How Anxiety made him leave America and move to Vietnam.
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
- In this video I talk to my friend Dao who worked in finance and then decided to leave America and move to Vietnam due to being burnt out, and not happy with his life. I ask him all the questions about his transition and struggles.
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0:00 Introduction
1:00 Vietnam was the second home
2:00 Anxiety
2:50 Traditional path
4:08 Parents thoughts about moving to Vietnam
5:11 Pros about living in Vietnam
5:40 Maturity
7:30 Cons of Living in Vietnam
11:40 Did find what you're looking for in Vietnam?
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I'm 44 now, but the times I went to Vietnam instantaneously relieved all my stress. Everyone around was friendly and talking to me. It's a small usa city vibe that's everywhere in Vietnam. My mental health and spirit was top of the world. Something I thought I had the whole time growing up in the US.
There's just lots of 9 to 5 and daily grind stress that builds up living in the US without realizing it. I only realized such a significant mental shift when I went to VN. Other places I've traveled to have not had the same result. I think it's the Vietnamese culture and its friendly people that create such positive emotional impact 🎉❤
Anthony Bourdain definitely had the vibe in Vietnam
😂Give up your US Citizen if you dare.😅
I love the part where he says he has more in Vietnam so is able to give more to help others.
By that he means his girlfriend’s family 😂
Appreciate you brother.
😂😂No worry that yung guy will be back when he gets sick.Believe me😅.He can not buy a housr over there unless his wife is Vietnamese.But,watch out she could dump you anytime.😅 his .Good luck.
I visited VN for the first time about 5 years ago. I have since gone back 4 more times, each trip getting longer. I spent almost 2 months there the last trip. I would love to live in Vietnam. It has its cons- like any other place in the world, including the US and western Europe. Some cons are traffic, tropical summer heat, etc. Overall though, Vietnam is a treasure. Many wonderful cities and towns to visit. Fantastic people. Great food. Quality and affordability are everywhere. I will be back, maybe to live for good? I wish the country continued success!! Thanks for sharing this candid conversation.
😂Cause yu have US money.Drop everything and start a new life in Vietnam.😅Let see how long yu can handle.😅
This is a nice trend, seeing young VK’s taking the leap for a totally new experience. I do feel for this cohort. I could write a book about how adult children of the VK 55 to 70 year old generation have been affected by living between two cultures.
Their parents will never see Vietnam the same way as they do. This cohort can make big money and they are well educated so they know exactly what they’re doing.
The struggles of their parents has paid off immensely because They have raised successful hard-working children who have lived their lives, obeying their parents and respecting them at all levels .I can see that these guys have been humbled by their own personal life experiences.
I’ve lived my life around the Vietnamese community in Australia and also in Vietnam for more than 40 years so I know exactly what I am writing about. Fascinating people with very strong family values that further connect them to each other as a community.
Hi. I don't know if you're familiar with Kyle Le? He's on YT too. He's US based now but he lived & worked in VN for ~8 yrs (?) post college, I think. He has made several vids abt VK, reunification vids, etc. One of his interviewees might be of interest to you. I forgot his name but the vid title is "his dream was to watch TV". That guy was brought to the US as a child (no parents) and was adopted by an American (white) couple. I think his age is within your study. You may want to contact Kyle and the guy, in case he wants to be interviewed. Kyle has made several follow up vids abt him. He (the guy) regularly visits VN, I think.
@@kitty_s23456 he made a video w anthropologist i think, about the diaspora. haven't seen him upload in a while.
I remember reading about the "push and pull" of hardship at home and promise of rewards in the west, leading to asian migration to the US in previous centuries. Maybe similar push pull dynamics leading to the reverse now.
@@natetran9987 thnx for the info. I think I haven't watched that anthropologist interview with Kyle. He uploaded a vid recently - abt a Viet woman (from US) who returned to VN after 50+ yrs.
The guy I'm referring to (who would be an interesting interviewee for this Australian author) is a guy featured by Kyle. He arrived in the US alone as a kid & was adopted by white parents. He's successful, middle class, married to a white woman, sends money to his sister/ family in VN. I think his story might be useful to @kathleen, if she can contact him via Kyle.
Thank you for the information. I’ll have a look at his videos. I would love to explore further about the experiences of the young cohort in their adopted/ birth country.
What does VK mean?
Dao and Pete, appreciate the willingness to share your stories. Keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about the jealousy you're receiving from the comments. Hope to see more VK interviews.
I went back to Vietnam for three weeks recently and love Vietnam and love the people of Vietnam. The hospitality had been insane and beyond expectations, the cost of living was so inexpensive and Vietnam was stunning when we drove from North to South. However, I would never trade any place on earth for America. No matter where I traveled to but I began to miss home (America) after a month.
