Why Are Men Afraid of Marriage

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  • Опубліковано 16 бер 2023
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  • @zap_sigma1
    @zap_sigma1 Рік тому +10

    Let's clarify. We aren't afraid of marriage. No man wants to just frequent bars & nightclubs for fast women forever.
    Women aren't the only ones who dream of white weddings. Every real man wants a bad bish to settle down with & build a life, family, & strong, proud, productive & beautiful home with (hell to tha damn yeah!)
    But what we won't waste time with are toxic soul ties that drain us of our time, energy & resources, weakening us in the process. So many would rather fly solo than waste time being alone with bad company. 💯

  • @yokoshenron
    @yokoshenron Рік тому +12

    Nothing but truth as usual💯 Im still young and can barely handle a regular relationship so as of rn I ain't got no plans for marriage but if I do one day I'm doin everything in my power to avoid that courtroom😂

  • @thrower34
    @thrower34 Рік тому +16

    Shyyyyyyyt as a woman I too am afraid of marriage. Saw my entire family go through divorces and broken homes, ppl talkin begin each other’s backs etc. like damn that not something to look forward to lmao. Another great vid T

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому +2

      I feel you, Ive seen it happed to guy and girl friends of mine. You never know who someone really is until you're going though a divorce

  • @MiiGUELANGELR
    @MiiGUELANGELR Рік тому +14

    Hope you doing good my boy! I have the same views. I’ll have a wedding with the right person but will never sign no contract that doesn’t benefit us men. My uncle and his woman were together for 10+ years until she eventually passed away from cancer.

  • @thetrailtosuccess2340
    @thetrailtosuccess2340 Рік тому +3

    A very valid point we are in the day and age where you need things written down to represent your commitment instead of two people having witnesses and making a commitment not a contract together

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому +2

      The government should give guys a signing bonus if we go to the courthouse

  • @allenbrown8888
    @allenbrown8888 Рік тому +9

    If a woman knows that I want to marry her a prenuptial is going to be before we even plan on a wedding day

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому +2

      Communication is key

    • @adb2u
      @adb2u Рік тому +1

      If you dont sign a marriage license you won't need a prenuptial

  • @senecademouy3397
    @senecademouy3397 Рік тому

    Banger after Banger thanks for the hardwork you put in Big T

  • @is0retro617
    @is0retro617 Рік тому +2

    Fire video 🔥

  • @brandont1465
    @brandont1465 Рік тому +6

    I love your videos ❤️
    Keep up the good work 👍

  • @roz3056
    @roz3056 Рік тому +37

    Man I miss them Golden T pindell skit days man💯🤧

    • @markkayhaston
      @markkayhaston Рік тому +30

      Naah I like this. You got to grow. I been with t since I was 20 now 27. I want to see this type of content as much as I want to see the skits. This is what I relate to now more

    • @_Marcay
      @_Marcay Рік тому +4

      @@markkayhastonexactly 🤝

    • @roz3056
      @roz3056 Рік тому +8

      @@markkayhaston yeah you right I started watching T at 13 I’m 20 now he basically a big bro to me now 💯lol

    • @SOCyak
      @SOCyak Рік тому +1

      @@markkayhaston I’ve been watching him since I was at least 7 and now I’m turning 18

    • @markkayhaston
      @markkayhaston Рік тому

      @@SOCyak jeez you made me feel old 😂

  • @screenapple1660
    @screenapple1660 22 дні тому

    it's scary to have kids. not ready... no prepare for everything. the future is unpredictable. it's hurts...

  • @armonddavidson4865
    @armonddavidson4865 Рік тому

    Good topic T great video

  • @JTu8925
    @JTu8925 Рік тому +4

    Yeah, until/or if marriage, divorce, alimony and child support laws change; I'll just be single. I'm not even the type to play the field. The laws are unfair. I'm not signing up for something unfair. And it sucks too. I love babies and children, I respect their innocence as well. I'm a great Uncle, but yeah...nah. I'll wait. I know my Mom wants Me to meet a Woman and have another Grandchild for her but nope. It's sad, but no. This government is a joke, they designed a flawed system just to break people apart and mislead women.

  • @dripguy5177
    @dripguy5177 Рік тому +1

    Keep the bangers coming 💯 🔥 🙌

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому +1

      We back at it, public interviews dropping next week

    • @dripguy5177
      @dripguy5177 Рік тому

      @TpindellTV cool can't wait

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому +2

    Shaking up has a higher percentage of not working out than divorce.

