This is almost assuredly the case. She thinks she has the pull of a 21 year old in her prime, when she has the pull of 43 year old washed up sponge. No man worth anything ( the kind of man she would want to be with) would touch her with a 1000-foot pole due to her undoubtedly obscenely high body count.
"$20??? BuT I pAiD $4o0 oN tHeSE ShoEs" type of energy. Some assets are depreciating, like femanine energy and fertility, and some are appreciating, like masculine energy and statis...
@@miguellopez3392 Most people would if they were actually desperate and in their mid 40's... The fact that she wouldn't hints that she's a choosey beggar.
Men usual learn quickly that the social status a woman has is a fixed marker of how expensive she is going to be to retain as a romantic partner. Expensive booth in terms of money and in terms of how your social status has to keep up for you to be attractive to her.
Also another thing that has increasingly become a thing you have to actually ask is if they want kids. More girls nowadays don't want kids and a lot of guys do because they want someone to settle down with and have a great cozy family life.
My parents are 67 and 65. They got divorced three years ago, it was my mom's idea. This year, my mom said that she was starting to feel lonely and that she might start dating again, but she really likes her 'freedom' but has had to unretire because she spends too much money. My dad has met a 61 year old whose husband died about six years ago and they hit it off and they have a great relationship. I love my mother, but she was definitely the problem and the fact that my dad bounced back and she didnt speaks volumes.
neither of my parents bounces back after their divorce, though my dad seems to be maybe sleeping around. My mom is slowly losing her mind and becoming insecure about everything. She also divorced him.
@@RusticRonnie Sounds like your and the previous posters moms had been reading feminist nonsense written more to make the authors feel better about themselves than to give good advice.
My inlaws are getting a divorce at 72 and 70. He started sleeping with someone else a year or two ago but he's being extremely weird about the whole thing. He was supposed to move out last May and...hasn't. He was supposed to take care of his soon to be ex-wife and daughter and...hasn't. Now apparently he's going to move out west and work for a friend of his but now he's being nice to her again and at this point my wife and I are just giving up on trying to figure out what is going on.
@@Homes23 Oh they do. But the window of opportunity is small. They don't need a long time to find someone and women aren't exactly going to let someone wait who they consider a catch.
@@Homes23 They do, but they're not desperate. That's the difference. You can look for opportunity, or rather you should look for it always, but never be desperate. That's the key. Shop and browse around but don't jump at any female that shows you attention.
None of the men that want to date me are 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, what's going on???? Why don't Greek Gods want 43 year old entitled women?????
Well, her 12/31/2024 post really said it all. She gave it away on the first date to a rich and hot guy, and he ghosted her. Clearly the people she wants don't want to wife her up.
Where that picture of the women with the door. She next to door and multiple hand (men) give her flowers, gift or etc... She right there next to the door crying where the men.
@@piotrpatoka6920 Because they were lied to and now feel betrayed. Hollywood made them believe that Prince Charming is going to wait for them for 20 years.
>thinks shes entitled to a 9/10+ >thinks a 5/10 average guy is a 3/10 >thinks an 8-9/10 is a 6-7/10 >doesnt understand why her selected pool of 0 men arent hitting her up over the more valuable women
A person being well educated isn't a red flag on its own, but a person stating "I am well educated." is a huge red flag for narcissism and indoctrination.
Read a poorly disguised cry for help from a Guardian (iirc) author who complained about being 50 and unable to find love. Then described her last encounter with a guy on Tinder who was 25. She french kissed him as soon as he opened her front door. He, like the other guy you mentioned, never talked to her again. These women are so broken it's sad, but the moment you talk to them you lose all pity for them.
Assuming all she says on social media is true... That one exchange tells a lot: she's career oriented, she prefered keeping her lifestyle/career over having kids (otherwise she'd have kids already), and she has high standards or expectations for men. And well, the men she consider worthwhile can _easily_ get a wife half her age who will be more than happy to raise a family for them. She's reaping what she sowed.
I think if you are in the market to date a 43yo woman you either don't want kids or already have them. Or you are 15 years younger and just want a sugar mommy.
@@Alias_Anybodyexactly, I want kids, so I’m not looking for a childless 43 year old because it’s going to A: Be harder to HAVE kids B: Any kids we DO have, have a much higher risk of birth defects
I think that's actually nonsense. If the plan is the stereotypical 60s family with 3 kids, sure, that train probably left the station 8 years ago, but if she just wants to have the "double income no kids" lifestyle with a casual BF? Or even date a divorced father? Plenty of options.
1. Women like her should brag about those things when they were in their mid 20s, not mid 40s 2. Very small percentage of men cares about their girl's education, they would date a professor or middle school dropout as long as she has some life skills, looks nice and is caring about her man, that's literally that simple
Women like her care about the socio-economic background of the men they seek, so they think that men has to have the same criteria when looking for women - not realizing that we're biologically different.
As soon as you start working with education or just hanging out with people who do, it becomes clear really f-ing fast that being "educated" usually just means "R-tard with an ego"
100% bet you she has the "if you can't handle me at my worst, you can't have me at my best" logic while looking at guys that are 9.95/10 and thinking "I can do better than that". If you spend your whole life window shopping, you can't complain at your lack of purchases...
It's more like she coulda been a 9 at 23, but now she's 43, and the rating has gone down atleast 3 point from what I gather of her posts on the musky site, while her ego hasn't. Her k/d ratio is likely higher than anyone in her target bracket is willing to ignore.
