why i had to move back in with my mum at age 35

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  • @sergsergesrgergseg
    @sergsergesrgergseg 5 місяців тому +237

    5 years passes, still looks and acts exactly the same

    • @EvilSapphireR
      @EvilSapphireR 5 місяців тому +27

      And that's exactly why we stick around.

    • @graffitikingdom4081
      @graffitikingdom4081 5 місяців тому +16

      My bro Daniel is a regular Dorian grey😅

    • @sneedfeed3179
      @sneedfeed3179 5 місяців тому +11

      10 years 😂

    • @lalaley4562
      @lalaley4562 5 місяців тому +11

      His emotional maturity improved by 6-7% from his original 2% to currently 8-9%...at least he is not making use of women but every other sense and awareness and morality stays the same at total 9/100...

    • @blaxter101
      @blaxter101 5 місяців тому +7

      Samsung Galaxy S10+ beauty filter

  • @Archivist42
    @Archivist42 5 місяців тому +60

    If Daniel got his life together, the content would dry up. The man knows what he’s doing

  • @Michael-fw5ef
    @Michael-fw5ef 5 місяців тому +39

    My mom was murdered last year. Trust me, you are not a failure. I would give anything to be able to live with my Mother these days.
    It is stupid to move out on your own, away from your parents and wasting money paying a 2nd mortgage or a landlord's rent.

    • @JN-vz1cb
      @JN-vz1cb 5 місяців тому +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the cherished moments you shared together, and may her memory bring you peace.
      And I couldn't agree more with your opinion 😊

    • @solarsmile9990
      @solarsmile9990 5 місяців тому +6

      Murdered? That's horrifying. My mum passed away recently, too, but due to f***ing cancer. I'm also thinking that Daniel is lucky to move in and out at his mom's as he pleases.

    • @MaleOrderBride
      @MaleOrderBride 4 місяці тому +1

      Omg?!?!?!?😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @JoaoPedro-gt9qq
    @JoaoPedro-gt9qq 5 місяців тому +41

    Daniel is immune to self-responsibility. He always plays the victim, blames others or convinces himself that everyone else is as egotistical as he is. It's layers and layers of self-deception, every time life tries to bring him a truth, he covers himself with another lie.

    • @Oybpvey
      @Oybpvey 5 місяців тому

      What are his truths

    • @JoaoPedro-gt9qq
      @JoaoPedro-gt9qq 5 місяців тому +3

      @@Oybpvey His life is a barren cold wasteland. In all these years I've never seen him relate to anyone with the slightest remnant of humanity, and his lack of empathy often reaches the point of cruelty.
      A while ago he even said that he was in therapy and recognized how much his actions hurt people. But how sincere was that? All I know is that these flashes of self-awareness always give way to the habitual victim mode.

    • @Oybpvey
      @Oybpvey 5 місяців тому +1

      @@JoaoPedro-gt9qq I honestly don't even think its that. I think the only reason why he's a deadbeat is because he never went to school and majored into anything useful. Had he had at least done that, he would be x1000 more sympathetic

    • @DanielK1213th
      @DanielK1213th 4 місяці тому

      @@Oybpveyhe majored in computer science but he dropped out because it was boring.

    • @Oybpvey
      @Oybpvey 4 місяці тому

      @@DanielK1213th well that’s kind of a double fail

  • @nate9579
    @nate9579 5 місяців тому +74

    I've missed these style of videos.

  • @pey7777
    @pey7777 5 місяців тому +22

    Most people don't really have a passion for their career, they just reach a point where they have bills to pay and are forced to get a job to make an income. You're in a fortunate situation with parents that are willing to give you a place to stay as needed and there's nothing wrong with that. We all have our own individual advantages in life and need to lean into them to maximize our chances of succeeding. It's a good choice to live at home to save up money and pay off those debts. I hope by now you've felt the pain of living in debt and with constant overdrafts and never want to be in that situation again

  • @Metalixl
    @Metalixl 5 місяців тому +26

    Very few people are passionate about working in an office.

  • @mattghostly5261
    @mattghostly5261 5 місяців тому +127

    Living with your parents at 35 isn’t even that uncommon these days. A lot has changed.

