our first trip in our vintage truck camper (we had to leave)
Вставка
- Опубліковано 29 жов 2022
- This week I took my first trip up north in my new (to me) vintage truck camper. But, what seemed like a successful first trip turned scary and we had to leave before night fell.
↠ SUBSCRIBE for a new video every Sunday | tinyurl.com/yc7wwxx5
↠ FOLLOW our adventures on Instagram | @alex.lives.well
↠ JOIN us over on Patreon! | / alexliveswell
Music from Epidemic Sound
#trucklife #bigfootcamper #solofemaletravel
Would you have stayed?
No
Next time that happen take a pic of the truck and lp and send to a friend if possible
No - you did the right thing. I was hoping you would leave while I was watching him talk to you. Trust your intuition.
I would have left or put my gun right by my chair. Which I normally do anyways. It’s a pretty good deterrent,
No, good call!
I personally think you were smart to leave. Even though he may have meant no harm there is always that "what if". I am a 63 year old man who also has a truck camper and even though I wouldn't hurt a fly I always wait for others to approach me. I never invade others space. And I I never show all my cards. You did the right thing.
Exactly
I am a 67 year old woman and I would NEVER, EVER drive into another person's site ... maybe if I was hurt and needed help ... but still more likely to stop outside the site and yell for help. I think your instincts/intuition were appropriate. I do get that the aftermath would be disconcerting: combination of adrenalin, disappointment, anxiety and ??? Bob Wells (CheapRVLiving) recently posted a video on Intuition. He cites that there is scientific backup for how all of our senses and brain and entire body receive input and give us messages as well as what I call that "little voice" that gives direction as well as the "fight or flight" response.
👍❤️
Definitely the right choice. His intention may well have been good but as a male I would definitely know that approaching a woman who is travelling alone is a weird thing to do and would definitely make her feel uncomfortable. I would definitely steer clear unless I was asked for help.
I absolutely agree. Leave with haste. Every time I see one of our vanlife family (especially women) out minding their business, and a man comes along and starts looking for his dog. Time to leave. Reminds me of, "The Hills Have Eyes" movie. Hillbilly territory.
Put out a second chair and periodically add a hat, jacket, travel cup, or blanket to it as if your travel partner is just inside sleeping off a migraine.
Agree. "My 'husband' is out hunting with our 2nd dog. He's doing a 2 day hunt so I expect him back soon. We have GPS & Walkie talkies...& he has a rifle. "
Always trust your gut feeling, NO MATTER how insignificant it is. Better safe than sorry! Beautiful scenery! Better days ahead!
Stay safe. Be glad he showed himself and didn't just show up in the middle of the night.
Exactly. The dog would have alerted her.
Felt like stalkers, right?!? So smart that you moved on.
Sending you Light and Love
🙌🏼💖🙏🏽
If you for some reason decide to get another dog friend for Tara, get a German Shepherd. They are super sweet dogs (always some exceptions), playful, smart, and protective. They intimidate a lot of people just by their presence.
You were smart to follow your instincts. If the dude was deer hunting, dusk should have been the time he was on his feet, not in his truck.
Got to stay safe. He’s probably been watching your site for as long as you’ve been there. That’s good that you left your site, that guy seemed like a creep. The fact that he said he was looking for deer which means he had a loaded weapon in his truck.
This looks so identical to Jonathan's vide from earlier today! Cold out there!
Hi..u made the right choice by leaving that spot. The interaction was weird and I immediately thought yeah I’d leave too. That was a beautiful spot no worries ,U will have more of those now that u can get into the back country with that truck. Safety first the fact that he came by 3x he noticed u. He blocked you in your camp spot. I’m so glad u moved. Your video was great. People that comment about being positive all the time ,that isn’t real,we all have ups and downs. It’s life and you are sharing part of your world with us so ty appreciate you and Terra 🌻✌️
You're doing great girly! Always go with your gut instinct, your intuition! Always think smart! I'm so happy you left.
Happy Safe Travels,
Holly🙏💕
You never go wrong by reducing risk. I'm an older guy too, like some others have commented I'd never just roll into someones camp like that. I mean its just rude at best. Not that there cannot be good reasons, but he didn't give any good reason. Even in my years in Wilderness SAR when I needed to approach a camp to ask if the campers had seen a missing person, I'd announce myself at a little distance first. It's just a simple matter of politeness and respecting people's need for a bit of space around them.
My freakout meter would have been on high.You did the right thing.If your gut tells you to leave then leave.I love your truck and camper.
I definitely would have left. My grandma always said "don't be afraid, be aware". Good job trusting your gut! Stay safe!