Definitely not go down by 3 points Most men want to has/have their "own" children Her age is 43, most female human can't get pregnant at that age and there is a high chance that the child will be born with some unpleasant traits too
The higher you set your standards the more comfortable you need to be with being alone. It’s fine not to compromise on what you want but don’t act like it’s everyone else’s fault you’re having difficulty finding someone, especially after that admission.
single men in their 40s: it's me, not you. single women in their 40s: yes, it's you. one of these has options like; lowering standards or self improvement. the other does not.
I'm ready to sell my well used running Shoes. They are worn out, just a bit dirty, the Soles probably need replacement, but all in all they are quite in good shape for their Age. I can giive you 10$ for that Oh Sorry Hun but I am only willing to part with them for 200$ Minimum Damn I only get offers for 10$ or less for my old Shoes, why can't I get rid of them?
A woman saying "I'm well educated and have a well paying job" is just another way of a woman saying "my priorities are in all the wrong places and I'm going to be your constant daily headache"
Whats the wrong places? This economy both genders need to be well educated and a high paying job just to not severely struggle. What we need is the severe entitlement from both genders to stop and grow empathy and compassion for all.
@@Variable-2-actual Similar to my sister. Degrees in law and architecture. High maintenance, exhausting. 3 failed marriages. Now single mum of 2 (neurotic) kids.
Whats funnier, even if this woman took a date from her 100s of DMs, the guy would most likely end up taking off as well. This woman got baggage for sure.
Me: has a house, paid for truck, good paying job with benefits, can cook/grill Unfortunately i’m also ugly, so, the 2 GF’s i’ve had is incredible enough as is
I’ve always been single and I’m almost 35. I’m not interested in kids as I’ve got too many medical issues I don’t want to pass down. I’ve got no issues dating or marrying someone her age. If we get along and like each other that’s all I need. From what she said it sounds like other guys have felt similarly but she turned them down.
It's not _literally_ about the ability (or inability) to produce offspring. It might be on a subconscious biological level but the average person isn't making a calculation about fertility.
I'm a 43 guy, and if I got 'hundreds of DMs' for people looking to date me; and I was SERIOUSLY looking to be with someone; I'd be checking out all those men/women and seeing people that had the same hobbies and interests as me(videogames, movies, learning new cooking recipes, etc); and so long as they were well-kept, not slobs and not overweight(there's a huge difference between having alittle bit of fat, and being a very unhealthy weight class); I'm damn sure I'd be able to land atleast a handful that fit into my criteria. No one is perfect; especially not me; but the reality is that being with someone else really gets you motivated to be and do better, not for yourself but for them. It's like the line from 'As Good As it Gets'; "You make me want to be a better man." When you find that right person; you WANT to be a better person for them; even if you've never done it for yourself, you care about them and what THEY think of you, and that gives you the drive and encouragement to be and do better; whether that's getting in shape, having better manners, being more active around the house, etc. I lost that person twenty years ago; and it's been a real drag to try and find the drive to do a lot of the things I used to because I know they appreciated it. That can make all the difference, having someone appreciate all the little things you do that make their life nicer. That's what I like about others, the little things they do that brighten my day; so it's only fitting that you'd do things that brighten the other person's day aswell.
@zetsumeinaito Don't worry too much about body count from the good or not in bed perspective, just the mental side. Who is in better shape down there, A girl in 1 year relationship with 1 man vs a girl that had 6 or even 12 random one nighters in 1 year is an example. 1 has had 6 to 12 hot dogs in a year and the other has had hot dogs 100 to 300 times in that year from her 1 boyfriend.
@@gamingguru2k6 Even girls I know say "Com on Lucas get that dried out leather hole" when some older women hits on me. Even they know old holes are not worth it. One thing is if it is your wife, who lived her life including her young years on your side, another thing is some random old women.
Had multiple opportunities with hundreds of possibilities and still decided 0% was worth it to not make a single sacrifice of commitment for engagement.
I like how the lady say, "I'm well educated, have a well paying job, keep myself fit, and I cook and clean." Yeah, congratulations, you're an adult and you do basic adult things. Good for you.
I'm 43 and male. While I appreciate intelligence and hope people are content with their work, the fact she thinks her education and job are things I care about first and foremost is telling.
Kids are nice but I think you should be focusing on actually creating a good relationship to begin with, you know, because that's the point of dating. All kids deserve parents but not every parent deserves a kid.
Every single woman wants the top 5% of men. I'm so glad I stopped chasing women. As a man, life becomes so much more enjoyable when you stop caring what women think.
@@prydzen You know what's not lonely? Losing half your pension to a woman who divorced you 20+ years ago. Trust me man, I know it feels lonely but it's just a lie, they won't provide you any companionship. You'll wish you were alone when they are telling you what to do, what hobbies to have, what food to eat, what movies to watch, what clothes to wear and then deny you intimacy and love making. Find peace in your solitude and enjoy your money you get to keep. You are not alone. You are free.