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому

      True, but shacking up won't have you losing as much or leave your life in shambles. I do not recommend shaking up, I lived with someone for a few months right out of college, I was miserable and it changed the dynamic of the relationship

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому

      @@TpindellTV well Kayne said if you ain't no punk we want prenup. Beyonce said if you like it you should of put a ring on it.

  • @hurdyb1
    @hurdyb1 Рік тому

    Great video.

  • @dorseyvital1215
    @dorseyvital1215 Рік тому

    As usual spot on for both men and women to not take it personally. If a woman finds any issues in how you said it then there probably going into marriage for the wrong reason.

  • @mbry1
    @mbry1 Рік тому +2

    I’m 19 so my stance on marriage is simple I’m way too young irresponsible and immature for a commitment

  • @thousandstar
    @thousandstar Рік тому +1

    That paperwork hits different

  • @adb2u
    @adb2u Рік тому +1

    Yall not listening...Duval said he would give you a marriage ceremony but NOT SIGN A MARRIAGE LICENSE. That license is what give the government power over the ending of your marriage. God does not require a marriage license. Felllas she cant take half if you dont sign the license if you guys split up.

  • @codyking6258
    @codyking6258 Рік тому +2

    I really wish love is really real for everyone and anyone but nowadays it's really difficult just to choose a person that is not yours so I hope for everyone have a great life and more 🙏

    • @TpindellTV
      @TpindellTV  Рік тому +1

      Social media makes people think the grass is greener on the other side, there is something better out there etc.

  • @qozart2926
    @qozart2926 Рік тому

    T we waiting on a dread update!

  • @DominoAlex-iq7ul
    @DominoAlex-iq7ul Рік тому

    When people hurt people: people hurt people, and then sometimes, some things are natural that doesn't fit to work out. I think experience professionals during divorces represent their divorcing clients one way or another (1) take them for what they can get OR (2) really reason what is practical and responsibly available for each client. People fail to remember that big lawyers usually have to do the best for their law firm and it's reputation. There, their clients 'best' interests is likely eroded in exchange for big payouts. It's not that, that there is favor for either men or women more... At least not for just being men or women

  • @gabby4332
    @gabby4332 Рік тому +2

    It’s all about the person they choose. I still believe in marriage, and I do believe each person has a soulmate. The only issue is that the person they choose is not the right one for the. It’s sad that there are women who divorce their husband because of finances. That’s one of the biggest reasons because of money. Seems like paper meant nothing to them, and money was the only thing that they cared about. I get it if he’s not doing anything for himself and vise versed. Both knew what they wanted came along in the marriage. Choose your partner wisely. Men choose the right women, and women choose the right man. Yes, in 2023 it’s crazy but we have to be careful. Men pray that God sends you your husband and women and pray that God sends you your husband. Not just anyone but the one God attended you to be with.

  • @nerdbamarich2063
    @nerdbamarich2063 Рік тому

    Gems ✊🏾

  • @tonikroos03
    @tonikroos03 Рік тому +1

    Responsibility and marriage is not a goal in life

  • @LazyboiYt.
    @LazyboiYt. Рік тому +1

    (On Air)

  • @ztrigger5304
    @ztrigger5304 Рік тому +2

    To me I don't believe in marriage, it always seemed wrong to me growing up even know tho I've come to respect it more then bk then, why can't people just date and have a freat experience if you both wantvto have a kid or kids talk about them just move in together and keep it like that

  • @kittbarnes4288
    @kittbarnes4288 Рік тому +5

    Marriage is perfect, it’s the 2 people in the marriage 😂 They don’t love each other unconditionally anymore .I’m a widow of 2 years loved my husband flaws and all. You work 9 to 5 on your job ,you shouldn’t have to WORK on a marriage when 2 people love each other it WORKS. Be Blessed on purpose

    • @jc3productions362
      @jc3productions362 Рік тому +4

      Nah that's where it fails. Everything in life is work, yes even marriage. You think its just gonna be sweet 24/7? No, there will be disagreements, all sorts of stuff you both have to work through. That line of thinking is probably why most marriages fail because people expect it to be easy all the time.

    • @DarrinKemp-lr1cz
      @DarrinKemp-lr1cz Рік тому

      My condolences. But realistically you madam are a unicorn.