I love the USA
Amazing interview 😊 keep it up
i love this kind of interview, please keep up the good work.
I really enjoyed this interview and usually don’t watch interviews all the way through, Keep it up man good job!
Thank you for your channel em! Thank you for interviewing people and letting the world know about Vietnam and Vietnamese culture 🎉
Hey bro , thanks for sharing this with all of us, your story is really touching and i can relate to what you said totally, i'm sure you are much happier now with the new change in your life.
Great interviews 🎉
its brave to leave everything behind, especially a place like america where everyone wants to move to
Thank you, Kate. I greatly appreciate your informative message.
DEFINITELY LIFE IN AMERICA IS OVERRATED. HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO VISIT VIETNAM 🇻🇳 LAST YEAR FOR 2 MONTHS. HAD THE BEST TIME OF MY LIFE. I'M THINKING ABOUT GOING BACK THERE TO LIVE AND RETIRE EVENTUALLY BC THERE'S MORE VALUE LIVING THERE THEN IN THE STATES ESPECIALLY IF U HAVE SOME MONEY WHERE ITS GOES FURTHER THERE
this is great video.... Keep it up....I learned so much watching this video.... Thanks
livin the dream Dao! Congrats on the journey :)
The American dreams here in America is overwork and more overwork and no life. Beware for those who are dreaming of the American dreams. I promise you this, one day you’ll wake up from your own suffering and you’ll realize you’ve been in a deep dream.
I can confirm this, as a Vietnamese, I had worked in US, I find that like any current super power countries, US tends to work hard, work to work more. In Vietnam, you have more sense of life, since you have other stuffs, like family, friends, community. It's like one country mainly for people who love working ( I do, since most of new technology is from US, and they invest a lot in all of those areas, another country is China but they are not so open for foreigners ), and Vietnam is for work-life balance.
😂Give up yur Citizen and go back.😅
Thank you for choosing VIETNAM as your second home.
❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👏👏👏
I love his family's hometown of Vinh Long. I do like Saigon also, but only for two or three days at a time. Too loud and busy for my tastes. Vinh Long is a beautiful riverfront city about 120 km south of Sgn. Maybe a 2 hr drive. Very peaceful there and very few tourists. I have been coming to Vinh Long since 2017, and fell in love with the city and its people. I met my Vietnamese Wife there in 2018, and have a house nearby. I learned Vietnamese language because she does not speak English. My tieng viet is not perfect yet, but I am totally immersed as one of the only White Westerners there. That suits me fine, since I learn tieng viet nua moi ngay o do. I stay in Vinh Long during the American Winters, and come home to America in the Spring each year...Love Vietnam...
Another OC bro here, contemplating VN.
Me too
Would recommend 10/10 😂
Try it in bits. Don't move all at once
Growing up in Vietnam and been in the Us for about 4 years now but there are no such things like American dreams. Struggling to find a job in this economy with more than 500 applications already :)) I very admire people have courage to move to Vietnam, extremely inspirational
Dream for some and nightmares for others. I am thinking about going back myself.
AMerican dream was in the 1990. After 2000 and up, it just another country.
Dream = nightmares Zombie 🌝
The spoon attached mic is a work of art lol
LOL, there are so many hater in the comments. It is hilarious. If Dao got the money to live well in Vietnam, then more power to him.
Love seeing more Viet Kieu youth coming back.
Great videos.
This channel is awesome. I luckily met and married a girl from Vietnam awhile back. She is from Vinh Long also! I am planning to move there as well asap.
Thanks Peter for the vid! More interviews, please. Also, if they speak in Viet, it would help if you put English subtitles. Cheers!
Good for him 👍🏽
Useful information. Thanks for the content. One minor critique is the interviewer could minimize usage of the word "like" filler. It would dramatically increase eloquence and articulacy.
Noted
Damn I’m tired of the grind here too. Even though I’m living the American dream in OC, still want to visit VN once a year
So what is the guy doing now in VN?
It is easy for most expats but for an average Vietnamese in Vietnam is not easy. It is affordable to an American to buy a bowl of noodle for about $2 but not for the locals making about $200 a month.
Exactly right. It only easy for vk or foreigner
yeah its annoying to see all these VKs say how life is easy and amazing over there when thats not the reality for 90% of the population
@demongod3511 It is not the foreigners' fault. Your annoyance is misdirected. You sound immature.
@@szszszsz95395 learn to read. the only people saying vietnam is so great is the foreigners and VKs because they're not the ones WORKING. get it? actual vietnamese people want to get out of the country. Why do the smartest college grads look for jobs over seas instead of using their skills to develop their country?