*I'm turning 23 soon and only had one boyfriend in my life. This year, My Best Friend and I are going to all the major near by cities to find Men to Date. WE will initiate the conversations and we will ask them out. I want a Honest Family Man, just like my own Father. Logically level-headed, selfless, driven, responsible and fully healthy* *My Father raised me to always plan and accomplish my goals. I intend to do just that.*
@@RinaRetrothat’s a good view on things , many people your age nowadays just expect things to happen without any effort , good on you for taking the initiative
She apparently just doesn't understand that she is digging through leftovers. The 45 year old great guys didn't wait around 20 years for her. They got snatched away 20 years ago by other women who didn't need a decade to realize that they are looking at a good catch. The best thing women like her can hope for are great guys who are freshly divorced due to no fault of their own. But newsflash, great guys in that age group are like an oasis in the desert. There is plenty of competition for her and the window of opportunity is not exactly huge.
43 is about 2 years before menapause and when it comes not only fertility goes to hell bit also lack of monthly bleeding couses often to get blood pressure issues and unstabile hormones make skin go lose, bones become brittle and many other issues come that couse discomfort, pain and rapid loss of beauty. Menopause is an absolute 8itch for many woman. You can literally see woman turn from sexy hourglass into rotten pear in like 5 years :/
@Variable-2-actual early symptoms of menopause start on average in mid 40s so around 45, its called perimenopause. Body STARTS to shut down. Process may last many years and the very last menstruation - THE menopause, can be at 51 (average)
Interesting how Alana thinks the woman saying she spends her time "making music half naked, and hopping on a plane and going on crazy adventures" doesn't scream sleep arounder. Regardless.... Men know.
It’s a bit late for her to begin this introspection, if that’s what she’s honestly trying to do. Seems like another classic example of trying to get the best of both worlds: reserving younger years for “fun & career” and then only when they enter the next stage of life do they want to switch tracks to “settled down with a good man & a family”, not understanding just how incompatible the two lifestyles are and that the switch is nearly impossible to successfully pull off.
It was actually pretty easy prior to social media. Just move to a different company, uni or town and not partying or sleep around this time. The past would catch up with you eventually but you'd probably have a ring if not a baby by then anyway. Might still work if she became the female equivalent of a passport bro but has the same risk of him running off as soon as he gets a green card.
I tried to explain to oldest daughter our family averages around 85 years of life. If you pursue a career at it's beginning it's a long time to spend alone. If you want work after family you'll have plenty of time to find it and more love than you ever imagined.
She is a gambling addict, as many Women tend to be these days, she gambled away her worth in the hopes of getting a Chad or Tyrone as a jackpot when she could have cashed out with any great prize, now those other prizes have either been snatched up or moved onto a VIP area that she can’t afford entry to.
Inna taje a wild guess at to why amongst HUNDREDS, not a single one she would date. She wants someone richer and more powerful than her, doesn't she? Those kinds of dudes are dating some 20 somethings, not a girl boss like her lmao
@@zetsumeinaito she can be a nurse or something and in Europe. in surgical at least, they earn about 4-5k euro a month and it's considered a high paying low brain usage job with high respect. There are lots of women who post stuff like you just wrote here
@@OcelotSF I just quoted the lady from her actual post. So she's either lying about the high paying job, or she has such expensive tastes that she needs 'sponsors'.
Ah yes, the "when I was young I needed no men, I partied, told all guys off, said how women need no men and that men are good for nothing, friendzoned and sent packing any and every man but now when I am old and ready to settle no men want me, why!?". Simple, "lady". You didn't want men in your prime, men don't want you in your decline.
If a starving fisherman gets hundreds of fish caught in his net but throws them all back because they don’t catch the fish they want then their empty belly is their fault.
Having an education, a job and being able to cook and clean is not as much of a flex as she probably thinks it is. Congrats lady, you're a functioning adult, now acquire some interesting character traits.
I feel like finding a BF her age or older (who doesn't want children I assume) shouldn't be too hard if her expectations are somewhat realistic and she's actually fun to be around. Men get seperated or divorced at any age. If she just wants to do the tango she can probably find some younger "hagmaxxer" too.
A bit of reading her public tweets and I can say she's been around the block enough to give it up on the first date. Meanin any top choice guys are just gunna see her as a 403.
So she's not the youngest, though at least seems to still look well enough. She also at least implies, that she has rather high standards. Not counting in possible personality problems. So there are already numerous factors that limit her success automatically, as they do for everyone. And then instead of maybe finding someone in the real world, that supposedly still exists, she goes online, whines about it, shoots down the guys in the hundreds, and then still can't fathom why it might be this way? Not to mention, after being obviously incapable or unwilling to pursue a (long term?) relationship for a QUATER OF A CENTURY?????? Am I the only one who is seeing a pattern there?
Guys be like: I just want a girl who is sweet and caring, isn't emotionally manipulative and abusive, makes me feel loved. (good looks qualities - optional) Girls be like: I just want a man that makes me laugh and is charming!!.... (also has to be 6ft+, making 6 figures, owns a house or has the ability to buy own, etc.) And girls like her will wonder why they are forever single. It's not that you can't find a boyfriend, it's that you think you deserve a 9 or a 10 guy when you are (let's be honest with ourselves) a 4-8 who should date someone on your level across the board OR improve yourself to be worth the 9/10 or 10/10 guy's time. There's a reason why those guys "hit it and quit it" because they're not dumb and they can tell you aren't putting in enough effort and aren't wife material (which is what a lot of guys date for).
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So it's not because she's 43.
It's because she's 43 with delusions of grandeur.
Honestly, the problem with those men is probably that they are 40 and not 25
This is almost assuredly the case. She thinks she has the pull of a 21 year old in her prime, when she has the pull of 43 year old washed up sponge. No man worth anything ( the kind of man she would want to be with) would touch her with a 1000-foot pole due to her undoubtedly obscenely high body count.
