw what we see in her on the outside and inside
Fully agree. I can't even get where people take so bad mood about themselves :(
It made me tear up :( She is such an amazingly beautiful talented woman I look up to so much.
Seriously 😢 they all look amazing! But her picture was one of my favorites a REAL beautiful bodies and such a strong flawless face. We as women are way too hard on ourselves with the standards of the world
I’m sorry but she is tryin too hard to be a victim…her photo wasn’t even bad, legit just an average looking photo
Her starting base is not bad, she could legit work out for a few months, 15-20 mins a day at home and get a body she’s more comfortable with
Enough talking, crying Rachel and feeling bad about yourself and get to work on your body
@@ivanichianus bruh it's like you didn't even watch the video??? Have some empathy for 1. Women and the incredibly high standards of beauty placed on them and 2. The struggles of Mothers and parenthood
I've always liked Ariel, but as she's starred in more videos and taken more of a central role in the Try Team, I've also come to really respect and admire her. She's so positive, confident, and just grabs life with both hands. Just listening to her talk makes me happy.
Right?? She’s always been radiant for me. I totally understand why Ned’s always crazy for her.
@@JustineAprilJ Exactly!!! I'm like, Ned, I totally get it, she is AMAZING!
@@gabrielabravo3731 Totally agree with yall. She’s amazing 😍
I love Ariel! I feel like she's that person who is just such a great friend. Like she's that shoulder to cry on but she'll also make you laugh and smile.
Joey is so fucking funny "he forgot to pull out" and "IT'S BLANK????!!!? oh"
i was rolling! 😂 she's so funny!
she was the highlight of the video for me, really hope they bring her back
Yes she is such a badass.
She was hilarious! And her face in the photo??? STUNNING
My husband said “hey I didn’t sign a release for that information” GUESS THAT WAS MY OOPS!
Joey Ng is HILARIOUS! I'm freaking dying over here lolololol. "My boyfriend said 'oops' and forgot to pullout" LOLOLOLOLOLOL!
facts
She and Ariel were my faves in video!
She was so beautiful in the final photo
As a fellow Jo, I love Joey! 😍😂❤️ Her sense of humor is everything. She also has the traits other Jo’s and Joey’s have: Jo March and JK Rowling are also incredibly funny and they don’t fit the mold of the stereotypical feminine female. We Jo’s have “guy” humor and are one of the guys. I think she had the best cover out of everyone. 😍
“It’s blank!!!”
I own the same bathing suit Allison was wearing. The one with the deep V. I literally have kept it in the drawer never to see the light of day. BUT after seeing Allison in it and ABSOLUTLY KILL her shoot, she has given me the confidence to put that swim suit on and feel good. Allison you are awesome and thank you for giving me confidence through your stunning body!!!!
That’s awesome! I’m sure you look stunning girl!💕
HELL YEAH GET IT GIRL!!!
GO SLAY THAT SWIMSUIT QUEEN. YOU'RE GONNA LOOK GORGEOUS !!!!!
YES YES YES
Where did you get the swimsuit?
As a man who doesn't have these conversations very often, this was enlightening. Thank you try moms. You're all so strong.
Wow no replies? Hi! I’m first for once
I wish Allison would see how incredible stunning she is. She has such a soft and comforting grace about her.
literally!! she’s so gorgeous!
Seriously I think she could be a model and her face is soo beautiful!
Right? And her face looks like Selena gomez. She's gorgeous.
Seriously I was so mesmerized by how photogenic she is. God she is gorgeous!
Just a reminder that Rachel was Miss Vermont and she still feels this way. Quite literally everyone is insecure.
I GUARANTEE Ariel showed Ned when she got home and he was like “wtf are you talking about?? We’re hanging this above the fireplace”
lmao that was my first thought when i saw it
He's probably not allowed at these shoots because he would actually disrupt the shoot by fanboying all over the place haha
i know people talk about relationship goals too much but ned and ariel are ACTUALLY the kind of relationship i want to have
@@vaamikasharma Yeah, I like that the guys are kept away from these shoots and it's just women praising and supporting women.