That is when you are unskilled locals. Just like every where else, you have skills and brain, you can make anywhere, but there are so many opportunities to make it rich easier and less regulations and taxes there in VN than in US. You gotta keep much of money you earn in your pocket in VN, not in US, Canada, EU. Poor in the US or in the West (so called) is much worst than in VN.
YEAP im heading towards VIETNAM too bought the ticket for SEPTEMBER 2024......got the passport and visa....and ready to ROCKKKKK !
Can you ask what jobs they do to sustain the lifestyle
Greetings, please complete an episode on employment for viet kieu and business ideation. How are the interviewees supporting themselves? Financial independents? Money saved? Investments? Thank so much.
Yo when my lease is up comming through
I’m curious to know what he does for work now, it would be helpful for those considering this path to see what’s achievable for them, and how they can transition their job/income to vietnam.. thanks
Receiving allowance from parents
@@Dalenguyen001 receiving allowance as a 38 year old
Looks like the main reason he moved to VN is to find love, get married and start a family since he said he met his wife in VN. I know it's hard to do all those in US now.
I'm Asian-American, not Vietnamese, but I kind of want to move to Vietnam myself. Haven't been to Vietnam, though. Would like to visit one of these days. But, I recognize I need an income stream that lets me work on my laptop. Does anyone have any suggestions? 😊
I would visit first
I agree with the other poster. Visit first & stay for a long time (a month or longer). Live as a resident, not as a tourist. Live in an apartment (or hotel room w/ kitchenette), buy groceries, cook, gym (if it's impt to you), learn abt the govt, healthcare, public utilities, etc. Yes, you will need a source of income, preferably from the West.
Welcome guy!
UA-camr
Hello from Montreal,Canada!…. We’re coming soon to experience Danang….let’s be friends!….loved your video….Awesome!❤
you guys makes me want to retire there, i got 6 more years till retirement from USA>
What do you people do for work? I'm from Los Angeles and thinking about moving to Vietnam.
you should go to visit first b4 marking final decision ....good luck....
Love these interviews. As a viet kieu i resonate with them. Maybe add some subs for people who don't speak viet. what he said is important.
im here for the cubone skull on the table lol
Does Vietnam have dual citizenship? If I have a Vietnamese passport, do I still need a visa ?
Thanks everyone.
As a kid I had US citizenship and Vietnamese passport, and didn’t need visa to go to Vietnam. I don’t know if I had Vietnamese citizenship though, although if I had the passport, I assume I did, or could.
If you have VN passport, then you don't need a visa to stay in VN. You're a citizen & can stay there indefinitely.
AFAIK, VN doesn't allow dual citizenship but they give special visas for Viet Kieu.
Many thanks for your informative message, Katie. I truly appreciate it.
From post nut 🥜 clarity to post covid clarity 😂
Like in general as a human being is better overseas. Life in America is horrible working to pay 3k a month for rent is an awful way to live
What type of work is he doing in Vietnam?
Living off his parents probably
gangster
How are you making money in Vietnam
living in USA constantly having to watch your back and watch that no one kidnaps your babies.
What does vk mean?
Việt Kiểu. Vietnamese who live overseas is called Việt Kiểu
I'm exactly where Dao is at......you have to wake up and realize is this what you want until you die?
If you are x-patriot of Vietnam, you can start a new life in Vietnam and make good money with business.
Seems a lot of people are listening to Nomad Capitalist 😉
So he had a wife in US and found a new wife in VN?
As a person who has more than 25 years lived in Việt Nam and more than 10 years in USA, I think I know clearly about both.
At first you may like it as tourist then you decide to live in Viet nam, it is good for you, life always changes and we should do something new to refresh our life.
Thanks god that you grown up in usa, have college-university, that is the most huge thing your parents gave to you, they gave you the option that you can live in any country you want since you are from number 1 country already ( American passport ) .You can move from us to Việt Nam very easy but in different way your parents paid more for it.
If it good enough they would not leave there and me too. Since you are not grown up in Viet nam so it is hard to tell, but I still remember I need to carry 5kg bag pack since I went to school at 6, at 10 I study from 7am to 8pm sometime 9pm after many classes😂, I still don’t know if I used them but I know I lost a lot of my childhood. I don’t want my children be like me, Anyway, I dont show you how good or how bad, as long as you live there you will know.
Anyone entitled to their choices for better or worse however it is rare to see the young man born in American refer to live in VN permanently.
I have my own son who he is not even think of travel to VN ( we thought part of it was our fault not try to connect him in his early age with beautiful of Viet’s culture)
Good luck and wish you the best
Like, like, like, like, like......Come on! Grow up!
Ooooh!! Chris, introduce you to peter? 🤨 So on the last video yous do know each other 🤣🤣 Why do youtubers have to do all these ga y ass scenes where they bump into people then take a tour to their house 🤣
good video but the spoon is kinda distracting
I will bet, he will leave VN in the future. Watch!