Based profile pic, btw
@@theshizl4400 I remember that one now...
It's great!
gujira pfp, uber based
also heihachi reference? based off the charts
"no one i would date" - that is someone who no longer has the market value she thinks she has.
"Beggars CAN be choosers, but they really shouldn't..."
"$20??? BuT I pAiD $4o0 oN tHeSE ShoEs" type of energy. Some assets are depreciating, like femanine energy and fertility, and some are appreciating, like masculine energy and statis...
to be fair would you date desperate people who DM you on twitter?
She NEVER had the market value she thought she had at any given point, that's why she does not have a guy.
@@miguellopez3392 Most people would if they were actually desperate and in their mid 40's... The fact that she wouldn't hints that she's a choosey beggar.
Men don't care how rich and successful you are. We care about whether or not you're a pain to deal with.
At least here we know
Yup, if a McDonald's worker is pretty enough, she can date a millionaire guy
Men usual learn quickly that the social status a woman has is a fixed marker of how expensive she is going to be to retain as a romantic partner. Expensive booth in terms of money and in terms of how your social status has to keep up for you to be attractive to her.
Not only that, desire and spirit for children remains a big factor. That being said, that goes with not being a pain.
Also another thing that has increasingly become a thing you have to actually ask is if they want kids. More girls nowadays don't want kids and a lot of guys do because they want someone to settle down with and have a great cozy family life.
My parents are 67 and 65. They got divorced three years ago, it was my mom's idea. This year, my mom said that she was starting to feel lonely and that she might start dating again, but she really likes her 'freedom' but has had to unretire because she spends too much money.
My dad has met a 61 year old whose husband died about six years ago and they hit it off and they have a great relationship. I love my mother, but she was definitely the problem and the fact that my dad bounced back and she didnt speaks volumes.
neither of my parents bounces back after their divorce, though my dad seems to be maybe sleeping around. My mom is slowly losing her mind and becoming insecure about everything. She also divorced him.
damm, sad stories you got there, rustic also :s
@@RusticRonnie Sounds like your and the previous posters moms had been reading feminist nonsense written more to make the authors feel better about themselves than to give good advice.
Sorry for both of you
My inlaws are getting a divorce at 72 and 70. He started sleeping with someone else a year or two ago but he's being extremely weird about the whole thing. He was supposed to move out last May and...hasn't. He was supposed to take care of his soon to be ex-wife and daughter and...hasn't. Now apparently he's going to move out west and work for a friend of his but now he's being nice to her again and at this point my wife and I are just giving up on trying to figure out what is going on.
If a man received 100s of offers and he took up ZERO of them...?
"I received 100s of job offers... why can't I find a job?"
hmm
Hell I'd settle for one dm!
Because the job offers aren’t real? And even if they were they wouldn’t accept you because you’re not Latino or Indian?
It's almost like those people, who do get job offers and are still unemployed, are being raises by these "women".
@@stormveil because those job offers aren’t real. It’s literally spam
Only average guys on her DMs.
But she wants top 1%.
While the top 1% don't have time to DM women like of her.
Yep, that's exactly what's happening
Top 1% don't seek
@@Homes23 Oh they do.
But the window of opportunity is small.
They don't need a long time to find someone and women aren't exactly going to let someone wait who they consider a catch.
@@Homes23 They do, but they're not desperate. That's the difference. You can look for opportunity, or rather you should look for it always, but never be desperate. That's the key. Shop and browse around but don't jump at any female that shows you attention.
@@YuYuYuna_"shop and browse" bro what they're women not a convenience store
Why can't I find a man to date?
*Recieves literally hundreds of dm's asking to date her*
I wouldn't date any of them. Why do men do this to me?
None of the men that want to date me are 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III, what's going on???? Why don't Greek Gods want 43 year old entitled women?????
She is like a homeless person digging through the leftovers of other people, annoyed that she can't find the perfect five-course meal.
Well, her 12/31/2024 post really said it all. She gave it away on the first date to a rich and hot guy, and he ghosted her. Clearly the people she wants don't want to wife her up.
Where that picture of the women with the door. She next to door and multiple hand (men) give her flowers, gift or etc...
She right there next to the door crying where the men.
the types of people who do that are probably on the creep level, but yeah I get both sides of this.
A lot of women refuse to compromise at all. What can you do? It's their choice.
Always looking for an upgrade instead of happiness.
Just go for the cat meta
Make fun of 'em.
Yeah. But if this is their choice, why they complain?
@@piotrpatoka6920 Because they were lied to and now feel betrayed.
Hollywood made them believe that Prince Charming is going to wait for them for 20 years.
Her: "I haven't eaten in days... I'll eat anything to survive."
Him: "Here's an apple."
Her: "I'm not eating that! I want something fancy."
Foood,waaater,aaatmospheeeere.
>thinks shes entitled to a 9/10+
>thinks a 5/10 average guy is a 3/10
>thinks an 8-9/10 is a 6-7/10
>doesnt understand why her selected pool of 0 men arent hitting her up over the more valuable women
“Im well educated” is a red flag for i have debt
Well educated and not saying what the education is on is a red flag for worthless schooling. Hmm, is it on or in for education....
I've never met a person who said "I'm smart/educated" and was fun to hang around with
A person being well educated isn't a red flag on its own, but a person stating "I am well educated." is a huge red flag for narcissism and indoctrination.