    • @sneedfeed3179
      @sneedfeed3179 5 місяців тому +12

      The economy is down the shitter but the problem is this guy isn’t even trying 😂

    • @FranciscoPereira-cn6jm
      @FranciscoPereira-cn6jm 5 місяців тому +11

      @voodoorepublicltd to be honest you see a lot in Europe too any common like Portugal, Spain and Italy. This is from where I know

    • @valcrist7428
      @valcrist7428 5 місяців тому +8

      As a southeast asian, I only managed to left my parent's home at age 45. Been working since I was 21.
      And that happened when they both passed away.. Very sad, only 1 year and my mom could have seen my own place.
      I given up the fact that I will have a children because I will never retire peacefully if I did that. Just preparing for my retirement at this age and just enjoy the rest of my life alone or with a partner until my demise. Can't afford to risk and hustle too much. Peace is more important at this age.
      A lot of successful people don't have a children.. so meh. It's fine.. maybe I'm just like Keanu Reeves. LOL

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 5 місяців тому +2

      exactly

    • @yournewfarther
      @yournewfarther 4 місяці тому +2

      yeah it's getting expensive these days.

  • @lifeonamarble961
    @lifeonamarble961 5 місяців тому +12

    I know you have social anxiety but damn you're good at ranting or debating. Your delivery is on point, voice is smooth and your cadence is excellent. You are very talented at many things but don't realize it. Loving these bedroom chats my friend. Please give us some juicy relationship stuff soon, wedding stuff etc.......Oh, and I love when you pontificate on life in general.

  • @1dua238
    @1dua238 5 місяців тому +22

    Daniel, surprisingly, you're right this time

  • @GravastarGodzilla
    @GravastarGodzilla 5 місяців тому +17

    Daniel, dont let anyone say shit to you, im supporting you through your life.

  • @jabbos3004
    @jabbos3004 5 місяців тому +54

    That guy triggered our boy. F the house flipper!!!

    • @HidingInMyRoom1989
      @HidingInMyRoom1989  5 місяців тому +45

      I bet his houses suck

    • @jabbos3004
      @jabbos3004 5 місяців тому +15

      @@HidingInMyRoom1989 definitely. All house flippers ever do is slap some paint on the walls and put down cheap new flooring and call it a day.

    • @xyzmediaandentertainment8313
      @xyzmediaandentertainment8313 5 місяців тому +2

      House flippers are parasites.

    • @eddenoy321
      @eddenoy321 5 місяців тому

      @@jabbos3004 So right.

    • @unusedsub3003
      @unusedsub3003 5 місяців тому

      House flipper nonces.

  • @Harryd06
    @Harryd06 4 місяці тому +9

    5 more years and my guys 40. No secure relationship and has barley done a days worth of hardworking in his life 😂

  • @FrankMcCloud
    @FrankMcCloud 5 місяців тому +6

    Haven't watched your videos for a long time, but seems I have not missed anything. People never change.

  • @Bullebizzare
    @Bullebizzare 5 місяців тому +19

    Things change, we grow, get married, have children. But one thing never changes, and it's Daniel, the one truly constant thing in our lives.

  • @justaguyyouknow7139
    @justaguyyouknow7139 5 місяців тому +24

    Having to move back doesn't make you a loser. Being a deadbeat who refuses to get a job does. No one likes going to work. We do it because we have to

    • @papakias3922
      @papakias3922 5 місяців тому +7

      Well, he clearly doesn't have to, so that's why he is not getting a job. And there's nothing wrong with that.

    • @JakeMuller-he9qf
      @JakeMuller-he9qf 5 місяців тому

      You do it because you’re a slave

    • @eddenoy321
      @eddenoy321 5 місяців тому

      No YOU have to get a job , loser. Not Daniel.

    • @chunkymilk
      @chunkymilk 5 місяців тому +3

      if you’re smart you can figure out how to not work.

  • @ashharkausar413
    @ashharkausar413 5 місяців тому +25

    To the guy that claims to have bought a house at 19, good for you, not all of us are as blessed as you. I'm not sure if he was American.

  • @j-555
    @j-555 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm American and left home at 20. Was on my own for nearly a decade and had to come back after running out of money and options. (A few years younger than you.) Lived all over the country, worked for and with idiots who made my life hell and the work itself impossible -- at every job. Never had a good one. Everywhere I lived had too many problems and absurd costs of living. Went through so many jobs I had to eat into savings just to afford apartments. At least you have some good family to stay with. Mine sucks and is pushing me out. You also still have your youth in appearance and spirit. You didn't fail -- the world is just unlivable now. At least you tried a few different countries.

  • @potoo6122
    @potoo6122 5 місяців тому +13

    That guy is a troll. Never in my life have I ever herd of 19 year old that can buy their own house, let alone buying a mass of houses unless they have rich parents which null and voids the while thing. Unless they are in some third world country, I dont belive them.