So good to see you and Tara enjoying your new home. Sorry that you had to move, but it was obviously a good decision. Keeping and feeling safe is so important! 💕
I totally agree with what you said about any grown man that is well-intentioned would not be likely to pull up to a solo female's camp right before dark. He may have just been friendly and "checking in" of course, but it would have set off my spidey sense too, and I'd be out!
Good call, Alex. Always trust your instincts.
Always believe in your instincts.... they will save you. Good girl. Keep on truck'n!!!
You did the right thing Alex. From the second he drove up I was uneasy and personally I would have been scared in that situation. This is the main reason I'm so afraid to go out alone without my husband or a friend. I think whenever a situation like that happens, which I hope it never happens again to you, I'd get their faces on video if you can. You just never know. The world we live in now is just crazy and so unpredictable and quite honestly so are a lot of the people. I wish it wasn't that way because there are so many things that I want to do and I'm scared to do because I would need to do them by myself. I can work remotely but unfortunately my husband can't and only gets so much time for vacation per year. I love your videos and your attitude with life and everything you experience. I do have to say that when I am out I do carry a weapon. I have a concealed carry in the state that I live and it is recognized in certain States. For those states that it's not I know there is a federal law that somewhat protects you. In my eyes I'd rather be safe and feel safe and if the event ever arises I would need to use that to protect myself I would rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Just my opinion but I think it's awful we just can't respect each other's privacy and space. You 100% did the right thing. I hope you're feeling better and those feelings have gone away and you are enjoying yourself again! Stay safe girl!
There is an organization, USConcealed Carry Association that offers training on how to safely and legally handle possible armed situations. They might offer you some peace of mind, and better odds if you are "judged by twelve". Might also improve the odds of the big scary guy with the beard (me) not being "carried by six".
VERY proud of you for trusting your gut! That was freaking weird and I'd be freaked out, too! Thanks for sharing this. It was just so not okay and creepy. Agreed about privacy. Glad you had the ability to get out safely!
You did the right thing. Pay attention to your intuition. Glad you are safe now. Love your videos. thanks
Smart to listen to your intuition! Also the scenery was beautiful! Thanks for taking us along.
Extremely wise of you to move to a different area. You are not the only woman who has had this happen. It’s creepy and scary. Always listen to your gut instinct. Huge hugs!!
Sorry that happened, I think it was a smart decision on your end. Also appreciate that you talked more on the subject on trusting your gut!
Good for you, Alex, to trust your instincts 🙌🏼. I agree it was both unfortunate and a smart move. As another solo woman camper, I have and would have done the same thing. Thank you for sharing and good luck with the start of your new build!
Wow, Alex. What a way to start your first trip in the new rig. I'm so glad you decided to move on and was glad your instinct/intuition told you something was off. I would have been very disappointed if you took a gamble and stayed. I mentioned in a previous comment how I'm concerned about your safety while you're travelling. I'm not going to be that worried anymore because your creep alarm is working just fine. Happy Halloween to you and Tara! 😊 🦮 🎃
I work alone in the woods. It can be unnerving when people come into my camp. I am more worried about theft than personal safety . Been robbed multiple times
It really sucks you have to worry about things like that.
If I did see someone camped near me I might stop in just to let them know I am nearby, so hopefully he was just trying to be neighbourly.
All the best .
You totally did the right thing by trusting your gut feelings. I was getting really worried about you and thinking you should leave and you did. Good head on your shoulders. Thanks for sharing and best wishes on your journeys to come. 😀
Take care as usual…it’s always good to follow you’re instinct!Stay safe!
I was so glad to see you moved sights once that guy came in your sight. That was creepy and he should never have done that to you. Trusting your gut is the best way to go. Good for you.
I am a 71 year old female who wishes she could go and do what you do. You will never regret it. You are awesome.
Love Tara she is a great dog. Good luck with you rebuild and stay safe.
.
Better safe than sorry. Glad you moved.
One thing another solo female UA-camr does for safety is put out two camp chairs. Glad you’re safe.
I completely agree with you. I prefer not to have anyone approach me let alone multiple times. You're right to follow your gut intuition and get the heck outta there.
I'm so glad you left. I was worried. You had him on camera is what I was thinking. Safety first. Be careful. Always trust your gut. Love your videos. Stay safe.
He looks like he spotted the camera when he pulled up. He gave me creeper vibes . You made the right decision. You handled yourself well too calm and collected. Also he should know the plural for a deer is deer not deers if he likes them so much. That alone is suspicious. Stay safe Alex!
Thank God you're ok!!! Personally, I would never get so close to the truck ..and I would immediately take the dog off chain and hold next to me as we talked. Gotta give the impression that you're ready!!! If he's up to no good, he'll think twice, if he's a good guy, he'll totally understand!!! Stay safe 🙏 :)
When you get that vibe.....trust it. And go.