"I'm 43 and well educated"
Congrats you got a piece of paper 20 years ago
It's a better red flag for "I'm good at spending everyone else's money, but my own."
That’s like Walking into a all you can eat buffet and saying there’s nothing to eat.
It's thinking she's worth filet mignon when she's a tenderized chuck. It's not as bad as rabbit, but she ain't top shelf.
Worse.
Its like walking into an all you can eat buffet 6 hours late and then saying theres nothing to eat because your favourite dish is already gone.
More like she wants the 5 star fine dining, but can only afford the buffet.
Buffets are pretty disgusting though.
@ here’s someone brags about his $200 steak.
When your body count looks like the ending credits of the Avengers movies, you aint getting a 'boyfriend'
Yer gettin SEVERAL. xD
@@DictatorDoPa gets it.
*avengers theme*
@@DictatorDoPaseveral STD’s 😂
@@Erasus-Phantasia4136 Ye heard of Capt. America? Well I'm Sgt. Syphilis. I climbed into the Slump-Buster Armor to fight The Inconsolable Sulk.
Recent post from her is she dated a rich man, slept with him on the first date who ghosted her.
Gives up the goods immediately, regrets actions. Smh.
she slept with him on first date? So she didnt date him, she was just easy to get...and she thinks shes well educated, but shes most probably dumb AF
Read a poorly disguised cry for help from a Guardian (iirc) author who complained about being 50 and unable to find love. Then described her last encounter with a guy on Tinder who was 25. She french kissed him as soon as he opened her front door. He, like the other guy you mentioned, never talked to her again. These women are so broken it's sad, but the moment you talk to them you lose all pity for them.
Assuming all she says on social media is true...
That one exchange tells a lot: she's career oriented, she prefered keeping her lifestyle/career over having kids (otherwise she'd have kids already), and she has high standards or expectations for men.
And well, the men she consider worthwhile can _easily_ get a wife half her age who will be more than happy to raise a family for them.
She's reaping what she sowed.
Well, a quick look on her account shows she be a 403 and livin the sugar baby life.
I think if you are in the market to date a 43yo woman you either don't want kids or already have them. Or you are 15 years younger and just want a sugar mommy.
@@Alias_Anybody funny cause she's posted about her sugar baby life on x.
@@Alias_Anybodyexactly, I want kids, so I’m not looking for a childless 43 year old because it’s going to
A: Be harder to HAVE kids
B: Any kids we DO have, have a much higher risk of birth defects
@@AhHereWeGoso do the men 😂 so both around the same age of over 40+ will have a very high chance. Best chances is for one of them to be younger😊
Hoe_math with the hard truths as always
That's just one aspect. The other is her history of sleepin with people on first dates, and being sugar baby.
Bro doesn't sugar coat anything
I think that's actually nonsense. If the plan is the stereotypical 60s family with 3 kids, sure, that train probably left the station 8 years ago, but if she just wants to have the "double income no kids" lifestyle with a casual BF? Or even date a divorced father? Plenty of options.
@@Alias_Anybody No, she's stated she wants kids in her posts.
@@zetsumeinaito
Bio kids? If you have the cash you can easily adopt at 50. Or be a step mom.
1. Women like her should brag about those things when they were in their mid 20s, not mid 40s
2. Very small percentage of men cares about their girl's education, they would date a professor or middle school dropout as long as she has some life skills, looks nice and is caring about her man, that's literally that simple
Women like her care about the socio-economic background of the men they seek, so they think that men has to have the same criteria when looking for women - not realizing that we're biologically different.
As soon as you start working with education or just hanging out with people who do, it becomes clear really f-ing fast that being "educated" usually just means "R-tard with an ego"
100% bet you she has the "if you can't handle me at my worst, you can't have me at my best" logic while looking at guys that are 9.95/10 and thinking "I can do better than that". If you spend your whole life window shopping, you can't complain at your lack of purchases...
It's more like she coulda been a 9 at 23, but now she's 43, and the rating has gone down atleast 3 point from what I gather of her posts on the musky site, while her ego hasn't. Her k/d ratio is likely higher than anyone in her target bracket is willing to ignore.
Definitely not go down by 3 points
Most men want to has/have their "own" children
Her age is 43, most female human can't get pregnant at that age and there is a high chance that the child will be born with some unpleasant traits too
I’d be scared to fight her on a PUBG map with a ratio that high
The higher you set your standards the more comfortable you need to be with being alone.
It’s fine not to compromise on what you want but don’t act like it’s everyone else’s fault you’re having difficulty finding someone, especially after that admission.
Nice guys and entitled women finish last, actually entitled women finish never at least some "nice guys" learn and can still make a change even at 40.
single men in their 40s: it's me, not you.
single women in their 40s: yes, it's you.
one of these has options like; lowering standards or self improvement.
the other does not.
its funny, she delivered the coup de grace to herself trying to disprove someone elses finishing move.
Hara Kiri!
I'm ready to sell my well used running Shoes. They are worn out, just a bit dirty, the Soles probably need replacement, but all in all they are quite in good shape for their Age.
I can giive you 10$ for that
Oh Sorry Hun but I am only willing to part with them for 200$ Minimum
Damn I only get offers for 10$ or less for my old Shoes, why can't I get rid of them?
A woman saying "I'm well educated and have a well paying job" is just another way of a woman saying "my priorities are in all the wrong places and I'm going to be your constant daily headache"
Whats the wrong places? This economy both genders need to be well educated and a high paying job just to not severely struggle. What we need is the severe entitlement from both genders to stop and grow empathy and compassion for all.