    • @ellvtv2314
      @ellvtv2314 5 місяців тому +5

      True. How much can a 19 year old have in a downpayment at the height of the real estate bubble in 2006?

    • @potoo6122
      @potoo6122 5 місяців тому +7

      ​@@ellvtv2314well considering they would have only left school in 2006-2007 i call bullshit. Unless mummy and daddy are billionaires which doesn't count.

  • @NannoChii
    @NannoChii 5 місяців тому +5

    Everyones life moves at a different pace and we all go down a different path. It makes no sense for someone to compare their life to others or make someone feel bad about their own.

  • @davidzhang2319
    @davidzhang2319 5 місяців тому +22

    At least this guy learned japanese, i can barely get started after seeing the hiragana i have to memorize

    • @giornogiovanna3139
      @giornogiovanna3139 5 місяців тому

      Bruh hiragana took me a day to memorise. Do u have brain damage?

    • @wminerva252
      @wminerva252 5 місяців тому +4

      You'll get it, just keep going and don't worry too much about remembering everything perfectly. As long as you just continue, one day in the near future you'll realise that you've learned way more than you've realised

    • @omegashenron8
      @omegashenron8 5 місяців тому +4

      Hiragana is very easy. If you find Hiragana daunting then you might want to rethink wanting to learn Japanese.. because Katakana and Kanji is where the fun begins.

    • @ultimatelifeform882
      @ultimatelifeform882 5 місяців тому +1

      Youkoso jigoku he! 🎉

    • @turkeysgotmorecloutthanyou
      @turkeysgotmorecloutthanyou 5 місяців тому

      If this guy can do it, anyone can

  • @Sarumaru
    @Sarumaru 5 місяців тому +5

    I think you're correct about the comment likely being from someone in the U.S. and they are likely in their 30s/40s. My family has stood behind the idea that once you're 18, you're out of the house. It's this horrible sense of "tough love" but i feel like things are changing here now. I first left when I was 16 out of anxiety of having to leave at 18, failed hard and returned home after half a year. At 18, I had to be out again. It's so stupid and just made me think my parents didn't give a shit. And while I did survive, i felt like there was so much unnecessary suffering. And for what, to "build character"? Every other culture is at home until they get engaged or get married. Families are much more untited than they are here in the states. Your commenter is likely saying what they're saying out of a place of jealousy.

    • @potoo6122
      @potoo6122 4 місяці тому

      @@Sarumaru I think they are fake. No 19 had that amount of money

  • @Voodoomajestic111
    @Voodoomajestic111 5 місяців тому +5

    Heres some morale support, Dont be so hard on yourself, you travled from tailand to japan, and got youself a girlfriend. You can jus save up your money, or buy bonds of stocks again. And you walked like 7 hours each live stream, Thats A Massive Accomplishment 👏 👏 Respect 😎

  • @warsawcat2041
    @warsawcat2041 5 місяців тому +3

    Im 30 and living with my mother. I deal with depression and social anxiety and its been difficult to keep jobs. Im currently working 2 jobs.

  • @jordanjose6475
    @jordanjose6475 4 місяці тому +7

    He went from "How I retired at 27" to "Moving back with my mum" what a downward spiral lol

  • @nts_nathaniel
    @nts_nathaniel 5 місяців тому +31

    This video totaly has 2017 vibes
    We are back, baby, million views lets goo

  • @unusedsub3003
    @unusedsub3003 5 місяців тому +4

    I couldn’t agree more with you, Daniel. We seen American and we don’t want to be. America is a paper tiger. I’d much rather live anywhere in Europe or Asia than America.

  • @franzhaas5597
    @franzhaas5597 5 місяців тому +14

    As an American and a loooong time viewer. I can say Moving out of your mother's house is a big deal here. You're doing just fine Daniel.

  • @crbbaldwin
    @crbbaldwin 5 місяців тому +3

    You just be happy that you've got a nicer house to live in than most people in the world and food and that you're not homeless living in a shelter in prison you're way ahead of a lot of other people

  • @dauntae24
    @dauntae24 5 місяців тому +25

    Massive debt … he’s almost American.