...that said, given how head-over-heels Ned is for Ariel I really do want to see his reactions - I'm pretty sure both photoshoots basically broke his brain.
No literally
This is true female positivity. Teaching girls that women aren't just magizine covers but are beautiful in every shape and size.
I wish they had shown Allison a sports illustrated cover with Hunter McGrady or Ashley Graham. As a plus size woman, I would have liked to see a magazine cover with my body type represented. She’s beautiful and I felt for her when she said she cried as the others went first.
Agreed!!!!
Agreed. Especially because Ashley Graham done a sports illustrated cover very similar to the one they picked
I totally agree with you!
I love her body type, she's so ridiculously gorgeous
To Rachel: if you’re seeing this, you need to see how you’d look if you became your own biggest fan, instead of your worst critic. If you go in with a positive mindset, then it’s all about how you angle your body. In this particular case, Billie was leaning slightly forward with her left foot slightly in front of her right foot. Her positioning creates an hourglass figure due to the body positioning and the angle of the camera. You look amazing in the picture you took, but I think the reason you don’t like it might be that you went in with your self-criticism in the forefront of your mind instead of the positives or having fun. Ps you should be proud of your body, it is because of your body that your babies are here. Your body has performed miracles and created one of a kind masterpieces just for you and your family. Be proud of your body for it is the roadmap of your life. Be proud of how you look, because only you can decide how beautiful you are.
That’s what I was thinking. I think some of the photos didn’t look as good because they went into it feeling insecure and negative (which is completely valid) but it also came across through the pictures.
I thought she looked amazing. All of them did, but we’re all human and we have insecurity’s. All these women are beautiful ❤️
I think rachel looked beautiful, glowing even, in the interviews more than the pro image but I also notice rachel looked way more confident and happy in the interview clips than the final image. I honestly think it had more to do with the outfit choice rather than the way her body and face looked because she definately still has got it going on.
Also yeah that’s easier said than done
"girl, we have a leafblower" is the funniest ducking sentence to me
They should put it on a shirt
So proud of the women being vulnerable and taking this step. It's hard to put yourself out there, especially in a time of air brush, and super high expectations.
HELP MY!!! My muscles are too big! I am a big tall man and my muscles are even BIGGER! I use them to get views but they HURT so much!!! Because they are heavy. Do you have any advice, dear geave
@@AxxLAfriku you should change your username to "pathetic boi" or something similar
allison’s experience literally made me almost tear up. being a woman in this world is so hard because we are expected to be perfect and skinny and tiny and that’s just not normal for most women.
Being skinny isn't perfect it's shit I wish I was fatter every day
This ☝🏽❤️
@@toxic_mushroomz7089 it sucks being fat. im not a girl so i can't relate so that might change things but it's not fun being fat
@@toxic_mushroomz7089 Why do you wish you were fatter?
You can be small and skinny and still be very insecure, like feeling too small in areas, such as boobs or hips. In fact typically it's seen as more attractive to have curves then be flat and/or straight up and down like a rectangle, which also feel less feminine. There's such a specific "sweet spot" for women that most of us aren't blessed enough to fall under. It feels like on either side of the scale there's so so many different ways a body can look but only very few are deemed attractive.
"He forgot to pull out" the most honest conception story ever told. I appreciate that. 🙏
A few things:
1. I love Joey’s confidence, she SERVED during that shoot
2. Was anyone else reminded of Ashley Graham’s ICONIC Sports Illustrated cover by Allison’s picture
3. Rachel’s vulnerability in this video is so important
Love these videos and the try moms. I think they are so important
I absolutely kept getting Ashley Graham vibes from Allison.
Yesss. Allison gave me crazy Ashley Graham vibes!
Thank you for the encouragement! Having confidence is something I’ve had to learn and wasn’t natural to begin with. Your support means a lot ❤️❤️❤️
I was getting the exact same vibes from Allison!! She rolled her eyes at the suggestion but she really could actually model
Joey has a hilarious and charming personality. Please bring her back she’s amazing
You’re gonna make me cry. Thank you so much!!
YES !!!
Completely agree! She has to come back. I thought for sure she was a comedian or a writer. Also just the fact that she made it through the shoot is incredible, hyperemisis is no joke.