  • @jthegreat3627
    @jthegreat3627 Рік тому

    💯

  • @limitlesspursuit
    @limitlesspursuit Рік тому +3

    It’s a liability. Women want all the perks and No responsibility or accountability

  • @tucanntube
    @tucanntube Рік тому

    Would love to collab 💯

  • @direwolf1977
    @direwolf1977 Місяць тому

    There's no need for marriage for me, I'm doing great without it!

  • @markmason4536
    @markmason4536 Рік тому

    💯💯💯💯💯

  • @broderickcamel1701
    @broderickcamel1701 Рік тому

    common law is paperwork by default chief in most states though.

    • @adb2u
      @adb2u Рік тому

      No it's not only 10 and it's hard to prove

  • @engineered-mind
    @engineered-mind 3 місяці тому

    Damn

  • @rasheedlewis1
    @rasheedlewis1 Рік тому

    The point of marriage isn't to "benefit" yourself. That's too individualistic. It's to benefit the children that you and your spouse are supposed to be raising together.

    • @johnjone965
      @johnjone965 Рік тому +1

      That's something the 70% of women leaving their marriages should remember 😅

  • @kelkapone007
    @kelkapone007 Рік тому

    sign this man a max contract

  • @limitlesspursuit
    @limitlesspursuit Рік тому

    You look magnificent sir! 7:02

  • @audemarrchizzy
    @audemarrchizzy Рік тому

    I see why men get their passports

  • @el1te4U
    @el1te4U Рік тому

    Marriage is horrible for men now. Ur girl wakes up ma SA R ur $ kids gone. Ur girl cheats u call her our SA R $ kids gone. She gets board of u $ kids gone. Everything u work for is gone bc ur girl is mad or get board.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому +3

    God the one who said sex AFTER marriage.

  • @justiceforall1288
    @justiceforall1288 Рік тому

    Joke: ☝🏾🥸 Men aren’t afraid of marriage… We’re afraid of DIVORCE! ☝🏾🤡☝🏾🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @reneetowns2056
    @reneetowns2056 Рік тому +2

    Why are you afraid to be seen with a woman that you are actually dating. I’ve been watching you for over 3 years and have never seen you with a woman that you have a relationship with, not even when you go on vacations. Most of the time you go on vacations with other men. You are not a full pledge celebrity like someone in movies or tv and they can show their other half. If your not into women that’s your preference and should not be hidden. Be proud of who you are and if you think people will unsubscribe let them kick rocks !

    • @thrower34
      @thrower34 Рік тому +14

      Definitely get what you’re saying but in all actuality social media ruins relationships frfr. Both for the regular joe smoes as well as for influencers or celebrities. I’d probably never show my significant other if I were T. We’ve already been introduced to his mini me. I see it as he is protecting the privacy he desires and is jus rockin with his life.

    • @caesar3909
      @caesar3909 Рік тому +9

      The real question is why are you obsessed with another persons personal life that has absolutely nothing to do with you? You want to see who he has sex with & that will make your life better in what way? Do you realize how creepy that is, ma'am? What's next? you gonna want to go & count how many turds he drops in the toilet before he flushes?

    • @RRGUNZ
      @RRGUNZ Рік тому +6

      :59 is literally you right now. You are literally the person he's talking about LMFAO

    • @sodaboy581
      @sodaboy581 Рік тому +6

      ​@@caesar3909 Seriously, I respect the fact he doesn't put his girlfriend or people he's dating on here for all to see. First of all, they might not want to be known themselves. They may want their life private and not on blast. I can only imagine how many stupid people would start following his partner's social media, whether it's to harass them, invade their space, or to get more glimpses of T. People need to get their own fuckin' lives and stop worrying about what other people are doing.

    • @njpme
      @njpme Рік тому +6

      Lowkey trying to call the man gay. Yall something else! Not everyone puts their relationship on social media

  • @leeshai96
    @leeshai96 Рік тому +1

    Make sure yall get a prenup written out to the T! Everything and anything needs to be addressed in that prenup. Do not get finessed out here if you bring it up and she gets defense. If she dont wanna sign one, then she can bounce my boi

  • @telayajackson2.023
    @telayajackson2.023 Рік тому +2

    It is so sad. America ruins happiness but expects us to be happy. Make sense.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому +1

    God the one who said sex AFTER marriage.