    • @vx-iidu
      @vx-iidu 5 місяців тому +3

      he loves mcdonalds and burguhs too
      not fat enough to be Murrican thougheverbeit

  • @ashannonshowstargrl232
    @ashannonshowstargrl232 5 місяців тому +5

    Love the piano music with your cooking too.😊

  • @KyDarknight
    @KyDarknight 5 місяців тому +12

    Never change Daniel

  • @waifuharem4352
    @waifuharem4352 5 місяців тому +23

    Considering American housing prices, I think plenty of Americans are living with their parents or having roommates.

    • @puma21puma21
      @puma21puma21 5 місяців тому

      Now UK prices are double in price for a quater of the space.

  • @turningtree6351
    @turningtree6351 5 місяців тому +27

    In my opinion, you should have never have left your parent’s home.
    You would have saved so much money.
    What is the point in going abroad? You never leave your apartment, hotel or hostel room anyway.

    • @syrax2424
      @syrax2424 5 місяців тому +15

      For the pursuit of CEREAL 🥣 with cute Japanese 🍑

    • @HidingInMyRoom1989
      @HidingInMyRoom1989  5 місяців тому +39

      i had SEX

    • @turningtree6351
      @turningtree6351 5 місяців тому +19

      @@HidingInMyRoom1989 Well, if some mediocre Asian 🐱 was worth it to you then you do you.

    • @TB-us7el
      @TB-us7el 5 місяців тому +8

      @@turningtree6351 beggars can't be choosers

    • @davidzhang2319
      @davidzhang2319 5 місяців тому +3

      Sex is better when the women actually likes you, but if there is no sexual attraction how good can the sex be?

  • @PepGuard-tp4ny
    @PepGuard-tp4ny 5 місяців тому +33

    You can still marry Sunny and support her by working at the petrol station.

    • @LukoBala
      @LukoBala 5 місяців тому +4

      who is sunny

    • @drlawrencemayo
      @drlawrencemayo 5 місяців тому

      with rise in feminism women don;t need men anymore a female neurosurgeon does not need a man

    • @NamelessAmerican
      @NamelessAmerican 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@LukoBalahis mom

  • @pabloyagani
    @pabloyagani 5 місяців тому +11

    Loving the rant !!

  • @happysunshinemedia7092
    @happysunshinemedia7092 5 місяців тому +3

    yep definitely missed these videos. Been a couple months since i visited your page, but had the urge again. maybe to cleanse my mind and reach my zen place again haha. But in reality life is more about experiences rather than accumulation. im broke now, but mostly due to covid, but before that i had the time of my life and traveled all over the world. less than 1% of the human population in history will ever experience something like that

  • @ehrenschopenhauer
    @ehrenschopenhauer 5 місяців тому +9

    In Spanish culture you're not ALLOWED to move out of your parent's house until you're married. It's a Catholic thing to stop kids from having premarital sex. Even if you are married, if the house is big enough then you and your wife can stay. Multigenerational houses were the norm in most cultures throughout time.

    • @MrAelin
      @MrAelin 5 місяців тому

      I am from Spain and you just made that up lmao cringe

    • @ehrenschopenhauer
      @ehrenschopenhauer 5 місяців тому

      @@MrAelin i don't mean just Spain, but Latin America in general. Maybe things aren't done that way anymore, but it was definitely the case in the 1950s, and still with some families today.

  • @tigerlee9613
    @tigerlee9613 5 місяців тому +3

    Life is fleeting, all that money you accumulate is gone when you are dead. Daniel isn't stealing, killing anyone or doing anything illegal. Leave the dude alone. Don't compare yourself to others. Each of us are just trying to get by and live the life we want to live, whether we are rich or poor. The dude has enough money to travel and has support from his parents. No one should judge him. Keep doing your UA-cam videos Daniel.

  • @yuki2413
    @yuki2413 5 місяців тому +4

    Nothing wrong with living with your parents even in your 40s.
    You will inherit that house in the end.

  • @HazyDaze.
    @HazyDaze. 5 місяців тому +7

    You don’t need to diss America just because of one viewer’s comments. I think you have many American viewers who are nice to you and don’t give you grief and who support you.

  • @TB-us7el
    @TB-us7el 5 місяців тому +7

    Americans, more than anyone else online, just *have* to be right. This guy was a prime example. Instead of accepting there is more than one view on something, he has to impose his opinion on everyone else. It is tiresome and a 'tell me you are American, without telling me you are American' move.
    If this is not you, it's just like Jesse Lee Peterson says 'not all, not all...but most!'