Yes! Funny and gorgeous!
@@JoeyNoGood Joey your photo was beautiful. Like hang on a wall and display beautiful
When Rachel said "I'd rather be naked than wear clothes that are too tight" I felt that.
Me too
I’ve got some stomach and the fact that so much of women’s fashion right now is aimed at croptops pisses me off so much
That’s a huge mood.
One of the reasons I don’t wear bras
I rather be naked, so I get naked as soon as I go into my room. No tight anything here. Comfort.
Only comfort.
I'm the opposite, id rather be wearing tight clothes than be naked
It's sad that our culture doesn't admire the post birth body. Women who create another human being should be given way more credit. Men have no clue what it does to a body.
When Allison did the laughing shots she looked so much like a classic 80s supermodel she’s super gorgeous
I died laughing everytime Joey did an interview. Please bring her back at some point!
Yes, she's great!!
she was my fav part of thi video such a good addition to the try wives group
I’m deceased - thanks babe!
So much fun!
The catch a dick comment 🤣🤣
Joey is absolutely a mood and I REALLY like her.
She was so funny and just bright AF. 🌞
Really like her personality! They definitely need to feature her more!
everyone is talking about ariel and ned but this video is so mf cute and im SOBBING RN THESE WOMEN ARE ALL SO BEAUTIFUL IM SO SAD FOR THE ONES WHO DIDNT LIKE THEIR PICTURES BECAUSE THEY LOOKED SOOO GOOD SOMEONE PLEASE TELL THEM THEYRE BEAUTIFUL
Rachel is the greatest hype woman of all time. She is so genuine, kind, and you can feel the love radiating from her. All of the moms look amazing and I really appreciate not retouching the photos so we can see real bodies!
AGREE!!! TAYLOR ! SO EXCITED TO SEE YOU HERE IN THESE COMMENTS! I L O V E the try wives/moms!!
@@carolinejohnson2962 OMG hi!! Same, I'm obsessed they are best!!
All of their husbands are lucky to be married to them.
Facts
Couldn’t agree more.
@h they all have husbands
Lol it’s not luck, I’m sure both parties equally contribute their time love and support to one another, luck has nothing to do with it.
@@karrenlynne jesus christ Karen. It's a term used to compliment the women. r/whoosh
hearing the way Rachel critizes herself made me cry a bit, she's such a beautiful person and an amazing mom. it hurts seeing her say things about herself it really is sad, she's gorgeous and I hope she can see how gorgeous and stunning she is! It really broke my heart as someone who knows how she feels about herself, I couldn't help but cry :(
Allison's face reminds me of Helena Bonham Carter, it's so soft and sweet. I love how supportive and open everyone was in this.
oh my gosh i was thinking the same thing, her facial expressions are so illuminating
that's exactly what i was thinking!!! she's so gorgeous
OH MY GOD, YES! All the girls looked so beautiful! And I understand completely how Rachel feels, but... There's something about her that just makes her look like a GODDAMN QUEEN! THEY ALL FEEL LIKE ROYALTY, LIKE- I DON'T DESERVE TO LOOK AT SUCH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, WE DON'T DESERVE WOMEN
AAAAAAAA
allison is legit so photogenic, she barely had to try with the facial expressions ! she should be a model fr
She is gorgeous
They need to remember that more likely then not, all of those original photos were Photoshopped and air brushed! Perceived perfection comes from within! POWER to all the MOMS out there!
Exactly! I wrote a paper once on the “norms” women see in different cultures and what they do to obtain that. It’s so upsetting
Agreed! I love what Becky said in one of the YCSWU podcasts, about how she would hate if someone saw her makeup stuff on Insta and felt bad that their skin didn’t look like hers. Not only are the originals probably photoshopped, some of these folks it is literally their job to look like this!