43 is old enough to realistically have kids that are over 20.
they refuse to grow up
I am over 20 and my mom isnt that old, she is at the young grandma age
43 is when women should be grandmothers.
my Grandmother was in her 40s when I was born. Case in point.
I was about to say, "At least that means they'd be out of the house," then quickly realized my mistake.
To quote Subway Jared, the average minecraft youtuber, and pretty much every mod on reddit and discord: "too old"
she's overaged
0:10 Alana confirmed to be an actual fox in disguise after that laugh.
Ive never met a person who said "im smart/educated" and was fun to hang around with ...
You shouldn’t have to tell people you are smart, it should be obvious
My sister is book smart, excellent test taker. 3 kids out of wedlock 4 failed businesses on marriage 5.
@@Variable-2-actual Similar to my sister. Degrees in law and architecture. High maintenance, exhausting. 3 failed marriages. Now single mum of 2 (neurotic) kids.
Whats funnier, even if this woman took a date from her 100s of DMs, the guy would most likely end up taking off as well. This woman got baggage for sure.
"because you're 43 yrsold."
"No one I would date."
checks out lmao.
Nice avatar
43 and tons of bagage, that's a hard NO for most men I think 😂
"i can't find a boyfriend, why?" = "Chad won't commit to me."
Smug: I don't want marriage purposeless.
*SEND HER DIVORCE PAPERS*
Woman: "I cannot find a BF among the millions of men lining up!"
Me: getting turned down by every woman that complains about being single. 🤷
Me: has a house, paid for truck, good paying job with benefits, can cook/grill
Unfortunately i’m also ugly, so, the 2 GF’s i’ve had is incredible enough as is
@@AhHereWeGo Strippers don't care about none of that! 🤣
I’ve always been single and I’m almost 35. I’m not interested in kids as I’ve got too many medical issues I don’t want to pass down. I’ve got no issues dating or marrying someone her age. If we get along and like each other that’s all I need. From what she said it sounds like other guys have felt similarly but she turned them down.
she does want kids tho.
@@zetsumeinaito To quote a world renowned man of espionage; "Well, I want a golden toilet but we can't all get what we want, baby."
It's not _literally_ about the ability (or inability) to produce offspring. It might be on a subconscious biological level but the average person isn't making a calculation about fertility.
I'm a 43 guy, and if I got 'hundreds of DMs' for people looking to date me; and I was SERIOUSLY looking to be with someone; I'd be checking out all those men/women and seeing people that had the same hobbies and interests as me(videogames, movies, learning new cooking recipes, etc); and so long as they were well-kept, not slobs and not overweight(there's a huge difference between having alittle bit of fat, and being a very unhealthy weight class); I'm damn sure I'd be able to land atleast a handful that fit into my criteria.
No one is perfect; especially not me; but the reality is that being with someone else really gets you motivated to be and do better, not for yourself but for them. It's like the line from 'As Good As it Gets'; "You make me want to be a better man." When you find that right person; you WANT to be a better person for them; even if you've never done it for yourself, you care about them and what THEY think of you, and that gives you the drive and encouragement to be and do better; whether that's getting in shape, having better manners, being more active around the house, etc.
I lost that person twenty years ago; and it's been a real drag to try and find the drive to do a lot of the things I used to because I know they appreciated it. That can make all the difference, having someone appreciate all the little things you do that make their life nicer.
That's what I like about others, the little things they do that brighten my day; so it's only fitting that you'd do things that brighten the other person's day aswell.
Eggs cannot be fertilized, what is the point
She would have to promise easy access. She's gonna die alone.
@@gamingguru2k6 Well, her posts pretty much guarantees easy access. So much so, I wonder what the body count is.
@zetsumeinaito Don't worry too much about body count from the good or not in bed perspective, just the mental side. Who is in better shape down there, A girl in 1 year relationship with 1 man vs a girl that had 6 or even 12 random one nighters in 1 year is an example. 1 has had 6 to 12 hot dogs in a year and the other has had hot dogs 100 to 300 times in that year from her 1 boyfriend.
@@gamingguru2k6 Even girls I know say "Com on Lucas get that dried out leather hole" when some older women hits on me. Even they know old holes are not worth it. One thing is if it is your wife, who lived her life including her young years on your side, another thing is some random old women.
*there're no egg to fertilize
He cooked her so bad that he burnt down her kitchen and subsequently her house.
Had multiple opportunities with hundreds of possibilities and still decided 0% was worth it to not make a single sacrifice of commitment for engagement.
she wants top 1%, her dating value now? bottom 1%
she refuses to change her mindset so it's the single life with cats only for her.
"Why can't I get a boyfriend!"
"Hey"
"Eww, no"
Guys she said she wants marriage proposals and will absolutely read them
She also said:
Jan 26, 2023
"Being a sugar baby is hard to give up"
@@zetsumeinaito Who?
@@uHasioorr the 43 yr old lady in the vid...
Alana is a different matter.
@@zetsumeinaito oh, ok. I thought that acain joked by subverting what Alana said about not wanting marriage proposals.
@@uHasioorr You know what? He could have, and my tism misunderstood.
She's waiting for that thousand year old hot vampire billionaire to come and treat her like a queen.
She's the woman holding the door shut from that recent thread.
For the record, that's literally all single women in 2025.