    • @MikeHunt20
      @MikeHunt20 5 місяців тому

      Oh Dear, Not Jesse Lee Peterson 🤔🤔

  • @xweetokfairy
    @xweetokfairy 5 місяців тому +7

    Yassssss Daniel! Big up with the short form content

  • @christianpatton9364
    @christianpatton9364 5 місяців тому +1

    You mentioned once having been into warhammer 40k in the past , seemed like a happy memory. There are quite a few successful 40k channels on UA-cam , perhaps you should try making a Warhammer 40k channel.

  • @ellvtv2314
    @ellvtv2314 5 місяців тому +6

    Danny Boy, don't take Big Wonka too seriously. He obviously has some survivorship bias, as many of millenials your age are struggling.

  • @HeadHunter-Six
    @HeadHunter-Six 4 місяці тому +1

    Stumbled upon this channel......three vids in and I feel depressed. Moving on....

  • @zetamafia911
    @zetamafia911 5 місяців тому +7

    Daniel’s never met an actual selfless person and it shows.
    *edit: there’s nothing wrong with living with your mum if you’re saving money for the future and have a plan. I’m American and many these days live with their parents due to increases in COL

  • @kriss506
    @kriss506 5 місяців тому +1

    There's nothing wrong with living with family, I'm sure they're so happy to see you again after your long trips overseas. And it makes perfect sense. I think it's great. Families should stay together. Thanks for all the videos which are always interesting. Enjoy your time back in England.

  • @sharsasuke01
    @sharsasuke01 4 місяці тому +1

    Why is he unintentionally hilarious. I read the title and and thumbnail and couldn't stop laughing. Gotta love Daniel.

  • @MissJennyGuitar
    @MissJennyGuitar 2 місяці тому

    Don't take it personally Daniel, no matter how successful you are, or how much you have dedicated yourself to a skill, there will always be people who want to put you down. Skill or no skill, success or no success, the same type of person will try to degrade you to make themselves feel better, the problem is with them. Be a good person , that's all that matters.

  • @jad1079
    @jad1079 5 місяців тому +4

    Video went off the rails near the end, with Daniel attacking the US military (?) and saying that US elections aren't free and fair.

  • @JN-vz1cb
    @JN-vz1cb 5 місяців тому +6

    Like you said, life is short. So stay in your lane and ignore the haters. Have a wonderful time with your family! 😊

  • @atuljoshi1990
    @atuljoshi1990 4 місяці тому +1

    “I need to be very financially responsible” = live off Mom (who may have her own financial burdens). How about going back, getting a degree, get a good paying job, still live with Mom and share in the financial burdens with her (that would be financial responsibility).

    • @HidingInMyRoom1989
      @HidingInMyRoom1989  4 місяці тому

      If everyone on UA-cam gave me $1 I’d be a millionaire.

    • @sailingadventurer
      @sailingadventurer 4 місяці тому

      ​@@HidingInMyRoom1989 that's a running away from responsibility mentality. No wonder u hate Elden ring and Formsoftware games 😂😂😂😂😂 typical L s 😂😂😂😂

  • @silkycherry
    @silkycherry 5 місяців тому +2

    On this topic Daniel I agree with you. Its a American thing and some British too. But it's normal to live with your parents in any other culture especially Asian until any age. As long a s you contribute what you can. All those that think its not normal are the losers and most of the time they are jealous.

  • @rabbiswhy
    @rabbiswhy 5 місяців тому +5

    Daniel lightly reads the USA.

  • @themoodydistrict1697
    @themoodydistrict1697 5 місяців тому +5

    You have a drivers license. You could make videos while on the move doing Amazon deliveries. Not great, but it’s something and you can do your own times of work ??

    • @jfluffydog2110
      @jfluffydog2110 4 місяці тому

      Does he actually have a licence ? They're kinda hard to get in the UK, or at least more effort than I think Daniel would go through

    • @themoodydistrict1697
      @themoodydistrict1697 4 місяці тому

      @@jfluffydog2110 I think if he actually had one. We would have seen it happen by now

  • @Francis_UD
    @Francis_UD 5 місяців тому +1

    Man life is hellish since 2020 I understand your pain. 😢😢

  • @chelllezz
    @chelllezz 4 місяці тому +3

    Being a covert narrcissist and crying woe is me isn't going to get you anywhere....