Yes Brian!!! Love this
Allison seriously needs to start modeling she looked like a natural the whole shoot and every photo was absolutely incredible
seriously!!! Plus the fact that she broke down crying before the shoot and still managed to show up and kill it afterward!? She was so fabulous. It's so sad she struggled to bring herself to say she was beautiful at the end of the video, like she's GOR-GEOUS!!
right!! I think she looks just like selina gomez, so gorgeous
She is fabulous. She looks like Monica Bellucci to me ❤
I’m obsessed with how these women hype each other up. The support is incredible
they all have such distinct personalities and honestly? I'd pay for an Ocean's 8-esque movie with them. I love them so much
YES OMG 😩
omg that would be amazing
YOOOO AN OCEANS 8 WITH MOMS IS GENIUS!!
Everytime Ariel does these pictures I think of Ned screaming full of excitement THIS IS MY WIIIIIFE !!❤🔥
All nasally and everything 🤣
i can hear that in my head so clearly 😅
Welp, baby #3 on the way 🥰
I don’t blame him 😂
@@nicolehumphries1157 nasally hahahah u cracked me up!
Came back after the whole ned thing and, I just keep adding question marks to the pile. Ariel is really a mature win and he gave that and his two handsome children for a fling. Ill never understand the mind of cheaters.
It’s so telling when the women are scared to say that they like their photos. It’s ingrained in us to be afraid of liking ourselves, and are taught as girls that it is wrong.
Maybe some of them didn't like the photos? I didn't, they were noticeably unflattering.
@@junipersages You're the worst.
@UCgTzUlK6XOHgAjk_R2Z9hrw please put up your picture and let us judge you. Incel.
@@junipersages Dude tell me how do you end up as pathetic and sad as you? Please if someone has an answer i have no idea and I must know!!!
@@junipersages keep commenting on the try guys videos cause ur an old man who has nothing to do :( poor u
Honestly, I’ve realized that if Ariel was my wife I would also be talking about her all the time. What a badass.
I can see how ned became the "my wife" guy.
OMG. I was like 666. This made my day.
ned dont deserve her
Boy I have news for you
Just agreeing to do this video is big. Huge kudos to these women for being vulnerable in such a public setting and bringing attention to an important issue - body confidence. Honestly, I'm not sure if I'd be able to do this. All of these women are beautiful and if the last photoshoot indicates anything it's that these photos will also be amazing.
Wow and to think Ned and Alex were definitely already hooking up at this point… so gross
this hurt my heart so much
Ariel just looks like she's a natural. She is everything I want to be in a wife/mother
right? she's the best one imo
This makes me want Rachel to have her own shoot. In what makes her feel the most flattered and beautiful. I love the way she looks. I want her to love it too!
I agree! She also needs a real stylist to get her clothes that fit well and professional photographer telling her how to pose. I think a one on one shoot would make her feel more comfortable and she would look more natural and love the pictures.
Or a photo shoot where those that love her the most have a photo shoot on what makes her amazing. Really they could it with all the try women and have it be a season of it.
Yes yes yes!! But also for Allison!
@@pasc8699 Yeah. I really related to when she was feeling overwhelmed about how many people were giving suggestions. Suggestions that Rachel perceived as them saying she's not good enough. But still understanding that everyone truly means well.
Yes!
I think Rachel was just done dirty by the thin, flimsy material of the silk bodysuit, Billie definitely had a strong corseting/bra situation that helped shape & lift everything. I think the top they used would be unflattering on most people, I'm about 110 lbs with no curves & it would look like a pink trash bag on me lol. I wish they would've gotten a higher quality top & then maybe she would've been happier with the results :( It honestly really hit home when she said "I can't tell you how many times I've cried over this photo in the last week," I also can't count how many times that's been me
I agree! The outfit needed better structure and the skirt needed to be a stronger latex
Fr they could’ve gotten her a better outfit
I think so too. Clothes shouldn't wear the person, and I think those clothes didn't "fit" her. We've seen her in many videos and in some she looks drop dead gorgeous. Especially her in green.
I think also the fact that the gloves and skirt were pink and not a skin tone latex played a factor in things, because on billie's photo that color difference really draws attention to the torso and face and breaks up the shape, whereas the all pink makes her one whole pink shape. Something I also noticed with Krisanne in the side by side comparison: she talks about feeling like she just looks straight, but if they'd used a photo of her with her hands on her hips like Kim does, that would create negative space around her body and allow her to maybe look curvier than she does with the photo they chose.