Immigrant exodus is getting real in America. Either you are rich or poor.
Yep and you will own nothing and be happy
Im a white guy , i moved to Vietnam age 23 left age 30 ... why ( no social security, no medicare, no disability benefits, you just sell loterry tickets in vietnam basically ) i still visit with my wife every 5 years for a month...happier as a tourist
White with name ThaoNguyen? Troll
@@truthseeker7081 my wife’s account
@@truthseeker7081he can not use his wife email?
My wife account
You weren’t an English teacher, right?
Becareful out there my VK brothers. Everyone looks at you like a walking atm just like any other expat.
Takes a few years for the reality to sink in.
Parents risked their lives to better their children'slives.
Here you are living in a country that doesn't even treat their citizens fairly makes you think twice about the treatment you'd get when.
Age is just a number 😂
Vietnam is beautiful but not for everyone! It's one of the most chaotic countries in southeast Asia. Dealing with constant honking, the traffic the motercycle situation. The hustler mentality of the vietnamese people. It's a great place for a vacation, but to live there would be wild. (This is just my opinion)
Also bringing US dollars to Vietnam and spending in VN D adds to the overall charm.
I see a lot of Viet Kieus particularly men go back yo Vietnam to find a girlfriend or a wife. I don’t think it’s the same case for Viet Kieu ladies.
I thought about moving to VIET NAM too then I did a great deal of research and found out lots of bad stuffs about VIET NAM why you should not live there.
1. Air pollution is the worse in the world.
2. Food poisoning is the norm
3. The water is polluted
4. Health care is very bad. Go to any government hospital and look for yourself.
5. Traffic is a nightmare.
6. The weather is extremely hot.
7. The government often cut off water and electricity due to shortage.
8. When it rains, flood everywhere. The water from the sewer smell very bad.
Don’t let these bad things hold you back from living in VIET NAM. Enjoy
THIS. Like yea, it’s great bringing western income and money to a third world country and living like a king/queen (just make sure you’re supporting the locals too), and on top of that, social life for an Asian person is a lot better back home as opposed to having to deal with racism and discrimination against Asians which is growing more and more in the US.
But I myself also love nature and being around others who do as well. Very few places in the world beats the forests of the Pacific Northwest, the Southwest desert/canyon scenes, and the Hawai’i islands. The pollution, overcrowdedness, and the general lack of care for the environment would make me depressed just as much. If they didn’t have those problems though, I’d be totally onboard!
@@bloodndestroy = I just love where I live ( Southern California) it has everything, beaches, mountains, desert, snow.
Multi cultural. Lots of good food. And the weather is the best.
3/// was ban goto vietnam 🤭 . Stay with zombies in Cali Texas
I haven't even finished watching the video yet but i can tell this guy is a LBH. OC is the most Vietnamese place outside of Vietnam in the world. It's the best of both worlds, Vietnamese Community and American standard of living. The dude simply couldn't make it in the finance department.
If you watch the entire video, he did but why does it affect you whether he" makes it" or not and your harsh judgment on others?
orange county is not vietnam. lol. orange is still usa culture. once u live in vn, u will understand why it captures people heart. the bustling, exciting all day. awesome night life. i dont think orange county has same night life as vn
Cause he wants to get away from people like you in OC who are quick to just spew sh*t on others for no reason. SMH.
let me ask u mate, what have u done in your life that u called yourself a winner at home..
@@ducnguyen5356 Spewing sh*t on others to make himself a winner LOL.
Its american priviledges experiences. Even a vietnamese like myself dont get to enjoy sich experiences, most of us dont smile because we happy, we smile becauae it bring food to the table.
For those of you who say Vietnam is better than the US , would you give up the US passport to live in Vietnam?
The prevalent thought process is probably no just so they can still travel where ever they want without needing visa. They probably wouldn’t use it to go back to the US, although a few invariably will.
Why do you ask so stupidly? Have you ever gone to school or eaten like a human ah?
This guy sounds like he is lost
sound like he needs to go out more in america and have more friends
The homes? Come on man come on your not black
Lol words like that are used by everyone nowadays in the west, white people probably use them even more than black people now.
He's 38 working in the finance industry for 11 years,own a million dollar home in Orange county Calfornia where a million people are homeless there. He said his not mature then who going to be mature ? The professional finance bullsh... artist.
hahaha. you can't make a living in the US as a thug!
Some people are just born Communist 😂😂😂.
Like what dudes? crying babies?
So fake
hey peter, i would love to take u out for a beer bro. i am from san jose. i live at q2 terrace across the street of luminere ur friend place. i will be vn august 17.
As an asian I approve of this message gotta go back to the homeland.