  • @Anonymous6046
    @Anonymous6046 5 місяців тому

    I agree with you Daniel. If you had a mortgage you wouldn't be able to long term travel, especially as a single person as the UK is extremely expensive. Having a mortgage also locks you down to one location. This video reminds me of your old ones. More like this please 😊

  • @MaleOrderBride
    @MaleOrderBride 4 місяці тому

    I hope this doesnt offend Daniel: but he makes me so happy because i sometimes feel like my own life is a mess...but then i come to his Channel and see that another guy my age is struggling with the same stuff of not knowing what to do with my life as a 35-yr-old single male!
    I think Daniel's purpose in life is to make other people appreciate how good we actually have it compared to him 😊

  • @adjovie
    @adjovie 19 днів тому

    Daniel, where have you been (on my YT recommends) all this time 🤭 bruh, I love the sense of humor ❤

  • @emerald2356
    @emerald2356 3 місяці тому

    The US is a pretty large country full of different people, cuture and belief system's. As far as our government, no comment. Not all work places allow overtime. Pay compensation does not equal to price inflation. A lot of people here are struggling financially. All I can say is I'm greatful for my mom.

  • @nuralhelaly
    @nuralhelaly 5 місяців тому +1

    You ate Danny boy 😂😂 I’m from Yemen and when you mentioned the ragtag i fell to the floor 🤣🤣🤣

  • @QueenOfKronstad
    @QueenOfKronstad 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for that epic rant Daniel. I knew you had it in you.

  • @grundlebutter5624
    @grundlebutter5624 Місяць тому

    These comedy videos have real legs. Like hilariousness abound. You are saving a ton of blowfish bro.... HaaaaaSooooo

  • @ashannonshowstargrl232
    @ashannonshowstargrl232 5 місяців тому +3

    Have a nice day Daniel!😊😉

  • @cfewLW74
    @cfewLW74 5 місяців тому +5

    You'll save a lot of money doing so, my dude. Speaking of experience #fellowNEET 😅

  • @adamrook2790
    @adamrook2790 5 місяців тому +4

    How has this guy learned nothing at 35?!

  • @ashannonshowstargrl232
    @ashannonshowstargrl232 5 місяців тому +3

    Sounds good the foods you are cooking!😋

  • @DeepWater-rm8vo
    @DeepWater-rm8vo 5 місяців тому +9

    So is it over with your Thai gf?

  • @avatarion
    @avatarion 5 місяців тому +1

    Buy a few tickets of EuroMillions every now and then. Nothing too crazy. Winning the lottery would be the ultimate revenge against haters.

  • @Badbooo123
    @Badbooo123 4 місяці тому

    The americaa talk is actually very well-said n very real good job Danial

  • @PawanGaur-r8d
    @PawanGaur-r8d 4 місяці тому

    @10:32 as an Indian i can confirm that. It is considered normal here. Infact if someone is living away from their parents then people think there's something wrong within the family. Or people look down upon the adults who don't live with their parents and the thinking behind this is that like the parents took care of u till u got on ur feet now it's ur responsibiliy to look after them when they are old and weak. Here people don't just drop their parents at an old age home or something. This is the reason why Indian community thrives wherever they go in the world coz if u see economically also it's a pretty good idea. There's a reason why Indian-Americans are the highest income group in America. There average income exceed many times than even the white people. But these capitalists promote individuals to live away from their parents coz in this way u can consume more compared to living with the family. U will have to get ur own fridge, washing machine, microwave and other kitchen equipments etc. That's why the people of west are programmed in that way that look down upon people living with their parents. It's not like they live off of their parents money. They also earn a lot and still live with their parents just to take care of them. In India Family is considered everything.

  • @sahara6197
    @sahara6197 5 місяців тому

    I agree with Daniel about what he said about us Americans. So many of them would not be in debt if they stayed at home and save.

  • @barendgaming2847
    @barendgaming2847 4 місяці тому +1

    5 years later nothing changed amazing

  • @frankfang2146
    @frankfang2146 5 місяців тому +2

    He is really good at debating. Isn't he?

    • @unkopower7899
      @unkopower7899 5 місяців тому +2

      it's not debating because there's no there to give the counter point to point out all the flaws in his logic. Ranting IS what it is.

  • @cyanrazorCel
    @cyanrazorCel 5 місяців тому +1

    People who tell other people how to live their lives don't understand that not all of us have had it so easy.

  • @helloneighbor7169
    @helloneighbor7169 3 місяці тому

    It happens dude, just use this opportunity to help your mom out around the house and take a bit of care for her.

  • @joshualegault1095
    @joshualegault1095 3 місяці тому

    You don't need to be passionate about what you do for a living to be passionate about what you do for a living. The way you view things you aren't interested in reminds me of a teenager. It's like this every time I check back in of this channel. I don't know what I'm really expecting though.