>43 years old and single
>DM full of guys "she won't date"
There ya go, you do know what's the problem
I like how the lady say, "I'm well educated, have a well paying job, keep myself fit, and I cook and clean." Yeah, congratulations, you're an adult and you do basic adult things. Good for you.
Have you met adults in America?
@stab74 I have met reasonable adults in America, yes.
I'm 43 and male. While I appreciate intelligence and hope people are content with their work, the fact she thinks her education and job are things I care about first and foremost is telling.
Curiosity got me, checked her twitter... about 10 red flags on the first page.
Can you give me offspring?
No..
Bye
She wants em, but it's gunna be difficult.
@@zetsumeinaito She should change her last name to Carriage when she finally finds a partner because Miss Carriages here we come...
You wouldn't want to have them with her anyhow. Divorces are 20x harder when kids are involved.
Kids are nice but I think you should be focusing on actually creating a good relationship to begin with, you know, because that's the point of dating.
All kids deserve parents but not every parent deserves a kid.
43 is not 70, she absolutely can
2:05 You raised my hopes and dashed them quite expertly, madam. Bravo!
Yeah, stop chasing foxes and try to find 3D women m8.
@@CrimsonWar5 How about I find 3D foxes, m9?
Hundreds of dm's, none she'd date ..........that flag is crimson, avoid at all costs.
Bro turned into a tea kettle
I'd say its the right age for the pump-and-dump / play-only category
In all fairness if your 43 years old and looking for a boyfriend it's probably you've been rejecting men for twenty years.
Every single woman wants the top 5% of men. I'm so glad I stopped chasing women. As a man, life becomes so much more enjoyable when you stop caring what women think.
its lonely though.
@@prydzen You know what's not lonely? Losing half your pension to a woman who divorced you 20+ years ago.
Trust me man, I know it feels lonely but it's just a lie, they won't provide you any companionship. You'll wish you were alone when they are telling you what to do, what hobbies to have, what food to eat, what movies to watch, what clothes to wear and then deny you intimacy and love making.
Find peace in your solitude and enjoy your money you get to keep.
You are not alone. You are free.
@@shinrapresident7010 never said you should get married.
*I'm turning 23 soon and only had one boyfriend in my life. This year, My Best Friend and I are going to all the major near by cities to find Men to Date. WE will initiate the conversations and we will ask them out. I want a Honest Family Man, just like my own Father. Logically level-headed, selfless, driven, responsible and fully healthy*
*My Father raised me to always plan and accomplish my goals. I intend to do just that.*
That’s very proactive of you Rina. Lots of younger guys or even men my age ( millennials ) are very shy nowadays due to lots of social factors
@@SpartanTrigger I get it from my parents. We’re a family that gets things done and on time ☺
I'm 27, still single after my first relationship. Glad I dodged a bullet then. I'll say this, with this approach, the men will appreciate it.
@@RinaRetrothat’s a good view on things , many people your age nowadays just expect things to happen without any effort , good on you for taking the initiative
A lot of good men just won't talk to women anymore. I wish you good luck.
She apparently just doesn't understand that she is digging through leftovers. The 45 year old great guys didn't wait around 20 years for her.
They got snatched away 20 years ago by other women who didn't need a decade to realize that they are looking at a good catch.
The best thing women like her can hope for are great guys who are freshly divorced due to no fault of their own.
But newsflash, great guys in that age group are like an oasis in the desert. There is plenty of competition for her and the window of opportunity is not exactly huge.
Why do I need Commitment? Why should I bother to believe in Relationships? Especially with the DISADVANTAGES for me, yeah, I pass.
I feel kind of sad for her, she's believed a feminist lie and now she's got pickled eggs and no children
Hundreds. of DMs. I’m lucky if one of my close friends says hi and doesn’t need a favor. 👏🏻
If she still acts like that at 43, she'll probably also think like that at 80
She probably wants the kind of man who wouldn't be on social media to begin with. It's like fishing for birds.
Its very simple
She wants a man who is more successful than het but those men don't want her
No way that woman is 43 lol
"Will you be my girlfriend?"
"No. Man, why does noone want to be my boyfriend"
Average woman tbh.
She's asking this question on social media. Nuff said.
“I turn down every advance made to me. Why can’t I find a boyfriend?”
43 is about 2 years before menapause and when it comes not only fertility goes to hell bit also lack of monthly bleeding couses often to get blood pressure issues and unstabile hormones make skin go lose, bones become brittle and many other issues come that couse discomfort, pain and rapid loss of beauty.
Menopause is an absolute 8itch for many woman. You can literally see woman turn from sexy hourglass into rotten pear in like 5 years :/
7 years until menopause. Still it'd be very hard for her to have kids.
@Variable-2-actual early symptoms of menopause start on average in mid 40s so around 45, its called perimenopause. Body STARTS to shut down. Process may last many years and the very last menstruation - THE menopause, can be at 51 (average)
Interesting how Alana thinks the woman saying she spends her time "making music half naked, and hopping on a plane and going on crazy adventures" doesn't scream sleep arounder. Regardless.... Men know.
It’s a bit late for her to begin this introspection, if that’s what she’s honestly trying to do.
Seems like another classic example of trying to get the best of both worlds: reserving younger years for “fun & career” and then only when they enter the next stage of life do they want to switch tracks to “settled down with a good man & a family”, not understanding just how incompatible the two lifestyles are and that the switch is nearly impossible to successfully pull off.