Even done right, not all looks flatter everyone equally, it was just an unfortunate choice, which sucks. Cause she really does look great
I didn’t see this until after the cheating scandal. I identify so much. I gained almost 60 lbs and I was also on bedrest postpartum. Also, like Ariel my husband cheated through my pregnancy.
I hope she is getting the support she needs because it’s so unbelievably cruel to carry and birth someone’s child and have them do this. She looked so beautiful ( all of the women) it’s so hard for me to understand how someone can participate in creating life with someone and not see them as a goddess. It is something deeply wrong with men who do this.
If I would find out this I would kill the fetus I'm about to birth. I wouldn't want to carry the child of a cheater especially since I wouldn't treat it right when it becomes a baby. I could never love it.
Your husband doesn't know how to appreciate.
@@Orangecatenergy sucks to learn that the hard way 🖤
I am so sorry for you. But also I'm not, a man like that doesn't deserve anyone, forget a wonderful woman like you who created life in their bodies. I hope you'll get the best in your life
This video absolutely encapsulates how women who we all respect are just as insecure and have the same insecurities that we do, we are not alone and just because they showcased them, do they lose our respect? No quite the opposite, and I look at all of these women with such admiration.
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mom of two here: hey Try Guys, can you gift these moms a session with a mindset coach, or a day of self-care, or some kind of support to dismantle all these damaging thoughts they have about themselves? it was heartbreaking to watch some of these BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, INCREDIBLE women struggle with self-worth. they all looked phenomenal, they rocked that shit, they deserve to see themselves for how awesome they are.
This deserves more upvotes!
Yes!
Allison saying she wants her kids to see pictures of her that show them she is happy with herself after having them made me tear up. I'm a new Mom and feel the same way. I want pictures to show my life is fulfilling regardless of how my body looks.
Hey Rose a fulfilling life is all about experiencing life both its good and bad, as long as your child is fed, loved, clothed and know right from wrong just do your best and shower your kid with experiences thats all that matters. You’ll kill it as a mom.
that’s one of the hardest things of my mom passing very young. she was always insecure and never allowed photos to be taken of her, and there are very few photos of her with us kids. it makes it very hard to remember her and remember the good times we had. remember, you may not like the picture but someone will want that memory of you. 🥺😢
That last woman who went in the bathing suit - I was so worried for her when she said she broke down and how she was feeling, but as soon as the camera panned as she was posing I became FLUSTERED and said "oh wow" out loud! ABSOLUTELY stunning, I hope she (and all the the gorgeous women in this video) know how beautiful they are 💜
I wish videos like this would also discuss how society sees gaining weight as one of the worst things that can happen. I think fatphobia and the intense fear of becoming a fat person should be talked about. Because all these women seem to be afraid of being perceived as fat when being fat isn't ugly or horrific, it's just fat.
Louder for the people in the back!
10000000%
All of this and I'd generally like to see more body diversity in videos like this. I feel like the message could be more impactful if there were also fat women expressing love and positive thoughts for their bodies.
Whenever I say I'm fat, people always try to correct me by saying I'm curvy or voluptuous or something else to make it sound better but I always correct them back like "no, I'm fat, and there's nothing wrong with that". Fat is just fat, it's not a value judgment, it's just a fact, just like I'm blonde and average height.
@@dutchveertje I'm like that too. I'm fat and have no issue with the term. My kids say I'm "plushie, like a teddy bear", tho 😂
Rachel literally made me cry because I felt like she was reading my own thoughts off of a script. I’m not a mom but that feeling of knowing that the photos aren’t going well and just not being able to love them is so real.
I agree omg
joey is literally my new favorite person
not only is she so gorgeous, but she's hilarious and has a wonderful head on her shoulders and i would love to see more of her
Exactly what I thought! You could tell she was super nervous but she was just laughing off her nerves and having a great time. And her pregnancy body is INSANE, like wow, she looks to die for!
exactly
As someone who’s had horrible body insecurities for pretty much all of my 18 years of life, seeing all of these moms be so honest and open about their insecurities is really healing for my inner child
When this video initially came out I overlooked it for not being the audience for this particular video (im a 28yr old male) but upon watching, this is one of my favorite videos on the channel! I learned so much from this video on what women go through. Thank you for making this video
The last mom is genuinely so so stunning and I do agree that she should most definitely look into modeling!