  • @user4923
    @user4923 5 місяців тому

    Great video Daniel! Thank you from a guy in the USA. And nice knife!

  • @SparkyMagoo
    @SparkyMagoo 5 місяців тому +1

    Don't let them trigger you. There's nothing wrong with living with your mum. I went through the whole alpha male.needing my own place thing, then I realised that all was doing was paying off someone else's mortgage. I'm moving back with the parents.next week.and gonna buy their house for them 😂
    I find that the people that have the biggest issue with this is the people that are jealous. They don't have that option, parents kicked them out at 18 and they were on their own, probably because they were a prick to begin with.
    Definitely American, we don't call it carpentry here

    • @Suedeash
      @Suedeash 5 місяців тому

      A lot of people also move out for opportunities though. A year or two ago, I actually would have agreed with everything you said, but I'm from a part of the UK which is pretty dead if you're not a student and I'm just so sick of seeing the same people with their small town mindset. Yes rent in the big city fucking sucks but I've been able to explore things and meet people I never would have, start dating, expanding my network etc.
      So I think it's simply pros and cons. Had I chosen to be a doctor or engineer, I would have probably been good to stay at home and then just keep on living there, but for a lot of us we want to see other parts of the world and different ways of life.
      I'm really grateful to my parents for never kicking me out, and in fact even now they're more than happy for me to live with them. We're not all that privileged, so I think for people with parents as a safety net it might actually make more sense to get out there and do 'exciting' things, like perhaps long-term travelling, working abroad or living in a large city.

  • @dillonhatfield7724
    @dillonhatfield7724 5 місяців тому +2

    I stumbled across your Elden Ring review before this and to sum it up, you said "I died a lot not because I'm bad, but because the game is bad. So I quit. 4.2/10, don't buy." Giving up before even trying seems to be a theme in your life. You missed out on one of the best games of all time and now youre missing out on a life of your own.

  • @HelenKistler-hi5we
    @HelenKistler-hi5we 4 місяці тому

    Build your culture with friends who share your same values.

  • @anadragos8340
    @anadragos8340 5 місяців тому

    Honestly, you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone on how you’re living you’re life. They were looking for this reaction and you gave them that satisfaction. Who cares about what people think or their comments. F-em! Lol Keep living you’re own life!

  • @captinhindsight7345
    @captinhindsight7345 4 місяці тому

    Daniel you went off bro!! 😂

  • @Okahui
    @Okahui 5 місяців тому +9

    excuses excuses excuses

  • @Burksthewolverine
    @Burksthewolverine 5 місяців тому +1

    I live in the USA and you are so right about USA losing every war since world war 2. 😂

  • @australianpainter42069
    @australianpainter42069 5 місяців тому +1

    You're real af for dissing america 🤣 unexpectedly based

  • @bigbadwulf5785
    @bigbadwulf5785 5 місяців тому +7

    People who talk sht about guys who live with their parents are just seething because they are rent slaves.

  • @LukoBala
    @LukoBala 5 місяців тому

    I agree with you except when you say "if you disagree and want to prove me wrong send me a donation. I gain money, you gain nothing". If a person does that they will do it because they want to feel good by proving you wrong. So they totally gain something from it!

  • @Unknown-gv7wz
    @Unknown-gv7wz 3 місяці тому +1

    Thought he was early twenties

  • @ronnychristenjoyer6778
    @ronnychristenjoyer6778 4 місяці тому +1

    Saying there are no selfless deeds is such a sociopathic thing to say.

    • @HidingInMyRoom1989
      @HidingInMyRoom1989  4 місяці тому

      give me one example of a selfless deed then

    • @ronnychristenjoyer6778
      @ronnychristenjoyer6778 4 місяці тому

      @@HidingInMyRoom1989 giving a homeless person food. You lose money just so a stranger can eat. That's pretty selfless.

    • @AL-ve3ym
      @AL-ve3ym 3 місяці тому

      ​@ronnychristenjoyer6778 When you help other people, it activates the reward center in your brain and releases serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins, which is why many people often feel better after volunteering. From this perspective it ain't exactly selfless.
      Unless people feel nothing or even bad after volunteering, then it can be considered a selfless act.