Continued safe travels.
Good call to leave Alex....my heart sank as he was talking to you on video. You are smart, resilient, flexible, and already self sufficient with your buildouts....so I think survival skills will come naturally for you...and may lead you in a different direction. I keep cozy in my Jeep with a power station and electric blanket. You can get 12v or plugin. You and Tara rock! Stay warm and safe....you've got this!
Very wise move Alex. Always go with your instincts.
Sadly these guys know exactly what they are doing. They like to play. Glad you left. Can't wait to see how you put the rig together.
I’m glad you ended video stating you felt the need to move….. it’s a learning experience we all should take heed of.
Way to listen to your intuition! ❤❤ always go with your gut.
I even felt that he was shady.
Much love ❤️
I think you did the right thing by leaving (better to be safe than sorry) take care don't let nothing happen to that beautiful smile
Although I think most have good intentions when checking in, there’s always that “one” out there somewhere. I’m an older single guy that probably would of packed up and moved as well.
ALWAYS trust your gut!! Even if you had stayed you would've not gotten much sleep..We unfortunately live in a world where you have to second guess peoples intensions and worry about all possibilities.. better to be safe than sorry..Safe Travels!!
Aloha Miss Alex! Trust your gut feeling. You did the right thing by leaving .... there's a lot of crazies out there so yes you always trust you instincts. Weird that he would invade your space. Be safe and God bless you and your fury baby 🤗🙋♀️❤️
I think you did the right thing, be smart, be safe. Thanks for sharing your experience, it can help others! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for safe travels.
What a beautiful spot and I’m so glad you are safe!❤
I think you did the right thing thought it was a huge bummer. I wish people could just leave others be!
Thank you for setting that example of being smart and moving when your mind was telling you to do that. I hope not only women but men follow that example.
Pretty ingenious .. your kettle on the pan to prevent the kettle from turning black because of wood fire ..
You made the right call. I keep hearing in other UA-cam videos about trusting your instincts. Of course, since you moved you are left with wondering if something might have happened if you stayed. You'll never know the answer. But you do know that you stayed safe by moving. That's all that matters. Cheers.
It is always better to be safe than sorry. You did the right thing.
I've heard about your channel, we are RV'ers as well. Glad to come across your videos! Subscribed! (and yes.. as a Dad you did the right thing moving on).
My spidey senses were prickling so I think you did the right thing to leave, and also put a bit of distance between you and him now that your vehicle is more distinctive.
So proud of you! So proud of you, alex! You did the right thing. And I also feel the way you do as far as just wishing this world was different and you didn't have to deal with that kind of crap. But you did the safe and right thing😍😍😍
Wow that breakfast looks so good I could almost smell it 😁 beautiful scenery be safe happy trails
You made the right decision. Stay safe and thanks for sharing.
Fortunately, I feel you made the right decision for you & Tara. Good thoughts!
thanks for the maiden voyage and beautiful scenery. sorry you had to cut your stay short but applaud you for the very good choice
I can definitely understand your frustration. Someone imposing themselves in your life when you are just doing what you love. I think you did the wise thing. Move on and enjoy tomorrow.
You are smart to pay attention to your intuition. I like how this was a realistic video. Stay safe!❤
You did absolutely right thing Alex my prayers go out to you and your pupper I hope you find happiness in your adventure
Embracing solitude requires a special bond with loneliness, not being alone. Becoming a hermit on the other hand is pretty much a dream, a small cabin in the woods, maybe four Mastiffs and a gun... Yeah! Anytime. And to get to know the outside world once in a while. Where do I sign in? In Spanish we have a saying: " Don't search for the cat's fifth leg". Good call for leaving. Stay safe and well. ¡¡Pura Vida!!.... And those frozen patterns on the truck..... Uffff!!!
Good choice on leaving. Always trust your instincts. That sucks that there’s people out there that make people uncomfortable. Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts on the situation.
you did exact the right thing to leave this place. I can tell you that i. my past I had just this (negative) experience. I was crossing the Sahara and I fortunately legt my spot for overnight when such a guy came to ask me some stupid questions. I changed for a few miles my spot. In the middle of the night I saw headlights lightning my first spot. This saved my life. They wanted to steal my truck.....
Good luck for all your future trips in your nice TC. Cheers from Germany, Felix
I love the channel, please keep it coming! We're hoping to retire to a truck camper and travel Africa for a few years and your channel is very helpful as wel as really entertaining! Thank you
You absolutely did the right thing!!! Red Flag, he had been watching you… I am a new subscriber, and you are the actual first person that I’ve seen do the right thing and leave. Very smart girl. You do not wanna believe the worst in people but you have to be very safe out there on your own. Love your videos, going to have to go back and watch from the beginning and play catch-up. Sending much love and good vibes from Iowa.❤️🦋❤️🦋
Smart girl and great decision. Always safety first!