Definitely! Plus size modelling is definitely becoming the next big thing (no pun intended lol) and she would be crazy not to go for it! She’s so beautiful, and she would be signed up in a second!
I’m a lot bigger than she is, and I would love to have her body. And I know there are women both my size and women who are much smaller, who would love to look like her (or any of the other women in the video today!) there’s literally at least several thousand people who’d love to look like each one. Can you imagine having that many people who’d like to look like you?! It’d be amazing!
She’s so pretty, she gives me Ashley Graham vibes
I just want to give Rachel a hug. The fact that she was on the verge of tears, I feel that. Rachel, you are gorgeous, inside and out 💜
Allison should 100% model. The camera LOVES HER
I want a friend like Joey.. she looks like she’d be a blast to hang out with
Also I love how everyone was boosting the moral in the shoot, it’s so healthy and I’d love to see more of it in the real world ❤️ We should all be more comfortable in our own skin. Beauty fades but good hearts prevail
This is special. As a 17 year old female who already very self conscious, this really made me cry seeing these woman be vulnerable and still be happy. I hope one day I'll have the courage to be like them
Oh stop. I'm 29 now and I have been there... I've done a lot of therapy and it helps. My current boyfriend loves my tummy which is not my favourite part of me so it's nice that he likes it. Makes me care less. And I know external validation isn't what we're supposed to want or need but it does help.
Love yourself baby, you got this!
the courage comes from YOU! you are getting up every day and your body is doing so much for you. not every day is gonna be great but as a 22 y/o, it gets easier when you decide it does. much love to you!!
When she introduced herself, I straight up thought Rachel was going to say "I am the try guys mom"
Bruh why?
@@evasmojang cuz she's the producer (or one of them)
That would've been correct.
Rachel is my mom too and she's never even met me
This made me sob. Every single one of these women is gorgeous; no exceptions. That's not a hype up, that's how I genuinely feel. And the _pain_ that everyone is carrying is an artificial burden created by misogyny. It's not their fault they feel this way, but we shouldn't be living this way.
I want a series where women are tricked into seeing a photo of themselves with someone else's head expertly photoshopped in, so they get that honest "oh she looks _great_!" thought before the reveal that it's her own body
Allison has amazing facial expression, very photogenic. She definitely should considering modeling.
And damn! Everyone looks so frikin' good! Also, I feel everyone looked their best in the last photo, where they were actually comfortably being themselves :)
I was screaming when I saw the final products. You ladies were GORGEOUS 🔥
Being a woman is not easy, but being a mom is harder. Every single one of you ladies look beautiful. You gave life.
And being both can be a challenge. Though I am neither I can't deny that my mom influenced me and raised me far more than anyone else
@@TheIncredible_Panda2214 I'm glad you have a great relationship with her. My mother and I are the same. She did everything a mom should do and love her so much 💜 I want to treat her right until the day I can't anymore
"I made a couple of humans, why do I wish I looked like I had not?" Damn.
YES. Was looking for such a content. I never thought of it that way. Why ERASE the experience!!!!
I'm sad that Rachel didn't like her photo. This video gives such an important message. Thank you.
The moment she said "we gave birth to babies, so why do we try to erase that?", I cried. Its so true. I was so young when I had a baby. I went from a size 1 to a size 7. I had a baby pouch through out my whole 20s while other girls were skinny with tight bodies and no stretch marks. I am now entering my 30s and I'm finally starting to accept my body. Thank you ladies for these videos. They truly help.
Two of the original models were clearly wearing corsets; comparing a corsetted woman to an uncorsetted woman isn't really fair, but the try moms all looked amazing in the end photos
I love how these women are so supportive of each other, they hype each other up so much. It is so good to see
Rachel is breaking my heart. She's SO supportive and hypes up the other women, but when it's her turn she's super critical of herself. I completely understand that and I wish she could feel as cool as she looks in her photo.