    • @ronnychristenjoyer6778
      @ronnychristenjoyer6778 3 місяці тому

      @@AL-ve3ym I'd argue that your inner motivation makes the difference here. Helping others in need does make you happier, that's true. But if you help for the sake of helping, then the happy chemicals are just a nice by product, not your motivation. If your motivation is happy chemicals, I don't think people think about volunteer work, they'd rather just drink or eat or have sex when that is their motivation. A selfish form of volunteering may be personal glory seeking, where you wanna be seen by others and be considered a good person, which would also be a self driven, pseudo selfless action. But genuine volunteering for the sake of spending part of your time and resources for the benefit of others that need it does exist. Wanting to do the right thing to your own disadvantage exists. I think what really motivates you internally decides whether an outward action is secretly self driven or actually selfless, not the chemicals that may be released in that moment or afterwards, because again, there are far more potent ways to get those happy chemicals if that's your motivation.

    • @AL-ve3ym
      @AL-ve3ym 3 місяці тому

      @ronnychristenjoyer6778 "If your motivation is happy chemicals, I don't think people think about volunteer work, they'd rather just drink or eat or have sex when that is their motivation."
      "A selfish form of volunteering may be personal glory seeking, where you wanna be seen by others and be considered a good person, which would also be a self-driven, pseudo selfless action"
      Not forgetting wanting to be considered a good person on a personal and private basis is also a self driven, pseudo selfless act.
      Although not seen by others, this is still seeking for some form of emotional goodness in return.
      It may not be intentional, but it doesn't eliminate the fact that somewhere it lies in your unconsciousness of wanting to gain something out of the act.
      Back to your first paragraph that I highlighted here, the point I'm trying to make is that you can have happy chemicals as your main motivation AND still think about volunteering instead of sex/food.
      They are not mutually exclusive.
      Because majority are still seeking for some form of "I'm so holy and kind" spiritual happy chemicals in return from volunteering acts, that of which you cannot achieve with sex or food. Therefore it is not a 100% selfless deed.
      "But genuine volunteering for the sake of spending part of your time and resources for the benefit of others does exist.
      Wanting to do the right thing to your disadvantage does exists"
      Perhaps it does exist, but out of 7.7 billion people in the world the statistics and percentages are so low it might as well be close to non-existent and immaterial.
      Just look at the amount of money/subscribers going into the porn industry as compared to charitable organisations. It's laughable.

  • @TheSecretGarden-b7e
    @TheSecretGarden-b7e 5 місяців тому +1

    0:24 Why do people think it's normal to brag about their achievements without anyone even asking them in the first place? Inferiority complex. Shaming and belittling others.

  • @PureFuckingMetal6632
    @PureFuckingMetal6632 5 місяців тому +1

    I am dedicated to reimburse my mom. But first lets cut these veggies with damascus steel and drink rice wine. Peak HIMR content

  • @user-zo8le7vg2l
    @user-zo8le7vg2l 5 місяців тому +2

    I thought your father died? I watched you Livestream from the funeral.

  • @stuch1435
    @stuch1435 5 місяців тому

    Back in the UK for a few days and he's already having a Friends rewatch.

  • @blaxter101
    @blaxter101 5 місяців тому +3

    National Service could have changed your life and given you a direction and skills. They are also more tolerant nowadays of LGBTQ people so you would not get bullied.

    • @rendezyt
      @rendezyt 5 місяців тому

      Lack of national service (NS) has nothing to do with Daniel's issues. The UK military should only be for people who really want to join it as the UK has lots of overseas territories to defend so it does not need people who are just doing service because they are forced into it and their heart isn't in it. The current UK* conservative government is only bringing up NS as a way to get votes from the pension-aged people; basically pure politicking; nothing else. Not every young person is like Daniel. Daniel as far as I understand had both of his parents before his dad passed away and I believe he worked alongside his dad at his job so how much more "direction" does he need; and his sister is a software developer so obviously she has her stuff sorted. There are young people that are goal-orientated and have skills and young people who are not; simple as that and re-instituting a redundant national service system will not change that.

  • @themoaspecial
    @themoaspecial 5 місяців тому +4

    Are you at least paying rent to your mum?

  • @afsanaparvez6112
    @afsanaparvez6112 5 місяців тому +1

    I will live in my family home for the rest of my life why should I rent and pay for somebody else's mortgage also getting mortgage myself and managing is just as tiring as working a full time job

  • @Youcef8830
    @Youcef8830 5 місяців тому +1

    i quite enjoyed this video and agree with almost everything you said, execpt that part about the tax situation not being your fault. That's definitely on you, so take accountability. Otherwise, great video. Make more like this.