I'm so glad you left. It's always better to be safe and err on the side of caution. I'm still living in my suv and mostly urban camp for now. However, when I park, I always back into a space so I can have easy access to go. That might be a good idea for you as well. Can't wait for the next video.
No it was time to leave, better safe than sorry. Really enjoy your videos, stay safe
When that guy was talking to you I heard banjos. So I am glad you left - I would have too. Stay safe!!!! Great video!
Sweety you made the right desision.....of your gut says no, than pack up and go .....
Love your new home
Hey girl! Congrats on your new camper! How exciting!!! 🎉 But I feel for you in that cold weather! I just slept in below freezing temps in my car driving back to California from Oklahoma so I know that frigid feeling! The condensation on the inside of my windows was solid Ice when I woke up 😅 Hang in there! You’ve got this! ❤
Wow. You really are a smart young woman who is always right in trusting your instincts. Bummer it had to go that way, but good on you. He could have wanted a closer look at you to size you up so to speak. You have a beautiful, innocent and vulnerable look about you, but you would be a big surprise if anyone tried to mess with you. I said a prayer for your safety. I hope you find something delightful in your next place of rest. God bless. ❤️
You have to trust your instincts...glad you moved. Stay safe. Love your videos.
It’s smart to listen to that “gut feeling” and take your leave. Therefore I agree with your prompt action to leave. Develop good skills and focus on safety that includes not taking chances especially when you’re alone. Well done.
You did the right thing Alex! Your safety and trusting your gut is the most important! ♥️
Appreciate you guys❤️
Really enjoy watching your videos Alex. New Zealand is a world away from Idaho (obviously) and maybe a little safer most of the time. But you super did the right thing I think.
Best wishes for your build, your December postings n all. 🙂😁😊
I'm glad you are ok... enjoyed your video 💗
Yesssss...safety first...good job....stay safe...and stay warm👍❤✨
Great Camp site 🐕❤️ Great instinct
Sorry that happened. You handled it well. Glad you left that are. Sending Prayers your way!
In my country (Venezuela) we had funche, which is our version of Polenta. You made my memory fly. That was something my grandmother and her kids used to eat long before me. I found out about funche by mistake when as a young boy, running a short, I bought the wrong corn flour. No Arepas that night, we ate funche with white venezuelan cheese. I'm enjoying you journey. Thanks.
I’m glad you trusted your instincts on moving. When in doubt, go with the safest option. 🇦🇺
7 years full time here preferring way off grid traveling and living. Respect the vibe. You did good. Don't let it spoil your journey. ❤ Even men, per a solo fellow that I know, have had issues with fear of being robbed, etc. in the same situation. Yes, not being able to be your trusting self is so sad but so true.
Yeah i would have left too that was weird. I love your videos. They are so down to earth and very informative and just a joy to watch thank you for making them
I just came upon your site. I think you made the right move. Follow your instincts. It will never let you down. Stay safe and yes; I have subscribed. :)
yep trust your gut feeling. Glad your good spirit and cautious
So glad you left! Good instincts.
Safe Travels & Be Safe!!
Keeping You In Prayer ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You need to install a Chy Knees diesel heater. I thought part of being Nomadic was South for the winter, North for the Summer? For sure, learning outdoor extreme condition survival skills and self sufficientcy with the bare basics is always great skills to have.
SOUNDS LIKE LISTENING TO YOURSELF MAKES SENSE TO THIS OLD MAN. (CHIC'S RULE) ALWAYS STAY ON THE SAFE SIDE. LOT OF US LUV UR VIDS.
G'day mate mornings Andrew I'm from Tasmania sorry to hear what happened to you they will be very scary on that way that happened and don't be ashamed of that is a dangerous thing and he needs help he needs to get help and you just need to just take just forget about it and just have a real good time in your little camper your built-in you've done a really really good I'm happy to watch all your videos so you have a good Andrew Tasmania Australia
You made the right call. Stay safe!
Always trust intuition ❤️❤️❤️ New subscriber loving the videos!
Smart girl❤️ You did the right thing.
I am so happy that you went with your instincts, just watching your video I got a bad vibe, anyways I am so happy for you enjoy life and keep safe. 🧓
I’m proud of you for trusting your gut with that guy. ❤ ❤❤
Oh yeah I follow Jonathan and I noticed you guys both got Bigfoot camper's can't wait to see what you do with it
Is there a way to get from your camper to the drivers seat of your truck, without stepping foot outside? It would be frightening if someone knocked on your door in the night. Stay positive. Stay safe.