It was actually pretty easy prior to social media. Just move to a different company, uni or town and not partying or sleep around this time. The past would catch up with you eventually but you'd probably have a ring if not a baby by then anyway. Might still work if she became the female equivalent of a passport bro but has the same risk of him running off as soon as he gets a green card.
0:13 holy hell alana whats that rat laugh 🐁
I tried to explain to oldest daughter our family averages around 85 years of life. If you pursue a career at it's beginning it's a long time to spend alone. If you want work after family you'll have plenty of time to find it and more love than you ever imagined.
I'm highly surprised that wasn't a stunt to advertise an onlyfans account.
The Wall remains undefeated.
Her tracking is immaculate, I'm partially deaf so I have to read lips somewhat and I can read hers.
0:13
I do believe the tea is ready, dearest. Would you like a cup?
If he says 'stfu' to one of his best friends: that's how he treats people he's not sexually attracted to.
Beggars can't be choosers darlin.
"Because you have the aura of a man, not of a wife who'll cook, love me and give me loyalty and all the support I need."
She's not complaining. She wants to brag about how many people she rejected
Remember lads, the marriage proposals go to the business email, not the DMs.
Because they are serious business
She doesn't need to worry, none of those guys are trying to date either lol.
she is in denial, the dudes dming her are her level and she refuses to settle for reality
My mom is in her mid 70’s, my Dad died almost two years ago- she’s had a new boyfriend for like six months.
She is a gambling addict, as many Women tend to be these days, she gambled away her worth in the hopes of getting a Chad or Tyrone as a jackpot when she could have cashed out with any great prize, now those other prizes have either been snatched up or moved onto a VIP area that she can’t afford entry to.
0:12 Alana temporarily becoming a kettle.
I'm a 44 year old man and I'm not whining about being single on social media
Inna taje a wild guess at to why amongst HUNDREDS, not a single one she would date. She wants someone richer and more powerful than her, doesn't she? Those kinds of dudes are dating some 20 somethings, not a girl boss like her lmao
Xintani clapping back at hoemath by proving him 100% correct is a cosmic tier self-own.
Why would it matter if you're educated with a high paying job when you're aiming for a guy who has a high paying job?
Depends on what that high payin job is. Can't be that high with tweets like this:
Jan 26, 2023
"Being a sugar baby is hard to give up"
@@zetsumeinaito she can be a nurse or something and in Europe. in surgical at least, they earn about 4-5k euro a month and it's considered a high paying low brain usage job with high respect. There are lots of women who post stuff like you just wrote here
@@OcelotSF I just quoted the lady from her actual post. So she's either lying about the high paying job, or she has such expensive tastes that she needs 'sponsors'.
@@zetsumeinaito Who knows. In 43 yo seeking sponsors is kinda lame.
Ah yes, the "when I was young I needed no men, I partied, told all guys off, said how women need no men and that men are good for nothing, friendzoned and sent packing any and every man but now when I am old and ready to settle no men want me, why!?". Simple, "lady". You didn't want men in your prime, men don't want you in your decline.
If a starving fisherman gets hundreds of fish caught in his net but throws them all back because they don’t catch the fish they want then their empty belly is their fault.
Having an education, a job and being able to cook and clean is not as much of a flex as she probably thinks it is.
Congrats lady, you're a functioning adult, now acquire some interesting character traits.
I love how she replies that without even realizing she's LITERALLY proving his point.
I feel like finding a BF her age or older (who doesn't want children I assume) shouldn't be too hard if her expectations are somewhat realistic and she's actually fun to be around. Men get seperated or divorced at any age. If she just wants to do the tango she can probably find some younger "hagmaxxer" too.
I laughed at 1:01 for a nearly 10 minutes before I managed to finish the video. 😂😂😂
The problem is men don't care how much you made or how well educated you are, if you are unpleasant to be around it does not matter
Remember people beggars can't be choosers
43 ✅
In denial ✅
Clueless ✅
Argumentative ✅
Missed her window of Opportunity ✅
Will 🪦 alone ✅
A bit of reading her public tweets and I can say she's been around the block enough to give it up on the first date. Meanin any top choice guys are just gunna see her as a 403.
So she's not the youngest, though at least seems to still look well enough. She also at least implies, that she has rather high standards. Not counting in possible personality problems.
So there are already numerous factors that limit her success automatically, as they do for everyone. And then instead of maybe finding someone in the real world, that supposedly still exists,
she goes online, whines about it, shoots down the guys in the hundreds, and then still can't fathom why it might be this way?
Not to mention, after being obviously incapable or unwilling to pursue a (long term?) relationship for a QUATER OF A CENTURY??????
Am I the only one who is seeing a pattern there?
Guys be like: I just want a girl who is sweet and caring, isn't emotionally manipulative and abusive, makes me feel loved. (good looks qualities - optional)
Girls be like: I just want a man that makes me laugh and is charming!!.... (also has to be 6ft+, making 6 figures, owns a house or has the ability to buy own, etc.)
And girls like her will wonder why they are forever single. It's not that you can't find a boyfriend, it's that you think you deserve a 9 or a 10 guy when you are (let's be honest with ourselves) a 4-8 who should date someone on your level across the board OR improve yourself to be worth the 9/10 or 10/10 guy's time. There's a reason why those guys "hit it and quit it" because they're not dumb and they can tell you aren't putting in enough effort and aren't wife material (which is what a lot of guys date for).